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No matter how many books you read, without practice, skill doesn't develop. Look into more books on socials skills first. Social skills are more beneficial, as they allow you to grasp body language and nuances in voice tone, beyond what mere PUA books offer.
/r/seduction06/05/24 12:55 PM
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“He Who Hesitates Masturbates.” Don't hesitate when approaching someone you're interested in. If you find them attractive, make a direct approach without overthinking it.
/r/seduction24/04/24 04:58 AM
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Ultimately, prioritize what brings you happiness. Your life isn't defined by others' opinions, so there's no need to concern yourself with what they think of you. Everyone seems more interested in others' lives than their own. Their opinions don't pay your bills. Relax, enjoy the moment with the women, and act nonchalant as if it doesn't bother you. If someone has something to say, simply respond with "You mad? It's not your concern."
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:48 PM
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She's put you in the friend zone, my friend. I'm not sure how you don't see the disrespect in her blatantly telling you about another guy. It's time to stop interacting with her and move on to another woman.
/r/seduction08/04/24 08:01 AM
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I'm not sure if I'm interpreting what you said correctly or if it's out of context, but it appears that you two haven't even been on a date yet. Why would you consider getting into a relationship with someone you haven't even dated? You need to either schedule a date with this woman or move on. If you text her, make it clear that you want to set a date and avoid any further back-and-forth.You could call her to gauge her interest first.
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:05 AM
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When I was in my early 20s, not going to lie it was easy to pull older women 30+ and up. Some going through divorces, baby drama, mid-life crisis etc. The women I see now in their 30s, of this generation. Alot of women are on anxiety medications, unstable, instantly looking for marriage from the next man they run into. A friend of mine went on a date with a girl, early thirties and she was already approaching a mid-life crisis when he mentioned wanting to travel saying she cant do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:01 AM
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Facts, looks just get you into the door. Do you know how corny some guys can be around women. No personality, their questions are generic or they act way too goofy
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:47 AM
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Less is more—If they ask you why you don’t talk alot. Ask them what would you like to ask me, or what do you want to talk about. Those two questions there stump people alot. You will here I don’t know, or they start thinking of something to ask you. You can answer and then flip the question back onto the other person. Which in-turn can start a better conversation overall.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:31 AM
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Hell nah dudes deserves to be petty in this situation if he chooses 🤣. Her hiding that for 8 years, dude needs a rebate of that money back.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 02:29 AM
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Agreed best to catch them on a potential way out, or in the elevator, parking lot if you’re both on your way out of the gym
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:23 AM
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💀🤣 if you really want me to reach I definitely can bring up some actual history for you. If we want to go there. That statement was acting making a foolery of the nonsense in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:14 AM
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Joking or not I agree these occur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:31 AM
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Guys do things that will make a girl cry for a couple days. Girls will do shit that will eat at your soul. Agreed but women have a tenacity to be very petty with their cruelty. Because when they hit they go for the kill no prisoners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:49 AM
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Hmm 🤔 going to be facetious here. But didn’t Eve eat the damn apple first. And was there many wars fought after a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:46 AM
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I laugh to myself about it. Because if you really look at it they’re just being themselves without a care or expectation. They’re going to be doing that samething everyday. Its not about getting a GF its about going on your day without expectation of having or looking for one.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 09:43 AM
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There are homeless people who have relationships on the streets where I live. If they got relationship anyone on this planet can get one.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 09:03 AM
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Im dead 💀🤣. I walk around my city and see bums in relationships. If they got relationships I’m sure everyone else can. Stop the woe is me.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 08:55 AM
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Depends, most people don’t really take care of themselves of let themselves go as they get lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:49 AM
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I have a saying, “I adore all types of women, I just don’t date all types of women.”
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:44 AM
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Supposedly they had women who had PHDs and Doctorates for what you’re actually claiming. You have to look at a professional women going on a show like that. That can diminish their returns and credibility in the market of their profession. We’re not talking about the View, or Good Morning America here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:06 AM
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Ive watched the podcast a few times, Myron is/sounds educated. Does he have his moments of outburst of course. Its a live podcast, how do you get views, by providing entertainment. Some of things that are discussed is very valid, but you also have to consider where Fresh and Fit live. Which is Miami, and speaking to family out in Florida it really is like that out there in Miami from whats portrayed on that podcast. From Millionaires, Beautiful women, Social Media Scammers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:52 AM
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Exactly this, don‘t waste your time.
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:26 AM
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This is a joke right, just say Hi in the gym itself gtfo 🤣
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:49 PM
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Not so much about not giving a funk, more so what a person will tolerate. As well as respecting yourself first and not willing to change for anyone but you. Each individuals knows the choices they’re making and what their intentions are. If you say something that someone doesn’t like, thats fine but at least you’re being yourself and not changing because of how someone feels. As you cant control how someone feels no matter what anyone says its just words being spoken.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:08 PM
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Never provide advice unless someone else is asking for it. Especially in the gym, unless you’re their actual trainer. The gym for many is a place of peace for the mind and body. Ive been in the gym and seen the gym boys club and the guy who tries to game all the time. For me I choose not to spoil my environment, Ive seen girls take videos, photos of me, place themselves in my orbit or adjacent to me. I still choose not to engage unless they talk to me, maybe in passing or if we’re in the elevato…
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:58 PM
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💀🤣 its so true though, alot of individuals don’t think logically before they act. Very reactive then proactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:02 PM
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I agree they’re still children at that age since they say the brain should be fully matured at 25, sometimes earlier or later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:45 PM
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I would say 18 and fresh out of college, is a no but 25+ year women dating someone in their 30s nothing wrong with it, imo. As you have older women in their 30s-50s dating younger men. When I was 25 I was sleeping with much older women 36-44. From a women’s perspective, what do they say it makes the women feel young again. But when its a 25+ year old women dating a man in his 30s they throw shame. Funny how that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:09 PM
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I understand where you’re coming from, but if the guys is not confident at his age the older women will play him for acting like a schoolboy. I’m sure you’ve heard “Im too old for you, you wouldn’t know what to do.” If his talk game ain’t quick with it. He’s out either way
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:19 PM
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Huh!?! Taking advantage they’re both grown adults she knows what she is doing at her age now with a younger guy. Why hide your intentions, he’s not trying to be her friend.
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:36 AM
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Props to you, seems like you’re having your fun. I hope you’re strapping up my guy. 56 girls though I just have to say, I could handle 5 max in college but now 2 is max. I don’t like wasting my money on multiple women regardless of sex or not.
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:52 AM
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High Value and being in the Top 1% are arbitrary to me. Not every millionaire/billionaire is over 6’ foot nor or all of them considered handsome, charming, etc. Not every millionaire/billionaire is of high status say like a celeb/athlete, some hide in plain site, not on social media and aren’t materialistic. I have met plenty of millionaires who wear white tees,cargo shorts and Jesus sandals, and you wouldn’t even know they were millionaires until they told you their story. There is no differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:48 AM
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It just feels like I have to be this emotionless sociopath in order for me keep my sanity. Its not about being a sociopath, its your own happiness and knowing that as a man no one is going to help you but yourself. In this regard you should know when you’re being disrespected and things you will not tolerate from others. Thats the I don’t give a funk attitude that is perceived from others. Because you don’t care about the outcome.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:54 PM
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My only advice would be to stop acting like a bitch. I can hear just the tone from the keyboard. Im dead 💀🤣 too funny my guy.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:46 PM
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We all seem to know what her intentions are. But I would take the conversation in a flirting way to ask her what her intentions were reaching out to you. I would go direct at this point after you got your answer thats just me, especially since this women is older. And its not just small talk leading no where.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:43 PM
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I agree, as well as people catfish showing angles or old picks. I dislike dating apps, as it takes away the social skills of an individual. I like to be direct and approach the women I find attractive. Read their body language, gauge their interest, see if we have similarities, what their personality is like. And can we have a mature conversation.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 12:20 AM
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When you start tricking women into sex or deliberately going after younger woman, you are no better than an abuser and predator. Alot of naïveté, just in this statement alone, so a 40 year old is taking advantage of a 30 year old and 50 year old is taking advantage of a 40 year old. Or is it just a 30+ year old and a 20+ year old being together a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:17 PM
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This whole thread is hilarious, saying a 30+ year old man is gross to 20+ years old. When on dating apps the age gap rule is -7/+7. Plenty of celebs date well beyond that gap rule granted they’re celebs. Also with how generics work some men and women they age gracefully and look 10 years younger then their age. Sounds like a bunch of older women bitter and angry for some reason. The older the women gets the higher the percentage of failed pregnancy if that is what she wants. Lola Jones is a prim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:55 PM
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With a Mother and Grandmother who were huge on their looks. They influence me at an early age as a man to take care of my skin, body etc. So every where I go I need to look good no matter what. You never know who you will run into just running an errand, for me it could a dime piece, friend, a client etc. Perception is everything and that one time can change everything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:08 AM
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I wouldn’t say its about being toxic, asshole, manipulator etc. its presenting yourself proper, confident, being firm. What I mean by being firm and confident is that you’re happy regardless if you have the women or not. You’re firm in your decisions, a charming asshole but not an asshole in the sense where you degrade the individual. Charming asshole, “I liked you better as a blonde then a brunette” type way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:28 AM
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Its because you’re making the women’s beauty more then what it truly is. It should be no different then talking to an elderly lady then it is a women who you find attractive. At the end of the day they’re both women, one is just older in years.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:33 AM
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Just be careful in this situation especially the gym since you go regularly. You could spoil your environment if things get messy.
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:16 AM
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Why can’t we be super direct “ hey I thought you were hot and wanted to know if you down to fuck “ . You can be direct in some cases and situations, but don’t go flat out asking for sex, you look and sound desperate. Your approach is wrong, no need to tell a women shes hot, pretty etc im sure she heard that from her friends, family, other girls and guys several times. She will just take the compliment for what it is. Alot of women also do not like rejection, as a man we have to approach and cour…
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:55 AM
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If the date is set no need to text anymore. If she text you wanting to talk let her know she can tell you when you guys meet on set day of the date.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:23 AM
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Reason the chats are dead is because there is a back and forth. You need a direction and logistics to hangout. This allows the conversation to continue from in-person.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:20 AM
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Depends on the circumstances, older women go for younger guys as the older men no longer want them and go for the younger women. They say they would date you, if you were older. if you have the confidence and balls to say this, ”Since I am not why don‘t you just fuck me then.“ With older women you can be straight forward
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:16 AM
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Definitely agree have to go about life and not go out looking but enjoying your own life.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:12 AM
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Time to pull back any effort now, let her reach out you have piped her multiple times. Don’t get attached as others have said, you have to be willing to let her go. Have her sense that you have other options
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:09 AM
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Depends, there’s a difference between someone explaining the reasons why they‘re busy. I got this or that going on. But flat out Im busy and no description. Just ask ”what days work“, no response move on
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:21 PM
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The flip side of this is to never hang on to a girl as though she is some sort of future opportunity. Reach out once in a while, but have no expectations or emotional investment. Agreed with this, just enjoy the moment, a lot of women always comeback, if you left the door open. It’s like cats.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:54 PM
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I wouldn’t ghost, just in general its shitty imo. Man up and tell her directly whats up. Regardless to me its a better approach to be direct, no matter the outcome, unless she knows where you live and your car, then 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:39 AM
