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Question For Mencatniagara/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:06 PM
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For men over age 25, it’s 1.9%. Young people are just waiting longer and getting to know each other before having sex. It’s healthier than my generation where you were expected to have sex by 16 or there was supposedly something wrong with you. I’m glad people are taking their time and getting to know each other these days.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 03:43 AM
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Everyone is angry and embittered about something, but it’s not men or relationships for me. I’m just sick and in a losing battle with my own body. My experience is completely different from yours. Maybe it comes from a position of privilege. I’ve always been the most attractive person in the room, since North America views the look of physical disability to be hot and sexy. The wasting body. The consumptive complexion. The dewy expression of constant pain in the staring wet eyes. Rrrrraw rrrrraw…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 01:14 PM
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I don’t know why this is in my feed, as a woman. People are people. Rumors are rumours. It sucks for everyone. You just sound closeted, and like you’re making excuses for preferring the company of men, to be honest. I feel genuinely sorry for any straight man who reads this stuff and follows the terrible advice lol.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 11:57 AM
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Significantly less than is demanded of her?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 06:31 AM
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It isn’t a double standard to vilify people who pay to abuse others and try to reduce stigma for their victims, so they can get help. You have to completely dehumanize prostitutes, and the terrifying risks they take to believe that their paying rapists and the criminals who run the “industry” deserve a medal. Feminists and women online do their best to de-stigmatize sex work because out in the real world women’s lives are destroyed for having even the slightest history in that industry, while me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:10 AM
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I know a lot of women like this too. There’s no group for it, but yes. Various people get tired of the games especially if they have bad luck or awful people are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:59 AM
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I’m going to block you since you seem to have difficulty with my posts. Enjoy the break 🥰
/r/BlackPillScience25/12/22 01:54 PM
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As if men do anything without having to go on and on about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:56 AM
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When your allies are violent rapists, if you don’t regret it, you are psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:41 AM
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I think you know the difference and there’s no need to respond or give that content any views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:58 AM
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I don’t click links.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:50 AM
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I thought those were bots. I get them a lot and they all sound the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:22 PM
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I do it. By accident. Apparently my idea of nice is actually mean. And my self deprecating nature is offensive. If you say something nice and placating they’ll just be like “ok” and hang their head and walk away. But these little gems have almost gotten me killed. I’ve been literally attacked. They’re not even that mean. “To be honest you talk about your job and your money a lot, and I just really hate you. I don’t know why. But I just really REALLY hate you.” “You’re too good looking. It’s anno…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:15 PM
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I feel like men in service careers understand me better than OP ever will. Because any time I’ve dated a retail worker, a doctor, anyone who works with people, they understood it instantly. Is it that bad having to reject a man? “Have you ever had to tell a 400 lb neckbeard his favourite game is sold out? Imagine if you were his favourite game?” “Have you ever had to draw blood from an angry biker? Or pull an addict off one of your nurses? Imagine running into THAT guy on your way home from work…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:02 PM
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Men need to stop blaming women for everything THEY do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:58 PM
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As a fan of Tik tok, we did it as a joke because of all the hilarity “if you’re not tall women hate you”. Literally. It’s a sound now. I did this trend. “Sorry but I’m 5’10”. If you’re 6’5” or shorter stay home, I don’t want you.” I feel like obvious joke is obvious but Reddit has to show up and take everything so seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:56 PM
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The people who agree with you are going to be the ones who teach you why your argument is wrong. And you’re going to regret having said it. Horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:54 PM
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Agreed. The people who agree with you are often the ones who teach you why your argument was flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:54 PM
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Yes. I know a lot of girls who sleep with guys who just aren’t public guys. Like he’s cute but he doesn’t have any social skills. My one friend married a guy like that, instant regret, marriage ended. He was always commenting on other women’s bodies and her friends boobs and stuff. He had sweet abs but you’re not introducing him to your mom or worse, your baby cousin. Before you start acting that way hoping for casual sex, it can easily backfire into no sex. Very few women put up with any of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:51 PM
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I’ve never understood it. A few years ago there was this weird trend online like “if they never initiate the discussion they don’t care about you” and a bunch of my friends flipped out like I didn’t care because they usually contacted me and not the other way around…but I literally never noticed?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:47 PM
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Dating isn’t like getting a job. I can actually GET a date 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:45 PM
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They do. They just have to pretend to be guys because gamers are sexist. And most don’t because games themselves are sexist. And creepy. All the female characters are 12 in the brain, 18 in the waist, and 40 in the boobs. upchuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:43 PM
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Even if you’re also into video games and comics the ones they like are kind of insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:42 PM
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Any girl 🙄 I got all the way to maybe 10k followers by spending thousands on photography equipment and clothes. And having professional photos and reels because I was in the industry. The girls at the top spend hundreds of thousands. KimK is a multi millionaire. Most girls aren’t posting on social just so guys will look at their butt, unless they’re in the sex trade. In which case it’s a studio backing them with spam advertising. Yes it’s deliberately constructed to make you think “any girl with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:41 PM
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I’m also glad that beautiful girls are no longer dating total mooks. Humanity’s over-inclusion phase was not only depressing, it created a lot of ugly children. Think of the children!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:37 PM
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It’s not like it’s Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:35 PM
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Take me with you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:35 PM
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By white women. The only ones Indian guys ever look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:34 PM
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Ok but this is so true! My ex is Afghan and all of his friends are just assumed to be super smart and nerdy even if they’re dressed like rappers, pimped out with grills, driving on hydraulics. One of his friends is a mechanic, he can literally be fixing somebody’s car and they’re like “so what are you, an engineer or something?” To be fair, Canada’s immigration program leaves a lot of overseas doctors driving taxis. But sometimes a mechanic is just a mechanic! It’s also assumed that all the wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:32 PM
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I’m a traditional woman and like guys who hold their families in high regard. My dream relationship would have been to live in a family household and care for children while looking after older generations. Indian guys here are just obsessed with white girls and would never ask me out in high school. Past high school, I was a jezebel because I wasn’t a virgin. In college they would rather offer me money for lewds than actually date me. After a while my list just didn’t include them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:29 PM
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I’m going to say Indian guys have it as hard as me, a brown girl. I have friends who are Afghan, Persian etc who get girls left and right. But a lot of girls complain about Indian guys (mostly West Indian) because they smell like curry and have a “funny accent”. And girls like me complain about them because they are weirdly obsessed with white girls and treat them like princesses while treating brown girls like literal slaves. Or they will be super ugly but expect a model girl to bow down to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:23 PM
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Even if some guys did meet a woman who is willing to date down in terms of looks for a guy with the right attitude, they would lose her quickly by telling her what she wants or doesn’t want. Keep telling someone they shouldn’t be with you or telling them over and over that looks are the only reason you wanted THEM and they won’t stay. I mean generally speaking. They stay with me but I worked in an intensely superficial industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:18 PM
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Most ugly men would be happy with a beautiful woman while calling both themselves and her “average”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:15 PM
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I’ve noticed that men tend to love themselves regardless of an obvious need to improve and women tend to hate themselves despite already working too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:14 PM
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What if you have great lips and a wonky eye?
/r/BlackPillScience23/11/22 02:17 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me how many people get violently angry when you inform them that everyone doesn’t want to be white. Apparently they are terrified of this notion. Weird. Edit for those who want to comment and block: imagine hopping on this thread to express your anger that I don’t hate myself enough, and calling it “advocacy”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:21 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child. The “man of my dreams” went up on multiple rape and involuntary confinement charges when he was caught for running a prostitution ring. I’d say he defines exploitation relatively accurately. He was the only guy who treated me with basic common decency and respect, took me out to dinner, said I was beautiful, was honest about what I looked like and gave gentle recommendations, looked like blond Tom Welling, gave me gifts… Because he wanted to violently assault me until …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:03 PM
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If you’re attractive you know because media exists. You don’t need to be harassed. There’s a difference between showing interest and harassing someone but that line can also be easily crossed if people are showing interest too frequently or in inappropriate times and spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:45 PM
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They need to stop using “all men” as an excuse to be abusive and then “not all men” when someone calls them on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:42 PM
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That’s not true unless you falsely define beautiful women as “average” which I’ve seen a lot on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:29 PM
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They say that until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:28 PM
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What are all the benefits of being a white woman? All the violent racist guys want you. You’re the most likely victim for serial killers. You’re viewed as smaller and weaker than all other women. You’re constantly infantilized People call you the “thing everyone wants” online but nobody acts like it IRL. You’re seen as some pariah You’re automatically viewed as kind and harmless even if you’re a complete bitch. You can never access social services because everyone thinks your life is perfect If …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:28 PM
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Why do you think “all men” are like that…while quoting a post that says “most men” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:06 PM
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It is completely accurate. Even when I’ve had “casual sex” it was with a guy I had known for years who had put that much effort into getting me into bed just so he could say he slept with me and dumped me. It was pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:14 PM
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I am so glad I’m not white. There are men who want visas constantly harassing even my least attractive friends, but they don’t think I was born here so they leave me alone. Which is actually funny since there are so many 3rd culture kids here. The rest vibes with me so much. Like exactly. I’m tired of being asked why I’m not grateful for the attention of the most hideous possible men. When I was 11-17 “you’re going to miss that attention when you get old” aka the age of the men hitting on me. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:08 PM
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I get orbited irl but couldn’t meet anyone suitable online to save my life. It was all ugly guys who wanted to assault me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:07 PM
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I can, but they don’t seem to get that it’s terrifying and not at all flattering, in most cases. (I’m not talking to YOU, hot guys on the beach!)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:05 PM
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Fucking bosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:03 PM
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One moved into my neighborhood 🙂 but that was more for my SO than for me and we really liked him anyway. He’s a cool neighbour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:03 PM
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I hate that the internet does this to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:02 PM
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As a former instagram model, and actual professional model, when those guys hit you up it’s a. Not on instagram and b. Usually to exploit you for their own gain. Businessmen see everything as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:54 AM
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I worked in bars and thought men were very stupid too. This poster is just trying to help men to figure out what they’re doing wrong. This is what they are doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:52 AM
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…if they go after beautiful women and ignore women who actually look like themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:50 AM
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Men compartmentalize. If they see you as the kind of girl they want to pursue, they are incapable of seeing you as someone they could take seriously. They might endlessly stare at you or follow you around, and it might even make other women jealous, but you can never break through that wall where they see you as an object or an avatar instead of a person. I’ve dated a lot of guys from the men “every woman wants” to mooks I felt sorry for. The rich CEOs wanted to take care of me and when I told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:44 AM
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My sister is like that. So am I, but she’s always dated a lot and I can’t really like a lot of people. Not men, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:23 AM
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Just to add to that, even if you’re the first one he hits on, you see the way he treats your friends and the answer is still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:22 AM
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Yup. It’s documented. Men care more about looks than we do but they expect beautiful women to date ugly superficial assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:21 AM
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No you’re not. You’re conditioned to believe you do that because clothing made for men is warmer. I didn’t realize that until I tried on a guy’s coat. Thicker sweaters, warmer coats, more comfortable shoes. And no itchy crap all over your faces either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:53 AM
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Pfft. My SO wouldn’t get it if I wrote it on a paddle and beat him with it. And anyway sometimes there’s nothing you can do. That’s what’s crap about it. Sometimes the situation just sucks and it’s nobody’s fault, it just is. We’ve been together almost 14 years. We grew up in this relationship. We fucked up so hard, so many times. Live and learn, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:49 PM
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He didn’t look up from his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:45 PM
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I just can’t trust science in these matters since scientists are mostly male and overall tend to lack social skills. They’re using physical and hormonal cues to interpret things that are typically interpreted in the mind. People react differently to similar signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:02 PM
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Ugh you’re lucky! Here they won’t let you have a tubal if you say you don’t want kids because you “might want them later” You have to really fight them on it. Me either tbh. She called her mom to say her stomach felt weird and her mom told her to go to the hospital. Moms know 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:12 AM
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Lol I thought I was on a different thread 😅😂 In that case I agree with you, people need to speak up more. I’ve had to help a lot of friends bring stuff up with their boyfriends. We’re taught that if we show any interest or sexual behaviour at all we deserve to be hurt, raped or even killed. Any time you so much as act flirty in public the creeps descent like maggots on mouldy bread. Men have a virgin/whore complex that makes it hard to avoid getting dumped the minute we show the slightest sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:55 AM
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I hope you never have period pain! :3 But if you ever decide to have kids I hope it doesn’t extend to those cramps cuz I had a friend who didn’t have period pain and she nearly had a bathtub baby 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:54 AM
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He wouldn’t be upset. He’d just lay there like a starfish doing nothing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:52 AM
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Sure. Both of them missed 100% of the shots they didn’t take. I do exist in the world. The thing is, I don’t understand why most men don’t speak up, if they don’t want to be lumped in with those creeps. It didn’t have to be a random mom who got up. It could have been anyone. And at least 2/4 of the dudes at the table with the main perv looked extremely uncomfortable with what he was saying but they said nothing. That’s different for girls. If I’m at a table with 3 of my friends and one of them s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:42 AM
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I’m glad there are others 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:16 AM
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Luckily today there was a weather warning so I got to stay in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:15 AM
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When did the conversation even devolve to sex? Most men can’t even get there. They’re too busy missing every other cue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:14 AM
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I hear you. I’m sympathetic to a point but if it’s between a hot superficial jerk and an ugly one, I know who I’m picking. And for me it’s usually between a hot kind empathetic person and an ugly suspicious angry dude who hates me and blames me for his entire life and wants vengeance. A psychopath who plays on my basic human decency to get what he wants, which is to hurt someone. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah. I have had a tumour removed from my cervix. They may need to do a hysterectomy but first they have to do a biopsy of my uterus. My gyno was going to do it in office but it was too painful so I’m negotiating to have it done under a general. They have to do the biopsy before a hysterectomy in case it’s cancer. At least I think so. I was offered one before but neither one of us could afford the time off work. We’re one surgery away from bankruptcy and homelessness. So, I just deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:00 PM
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No you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:57 PM
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Similar to my ex. He would just grab my boobs like he was screwing in a light bulb and expect me to go crazy over him. Literal strangers turned me on more just by TALKING to me. He ignored me 24/7 and thought I could just turn on like a blow up doll. I told him a thousand times he should just marry his computer. I’m not just a hole to stick it in after you’ve been roleplaying on some stupid game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:27 PM
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It’s weird right? When I read “no man cares if women get off” I was like…this guy has never met any man I know. Guys who don’t care aren’t exactly well liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:24 PM
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How is any of that a comprehensive sentence. Q. Why should men care if women orgasm, they don’t matter? A. Tell women that so they can see you coming. You: funny how when the tables are turned women demand frank and upfront opinions! Ok let’s plug the main idea into your sentence. It’s funny how when women don’t care if men orgasm, women demand upfront and frank opinions…about what? No honey. The table isn’t the subject of a sentence. Unless the table is demanding opinions. If the table is your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:22 PM
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They’re so funny! But yeah it’s just basically a muscle stimulator like the Dr Ho machine. It simulates a stomach ache, sort of. But if it did lasting damage it would be unethical. The closest thing men can feel to actual period cramps is kidney stones. Or really bad gas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:07 PM
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What you have written is not in English. And no. My parents wouldn’t let me skip the 2 grades the school wanted to push me forward. They thought I needed to get socialized. As if watching idiots punch eachother would cement my future human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:06 PM
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I don’t read anything that starts with “so you’re actually saying”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:04 PM
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I get bad periods that have basically disabled me from being able to work a regular job, since I’d have to take off 3-5 days a month or have my own dedicated bathroom that would look like a crime scene all day. And I’d have to work FROM the bathroom for 2 days. What I’ve noticed is that men get angry at me for crying, taking painkillers, not being able to get out of bed, feeling tired or miserable, and even for being pale and having huge black bags under my eyes from blood loss. At one point I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:47 AM
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It’s not the same. It’s the exact machine (TENS) they use as a countermeasure to relieve the pain of severe cramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:42 AM
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I mean the giant paragraph I just wrote which was instantly completely discounted by idiots who don’t WANT to understand and actively choose NOT to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:40 AM
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Probably. Considering she was less giving him subtle signals and more lighting up an entire fireworks display nobody could possibly have missed if they looked up from their damn phone for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:39 AM
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All he had to do was look up from his phone and she would have done something. Walking up to someone and shouting “HEY” in their face to get their attention away from a screen and headphones is frowned upon, even if you do it to men, especially if you do it to women. At most you have a case that he didn’t know if she was trying to flirt or make fun of him since they can look the same, in which case looking away from his damn screen would have fixed that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:37 AM
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It wasn’t passive at all. She was giving him every possible signal. I’ve seen girls literally walk up to a guy and practically sit in his lap and the idiot is still scrolling his phone. I’ve seen girls try and talk to guys who freeze or run away. We’re used to guys being scared of us. So we wait for them to approach us. We’re also used to being blamed for everything they do. So we wait to see how they approach us. That said, most of the time it’s the most obvious situation in the world. Literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:34 AM
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If you’re not interested in learning anything, I don’t know why you scrolled the answers to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:32 AM
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I wouldn’t say archaic but like, there’s not a random dish dryer or towel holder on my chest 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:29 AM
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What part of this is the noun? The verb? Where are the sentences here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:28 AM
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BO always smells bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:27 AM
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I’m pretty sure he doesn’t do it on purpose.that would be unethical. The rest is just you hating women for no reason so good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:24 AM
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Cologne smells good on its own. Most people with testosterone do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:13 AM
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Guys like you should always express this opinion before going to bed with anyone. So we know who to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:09 AM
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My gyno accidentally induces orgasms better than most guys who are actually trying. It’s depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:08 AM
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Your brother sounds like a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:08 AM
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SHe’s NoT wOrTh It
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:07 AM
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Another excellent example of men not getting it, sure to be followed by others. Every time we try to explain how we feel, the mansplaining begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:06 AM
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Why did this whole thing remind me of this one guy I dated (twice) who went on and on about what a stud he was in bed yet all his exes told me he just did the same thing over and over thinking they loved it and even told other guys how to do it (wrong) making himself out to be some sex guru because he dated sooooo many girls. But they all dumped him. All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:05 AM
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I, too, have had this problem. A service worker seems to be flirting and I’m just thinking NO. IMPOSSIBLE! I feel like nice rack isn’t even a compliment in a strip club. In general if you wouldn’t even say this crap to a stripper don’t say it to me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:01 AM
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They have bottled the good smells. It’s not hard to smell good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:00 AM
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It was fun to look the teacher dead in the eye and say “why? Are you a vampire?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:58 AM
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I’m an actor and can cry on cue. I hardly ever cry over real emotion and I get called a cold robot who has no feelings. It’s like they’re going out of their way to make women cry just so they can gaslight them. It’s so weird. Like if you don’t cry when they want you to, they actually get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:56 AM
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Also periods actually hurt. So even if I am a little bitchy on my period I’m not half as whiny as a dude with a mild stomach upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:55 AM
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Like, today? Okay. At 6am my SO asked why I can’t just sleep in on a cold day instead of getting up, putting on the coffee pot, getting dressed and doing my makeup and then laying back down for 20 minutes before I start my day. He doesn’t get the way people treat me if I don’t wear makeup. He doesn’t get how cold I am, so I have to get up and take a hot shower and immediately put on like 9 sweaters. He doesn’t get that I wake up hungry as a bear and have to put something in my stomach. He doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:40 AM
1

