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| 1 | Is it weird that high school girls are into me ?High school girls like older guys. You know how young guys fetishize cougars and milfs?? Women do the same thing and it starts from a young age. Most women go for older guys. Even girls in 20s,30s, not all but a lot of them. Pay no mind just accept it | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 03:11 AM |
| 134 | Would you fuck a girl who likes guys barebacking her, but is on prEp?If she’s on prep. She’s fucking lots of dudes. Heterosexual sex especially vaginal is low chance of transmission. She’s on prep because she’s fucking lots of guys raw I wouldn’t even get with her. Forget hiv she might have other more easy to get stds. Fap one off and forget her dog | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:10 PM |
| -1 | People here complain about the low success rate, but for women is the same.Lots of women are still dating but the study that young people of both genders are having less sex is true. But women are still having more sex than men. It makes sense that women aren’t having as much sex, women are pursing education, careers, have kids. Also feminism prizing women makes some women feel like sex is too much of a trophy to give up to a man. There are still women that give it up though we are humans and sex is a big part of that. I’d say focus on the glass half full and forget th… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 15 | I am able to very easily pull 6s and 7s but I’ve never gotten a girl who I’ve been awed by. What should I do?Bro this is such sound advice. Listen to him. Honestly treat all Girls like 4s. 6-10 ranges back in the day you can treat a 7 like a 10 and itd be gravy. But social media inflated their egos they think they are 10s treat every girl like a ugly girl | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 7 | Hit listEvery guy has a list, school, work, neighborhood. Go talk to all of them Hopefully you’ll get one or two but getting all of them is a far ass reach unless you’re super social status. Hosting parties etc etc even then it’s not a guarantee get real dog | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | r girls actually attracted to jerks? im not seeing itNarcissistic men have always gotten girls. Players and womanizers are narcissists. People are trying to destroy the fact that women find these traits attractive. Women have access to lots of partners this is true but a guy good with women will think to himself im the best option she has. Most jerks don’t care about women the paradox is that it makes them non needy which makes these men more attractive to them. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | [ Removed by Reddit ]I don’t accept shit tests. That’s a way to get clowned in my book. I always flip the test and I don’t tease them I NEG them. So they know their place | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 3 | I tend to talk to much and overshare when I approach or talk with women, any tips to reduce this ?Have strict boundaries with yourself. After enough times you’ll realize it doesn’t work. You need to be a bit mysterious. Women can get all the validation from your initial approach without doing anything. 3 min conversation is enough honestly and she should do most of the talking | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 01:29 AM |
| 5 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Na just to my place. I might meet her somewhere to bring her back. Activity based things are fun definitely do that. Have outcome independent even if the date is fun you might not get laid. Truth be told I do activity based dates or movies,restaurants after I sleep with them. It’s a lot more enjoyable when we have a connection versus getting to know each other. But back to your question no I will indirectly “directly” tell them we are going back to mine. I have enough self esteem and self respec… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Std paranoia Times are different bro and also shows you’re not thirsty. That’s always attractive | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Coffee bruh that’s it, second date is back to the crib. I wouldn’t go for fast lays if I were you | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Anybody still actively cold approaching? Got a questionDepends how many you approach. Quit worrying about lays. If you don’t want do it then don’t. But if you do it enough you will get good and yeah setting aside time isn’t that much of a deal. Look up James tusk “how to be a player with girls” that specific video will cover everything you need | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Anybody still actively cold approaching? Got a question30-50 women a week is enough approaches. 1 in 100 is basic if your fundamentals are valid. 1 in 50 is more if you’re skilled I’m still in between. And this is for lays. I take a break time from time. Women shouldn’t provide inner fulfillment. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Anybody still actively cold approaching? Got a questionIt works you got a date! I’ve gotten laid off of it as well. Other guys have well otherwise no one would talk about it. The main mistake I see is lack of action which you’re doing. Taking action great but another big mistake I made was doubting myself and cold approach. If you want to get good at this you have to have steel solid belief in yourself and that it works. You have to immerse yourself in this it’s hard but have that vision of who you want to be and live through that filter. This goes … | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women keep wasting my time?Don’t try to get girls that friend zoned you, friend zone them as well. You said you enjoy friendships with women so enjoy it. As for dating prospects mindset of you’re the prize and she’s the ugly girl. Treat them like the ugly girl, that aura will naturally come off of you and they’ll be the ones trying to vie for your attention. No matter how pretty she is, it’s not a good thing to do but life isn’t either. Also a post recently was made about escalation which keeps you out of the friend zone.… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 4 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexMy man mo drops KNOWLEDGE 🔥 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenThis is true to an extent. Just don’t be really Fat I mean look at ag Hayden idk if he’s legit but I believe he is. Shows his rejections and all, he looks like a nerd who plays WoW in his basement drinking monster and eating Cheetos. He is overweight has a bit of a gut sticking out but he pulls. Sometimes being in shape and masculine is detrimental in this day and age. Women are more insecure than ever with their Instagram facades but in person they have no social skills, men think they do becau… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | why do I only attract women I fucking hate?Why are you paying for dates always?? You said you don’t care about dating. Start having fun with it since you don’t “care”. There’s a lot to you you’re not saying, your personality for one. But I’ll give you a tip treat all women the SAME. Treat every girl like a ugly fat girl, serious you know how you act high and mighty arrogant af with ugly girls. I use to when I could stomach them but I cant anymore but you get the idea. That same attitude is going to mindfuck the hot girls so bad they’ll c… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 05:21 AM |
| 3 | The Mindset ProblemWomen cannot make you happy. Otherwise you’ll never be happy. It’s a never ending variable because it’s literally another person. That same inner fulfillment you feel you’re with these women should be actual fulfillment when you’re alone. It all comes from you | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofMan you got such great fucking points, I followed you on this sub for a while. You’ve gotten some astute observations. It’s funny you use the specific term “womanizer”. Womanizer are a textbook version of a narcissistic player. Narcissist emotionally and mentally abuse their victims/targets. First off a womanizer is a major misogynist because of his narcissism. Narcissists have a way of being sexist, racist, and misogynistic. A true bigot if you may. It’s absurd that a man that hates women does … | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpI love how people are attacking you, everybody is offended in this day and age. I get where you’re coming from, this sub used to be the shit where men can come and get advice. It’s like seeing a beautiful field of roses slowly dying. It makes me mad too but we have to adapt. Just move on really. Insecure chumps the lot of them | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpNot even 3-4 years ago. It was pretty well post pandemic shit even this time last year too. Last year some shit has happened incels have increase exponentially or they are being more vocal about it. Yeah I was trying to help people on this sub but it’s slowly starting to become a tar pit. Plus OP, fuck that dude lots of key board Warriors on here I can’t fathom them. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Why most of you fail with women. 5 days ago you’ll see it | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.One girl good for you same here. But most dudes here are trying to find multiple women. Look at the last sentence of what you responded to. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Yes go to my post history, you’ll see my post I cover all of this time and watch how no one cared AT ALL. Read it and tell me if it agrees with what you’re saying | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Both parties play into it. Women have created a hostile playing field. It’s hard for a man out here nevertheless no excuse. The way I see it every guy that’s an incel or opting out of the dating game just makes it easier for me. The less competition the better and stronger my impression will be on women. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Sounds like the OP , dude is attacking anybody that is disagreeing with him. But then again we don’t really know who’s who behind the Internet. He can be a loser or a successful person…😂😂. Nobody wants to be helped these days there’s more than one way to go about things usually. Most people are pig headed anyways fuck em like I said | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.More of a club type scene, also it depends as well. Social circle does work but for the guys on this sub? Usually virgins or a couple women or 1. Inexperienced basically, how can they get into a social circle without any social skills. Cold approach let’s you build social skills that help you build friends, career wise. Family wise etc etc. OP is just single minded and obviously a dickhead he’s attacking anybody that doesn’t agree with him. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 11:27 PM |