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You have to pick your battles carefully, you have to know for sure that women’s confidence level and personality. More of a James Bond smirk so they know you’re joking entirely.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:22 AM
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Age and Weight...Goodluck with that one
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:10 AM
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Begged? If you’re going to Neg make it more in a form of banter-flirt and not fully go completely ragging on the poor girl. For me it’s weight, age and fashion and sometimes makeup. You still can get away with fashion and makeup, if you know how to properly do it.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:05 AM
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I wear my prescription reading glasses. Also glasses have now become more fashionable if you get the right frames to match your face and style. Prescripts or non prescripts
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:41 AM
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I mostly let the women ask me if I am single. Go in with the mentality that the women does not have a boyfriend, unless it’s brought up by her. It’s bit strange to just ask that in the initial approach and then just walk away. Subtle thing you can do is, if you had a decent conversation. "If it doesn’t work out here is my number.“ See if she takes it, and walk away like it doesn’t affect you.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:29 PM
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I agree with this. Treat all women the same, don’t even bring up the social media. Let her do that and act surprised in a calm manner “Like oh shit, thats whats up” nonchalantly, likes its no big deal. Dont talk about any other dudes/orbiters.
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:35 PM
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Get straight to the point with the women. You got their number for a reason. To ask them out, not chit chat over the phone on things that can be discussed better in person.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:43 PM
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Huh? That doesn’t make sense you have a number there are two ways to use a phone number you call or text.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:26 PM
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Spoke a long time ago? Have you gone on a date with this chick yet? Once you convert from app to phone number. Call first, talk for like 10 minutes max set up a date. Or you just become a text buddy very similar to the app. Could have just stayed on the app if thats all you wanted to do.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:09 PM
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How did you get the person numbers, was it in person, over an app you didn’t provide that info.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:51 PM
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Not sure why you’re trying to have a deep conversation through text. Save all that for in person.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:42 PM
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Could be a combination of both, also we don’t know how you come off after you have sex with these women. Could be coming off hella clingy after smashing or your sex game is bad, or potentially bad breath, or just your vibes to 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:53 AM
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Doesn’t do what often?
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:32 AM
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Ask the girl why they’re asking when it comes to casual/serious to get a better understanding. On age be upfront, nothing to be ashamed about as we all get older. anything you make a big deal out of the women will to.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:36 PM
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I would only initiate contact one time per week. They don’t respond you move on until they reach out.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:19 PM
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Chill, talk to other girls until she texts you. She’s traveling at the moment, no reason to text her, if you can’t meet in person.
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:25 AM
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Depends on what your entire motives are. Shoot her a text in the next few days asking when she is free to hangout.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:26 PM
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Shouldn’t have feelings, it’s one date, one kiss and you should have waited to see if the girl texted you first, before you progressed. Chill, date other women and see if they text you back.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:17 AM
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I wouldn’t have brought it up in a sense, your girl is always coming back to you. Gotta give them that freedom to choose. She decides to do anything like that or you hear, can’t be afraid to walk away.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:10 AM
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Interesting, that last part Evolutionary Goals, which I’ve seen a lot with couples, from friends relationships. From a man’s perspective having a vision,mission purpose in life, that exudes onto the women into the relationship of both wanting to do better in life.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:00 AM
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I agree with what you have said in both your comments. I look at approaching a different way now over my years of dating. Because we all are approaching individuals in general whenever we walk out the door to purchase anything, or walk this earth. You go to a Starbucks, you have to approach the person there I see it as nothing different then a ordinary daily task as you explained as well
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:36 AM
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It happens to all of us
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:50 AM
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I don’t like texting really,because I don’t have all day to be wondering what someone is doing, eating whatever. Texting you get too comfortable and have nothing to really use in person, because all those questions you asked can be used in person for better rapport. I mean the 2 hour thing that’s up to you, longest I would do is 30 mins away max for me.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:42 AM
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I’m not sure why you didn’t flirt/banter with the chick grabbing your hand. Like “You trying to hold my hand, I know there soft right.” Something long those lines.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:16 AM
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I feel ya, I’m an extroverted person and don’t like quietness unless I am truly by myself. You just have to gauge the person you come into contact with. What’s their body language like, are they looking down and what not.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:12 AM
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That’s your perception though, not the chicks. Same thing when you’re at college, work or an apartment complex, and etc . People may have been there for days,months,years, but you don’t talk to everyone or have to acknowledge them. I can say the same for walking into an elevator as well. Sometimes you have to make that other person put in the effort, if they choose to.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:06 AM
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You talk to the chick in class, ask her out in person the next class. You only 17 so can’t really do much besides maybe a Highschool Party, coffee, lunch date, theme park etc cause your age. Or ask her what’s she’s getting into over the weekend - (Do this in person). As for texting, just ask her when she is free to meet up next - This is a simple text
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:03 AM
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Yeah don’t text a girl to know where she buys weed. This shouldn’t even be the first text messages. Get the girl comfortable first, you start hanging out in person, ask her that shit, then. You shouldn’t be texting randomly, phone should be used for setting dates, or linking for hook ups.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:58 AM
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A lot of women just like the attention in the gym, should have asked for the number first time. Now I wouldn’t even pay her no mind, not even look her way in any regard, or you will come off creepy trying to always make eye contact. Go in the gym and do what you came there and that’s workout.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:54 AM
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Don’t go in with any expectations, feelings as well. It’s hard to say when it comes to feelings, which you shouldn’t have in early stages of dating. It’s more of, you have to see if the women is investing in you as well. Mirror the women when it comes to texting, pullback when they do and only text once a week to make a date. Until the women starts texting you more, (initiating)I still would limit the texting maybe 2-3 exchanges when she does, that’s their way of saying I want to see you and ask…
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:48 AM
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Not sure whats the issue approaching woman, there is no difference between the girl working at a starbucks and a girl walking the street. Ones just serves you coffee and you go on your way. End of the day its just a person.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:20 AM
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You can straight up ask them out, or float the conversation of what they got going on after Salsa class. “I’m about to slide over to such and such bar, before I head home. You trying to grab drinks before you leave. Dont say this verbatim, but you should understand the route here, and it’s more casual, and if more people come you can pull a 1:1 convo at the bar
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:37 PM
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Most times, now if its at night, that is a hook up, if yall are drunk. If its a Sunday Funday its better as its during the daytime.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:22 AM
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To be honest some women’s places, are worse then mens living spaces theses days. As we know as men we have to have a clean place when inviting a chick over and not look sloppy. So all depends how you keep your spot. Also how close you’re on a date from the location, either from your spot or hers.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:19 AM
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Right down a list of what you want in a girl. You date them, ask questions, check for red flags etc.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:40 AM
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Dip out and chuck up the deuces, never let someone play mind games with you especially 2 sisters.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:38 AM
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Weird I’m black, light skin but not too light, and been to Houston, they be looking.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:41 AM
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It all depends, if you go seeking the attention you won’t get it. You go about your day doing the things you need to get done, being aware but also not giving a funk(indifference).It happens naturally being it’s not being perceived that you’re looking or seeking attention to be looked at.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:31 AM
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Wtf, talking shit about other men? Are you interested in other men, other men shouldn’t even be brought up in conversation unless a broad brings up an ex randomly in convo.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:40 AM
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Depends on where you met the broad , in person or online. The vibes you give off for them to suggested meeting you in a public setting with people who they’re familiar with.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:37 AM
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Before, she left I would have slightly pulled her hand back and said “Yo, if you’re going to grab my dick, just know we funking tonight.” None of that other shit about flaccid dicks, she ain’t interested in that, reason why she grabbed it.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:33 AM
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Idk, by the sounds of it, you came off hella cringey and lurk full. Why do I say that, just from reading it felt like you had nothing else to do besides wanting to tag along with this girl, in everything she did. Let the bish breathe, and texting the next day?… 🤔 Kinda creepy— wouldn’t you say? Maybe she gave you the number to get rid of you, gotta spit harsh facts here. But hey maybe she texts you back 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:25 AM
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You do whatever you choose to do in life. You’re your own person. It’s not about mending or forgiveness to me especially not about taking advantage or money involvement. It’s about growth as an individuals, overcoming diversity to become a better man and person in society. Putting the negativity of circumstances in the past and moving on enjoying the moments, as you can be gone tomorrow at any age. I don’t care what the problem/issues was, everyone wants to put the blame on someone else, but afr…
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:09 AM
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Leave it on read, and play it off if she says anything if you see her. Like yeah Tacos looked good. Let her initiate the actual text message back, you said what you had to say. Ball is in her court to hit it back over the net.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:12 AM
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Never bring it up to a girl you just met; about not texting/message you back. You sound desperate and needy. The girl will pull back, you do not need to do anything else unless she answers And why her IG and not phone number, wtf. You a fan of hers...
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:18 PM
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I was thinking something like "I'm doing x at y. If you're free join me. I would only use this if a girl reached out to me asking what I was doing. Similar to when they ask are you up? The approach should be more, Hey, let me know when you’re free next so we can grab drinks, (etc)*whatever y’all discussed when you got her number.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:55 PM
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The girl suggested “Netflix and Hangout”, we all know what that saying and meme means. Never slut shame a women, you have now learned that lesson. The girl invited you over, you watch whatever, she leans in you make your move.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:28 PM
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Shouldn’t have asked her if she does this all the time, what did you expect with that response. Pretty much slut shame the girl and she closed off on you. Did you think you were going to just watch Netflix and play board games?
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:24 PM
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No need to text her again, if a date is scheduled. I do hope you provided the logistics, like meet me here at…time, or I am picking you up, etc. You go back to texting after the date is scheduled you have nothing to talk about and a potential flake can occur. If she likes you she will reach out asking if the date is still on, if not assume you’re and go to your destination. Don’t need a confirmed text.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:14 PM
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Well, you acted like one in these examples, It’s brutal truth, but lesson learned.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:37 PM
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Don’t validate right away, saying things of beautiful and all that stuff the girl has not earned that from you. You say that she is beautiful next minute you go on a date find out the girl is crazy. Is that still beautiful to you now?
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:29 PM
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The girl is playing games with you. She text you school Friday work Sunday and then might work on Saturday. Rescind the invite. If she “agreed” a day or two days would have been given for you to choose from. Tell her when she figures out her schedule to get back to you. Don’t text her anymore, until she initiates back.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:29 AM
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In this case I knew we couldn't escalate (due to logistics) so I downplayed it. 'I can show you later. But I don't want to tell you now. Don't you like surprises?'. She persisted and I said 'You tell me just one thing you like, and I'll do the same. But let's keep some mystery for later'. I wouldn’t have answered the way you did. I would have said “Why are you asking, you trying to do something right now, like suck my dick.” Throw that shit back on her and see if she is truly dtf. And out in pub…
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:18 AM
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Tf, you letting the girl meet the fams already 🤣
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:33 AM
1