Superficial hustlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:09 AM
2

There isn’t ever a huge pool of appropriate people. Take the largest possible pool: University. Even in a series of buildings that house thousands of people at the same age and education level, a single student is likely to interact with less than 50 people on a daily basis: less than 12 of them often enough to form any sort of a friendship, let alone a relationship. But of those, at least 6 will be inappropriate for various reasons. Take my friend group (please!) Lol but seriously, of the 12 cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:11 PM
1

People get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:01 PM
1

Tech guys? They just think we’re useless as anything but a lol skin or a prototype for a stepford bot. If she doesn’t come with a remote control, an hourly rate or a Mensa certification, or all three, they don’t want her. Source: lived in Cali. Became a lol skin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:00 PM
1

What exactly do about child trafficking The mortality rate of prostitutes00388-1/fulltext) the frequent abuse and murder of women under 30 in this “profession” And the frequency with which women and children are raped, exploited, abused and murdered in this so called “industry” Do you find funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:45 PM
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To me it indicates overly high self esteem. If I was striking out that much with those credentials, it would be because I was trying to date inappropriate people. Like yeah, I could tell myself I’m going to date Chris Evans and nobody except Chris Evans is good enough…and of course there would be something wrong with me. I’m deluded. That’s what’s wrong with me. I mean people of both genders do it. I’d argue that women do it more considering how many will drop hundreds of thousands of dollars ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:38 PM
2

If Trump can be president I should be allowed to date Chris Evans, by the laws of the Bizarroverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:08 PM
2

I used to think Chad was Chris Evans but then Stacy cheated on him with the Crypt Keeper…. Is the Crypt Keeper now Chad? Was the Crypt Keeper always Chad? More importantly….is Chris Evans single?!?! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:28 PM
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There’s no such thing as “sex work”. There is an industry created by and for psychotic men that exploits, humiliates, imprisons and murders women and children for the financial profit of criminals. Porn is the version of it you point a camera at. The issue rarely if ever affects men or boys. Men are making money by raping and murdering women and little girls. Then they film it, so she can’t even get away from it and find a new life. No, women don’t do that. No, that isn’t done to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:18 PM
5

Now I don’t know what Chad is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:55 PM
4

What do carbonated beverages and the advanced exploitation and humiliation of women and young girls, on camera, have in common, in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:27 PM
1

Most men don’t want that kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:26 PM
5

What are we not supposed to want? A guy with a good job like I don’t get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:24 PM
-1

What’s wrong with the stuff that DID?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:23 PM
2

Yeah okay so I want that set of garbage pail kid cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:21 PM
17

Sounds better than any guy I’ve ever dated. Sounds like you’re trying to make guys like that think nobody wants them, falsely. What’s the endgame? I mean I don’t even have a real adult job let alone low level corporate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:21 PM
1

Due to the fact that that’s what you dwelled on, you have proven my exact point. Men don’t care about anything that happens to women, and we have to support eachother, even though we are smaller and weaker. Which means many of us have to be together in order to be safe from violent men, because we certainly can’t rely on other men to help us. Especially men like you. 90% of murderers are men too. AND 80% of murder victims. So imply that “women lie about men” all you want…are men also lying about…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:05 PM
1

Heh well let me just audit. I thought boys and girls were the same until I went to a school where a boy kept sexually assaulting the girls. It floored me that nobody did anything about it. Not even the girls he did it to, they just froze. I didn’t know if they were okay with it or not. I was only like, eight? Nine? Until he tried to grab my best friend. I knew she didn’t want him to do that. She froze too but just stared at me like “help”. I grabbed him by the hair and threw him on the tarmac an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:52 AM
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I think most people are like that. We are attracted to what we want, not what Hollywood (or Silicon Valley) tells us we want. Porn is only for voyeurs who are into watching others have sex anyway. Most people are attracted to people not pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:58 PM
1

Oh boy if only i weren’t trained in debate. I’m so hurt 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:02 PM
1

Super muscular people. It feels like getting slapped with a bag of rocks 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:16 AM
1

Everyone isn’t. Those are all extremely negative traits. They are ways to treat people you don’t like. If you claim to like someone and treat them that way, you are a poison to that persons health and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:30 AM
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I assure you they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:25 AM
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This sub is in person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:13 PM
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Here’s how to link a thread Most of the “feminist” threads on Reddit are run by sex workers. I’ve been banned by them by suggesting that the sex trade exploits women and supporting it is not a feminist cause. There are a lot of overweight/obese prostitutes. But “getting laid” isn’t really the yardstick of success for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:10 PM
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Then one day, she will see your posts….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:04 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:04 PM
1

People who are alone usually want to be alone. They’re just making excuses. They’re like employers that say they want someone with a phd to work for $12 an hour. They know that person doesn’t exist. If that person does exist they will just change the criteria. They don’t want anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:02 PM
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Yes, addicts will do anything for drugs. That’s your type? Desperate drug addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:48 AM
1

Would you want to have to threaten someone with violence to get laid? I don’t follow the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:48 AM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:47 AM
2

Can you link a convo like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:39 AM
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I can do that too. Women lie to your face but at least we don’t threaten to murder you for not saying what we want to hear. Also for the record any guy who talks to me like that is never touching me. I don’t care if he’s Chris Evans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:37 AM
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Please bro. If you really believe that’s true, go to Walmart 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:36 AM
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It has become a bit of a buzz word for negative traits and actions that destroy interpersonal relationships. They make people very hard to spend time with. For example: Constant complaining Being controlling Being obsessive or clingy Making fun of things people really like Being violent Being rude or judgemental Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:35 AM
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That’s how scammers and psychopaths work though. They play on your humanity and try to make themselves seem “like you”. In reality, actions matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:26 AM
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I’m sorry you are obsessed with pornography and even sorrier that anyone would date a man who has this issue and actually believe THEY are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:15 AM
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Uh-huh. He has 100% of his teeth, big kissable lips, sparkly eyes, a great smile, broad shoulders, a trim waist, he’s tall, and he’s more attractive than Ben Kim who was considered some hot Korean thirst trap before he got a girlfriend. He clearly takes care of himself. When guys don’t take care of themselves they are dirty and bearded and have long greasy hair. Nobody cares about acne, especially not at a young age when everyone has it, unless it’s really horrible cystic acne to the point where…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:11 AM
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I’m not rationalizing. Mine aren’t usually more attractive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:54 AM
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Some men are obsessed with the surgical look. But I think we’re trained to think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:33 AM
1

I’ve never seen a woman disagree with it,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:31 AM
1

Obviously he’s not a 4. Where are his flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:31 AM
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They’re not perfect nor do they look like anyones fantasy. Most of them aren’t very attractive at all. But they do wear a lot of stage makeup and have a lot of surgery. I think that if men and boys weren’t sort of trained from a young age that they’re “supposed” to want this look, we’d realize how weird surgery looks. I’ve met a lot of women I was jealous of. Who were completely beautiful and had zero flaws. I’ve just never seen anyone like that in porn. Maybe in like, 80s European porn? But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:26 AM
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It doesn’t matter. A white person can post about black rights but they will never have the lived experience of being black. You can tell yourself you’re ugly all day long but if everyone else is simping over you, it will never affect you the same way as someone who is genuinely unattractive. There’s a difference between a “you” problem and being treated like shit by the actual world, and the difference is that people actually CARE when you’re attractive. A genuinely ugly person doesn’t have tens…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:20 AM
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Ok professional psychologist, which of these are symptoms of low self esteem: -constantly wanting everyone to look at you -posting photos and videos of yourself daily -expressing feelings of entitlement -arrogance -self indulgence -indolence -discriminatory behaviour -showing off your body -constantly talking about how popular you are except when “low self esteem” is trending -using your low self esteem to get people to give or buy you things? -mean girl attitude, attacking others for their look…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:03 AM
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True. I was too nice. I should have told them to unequivocally fuck off the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:49 PM
0

The majority of which population of how many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:41 PM
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It’s my new favourite term 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:39 PM
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As a woman I’m going to say that most men won’t approach you unless they are slightly better looking than you (but not a ton better looking). If you end up dating less attractive guys they will just resent you or think you’re trying to mess with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:39 PM
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Ugh I felt this. My “less attractive” friends ended up in great relationships while I was just out here trying not to get killed. And it was even worse for my friends who men liked better than me. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:37 PM
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Women in porn aren’t beautiful. Most of them know it and spend hundreds of thousands on makeup and surgery as a result. They aren’t the type of woman men prefer; they are the type of woman who could be convinced to undergo a lot of pain, suffering, and humiliation for money. I just can’t understand why anyone would be jealous of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:35 PM
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It’s pretty easy. Have a horny family that travels a ton 😂 I was born in Canada. My paternal grandmother is African Chinese Italian and German. My paternal grandfather is Italian/Canadian. Both were Canadian born. My maternal grandmother is British Indigenous. My maternal grandfather is Scottish Scandinavian. Canadian born. I’m 5th or 6th generation Canadian but not perceived as Canadian because I’m not white. So people who have been here for a single generation or less are viewed as more Canadi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:04 AM
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Usually it was either racism “my son has to marry exactly whatever we are!!!” Or elitism “she’s not rich enough to be a part of our lower middle class family! Her mother is a medical professional and her father is a music promoter!!! Disgusting!!!” 😂 But the mini skirts didn’t help 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah…I just realized how that sounded too 🤮 I was in love with a Taiwanese guy whose mother became upset when she found out he’d broken up with a beautiful smart Taiwanese girl from a very good family to date a filthy Canadian foreigner (her words not mine). She stopped paying for his apartment and forced him to fly home to take a position with the family business. 9/10 of the men I date are removed by their moms before the relationship even reaches the bedroom, it’s 10/10 of the Asian ones. Im …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:36 AM
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Oh yeah so I’m in Canada. But I’ve been to NY, SF, and lived in frickin’ Japan 😭 Asian men can quit whining about who they can’t get cuz 100% of them rejected me 😭😭😭😭 Ok not 100% but the ones who hit on me all had girlfriends. Or moms 😭 I’m just gonna sour grapes it all right now. If they don’t want me they don’t want anyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:29 AM
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You’d think there would be more for me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:35 AM
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See and imho he’s gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:15 AM
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I grew up in a world where it was subjective and entirely based on your flaws. He has a normal amount of discolouration, not even lumpy zits, that anyone can cover with bb cream. He wouldn’t even need full coverage makeup. There are so many full on idols who have much worse acne/skin damage. Just like most idols and actors who wear heavy makeup often. It’s normal human stuff. He doesn’t have any traits that are considered truly disfiguring/unattractive. Just thinking of some of the people I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:15 AM
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He called himself that. But it’s like those Tik tok girls who look like Bella Hadid saying they have “self esteem issues” to get views. Or the ones who are like “I hate having big boobs because shirts are haaaarrrrddd” as an excuse to post 24/7 boob content and pretend they’re not. We all know it’s a full out lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:22 PM
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How is that guy a 4/10? Literally WHO is even a 6 if he is a 4? Is everyone on this page racist or sum? What are his flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:20 PM
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Are we still just tacitly agreeing to this 4/10 nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:19 PM
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As a woman, that guy is not 4/10. Especially not right now, in humanity’s K-pop era. Having a self esteem problem isn’t the same as being genuinely ugly. There is literally nothing wrong with him. If you want to claim 4/10 where the hell are your flaws? And then he’s comparing himself to models and actresses in heavy makeup? I did that for a living. I can spackle my face and put on a dress too. I would have gone out with that guy. So please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:18 PM
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A 9/10 guy calls himself 4/10 because he’s a moron and doesn’t own a mirror…wow! These results are cray! ….next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:16 PM
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If you’re overthinking it that hard you’ll never find it. Compatibility analysis would have ruled out everyone I ever dated, and ruled in a lot of people I would never date. It’s a general waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:45 AM
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Love isn’t science.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:04 PM
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If the only way to protect yourself is not to show up, you don’t show up. I doubt that was sarcasm. Men like you are the exact reason good men aren’t meeting women. When you claim to speak for all men, and women believe it, it ruins someone else’s chances. At least the smart ones know better and ignore this rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:49 PM
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That’s why you can’t get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:43 PM
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I have to work. I go on Reddit a couple times a day. But other than that there’s too much to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:44 PM
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I’m on the spectrum I guess. People say “we all know this is true” and I’m always left out of “we all”. I don’t know what “toxic traits” are…unless it’s the active ingredients in poisons. For one of many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:56 PM
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I don’t think we should congratulate people on their misery. That’s like people congratulating me on losing weight because of an extended painful illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:55 PM
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Not knowing any of the things “we all know” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:54 PM
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The average guy decides he wants to date someone and asks them out. They either say yes or no, but unless he’s gay he doesn’t have to worry about date rape drugs, physical violence, or murder. Unless he’s black or brown he doesn’t have to worry about being falsely accused of sexual assault or physical violence by a woman who is believed just because she is white. But men in general don’t have most of the fears or worries women have to take on because we become whipping boys for all of men’s wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:23 PM
2

If your kink is so terrifying that it would be considered taboo even in 2022, it’s probably best to keep it to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:58 PM
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I don’t agree with the principles but I like that they encourage men to stop obsessing and acting like psychos. To the other points: The Supreme Court is not the church, as much as Reddit wants to think it is. The separation between church and state exists. Different churches have different ideologies. Even the most adamant pro-lifers I have met agreed that women should HAVE a choice. They just wanted to support women who made, in their opinion, correct choices. In my opinion, abortion is a smok…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:45 PM
1

If I were a man I would hate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:27 PM
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I’d choose to be very rich. It doesn’t seem to matter what gender, race, or religion you are as long as you’re rich. I’d have the power to change the world. Everyone just agrees with whatever rich people do. And that’s fine when they make their money helping and serving others and running ethical businesses and charities. But when a country becomes run by self centred liars and greedy criminals, it starves people to death and destroys lives. Rich girls aren’t the ones getting harassed when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:21 PM
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I swear those subs are all run by the same people who make money off making women think the sex trade is “empowering” and men think they “can’t” get laid and also “deserve” a “hot girl”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:28 PM
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At the very least, they’re pushing the same thing…”sex work” is “empowerment” for women…why would any feminist push that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:26 PM
1

$4.99 or less 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:25 PM
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You can accept something without romanticizing it. There’s a difference between not harassing someone or denying them medical care because of their weight, and bullying or physically attacking them because of their weight. I worked in social services for years and a large part of advocating for and helping women involved in the sex trade is fighting against exactly the lies that sub is selling. If I called every woman who asked me to help her get away from her abuser a “SWERF” I would not be hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:25 PM
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There are so many women and girls on onlyfans because of “sex work” advocacy. They’re making next to no money and comparing themselves to the “special girls” who also work in prostitution/porn studios. It’s the standard way of getting girls into the industry by constantly making them feel “worthless” unless they do more and more unsafe things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:21 PM
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Feminism is getting more unpopular because it is only being used as a device to cause suffering for women. It’s not because we want to save men from false allegations. It’s because we want to save women and girls from people who advocate prostitution. To me, the feminist groups on Reddit that are run by sex workers and men claiming false rape allegations are serving the same cause.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:51 PM
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Speak for yourself, planet of the apes, I’m all human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:29 PM
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You’re taking something at face value that is really just an excuse to cause pain to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:29 PM
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It was so awesome back then. When my dad was younger if you wanted a job you could just get one. No credit checks. No criminal record checks. They didn’t want to know anything about you except who you actually are. People aren’t paper based research projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:12 PM
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Anyone but you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:09 PM
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It might just be an experience thing in your industry? You get better at a job over time. In my industry it’s increasingly abusive management, firing some employees and expecting others to do the work of an entire team, and pay scale/inflation issues. Boomers in retail own a house, a car, and have a brand new pool in the back yard. They have friends at work and have barbecues together on weekends. They get begged not to leave their jobs by managers who are terrified of training “kids”. They have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:33 PM
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TL; DR. I doubt it’s worth reading but if anybody wants to sum up the mysogyny and false equivalencies for me feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:21 PM
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Right? I hope he had good insurance 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:02 PM
1

Please tell me you’re in plastic surgery or some other elite but not public facing career. No patient should have to endure being judged this way by a complete stranger bringing their own baggage to the table. Dehumanizing people is the worst thing you can do c in medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:12 AM
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I hope you find someone that contributes. I don’t blame you. When I was dating I did that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:10 AM
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It happens, a lot with people in my generation tbh. Millennial guys are either overworked or lazy and there is no in between
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:08 AM
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I tell myself it exists bit I’ve never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:06 AM
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I know. “I don’t care” and “I don’t know” are the default setting when it comes to things they consider “too girly” to care about. A man doing all the emotional work has been described literally in this THREAD as helpful and wonderful and comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:03 AM
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“Pity party”? I said women have to take time off work men don’t need. There’s a difference between being forced into a job, and forcing others not to do it so you can feel special. Women are being deliberately forced out of trades; we are not stopping men from giving birth. You want women in trades, advocate for women in trades. They would love the advocacy. And ask that they receive equal pay while you’re at it. But no. You don’t actually want women in trades. You just want to use the shortage …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:38 AM
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Any man can “cold approach” me like a human; no man can act like a weirdo creep no matter how hot he is. None of the things that make someone creepy are looks based. I would argue they’re even creepier coming from a hot guy. You expect unattractive dudes to be a bit awkward but when a hot guy does it you wonder if he has some sort of mental deficiency or horrible defect. You’re not usually wrong, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:29 AM
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What is “this” behaviour? Do you believe women want to be sexually harassed by men who look attractive for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:21 AM
1

Who is “we” or are you talking to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:19 AM
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The excerpt is from a part of the post where I was giving the most extreme arguments from both sides. The end of the question is my actual opinion. Most men who are extremely anti-feminist seem to be in relationships with women who they are financially supporting while taking on most of the chores and childcare. If feminism is about “female supremacy”…I don’t believe this, but they say they do…would it be fair to say that these women are actually the highest level of feminists whose example we s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:56 PM
1

Your partner is my doppelgänger 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:51 PM
1

Sounds like an ideal situation! It seems to work because you both understand certain genetic limitations (he can’t give birth lol) and work together the way roommates do to solve problems. I grew up in an industrial town so there were a few families with a husband working way too hard and a wife just shouting at him to make more money, “married with children” type situations, but its definitely more common to see 50/50 work and 80/20 chores. Even in families where it’s completely impractical. Wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:50 PM
1

Sometimes women take on the work of planning everything but really want you to do some of it. We don’t always say it. You might be surprised what you find out when you ask her how she feels about planning all the appointments and things. She might be glad you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:43 PM
1

