How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2022-05-08T20:04:58+00:00

Use this as fuel for conversation; “what’s your love language?”

Cards_s · 2022-05-09T05:28:46+00:00

You guys think way too much.

If she break rules or her rules for you, you are golden, if she doesnt or makes rules for you, drop her and look for another girl.

real_mort · 2022-05-08T20:04:34+00:00

Maybe just go according to statistics? Like which ones are the most common love languages? They should give you the highest chance of getting it right. Idk how you can find out for sure apart from asking

norwegiandoggo · 2022-05-08T20:42:51+00:00

You ask her

Frosty-Parsley9140 · 2022-05-08T21:40:05+00:00

What in the actual fuck 🤦🏻‍♂️ the last fucking thing you do is talk about love language or feelings when u first meet a girl. Or even on the first couple of dates

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-08T20:59:47+00:00

You should not try to adapt to girls preferences, that is recipe for disaster.

You can’t build a genuine connection if you try to adapt to a type of “love language” that isn’t really yours.

it’s incongruent.

SageThisAndSageThat · 2022-05-08T20:17:44+00:00

Try things like https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language ?

DeltaKaze · 2022-05-08T23:57:26+00:00

Just ask

catniagara · 2022-05-09T03:04:50+00:00

Watch romantic comedies because most of us respond to the same basic things. We like people who like us.

2022-05-09T04:46:36+00:00

Try all of them but save the touching for one of the last.

Title	How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?
Author	150420throwaway
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	May 8, 2022 7:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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