You stuck in the friendzone, ran the girl off with that going beyond friendship talk
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:07 PM
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Y’all haven’t even met yet, and 3 months of talking online, wtf. Until y’all meet which will never happen, a girl is not going to fly out especially from the Philippines she doesn’t know you like that, to Canada. Are you sure this person is a girl? Because if not you may get scammed.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:05 PM
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No group dates, until she is your girlfriend. One of your mates/friends saying something about you that should have not been said and it gets back to the girl, ruins your chances. Also cockblocks in either side of the groups. Friends have done this to me and a brawl happen between groups if they have male friends.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:09 PM
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Yep what duke said, get to the point, ask her for the addy, “ill be there at this time”
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:01 PM
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Based off what I read, you seem to be smothering her. All I heard was I” I” I”, you don’t need to be speaking on the way to home or work all the time. Go back and read what you wrote, sounds like you’re in a damn marriage when you’re not. You’re not calling to see what’s for dinner or if I need to pick up milk,honey. What you need to do is give her space before she asks for it. You say she has abandonment issues, there are two types fear of being alone and quick attachments. Also I dated a nurse…
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:45 AM
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Wtf, ask her out
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:01 AM
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Problem is, it would be relatively long distance. I want to let her know my intentions, but I won’t have the opportunity to see her in person for a couple of weeks due to some scheduling things. Your second sentence here, meaning get your shit together for those couple weeks. She is of no importance with what you got going on. So there is no point in texting her, if you two can’t hangout
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:52 AM
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Don’t say none of that shit, unless she texted you that first. That is something a women would say to a guy. I wouldn’t even text her until you get your shit together in the next few weeks unless she texted me during that time. No point in texting unless she initiates or you’re setting dating logistics.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:24 AM
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She said she ‘wanted to ride me’ “Say my face or my dick?, or where would you start first, my face or my dick?” Whatever she says, tell her to stop playing and come over.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:14 AM
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No reason to be nervous. If you get to the point where y’all are together in a bedroom, you don’t want to have an American Pie moment 🤣. Want to elaborate on something she said?
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:54 AM
1

