Why does it always come down to the gym?

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-08-06T08:13:53+00:00

Because it’s true, being hot, even as a guy covers up a multitude of problems and defects. If you’re hot you have more women that are attracted to you, people wanna be your friend, people trust you, better job prospects.

Bake_Pretend · 2022-08-06T06:59:18+00:00

Because being fit changes how u look and this is a major part of the game. It’s sad to know that’s how shallow people are but that’s just the way it is.

Southofsouth · 2022-08-06T08:56:03+00:00

You don’t go to the gym, or make money, or learn to dance, or go to therapy, or go to uni to get women.

You do those things to be the best version of yourself

MissionAd399 · 2022-08-06T06:56:49+00:00

Do both🤷‍♂️

nofapPLEASESTOP · 2022-08-06T13:20:41+00:00

Going to the gym will improve your weight and looks but it won’t get you women.

I went to the gym 5x a week last year and nothing changed. If your status stays the same, nothing happens. You also still need to talk to the women.

Hook_me_up · 2022-08-06T08:18:34+00:00

Just a tip, dont go to the gym to lose weight. Instead, go to the gym to build muscle.

The weight will come off too eventually, but id you've got a nice muscle mass, your total daily energy expenditure will be higher, and you'll burn way more calories off compared to 30 minutes of elliptical or whatever

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-06T11:54:12+00:00

You don’t need to go to the gym to lose weight fast, you just need to stop eating all types of sugar and sweet stuff, stop eating processed food, and stop eating simple carbs (like white rice, pasta, potatoes, cereals, snacks, fast food, yoghurt, and most sweet fruits).

If you do that, you will be using fat for fuel, and burning body fat like crazy.

Gym is for building muscle, not to lose weight. Weight is lost in the kitchen.

LZoSoFR · 2022-08-06T13:32:37+00:00

Losing your body fat is coming down to one thing, which is a calorie deficit. Which is the reason you have powerlifters or strongmen even though they have so much muscle, they still consume more calories than they burn.

Looking AND feeling good physically comes down to 3 things: nutrition, strength training and cardio workouts. Balance the 3 by talking to a nutritionist and a professional strength coach. And not reddit comments.

I know it because I'm a professional myself, and keep track of the new scientific research

guseng97 · 2022-08-06T15:59:07+00:00

There are women that don’t care about being fit, others do; you usually find different types of people in different social circles, and you don’t have to try to get into something you don’t like just for the sake of getting with someone. If you wanna go to the gym, go ahead, but do it for yourself. My wife and I are both muscular and that’s because we like to train, we have that in common, amongst other stuff too. Focus on what you like and it could serve you well

Temporary_Pair_5829 · 2022-08-06T09:22:32+00:00

you answered your own question. I do want to go to the gym to lose weight.

You want to do it regardless of game or pick up you have a goal you want to hit. Go for it , smash it, become a God and you make the decision of which of them are worth your physique.

Find a woman that can financially support your growing creatine addiction. Spike her titty milk with it so your children can bench 320 at the age of 4. Let the genes of your spawn pass on for generations.

PugsleyAdams4 · 2022-08-06T08:44:39+00:00

It's also healthy, you'll see how much more your body gives back if you loose weight. It's not just optical. Also working out releases chemicals to your brain that improve your mood. There's nothing stopping you from dating in the meantime.

DaveTheDrummer802 · 2022-08-06T09:40:36+00:00

It doesn't come down to the gym. It comes down to your diet. 95% of looking good is diet. Step 1: only drink water. Nothing else. Not diet soda, not anything else but water. If you can't/won't do that, you aren't going to be successful.

FaroukTheNoob · 2022-08-06T10:57:51+00:00

Gym will have a really great positive cycle in your life that will help ya pretty much in every field that can be improved

2022-08-06T12:30:10+00:00

You’re just making excuses. Blah blah blah. Just get off your ass and do it.

Why do you think you can’t have a girlfriend of you commit 6 hours a week to lifting (3 x 2 hours).

Amikatey · 2022-08-06T14:05:20+00:00

Keep approaching women. And your weight is only at the surface level confidence and personality (game) will take you so far.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-06T16:09:32+00:00

This is just me thinking like a heavier version of myself. Find a heavier girl that wouldn't mind sharing some fitness goals with you.

zbononcini · 2022-08-06T17:44:29+00:00

Fat girls are not hot either

sincere_blasphemy · 2022-08-06T18:00:13+00:00

Hey there! I recently discovered exercise (haha) and I've been doing it just for my own health and well-being. It's really important to move around, even if it's something small. You can always take a dance or martial arts class or something of that nature. It feels so good to exercise regularly; it will improve your mood and make you feel more confident in yourself. It's hard to start, but that's why I suggest taking a class. That way you are held accountable, haha.

You absolutely do not need to start exercising for anyone other than yourself. I find that doing it for yourself is a better motivator anyways. If you are doing it to do appeal to others, then the change is often superficial and can come with insecurities or impostor syndrome.

I'm not sure your current weight range, but I have heard that if you are really heavy, it's more effective to lose weight through dieting first and then trying to build muscle. Just to avoid putting a lot of pressure on your joints. Don't quote me though, I am no expert.

Mundane_Natural5131 · 2022-08-06T19:10:41+00:00

Same thing with women when they have nice legs and ass everyone prefers them over the flat one or the fat one i cant complain when we are all the same and prefer the highest value one in the looks department dont complain bro just hit the gym everyone is happy in the end because you feel better when you look better and your partner is happier to have you by their side its a win win for everyone

rjones416 · 2022-08-06T19:51:43+00:00

theres no rule saying that you cant date until you achieve your goal body. stop making this an issue.

Necrosaro_123 · 2022-08-06T20:17:51+00:00

Sadly, just like Mark Manson said on his book "Models", you require the double "F" in your life....Fitness and Fashion.

Work on yourself, invest on you. Dont chase the ladies. Remember that is also supposed to be interested in you. Make friends (both men and women) and improve your social skills.

Learn to take care of yourself.

And pay attention to female friends that maybe interested in you. Dont miss oportunities. Learn how to read women. (Read it in a book if you have to, i just shared you one).

Get new hobbies. Hit the gym as a new hobbie. At first it will be painfull, after, its going to be an obsesion and you will love it. Dont give up! Its hard but the trip is worth it!

BensonInFL · 2022-08-07T06:03:20+00:00

Why does it always come down to the gym?

Not only does it make you more attractive, but its a signal that you're not lazy, that you can follow a routine, that you can be successful at something, that you have discipline.

but i dont want to not date or approach women during this time. So what I should do?

Who said you had to wait? Approach now and think of it as practice

-B

Title	Why does it always come down to the gym?
Author	godfall888
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Date	August 6, 2022 6:54 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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