| 8 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.The reason why social circles aren’t discussed here is because they are trash. Social circles is needed for a man to be well rounded. Have guy friends or just friends to kick it with. Social circle will not give you girls unless you’re living a traveling playboy lifestyle or a frat boy type. Let’s say a 1 social circle consists of 3 dudes and 2 girls what are the chances that one of those girls will be into you and available? Idk guys that have multiple social circles giving them a pipeline of d… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 35 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.The veterans of cold approach are gone from this sub. Now maybe a few guys are trying cold approach and others are vicariously living through YouTube cold approach and guys on here. Learned helplessness I posted my really informative post about why looks don’t matter. Nobody liked it or commented and I deleted it and reposted it several times because maybe it was the wrong time to post it. Seeing if I can get more people to look at it and guess what nobody for two days commented or liked it. Mos… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 22 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?Na fight back! Haha flip it on her, “honestly i would date often if I wasn’t so picky” and as you do this look her up and down. You’re welcome you’re outwitting her shit test showing higher value and qualifying her all in that statement. And this goes for all shit tests same formula just add in your own personality. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?It’s not even that bro. It’s the few exes or ex that cheated on them. They assume every man has options like the toxic ex they always went back to. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 17 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?Movies lied to you, men aren’t as heartless as we’re made to believe. Very few men are able to become true players, have sex with a girl and toss her aside etc etc. Especially the men of this generation. Most men are having a extremely tough time having casual sex with MULTIPLE partners. Women think that since they themselves get lots of attention from men and are able to have sex with them if they wanted, men are the same way but we are not. Most guys would love to have multiple relationships w… | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Got a number from a hot girl from gymDefinitely agree people say oh you should be an adult but women don’t act like your “typical adult” you gotta play the game to know the game ya digggg | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 3 | I have a "cute" face...how do I create a more masculine appearance / vibe?Can’t believe guys haven’t asked you yet but what is your body fat % if it’s too high your face will be round. Get shredded most people have jawline genetics but are too fat. Sometimes people don’t have genetics for facial aesthetics if that’s you get a beard what other men have said. But first get to a low body fat %. I’d say 12% bf if you’re a real G 10%. If your face is still fat grow a beard etc etc, mewing doesn’t work that’s fake news. Low body fat and facial genetics will dictate if you h… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with other menMost men don’t challenge me because I’m withdrawn and my resting killer face wards off people. But I see envy in some dudes. Intimidation and respect in other mixture of all these etc etc. i ignore them idgaf really. It means you have sex appeal you’re attractive to women and men see it as a threat ofc there are some grounded men that don’t care at all or just don’t see it. Actually at the gym this guy purposely kicked down my water bottle but I let it slide. Indifference is better than hate or … | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Holding conservative / right wing political beliefs is not good for dating.Studies are skewed to favor certain people and their agendas. Username checks out it’s funny you assume young people of this era are into politics. This generation has the LEAST politically involved young people of any previous. People only lean to the left if it favors their life but they are not into politics. Women stand behind feminism because go women! Ask 90% of women who were important figures for feminism or certain specific turning events? Same for progressive laws and LGBTQ. Times have… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single menMost women aren’t into casual sex but a guy that’s good with women will be able to lead it to casual sex. Guys don’t got game like thay these days. Women are into casual sex because to them it isn’t casual sex, to them it’s “idk something about him it just happened”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Face and body dysmorphiaTrue rate me scale is 1-5 so it’s 4/5 not 10. Like others said you can only help yourself you’re fat you need to lose weight stop moaning and complaining get that ass to the gym | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 03:38 PM |
| -6 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueSo then you don’t know women nor are you experienced which was the whole point of my post | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 12:04 AM |
| 10 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueI take nothing on this sub at face value most guys here are not good at all with women and complain or they act like they are. All the old school guys that have experience have probably left. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueIt’s fine being young is complicated life is complicated but I’m tired of men acting like they have women figured out. They don’t what the OP is talking about women that are finally READY to settle down. Majority of women are not, not saying they are hoes or anything it’s like you said it’s hard to know what you really want at a young age. Seduction sub forum is mostly for guys wanting to get with multiple women not relationships. Reddit has a whole forum for that | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 36 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueThis is true but this implies that women are mentally healthy and mature. Young women especially are not and Your definition of simps is wrong. A guy that treat women like shit doesn’t need her he’s not a simp. You’re right sour and sweet that’s how assholes usually get away with it. A healthy and matured women will appreciate a good man but most women especially todays day and age they’re aren’t many around. Girls are complicated bruh most of them don’t know what they want. Only an inexperience… | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why Cold Approach doesn’t WorkIt starts with belief without it you’re not willing to put in the hard work get rejected and take multiple chances approaching women. Obviously it must have went over your head because you must be a novice but that’s what I was getting at | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Why Cold Approach doesn’t WorkYou black pill boy why do we see ugly guys with babes Al the time? Sometimes it’s not about his money, some women don’t like handsome guys because deep down they are insecure it’s competition. If your frame is tight I’m pretty sure a 8 will come your way might not be as quick to affective if you were a 8 but still. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Thinking suicidal just because you can’t get laid?Fatherless men and mothers being the only parent but that’s always been around, that’s only 10% , feminism, woke culture , Internet, porn plus it’s easy to be a loner just being at your house with modern technology. The states losing its own nationalism it’s all apart of it. A man does not know where to look to find himself anymore. Honestly your generation did all the hard work and the previous generation. Society is weak now but it was to be expected. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?What in Jesus name | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 22 | What is a good response to "You could be my son" when approaching an older women than me?Yes this is true you could be my Stepmom I can be your mommy is really corny. Most older women don’t have porno step son fantasies that’s porn for men made by men. Also by agreeing and amplifying the shit test you’re actually playing into her frame whether you see it or not. You’re solidifying her age as a factor which is weird. A masculine man is a mature man when need be so dismiss the age. Older women don’t have to be spoken to like they are old they want to be spoken to like when they were y… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body?Big rant incoming, sure the physique you’re talking about is attractive but you’ll basically “auto reject” yourself. Once you become an attractive man. Young women of this generation just cannot compete they might seem secure on the gram but they are deeply insecure. Fit guys make women insecure if anyone is skeptical about what I am saying. Look at the gym girls who do they MOSTLY date? It’s not gym guys for sure I’ve seen them with skinny guys or skinny fat or just fat. Why? Because it makes w… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:04 AM |
| 6 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?Lots of women say they don’t like cocky guys but end up sleeping with them, most guys here want to sleep with different women so it sends the right message to the woman she’ll perceive him to be a sexual partner. Along with strong boundaries and Cockys guys will stick to their guns/not chase it relays lots of non verbal messages to women hence the whole jerks get the girls concept. I’m sorry to say but narcissism is extremely favored in our society, a healthy dose is ok. Most women are actually … | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:47 AM |
| 3 | I started cold approaching for 2 weeks and im loving it!!Guy started off as Krillin now he’s becoming Majin vegeta and shit I see you boy! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hardVery good. Women want to sleep with men they feel like they won. They’ve “won” something by getting this guy. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | it's called the game for a reason, and you are the playerNo most men can’t. Successful men do, the OP has talked about “bad boys” sorry I meant assholes but the same thing is true and these type of men show sexual control on themselves. Lots of men will wine dine women say whatever women want to hear but the men that get the most girls. Grab their own balls and hold it and don’t change for nobody. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 0 | it's called the game for a reason, and you are the playerNo it’s not our weakness, you can cut through all that bullshit. That’s the thing since men are logical we can become cold and calculating if need be but most modern men are just as emotional as women. Women can’t help their emotions but men can | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | On being a "Player"You’re getting lots of slack for this post, most things go way over peoples heads. All this nonsense about “faking or being somebody else”. People change your personality changes and going from a regular dude to a masculine man takes change are those men fake? What you’re saying is right people don’t seem to have enough introspection. Being a lazy garbage bag to incorporating healthy habits makes you fake? People never see their own errors, men want to become a ladies man they have to change the… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad thing for girls to see me approach other girls after closing with them ?It’s all about how you frame it brother and to be honest everything in life is how you see it. No it is not bad I used to think that but truth be told I was hoping I could get a girl didn’t want to mess it up. Now? I couldn’t give a fuck if I get a girl or not you’re keeping your options open. If a woman sees you approaching other women and these women are laughing and enjoying your company it’ll make her perceive as “that man”. The prize. Most women flake in this game you’re trying to find ones… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:33 AM |
| 17 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.Yes man this style you’re talking of is just like Thomas Shelby from peaky Blinders. He has this emotionless face in between conversations with men/family women but with romantic interests he’ll add in a smirk or he’s not as monotone. The thing is you can also over do the non monotone voice which makes you seem like a suck up. He barely shows emotion so when he does it’s extremely alluring. Good post | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:28 AM |