The projecting of desperation and neediness, is an expectation or an outcome you’re wanting to happen.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:50 AM
2

The question is, do you want to have sex with this girl or not? If not might as well just be her friend then.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:47 AM
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Funk that don’t ask her shit. You keep saying it will be the last time. Do you not have self-control of yourself? And you’re not explaining what you want out of this.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:44 AM
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Dont try to read between the lines. Its means she doesn’t want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:34 AM
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To be clear, we’ve already hooked up and we’ve made out all 3 times she’s hung out, it’s tough cuz she has a ton of responsibilities. I don’t think it’s lack of interest. We FaceTime a lot too lol Not sure what you mean by hooked up and made out 3 times? Doesnt mean you hooked up. As that word can be convoluted these days. Do you mean sex one time and made out 3 times? And facetime thats cute...Its not really. If you’re an adult paying bills we all have responsibilities.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:30 AM
1

This is why schedules/calendar exist. Everyone can make time, it’s if you choose to make that time. A date/hangout doesn’t always have to be something majorly grandeur.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:17 AM
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You do know women go on dates for free drinks, dinner etc.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:13 PM
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Still going in with an expectations, shes cheering you on. Women can sense that, I dgaf what the outcome is, you have to see even if you like the girl 🤔
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:09 PM
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Busy schedule? If she can make plans with her friends she can make plans with you. As others have said you’re an option not a priority.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:01 PM
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I mean she said shes busy with exams but you met over the weekend still. Cool off on the texting, unless she reaches out. Wait until exams are done and ask her out again. Exams are done she shouldnt have any other excuses unless she going home for summer and it becomes long distance communication. Another excuse, she done after that
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:58 PM
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I responded and she didnt give you a counter date
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:38 PM
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Must have not seen it, earlier 🤷🏽‍♂️ good looks. But she didnt counter back with another date
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:37 PM
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No, you wait a week to see if she reaches out. If she doesn’t you ask when shes free. You gotta give it space you texted 3 times already. She got your message, no double texting. Phone is for setting up logistics for another hangout/date. She gets mad at you or says anything about you waiting a week. You got her in her emotions now.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:07 PM
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Exactly so you shouldnt care where things are. Just make sure you wrap it up with her.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:06 PM
1

Wait a week, give it space to see if she reaches out.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:05 PM
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I would back off completely, dont even give her anymore attention even on campus. She has to reach out to you now. Also dont ever rub another women in a womens face. Pretty much told her she was an accident and you settled for her. Just do the deed and move the funk on you got laid.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:00 PM
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She told you she was free on Monday after 1. Should have just scheduled the date for Monday night. I wouldnt have told her I would let her know when I was free. And then text again to ask if she was free. I would wait a week if she doesnt respond and try again. No response move on
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:52 PM
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Let her respond back. If not wait a week and text her to hangout. She dont respond you got your answer. You were texting too much, she knows she can have you at any time. And not sure why you brought up saying about her funking someone else, yall are not in a relationship. Scarcity mindset here is lurking in the back of your mind.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:47 PM
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I like what you said living in the moment, no expectations on the future.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:08 PM
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Not even worth it, thought this was a local group. You going to be waiting a long time unless she touchdowns where you’re located.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:59 PM
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This is what I figured, but had to know for sure. Start engaging with her through the chat. Ask her how she likes the group and if yall can get together for a study session. And dont tell her you have a crush or like her at all, come off weird as you dont know anything about this girl.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:56 PM
2

Sound like you still in the honeymoon phases of dating/relationship - 2 months
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:51 PM
2

Have yall even said Hi to eachother in person, or is this some sort of online zoom, facechat group?Only asking because I dont know how big that group is. Even in big groups there are still cliques and people seperate or sit in the back some shit like that in a room or online chat(hide their faces).
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:47 PM
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Dont go into the date with any expectations or you will fail. Have the mentality of, if she doesn’t like me some else does, and its no funks given. Throw subtle test at the women to gauge her interest, is she texting all the time and doesn’t put her phone away. You know shes either bored or just there.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:42 PM
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Funk no move on with your life, let her come to you. And why do you care if she unfollowed you, this should be your answer already.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:35 PM
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She is using you currently as an orbiter. Potential chance you will be a back up guy. But if you start developing feels for a girl you’re not with you’re done. Remove your attention from her now. Do not hangout with her anymore she has a BF, and you’re stuck in the friendzone right now. If she text only 1-2 text max and get back to your busy life. Unless you want drama and be in a love triangle go ahead and continue talking to her then. You dont want the BF and you all of a sudden looking to bee…
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:27 PM
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You have to be willing to let them go. That why you lost her.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:51 PM
1

Desperately? Please—if I wanted a Prize I would go to a carnival
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:14 AM
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You cant control how someone is. Women will be hot and cold because of their emotions. You have to understand when the right time is to be vulnerable with them. Similar to reading the room, If she says she is mad and still in the room around you, this is where you open her up if she is an adult about it.
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:39 PM
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Im sorry what?
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:30 PM
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This 👆🏾
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:30 PM
2

Definitely, but you already know not everyone has that emotional control.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:46 PM
3

🤣 I havent heard that term Hired Guns since the early 2000s on PUA bs. Its about being firm, confident and direct. The conviction in your voice goes a long way.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:30 PM
1

I’ve had my fair share of hook ups and FWBs but I’d like to do more. I’d definitely say I need to practice my pick-up game. Other than that, just looking for solid advice. Drop some gems for me I’d love to hear it all, good and bad. Prime years?, Man you’re just getting started. Enjoy the ride. Elaborate more on the advice you’re looking for. You said pick-up and wanting to do more besides hook-ups, FWB. Are you meaning a relationship?
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:23 PM
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Hell yeah we do to that. A women thats in her feminine and wants sex. A little aggression that they want it, she pulls you in more. A better example, washing dishes the women comes up and just grabs the penis. You know what time it is
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:31 PM
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Idk in a sense, he could have moved on. If you okay with accepting rejection, which alot of women are not-then you have nothing to lose since you already blocked him This also potentially raises red flags, like what will stop you from doing it again. Accepting apologies or not, because you have to look at it from both sides. If he did it to you, you wouldn’t have liked it or not. You would probably write him off.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:27 AM
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Generalizing I see, and women aren’t prizes either, i dont see a bow tie on you or glittering gold
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:14 AM
5

Happens all the time with married man. Have you not seen this. They‘re called affairs
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:10 AM
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okay im sure you get jealous when the guy you like has other girls around him. Can bet you ask who that girl was.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:07 AM
2

As well as comedy right 🤣
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:49 AM
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Agree with both, jealously comes into play from both aspects eventually. Or one develops feelings while the other doesn’t. Can become very messy to a point, if both dont have emotional control in themselves.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:10 AM
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We all got insecurities about something we have either never had or done yet in life. And you‘re only focusing on getting a relationship. Relationships are about gifting and compromise. And a healthy one is accepting the individual as they are. You’re young you should date pounding away not be in a relationship.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:58 AM
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Bad advice—but people are upvoting. We‘re done here
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:47 AM
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Im 💀, you in your feelings right now. I see your insecurities are showing. Trying to puff your chest out more and more. Key banging on the keyboard—Limp
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:43 AM
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Sure...I dont need to gloat on the internet like you 🤣
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:37 AM
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I feel like you‘re overanalyzing, and projecting here thinking me and you are the same.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:35 AM
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You‘re getting it now
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:57 AM
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And you will lose her with this mentality. Already talking about being serious.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:54 AM
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You‘re being negative here about yourself. If you‘re displaying this on the internet it can definitely be seen in your body language and face in person You wont get a girlfriend this way or expect one. Peoples vibe and energy is real, people can sense that. Make improvements on yourself, get a haircut, go to the dermatologist, go to the gym get your weight up, does tremendously for your physical health.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:51 AM
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And? who cares what people think its your life and your IG
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:47 AM
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This comment 💀🤣 I have to laugh
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:40 AM
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Dont need to post all three, you can if you choose to if its from the same day. Carrousel it
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:37 AM
1

they literally ignore me and then go off with someone dumber or uglier. I think nowadays women only like guys who dress in Jordan and have tattoos. These comment right here is why women are walking away from you. They sense negativity from you already.
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:32 AM
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If she is not your girlfriend or wife, post whatever you want with another girl. Women want Men who get other Women
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:27 AM
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Where did I state anything about harassing or picking up women at social groups 👀. You brought up women and all that nonsense. Keep banging at your keyboard kid
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:20 AM
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That is not the point, you obliviously aren’t understanding of social engagements. If that is your motive to go to those groups just to get women and and not enjoy the activity. Thats on you
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:17 AM
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Maybe? All you text. Its not really about getting the girl to text you first. This happens naturally when the girl likes you after either the first day she meets you or dates in. Be careful of attention whores tho
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:15 AM
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🤣 okay, experiences and hobbies allow interactions with people. Ever heard of meet up groups, book clubs etc. Those examples right there provide social engagements with other people. If you want to be boring be the case
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:11 AM
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That’s fine we have all been there. Going to throw you a DM
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:42 PM
1

