Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?

Contango6969 · 2022-06-14T23:49:55+00:00

Yeah there is. They all follow like the same arc.

Powerful man meets girl in chance encounter... Girl makes some kind of impression on him... In another chance encounter they meet again... Man remembers girl asks her on romantic date... These repeat with some build up... They have sex and he is 100% committed because her special magical pussy is the best he’s ever had

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-15T00:19:46+00:00

They are all more or less the same…

Important, powerful, rebellious, hot, or out of the ordinary man meets a random average girl on a regular typical day for the girl, (A girl that no one really pays much attention to also) but who somehow the man thinks she is different or special for x reason.

He begins to find her fascinating for who she is on the inside, and takes her out, they have some kind of exciting adventure together which makes the girl feel more alive than ever, and they kiss on an intimate moment and have sex.

The girl feels like this guy who was kind of a rebel acts more sweet to her and she feels like she can change him, so that he is more “good”.

Then the guy is conflicted about staying faithful to who he was or whether to change for her, and eventually he ends up being truly committed to her no matter his past or what his friends or anyone else has to say, and they live happily ever after.

What you can learn is:

1 - You have to be high value guy, or stand out somehow.

2 - You have to act like she has something special that others girls don’t have, something unique beyond her looks.

3 - Make her feel like she is proving to be much more interesting than any other girl and not just because she is hotter

4 - Create sexual tension to escalate things physically on an intimate moment, not acting platonic or friendly.

The thing you can discard is the idea that you have to change for her, or that you have to beg her to be with her, or that you have to act like she is the only one you will ever love as that is when the fiction becomes more obvious.

2022-06-14T23:33:50+00:00

It is all about fictional romance!

Long_Restaurant1931 · 2022-06-15T00:05:47+00:00

You know, I do think we can. Shows like love island, the ultimatum, bachelorette/bachelor. It’s cheesy and what not but a lot of them seem to have a common denominator and to me, it’s communication. The presence or lack there of. I think we can learn a lot about what makes a girl tick and how we can be the best partner we can be for them and also the best version of ourselves. But that’s just my take

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-15T03:16:26+00:00

Women like sex more then men do

And they want it animalistic beast mode from a guy who can deliver

BostonWeedParty · 2022-06-15T00:34:08+00:00

Trying to be like the male hero of a romantic novel is about as realistic as being a real life James bond

-Mavs · 2022-06-15T07:12:18+00:00

Be attractive.
Don’t be unattractive.

Title	Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?
Author	150420throwaway
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Date	June 14, 2022 11:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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