| 6 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?How is what you’re saying incel shit??? These dudes have never done a cold approach nor do they get laid. You can tell because what you’re saying is how real players get laid. Grounded rock solid fundamentals and the no Bs mindset | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why does it always come down to the gym?15% bf is so sexy with decent mass why powerlfiters go to 20% and more is beyond me. I believe everybody should be 10% shredded once in their life to see how it is. Packing on fat is easy as fuck | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Is cold approaching women on the street really toxic?Life can be your playground if you want it to be. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about Andrew Tate?Feminism is trying to give women power too much power but women are inherently feminine like you. Which is great but young women are being told be a woman and at the same time saying be a man it’s hard. Most guys aren’t even thinking that because most young men aren’t even thinking at this point anymore. Slowly being ostracized it’s not freedom of speech because all types of characters will shoot you down. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 05:10 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys think about Andrew Tate?I love him. I don’t agree with EVERYTHING he says but he is well needed in our society. No one is a voice for men anymore. Yes he has a traditional masculine mindset and emperor/conqueror mindset. But I will accept it he is broadcasting the downfall of todays men and the massive pitfalls of feminism. No one talks about it because everybody is offended these days and if you can’t beat them you don’t have to join them but you better stay quiet about it. He talks about it constantly how he “escapes… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appealYou probably have weak points about your personality you need to confront. You said your physique is ideal but not great. Put More effort into your physique, stop chasing women so hard especially at your age it probably is a turn off because women think you have it all at your age which you should. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appealThere is something you’re not telling us, younger women love older men just like older women love younger men. You’re either not as fit or attractive as you think probably insecure about the age difference. Dry spells aren’t important you’re putting too much emphasis on sex like most men. That is wrong you’re insecure about it, be more honest with yourself and you’ll be able to get the women you want stop being a thirst bucket who gives a fuck about dry spells. The other guy said direct that ene… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herWomen are mostly a waste of time, some guys never get tired of doing the run around because of sex but logically and calculatingly think about it. You want return on your investment which is your time. So weed out women as fast as possible and make them show their hand | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with herThis, game is getting super over complicated nowadays. Do this do that make sure you build enough comfort, spark interest etc etc and it really doesn’t work because you’re inherently seeking her validation by following some bullshit routine. Not to mention it’s downright exhausting after some time in the game. Men need to build grounded and strong fundamentals. With strong fundamentals say whatever you want however you want to and you’ll find the ones that click | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Next move?I handled Caribbean women before, most of them are attention seekers and definitely don’t put out. She wants to be your phone buddy what you have to do is call her tomorrow. And ask her out asap and see what she says, make her play her hand. She’s a stranger you don’t owe her anything you’re doing it good just be sure you’re not thirsty and unwilling to lose her. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to and make progress with the gym receptionist?I’d you say you’ll crash and burn since you said you’re not good at talking to girls along with your confidence issue. I’d suggest approaching women in the streets,cafe, whatever park basically in the daytime. Less risk and if she rejects you you’re a total stranger who cares. You’ll gain confidence be more comfortable in your skin, good verbal and non verbal game will improve. Once you’re grounded and seasoned stsrt talking to the receptionist | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?The club is a different ballgame, good looking guys don’t get much attention in day to day life. Maybe some interest signs, when the night falls and women have some alcohol. The good looking guys get crazy attention. Good looking dudes on tinder claiming they get lots of attention are getting them from women that aren’t the cutest. The absolute baddies go for looks,status, money, etc not to mention model good looking not average good looking. they want the whole package. Women in the night life … | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want to be treated like sub-par humans?Because women cannot tell what is a confident man. A arrogant not giving a fuck about you visually shows that he is confident. A charming nice guy can sure as hell be confident but women need that up front in your face confidence. They don’t feel “outcome independency” it’s shown and verbally told”. Treating women like shit makes you stand out as well. Guys are thirsty as fuck for women and in this modern world more so then ever. So it emotionally jumbles a woman’s brain when a guy does that. Su… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 16 | Why do some girls just stare at me when I smile at them ?Modern women bro, they are confident on social media but in person they lack social skills and confidence. They are probably insecure and shy plus might even a bit offended you caught them checking you out. Lots of pride these days just my opinion By the way | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.This exactly, saying “hi” as a opener on tinder will get you NOWHERE, a hi in person? It’s a totally different ballgame. I’m not bending backwards to “peak interest” in a girl by having some fancy opener on tinder, pussy was never that serious. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.You forgot to mention you actually knew the girl, making it seem like a random message on Instagram got you a lay, come on dude stop Giving guys false hope with bullshit statements. Add all The details | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Bane has been on my mind for a while nowAnd someone else rising from the pit can also happen. Power of belief | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Bane has been on my mind for a while nowMy man, and you’ve subconsciously have had all the women already. “Because bane says I didn’t see the light until I was already a man by then it was nothing to me but blinding” live in abundance basically | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?You don’t need friends or women first off. Second you gotta fix your attitude and depression before even attempting to pick up women. Third before a women goes into a bed with you she isn’t counting how many friends you have. If you want to become a strong man you need to be ok with being alone. It makes you stand out and women will want you and men will want to befriend you. Fix your attitude and stop trying to feel validated from women. Care about your goals and ambitions, women shouldn’t even… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 33 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandYes this, that’s why self image and confidence is so attractive to women. A man that has masculine qualities will see himself in a certain light. He will “feel” his masculinity therefore women will feel it to. OP has to develop some sexual appeal, a not giving a fuck attitude, and basically having fun in his own way. A good looking guy is bland as hell without that spark he’s just another guy | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 21 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneDaygame is for guys with exteriors like tanks that see the end goal and believe in their vision. Once your skills are on point you won’t have trouble with women. What are the other alternatives? Online dating for men? That’s a crapshoot and sure social hobbies can be one but how many women can you really meet through social hobbies and ones that want you? Daygame is hard because it’s worth it. This goes for anything you pursue in your life, you have to believe in yourself straight up. Guys that … | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…She interested and likes the attention, there is nothing like a woman in a relationship or married. They are attention FIENDS, they look at every guy and try to get attention. If a woman is Blatantly checking you out most times she’s taken outside of a club scene. So yeah take it as you will. And bruv wtf is Wawa | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game"They already do bro, a masculine attractive role model father will raise a attractive son. For example you know jocks portrayed in movies usually the dad was a jock when he was younger or played football etc. Naturally attractive guys most likely had a role model father or a attractive father figure. These guys usually have no problem getting women if they decide to go PUA, I doubt they’d have much problems. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 3 | If you masturbate in three to five minutes for a dopamine fix you may be setting yourself up for premature ejaculation later in life.I’m too lazy for kegals, I’ll just pull out wait and then go again. If I really feel like it, I usually don’t. I think it’s all mental I used to last in high school a stroke and a half I swear to god real shit 😂😂. Nowadays who cares most men cum fast because of a womens opinion. If you don’t care enough to approach them you shouldn’t have any anxiety otherwise | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 60 | If you masturbate in three to five minutes for a dopamine fix you may be setting yourself up for premature ejaculation later in life.Also mental anxiety regarding sex. I tried to do kegals never worked, no faping or jerking off for long periods of time didn’t work either it was all mental. First round I’ll cum FAST as hell current partner or new. I have no shame idc it’ll get hard again and again after that. 2nd round I last way longer. It sometimes is all a mental thing and you cum fast learn to let go. There is so much you can do without busting. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 5 | How to mass approach in a smart way?How about you don’t give a fuck, your dating life is none of their concern they’ve just met you. You’re playing the odds because you’re a man and you have to. Fuck that be unapologetic and shameless. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Weight training to be attractive to womenHaving muscles with low body fat is a look that can’t be unmatched. That being said you don’t even need that much muscle for women, they think a little muscle is being jacked the gym guys know you’re not that big but women don’t. If you don’t want to lift weights then don’t you are missing out though but if you’re low body fat I’d say that’s all that matters, you still look good. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.Just fuck her and find someone more suitable for you, and I used to be like that thinking most women were “pure” they aren’t. They have access to lots of men and some of them use that to their advantage nothing wrong with it ofc but that’s not my cup of tea. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys increase volume?Go to malls and also outside the mall. Don’t be ashamed you’re trying to give a women a great time. Don’t spend too much time approaching through. Plus no body cares man, a man is trying to get some ass like that’s unheard of? How many approaches do you usually do a week | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys increase volume?Bro fuck volume, 30-50 Approaches a week is valid. So you take chunks out of your week to do more approaches let’s say after work you do 5/10 etc. but in between that when you’re on a errand, going to the gym, or work approach a girl you see. Add it to your approach counter, but don’t approach women because you “feel” like you have to. 24/7? No bro, honestly 30-50 Approaches should take 2-6 hours a WEEK, maybe even less. Unless she is super BAD and your type don’t approach if you’re in a rush, d… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:41 AM |
