I know the answer is somewhat easy - find more girls, I’m in a scarcity mindset, but fuck me, even after I was ‘scarred’ by one girl like that few years back I got this feeling back now and I feel like fucking shit after talking about it with a close friend.

The problem is that I’m 22 and so is she and me and the friend talked about how she definitely gets plenty of attention and my friend saw her making out with a few guys when he was out with her friend group a while back and I would be lying if that didn’t kind of make me feel like shit, but I can’t really blame her, id definitely take advantage of that attention if I was putting myself out there.

Right now I’m not sure what signals I’m getting, but I believe I’m giving off a potential boyfriend vibe, so idk if that’s good or bad. I don’t want to give out too many details but we see each other every few days for a hobby we’re both doing.

Any advice/past experience? I think I need another scarring to just change the way I think about this and have my fun as well. Shed a few tears and become the typical ‘asshole’ for a while to have my own fun.