Why Cold Approach doesn’t Work

Bright-Glass3175 · 2022-09-22T00:56:07+00:00

so you’re saying it doesn’t work because guys who do it think it must work?

but if you think it doesn’t work then it might work? wtf are u saying lol

beenpimpin · 2022-09-22T08:06:52+00:00

cold approach gets girls who are your type. all my past gfs were met via cold approaching without realizing cold approach was a thing (i just socialised and flirted a lot). The misconception is that if you cold approach long enough you will one day get victoria secret models and 10/10 college girls. This is not true unless you're already or close to get these types of women no amount of cold approach will get you there. Cold approaching gets you more of what you already have or what you should have. Cold appraoch is very effective when hitting on women in your own league but if you're a 4 constantly appraoching 8s you will walk away thinking it's a scam.

Dismal-Revolution941 · 2022-09-22T05:21:21+00:00

What is cold approach, is it a cold approach if I talk to some girl at my gym

SureEntertainer8686 · 2022-09-24T14:13:13+00:00

It definitely does works, but it's going to take allot of time and effort trials and errors. You guys just want quick succes that is just not going to happen.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-09-22T01:36:09+00:00

That’s not why cold approach doesn’t work. Women are usually creeped out by some strange guy popping out of nowhere and trying to hit on them. If you want to attempt to meet a woman out in public, put yourself in her shoes first. Her number one priority is her own safety. Don’t startle her by coming out of nowhere and going into some phony rap. Make certain she sees you coming and attempt to establish eye contact with her and smile. If her body language is scared, dismissive or she turns and goes another direction, leave her alone.

Flairtor · 2022-09-22T11:33:54+00:00

Lmao you are so of base its not even funny choomer. It's more than just belief although that prevents you from sabotaging yourself. It's also dependent on the girls mood and circumstances and if you're even her type to begin with, I say this as someone who cold approach actually works for from time to time.

dump_fool · 2022-09-23T16:18:47+00:00

Cold approach doesn't work because you approach cold woman who have no interest in you.

FranciscotheBull · 2022-09-22T19:52:37+00:00

Their are so many variables to approaching in general that the results can vary greatly depending where, when, and how it happens.

Bars tend to have mixed results depending which one you go to (in my experience). Strip cluds....good luck.

Certain restaurant chains can have its perks as well while waiting in line for food.

Coffee shops can work.

I think the dynamics of guys being perceived as creepy, weird, or judged by things guys can't control become a big barrier to why guys don't approach. Some guys are called out for just shooting their shot and not doing or saying anything wrong. Guys don't want that attention and risk just for asking a woman's number or social media. Ghosting can affect esteem. True guys know not to care, but can take a toll on knowing self worth and would rather take a straight up rejection than giving false hope because at least we know where we stand with a rejection.

While rejection happens a lot, it is just a numbers game.

IceMysterious4265 · 2022-09-23T16:57:58+00:00

The reason why most guys don’t have results from cold approach is. A unshakable belief in themselves and what they’re doing.

False

A unbreakable solid frame is what 95% of game is. That’s why sometimes you see videos of guys saying boring things to women and these women still entertain them.

Also complete false. Most guys who get somewhere with women in cold approach usually have very great fundamentals or game. And if they don't are just having polite conversations that lead no where. Maybe a number but not a follow up.

Most guys don’t make it because they don’t believe even that little hint of “eh idk it won’t work” is just enough to screw you over.

No. Most guys don't make it because they either lack the game or the looks

Title	Why Cold Approach doesn’t Work
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Date	September 22, 2022 12:53 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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