| 4 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?He seems arrogant, full of Himself and I bet you he doesn’t chase women at all. The qualities of that man in anybody regardless of looks will get you female attention. It’s just attractive confident and gravitating. A man that doesn’t need anybody but is confident in himself, he’ll be seen as a leader. Does a leader start following a follower? No he’d become a follower. Not to mention he has ambition he’s in finance he has lots of masculine qualities fuck the looks. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Im finding paid for services are a better deal than PUA or a normal traditional wife/gf, please tell me why I am faulty in my thought process!?It works out for you man, trust me dating is hard work as a man I can understand how you feel. If you have the money go for it guys that don’t want to deal with it usually just jerk off or don’t have the option to even date. Nothing wrong with it | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm 21, started clubbing this year . I get approached a lot by woman on nightclubs but I lack the confidence to get "physical" , so they eventually go because they think I'm not interested ... Any advice?Just pretend there is someone else inside your brain. The one that has no inhibitions and says the right things. No fear knows how to be sexual and sticks to his guns. Fearless dominant masculine confident, doesn’t give a FUCK. Ps he’s actually in there somewhere start becoming Him | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:21 AM |
| 0 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Game doesn’t even fucking exist bro. Take solid fundamentals (ex.prize yourself and don’t chase pussy) and freeflow whatever the fuck you want. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Are they in Manhattan? I’m not in Manhattan you might be right you are a veteran at this. Your fundamentals are tight as fuck by now. I was making rookie mistakes | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Yeah I can see how just being nice and charming and work in those states. Nyc girls want you to chase HARD, I’m pretty good at reading women and majority of them would not give me a number in 3 minutes even if they are attracted. I wouldn’t suggest nyc tbh. Daygame I mean! Night game is most likely fun as hell. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Yeah because it is only useful for women attracted to you but it also would opt out More flakes. Idk where you live but I’m from nyc the women here are different as fuck. My personality is more arrogantish, abrasive playerish. And the women here have big egos and are cocky so i press them a lot harder. After all I’m one of the few men ballsy enough to daygame gotta make sure she’s worth my while. But I’m in this stage of my life where sex isn’t that important I been seeing a girl for two years I… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Yeah qualifying works for the ones attracted but also works good for conversation as well | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)I saw your other post. I was just getting to the realization also about sticking to your own script. No matter what and you’re the prize. Qualifying a lot more and having fun with it. Puas always preach calibrate calibrate but I realized that’s bullshit fuck calibration as long as you’re not a complete creep it doesn’t matter. You want the women that want you 3 minute interactions are perfect | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)I know what you mean, rejection is crucial but what I’m saying is, do you to a point where the 96 girls reject you in the approach except the 4 girls. So when you get the contact info you know it’s solid for real | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:53 AM |
| 8 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Dope bro, is there any way you think to be polarizing enough, to give or take get the girls that will say yes? 4 out of 100? So the other 96 will reject me in the approach. Rather get straight solid 1-4 leads | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:42 AM |
| -2 | How to pick up confident girls?It’s front and you think they are confident because you’re insecure, most women are not confident, the “confident woman” are the dominant masculine types and trust me you ain’t trying to get with them. Most women are not confident your attractions blinds that truth as it does with most men | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 0 | How To Have Power With A GirlAlso remember your opinion doesn’t speak for the whole gender of straight women | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:40 PM |
| 0 | How To Have Power With A GirlWomen can’t tell the difference usually. So arrogance comes off as confidence, while confidence is kind of just there. In my experience women like in your face confidence but it appeals to them. Quiet confidence doesn’t get you laid, relationship material? Sure but not hooking up they want someone exciting | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:39 PM |
| -4 | How To Have Power With A GirlNo it’s not, I’m guessing dude is trying to get multiple women. Being good looking along with an arrogant dominant I’m the prize work for me is perfect. Especially since most guys are thirsty as well throwing themselves at almost any woman. Qualify them forget how they treat other guys if she living up to your expectations and standards. Tease her even offend her a bit | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Mini no-contact to keep attraction high?1 day is nothing, stop seeing her so much period. You need a week out the month or every two months, not just with her but for yourself. Space away from people in general. Sex is important sounds like you’re having and it’s going well so don’t listen to me if you don’t want to. But personally speaking after a while sex isn’t that important we men have to stop putting so much emphasis on it | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is a ‘woman’s intuition’ just false mystique?No I’m simply saying what a man can be. He is logical and to get women he is emotionally charged. He evokes emotions in them | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:32 PM |
| 3 | I seem to be attracted to girls who have a bad attitude or they act like they are above everyone else. Is there something wrong with me ?I know what you’re talking about, nyc is full of those girls. Those attitudes are actually fronts. The princesses have deep seated insecurities. Disregard anything they say and Also you’re probably coming off too nice. Be more arrogant be more ball busting and I’m not talking about “you’re so short” something like “do you wear lashes to feel important?” Or “you’re probably super fucking boring if I took you out on a date” you have to say it in a sarcasticish tone not jokingly as much. In nyc I h… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Stop trying so hard and you'll get laidMore arrogant and ball busting behavior, women can’t just “feel” you don’t care they have to be told | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Is a ‘woman’s intuition’ just false mystique?Yes the only thing women can do well is figure out that a guy is talking to them because he likes her which isn’t difficult at all. Women can figure that out pretty easily just as any other animal can mating wise. Women are purely emotional a man can be a better emotionally charged logical seducer and that’s why the men that seduce are the most dangerous. Once you get good women are easy to read as are people in general and you’ll cunningly evade whatever “intuition” women have | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Correlation between looks & condom useI think hotter the girl the more selective they are. They are choosy because society has told them to not to mention the men that are hounding them good looking guys as well. If they think they are the prize and you’re just a fuck ofc they’d say to use a condom no matter how good you look. They go raw with men they think can be long term. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I'd say for most of the women that let you fuck them, you are actually the price. You still gotta "pursue" a bit, but its just formality. Opposite to the women that have no interest. But some guys struggle to see the difference.Of course not but see what you wrote “you’re the prize” that’s basically what I’m saying read some of my posts about arrogance and women love it because they can’t tell the difference between confidence and arrogance. So they think arrogance is actual confidence. You don’t need a harem you need the mentality behind it because what makes you stand out? Lots of women got decent looking dudes that are available | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I'd say for most of the women that let you fuck them, you are actually the price. You still gotta "pursue" a bit, but its just formality. Opposite to the women that have no interest. But some guys struggle to see the difference.I say this is in conjunction to “not giving a fuck if you get them” and also “trying to seduce women”. Lots of men, me included we talk and talk hoping she’ll stay attracted. Act like you’re a stud with a harem or women even if you don’t either way you communicating you’re fine with or without women. So a 5 minute quick convo is a enough fuck all this up and down emotional bullshit women do I don’t care enough for it anymore. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does being brash and arrogant work so well with women?Yes I always had the habit growing up that women were just as logical as men. Confident men approaching women is not enough there needs to be more | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?What’s funny is they’re still insecure. I think getting guys makes them feel worse because they know how guys are and they’ll get with anything. It’s a facade when these types have fake confidence. If a confidence masculine guy approaches them they’re actually rude because they know we know we look better than them. I get HUGE iois from those types and they’ll reject harshly which was weird. They assume I think they are easy so they are even more defensive. It’s weird I stopped doing that | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?Yeah guys are underestimating how horny dudes are and if women put out easy they’ll take it. 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 16 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?Still would be easy for women if they are fat and ugly 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the god damn fuckin' logic behind why taking the initiative or taking initiative is a masculine thing?Re read my response I literally said it | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Being too pushy and aggressive/being needy and passive, where’s the line?This definitely and also stop chasing her, flip that aggressiveness into being more hard to get, arrogant (testing her harder). “She wants you frame” arrogance is associated with aggression but just a aggressive nature not a I need pussy aggression. Also it seems you’re doing night game I can only imagine arrogance goes a long way in a nightclub setting. They want that GUY to go home with so it must play out well | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:46 PM |