He definitely likes having me around, but it’s extremely hard on me. Because it’s not 4 cups of coffee it’s like a bunch of sticks he dragged in thinking he would make something out of them, a guitar he found in the trash and thought he’d learn to play, 3 bottles and 8 cans he “has to” keep because he likes the pictures on them, 502 random sheets of paper for character creation and props patterns, 3 rolls of foam for projects he never completed, and all the incomplete projects. I have to get a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:41 PM
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I think you’re just being combattive. You’ve chosen 1 thing and acted like it’s the whole post. Wedding invites still contain RSVPs. Families still have schedules and if anything they’re worse. Men typically only have to manage their own money and schedule and often can’t even do that. Women are treated as personal assistants for the whole family. Men could very easily help with remembering appointments and scheduling events. At least, they could manage their own schedules and finances, or inqui…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:33 PM
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Good thing I pee on trees. Men don’t go through the physical trauma of giving birth nor do their breasts feed babies. They therefore do not struggle with limitations to their ability to work for 12+ months at a time, accounting for the “hour on average” twisted stat. In our “path toward an equal society” we need more high quality, affordable childcare and more dedication to the family unit on the part of fathers. We also need to stop sexualizing children in the eyes of men, so they can appreciat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:09 PM
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If the other person isn’t making any suggestions then it falls on you to make all the decisions. I’ve seen my friends ask men what they wanted to do with a house/room and it was always “I don’t care”. My ex (who actually did help me with the housework) had a gaming system in his bathroom when we met. Obviously he was not a master decorator. But neither am I. Some input would have been nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:59 PM
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My grandma and grandpa shared the housework, outside chores and both worked full time. My mom and dad both worked full time but mom cooked everything because dad would only grill on weekends. Mom did all the housework and repairs, planned everything and called all the contractors. My genx brother shares all the chores and housework with his wife. My genz brother hasn’t even dated yet. I worked 60 hours a week when I met my SO. I was forced to reduce my work hours because of the level to which he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:56 PM
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It’s easy to ignore the situations people can get stuck in when you yourself have a lot of options. I see it in long term care all the time. As a physician it’s best to try and understand rather than judge the situation your clients find themselves in. It doesn’t matter how people feel about divorce as long as the laws in place are fair. The law says people are equal partners even when the higher income earner disagrees. I agree that people should be civil and mature in a divorce hearing, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:48 PM
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Same dish issue. I just end up doing them myself because using the “leave it until he realizes he’s an idiot” method just resulted in ants. This is so cute though! I’m glad you guys are happy together. Honestly I find him very relatable. I’m English speaking and born here, but when someone is annoying me I pretend not to speak English 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:42 PM
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The landlord or the licensed contractor. Like who just calls their husband to install a whole ass hot water heater 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:41 PM
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I have no idea what relationship you exist in, “cracked anus” but 90% of the jobs you described are performed by licensed contractors, and the rest fall on me. As if hanging a shelf is hard or time consuming. We’re currently painting and drywalling. I am painting and dry walling while he sits on his lazy ass because he “doesn’t know how I want it done” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:39 PM
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I understand how you feel. The times when I lived alone were the happiest of my life. Except I couldn’t sleep. I get really cold at night. But the histrionics every time he has to do literally anything are extremely annoying. He can’t even close a cupboard without slamming it and screaming about it like dear god.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:36 PM
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I liked MGTOW. The whole premise was to leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:48 PM
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It isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:47 PM
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Most men who approach women do so aggressively. Most men who do Not approach us talk about us aggressively. I was at a café at 10am listening to 4 piece of shit tourists talk about an underaged girl one of them met online aggressively and went to their table to tell them to shut the fuck up at 10sm in a cafe full of families. A man is not a piece of shit, but men in general? The public image of men? It’s utter crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:45 PM
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That said, cashiers and waitresses need to stop hitting on my SO 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:44 PM
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No. Any woman who grew up anywhere experienced this. I’m well travelled. I have a million friends. This is every girl, everywhere, all the time. Zero women deny this experience. Only men are invested in calling it a lie. And it’s usually exactly the kind of men we’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:44 PM
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We aren’t. The pedos and perverts on Reddit are. It’s pretty clear what their real motivation is from their posts about “young women” and underaged girls on other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:42 PM
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I’ve only ever heard the “overbearing mother” narrative used by pedophiles. They’ve convinced men to walk out on their families and if they could just get rid of those pesky moms who still love their kids they could get access to children. Hollywood pushes the “overbearing mother” trope so hard because Hollywood is full of pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:41 PM
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What do you think is normal about a stranger grabbing, pulling, touching, or attempting to remove clothes from another autonomous human being, a complete stranger going about their business in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:38 PM
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Adult men. Perverts. Usually in their 20’s women will say “I’m so glad there are less perverts these days” … there aren’t. We’ve just aged out of their target preferred age group. The older you get, you stop encountering pedophiles, and then sugar daddy types, and then pervs. Until you’re of child bearing age and then the pedos come back. It’s not until our 70s that we can live a life free of perverted psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:37 PM
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It’s basically exactly what women have to do all the time, we just have to do it more often because men overestimate their own worth more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:34 PM
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If you can’t tell the difference between showing interest and showing the potential for sexual violence, nothing women can do will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:33 PM
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That, and if OP had taken even a cursory look at r/tinder he would know men aren’t “more polite”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:32 PM
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It sounds like most people are like me, at least here. My SO is totally different to the point it feels like torture. It takes me hours to clean any room he’s been in for 30 minutes and he uses ADHD as an excuse. I recently put everything I own in boxes and stacked them in a room to show him how much of the mess is just him dragging literal garbage into the house. Even my stacked boxes look less messy than his bedside table 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:20 PM
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The good old days never existed in my family tbh. I can’t think of any women in my family who didn’t work in addition to taking care of the house and family unless they were sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:18 PM
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My aunt moved into a modest house and bought two more houses as rental properties. She’s done really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:16 PM
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Sounds like my grandparents! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:14 PM
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From what I’ve read and observed in my own relationship a lot of women are struggling with feigned helplessness. Their SO’s claim to be incompetent in order to avoid doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:13 PM
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It happens when something hits the mainstream media. They had their boom, this is their bust, eventually they’ll be niche again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:08 PM
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You seem to be saying that women should be picky and only date men we find physically attractive, however I have seen other men in this subs state that we should be made to date men we aren’t attracted to by force. Maybe I’m just too conventionally attractive for this conversation/s But in my personal experience I’ve mostly seen it go the other way. Someone “gets” someone who is considered conventionally attractive but doesn’t actually want them because of some other factor that interferes with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:58 PM
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Reading endless vitriol and writing hatred isn’t the same as picking up a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:45 PM
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Sure she is. She’s my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:43 PM
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And you want to work with the public? In medicine? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:43 PM
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Lol they think r/makeup is all dudes 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:41 PM
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Thanks for the YouTube content. I’m screenshotting this for an upcoming video where I ask models if they know what Reddit is, and which subs they use. It should come out in January, after my fall shoots. Let’s “have some fun” 😂😂🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:40 PM
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“You’re not a normal girl if you’re willing to talk to me” 😂😂😂😂😂 “Why can’t I get a woman tho”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:38 PM
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There are definitely very few of us who are willing to make ourselves targets due to widespread threats of violence … and not just threats. There are public personalities and activists who do speak out in full view of the public but male “activists” pose a real threat feminists do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:37 PM
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I mean I’m a public personality who uses toxic male Reddit for material when I can’t think of a weekly topic. I doxx the shit out of myself 😂 I’m pretty sure he’s just spouting the usual “if you’re not underaged and part of bimbo culture you’re not allowed to speak” nonsense toxic men use to exclude women’s opinions from the public sphere. We just keep on talking though. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:32 PM
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Only because if those women ever DID date them, they would suddenly become “not good enough”. Anything they can access is not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:31 PM
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Not everything we want. Actually the more beautiful my friends are the more problems they have. A lot of workplaces are run by ugly bitter people whose perception of you as “someone who gets whatever they want whenever they want it” makes them petty. Like yes I’d get invited to parties just walking down the street, but I couldn’t hold a job because the people I worked with were always best friends who hated me. Yes I could make tons of money in a strip club but I got openly made fun of in Uni an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:29 PM
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I think we do tend to me more attractive but it’s because we’re extremely obsessed with our looks in a way most people aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:25 PM
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It’s some pedophile mentality. All the “women” in this sub are “old”…they don’t understand how hard it is for men in their 20’s to find younger women. Of course we do. We’ve been in our 20’s. Every man I know laments his late teens and twenties because half the women he was able to meet/date weren’t sexually active yet, or didn’t want to be. Or couldn’t get into the bar lol. A man who is old enough to want to settle down and start a family complaining that the “women” he is attracted to aren’t i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:21 PM
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You sound like you’re selling something. Did you actually think “you’re not allowed to speak because you’re not worthy” was going to work? Women, en masse, are getting pretty tired of being told we’re not allowed to speak unless we appear to feed into bimbo culture. Imagine if we did that to you. In fact, stop posting. You’re clearly not attractive or masculine enough to be allowed to speak. Agro, isn’t it? Bit judgemental? A bit like if you saw someone displaying that attitude you would find th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:16 PM
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I mean I’m a diagnosed narcissist and an ex model but I’m not here on this site especially not in this sub so shhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:14 PM
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I don’t know if you know this but dating sites have existed since 1994. I know couples married 20+ years who met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:12 PM
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It’s more than enough with most dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:11 PM
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I don’t know why you’re trying with this man-child. He doesn’t even speak the language. He’s crying over one “wowee”; imagine if we said “oh my wow” to him. He’d break mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:11 PM
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We get less harassment and now have the time to breathe. Theoretically. I get harassed more than my younger cousins, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:09 PM
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I totally agree. Women who are considered “hot” by men have a lot of boundary and abuse issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:08 PM
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Real housewives and the Kardashians stand as my proof: rich people are the real problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:07 PM
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White women who have dated black men aren’t usually black women passing for white to avoid social stigma, dating white men and sleeping with black men on the DL until they eventually come out and leave you for one. “Bisexual” men however….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:02 PM
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Agreed. Here to add that a person can be entirely “phobic” and just live their life not acting on it, and that’s fine. We don’t need to be thought policed. Social graces and basic human politeness are necessary for a society that functions in spite of bias, which we all have, in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:56 AM
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A lot of men use bisexual as a smokescreen for the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:53 AM
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I hang out in the same circles and I can say in all honestly that women in our communities say they’re much more progressive than they actually are hoping to fit in. I am personally in a relationship with a cross dressing SO and anyone holding us up as their example of the ultimate progressive couple would be mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:51 AM
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Wow. Your hatred has almost wrapped back around to progressiveness. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:49 AM
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It’s a fantasy until they try it. Then it’s all “I can’t perform” and “stop using me as a dildo” and “why do you like her more than me” wah wah wah. That’s why I don’t fuck with girls who have a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:49 AM
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I think it started in the 80’s when the spread of AIDS was associated with gay men. Hypersexualization is associated with men in this era (women got the blame in the Victorian era) so we have this picture of gay men as some sort of pestilence out here ruining lives. However actually gay women are viewed the same way. While straight women are encouraged to make out or have sex with each other as a performance for men, they are widely hated and harassed when they choose to live their lives as part…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:47 AM
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That’s weird because the LGBT community is actually complaining about straight women’s fascination with gay men. I’m pansexual and would not attempt to date someone who obviously showed no interest in my gender. Some actions make it obvious you’re not interested in a certain type of person. Black women don’t date guys with nazi tattoos. Opera singers don’t date rap music enthusiasts. Water is wet. If a woman is straight and attracted to masculinity she won’t be interested in a transwoman. A gay …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:43 AM
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I’d love to be able to say that, but women are taking on almost all of the responsibilities men are completely ignoring. Women are working full time and doing most of the household chores and almost 100% of the child care while men are throwing temper tantrums about being asked to mow the lawn. In the 80’s and 90’s I would agree that people were similarly immature. There were a lot of negligent parents, self absorbed finance enthusiasts, addicts, and narcissists in that generation but now? Less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:32 AM
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Theoretically, yes. In reality, what I’ve observed is that people who say they settled had ridiculous expectations they themselves would not meet. They’re George Constanza mad that they “settled” for like Kim Kardashian instead of holding out for Bella Hadid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:57 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:06 PM
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To me using the word settling means you had ridiculous expectations that probably even you couldn’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:18 PM
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Why is it even called “settling?” As if just because I had a crush on Brad Pitt back when, anyone I sleep with who isn’t a famous Hollywood star who has never once so much as laid eyes on me, is substandard? Who came up with this concept to begin with 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:17 PM
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He asked for citations, I gave citations. You’re spouting untruths in order to support a false narrative. So I’ll just meet your OPINIONS with mine, since I already gave the accurate FACTS. Ugly guys have plenty of sex and are just as shitty as hot ones. In my opinion, usually shittier. If you could just date an ugly guy and finally have a man who was kind and attentive, we would all be doing it. Of course those guys work against themselves by joining online spaces where they are literally teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:03 PM
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Men are having more casual sex and are the most unfeeling and uncaring they have ever been. Kinda gross not gonna lie. Men are taking off on their family responsibilities more than ever. Can we even call these men at this point? More like self centred irresponsible, angry children. And it’s cite your sources. As in citation. Women are intelligently choosing to remain single in a North American society that hasn’t seen a grown ass male in at least 30 years. Good idea. We don’t need another genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:55 AM
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Isn’t everyone? Maybe water is wet but that won’t make it sand. Would you prefer to have experienced near constant sexual assault? I’ll switch with you and gladly be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:28 PM
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Then why do they call themselves a movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:25 PM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:24 PM
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Maybe. Maybe you weren’t attracted to yourself and projected it on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:04 AM
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I’ve seen what some men refer to as “obese” and “mean”. That type of man has called ME fat and I’m a size 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:02 AM
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I don’t think so. I think they’re reacting to the positive feedback they’re getting from people who play into their attitudes rather than correcting them. It’s a common problem online and I’m not surprised they thrived on an upvote-run site like Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:01 AM
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I unfortunately have had the pleasure of meeting more than a few of them IRL as a direct result of my participation in the cosplay community. They speak differently in person and well, it’s even MORE disturbing. For example they stare at actual children and describe them as “petite women”. They creep on girls and then get angry or sulk when other girls defend them. They complain about “woke politics” in comics and fly into screaming rages about how this or that fictional female character is too …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:45 AM
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It’s funny because if they were right, most of us would be incels 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:33 AM
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“Just smile more”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:33 AM
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I think dating apps are full of fake accounts that only exist to destroy your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:32 AM
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It’s almost like describing women as “roasties” and “feeeeemayulz” and giving them dirty looks from the corner of the room makes them like you less…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:31 AM
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I mean I was a model and now I feel like a wrinkly old hag, even though I can still look almost human with makeup. Some people grow out of their looks, some grow into them. Your looks will always change, but style is forever. Glenn Close is my favourite example. In photos, especially older ones, her looks are unusual and even drab. But the way she carries herself leaves no question that she is the most gorgeous, poised person in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:29 AM
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Some of them are very attractive though. They’re just evil. 9/10 of the girls I grew up with would have dated Scott Beierle on looks alone. But he’s psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:26 AM
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If you approach an ugly guy as a gorgeous girl he just thinks you’re making fun of him anyway. And average girls are obsessed with ultra-hot guys the same way average guys are obsessed with ultra-hot girls, for some reason. It’s hard to get laid if you just want to be obsessed. I mean I’m saying this but I’m a hypocrite because my SO looks like the whole ass cover of the fireman’s calendar. And he was only interested in me because of how much his looks annoy me. I was literally the only woman NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:23 AM
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You didn’t call yourself an incel or consider it part of your identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:19 AM
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I…always went to the grocery store hoping to meet guys when I was in Uni. I didn’t know where to meet them so I would look for a guy with something tasty in his cart and try to strike up a conversation. Unfortunately guys always thought I was making fun of them and got mad at me. 😔 I just wanted to eat chayote with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:18 AM
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No honey. It has degraded into a synonym of pedophillic mysogyny because of the way the movement describes and talks about women and girls over the age of 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:16 AM
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I’ve met guys like that but it’s more that they’re incredibly superficial and mad that they have to work out and wash their butt to get a similarly superficial girl…then they get mad that the girl is superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:14 AM
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…of attracting the exact women you wanted who are as superficial as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:13 AM
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Unless you’re describing “being a man under 20” as being an “incel” how did you go out that much and never meet a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:12 AM
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Guys are the same. I’ve seen guys and girls walk into a room where EVERYONE of the opposite gender just follows them around like a loser. It’s mathematically stupid and let’s face it, that person is always taken. But the idiots chasing that one person never once look at each other. Ten thousand people at a concert screaming for the star, but they never think to say hello to fellow fans. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:11 AM
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No there would be more. If some guys are angry because women reject them NOW, think of how many guys would be miserable if we women asked out the guys we actually want. Currently, a LOT of men are relying on womens’ poor self esteem. Currently, a LOT of kinda ugly, sorta loserish guys have no idea women are only settling for them and hyping them up as an act of charity. If we ever started acting like men, it wouldn’t go well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:08 AM
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In my experience the less attractive person puts in the effort. If a guy is hotter than me I have to convince him. If I’m hotter than him he has to convince me. Men often over-perceive their own attractiveness in expecting women to chase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:58 PM
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It depends how you perceive effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:56 PM
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Or she has anxiety. I have anxiety.90% of guys I date have autism or ADHD and they “got me” because they couldn’t read my unintentional negative social cues 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:56 PM
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I mean yes it seems like OP can only see the world from his own perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:55 PM
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Sounds like you’re overly critical and not someone I’d want to impress. Id rather learn how to impress guys I want to impress, than settle for guys who will only criticize everything I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:54 PM
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I don’t want to be that bitch but it’s only broke guys who look like crap who want women to be more forward. Guys like my SO have women harassing them constantly and wish girls would back TF up. When I let him pay on a date he was literally like “thank you! I don’t know why girls always assume I’m broke” and we had this huge convo about how women tend to see him as some kind of project or sugar baby rather than a person. I mean not just girls. He broke his cell phone last year and some random du…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:52 PM
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It’s more like saying; “I live in Japan and I only want to date guys with blue eyes” “The one time I met a guy with blue eyes I was totally shocked!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:49 PM
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Doesn’t mean we don’t exist in the world now. I started dating in the 90’s and my cousins are in their teens. We have family in every generation. The only dating “world” I don’t understand is the late 60’s and early 70’s. that shit was completely gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:47 PM
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It’s etiquette now, to allow one person to order for the table so you don’t confuse the waiter. Or, to allow the person paying to relay the order to show they agree to it, or so they can change the order and the price. Like when I used to tell my mom my order….”and fries” and my mom would relay it to the waiter while giving me a look “and salad” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:44 PM
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I mean I’m genetically European and grew up in that set of customs. It is customary for the men to protect the women in our families and the women to protect the children and our food. Nobody fends for themselves and mothers don’t kick out their children. The head of the family orders for everyone at the table. It’s romantic or sexy for a man to know about food, to know the chef or what is the best thing on the menu. It can also be considered rude to order for yourself because of people talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:40 PM
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You’re seeing the what but making no effort to understand the why, or understanding it only based on what it would mean if you were doing it. You’re going to have to make a better effort at empathy if you want to maintain relationships with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah I used to be that girl too, until I realized it made men perceive me as less attractive and desirable. Most of them want the chase, and think you’re worthless if they don’t have to make an effort. The more guys chasing you the better when one guy finally gets you. Then he walks around with you on his arm like a proud peacock, and other guys have to admit, even if you’d never be their type, that there’s just “something about you.” Maybe 20-25% say it, but another 50-70% “can’t put their fing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:23 PM
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It’s true. I can never meet a guy who knows how to dance. The one time I did I was so excited 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:20 PM
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No, it feels like an interview because you won’t stop asking her repeated questions and most of them feel like the type of questions used to steal your personal information, not the type of lighthearted questions you might pose in a real conversation. They all have boring one word answers and if she were to start carrying on a “conversation” the way you are: by asking a random question or answering one without any follow up or real conversation, you would understand how annoying it is pretty fas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:19 PM
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It boils down to women being at kids risk physically and men being more brutal, blunt, and mean. If all you heard all day was people criticizing everything about your loins you’d be terrified to go out without camouflage too. This whole post is just one long act of using women’s deliberately curated insecurities against us because abusing us and ignoring our rights hasn’t turned us into virginal sex goddesses (somehow) with zero baggage (whatever that is) but not “stuck up” either, and completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:15 PM
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Hey yeah so I was raised Catholic/Anglican and they (and other religions) have very specific rules to how and when you’re allowed to date and get married. I was already on thin ice for not being a virgin when I got married to my husband. I was only allowed to marry him because he was also impure (lol). We had to go through pre-marriage counselling and our parish priest refused to marry us to each other because of our income level and my race. He actually said it. The church would recognize our m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:17 PM
3