See you tonight, that’s it’s wait for her response. She says okay chill and relax. She doesn’t show up do not text asking why. She’s done for now until she proves herself back to you for the bad behavior, for flaking.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:31 PM
1

Exactly over texting kills attraction. I told you what to do, but you choose to do more then you should have here. If she doesn’t show up you have learned a lesson for the future.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:29 PM
1

Send the addy, and say see you later tonight. She doesn’t answer you have your answer now, and can fall asleep and cut her off contact because she stood you up. This is all you need now
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:25 PM
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Agreed, I believe it’s what Two Steps forward, One Step back. Could have the idiom wrong but you know what I should mean here. Meaning you go too far, fall all the way back until she initiates touch again. Rinse, repeat, she says No/Stop, or moving your hand off. Your Ass better STOP
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:16 PM
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The girl is initiating when she is pursuing you. I.e Oh hey, Hey You,Heyyy etc type texts. That’s your indication to ask the girl out right there, no prisoners no chances. Reason she is reaching out she wants your attention, you ask her out. She says no, tell her hit you when she does want to hangout, gotta go.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:10 PM
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Why tf is she in your bed until 1am as well as not making moves in that timeframe. You don’t want a girlfriend but you’re treating her like a “girl”—friend. Gotta make a move soon until she starts noticing and another guy swoops in because he pulled her in for a kiss before you.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:05 PM
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Wtf no, stop stressing out, I told you what to do, now chill until she arrives
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:00 PM
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This here don’t have any expectations or worry about the outcome. You should test women as much as they test us. Will always be a cat and mouse game. You have to keep your composure and have the mindset of indifference. Good with or without her
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:54 PM
1

Act mature for your age
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:51 PM
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You initiate 1 time per week, wait for her response. If she doesn’t respond to the first text you do not engage until she responds. Could take days,weeks,months,years. If she likes you she will respond. Until the girl is pursing you, you don’t have her yet.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:47 PM
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I am sure she isn't attracted to me and I already moved on. Like, what's the probability that she's on a roadtrip without internet so she hadn't seen my message yet lmao. But idk why it's so hard for girls to tell "I'm not interested". Smh Making up fantasies here about her losing internet. At this moment the girls is not interested, you have to move on until she reaches out. And you answered your own question about her interest, girls don’t like conflict with dudes. Girl: says she doesn’t like …
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:44 PM
1

Hell no, you’re not her handy man
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:34 PM
1

Ayee hang out, have fun, hook up 👊🏾
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:33 PM
2

This right here opens up that conversation to a deep discussion. Sit back, listen, observe, now you know how and what the girl responds to.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:37 PM
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Girls, give out their numbers all the time whether they’re real or not. Just to give the guy what he wants, so they shoo him off. It’s a soft blow and doesn’t seem like enough rapport was built on an attraction level for the girl to want to continue engagement with you, and/or she wasn’t attracted to you which you stated. Girls don’t like to quote on quote “hurt your feelings to your face”
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:00 PM
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I hope you know the girl before you DM them, because you maybe a number on a list of the guys that DM them all the time.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:57 PM
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Context: I'm 30, looking obviously for hot girls between 20 - 28, have a decent paying job, I practice skateboarding, I play guitar, and drums and am also a musician, I also draw quite decently and I have been non-stop learning with books about social stuff, money, science, psychology, etc, I can say with confidence I am an interesting person with knowledge and hobbies, also very friendly and social. But I always get that frustration where girls are not noticing me that much, and I am thinking t…
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:48 PM
1

Friends must have been playing games with you if you cant notice.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:38 PM
2

Tell her when she figured out her situation and wants to hangout again to get back in touch with you. Kill the the conversation.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Understand what that you a Limp
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:10 PM
1

🤣 you getting in your feelings.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:08 PM
1

Yep keep telling yourself that 👀
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:01 PM
1

Exactly my point he cant comprehend
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:53 PM
1

Yo do you, not all of us like to walk taking peoples headphones out or need to talk to the first girl we see bruh bruh
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:52 PM
1

Summer is coming soon and what does that mean, wedding season. Which some of it has already started for Spring depending on where you’re located. You will see groups of women together, you can practice on those groups. Just walk up congratulate the Bride to be, linger a little saying hi to everyone but also look at the left hands on any of the other women if they have rings. Or besides weddings everyday is someone’s birthday. Girls have birthday hats on say happy birthday, how many shots have y’…
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:49 AM
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Don’t just go to a library go to a Barnes and Noble— a lot of those are connected to a Starbucks, plenty of girls in there. And a place where you can do your studies and be around what you enjoy reading books. Join a book club, summer intramural sports, a lot of cities have those where you play drunken dodgeball and kickball even with school out. Not saying you have to drink or participate but at least you will be out being active and around people.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:39 AM
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It’s all about vibes, you go in thinking sex you won’t get it. Women can sense that. You have to know when to physically escalate. Is the girl looking at your lips when you talk, is she touching your leg when you sit down together.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:30 AM
2

Haha what they always say “You Lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:26 AM
2

He’s 47, he’s pretty much 5 decades old. He’s seen and been through it all. I wouldn’t much say what he wears. It’s the man who makes the clothes. All you need is fashion sense, and know what fits your body right. Get alterations to your pants,slacks, shirts that fit to you and only you. Know what colors match your skin tone. Get the proper haircut that matches your face A little * I use to model as well 😬🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:21 AM
1

Life to me isn’t always all about getting pus. It feels all the same once you in
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:15 AM
1

Must have been a typo
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:49 AM
1

Cause your a weirdo
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:47 AM
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You‘re only looking at one thing, as i mention more than just body language. When my headphones are on walking the street I dont feel like being approach.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:40 AM
0

🤦🏽‍♂️ you a sad troll 🤣
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:04 AM
1

You obliviously dont get it. Once maybe you leave Canada out the parents house you will see what life is.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:04 AM
1

Yeah thats you in your environment. Why dont you get cultured and visit other countries. Once you live life you will understand there are kids less fortunate then you
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:12 AM
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Talking to them like a human being... Are Women not humans? They must be aliens to you. Stop the cap.
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:10 AM
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You funny, you do know you can go to war at 18 years old right. Im sure those individuals can tell you more stories of themselves then you. Dont try to be wise, there is a percentage of teenages who also dont play video games and have been hustling their entire lives. Especially in other countries. You can learn stories of individuals at any age not every 19 year is the same. *These are called documentaries
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:26 AM
2

You talk...
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:39 AM
2

How not, I said the gym people are in the gym. You can talk if you choose to talk to people in the gym. After that its your choosing
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:37 AM
2

Just have to be yourself, its ”cliche“ yes. But when you‘re comfortable being yourself. Not have a care in the world what anyone thinks. Your personality comes out more and you‘re just natural. A simple Hi works, the easiest thing to say. People are just scared of rejection. Say Hi without worrying about the outcome
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:10 AM
2

🤷🏽‍♂️ I tried
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:06 AM
1

Ask her name in-between when you ring her up. This is all in the flow of the conversation, gotta ask her out earlier then later. ”He who hesitates Masterbates“
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:06 AM
1