| -13 | The number of incels in this sub is outstanding (you are the reason for your own failure) + common questions answeredStop hating the post, don’t be a post history fucking monger. That shit is irrelevant and this guy is right he’s simply saying take responsibility for your own life something we can all learn from. And since you were snooping on his page you saw the most he made on this subreddit which got lots of upvotes and comments….don’t project, adapt and learn | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl sending signals at the gymFirst girl you’re ever going to approach or just the gym? Either way I wouldn’t recommend it unless you’re adept because gym girls are all attention feens. They wear tight clothing with sports bras and stare men to get attention. This is the deal with metropolitan gyms. She might like you or is admiring you orrrr it’s because you aren’t giving her attention like other guys. Girlies look my way at the gym but I wouldn’t approach them I don’t want to risk getting caught in their attention trap. Th… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Cold approached a girl in a grocery store and got her number. Now what?You’re mostly right but no don’t set a specific time it looks thirsty af y’all just met. Go out sometime can work or we’ll go out sometime next week. Be distant and aloof and “adult” women is a overstatement they are think like children | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do obese guys become attractive to women after losing weight but being already in shape doesn’t have the same effect?What are you going on about. You’re lacking confidence, if you take a slim guy that gained muscle and a fat man that became fit. Take those two guys and they start approaching women. People will assume they have always been fit. Sure weight loss stories are motivating and interesting as are hard gainers getting brolic but it isn’t that big of a deal. You only been working out for 2 weeks stop complaining go and gain some actual muscle. Get a actual program and diet routine. Don’t half ass the gy… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | It seems like no game+action > game+no actionYou’re talking about night game? Where it’s predominantly young people, where people drink, where due to said drinking most people are horny? Girls included? You’re way too analytical in a place where nobody cares. Ofc that guy is leaning too far in but she doesn’t care cause she is faded. People are trying to have fun and get laid. Women whole slut shaming goes out the way in a nightclub. They blame it on the alcohol that they are going to choose a guy to fuck tonight. Wake up bro | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?Because you’re not arrogant enough, don’t prize yourself enough. You tolerate it enough, women are let me not say it. That’s how women are get used to it and adapt they flake dont respond because nobody has too even men. You said your male friends don’t do this I had male friends that wouldn’t reply to my text it’ll be a week since and they’ll be the first few to watch my Stories on Instagram. I cut them off, a simple yo I’ll hit you up all that would be fine. Niggas act like Bitches treat them … | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane?I used to think that too, it’s so weird and creepy. Talking to the people on the street? Nevertheless I started approaching women and realized how many women like to talk and talk their head off. Online is ok for women but it’s guy after guy messaging them. In real life it’s different also it’s a game treat like one have fun. It’ll Shock you how unweird it feels after some time. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:59 AM |
| -2 | a good response for “how many girls have you said that to?”“I don’t count every responses to people unlike you” | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you guys have for attracting women that have the "baddie" look?More arrogant and push and test HARD. These girls come off as confident but it’s a facade hence the glamour look. Also looks are deceiving some girls might look like they are full of themselves and snobby but aren’t. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | On attractionYou’re good man just get jacked. Facial hair grow it , looks aren’t the end all be all. A jawline doesn’t make you ultimately attractive either I seen some ugly dudes with defined jaws. Facial hair if not get jacked and roll with it. A handsome bitch boy ain’t getting play compared to a ugly masculine dominant dude making things happen…ya dig?!??! | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | So is charm necessary or not? LolIf people don’t like your charm they just don’t like you. If people like you your charm amplifys It because you’re a likable person hopefully | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong for me to jerk-off to her photos?Guys jerk off to Instagram photos of all types of female nude or not. Don’t fucking tell her that’s weird unless you guys start fucking and that phase is over. She already knows you’re attracted to her and you wanna bone don’t fuck it up and what the other guy said stop flirting so sexually let her chase you a bit, don’t be thirsty letting her know every time she arouses you | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’Because JP sees how society is failing as a whole. When women and young girls see this model they’ll think of well she has fat or is big so that justifies their lifestyle. It encourages gluttony and unhealthy habits. People get fat more food consumed so more money and more diseases so more money to the doctors. Companies are laughing because it’s a double sided sword you have women becoming more “liberal” and companies making money off of them. Feminism has changed the scope of society he said s… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 11:46 PM |
| 8 | When Girls Lose Interest In You, It’s Like You’re Dead For Them.Damn man reminds me of a younger self 💔. All those let’s down and flakes will Make you a stronger man trust me. And one day you’ll Forget the pain and disheartened feeling and you’ll come across a something that reminds you of those times and you’ll think oh what happened to my cold cold heart | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I left her home after she didn't want to finish me offNo no just give her the silent treatment you did good. Women are Selfish if she was horny she would have finished you. Women like sex when they are horny and need all those switches to be turned on. They could care less about a man’s pleasures not all women I got a girl that for the most part will always please me. I don’t need a women at my call to please me but women are inherently selfish when it comes to sex. Especially young women you did good you weren’t mad and if you were you didn’t show… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl in my gym keeps making eye contact to me.Yes my New York slang overpowers me at times | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Girl in my gym keeps making eye contact to me.A feen is an addict but in this context it’s an addict for attention | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:53 AM |
| 4 | How to respond to “btw im heading to bed but blow up my phone while i sleep w compliments please and thank you🫣☺️”?Don’t neg, don’t respond at all. Just go to sleep, she’s childish unless you guys are in high school. She’s stupid af don’t respond and if she says some shit say you went to sleep | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:53 AM |
| 13 | Girl in my gym keeps making eye contact to me.Be careful man, the gym is a hot SPOT for attention whores maybe you got a good body maybe you’re attractive guy. Some women will want guys to look at them so they make eye contact especially in the gym. She might be into you she might not. Shoot the shot and see if not avoid all eye contact. Women are feeens in the gym man FEEEEENS. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | What is the god damn fuckin' logic behind why taking the initiative or taking initiative is a masculine thing?Why are you whining that’s a great thing. Because men have the control and if you know how to leverage control and power. You’ll Be good with women trust me you do not want women making the first move. Even if they did let’s say you’d still have to orchestrate the whole dating process. You’re a man you have to lead and it’s not because of this pseudo masculine shit. It’s a apart of it sure but it’s because if women were the ones to lead we’d go nowhere. Date a couple women or the women you have … | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Fat boi game? Overweight fellas get in hereI want fat I was overweight well I bulked up real dirty and got huge with some muscle but loads of fat. I was 5’8 at 220 so I was burly looking I had a girlfriend at the time we broke up and It was right in time to “cut” I didn’t approach any women till I felt like my jaw was defined enough I was insecure about my chubby face the most. So I did wait and cut to approach I say it’s your life do whatever you want but do hold yourself accountable. Most people will say once I cut or get a nice car or… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Does a woman smiling and blushing when a guy compliments her mean she’s interested, flattered or something else?My mistake jacobim! | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a French woman like Ted Bundy?This is the new “are guys into women with dicks” guy that kept reposting | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Has any of you tried the AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) cold approach?Alpha male has said he goes for fat woman fucking bbw so idk 😂😂. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | is it me or is this girl giving out weird vibes (pre-date texting game)She tryna fine and wine looking for a free meal. I’d say back out asap. Girls are stupid disregard her | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:20 PM |
| -3 | women are grossLet’s go to Philippines and just buy some brides honestly | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Using the seduction technique of Ted Bundy to approach a girl in Western Europe as a short Asian male?He’s white second 1970 culture was way different than it is now. A charming man could get with girls easily via cold approach/bars. No online dating and the 70s women were willing to explore all about causal sex and having fun with men. Times have changed and women are more weary even if you’re a handsome guy and you try to get a woman to get to your car? She’s not going to come. Serial killers weren’t as popular and none of them looked as nice as bundy who was a clean cut handsome smart young m… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:32 PM |
| 16 | I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman?This is some good beginner advice, but also non verbal communication can be highly sexual with tension. It’s more advanced but you yourself is a sexual vibe so you don’t have to flirt or do anything she’s written BUT this is for guys that might not be down with this style. It’s all about the vibe and women pick up on it. Start getting out your boundaries | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | For average guys that have been in the game for a decade or so. Has the rate of girls flaking gotten worse?You always want to be scarce and yes don’t be so fun with women. Don’t have the time of your life and a blast the whole date. You’re hard to impress act like it because you’re the one providing the fun she’s not providing anything. You’re the man the accelerator of the sexual process, don’t make it easy and control the interactions | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What books/videos/articles should I read/watch to become a charismatic seducer that can make people obsessed and be a sex god.Lose empathy for people create your own world, watch the peaky blinders show the last two seasons to be exact. Watch the whole thing so fucking great. Become ruthless and envision the person you want to be. Take action is number 1 you’ll get there it’s not pretty | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Is this giving away too much validation?Oh I should clarify I meant cold approach specifically daygame | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this giving away too much validation?Doesn’t it make you seem like you have nothing to do in life? How do you go about setting it up | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is this giving away too much validation?Elaborate | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this giving away too much validation?Is setting the date on the initial approach too forward or thirsty? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | For average guys that have been in the game for a decade or so. Has the rate of girls flaking gotten worse?Yeah max your looks get good fashion hair style hygiene. Get shredded always help it makes your face more attractive. Muscles help but facial aesthetics help a lot more but at the end of the day flakes rejection happen it doesn’t matter if you’re fat or low body fat. You’ll be more attractive | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | For average guys that have been in the game for a decade or so. Has the rate of girls flaking gotten worse?You’re not scarce enough I employ lots of alpha strategies on YouTube and other “alpha male” shit. It does make sense you are the best mate for women to reproduce with and you have to show that. Either you spent too much time with them or you were too fun or you opened up too much. Didn’t escalate enough so many reasons bro | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:42 PM |