I don’t feel safe to approach a guy in a group. And groups usually hold guys I’m attracted to back from hitting on me. But that’s just my experience idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:09 PM
1

I think people just mean that we will usually definitely hit on the one guy in yoga class or the one dad in the moms group. He doesn’t have to approach us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:07 PM
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But that’s not human nature, at least not the way we’re socialized here. People in North America have learned to step on others to get ahead. For just one example HGTV used to be beautiful gardens open to the public, how-to shows on updating your own home, and shows about where to purchase gorgeous decor. DIY, antiquing, and bargain furniture. Now the entire channel is almost 100% parasitic contractors and house flippers preying on the less fortunate. All the DIY, gardening, and antiquing creato…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:29 PM
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When I was there it was an issue of Japanese culture requiring you to have certain things in place before you’re allowed to have children. That might be the issue here too. Telling people they have to have this that the other to be worth dating leads to depression so we all just sit in front of screens hating ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:20 PM
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I was alive in the 80’s and 90’s. We had just as many video games, message boards, and by the end of the 90’s msn messenger icq etc. We used those platforms to meet people AND met them in person. The reason everyone I knew started spending more time online was because you could expand your friend group. I think increased predatory behaviour both on and offline is the reason people became careful. Stalking has become so common these days that people actually normalize it. And I feel like social m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:17 PM
1

I think people are very often the victims of their own thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:12 PM
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Maybe people should just do what works for them and find partners who agree. I’m not poly and I’m not dating a poly guy but some girls are. I’m not here to judge them just find the person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:08 AM
13

It’s weird that you think we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:06 AM
1

This right here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:05 AM
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Thanks for posting this. I get really tired of the “any woman can have any man” narrative. It insults everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:05 AM
0

Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:02 AM
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I can answer it too. There are certain things people of your own generation just get because they grew up in the world at the same time. My SO is only 9 years younger and it effects every area of our lives together: Music He’s heard of Nirvana but never felt the loss of Kurt Cobain. He listens to Evanescence unironically. I didn’t know about Panic! At the Disco and he was like, who is Ministry? We just listen to our own headphones. Gaming. I think video games are for kids and he thinks they’re f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:47 AM
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I was interested in older guys but the only ones who wanted me were 100% creepy pedos hoping for a power differential. Even guys my own age would make fun of my cute little crush on them. So I ended up dating younger. Not because they were younger, which is the vital difference. Pretty sure most of us have met the middle aged man who leaves his actually gorgeous wife for “a 20 year old” who looks like she got hit by the blind side of a barn door. And then hides her trying to maintain the illusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:23 AM
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I could tell from the first sentence that nobody wants to read your fan fic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:15 AM
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Even if you’re attracted to older men most women aren’t attracted to pedophiles and that’s what 90% of them really mean when they say they like “younger women” “petite women” “inexperienced women” …. They usually mean “underaged girls or women who can pass for them.” Older men and even the ones my age (since I supposedly look younger, I don’t see it) who hit on me are usually creeps of the not allowed within 200 feet of a school variety. They hit on me with “cute” phrases like “hey little girl” …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:14 AM
1

Maybe people just naturally feel threatened by bigger people. I know it’s hard for me to feel trusted by shorter people who always seem to think I’m coming after them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:17 PM
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Among heterosexual men who want to have daily sexual intercourse, 0% seem to want to actually treat their partners like human beings and find out what they actually enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:53 PM
1

No honey. It isn’t 7% of all white peoples. It’s 7% of all interracial marriages involved one. If there were more white people and it was therefore easier to find white people, the interracial marriages wouldn’t be predominantly Asian/Indian. Unless you’re suggesting that white peoples are obsessed with marrying Indian peoples but hate asians and especially black people in which case Daaaaaamn white people racist tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:08 PM
1

Talented at being white.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:05 PM
1

All restaurants used to have the same rules. It was because parents put their kids to bed at a reasonable ass time and didn’t hang out with their five year old like they were best friends. Parents started bitching so they changed it. I think that’s when they also changed the smoking laws for bars. When anyone who didn’t want to listen to toddlers screaming and get hit in the face by some kid’s paper airplane started eating at bars to avoid it. There’s a time and place for children. 11pm at the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:02 PM
2

Bill Gates has been married for like a thousand years and Zuckerberg used to throw insane parties, who are these tech geeks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:59 PM
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There’s an old movie you might like on a similar topic: Logan’s run. It postulates the idea that an obsession with youth and strength as the most important traits, taken to the nth degree, leads to a society in which anyone in physical decline (over the age of 30) is considered useless and put to death. Currently more than 75% of the worlds wealth is held by its oldest 10% of citizens. Should that money just be taken from the people who have chosen not to share it? Interesting concept. Also tax …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:55 PM
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How is that funny? He harassed a young, drug addicted stripper who spent her whole life being abused into a marriage she didn’t want and then left her penniless when he died. Why is that your idea of a good joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:42 PM
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Maybe you should read up on her story. She was severely abused by just about every man she met in her life. She used a lot of drugs to cope. He harassed her into marrying him and he left her with nothing. Maybe we need to stop shitting on young girls for being exploited and blame the abusive perverts for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:40 PM
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Anna Nicole Smith was a childhood physical and sexual assault victim who had pedophillic relationships normalized to her. She became a stripper and was proposed to repeatedly by an octogenarian pervert. He wrote her OUT of his will. Telling her he would marry her and that she would inherit was a scam. He pulled the same scam on his own son. She became a seriously depressed addict and died miserable and penniless. Yet people still drag her name as the ultimate mega-slut who “used” a “poor old man…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:38 PM
2

I’d take it. No man I’ve ever met can even do that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:26 PM
3

We’re just hoping against hope that straight men who shower actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:25 PM
2

It’s not true. But daaaaaamn white people are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:24 PM
1

Biggest douchebag in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:23 PM
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Just taking it because he knows he deserves it. He’d stop her if she was actually hurting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:22 PM
2

20 year old? The last guy I dated who still lived with his parents was 33. And working full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:20 PM
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Yeah. Look I’m just going to admit it. I can get off more easily from a fictional story on mechat than from most real men other than my SO. They just don’t care if I get off. They don’t care if I’m interested. I don’t think they even care what I look like except as a status symbol. It’s really cold. Especially when he doesn’t treat his friends that way. Like you know he sees other people as people. Sometimes he even has female friends he sees as people. But not you. My SO wasn’t the best looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:55 PM
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To everyone in every way. Nobody likes a pathetic shithead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:21 PM
1

I can see that you don’t know how flairs work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:26 PM
1

It’s you. The one replying to every comment with annoying vitriol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:25 PM
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My two cents: Women as objects, men as subjects. Everything in society that sells sex caters to men as human beings with desires, interests and a sex drive while viewing women as a packaged product. It leads to men viewing themselves as “consumers” in a capitalist marketplace where sex with women is the product. Women are expected to “provide a service” and nobody really asks us how we like it or what we want. Sex as a means to an end Women are socialized to believe that sex is a means to an end…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:12 PM
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Because other women exist but other men don’t 😂 (all of my dms confirm the falsehood of this)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:32 PM
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I would argue that 90% of “fat” women are more attractive than people so ugly they need to constantly browbeat you to feel even slightly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:30 PM
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It’s really weird to call a random person you have never met a “200 lb Walrus”. Therefore, a few points: Walruses weigh over a tonne on average. A 200 lb walrus would be anorexic. Like a 5’9”, 32 lb human. Ew. As most women know, weight is not an indicator of body composition.. At the height of my modelling career, I was a size 0 with a 22” waist and weighed 181 lbs. Not to brag, but I always won the big bunny playing “guess your weight” at the fair. Meanwhile my friend, who men constantly refer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:25 PM
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Same though. The last time my bf tried staring at another girl to make me feel ugly I just walked away. Dumped him over text. “If she’s so pretty you don’t even see me walking away, I guess you’d better go date her. We’re over.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:16 PM
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Try it. You’ll end up losing both women. The one that doesn’t want you now and the one you think you’re going to leave her for. No woman on earth thinks her old ass douchebag of a husband is going to attract some 20 year old with a million options 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:15 PM
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Why is the top comment on a question for women an answer from a man that displays an alarming lack of insight? Well, I guess the fact that this is the top answer answers the question all by itself. Men don’t listen to women or care what we have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:12 PM
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I mean it is statistically accurate that it happens to women more. OP isn’t wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:11 PM
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So I was right when I said they probably drew their data from dating sites which are rife with sex trade workers, which is why mens attractiveness increased based on money and womens did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:38 AM
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Which women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:04 AM
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The chart (wherever it’s from) appears to suggest that women don’t become more attractive due to their income level but men do. To whom? Women who are rich and searching for an equivalent partner? Or was this “study” done in an environment like tinder where sex trade workers are so prevalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:03 AM
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Doesn’t this fake chart actually suggest that women don’t become more attractive based on income but men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:02 AM
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It only makes sense if you’re a 17-20 year old virgin who is obsessed with older men who have a “purity complex” Which doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:24 PM
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Jesus. There’s something wrong with people. There really, really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:10 PM
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Me either! I watched so many tutorials too! I even bought the expensive magnetic ones and even they only stuck once. Then they warped
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:09 PM
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Or that’s just the way they’re built and you can respect that
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:47 PM
1

….no really. People do go that long.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:46 PM
1

You’ve got to go to work at some point.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:46 PM
1

Are you homeless? Why do you want this?
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:45 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:45 PM
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I mean you’re 100% correct. People were literally so pissed about fat Thor. They bitched about “fat phobia” but that’s the same tactic as trying to cancel racialized actors by saying any appearance of any black character ever is “racist” Realistically everything ELSE in marvel is fatphobia. Fat Thor was just a mirror on the fans they didn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:01 PM
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All it tells me is that she has skills I lack. I can’t get the damned things to stick 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:58 AM
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If I’ve met a guy over 22 who was a virgin, I didn’t know it. But in general any time a guy who is of age openly says he’s a virgin you sort of wonder why he’s saying it. A lot of guys who say they have no experience do it hoping you will easily trust them. So you won’t ask them to get tested or sp they can just lay there in bed. I’d also wonder why they brought it up or why it mattered to them. Because even when I was one, it wasn’t something that mattered to me or that I felt anyone really nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:32 AM
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You’re saying there are no actors in 2022 who have a slim or fat body type or who are plain, weird looking, ugly, or just less than Chris Evans level fit, and that this is womens fault…let’s unpack that. Most actors don’t have the body type you’re talking about. The ones who do, like Dwayne “the Rock” Johnson, Vin Diesel, and I actually can’t think of a third example, are action stars who predominantly work in men’s media. I think they each made one childrens movie, both comedies, and Vin’s was …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:06 PM
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I. Met, him, and, thought, he, was, tiny, but, it, turns, out, he, is, taller, than, me. He, has, short, energy. So when you call people “retarded”…it’s projecting. Right?
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 08:02 PM
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What’s wrong with feminism? You didn’t answer the Question. You use the word “white knight” to describe any man who helps or defends a woman at risk of or in the process of being assaulted or threatened. That’s the definition. Yes, I am one of those people who doesn’t sit around watching abusive people try to browbeat other people into allowing them to commit violence. There are a lot of us. Are you worried that you don’t be able to hurt women if people keep defending them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:58 AM
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No. There is a difference between selling a product or service and selling yourself. Some men might look at models because they are pretty but models are selling products: clothes or perfume or assistive devices or knitting needles or whatever. Their body is not the only subject of the content, nor even the main one. If I want to look at a k-pop star because he’s hot, it doesn’t trump the fact that he shows up to work every day to sing, dance, practice, and do the work. Convincing people that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:49 AM
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You certainly think so. And you would be wrong. It is impossible to get onto any page of a major site without the backing of a studio. They make it look homemade, but it’s the same studios and the same actors. The sex trade just isn’t as big as you think. Even on sites like MFC where anyone can sign up, the only way to the top is to be one of their direct hire “models” or part of a studio that puts out 50+ girls and has them watch eachother and cross post to bump the views.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:47 AM
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Truly. I don’t know when or why it became a trend but it can stop any time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:46 AM
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That’s what I meant. You’re forced into it if you don’t want to wear it because there’s too much of a market for it. I’ve had to shop overseas to avoid walking around basically nude. It’s changing a bit since Billie Eilish and K-pop became popular and retailers started losing sales to Chinese, Japanese and British companies. They’re (slowly) starting to realize fashion isn’t about “sex drugs and rock n roll” anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:44 AM
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“Never” I’m starting to think half the people in this sub are just trying to force people to repeatedly click this article. I miss Covid when people weren’t only online to garner link clicks or sell you something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:40 AM
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“A majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with” is the tagline. The second line of the title isn’t the point of the article? 😂😂😂 I swear half this sub must work for pew research and just be trying to up the link clicks on this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:38 AM
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I read it 60 times a day on this sub. And everywhere else And even in movies. And in Thrillist And it’s a common conversation for men to have
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:33 AM
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I mean I guess I could rack 365+ a year if I said yes to every guy who asked. Even if I scaled that back to only the hot guys…I live in a beach town. My vagina would still look like Ren’s face: (In case anyone takes this seriously, I was being funny, that’s not actually what vaginas do. If it were, people wouldn’t compare themselves to porn stars out of fear that they are “abnormal” or “too big” ) They started pretty young. B had 6 years to get to that point and celebrated “triple digits” for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:24 AM
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Exactly what you says is that older people don’t want companionship because of their age. But you have a habit of trolling this sub so I won’t waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:12 AM
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And for the same reason. We live in a society where they expect to be exploited for it. Why would they stop looking? Are you ridiculously suggesting that older people are not human and don’t want companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:01 AM
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I’ve quoted it numerous times in this thread. I don’t think you even read the tagline. Literally right under the headline. The point of the entire article.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:00 AM
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The only place where they mention age is to say that older men don’t know how to act if they can’t sexually harass people. “Men – especially older men – and Republicans are more likely than women and Democrats to say it’s harder for men to know how to act when dating in the era of the #MeToo movement, though majorities across the board express this view. For example, 75% of men ages 50 and older say it is now harder for men to know how to behave on dates, compared with 63% of men younger than 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:59 AM
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“women are more likely to say they have had some particularly negative experiences. Most women who are currently single and looking to date (65%) say they have experienced at least one of six harassing behaviors asked about in the survey from someone they were dating or had been on a date with, such as being touched in a way that made them uncomfortable or rumors being spread about their sexual history. This compares with 50% of men who are single and looking. The pattern holds when looking at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:57 AM
2

It’s literally the tagline “A majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:54 AM
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Are you serious? “A majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with” is LITERALLY the tagline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:54 AM
1

Whatever that means, coming from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:32 AM
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Single women without children out-earn men and are more likely to become homeowners. 83% of buying power in the USA is directed through women. The “worst off women” in your example are exactly the ones who decided to “couple off” and have children. The wives and girlfriends of deadbeat men who took off on their own families. Who stole from women and children to serve their own greed. Avoiding men and pregnancy is the smartest thing any woman can do to achieve success, at least in the USA in 2022…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:31 AM
1

I’m taking the numbers from when we were in our 20s (the last time anyone bothered to discuss “body count”) Exact ages Girls B: 18 K: 29 L: 38 M: 32 C: 29 Guys M: 29 K: 22 R: 25 D: 28 G: 20 The guys with higher numbers were models or looked like someone. One of them looked like a famous actor so he had women begging him and even offering him money to sleep with them. The girls with higher numbers were the opposite. Less attractive or had very little self worth although one of them was extremely …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:19 AM
3

Ok but you’re clearly not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:12 AM
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I mean honestly I love them and think they’re hilarious and even sometimes glamorous but I have only successfully managed to glue them on my face twice in my lifetime. Okay Iike give me 3 hours and a Sephora makeup artist and I can look like that too but I’m just not that great at art 😭 I was never the kid who could color inside the lines 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:10 AM
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I started telling my friends I would be happy to go to the doctor with them when they get the blood test results. I was just really done with the drama after the 3rd girl in my friend group pulled the same thing. One actually was pregnant but she upset me the most because she told her boyfriend, let him buy a crib and set up a nursery and buy them a beautiful house, then had an abortion and told him she miscarried. She made him take care of her and coddle her for months and even let him get a he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:03 AM
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It’s really awful. I hate seeing white women tormenting their mixed race children. I’m mixed race and my mom wasn’t like that, at all, but it’s depressing to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:02 AM
2

The advice men especially pua give is actually terrible. If you get bad advice from a girl you probably asked the wrong girl. Like my friend works at a strip club and guys are always asking her for advice on women. She’s like “if I knew, would I be working here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:59 PM
1

At least back then peoples attire was similar. Like 70s glam rock was the same mesh see thru everything for men that women wore. Now men dress like some kind of puritans, or like children while women are forced to walk around naked and it’s just weird. I literally have to buy my clothes in Japan or 7 sizes too big so they cover my body. I think if more women wore bigger outfits we’d have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:57 PM
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When sex before marriage was illegal kids were getting married at 15 and divorced at 20. It doesn’t change the cheating rate much, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:43 PM
2

