When I was younger (21 now) I would receive snaps from some girls and it would sometimes be what I would class as a ‘cliff hanger’ snap, aka attention seeking. Got a snap from a girl I didn’t talk to in ages but we used to be friends from a charity+bushcraft/outdoors event (I tried inviting her out twice and twice she “had work”).

Now I received a snap from her (after I decided to send Christmas wishes to people) which mentioned “hopefully no more fake friends” along with new year wishes.

My oonga boonga brain would think “hmm, let’s ask about it” but my more developed, or the ascended brain thinks it’s another attention seeking snap, aka waste of my time. I could mention it but not ask anything about it, but I’m open to hearing what people here, ideally more experienced, have to say and any advice with dealing with this