Depending on where you are, women do it to me all the time. Give me eye contact and place themselves in my orbit. If it’s the gym they move their bag or weights where I am working out, at the coffee shop or bar, they walk up to get a drink either turn their backs or look right at me and ask what I am drinking.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:53 PM
2

That makes sense I see why you’re asking, since most of your engagements have been through a screen first. I’m assuming though that you have walked past men who you find attractive, naturally you will glance at the guy.
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:52 PM
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If you ringing her up, ask her “how her days going,”what she got going on tonight,”she not doing anything. “Yo I get off at 8 or whatever we should look to grab drinks tonight since you free. Instant date that night
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:56 PM
1

You said you’re new to dating again. Care to explain, were you in a relationship before etc?
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:50 PM
1

Idk 🤷🏽‍♂️ but this is too easy especially since he said he wants to fuck but he’s pivoting. So now I am thinking he doesn’t got it like that.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:43 PM
2

Even better, you’re already walking her to her house. Take a detour and ask if she wants to grab a bite to eat or something before y’all go home. This is literally a situation where the carpets already rolled out. No need to ask her out on a date when you can have a instant one walking home.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:40 PM
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You’re 19 the dating world is not going anywhere. Focus on you right now get your paper up, go to the gym,school, develop a trade or hobby. Get your confidence up first, you don’t need a GF or FWB you need something to do. Whatever it is that you like to do on spare time and not no damn video games will place you in the environment of women. So when you do that thing you enjoy, your confidence is up and it sparks a women attraction and interest. Now you have something to talk about. Women love t…
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:31 PM
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For sure, I recently just did this so, glad I can assist.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:25 PM
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Depends man , on your price tag. I would look into fragrances for Spring/Summer, Fall/Winter. Start with Spring/Summer since these are the seasons now Plenty of YouTube videos, https://youtu.be/0IALgW-oTM4 3-5 one for each season and one for date nights gives you a total of 4 or 5. Certain smells don’t work well in certain seasons and temps. And you don’t want to wear the same fragrance all the time. It becomes stale at a point, you want flexibility. Gradually move up don’t buy all at once unles…
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:14 PM
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Look to do it towards the end of the school day if you can. Let her maul it over, overnight. You tell her during periods, you potentially made fumble your words because you‘re trying to ask in such a limit time frame to get to class and such.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:08 PM
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Take a damn Uber 🤣
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:06 PM
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You dont even need to do all that, just tell her when to come through.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:56 PM
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I mean sure, if that’s what you‘re into. Make it a date, grab tea take a walk through your city
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:46 PM
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It’s with any women, if they‘re interested they want to learn more about you. But you divulged way too much to the girl without her prying the information out of you. Came off as a male girlfriend in this regard. You gotta tread very lightly here, as you work with her and you made her too comfortable around you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:44 PM
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You don’t need to suggest any streaming services, just tell her to come through later tonight, that’s all you need. Get straight to the point
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:38 PM
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Yep 👍🏾, this will get her to wonder like I haven’t heard from him. This could take days, weeks, months you have to accept this. Then you have to make your intentions very clear when you either see her next or she texts you now man up and be okay with losing her.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:35 PM
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You can text her, get it out the way unless you see her all the time. Just say hey We should hangout soon let me know what days you’re free(text). In person make an instant date, you’re young so it’s either ice cream, a quick walk in the park.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:32 PM
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And that’s your problem you care what others think. It’s what you think. If you got real friends, they would be 100% behind you. You get rejected they should be like man funk that bish she ain’t even that hot anyways. But they also joke with you as well bust your balls.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:27 PM
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You, yourself have to be willing to accept that rejection, that is life. Because everyone gets rejected even actors.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:23 PM
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You in the friendzone, you gotta back off now. Let her reach out to you, makes her wonder. But you are going to have to find the balls to either make a move or cut contact and tell her you can’t be friends anymore for the specific reasons you just explained. 3 dates and no escalation come on man. You gotta be okay with rumors why because they’re rumors allegedly, if you make a big deal out of it that’s when you get clowned 🤡 and who cares if you get rejected. Rejection happens everyday, whether …
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:19 PM
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Don’t do none of that goofy shit, you become a jester. Listen to music, go to the gym, draw, read do something you enjoy or have a schedule of task you need to complete. You complete a goal you wanted to achieve that gives you more confidence, like shit I want to tell everyone what I just accomplished. instead those things you suggested seem more like looking for attention, being a try hard like everyone look at me.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:09 PM
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Pretty much all situations are cold approaches if you do not know the person. You need to look for indicators of interest, choosing signals, body language etc. Plenty of books on emotional intelligence and reading a person body language. It’s not all about what you say, it’s how you say things and how you represent yourself. Are you fidgeting, acting goofy or are you strong,confident, direct and firm in your actions as a man
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:05 PM
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Not trying to get too deep here, I believe you should focus on your health. Not specifically sure for the reasoning and don’t need an explanation. If you’re not 100% physically,mentally, financially, etc. Approaching should be the least of your worries. And more so enjoying your self to get back your confidence in whatever you’re missing in your life. Don’t make women or approaching women be something mystical, if you have friends and can talk to them you should be able to talk to women regardle…
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:57 PM
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Come on man haha 🤣 he still learning. Anyways jokes aside You should know women will always be hot and cold. Match their behavior naturally, lets say yall texting everyday cut that shit and back off. Let her come to you. And from what you‘re saying the impression I am getting is you‘re acting goofy around this girl. You‘re more into her then she is into you
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:28 PM
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Thats the thing dont set any expectations, you say you‘re comfortable in your own skin, take a step back and really look yourself in the mirror. Your confidence in yourself is lacking currently. Ask you self why you put pressure on yourself—Im the shit I got this job, money in the bank, this car, friends, family my purpose in life. Why wouldn’t a girl like me i got my shit together. Those small achievements
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:29 PM
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You said follow a girl or unfollow here. But you‘re asking us on what we think. I provided you my thoughts. You‘re your own person, I am just looking to save you from yourself in this situation. Lower expectations if you think this is ”going to“ start the grand conversation As I said do you, and sound like you dont know this girl and she doesn’t know you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah thats called oneitis especially since you‘re trying to use tactics to get this one girl, instead of being yourself.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:17 PM
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You gotta be comfortable in your own skin. If you’re comfortable with yourself you set no expectations on the outcome of the date. Indifferent attitude, if she likes me ,she likes me, if she dont, she dont.
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:53 PM
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I wish you the best of luck with this, easily can just walk outside and speak to a girl. Don’t hide behind a screen. Take ya chances and let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:46 PM
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Do you, but are you trying to do what your friend does, reach out to a girl not wanting to date and just be friends on IG? Or gloat to everyone saying this girl is talking to me on IG and all y’all have is a internet friendship/relationship. Let her message you
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:38 PM
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🤦🏽‍♂️im sure everyone here has heard this before. Even girls say it to me in person. Whether, I am at a bar, coffee shop and they‘re opening me. Nah son stop that, if you know who the girl is why you saying that?
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:30 PM
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Get your ass off the gram and out getting vitamin D approaching women. Why you sitting back on IG, just like dating apps is pre-selection for women. No tactical opener will get a girl to magically talk to you. And there is a high percentage she leaves you on read as there are so many other guys using that same damn opener. Dont be thirsty
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:24 PM
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Cancel, that date asap. You also literally said a ”girl who friendzoned me says she will give me a chance on a date“ A chance? if a girl is interested in you shes not saying or giving you a chance. She wondering how she doesnt ruin her chances with a guy she likes
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:19 PM
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Correct I should have included that in as well.
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:26 AM
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Haha still a suggestive remark 💀
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:41 AM
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Bedroom Olympics
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:52 AM
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Don’t need to compliment, to flirt. Let’s say you got a girl at your place after a date. “Could say, I like that dress, but I’ve been looking to more to take it off tonight.” This is just an example of an sexual innuendo that can lead to sex. A girl with tattoo writings, I am looking to read those tonight, while touching her. Simple shit
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:26 AM
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Wow, socially inept? If she was interested she would at least make eye contact with him. Which she did the first day (yesterday) in which I addressed. Are you delusional, so I gotta always make eye contact with some one i like especially in the gym. Someone look up at the gym making eye contact I assume you think they like you 🤣so everybody likes you male and female And where did I say op was wrong?
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:05 AM
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Ask her out and just enjoy the time yall have now. You just enjoy the moments together, this allows you to explore what potentially can be an outcome