I see your Real Housewives and raise you Cardi B. The Kardashians viewers are split between men and women with no definable gender watching more. Their biggest ratings happened when one of them did something men liked, like when Kim’s sex tape was leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:42 PM
2

Flair checks out. Stop attacking men for loving their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:36 PM
5

I would like to see men stop swiping right on every woman because it wastes women’s time, too. You start talking to a guy who basically swiped you without looking and he just acts like a total jerk because you’re “not good enough” like don’t swipe her then? Why would you swipe her just to insult her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:35 PM
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Would have fixed mine. If the man I married when I was younger had been committed to marriage, and committed to his job and our home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:32 PM
1

We all should 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:31 PM
2

I would honestly like them to teach their kids that it’s not okay to hit anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:31 PM
2

What’s wrong with feminism? What’s wrong with being kind to people who are female? Are you worried you won’t be able to hurt women if other men protect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:30 PM
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It’s actually really weird though because I don’t see thirst trap guys coming up constantly on my feeds, but they do on all the men I know. My so literally has to tell social sites and even e-mail providers he’s female to avoid having sex work shoved down his throat. And it sincerely makes me worry for my nephews. I don’t think the women in the photos are responsible but I’m not sure who is. It really is hard for men to just exist in online spaces without having this stuff thrown at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:28 PM
4

Imagine me deciding at 42 to stop dating single dads
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:24 PM
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“Women can just diet”…no because the models you’re looking at aren’t “just dieting” they’re starving half to death and having multiple invasive surgeries and toxic skin treatments just to be considered average at 17 and elderly at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:24 PM
1

Or “men are biologically predisposed to cheat”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:21 PM
1

Sorry but do you know any other women? We do annoying things, most of these just aren’t those things. They’re just whatever will get a post upvoted in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:19 PM
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I don’t care what your reasoning is, this is good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:18 PM
2

It’s not anyone with a vag. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:17 PM
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I would like that too. Honestly. It’s depressing to be a normal, decent person and watch all your crushes take off with someone else because she sticks out her ass a lot and is really good at gluing fake lashes to her face. Marrying girls who can’t spell “carrot” and think the Queen is the “President of England” because “have you seen her boobs!” Yes, Kyle. EVERYONE has seen her boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:16 PM
2

They said your OWN gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:14 PM
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It’s the fake miscarriages for me. I’m going to start punching people who take a pregnancy test right after a period and then say they “lost” the baby 3 weeks later. Start crying over it like it’s some horrible trauma. You got a period. You tested ridiculously too early. Then you got a damn period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:12 PM
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They ARE the product. They are selling themselves. Who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:11 PM
6

“Amateur” porn is made by the same people with worse cameras. It just makes you think you’re getting a more “authentic” experience with an “ordinary” person. It’s as curated as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:10 PM
2

Hey, don’t you @ me like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:09 PM
4

Just adding to this, don’t decide that because a woman is pretty she is the “wrong kind of woman”. I had so many friends who could sleep with 9 guys a week because they were considered ugly so men thought they couldn’t get anyone else, but I was a model and couldn’t even get a boyfriend until I was in my 20s because everyone judged “girls like” me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:07 PM
1

We don’t give terrible advice on purpose unless we have a crush on a guy and he is for some reason asking us how to get some other girl. Which is more like read the room, dumbass!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:03 PM
9

These are specific to Canada where I live and I’ve never seen most of it in Europe where my family lives, or in the states. So the global ones have stars. -making their entire existence about some guy and dumping all their friends because of it. * -working so hard to seem “cool” or “strong” that they end up looking ridiculous. If you can’t take me at my shut up you can’t have me at my I-don’t-care -putting a symbol on their social media while doing nothing to support the actual cause, or even wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:53 PM
-1

I’d have a lot more likes if they did that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:17 PM
1

Most women can get relationships and choose not to because it would negatively impact their finances. Most people don’t want to go through old age or death alone. But they’d prefer it to worrying about the financial security of their family after they die. I’m not at all confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:58 PM
1

They definitely care about their financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:31 PM
0

The article did not say most women who were single and not looking are over 50. It made the opposite claim. The people they asked why they were not dating weren’t over 50. The article was not about people over 50. I don’t know how else to say it. Saying the word “fact” doesn’t make something a fact. They interviewed people who were interested in dating and a majority said they were not dating because men are too aggressive and threatening. Any woman has lived experience to back this up, unless s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:42 PM
1

I’m not going to re-type the article in the original post for you, no. If you can read, I’m pretty sure you can read it yourself. It states in several places that women aren’t dating because dating is LESS SAFE for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:38 PM
0

The dating marketplace is scarier for women who have more to lose because all the stigma for failed relationships falls on us, and all the responsibility, especially if there are children. Also men go to strip clubs for like every event. You could artificially skew the study by opening more strip clubs and escort services that serve women, or taking a sample that includes only Christian men and female sex workers, but that wouldn’t be very science of you. I say we do the first one instead ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:38 AM
1

You only have to tweak the numbers slightly to get the same median result. Hell, you only have to run the numbers on 10 of my friend group. The girls: B: 300 partners (she has a creepy dad and no self esteem) K: 3 lifetime partners L: 2 lifetime partners M: 1 male partner (she’s gay now) C: 6 male partners The guys: M: 100 lifetime partners (he’s B’s brother, so 🤐) K: 50 so far (he’d have more, but he’s a douche) R: 15 D: 22 G: 210 (last time he counted) Even if they all had sex with the same gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:33 AM
0

Most people don’t count non-consensual sex and 85% of rapists are male so maybe that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:23 AM
2

Many do. My grandmother was married for the second time at 56. Men still hit on my mom who is in her 70s. But she’s worried about the same things I am: that men are egocentric opportunists who only want to take her house and our inheritance. We’ve both seen it happen to a lot of friends. At least 3 of my friends got kicked out of their own houses when their moms died. One of them when she was 17. It’s like 1704 out there man. The only way to pass your assets is to keep men OUT of your finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:20 AM
3

Nothing in the study says that. It specifically says that women who are single AND LOOKING to date answered a survey where they DIRECTLY linked their fear of dating/unwillingness to date with harassing behaviours and threats from men. Young men are more willing to date than young women because they feel safe doing so. They feel safe doing so because they take no risk. They are not the ones who will be blamed if anything goes wrong. They are not the gender that makes up 80% of single parent homes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:14 AM
5

It makes sense to me. North America has become increasingly tolerance of gender based violence and victim blaming when something bad happens to women. “If I’m going to get blamed for everything a man does to me, I just won’t date” is the only logical response. Especially with the new abortion laws, young girls are having tubal ligations to declare their bodies their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:08 AM
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I’m sorry but you really lost me at the premise. Maybe this was true in the 1970’s ✨maybe✨ but in my experience ugly men are more confident than good looking men. Good looking men, like beautiful women, are constantly being approached and asked out. They have to feel like they are hurting peoples feelings all the time just by existing. And because it is assumed that beautiful people (especially if they have money) are incapable of feeling sad or hurt, other people will mercilessly make fun of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:49 PM
0

My FYP is all comedy and activism. My SO’s is all gaming content, those weird sea shanties, and dudes doing weird dude-stuff. Chopping wood and forging swords and building caves and whatnot. I follow a few “thirst traps” who I know personally. Only because I know them personally. Two I used to hang out with as a cosplayer and one (shut the fuck up) used to be my gardener (I am not even kidding you). A few are girls who I used to be in a performance group with. One (shut up) used to be my persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:01 PM
4

For you page is videos the algorithm recommends based on your previous browsing. The main page you see on a social media site.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:49 PM
17

Exactly. If anything these subs have helped me because I used to feel bad for men who “couldn’t” get laid but now I know it’s a choice. It helped me to have standards and rules, and stop dating below my level just because I felt bad for someone. There’s nothing to feel bad for. They idolize the most evil kind of guys and want to be just like them. Now I feel zero obligation to be nice to them,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:03 PM
7

If he’s watching porn he’s already cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:01 PM
1

You wish. There are entire fandom conversations dedicated to favourite characters and the reasons we like them the most. Entire websites dedicated to romcom, romance novel and K-pop biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:57 PM
2

Both. People have so much rage about the gay community that people feel like they have to hide. So if you’re gay, a lot of people end up meeting others online so that they can meet one on one in a safe place rather than in a gay bar that runs the risk of being infiltrated or shot up. Literally it’s so bad. I stopped going because there were so many guys who used “lesbian” as an excuse for violence. There was one guy who would follow women around the dance floor humping on them and wouldn’t leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:59 PM
0

It’s honestly the same guys getting the girls. The ones who have interests and display them. At cons it’s the cosplayers. At concerts it’s musicians, bouncers, even the sound and lighting guys. At the beach it’s surfers, the ice cream hut dude, that one guy who can pull his shirt off with one hand 🤤 If you have none of that you’ve got to have serious confidence like my ugly cousin who gets every hot girl just by asking out literally everyone and never caring who says no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:52 PM
1

🙄 I’m not asking you. I’m telling you. If you have a problem with reality, I don’t care. But when fake dating apps like lovelink and fictional characters in romance novels are getting more play than you are, you’ve gotta ask yourself why. If you don’t, don’t whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:51 AM
2

Men aren’t paying for sex. Especially not men people want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:32 PM
3

Yeah. Maybe men need to look at fake dating apps with a 90% female user base or books with female readers to figure out what women want. Or just be alone forever if all they want is a sex toy, but they also want to play mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:49 PM
3

Or because it’s increasingly unsafe to go to gay bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:46 PM
1

That’s a lie though. Women are just as interested as men in sex. Women equal or even outnumber men at male strip clubs. These services are simply not offered to women, generally. Those that do, make a lot of money. More than the ones that offer services to men. There are plenty of perverts of both genders, and plenty of hustlers who are happy to make them pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:36 PM
1

Okay but I’m going to get really creative :3 There would be tons of activities for adults that aren’t gender biased or really hard for the average member of one gender. Or centered around alcohol and drugs. I could meet a ton of really hot guys at a jiu jitsu class and I’d really like to grapple with them 🫣 but I’m not that strong and probably wouldn’t be able to get through the class. I could probably meet guys at a tabletop game night, but they’re heavily gender biased and often won’t let me i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:35 PM
5

It was the age gap thing for me. In the community here it seems totally normal for a woman in her 50s to go after a girl in her teens or 20s. I remember feeling very uncomfortable dating in that sphere because of it. That’s just here though. I’m sure it’s not the same everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:46 PM
1

I don’t understand the fake words you are using but in answer to your question yes, acting angry that nobody wants to lick a public toilet and upset that you act like one is a series of red flags sewn into the shape of a man. You know what is “unsexy”? Chlamydia. Stop trying to give it to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:29 AM
2

It was so terrifying as a kid honestly. I felt so free when I realized they were obsessed with “innocent virgins” and would leave me alone if I looked and acted like a “used up party girl” around them. Without actually taking the risks with my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:15 AM
1

It has nothing to do with society’s standards and everything to do with loving someone. Also you don’t want to open that door. If I say “hey SO you’re getting fat” he’s going to be all “hey catniagara how TF would your blind ass even be able to see me getting fat” and … come to think of it we do have these convos 😂 There’s just ultimately no point to them. My grandparents did it all the time. “Jeez you got old!” “Look at YOU.” “We got old.” “You gonna leave me for some young thing now?” “Aw, hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:54 AM
1

I don’t know why post breakup conversations work out this way for you. I don’t really have a comparison because I’ve been in 2 relationships in 18 years. I dated a lot of people but figured out early if there was a compatibility issue. My best guess is that sometimes people who aren’t compatible get and stay together for reasons that elude me, get mad at each other and break up, but remain in each other’s circles for reasons that also elude me… I’m an alien on this planet. The few breakups I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:47 AM
4

Personally yes that example comes across as douchey but I’m a woman and there are some things that would make a guy seem appealing to me but would enrage someone who normalizes high-risk sex. Like “I wouldn’t have sex with someone I just met. I don’t even know that person” “I would only sleep with someone who has been tested. I get tested before sleeping with a new partner.” (A LOT of guys freak out at that and I definitely feel like I’ve dodged a diseased bullet. If a guy said it to me, I’d tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:37 AM
1

Ask her what she thinks about women who get fired for selling their onlyfans pics to co-workers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:29 AM
1

Don’t ask people to lie then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:27 AM
3

I’m a 42 year old woman and I have no trouble finding people to date. My mom is a 72 year old woman and has no trouble finding people to date. My grandmother met and married my grandfather at age 56. Sorry but OP is right. We really don’t have to GAF who says they don’t want us, because we can easily just date someone else. In addition a lot of women lie about being virgins or whatever, and I wouldn’t want the guys they end up with. 🤢 there’s zero benefit in being the girl that kind of guy think…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:24 AM
1

Anytime a “non white” speaks you click off. If you were ever clicked on to begin with. Which I doubt.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 02:09 AM
1

If that’s all I have to do to get banned from the manosphere EVERY TIME I SEE AN UGlY ASS RACIST WHITE DUDE WITH A PODCAST MIC I SCROLL AWAY.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 01:47 AM
2

Username does not check out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:43 AM
1

Idk
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 01:43 AM
2

We’re talking about people we actually know. Guys in the manosphere don’t get laid because they present themselves as a threat to women and especially children.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 01:41 AM
2

Kids are in different places on the attachment spectrum and so are adults. I can’t say why. It could be genetics, the way they’re raised, birth order, or something else. Like for example my brother is a very independent person but I get extremely attached to people. My dad said when we were babies I used to cry if you put me down, and he used to cry if you picked him up. So when somebody broke up with my brother at a restaurant he just kinda put his money on the table, said “okay,” got up and le…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:02 PM
2

They’re people, not tropes, and the only men I’ll have in my life. Not because they’re tall, or sexy, or 25. As a matter of fact many of the happily married, dating, gay, or even completely perverted men in my circle are teddy bear types who weigh close to 400 lbs and have massive beards. One of my friends does a pretty mean Santa Claus 🥰 The only thing they have in common that manosphere guys lack is basic human decency and respect for women. Literally zero other differences.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 07:46 PM
2

Actually I’ve found men in the horror community to be less likely than your average gamer or comic book fan to form actual hate groups to threaten and harass women. Definitely less likely than your average redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:43 PM
2

Because unlike hate speech, it is supported by actual numbers and facts. Unlike hate speech, it is accurate. Unlike hate speech, it is a reaction, not an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:40 PM
3

No. Humans are similarly emotional. Men have more anger issues and they are normalized. Men also insult or make fun of women, and treat us like our opinions don’t matter especially if they want to tell the “you’re being emotional” lie which incites women to completely shut down around men. I mean trash men. But if a guy was one of the good ones he wouldn’t be in the he-man-woman-haters-club “manosphere”
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 02:54 PM
0

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yeah. Maybe when men stop being up to 91% of rapistsand 90% of murderers and 100% of school shooters women will feel more comfortable in a room with them. Maybe when they stop being less entitled and crying about how they can’t get laid while we are literally being kidnapped commodified and murdered. Maybe when they start being advocates for actual human rights and not for whatever makes their lives easier while completely destroying the lives of women and young girls. Maybe when…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:43 PM
2

Onlyfans isn’t gaining popularity. It was originally intended as a space where popular and famous people could upload special content for fans, similar to Korean fan sites. They advertised it to actors, influencers and creators like myself hoping they would join the site and bring their fans. But since the content wasn’t limited or curated it allowed underaged “models” and “cosplayers” to post lewds for creepers. By not limiting that content, their website was rebranded and the popular creators …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:37 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 “racism” How did you feel about the Little Mermaid
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 12:20 AM
1

You’re all going to have to come to some agreement on your belief system…or is it just “always blame women for everything”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:03 PM
-1

No it isn’t. Prejudice is pre-judgement that calls to mechanisms put in place by some form of bigotry, such as racism. Not listening to some obvious crazy person’s podcast in no way affects their ability to get a job, obtain healthcare, or a home, nor does it limit their ability to create a podcast.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 09:33 PM
1

Men don’t pay more for food and men get paid more at work. They’re also more invested. If he’s not paying I’m not going. If I were rich I guess he would be richer than me since guys won’t date a girl who makes more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:31 PM
2

To be fair no one would boast about it if it was true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:31 PM
2

I don’t think any woman wants to date a man who only wants her because of her age, unless it’s about getting money or resources. Even I tried that once because I had friends who said getting an older “benefactor” is where it’s at, but the guy moved too slow in terms of helping me out, my situation got worse and he became more of a liability. It really doesn’t work in practice the way it does in movies. When I was younger I wasn’t attracted to older looking guys. Now I’m older, I’m not attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:24 PM
-2

I gotta be honest, The minute I see a white dude with headphones and a podcast mic I don’t click
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 04:53 PM
3

I’m not at all surprised.
/r/BlackPillScience18/09/22 06:38 AM
2

Oh sorry I mistook you for not an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:24 AM
1

And you think you know more about the culture of women and girls and what we are taught than a woman because?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:23 AM
1

Yeah. I’m not sure who to blame other than 1970’s Hollywood, but someone has really done men dirty telling them they have to be really awful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:39 AM
-1

If you sort the most popular porn sites (hub, you porn, etc) by most popular the top 100 or so videos keywords are “teen” “step (family member)” “barely legal” “petite” and most are based on rape themes featuring a “babysitter” “schoolgirl” “step sister” “high school girl” “step daughter”. Even if you search terms like “milf” you get “milf teaches barely legal daughter how to F her boyfriend” etc. And then there’s Hentai which, because it is cartoons, often contains graphic themes of actually un…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:11 AM
1

Can confirm. Though there’s no party like an Indian wedding 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:41 AM
3

Whoever is less intoxicated/more capable of rational thought or can be proven to have instigated or encouraged it. Or whoever is older or was in a position of authority or power. Personally, I just wouldn’t take a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:39 AM
1

Oh, definitely. …on the other side of my gold railing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:36 AM
2

Dude I’m telling you one time I was in the club and my drunk friend forgot that the bathrooms are gendered, because we usually go to a different kind of club. He went to drag me in there to show me the urinal because it’s shaped like lips and a bouncer who looked like 3 Dwayne Johnson’s in an overcoat picked me up and spun me around and said I wasn’t allowed in that bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:30 AM
2

Coffee “date” where she buys her own coffee 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:27 AM
1

The VIP isn’t ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:26 AM
1

r/menwritingwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:26 AM
3

Just being real here, you shouldn’t have sex with anyone who is impaired. Intoxicated people cannot consent and you especially shouldn’t be saying yes to someone who is sex-in-a-dirty-club-bathroom drunk/high If you really want to avoid a sexual assault charge, or a disease, never have sex with anyone while they are under the influence. And ffs don’t have sex with random strangers and especially in a public toilet. Like I had a friend who chased another guy away from me when I was too drunk/high…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:24 AM
2

