How do I start being more direct and making the convos more playful/going into sexual territory?

Revolutionary_Fan733 · 2022-07-24T10:18:42+00:00

Most communication is done non verbally. If you want to be sexual then stop talking. Use your eyes to convey flirtiness, playfulness and to lead into a kiss. Dont talk about “deep” topics, never talk about anything deep with women. Always keep it playful and casual and keep the subject about them. It’s easier to tease that way. And also easier to flirt as well. Use your imagination man, try to imagine how you’d tap that ass and get your hormones working. Then start from there.

Bobfizzer123 · 2022-07-24T08:16:09+00:00

It might seem weird but literally catch them off guard and go in with a more aggressive or sexual comment. Obviously don’t seem overly creepy or sexual but I find it best to comment about something that makes them look good (hair, eyes, smile) just try to be smooth with it bc at the end of the day everyone likes being praised on how they look, and because u do find them attractive it’s good to be truthful about their qualities. Also try to engage the topic in the most playful way possible, so it feels more natural and can only be taken in a positive way

letsgetrandy · 2022-07-24T07:58:06+00:00

Casually, somewhat playfully, drop hints that you're already convinced that's where it's headed. For example, while you're in a "deep conversation" about whatever you think is "deep", and you hit a point where the two you you have slightly different opinions on something, just smile and say, "okay, I'll concede for now, but later on when we're in bed together, you're going to admit you agree with me." And other, similar things. Just keep suggesting that you already know this is where it's going...

And then (importantly) pay attention to her responses. If she looks you directly in the eye and says "sorry if you got the wrong impression", then stop and take note of the fact that she's absolutely giving you a "no." But if she smiles and says "oh really? you think we're going to end up in bed?" Then the answer is rapidly proceeding to "yes."

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-24T11:40:43+00:00

After the girl has been talking about herself for a while tell her:

You: “I wanna tell you something”
Her: “What?”
You: “You’re the kind of girl I would invite over to watch a movie, but not to watch the movie”
Her: “To do what then?”
You: “Adult things… like paying taxes, cleaning the house, paying the bills…”

Another ones you can say:

You: “You know the more i look at you, the more distracted i get with those eyes of yours, can you tell your eyes to stop being so attractive? Thank you”
You: “That cute smile of yours is making me crazy”
You: You are so funny and smart, that my heart started to get excited”

You: “I’m trying to listen to you and give you my full attention, but it gets so hard trying not to look at your legs”

Basically you need to show your sexual desire for the girl, it’s not just about telling her she looks pretty or some compliment, its about telling her what effect she has in you.

That’s the important part, what emotions her attributes provoke you.

RealGsDontSleep · 2022-07-24T08:19:56+00:00

I always start calling them baby lol

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-07-24T10:38:52+00:00

I agree with the catching them off guard, usually i'll make like half a joke then go "meh maybe i shouldn't finish this one" then they wanna know and i finish it, it's really about testing the waters slowly, and if they're responsive then it's nothing but a good thing

Title	How do I start being more direct and making the convos more playful/going into sexual territory?
Author	150420throwaway
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Comments	11
Date	July 24, 2022 7:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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