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:23 PM
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Stop you making me die 💀🤣over here
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:14 PM
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If thats your choice, do you. Im more so Idgaf when I am in the gym, I like to get in and out. Not to socialize unless someone comes up to me. Delays my workout and my schedule because I got places to be
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:09 PM
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Text one time per week and wait until she responds. I dont care if its a day, week, month, year. Some women will test you and weed out the needy guys
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah she tested you in that moment she teased you to start the conversation. That was your time, its those subtle things women do to put themselves in your orbit. Some of us guys do not pick up the hints instantly but remember the engagements after. Shrug it off and wait again until she puts herself in your orbit, like she talks first.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:57 PM
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The best way is crossing paths, smile say hi, how are you. Don’t approach if they‘re on a machine unless that is a machine you want to use. And possibly you both exit the gym the sametime you can spark up a conversation
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:56 PM
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Just in general you have to give them space. And Im not sure what you mean the women teased you when making eye contact. What she do if you dont mind me asking?
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:31 PM
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Im glad you have an opinion and like to try and shun people over the internet. And im condescending matter of an opinion because i have you in your feelings right now. And im foolish name calling telling me to grow up? Stereotyping is a natural mechanism do you hear your self right now.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:01 PM
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Haha I am not trying to win a battles here, im sure you get off by that. You do know reddit, has all flavors of individuals on the site correct. So if someone who was Indian saw his statement. Do you not think they would find offense to what he typed, and thought he was stereotyping 🤷🏽‍♂️. Putting a race into a category is the definition of a stereotype. Spade is spade.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:54 PM
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Social Status is also subjective. Plenty of individuals who are rich alone and just enjoy life. They find things that make them happy
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:32 PM
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I think you need to reread as it say most not mostly And most means in a great amount or quantity 🤣 ignorance is a bliss have a good weekend ✌🏾 To add* majority of this thread is saying the samething. Next time choose your battles correctly before you choose a side
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:23 PM
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You‘re lost in life if thats what you believe. So every black person is a gang member I assume? Stop while your ahead, because you‘re projecting
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:36 PM
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Why does it matter, don‘t stereotype because thats what you see, not everyone is the same way
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:33 PM
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Only initiate a text to set up a date, unless they text you. Chop it up max 2-3 texts and tell her you either gotta go or make a date. And what I mean as in I gotta go, you actually have real shit going on—dont fake it. No texting all day kills the sexual attraction, you’re not their male girlfriend. You have to leave them wanting more, wondering when will he text me again
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:29 PM
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Funk all that do you and not worry about the outcome of replying. Reply when you want to or when the time calls for it.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:23 PM
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”Why doesn’t it matter to you, do you like me or something. Its okay I know am attractive, hot, etc(whatever) word you want to use here.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:13 PM
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Keeps you looking fresh, especially if you get fades. That fresh line up
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:10 PM
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Go with the flow and enjoy yourself. Nothing else really to it. Biggest thing is enjoy yourself first, and dont worry about the outcome. Lead on the date if its going well. Cut it short if its not
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:41 PM
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Totally agree with this, also adding to this. In your mind you have to think every girl wants you. So act indifferent and imply the girl is hitting on you
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:36 PM
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I dont approach girls at all in the gym nor look. I like to get in and get out quickly, I dont like to be bothered when working out. I would let the girl approach you, we have all seen the viral videos of dudes trying to pick up girls in the gym. Because they thought she was choosing them. Some women only go to the gym for attention sometimes. Tread lightly on this, better yet maybe yall both leave at the sametime then spark the conversation outside the gym.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:23 PM
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I say this, a girl comes around your facility and shes single, its fair game. I always pull my friends aside and make it clear to them once anything like that occurs. So they dont hear from the grapevine, if this person is really your friend he will understand and dap you up say ”good job“
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:21 PM
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wtf are you blowing up a girls phone in the first place. Definition of a disaster, you scare the women off. Is there an emergency?
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:39 PM
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Do this in person, until you have sex with the women then you can send sexual innuendos if she hasn’t yet through text. In person if the girl touches you, you can crack jokes, ”see i knew you couldnt keep your hands off me” You have to get the women to have fun and see you as a guy who is safe to be around which is making them feel comfortable. And its showing you as a guy that you’re not a nut case
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:22 PM
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Maybe?
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:18 PM
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If you can, I line myself up after 1 week just to keep it neat between the weeks before the next cut
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:15 PM
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👆🏾
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:33 PM
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Dont have a necessary YT channel. Just do a quick search on posing for Male Models. Also the more you face getting up and posing infront of the mirror practicing the better you will get. I use to model but not anymore
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:28 PM
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?
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:24 PM
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Look into videos on how to pose for as a male model. Drink enough water to reduce bags, hydrate your face better. At the end of the day take pride in taking care of your damn self, have a self care regimen. This is what many individuals lack. You care what others think but dont want to make that change for yourself.
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:51 AM
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Never liked social media or dating apps to pick up women. You cant gauge body language, voice tonality. And alot of people look better in person then a camera, its all angles. So much easier approaching in person
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:48 AM
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Haha Come on now I am black and you should know once we get clean cuts we‘re on a different level. Every two weeks for me. But grew my shit out to curls now since covid
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:43 AM
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You answered your own question its not worth it. That whole google voice maneuver bs, thats too much As I said before be unfazed to the situation, and joke about. Laugh it off that shows confidence that you didnt take it serious
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:39 AM
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Nah thats even worse, dont try to make maneuvers to get a girl. Start coming off like stalker or creep that way. Oh she didn’t respond ill try another way. Do not do that, in this generation you will become a meme, ig post or some tiktok bs looking thirsty
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:30 AM
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Switch it around to her texting you, this has to be in person. And thats what I mean about exchanging numbers again. Tell her to grab your number and to text you. Like yo grab my number right quick. ”oh shit I think we exchanged numbers already“ play that shit off. You bring it up its cringed, and shows you were hurt she didnt answer
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:22 AM
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I can agree with this to. Younger me would just do it to the attractive girls. Wyling back then have the whole damn mall following me.
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:14 AM
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Nah dont bring it up at all, save that to yourself. 7-8 months ago nothing transcended. If you do that you change the whole vibe,mood which will cause confusion. Make the girl feel awkward. Look at it as a new opportunity, take it for what it is. She does it again you can write her off completely in reaching out to her number wise. But in person act cordial, calm like nothing phased you
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:07 AM
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Act indifferent like the shit never happen. Y’all exchange numbers again. Play it off ”like damn thats funk up you didn’t know that was me. Gotta make this up to me now“
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:52 AM
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Being calm doesnt always mean not very talkative or arrogant. Because I am calm, but very direct and firm. I prefer my calmness as, the most calm person in the room is the most one who is observant and will not be startled. Shows that you have your shit in order.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:47 AM
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You might need some Whiskey more then that wine haha. You got this handle your business right she coming back for more.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:42 AM
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What is your reasoning for getting the girls number, you‘re interested in them sexually. Girls 19-21 can still make time to hangout. I would stick to 21+ if you‘re of age. Not everyone drinks yes, but a high percentage of 21+ individuals do. And that is one of the easiest dates to check for red flags. Depending what your conversation entails with the girl you got her number to hang out. Do exactly that ask her to hang out. Get straight to the point, they say anything about let me check my schedu…
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:34 AM
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True that, I’m sure you knew what I meant by that as well 👊🏾
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:27 AM
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Haha I dont know what it is but its the truth. You make goals it shifts your thought process like Im good with or without women. Exactly and thats where that confidence comes from you did something on your own you can call yours. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:25 AM
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She’s got exams everyday of the month? Let this one go for a while and see if she reaches out again. Take it from there same excuse take the L then.
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:55 AM