Lol I used to dance. If I had sex with every guy who lifted me I would have been a penis pincushion 😂 but I can confirm that dancers are hot to regular people and it’s easy to pick people up at a club if you can dance. Male dancers are pretty rare except in other countries. But in North America dancing is “gay”. I blame strip clubs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:12 AM
1

I googled it. She’s 17. He’s 25. The film was deliberately pushing boundaries and upsetting people. Not really unusual for the times. I think OP missed that whole moment when society went from John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever to John Travolta in Grease…to John Travolta in a dress playing somebody’s mom in Hairspray.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:09 AM
2

Pretty woman is further proof of that. High N Count + Sex Trade Worker is the recipe for success. I almost forgot Trading Places. Jamie Lee Curtis also wore a lot of makeup AND A WIG ZOMG
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:06 AM
2

Do…you want me to ask my mom? That’s like, a REALLY old movie. I think I saw it once when I was like 12. Seems like girls probably liked it because it was the least testosterone driven shitty movie of it’s time? They weren’t comparing it to like, Miss Congeniality they were comparing it to Fast Times at Ridgemont High and stuff. Was anyone under 50 even old enough to watch that movie when it was made?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:01 AM
1

Better than smoking weed. It actually does what it says it’s going to do without you waking up in some rando’s house not knowing how you got there. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:55 PM
1

Yup. Fuck my siblings honestly. Bunch of Genx asshats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:54 PM
2

I didn’t think men were abusive pedophiles before porn preferences were revealed by what comes up first in the algorithm on a website. I thought men mostly watch the comparatively normal stuff in the back of the video shop. At first I thought well the kind of guy using this website doesn’t want anyone knowing what he’s watching, but now that everyone streams and nobody watches videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:45 PM
-1

I feel the same way about men. Women especially young girls used to think men were genuine but rp taught us they were just manipulative scammers. We used to believe that there was a “different one” out there but now we know they’re all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:42 PM
1

I’m an anarchist. ama. (I won’t answer)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:40 PM
3

The kids, assuming he’s not some pedo. Kids can’t take care of themselves easily. I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:39 PM
0

I hope you’re right. There’s a douchebag around here who loves revving his bike
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:37 PM
1

Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:37 PM
1

I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:36 PM
7

Who cares? Nobody wants to date a guy like that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:35 PM
1

When they don’t want to be in a relationship anymore and even then you can end up stuck in one
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 12:06 AM
4

I usually just say “I really only wanted someone to talk to, I’m so sorry.” They’ll keep trying to go out with me but I’ve said what I said, so they’re not shocked when I’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:11 PM
1

That’s only because our fathers call us that? Like how young does dude think I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:09 PM
1

My question was genuine. When I see words like “berated” and “humiliated” especially when someone also says these women deserve to be physically hurt in some way, I think about my own experiences. I worked in fashion, and in clubs. I’ve seen a lot of women get screamed at, threatened, assaulted, or lose their jobs and all they did was politely refuse to have sex with a guy. It made me angry for a long time. I had to work really hard not to hate men. Hell in a way I was an “incel”….I was terrifie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:38 PM
-9

Non neediness isn’t a thing. Everyone who exists in a space is present. Vulnerable to what? You don’t know how funny he is from across the room. “Sexual tension” and “escalation” …sounds predatory, ew. Attractive body language only applies at the club and I don’t think OP is a dancer? You can’t hear anyone properly in a club or bar. If preselection means someone you trust endorses they guy, that might be the only one that makes sense. Simply, no to all of it. The first thing I notice about a guy…
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Then why do most models look like teenaged boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:32 PM
6

But okay…but I feel like objectively it looks “worse” on men. Because it also makes THEIR boobs bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:32 PM
10

Mariah Carey is the mother of two of her children, gold digger who? Gold digger which?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:18 PM
2

Okay well i work in the performance industry, and the only women who meet Nick Canon (or any high end actor) are high end models, dancers, and actors themselves. I’m not meeting no Nick Cannon doing community theatre for some neckbeard director who wants to up the violence in Shakespeare 😂 Literally two of his kids are with Mariah frigging Carey and I’m sorry but that iconic goddess was already dating WAY down with Nick Cannon. There is no man on her level. Maybe Brendon Urie? But he’s been marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:15 PM
2

What experience did you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:57 PM
1

People who look similar tend to have similar interests. Beyond that, having a “checklist” could really limit a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:56 PM
0

Trying to manipulate the situation and making everything a competition.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:35 PM
-1

No.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:34 PM
2

Ask her out.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:21 PM
3

I asked him. He says it’s both. He talks less but he still has a stutter periodically, which is why he talks less. It happens automatically if you bring up the stutter. Like if I talk about the fact that he does it, he does it. A lot of people have always thought its cute, so it’s not really that he got teased for it a ton but he wants to feel like a big tough manly man not a cute stuttering cinnamon roll. So I just keep those thoughts to myself. …but I’m thinking them a little 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:20 PM
2

Bar culture? Yeah. I’ve always wondered about the logic of sticking a bunch of drunk, stoned people with zero inhibitions in a room together and just ringing the bell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:14 PM
2

I mean I definitely fit zero of those categories and am still in a relationship. The categories sound defeatist like if they’re not constraining enough they’ll go back and redraw the boundaries to make sure nobody is within them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:05 PM
3

Are you saying you are using the words “brutal and horrible cruel rejection” to describe a woman saying no to having sex with you? I was trying to figure out what those words refer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:02 PM
3

What does the “horrible rejection” look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:01 PM
2

I definitely go after “Chads” because they tend to share my interests and background. The way they look is just a symptom of being interested in water sports and athletics. I don’t really think there are leagues but the way people look and dress does tell other people who they are, and if you mix up those cues or don’t understand them it can be really hard I think? Like when people talk to me and I don’t have an accent, they get really mad. Or if a girl looks like a total punk but is a Taylor Sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:00 PM
3

So far nobody has told me what the “fucking horrible” things are. They just use those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:55 PM
2

I lived in Japan for a while and it was similar, though I was really confused when random school girls laughed behind their hand at me. It was confusing, but also the same as random teenagers laughing at me here (Canada). I will never know what’s so funny, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:54 PM
2

In 2022 they’ve moved to hating “influencers”. Same crap, different pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:43 PM
3

Same, honestly. I thought maybe some men had shared my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:38 PM
2

High school really sucked. I hope things are better now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:37 PM
2

It’s totally normal to want to get to know someone before you decide to start dating them. It is less normal to lack empathy, especially if someone has liked you for a long time. It seems like you’ve had a lot of success with women and very few failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:37 PM
3

What was the worst one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:33 PM
1

What an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:33 PM
1

People become more comfortable with you as they see you more often. If this happens again, say “You seem to be interested in talking with me, am I wrong?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:32 PM
1

My standards are higher than that sounds like the exact kind of girl who yeets me from the friend group to ensure I get no invites so she can Facebook me once a month to talk about all the guys who wish they had her 😂 The second scenario, sounds like jealousy. I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:28 PM
1

R-word? Sorry idk which one. I thought like racist…rapist…that can’t be right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:25 PM
3

Have you had experiences like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:24 PM
1

True. Bullies are missing some dna points or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:23 PM
1

Damn. That’s probably an ugly kid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:22 PM
2

But that’s high school
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:21 PM
0

Yeah I’m also confused. But some people have to have tried it since then, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:21 PM
0

Ugh. Getting asked to dance so the guy can ask me if my friend is single…been there lol. She’s not hotter, we’re the same hot, but I’d say the five of us all hit different “preference areas” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:20 PM
3

My SO stutters. I think it’s incredibly cute, probably because I had a mad crush on Bill from It when I was a kid. I probably shouldn’t have watched that movie as a kid, but I had hippie parents. He tells me how horrible it was growing up, until he did voice therapy. But even now he barely talks. Kids are unnecessarily cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:16 PM
7

Damn. The blue fairy gifted her the whole audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:13 PM
2

I didn’t even know anyone dated in middle school. I honestly hope you still write poetry!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:12 PM
2

Pfft. The “friends” who say a guy is ugly are the ones who try to bang him behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:10 PM
5

I was more thinking of things in adulthood. But I hear you about friends who are trash like that. I dated one guy when I was 17 whose loser friend convinced him I was ugly just so he would break up with me and the loser friend could ask me out. He should have seen through it, but he never managed to trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:08 PM
5

Teenaged kids are such assholes. Kids used to follow me home throwing rocks at the back of my head because I stood up for my best friend when they tried to bully her. Glad I’m an adult now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:06 PM
9

In what ways? I’m trying to figure out if men are calling what I’ve seen (women politely rejecting them) “berating and humiliation” or if something genuinely awful has occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:05 PM
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Exactly. They also don’t notice women who don’t wear it as much as they notice the ones who do. If you’re out with a friend and everyone is looking at her because of her makeup and clothes, yes you’ll start dressing like her or try and get a body like hers. Especially if a guy you’re interested in likes her instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:29 PM
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Her point isn’t why her friend does it. Her point is that this man wasn’t in the club looking for women who don’t do it. He was looking for a woman who DOES.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:27 PM
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Most of us have met women who made their whole lives about their husband, or were dependent on him, and couldn’t survive without him. It doesn’t surprise me that the kind of men who say that would have been raised by women whose lives revolved around their husbands, brothers, and sons. In my experience most women are definitely more frightened of living in fear, living with violence, living as a slave, living with a bully, or living in a garbage dumpster of a house than living alone. Of course t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:11 PM
3

He pronounces uranium oddly. Like urine-ium.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:47 PM
5

They can rip my furry baby replacement out of my cold dead hands. I’ll replace her with a collection of creepy dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:45 PM
1

I’m trying to read your comment but birth control pill heheheheeeeeee wheeeeeeeeeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:43 PM
3

IMHO it’s worse to put in zero effort with a hookup. If you’re not offering good sex how are you making the one nighter worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:40 PM
1

Same guy, usually,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:38 PM
2

Since I attract 100% of the guys you’re talking about, allow me to explain. Here are the common traits of men I reject for the above reasons. he is obsessed with getting sex from me (desperate) but ghosts when I need something, like help moving a couch (low effort) he always wants to know where I am (desperate), but doesn’t want to go there with me (low effort) He talks constantly about how pretty I am (desperate) but won’t talk to me about anything else (low effort) He repeatedly tries to chat …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:35 PM
-2

Either I am a supermodel or this is false. The best looking guys I’ve dated put in the most effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:28 PM
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Or when some women blame their own insecurities on models, as if they single handed out created the entire ad campaign not just for one brand but across several.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:26 PM
2

You had me in the first half, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:25 PM
4

I have been on Reddit for 5 years (go ahead and check) and I can’t agree with that first statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:24 PM
1

It was an issue in the past for the same guys who have these issues now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:20 PM
0

Find what creepy exactly? Maybe the problem is that you interpret someone being nice to you and smiling as a “smirk”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:18 PM
1

I told my friend I thought a guy was cute so she pushed me into his lap. I literally ran away. It was so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:17 PM
0

Those guys definitely make the first move. And all the moves. That’s why most women actually aren’t interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:16 PM
3

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:15 PM
1

Why? You get a better one without going so. Men are less attracted to you if you come off as desperate, which they think you are if you flirt with them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:15 PM
2

Extroverts always have been. This sub is mostly introverts complaining that other introverts don’t become extroverts so they themselves can get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:13 PM
1

I’m a woman and I get treated the same way by people who are smaller than me. When you see a chihuahua and a Doberman, do you think the chihuahua is being dramatic by tucking its tail? I don’t. If a girl who is 5’0” feels threatened by me, she’s not wrong. I really am bigger and stronger than her. If I felt threatened by HER, it would be weird. Like what am I afraid of? Am I afraid of a fly buzzing around? Or a spider I can crush by accident just by sitting on the wrong chair?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:12 PM
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Some guys. But I’m not sure if that’s the man you want at your side for the next 20+ years anyway. If he’s so terrified of sexual rejection that he can’t talk to women, what’s going to happen when he gets rejected for a job or a car loan, or when you need to make an important household decision? That lack of confidence affects other areas of life, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:04 PM
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There is a whole lot of crazy after the word “because” 😂 Women care about other women as human beings and we trust them. We hit on guys (always have) because we want the guy, not because of some obscure thing that hardly ever happens. In my lifetime I’ve met one girl who lied about a sexual assault. The guy she accused raped her sister, and she didn’t want her sister to have to go through the trauma of court. Meanwhile I’ve met thousands of women who have been sexually assaulted or had consent i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:01 PM
1

Nobody should be this invested on a first date. I think Ops mistake was staying too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:56 PM
1

Definitely what OP should have done. Take verbal action instead of physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:56 PM
2

I see your mistake. You think “making a move” is physical. Here are the same examples from my life: Hanging out at night. We’re playing cards. I don’t know if he’s into me or not. I’m like “do you want to play another hand?” He’s like “I’d rather make out with you.” I wasn’t ready to take that step yet, but I knew he was interested. Met a guy online, told him I was bored because I had no TV. He said he had a small one and offered to bring it over. Hung out all night, he started cuddling me in be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:53 PM
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I don’t know how accurate that is anymore. Me too happened, and the riots, and there was BLM. In the media at least there has been a huge push toward a change in demographics. A lot of the leaders of the patriarchy have died or been taken down. A relatively large group of 14 year olds on Tik tok with purple hair and Jaba the hut rolls can cancel entire businesses because they used the wrong model in their ads. On the surface, it seems as if inclusiveness has won, companies are more diverse, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:05 PM
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Lol really? Recently, don’t know if you’ve heard, but the US senate voted to ban abortions. Republicans are against Roe v Wade. This is a recent example of republican women voting against their own rights. Here’s some more. Republican women would not be allowed to work if conservative men had their way…how does this make sense to female conservative politicians? Or this woman who wanted to deny women rights in the workplace (and succeeded) Comprehensive sex education is already problematic becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:46 PM
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I meant they sell the idea that they are getting laid and the only way to get laid is to be them and the only women you’re allowed to want are the ones they tell you to want, aka the only ones their crusty asses can get, or force on their sons lol. And women are the only gender you’re allowed to want.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 03:30 PM
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The article you posted is an opinion piece whose only basis in fact is the obvious link between far-right politics and over-representation of angry, violent, and entitled men in those groups. I’m more confused when women DO vote against themselves, than when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:19 PM
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You aren’t part of the patriarchy unless you actively choose to play into it. The patriarchy is the 10% feeding the 1% that use 99% of all resources and are responsible for discrimination, poverty, and the destruction of homes and families. It’s a well defined concept and group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:14 PM
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What you just said described lying to, manipulating, and treating women like slaves as “fun”. That is nobody’s idea of fun. Unless they are a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:21 AM
1

There’s a difference between having a personal preference for who you will and won’t date, and splashing it publicly all over the internet, screaming it in the faces of all who read it, that this is the WORST POSSIBLE WOMAN to exist. You’re not talking to Most people wouldn’t date an addict, a homeless person, or someone who smells or an underaged child either. But these groups are particularly rancid to single moms and faaaaaattttt woooommmmmeeeennnn. It makes me think they all had obese moms t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:17 AM
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You think people only date single moms for their children? A better solution might be to keep your dating life separate from your children until you know the gut well. Even then though there’s a risk. And WHY is there a risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:11 AM
0

Many have a long term plan and get women and girls pregnant with the intention of “farming” the children 🧒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:09 AM
-1

It’s not complicated. Instead of “she shouldn’t have been dating” you say “rape is wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:07 AM
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I worked with abused women and the answer is yes, when a partner becomes abusive and the other runs away, due to the admission of abuse, the mother is blamed, often losing custody and occasionally facing. charges for “failing to protect” her children from her abuser who, to add insult to injury, often ends up having custody, or in the children being taken. Yes, there is very real societal problem here. 60-90 of women in prisons here are there, on any given day, for attempted kidnapping. Of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:00 AM
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Agreed. It is completely insane how many men who are constantly on about single mothers being horrible and disgusting will date any heroin addicted prostitute who runs an onlyfans as a side job as long as she’s willing to pretend to be a virgin/lie about abandoning her kids. I knew a girl who had 9 abortions, and another who gave up all 6 of her kids to her mom or CPS. And both of them were with a new guy at least every week, telling the same bullshit story of “we’re the same” and how they can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:54 AM
2

OP is not talking about their neighbourhood they are talking about RP subs where it is an easily observable phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:49 AM
2

Patriarchy: describes people in power who exploit others for resources. The term “patriarchy” is used because most world leaders are male, and many nations are distinctly anti-female with some even passing laws to subjugate and murder women. Toxic masculinity describes a series of behaviours normalized for and often forced upon boys and men that work against the betterment of society and of themselves as individuals. The idea that men must fit in/conform to a pattern of behaviour that destroys s…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 04:37 AM
1

I mean, my buddy is into fat chicks, so he dates fat chicks. And he’s happy.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 02:48 AM
1

“Most of them will be very loyal” 😂 Not in my experience. “alphas” are out there dating. “betas” (lol @ the Brave New World analogies) are out here trading information on how to treat women like garbage, disrespect, sleep with and dump them. I will never be fooled by their sob stories again after reading their “hopes and dreams” on rp and pill subs.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 02:47 AM
3

r/menwritingwomen is the first thing that came to mind lol
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 02:45 AM
0

Guys have more sex and it’s harder for them to get sex because they act like entitled perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:09 PM
2

You stated that dating is transactional and that friendship is “real”. That perception leads people like him to believe that any interaction with a woman is transactional while what he has with his male friends is true love. In other words, the exact same behaviour is judged as evil and manipulative…only when women do it in a dating situation. But never outside of one. Sadly he ended up alone a lot after he discovered the manosphere and got brain-wormed into believing all women were evil and zer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:14 PM
1

I mean I definitely want to hit the pua/rp guys who bother me and my friends at the bar with their weird attempts at manipulation, but I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:59 PM
2

I dated a guy who would loan his friends literally anything. Money, cars, a $900 camera and didn’t care because they weren’t “using him”. But he’d flip out if I ordered a water while he was getting his lunch at a restaurant where I can’t eat because of allergies, and scream like a banshee that I was “using him” because the cup cost ten cents. Meanwhile he couldn’t even afford to go Dutch because his “friends” hadn’t returned the money/stuff they borrowed. “Women are the problem” tho…😂🙄🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:56 PM
1

Nah. I have a mental health disorder and I know love exists. I’ve seen it, even in my own family. I think most people in this sub believe love or at least lust exists, they just don’t think they’re worthy of it or will ever get it so it must be sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:54 PM
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It’s standing alone here, and the person looks like a pompous self important mansplaining douche.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 06:47 PM
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I stopped reading at “you fail to understand basic English”. I majored in English (and politics). I don’t speak stupid.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:46 PM
3

Depends how messed up a guy you’re willing to date I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:56 AM
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When I was a virgin I didn’t want to be with another virgin because neither of us would know what we were doing. So I waited until college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:55 AM
1

He’s quoting an actual statistic backward
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:36 AM
1

