I’m more than capable of talking to people on different levels, I love meaningful topics but I realise that I am not the greatest when it comes to those initial first few moments. I can talk on a fairly platonic level, make her laugh, but I don’t know how to escalate it.

I guess my flirting needs working on. It’s not bad but I definitely have some form of ‘barrier’ along with not being aware of what I should be aiming for.

Any advice please?