| 7 | For average guys that have been in the game for a decade or so. Has the rate of girls flaking gotten worse?Become brash arrogant and fucking bold. Times have changed and adapt, don’t make interactions so fucking nice. You’re the prize and rub it in her face and clown her a bit, none of this sad cunt shit you can never be like zyzz. Nah but for real it seems to be to make women listen. Be more of an asshole change my mind anybody | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle rejection?Accept its apart of masculinity makes me feel like a badass or rogue. It just feels right | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | The Argument Against Cold ApproachBecause men nowadays act like beggars spare some coochie please? Dating and well most guys are pussies in cold approach flip the fucking script. The women in cold approach aren’t choosing you, you’re choosing them. If a woman isn’t attracted to you then that’s just biology not much to it. What about the women that are attracted? You cut a lot bullshit by approaching women in real life and women are emotion based. Online dating is different than you being in their face. Easier to show value in pe… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Jack harlow seems like a good role model for getting good with womenI know people saying it’s because he’s famous which is definitely true. But he’s definitely getting girls before then that same attitude he has in Regular society would land his some baddies too. Also his fashion is plain to say he’s not flashy he seems more down to earth with some cockiness, he lets his music speak for him. Outcome independent, he acts like he’s the prize, mysterious doesn’t speak too much. Good example right there | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Taking a break from cold approaching, how quickly do you “lose it”?Don’t worry, it comes back quick 10 approaches or so don’t worry about it | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:56 PM |
| 10 | Lack of volume in approaching30-50 a week is a good amount of volume without sacrificing too much time on the street. Give limited amount of time to chasing women | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Do women know when a guy is “Game” aware?No guys give women too much credit. Sure if you approach a female she knows what’s up but that’s it. A player will easily become intrusive and get into a females mind. Women think on emotions, players know that and use it to their advantage they aren’t as smart. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Having your shit together is one of the most attractive qualitiesYoung bad boys sure, but only stupid damaged women stay with those guys in the long run. Young women don’t care about if a young bad boy has his life together if he’s exciting. I’d rather host rich hotel parties than be a broke dude at home. Which type of guy would most women find appealing? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Should I stop approaching these kind of girls?Call in the waffen SS, just playing. Keep on approaching it light not be the girls it might just be you. You said one girl was nice so it can’t be all that bad. Even if there’s a race of women thay don’t prefer your “type” women are still women some of those women will still be into you. Be more masculine dominant and OUTCOME INDEPENDENT. Look up anything I’ve wrote good luck keep on trying 50 women is a lot. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 4 | What age is too old to go to a college campus and approach girls?Are you mad man? Just joking middle aged elderly people go back to college you’re never too old to go back to college 😉 | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?I went to this spot in Astoria (if you know New York) so Damn good broooo holy shit with chicken cutlet | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Excellent analogy, penne alla vodka hmmmm crispy garlic bread something in the way mhmmmmm | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?That’s the neat part, you don’t | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | get to know to the game my self, any adviceSex is not that important, really? You need sex to work on a business or your maximum potential. Sure sex is important but come on dude. Don’t listen to this guy yes a sex life is important but if it’s so important to you you can’t focus on yourself? Then rethink your priorities the way this guy thinks it’s how a thirsty dog thinks. Sex comes second or last that’s how you get them. You yourself and your LIFE is more important than women. Don’t make women the center of your life like this dude. I… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | get to know to the game my self, any adviceSex is not that important, really? You need sex to work on a business or your maximum potential. Sure sex is important but come on dude. Don’t listen to this guy yes a sex life is important but if it’s so important to you you can’t focus on yourself? Then rethink your priorities the way this guy thinks it’s how a thirsty dog thinks. Sex comes second or last that’s how you get them. You yourself and your LIFE is more important than women. Don’t make women the center of your life like this dude. I… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel invisible to women but a catch to gay people?You’re either masculine or come off as such or good looking. Gay men is blurred because some gay guys will go for anything like how straight guys will go for almost any women. It’s a good sign nonetheless you’re probably oblivious to iois women give you. Anyways approach women talk to them don’t be a pussy easy solution | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:57 AM |
| 17 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsThis isn’t bad at all, people keep thinking that your stats will stay the same forever. No you’ll get better and better and your ratio will get better, people don’t seem to understand to get your game real tight you have to put in lots of approaches. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:23 AM |
| 12 | any medication to help me get better at talking to girls?Lmfaooooo why you say like that Dog 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 3 | How do you take the game ahead with a girl showing you atttiude?You need to have a complete set of frame. Act the way you act like with any girl. Take what I wrote on your other post into consideration | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.I do more body language, but it’s also frame I’m trying to see if she’s good enough for men and I test and qualify hard. Smirking attitude of I’ve seen it all and I seen girls like you before. Sure you can talk arrogance but I do more body language with a little talking but more testing and qualifying. “I like fun girls I only date fun girls are you fun at all?” It’s a common thing to qualify here but with a arrogant frame it will come off as rude a bit also “what do you have besides your looks?… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.Arrogance shows willingness to offend which means the guy doesn’t need the girl because offending could result in her leaving walking away rejection etc. Also if he’s arrogant a women perceives that he’s been like this all the time so he’s essentially a winner in all the things he does. I said perceive he could be a loser broke but I know people I been that broke loser and we all had girls regardless. One more thing a arrogant man kicks the fuck off her pedestal he’s not tryna impress her or mak… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.Arrogant men get more women, confidence isn’t enough women need to have it shoved in their face. Arrogance will make women think he’s self confident then a actual confident man. Look into how arrogant and cocky men do with women. A confident man might not be aggressive in the way that player guy will | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 02:29 PM |
| 4 | How to game hipster girls (in NYC)Hipster girls like hipster guys usually. Just be yourself there are feminine hipster girls out there I don’t see how you wouldn’t. These women are all for self expression and being in touch with yourself. I doubt you’ll have trouble, women are women at the end of the day. Most likely you’ll get rejected a lot they are also more liberal but fuck it be yourself do not change yourself for women. Change yourself for yourself not for a female good luck | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | For the people here who go out and talk to women from time to time during the dayThat’s your mistake, if you’re talking nightgame 3 hours is fine because that’s what most men do at bars clubs to pick up girls. If you’re speaking daygame you’re wasting too much time chasing women. An hour tops or 2 personally I do 1. It is thirsty to spend that much time chasing tail. Keep your sessions short and your approaches fast ofc once you get your fundamentals down you can keep your sets short. But way too much time wasted. I do about 30 a week and once the hour is up idc if I see ano… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | For the people here who go out and talk to women from time to time during the dayNot creepy fuck that shit dude. If you’re out sarging for 8 hours sake area yeah that’s fucking weird but who’s to say that’s weird. I heard people doing that but one or two hours of your day? My sessions are even shorter nowadays within a hour. I don’t try to give women a lot of time anymore I’ll do 10 approaches usually | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | For the people here who go out and talk to women from time to time during the daySarging is recommend you’ll never hit the numbers of approaches to get good or get laid by doing lifestyle game. If you’re in a good town might be what 10 approaches tops a week from life style? That’s a good town with high standards. You need to set time aside to approach women to hit those numbers | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I think I come off as clingy/desperate. How do I avoid this?Things have changed, women have changed men have changed. You said it’s easy to get laid? It is not for young men anymore, read the studies 1 in 3 young men report no sex in the last year (pre-pandemic). No sex also means no intimacy, you’re older you have a different perception of time and our society. You make some valid points I will admit but the scope of the situation is majority of women nowadays do remember I said majority do not appreciate a masculine man anymore. Masculinity is being di… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I think I come off as clingy/desperate. How do I avoid this?I don’t have opportunities I create them. I understand what you’re trying to say shit I’ve done it like that too. But honestly if you’re such a awesome person why would you have to initiate everything with her? To score some ass? To get a relationship is even worse, you had to wiggle your way into her inner circle is what I’m getting from your response. It works but nah idc if things would be good with a female if I persisted. I’m done doing that, I just hold myself in high respect to not do tha… | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 04:02 AM |
| -3 | I think I come off as clingy/desperate. How do I avoid this?Good advice but return of the kings, don’t text back after the date AT ALL. let them text you trust me you’re gonna stand out | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Dominant and strong women?Not usually. These women don’t go good with masculine men. So submissive is all they get they’ll leave if they dude doesn’t listen. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:58 PM |