So I should leave my SO because he probably doesn’t actually want me? And then what? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:35 AM
2

Did she just describe you or sum? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:35 AM
1

Exactly. I’ve been in a bag like that and it’s like, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:34 AM
1

All of this. And so is using manipulation to force someone to be with you out of pity or guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:34 AM
1

This sub: women want rich powerful super sexy men! Any sub or online space that is mostly women: I want a guy who can manage not to throw a temper tantrum every time he accidentally gets mayonnaise instead of mustard. Bonus points if he can figure out the front end of a mop from the ass end. Double bonus points if he isn’t a complete ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:33 AM
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Look, maybe unattractive girls do the same things unattractive guys do when they want to obsess over random unknown people who have nothing to do with them, but normal people just date others within their own sphere. Some people would rather appreciate what they have than scream about what they don’t, or chase some bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:11 AM
1

Thanks for the view 🥰 Notice I’m not watching your videos 🥱 But I don’t need another pathetic stalker thanks anyway 😄
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:05 PM
0

Nope. Not even famous actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:18 PM
1

Don’t worry. I’d never even breathe in your direction, and you can’t afford the kind of place I go to ;)
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:17 PM
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Nope. It’s the right choice. Also ew “escalate”. He’s not a sexual predator. He’s a decent person trying to get a date. Damn.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:54 AM
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You treated her like a human being and got a date. In my experience this is definitely how life works. It’s not some manipulation. If someone is single and you’re nice, they’ll want to explore things further. This isn’t always going to work, you’re right. It’s because if someone said this to me for example, I would get seriously annoyed. It isn’t because I don’t or wouldn’t like the person, it’s because I really hate people complimenting my eyes, for numerous reasons. Be prepared to follow up wh…
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:53 AM
1

Is there any indication why? I know people aren’t as honest these days as they used to be, at least with men. Unless you’re obese most people have no idea what we’re doing wrong and it’s very upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:18 PM
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Statistically untrue and biased based on mens earning potential and womens assumed childcare role in a gender biased society. “Nice women don’t even want to vote” logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:04 PM
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Because other women will become catty and shit on us in the workplace (and everywhere else) and men will harass us until we’re terrified to go to work; people will lie about us and destroy our reputation and do anything to get us fired (if we can find any job at all that doesn’t refuse to hire us out of hand because we’re “probably too stuck up” to do the job) and we will either end up angry, bitter spitfires telling you to mix your own drink if you don’t like it, or suicidal recluses who will s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:00 PM
2

Right? He can’t even allow women to exist when answering a question about women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:56 PM
1

Stop hitting on waitresses and keeping women out of the workplace. Advocate for womens rights and stop forcing us into a position where we can barely pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:55 PM
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I don’t think you’ve looked much into feminism vis a vis “random teenaged girls on the internet” but it is definitely not the work of feminism to promote mens rights. The fact that men can’t even allow discussions about basic human rights for women happen without deciding it “has to” be about men is, in fact, the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:53 PM
0

That would be my cousin, who is obese and a criminal, because even he treats them with more respect than your average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:51 PM
5

can you re-write the second one in the queen’s english? There are a lot of reflexives per sentence and I’m reading it like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:48 PM
2

It’s getting less rare, with all this surgery lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:46 PM
1

You had me in the second paragraph NGL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:45 PM
3

Most women cheat reactively. They cheat on guys who cheat. The simple solution is to be faithful, but not to the kind of girl who obviously cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:44 PM
4

They said they wanted us to explore our sexuality more then bitched when we did 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:43 PM
4

Dude honestly around here if a guy isn’t total shit he’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:42 PM
8

There are photography grids that show how homogenous people are in most areas. It’s unlikely that any of her options look drastically different from each other anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:41 PM
2

So you date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:38 PM
3

Hey at least you don’t have 100 women in the comments spouting some bullshit like “if you keep meeting women like that it’s probably your fault.” The dating market isn’t as big as people make it sound. Let’s say I know everyone within 10k of my house. Given the size of the town, that’s 1604 people. Imagine I go door to door with a “would you date me?” survey, and everyone is home. Let’s say I’m in the typical “ready to settle down”. age range, so like, 25. First I’m going to eliminate by age, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:21 PM
4

Yes, and a lot more women are remaining single rather than dating down. Unfortunately some men are manipulative pricks who can fake being a good person and you don’t catch it right away. It may seem obvious to other men but they sure to fuck don’t tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:19 PM
0

Do we need better priorities or do men need to stop congratulating eachother on abusive behaviours?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:18 PM
-1

Bullshit. Women hate “simps” because that’s the guy who will literally murder you out of fear someone might take you. We have another word for “simp” It’s stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:17 PM
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You don’t have to re-address the point because let’s face it, even women and girls who have never once dated have observed the widespread phenomenon of men treating women like garbage, and the act of blaming women for the way we are treated BY OTHERS is a large chunk of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:15 PM
4

Or taking off the condoms or putting holes in it without her knowing. It’s a lot easier for men, and women are a lot more trapped. A man can just walk away from a pregnancy. Women can’t. Abuse increases during pregnancy too. Any time a man thinks you can’t leave him, watch out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:13 PM
3

No. Complaining about someone abusing you is not the same as complaining about someone ignoring you. Being murdered is not the same as being rejected/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:12 PM
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I mean how many times can you realistically leave? If I don’t have a boyfriend I’m going to get harassed by tons of other guys. I can’t go out or get anything done. Having a boyfriend is like having a built in bodyguard. The prettier you are, the more powerful he better be. And I could go through a hundred guys and never find a decent, respectful one. It seems like those guys all date whoever and then settle down with a monolith: short, blonde, 100-120 lbs with a plain looking face and knobby kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:08 PM
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No it wouldn’t. I tried that. He attempted to murder me out of fear someone would “take me” from him. Pretty sure he’s still locked up. That or they dump you in 2 seconds because anyone who would date them must have something wrong with her 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:01 PM
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If most guys are shit who cares which one you date? And why would you laugh at people who got stuck with a shitty one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:01 PM
2

Heh. Yeah, probably. Maybe men should want love too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:00 PM
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True. I swear Leo posted this thread himself just to pretend he’s still relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:59 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 no. Women are not in competition over men. Unless it’s a competition to avoid them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:58 PM
1

Yeah no those are both disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:56 PM
1

Yeah, I get the same vibe. Even in your 20’s you don’t want to be the loser who can’t go to the bar because your partner isn’t old enough. Also younger people tend to fall in love fast and hard so you’re potentially ruining someone’s life. So you’re probably also that loser who wants to make some cinnamon roll cry over you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:56 PM
1

Yeah, I could easily stop you at “he’s at the same level” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:08 AM
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Nah. It just made us better at it so we didn’t suck when we met eachother 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:07 AM
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Why would I want to lick a public toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:07 AM
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At 20, the men who are virgins won’t admit to it. Look for the guys pretending to be “total studs” if you want to meet a terminal virgin, for some reason I cannot even imagine. I’m glad my first time was with someone who had experience. Two awkward losers in that room would have been so sad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:06 AM
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You are. To be honest. Especially if you’re looking for someone who isn’t ugly. I’m literally 42 years old and I have to turn down at least 15 men every time I go out just to maintain my relationship and avoid cheating. When I was in my 20s me and every girl in there had to turn down the entire club. I’m sorry to be blunt but no girl is maintaining her virginity just waiting for you to come along. And if you had experience you’d know, you want your first time to be with a girl who had experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:04 AM
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Most men don’t. I mean I’ve been a virgin (until I was in my early 20s) and most men won’t even go near you once they find out. Literally it’s “no thanks I’d rather have someone with experience” and usually they want someone with a lot of experience. They say things like “I’d rather have a whore than a virgin. I want a girl that knows how to bang.” Unless you’re talking about severely unattractive people. I feel like they have their own culture of making themselves feel better about nobody wanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:01 AM
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I mean of course it is? How can anyone expect someone to continually tamp down their natural physical desires and then suddenly learn to be okay with something they’ve believed their entire lives was disgusting and evil…just because the circumstances fit? I’ve seen a lot of Muslim guys break down crying because they can’t have sex. They’ve been told all their lives that any sex will make a woman impure and disgusting, and they are terrified to do that to their wives. It’s just really sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:55 AM
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As a girl who goes to…conventions, music events and sporting events, volunteers in shelters and whose family runs a planning business (I’ve met literally hundreds of millions of people) They are virgins in their 20s and 30s because they, predominantly, are lying in order to form predatory relationships with stupid men who are willing to pay for their entire lives if they think they are underage virgins. There are a lot of pedophiles in that community and it’s pretty easy for a girl who is on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:46 AM
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For real though. Reading that post at my age made me feel actually physically ill and a bit violent. It just kept getting worse the more words he used. I audibly shouted ewewewewew and needed a shower by the end. Like what is OP’s claim here? That the entire manosphere is nothing but muslims, mormons, the kind of Christians who throw molotovs at gay bars and pedophiles? I mean damn bro the call is coming from inside the house. This dude just outed himself and accused all of you. If I’m being hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:38 AM
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So is it all muslims and Mormons in this sub then, or is it all pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:33 AM
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Yeah. It’s true.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 09:37 PM
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I could see that being the case. I’ve complained about the same thing with men. They whine about how women are, but it’s just the 3 women they even know exist. This sub definitely got me thinking about how certain guys don’t seem to exist at all. I mean if I wasn’t on this sub I wouldn’t notice them. Or wonder “what’s that dude thinking anyway?” It’s not like I openly made fun of them or ignored them but I didn’t notice them either, you know? We should notice more people. Not just the sparkly on…
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 09:34 PM
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I haven’t seen it. I’ve only seen the opposite. A guy who wanted to be with me called me ugly so his insecure friend would dump me. I ended up hating them both, the one who insulted me and the one who never stood up for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:29 PM
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That’s not just how guys act?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:27 PM
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A lot of women are dating similar men at least around here. If they’re not they’re dating an obese or severely underweight dude who publicly screams abuses at them, harasses other women and terrorizes the neighbourhood. There’s pretty much only the two options here.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 04:38 AM
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Go home white peoples but close enough.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 04:35 AM
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I’ve been to most “Asian countries” and the women and children there have asked me to return with this message: お帰りガイジン ;)
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 02:59 AM
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My SO gets more girls obsessed with him than most gym bros because he’s so nice and doesn’t instantly repulse them. It is hard to find guys who aren’t fully repugnant these days. Ah, to find a bus back to the 20’s!
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 02:58 AM
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Don’t believe the hype-rgamy lol. Most women and little kids like this girl fall pretty hard, pretty fast, for anyone they’re dating. A LOT of women (but mostly kids like her) have really over the top reactions to a breakup.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 02:56 AM
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Most of those women are children.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 02:54 AM
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Totally agree. And to add, I don’t really think the people who post that would really want to be in that position. I think many of us are too socially isolated or not using empathy. For example I had a friend who complained about men constantly touching her. I thought, men touch me all the time, it can’t be that bad. I went out with her and saw what she meant. Guys aren’t trying to get away with touching her hand or brushing her shoulder like they do with me. They openly stare at her boobs. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:01 PM
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Both. it’s not that unique here I was kind of asking what the male equivalent is to this kind of harassment (if any). Like what is the negative uniquely male experience of existing as a young person. A lot of people mentioned violence and having your fears/emotions ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:48 AM
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To me that sounds like a normal relationship if she’s joking, because men are usually stronger so they know we’re not a real threat. But if the relationship did become abusive I’d be concerned. Or if there was a serious credible threat. Or even if he has said that she is scaring him and asked her to stop and she refuses. Like I had an ex who would say stuff like “damned women taking hours to get ready” or “women shouldn’t talk to men that way” when he saw a female friend offering to cut her bf’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:38 AM
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I mean if this is how you want to justify feeling lonely, you do you. It sounds like a lot of sour grapes to me, but I value relationships. Some people can talk for hours about luxury cars. To me, anything with wheels that gets me where I’m going, even a bike, is fine. I don’t care what’s printed on it. Unless it’s hurting someone, there’s no reason to force your perspective on others. What you’re saying makes sense when it’s reactive, as a reply to people who are telling you that you “have to” …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:12 AM
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Did you go to an all boys school, that you are this unaware of the experiences of high school girls? People reported it. It made the newspapers several times.. Nobody did anything except move their kids to private school if they could afford it. Can’t you tell a 14 year old that she “has nice titties” 🤢 especially if you are a convicted child rapist? Obvious troll is obvious. And very very sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:02 AM
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Man, schools are terrible. My coach was more passive-agro and let other people do the work of shitting on you for her. Like I played field hockey and there was this move trash people would do when the ball was stuck (like when two hockey players have a puck stuck between their sticks) where they would chop your knuckles instead of the ball. I didn’t let go (I was the sweeper) but repeatedly screamed at my coach to take me out. Eventually it got so painful that I screamed “take me the FUCK OUT” a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:20 AM
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That was a lot of the replies. I’m so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:46 AM
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Oof. I know there aren’t many priests like that but in a church where they excommunicate you for the slightest misstep it seems hypocritical to protect pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:44 AM
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Except I didn’t ask what the male equivalent is of assault trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:42 AM
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Yup. I keep seeing stories where kids are suspended for hugging who are still young enough to have a rooting reflex. My cousin was treated like a criminal so early and often that I wasn’t shocked when he just became one, because it was easier than fighting the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:41 AM
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You’re talking about being surrounded by violent men and also being screamed at, as someone significantly weaker, by the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:38 AM
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They don’t seem to get how physically threatening it is, and I don’t know why. Mostly I just assume it’s because they’re terrified of the same people and would rather put women in danger than themselves. They’re like that kid who trips you during prison ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:36 AM
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“I’m tall black and very muscular” So basically you’ve never been catcalled by anyone who could actually hurt you. Thank you, next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:33 AM
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I don’t care if I’m wearing a bikini in New York City, his comment is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:32 AM
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Omg yes! I forgot about that until I read this but gym teachers especially, the ones who sit there screaming at 14 year old boys for being skinny like they weren’t 12 five minutes ago. Like yeah they’re skinny, they just grew 2 feet in a year, where would the fat even GO? Like they’ve watched too many Netflix dramas where kids are played by 15 year old girls and 30 ass year old men. It felt pathetic from my side too…like they thought they were competing for the attention of girls who were basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:29 AM
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You could ask them, but the boys in my family who I know went through that probably wouldn’t tell me if I didn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:26 AM
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Omg that’s why they do it! I honestly thought half of them were lying about having a girlfriend, hated me and were trying to get rid of me 😂 because they would go on and on about this girl with so many details I thought she couldn’t be real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:25 AM
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How odd. Do you not know any women, or are you just unaware of what we experience growing up? Maybe you can ask your aunt or mother if you haven’t met any women or girls in your own age group. In my specific case, they built a halfway house very close to the high school I attended. The men would sit on the porch commenting, cat calling, and following female students. We couldn’t walk to school alone and a lot of girls started getting a ride. And I considered myself lucky compared to my cousins w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:21 AM
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That’s…really sad. Living your life always burning your bridges before they pass. Imagine never walking because you’re afraid to bump your head. Never learning how to ride a bike because you’re scared to fall. Never driving, because you might crash. Treating love like it’s two people falling out of a plane and hoping their chutes aren’t defective. It’s truly better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. What I mean by that final statement is that we live in a world that promotes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:14 AM
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Most people have been really nice. They want to tell their stories more than tear down mine. I think everyone knows this happens and it frustrates most men as much as it does me. I’m not talking about men flirting with me in my 20s and 30s but men harassing me. I think it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:08 PM
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Is this normalized in most communities as something that just happens several times a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:04 PM
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Yeah, when I think about it. Girls were always getting “that’s a pretty outfit” and “those are cute shoes” Boys had to have something spectacularly amazing (like wolf eyes or being built like a brick shithouse) to get complimented. The boys at my school were complimented more on their achievements so there was that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:01 PM
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I mean fair. I notice if I so much as ask a guy what time it is he freaks out. The ones with girlfriends start talking about her like crazy as if I’m a threat to the relationship when I don’t even know the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:58 PM
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Not what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:55 PM
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I’m so sorry. This was so many answers 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:23 PM
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I felt the same way about being tall. Most people left me alone or assumed I was stronger. Smaller girls, and boys, went through hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:23 PM
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Sounds like normalizing violence toward boys is the common theme. Being physically attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:19 PM
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They didn’t chase the boys or try to follow them home. That’s why my brother had to walk me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:18 PM
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I’d go one step further and say watching porn exploits women and children and causes undue suffering just so you can get off. Most sex trade industries are run by bikers and other gangs that are heavily involved in other illegal acts including trafficking, with websites like sugardaddy.com and onlyfans being no different. Women in the sex trade are usually being exploited BY someone, and from a very young age, yet we promote the myth that these women and girls a. Choose this industry and b. Prof…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:33 PM
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I’m happy and I like myself but I like sex and enjoy having it readily available. It’s also nice to have someone else who can cook or clean or feed animals so I have more time to pursue my goals and hobbies. And it’s just utter serotonin to be there for someone. Nobody other than dogs gets happy the way men get happy over something as ridiculous as a good steak or a win for their team. I aspire to that level of zen, even though they can get equally frustrated over a hinge that doesn’t work or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:08 PM
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I’ve been undesirable. A man looking for a girlfriend, it’s a lot like me looking for a job. Though unemployment has higher stakes. Other people get more interviews per application, they know what to say, they know how to act. I know how to be attractive which most people think is the opposite of hard working, which means I get judged with distrust right away by employers in much the same way some men are judged by women. I understand ticking all the boxes and nobody wants you anyway. I have a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:52 PM
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Do you honestly believe that you can bully people into agreeing with your bigotry?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 03:31 PM
2

“I love how many people think men are incapable of differentiating between natural makeup and no makeup” Why do we think that? Could it possibly be because of the thousands of compliments men openly spam all over influencers with heavy makeup and extensive surgery, how “natural” they look? 😂 “You hate the fact that you spend all the time and money on makeup only to find out that a lot of guys don’t even like it” Sounds like projecting. I LIKE the fact that men enjoy buying me things, that they l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:28 PM
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“Plenty of women are beautiful without makeup” No plenty of men are dumbasses who think plenty of women wearing pancake makeup aren’t wearing any. We all have instagram. We’ve all seen men commenting on some woman with extensive surgery and heavy makeup, how “beautiful and natural” she looks. Or commenting on some child like Sommer Ray and referring to her as a “woman” 🤢 It’s not our job to explain how makeup works, or teach men that if our eyelids were naturally sparkly and our cheeks were natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:22 PM
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That’s the wrong math. It’s more of a cluster. Like let’s say you’re going to the store to buy bread. Option A (RP) is to buy every loaf of bread and then decide which ones are bad. The more loaves of bread you try, the more will be mouldy, because you ignored them. Option B (my method) is to look at all the breads, choose a few breads I might like, and take them home. Sample all the breads and decide pumpernickel swirl is my favourite. I’ll look at all the breads and give the breads a chance, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:01 PM
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Assisted suicide is what happens when a medical professional helps you end your life, generally due to a long term illness. I’m posting this in a manosphere debate sub where a persons written narrative is being exploited to prove the opposite of the point. Her lived experience is being denied by the bullshit screenshot, which is a series of lies about the content of the book. The “unexpectedness” she talks about in mens interactions is the warmth: Ms. VINCENT: Yeah, I was surprised to find, I ex…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 08:31 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Because 😂 the manosphere 😂😂😂 is all about 😂 how sexy it is 😂😂😂 to look ugly 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:12 PM
1