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There is no internet beef just two guys getting a better understanding of each other as things can be misconstrued. I completely understand what you‘re saying but I am also not saying to repeat what I said and keep saying oh that’s interesting. When the guys are out of steam you bring up what that girl said to you earlier in the conversation. And by leading the conversation I would like to know what you mean by that, not just coming in saying what y’all talking about or let’s go to the next bar.…
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:35 AM
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So you’re telling me you didnt read what I said about showing interest in the other person. When a person is of interest questions start to develop for you to ask. You glanced and went straight to 80%? Stop the cap, you‘re more worried about 80% then providing him actual advice, in order for a conversation you need open ended questions for a conversation to continue. You keep talking you run out of things to say and you make everything about you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:15 AM
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For sure that’s a good mentality to go in with not worrying about the outcome
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:00 AM
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Obviously , his first paragraph states he is standing and can’t carry on a conversation and someone swoops in. So everything I said is in context of being a more talkative person over the other guys. As there is no information on the other guys and we’re not there to know what in the conversation he is saying in particularly.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:46 AM
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Unless you feel the situation calls for it and you believe you had a great conversation with the girl get her number. If it’s a fake number who cares, that’s not why you’re doing this experiment it’s on improving your confidence. And you’re 18 so you just building the balls to do this now will work regardless of speaking with women. It’s more on the human psychology, we‘re born to be social. So this will help on conversational skills, as well as build confidence to approach anyone.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:36 AM
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You don’t need tactics, I would start off with a goal, how many girls I find attractive can I just say Hi to. Let’s say it’s 10 okay you reached your goal, make this shit a game more so then a mission. Start from there and then your mind will start to trigger, “what else can I say.” Now you’re at a point where your anxiety is no longer there.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:17 AM
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You‘re going in with expectations, like ”I gotta get this girl to like me, what else can I say to keep the conversation going so she likes me.“ looking at it all wrong, enjoy the moment, pause in your conversations, be interested in the other person. Is there something of interest that a person said say “That’s interesting, tell me more about that.“ ”how did that make you feel, “really, why’s that. Now we‘re getting some where and you have that person speaking 80% of the time. Then they say damn…
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah that was a few week ago, has she said that now? That was in the moment, stop looking at the past. And you answered your own question, you want to date not be in a relationship, she brings up again in conversation that is present. You explain what you want and see what she says. She doesn’t like it you have your answer.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:56 PM
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Yes the old adage applies here, go in with the mentality of ”Damn I’ve been waiting to go on Vacation“ not so then let me see how many girls I can pull.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:53 PM
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Go with the flow of things, explore the FWB and date the other girl. Use protection with both if you do plan on taking things further with both. This keeps your options open until one of them asks to be with you now you have a choice if you want a relationship. Don’t bring that shit up unless the girl does.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:46 PM
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Your anxiety is kicking in already and you have expectations already thinking you won’t satisfy the women. Gotta go in only looking at enjoying the moment with the women, make it fun for you and her.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:39 PM
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Gaze until she looks away, throw in a gentlemen calm smile then approach
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:34 PM
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Accept that shit, and if the girl is aggressive even better. Tease her, to the point she is literally tearing your clothes off and grabbing you to kiss because she can’t bare how much she is attracted to you.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:31 PM
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Wth 24, as a man you aren’t even in your prime until late 30s. You have so much to learn still as you get older you will start to understand women and see the patterns. You start to accept yourself what you tolerate and don’t tolerate. I’ll give y’all a task to do: Sit down and write out your goals, these have to be measurable and attainable with dates months attached. If you can’t do that simple thing you won’t understand how you can get out of this mentality. You‘re going in with expectations …
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:20 PM
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That’s funny, no matter culture, it all relates to the samething.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:15 PM
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With confidence like you mean that shit. And have no expectations on their response, take it or leave it attitude
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:16 PM
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Exactly the point, if she’s interested she will reach out, if not you know where you stand. And how do you feel, like a weight has been lifted. Never let anyone take away your confidence in yourself. I hope you didn’t text whole thing I said tho, to smooth it out better 🤣
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:11 PM
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”Excuse me, how are you going to keep looking at me and not say hi.“ It’s not what you say it’s how you say it.
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:08 PM
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You gotta get over it. There are plenty of women who you will consider a 9.5/10 in your eyes. Some people will be in your life for a season and some will be in your life forever. Best way to get over something is to keep yourself busy by working on your goals, hanging out with friends and family, etc. Just enjoying life
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:05 PM
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Signs is if they‘re looking at you and look down, play with their hair. I allow the girl to look at me a few times as well as some women will put themselves into your orbit. Walk up turn their backs to you and some will approach you. ”Hey I like your shoes or jacket“ ”ah Thank you, what do you like about it.“ There is your conversation
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:35 PM
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Agree with this as well, this is how you test a girls integrity
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:26 PM
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That’s doing too much, I wouldn’t even give the pleasure of hanging out with her again. Or she will look at you as a friend especially if you ambush her with what you’re thinking of saying this puts her into a corner and she will run away. Remove your attention because that is not what you want. You‘re fantasizing, thinking if I say this she will definitely like me now. I would cancel that date. Let her ass wonder and ask why, and say ”look I thought you and I had chemistry on our last date. You…
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:42 PM
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Don’t go in with expectations, walk into the bar confidently order a drink scan the room for lurking eyes or choosing signals. Walk over and approach, some in the sense of ”Hey I saw you looking at me, thought I would come over and say Hi what’s your name“ and don’t say that for verbatim. Say it in a way you would say it confidently in your own words.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:30 PM
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If she initiates again in form of a text or phone call not no damn snap or photo, you ask her out. You had your chance before and could have said. ”Name, last time we hung out was fun, let me know when your available next or free next.“ However you want to phrase it. Wait for her response, she doesn’t say anything you got your answer
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:25 PM
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Chill the funk out on this, the girl has a BF and you don’t want to be her emotional support or a male orbiter. You try and this will cause drama, act casual and cordial, quick hi and bye, gotta run to class or work but keep in touch. How was your weekend, things of that nature, don’t project interest at this point. Let her do that, she will come around once if/they break up.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:19 PM
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Yeah, and people especially women can see right through that BS. And this is where a women will start to test you to see if you‘re really what you‘re projecting
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:01 PM
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Max 1-3 to feel her out and her responses. Is she enthusiastic when she text, then it’s a good time to ask her out. If I am already seeing a girl or smashing, I can ask out on the first text
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:00 PM
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Don’t focus on girls, focus on you now. Get your body right, get your grades up and focus on graduating. A lot of the girls you see now you won’t possibly see again unless they‘re going to the same college. If they do go to the same college you can keep in touch or wait to see them at the college. So everything I said work on yourself, you get to college you start fresh, people start giving you confidence, girls will look at you differently, like damn what did he do this summer. I wouldn’t be wo…
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:55 PM
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You‘re putting too much in expectations and fantasies. As your friends told you, you’re putting too much emphasis on the girl and what you can say or get. You need to go in looking to enjoy yourself first. Evenly the sexual innuendos come natural, and a lot of women start the process on how you made then feel in the bedroom where this comes into play. For instance a girl runs her hand on your leg, ”Hey, you continue touching my leg like that something may Pop up on you.“ This is playful and the …
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:40 PM
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Funk all that you don’t need to be someone you’re not. Be your genuine self and be okay with that and if people don’t like you for you. That is confidence.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:02 AM
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Stop trying to get the girl to like you over text, or you will be in the friend zone-text buddy. You have to do this in person, already you’re having expectations and fantasies that you have to woo a girl over text. You have already showed interest by getting the girls number. The phone is used for setting dates.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:59 AM
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Keep first date very casual, low key quiet bars, speak easy, places where you can have an actual conversation. Let the women do majority of the talking, ask deeper questions and sound interested. Also don’t go in with any expectations, go in to enjoy yourselves regardless of the outcome. Your confidence in yourself will show you don’t give a funk.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:48 AM
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First thing is to not have any expectations, from your last comment you’re expecting to be the same way you were a few months ago. This is what is causing you to rethink and be in your head of how to get back to a state.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:42 AM
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Sounds like you need to find a hobby or purpose in life to pass the time. Write a list of things that interest you besides women. And go from there when you do things you love you lose the validation you’re seeking from women towards more things you enjoy.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:35 AM
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