| 6 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?The guy mentioned the power dynamic has shifted in your favor. Don’t message her wait until she messages you, and people saying don’t do that because she’s going to be “used” she can always message you and you’ll message her back granted you wanna talk to her/be nice. Women being “used” for sex is a outdated term. If it was consensual then it was a 50/50 participation. No such thing as women being used anymore it’s 2022. She wanted it just as much as you oh one more thing as always do whatever t… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Phone game: what should you do the girl puts you on hold?Your approach should have built connection and peaked her interest to go on a date. Talk to her otp after you guys hook up | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Asked her out, she said yes and left me on seen immediately after, what do now?You have built enough rapport barely letting her breathe. If she wants to see you she will message you, back up off her now | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Asked her out, she said yes and left me on seen immediately after, what do now?You’re talking to her wayyyy too much bro. Lots of attention she might lose interest towards the date. Don’t message her wait till she messages you and if she doesn’t she wasn’t interested | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Dominance Trumps Looks, Status, MoneyI read girlschase lots of their articles, Go read their article about dark triad these types have some traits women love. Mostly dominance like my post the article talks about almost everything I’ve wrote. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Dominance Trumps Looks, Status, MoneyDefinitely definitely! But the worse thing is more and more women are gaining “respect” for themselves and think dominance is too much. Lots of women are attracted to me but do I get them no? Lots of pride these days enough for women to reject you despite being attracted. The 80s and 90s was the time to shine man | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Dominance Trumps Looks, Status, MoneyThank you for understanding man, but also confidence sometimes is a thin line a man can be confident without being assertive he might let things slide you understand? Dominance is synonymous with confidence but with a much stronger backbone I feel almost among the lines of brash. This day and age everything you do that’s assertive is considered wrong, brash, rude, toxic masculinity so the views are skewed. I’m trying to describe more of a old archetype of masculinity. The other poster saying yo … | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 3 | I hate the allure of driving 2 hours to a bigger city where there's attractive girlsIf you have money hotels or air Bnbs not to mention the women might have their own spots they can go to. Own apartments etc also if they like you and real invested they’ll meet you by you. Approach often | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 07:53 PM |
| 57 | Should I approach girls even if ...Don’t listen to women to these girls, you just wanna have sex and have fun the women you’re looking for won’t care if you’re “independent”. A 5$ coffee at most you said you got a shitty job or a walk in the park whatever. Believe it or not some women don’t care about money they care about having fun and sex. Go get them | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is escalation harassment?So fast escalation is a no go? | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Whore and Madonna complex, most men wanna settle down with a woman that has a low count or close to 0. But if a guy likes to sleep around he’s prefer women with high N counts because they are just as interested in sex as men. Men shit on sluts but more often women slut shame the most. If a woman is safe and smart sluts are fun as hell sex to them is nothing and I enjoy that. It’s the prudish ones that act like sex with them is entering a royal castle gtfoh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | How will TRP change dating and general culture as more people grow up knowing it?Lots of men I know are red pill but aren’t subscribed to any pill Reddit’s. Shit I’m not I either we just read up on it or they know the idea and that’s it just keep it with them. You’re acting like the only people that are red pilled are the ones on the sub no many people aren’t. Stupid to think of that honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | On being nervous; this sub loves to talk about importance of never feeling nervous, but industry giants like Mark Manson and Mystery will openly admit to being nervous during approaches. So which is it?It’s to get over your nerves once you approach enough times that rapid heartbeat and anxiety goes away. When you’re stale or out of state it just feels a bit weird to approach but not nerve wracking | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No it wouldn’t 😂. If you mean more opportunities to meet girls maybe yeah, talking to girls is what helps your “seduction” heavily. Being non needy confident etc | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:10 AM |
| 8 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Have your own goals and personality. You’re basing it around women too much. Women are a paradox just approach and be your own person. Also become more of an asshole I do know what you mean by women our age are super entitled and definitely don’t know what they want. Be quick to cut women off and don’t be afraid to overstep boundaries these birds don’t know themselves. But like I said you’re worried about women put yourself first before women. Pussy is pussy and I get it when I need it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | People with over 1000 lay countWomen want men to lead, they won’t say it because they don’t even know it…shit most women don’t even know themselves. You think for them and lead for them. Into their minds and yes arrogance and narcissism works but more covert. Unless you’re blue face straight arrogance will turn a lot of women away. You have to be charming and tease here you can tease harshly but don’t be dismissive and straight up offensive when approaching. Narcissism you can hide it’s just over the top confidence | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:51 AM |
| 4 | How many rejections in a row is too much?This guy gets it that’s what I’m talking about JACK. “Inserts this is about drive it’s about power”. Something which is not spoken about too often is you have BELIEVE. You have to believe you can do this maybe not right now but you can if you out in the work. Stay hard | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 25 | Can’t get hard (28M>Don’t jerk off or watch porn. Also considering it’s usually with ONS. Do not think you have to match up to the media’s version of a guy that’s into ONS. You might not be cut out for a ONS. Too much pressure or it’s just not what you’re subconsciously into. Go on dates get to know people if that’s your style trust me you’re not the only guy that might not be into ONS. Lots of men don’t prefer I personally don’t either too much risk stds etc etc. everything will be fine dude | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Is good storytelling necessary?I doubt “storytelling” is the major setback from becoming advanced? If I don’t tell good stories I’m not getting laid? gtfoh. Whatever your style your personality let it shine through with your game. It seems that’s what you’re already doing. Forget becoming “advanced” love yourself and love the game as well as the women, you’ll be just fine | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Grocery Cashier giving IOW.... Best path forward?Number 2 it’s not fucking creepy unless you say some overly sexual shit. You’re expressing interest don’t EVER feel shameful. You like her and she just happens to be a cashier that’s it. Do #2 or be quick with it. Make small talk for a minute and ask for the number | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Advice?Approaching women only way to learn | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Advice?With charm and touching them (not sexually). Hand touch or arm hand holding etc also charm with sexual tension you can talk about what she was doing today and she’ll still be turned on. You’re right most women like subtlety so learn it | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:27 PM |
| 3 | How would you react if you were at a bar with your gf, and an alpha male (bigger than you) approached and started flirting ?😂😂 “ooouuuuuooouuu” | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:53 AM |
| 114 | How would you react if you were at a bar with your gf, and an alpha male (bigger than you) approached and started flirting ?Bro hold you ground. Don’t get defensive thays bitch shit, if he starts spitting game join in the conversation advocate for him. If you’re self assured he’s going to respect you for being so stoic and she’ll tell him off if not she was never your girl and he did you a favor. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 07:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If the sex is good and you’re not a needy person you’ll be fine build some emotional connection if you really want her to stay around | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 12:06 AM |
| 8 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?Also women can control the sex a lot more with these guys, the women know they’ll still be there if they don’t put out a non needy man will just leave or distance himself he knows the games | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?You have to ruthless and be shameless, you have something to offer to women. To get better with women you have to approach them no way around it. The mall is great high volume warm in the winter time. But like others said change the locations. If I was you I’d hit the mall a day out of the weekend and a day out of the weekday. Nobody cares what you’re doing anyway I do the same thing security guards don’t give a fuck. Many people walk around in the mall to look around warm up etc etc. She’s just… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?I love being subtle and flirty lots of teasing and comfort. I bring up something about her or the first date. “I always thought you were” etc then something along the line of you think I’m (compliment yourself) handsome? She’d say yes and I’ll say you wouldn’t mind then? Mind what? Then just go in for the kiss. It’s subtle flirty and it’s interesting to go that route. The build up is nice but that’s my style I hint calling out the attraction. I find it so damn fun! Love life live life 💋 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 08:10 AM |
| 4 | Got this cute chicks number while cold approachingSo what if she doesn’t reply, if she doesn’t she was never interested in the first place. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Definitely he needed salt and pepper to finally get some. 20s is the best time to hone the seduction skills time looks and energy | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Gloating about it you definitely get no pussy stop embarrassing yourself man | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 05:33 AM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?I know for sure you were barely slaying in your 20s. You seem like a real late bloomer it’s alright pop some young men have balls no need for late blooming | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessaryLove the last paragraph if this “duh advice” it doesn’t pertain to you. Always some jackass going to comment oh I already know that etc. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 8 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?You don’t need any of that and still get women. Most women live with their parents roommates etc. If you’re broke a 5$ coffee date or a walk in the park. That’s just worst case scenario. What you need to do is go to the gym work on yourself and approach women. Good game + looks trumps everything else and game is more important than looks. There are girls out there for you quit the limiting bs you have everything you need | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Read my first sentence good for you though | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 19 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Older is better as you age ofc if you been in the game for years. But you’ll never look as good as you do in your 20s, wrinkle free youthful skin etc etc just approach women and you’ll find success the number one is approaching women you have to do it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys in their 30s who are not in a committed relationship and still hookup with random women, how do you deal with pressure from society?As a man I can imagine most men lose out on their potential granted they worked in their 20s to become successful in the 30s etc. A successful man in his 30s should definitely not be tied down. He is successful mature than his younger counterparts but still young he’s right in that sweet spot | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | I’m 5’8 and bald. How fucked am I?This getting in shape is standard, a good facial structure will indeed make you more attractive. A defined skull and facial structure is needed NEEDED, did I say structure already? | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | I don't think NYC will be a great city to meet women in the future.Different parts of nyc and go to other boroughs | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Half of the time it’s because she didn’t really hear you. Make sure she hears you go in thru the side wave your hand. If she makes eye contact or she obviously is ignoring you not trying to make eye contact she rejected you. Just make sure you get the rejection rather than half assing it | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Serious men's seductionReally good comments posted here but I would add they are all extremely subtle. It’s all underlying tone astute at body language/non- verbal communication. Subtleness is hot to women because it’s a game and they love that | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Looks matter..Beside the looks maxing gym appearance etc, just your aura and energy makes you good looking. If your personality, charm basically (seduction) skills are on point your looks sky rocket because you’ll be something entirely in the eyes of people. Look up ugly narcissists for example women still fall for them because it’s what they believe themselves to be true try i | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset?I honestly see women that sleep with many men as a slut. No I am not a hypocrite I respect my body too much I don’t just fuck any woman that I can. I don’t prefer my women to do the same | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:58 PM |
| -2 | FUCKING COWARDYou always gave a fuck more so than anybody on this forum. Always posting insecure shit come on dog you’re too old for that shit. What this guy is saying is right he doesn’t care about the opinion of women but he still wants them. Sure a player gives a fuck he gives a fuck about himself that’s why he’s a player. As for OP go out there you look good it’s hard man I remember those days you get used to it and trust me you won’t even remember the rejections. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How would you define a "bad" boy?A bad boy can be a alpha and vice versa. A bad boy can command authority and respect, it’s just the connotation of the bad “boy”. A bad boy can indeed become a bad man. Not all alphas are kind hearted and friendly. Alphas aren’t a one size fits all you can be a alpha man with a cold heart. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 19 | When is it a good time to ask your fwb if they want to meet?Guys….I don’t think that’s his fwb | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]James tusk and evolution daily, both are realistic and real as fuck. Todd is a fucking robot and don’t get caught up on puas go out and approach women that’s it that’s all | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You want to be polarizing as fuck, to the point where if she’s waiting there talking to you it’s game on. She should expect escalation but also caters to who you are and what you’re looking for. For example really shy girls are a complete turn off I leave immediately. Don’t care for stepping on eggshells | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 17 | The height stuff: Has this happened to anyoneYou can believe him he’s from da source | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Remaining mysterious while answering 'what did you do today?'Met a few of my friends Had to do some “objectives” today Had to do some soul searching Basically just vague but interesting statements | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?Appreciate you tryna help just listen to climbing Up the walls by Radiohead | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?Imagine having a dark edge, you’re in your own world where everything you want is and can be yours. You have the power it’s hard to explain | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?To not care about nothing, living on that edge of the world | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?Yeah more like apathy, it’s a yin and yang | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?What I commented to this poster is a reply to you as well | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Did anybody ever lose themselves in the game?I appreciate the kind words and it’s not a mask perse. What I mean by the post is I’m starting to Become this person I never was before first it was good now it’s bad. Im getting lost in myself call it transcendence, becoming a actual seductive person. To become seductive you must fall in the abyss itself type of mentality. I guess what I’m saying is I’m more dark than I thought I was actually never thought capable. The good vibes you’re starting about I’ve been through that I’m indifferent to i… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many younger girls have such high standards when they are really nobodies?Men can still flip the table but be ready to face lots and lots of rejection. Real men strip women of their artificial value and lots of attractive men get auto rejected. Just keep on playing the field | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many younger girls have such high standards when they are really nobodies?A lot of these girls are not special I’m already past the phase you’re in. Women are nothing special it’s social media that actively displays how thirsty men are. It was like this in the 90s and before but only high status guys got the pums or players (guys willing to approach) not many were back then. The games changed but we young men can make it work | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Why do so many younger girls have such high standards when they are really nobodies?Social media, just being a female will get your dms flooded, liked photos. It’s just social media man | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 8 | What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not?If you a og my boy, just be close to her, stand close to her really close to the point where if you were to lift your arm slightly it would touch her. Most women will back up and it isn’t awkward they carry the conversation but they aren’t interested. Doing that shows you don’t fuck around and to except kino/escalation. Also body language killer eye contact sexual energy etc is needed for this | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I mean a guy that’s looking for some fun and trying to include women in that fun. Both are single in this situation flings etc etc. not talking about Married or relationships. Marriage and bad boys?? Come on now | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes some women wanna have fun but this day and age young women usually play it safe more than usual. I think in the past young women loved adventure and bad boys. Do you agree? It’s just my experience | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]How’d you meet her? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 3 | [24M, Toronto] Why do my cold approaches fail?There’s probably that one mod who’s a tight ass I think he’s not around tbh. A lot of shit is flying on the forum nowadays | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | [24M, Toronto] Why do my cold approaches fail?It’s fine bro he’s a troll a few months ago the mods were a super hard ass ban you for absolutely nothing. Rather have trolls on the forum than posting walking on eggshells | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | How To Instant Date Without Spending Money? 😂Just walk around to window shop or just sit down somewhere | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What do women like more, cut and ripped or husky/strong?Low body fat and a diamond jawline with cheekbones is unmatched tbh | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Need help to talk with womenThey either jealous or are gay, keep doing you | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you think, in developing your game, you should ever do things that don't feel natural to you?Physical escalation and being closer during the approach. Basically sexual tension was a big problem for me but approaching slowly takes little chunks out of your false self, you end up becoming who you were supposed to. You carve who you truly are remember your vision and keep gunning for it by gunning I mean getting out your comfort zone | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Wanna get good fast | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How many approaches should I be doing a week? | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 10:41 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Is it enough volume? I don’t really like venturing to new places I’ve gotten a few areas of good volume I frequently visit. Target and stores are mostly for 1 or 2 approaches right? | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Who said you gotta buy anything 😋 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 10:13 PM |
| -14 | Turn down sex and watch her go crazyI mean before hand before they even got into bed, he didn’t play his cards right from the beginning a more experienced guy would have been able to hold her off in that situation. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 05:07 PM |
| -23 | Turn down sex and watch her go crazyShe wasn’t into him enough to have sex because he didn’t play his cards right, this is a more advanced method of a man who has a grounded dominant frame | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 04:41 PM |
| 102 | Turn down sex and watch her go crazyaye that’s great bro but I would just add that don’t say “second date” don’t mention a specific timeline for when to have sex it’s too logical. Just say we’re moving too fast I wanna take it slow or we’ll see where time takes us etc. it’s more mysterious gets her thinking even more | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone found a sure way to approach and escalate without the awkwardness and creepinessAccept the face that some girls will see you as creepy who cares, accept the game and love it you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Do you talk to women in general?Listen man I understand where people are coming from with “talk to everybody” which is true in a way. I talk to people I have to regarding work social interactions etc but yes I only approach women and talk to them mostly. Only way to get good with women is talking to women sure talking to everybody helps but women should be the most focused. Women are not much different from men in terms of social interaction getting good with women via approaching means you’ll be good with people alike. Focus … | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s a major difference, a overweight or fat Man will to me look extremely un masculine. Low body fat coupled with muscles looked masculine af. I’d suggest this route but if I had to choose one itd be low body fat. Your face looks better if you have the genetics also sports/weightlifting etc just makes you healthy plus a ass kicking hobby. If you wanna live this life get your ass in shape period | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 12:34 AM |
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