Who. Takes. The. Higher. Financial. Risk? Who. Has. Extra. Money?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:08 PM
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There were a list of 4 items in that list. You cherry picked the one that made you feel most “right”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:07 PM
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Guys say that and then they go out with a girl who wears twice as much makeup as I do, but does a “natural look” 😂 I’m doing it for myself. I’m also not wasting all that time and money on some scrub guy. If you’re a scrub guy and you like scrub girls, good for you. But don’t ask me or any other glamorous looking girl in nice clothes out. If we were doing this for men, it would not be for you. Fun fact: bougie is short for Marx’s term “bourgeoisie” and it means “people who have no money but dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:55 PM
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I’m confused because I’m only looking for one person. I go on tinder, I’m literally an ex model. But I’m brown so that immediately eliminates racist fucktards, at least I have that going for me. I get over 100 matches a day. Of those, 20-50 meet my criteria. Has a job, shares my hobbies, is not a total douche. I’d say I easily burn 80 dudes on the “total douche” cross. Guys who post their drunk af pic where their buddy had to frog walk them home at 2am. Guys who post their “swole gym bro” pics, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:36 PM
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Who takes the higher financial risk, if both people pay on a date? Who pays more at the hairdresser? Who has to wear makeup? Who gets paid less at work? Who can just show up? Sorry but if he’s not paying, there’s no motivation to do out. And if she “has no value” don’t ask her out. Seems like an easy way to weed out men who don’t value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:26 PM
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“Been had” by what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:24 PM
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For this to be exactly the same: -women would have to need relationships to survive and avoid homelessness -relationships would have to be asking for so much that they cannot be provided As an example, employers are asking someone to take a job at $2000 a month in a place where a 1 bedroom apartment costs $2600 a month and also requiring the worker to own a vehicle. What they are asking for is impossible. For it to be the same, manosphere types would have to expect something ridiculous like a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:16 PM
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The “unique perspective” of someone who believes they are passing. Not to downplay this person’s experience but we had a gay female person in my high school/Uni who coded male and truly believed she was passing. Everyone could tell, and a lot of women avoided her because she was so obsessed with this idea of passing. It’s a faux pas in our society to tell trans people they aren’t passing, or that they could pass better if they tried x or y, unless you yourself are trans. I did a natural makeup v…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 11:44 AM
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I’ve seen too many evil men literally torture women who they should be helping to believe any man is worth getting pregnant over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:16 PM
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If you have an advantage in one area it will be taken away from you in another. Ugly women usually win out over attractive women, not because we’re “picky” but because they are more visible after using catty measures to push us out of the workplace/public eye. The same thing happens to less attractive/confident men who other men try to trample because they want to keep all the hot girls to themselves… so you can spend years on some loser’s back burner while he is deliberately keeping you away fr…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:24 PM
1

I actually don’t understand your post. Like it looks like one of those things where you started a sentence and then hit the center text prediction button several times. No matter how many times I read it, the words are in the wrong order and don’t fit together. It looks botted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:38 AM
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You are more than welcome to end a relationship because you are not compatible. When women talk about being expected to have sex, we mean cajoled, pressured, or forced. That doesn’t seem to have been made clear to you. So I thought I’d point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:17 AM
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This has been explained numerous times on numerous forums. There is a difference between advocacy FOR men and hate speech AGAINST women. And it usually takes the same format: “If women want rights, we should have the right to hurt them.” It’s pretty easy to see here, and in no way hidden. “If women want the right to vote, they should be forced to risk their lives in the draft.” Which makes the thesis of this statement “women shouldn’t be allowed to vote.” Not “people shouldn’t be drafted” Not “a…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 09:04 PM
1

Worked for every guy 90% of my friends ever dated. What you’re doing seems to be what isn’t working 😂 What didn’t work out? He’s been with me for 13 years and other guys still ask how he “got” me. The guy before him moved away. If you think any girl who won’t sleep with you day one has “friend zoned you” and any girl who would bang any stranger in her periphery is perfection, man, that’s a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah? Of course a trait is toxic when it’s bad and positive when it’s good. That’s the same for any trait. Addiction: Nobody is going to call you out on collecting baking supplies, canned goods, contact lenses, cosplays, body glitter, figurines. Those are hobbies. Even if your ass has a 500 foot yarn wall your addiction is a trait because it benefits you (and everyone who loves knitting) and hurts no-one. However if you can’t pay your rent because of your yarn addiction…if your family starves be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:51 PM
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The aggregate knowledge from every woman I’ve ever met implies that the following traits are most liked. On first meeting a guy (cold meeting) Cockiness and compliments. “You’re beautiful and I want to see you again.” Directness and honesty. “I tried to look cool walking over here but I tripped over my feet. Can I live this down or?” Good intentions. Nobody is taking home the guy who is at the club trying the same act with different girls every week. Looking out for us, and humour. “If this guy’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:45 PM
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You get the Whoopi award for this 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:36 PM
2

This is a really long post if all you wanted to tell us was that you have the CHEESE TOUCH!!!! ahem Who’s evolved? I am…. Anyway, as a woman… I think we are all human beings. Certain aspects of having testosterone make straight cisgender men a certain way. Competitive. Agro. Certain aspects of having a penis completely suck. Unlike women, men cannot hide their sexual interest, or lack thereof. Their sexuality is by nature slightly predatory. Sure. Fine. When expressed in a healthy way, these tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:19 PM
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I don’t have a routine. I just move when I want to move and sit when I want to sit, and carry things when I go shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:05 PM
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The person I replied to was talking about the Red Pill ideology. The ideology that posits that “all men” want young skinny women (then idk why there’s a mature porn category? Or entire cuddle parties with obese people?) and that manipulation tactics should be used to “get” as much sex with as many people as possible. That attractive people both want and get constant unending sex and that men who aren’t getting sex should treat women like garbage.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 08:36 PM
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Nope. It’s a counter argument based on your statement, and pointing out the ridiculousness. I looked it up before saying it, and I was being overly generous if anything. It’s typically 1-2 hours https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19518536/male-refractory-period/ IF men are biologically more likely to cheat women are more biologically more more likely to cheat. The fact that we don’t suggests that humans have higher brain function and can choose whether or not to be faithful. A person who chea…
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 02:03 AM
1

That’s what the other 5 paragraphs are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:55 AM
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You are advocating and romanticizing violence against women by saying that’s what we want. Describing non violence as an “issue”. As I said, if you’re as afraid of violent men as many women are there’s less shame in saying that than convincing yourself we must like it because then you don’t have to stick your neck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:08 AM
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Women reach our sexual peak in our 30s. Men reach their sexual peak in their 20’s. I don’t know who “they” are, but they’re hormonally inaccurate. I didn’t even lose my virginity until my 20s. During my 20s there weren’t many options. Most guys regardless of looks just wanted to have a lot of sex with anyone who would touch them. I’m not someone who gets comfortable with people that easily. I suspect they’re not either. The goal isn’t to sleep with me but to make me uncomfortable. When a girl do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:32 PM
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Demonstrably untrue. Sounds like you’re making excuses to hurt people. Or to watch people get hurt and take no action. Doing the right thing and helping others can be terrifying but it’s better to admit you’re scared than contribute to the negative ideals and cause more harm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:00 PM
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So he means younger women than most men in this sub and thinks he can advise older men on how to get them? Lol it’s a totally different dynamic between girls his age who are willing to ignore rudeness from a 22 year old and girls who are attracted to older men. He won’t know what those (very few) girls want for 20+ years, and may find that (like many older men) he’s a bit creeped out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:58 PM
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I agree that if that’s your mindset they are both “cucks” I also think different people have different sexuality levels and polygamy works for a lot of people. Some people of any gender want to be what this community calls “betas”. Some people are bisexual. People are very happy in all manner of lifestyles and situations
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 06:56 PM
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I have never had trouble finding someone to date, but I do have health issues. When I tell someone I have these issues, a lot of people say it’s all in my head, or they know someone else with my condition who is a doctor lawyer business exec sex goddess or whatever. I can’t do that to you. I can’t tell you romantic love exists and pontificate on how beautiful and wonderful it is because you’ve put these walls up to protect yourself. It’s the same method I use to deal with my allergies. I love ch…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:31 AM
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No no…he has a point. Pass the glitter. 🦄🧚‍♀️🧚
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:41 AM
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Women can’t raise boys on our own. Everyone’s job is to raise the next generation of people.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:39 AM
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Many women protest the lowered standards because it causes these attitudes https://mwi.usma.edu/with-equal-opportunity-comes-equal-responsibility-lowering-fitness-standards-to-accommodate-women-will-hurt-the-army-and-women/ Being less sexist seems to have made the military more sexist in a lot of ways. Personally I would have loved to have been in one of those fifties performance groups that entertain troops. They don’t have that anymore because it’s “sexist”. I don’t really know when the world …
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:31 AM
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No, honey. Just hell no.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:28 AM
1

I’ve been in an open relationship and most men were happier to do it behind his back than with his consent. They were obsessed with the idea of being “better” and terrified of being “one of”
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:27 AM
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A woman who sleeps with many men is inherently desirable. Otherwise she wouldn’t be able to sleep with many men. You’re just over here like “yes, it’s true that a tub full of water can be described as dry” Maybe on a molecular level but you’re no theoretical physicist.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:23 AM
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I’ve never understood the biology argument. I mean okay let’s talk biology. Biologically…genetically…physically….let’s run the numbers. Given the average time most people spend having sex is around 5.4 minutes (the poor souls) and it takes the average man 30+ minutes to get his dick back up, we can have sex with 5-6 men, on average, in the time it takes the first one to run his flag back up the pole. Men can orgasm once every half hour to an hour. Women can orgasm 20+ times in the same time fram…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:18 AM
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I’ve heard the standards many men in these forums hold and they should probably just admit they don’t want anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:04 AM
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What does a 22 year old even mean by “younger women”…underaged kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:59 AM
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Can concur. I attended a top University and 99.9% of students had a placement offer by second year; the rest attended grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:56 AM
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Women are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:54 AM
2

I have often been shocked at the number of men who think threats of violence are an acceptable way to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:53 AM
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I don’t understand why most of you put the onus on women to “identify toxic behaviours” … people don’t exist in a vacuum. How often do men lie to a woman to help out their trash tier friends, and make sure we never find out what he’s like? How often do toxic men cock block their kinder friends? You can’t blame women for what we don’t know just because it’s staring you right in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:51 AM
1

Absolutely nobody cares who you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:49 AM
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Younger than who? Work for what? Work better than what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:45 AM
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Lol I had to award this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:44 AM
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I wouldn’t say we’re assholes. I’d say we’re on a journey of self discovery in a society whose structure requires us to “sow our wild oats” before settling down. If I had been born in another country I would have married my first boyfriend instead of breaking up with him because I thought I was too young to fall in love. But if I hadn’t broken up with him, based on information I found out later, it would have gone poorly for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:43 AM
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No we’re not. We’re attracted to hot guys in sexy outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:40 AM
1

Your one singular ex is most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:39 AM
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A lot of things are difficult to see when you’re attracted to someone and desperate for love. First take the plank out of your own eye. Men will obsess over any drug addicted hooker who slaps a patch of silver foil over her vagina. Toxic women make money and get favours hand over fist while toxic men get what? Maybe a month long relationship before a girl dumps them, tells all her friends and half the internet about them, and they never get laid again?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:39 AM
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It is strange that admittedly toxic men like OP think women and only women should be hung out to dry when they need help and support the most because they should have known the moment they met a guy that he sucked. If they also apply this logic to men, I imagine they get beaten up frequently. It could be why they spend so much time on the internet. I think they’re just targeting people who won’t punch them in the face when they say something stupid like “you deserve a crazy stalker girlfriend, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:35 AM
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Rotfl calling self confidence a mental health issue is definitely a “you problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:28 AM
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All true. But even if those three points weren’t accurate, since I’ve never personally been raped or murdered or impregnated by a tinder date (to be fair, I’m bigger than most women but look small in photos) here’s my reasoning: I’m not picky, actually. I’m on this dating site looking for one person. That’s not being “picky” . It’s being interested in a relationship with someone who matches me perfectly. I believe there’s only one, and everyone else is a waste of my time. What offends me is the …
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 12:34 AM
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When a man says something offensive, people get offended. He doesn’t say it because he’s a man. All men don’t say it. I am one woman. I don’t speak for all women. If someone said to me: “I’m so frustrated women won’t have sex with me” I can try to empathize but I would have to put myself in their shoes. I think that’s very easy for me. There have been long periods of my life when no man wanted to have sex with me. In high school I was bullied for being the wrong colour. Then I became a model thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:35 PM
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They have stated on a number of forums that what they want is the creation of a social structure that would take away women’s basic human rights in order to “save” them from the one privilege they don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:21 PM
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And if “women” DID “have empathy for male struggles” what in society would that change or help. What is your proof that half of the population lacks empathy for “struggles” that affect the entire other half? My experience is very different. The women I know are asking men to help women fight for the rights to proper medical care, fair wages, and legal rights. Whereas some men online are asking women to help them fight for the right to take away more of our wages and legal rights. Asking us to sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:16 PM
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If they weren’t of weaker mind/lacking social skills/perceive themselves as inherently lesser than other men, they wouldn’t be in that community in the first place. Why is it wrong to say their self hatred and lack of empathy for women is the issue? People with mental health issues often surround themselves with people who have the same issues and think it makes them “better”. For example anorexics who hang out with other anorexics are usually very happy to find such a “supportive, non-judgement…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:10 PM
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Nobody calls men misogynists for not having sex. We call them that when they express mysogynistic views. It’s not “women” saying “men” don’t get laid because they’re evil. It’s women commenting on specifically evil posts saying that person doesn’t get laid because he’s evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:04 PM
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I don’t know. I have a lot of friends and if I focus solely on the overweight and obese ones they’re all different. I can only think of a few that fit the “fat lazy slob” stereotype and none of them is the biggest person I know. I can choose my weight by just adding 0 to whatever weight I want to be and eating that many calories. So I’ve experimented with various sizes and found that by the time I’m a size where men comment that I look hot, sexy, or healthy I’m actually seriously underweight to …
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:50 AM
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Yeah but frat boys have that reputation, that’s the problem. If a guy says he’s in a frat it’s like “do I want to sleep with him and not call him in the morning” and if the answer is no you hang out with someone else.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:32 AM
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I thought it was Russia or Sweden. I can’t afford to travel for a boyfriend so I’ve just adapted to dating elves my whole life. Which is totally fine I love Christmas
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:31 AM
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I used to long distance date an amazing guy in the Netherlands but it didn’t work out because I’m 6, 450 km away, as the crow flies. For those of you who are all “blah blah I hate metric” I was 2.5 Americas away from him, give or take. He was so perfect 😭 why wasn’t I born in Europe 😭😭😭
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:28 AM
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I would date this bot before I would date 75% of the men on tinder ;)
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:25 AM
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So I guess fat women should date short men and laugh at all of us. Thank you. Thank you. I’m now off to solve world hunger ;)
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:25 AM
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Why would an elite man even use them, other than to cheat on his So which automatically makes him trash.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:22 AM
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How do they know a guys height on a dating app? I definitely found them annoying because most of the hot guys are really short. And most of the guys in general rely on deception to get you. The girls are even more like that. It’s really annoying to have your time wasted by stuff you would know in two seconds just seeing and smelling a person. I did meet some people I wouldn’t normally have met on dating apps, who I really liked even though irl they wouldn’t feel like they were “allowed” to talk …
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:22 AM
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Maybe your mom.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:18 AM
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“Not all women are like that” and then they point to me. SHE dates short guys. They’re tall compared to YOU, betch! And my SO isn’t even short. He’s 5’9”. He literally hates that I’m taller and makes this stupid face whenever I wear heels that makes me all depressed because I can’t wear my heels. So I have to have fat legs all the time. I’ve dated shorter guys but it’s very annoying because every time we walk past a tall guy they act like this dude is going to just physically pick me up and carr…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:16 AM
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I mean the only ones you’ve met are the type to put up with being called feeeeeemmmaaayyuuuulllzzz so what did you expect?
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:09 AM
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Did this have 3 votes? 😂
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:09 AM
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I think they’d be very happy together. I ship it. I don’t wait a long time anymore but that’s because I tried once and was devastated when I couldn’t sleep with the guy. Then again no idea what I actually do anymore since I’ve been with my So for years lol
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:08 AM
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😂😂😂😂 this sounds like the premise of a hilarious rom com honestly
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:06 AM
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There could be any number of reasons. Maybe she’s just born again. You’re so right about movies and TV making some people think the drugs booze and sex lifestyle is “normal” and they’re weird if they don’t live it. I’ll just stick to Disney plus lol.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:05 AM
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“Plundered used and abused” is almost as repulsive as describing a human being as “it”. I get that you’re upset that she wouldn’t want you anyway; do you get that the person she does want is probably out there? Do you scroll through mens profiles saying horrible things about them too? Look at this dwarf thinking he’ll ever get laid ewwwwww meanwhile most people with that disorder live completely normal lives. What do you care what this woman does with her life if you supposedly “didn’t want her …
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:03 AM
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Lol this would probably work
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:38 PM
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You said it, not me. Funny how most adults know nothing about their friends kids sexual relationships yet you claim to know everything. Show what you just said about their kids to your male friends. I’m sure they’ll explain the problem to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:58 PM
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The post says this. Men younger than me hit on me all the time, but like you, I’m not sitting on the internet putting down young men en masse, complaining about the ones who date women their own age as if there’s something wrong with THEM, and not the ones who sniff around old married people. What that girl did was not developmentally normal, and normalizing it to other kids her age is not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:57 PM
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That’s your opinion based on I don’t know what, and most men don’t share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:53 PM
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That “willingness to submit” did not sound good. That’s a person. A human being. The way people talk in these subs is often predatory. Massive age gap relationships are often predatory on one side or the other. But my point was more that trying to manipulate younger women into “wanting” older men by saying guys their own age are “evil” for acting in a developmentally normal way is predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:43 PM
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You are my favourite human. If I knew you personally, I would become your wingwoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:39 PM
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Of course we do. Every time we have sex with a male, we’re having sex with a lesser creature. Imagine having to wait between orgasms. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:38 PM
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They try to date up, we just won’t have them 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:37 PM
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It is not what most people want to do. You are not the archetype for all men. Most men are probably happy to say they do not share your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:36 PM
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Re-read the post, since that’s exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:34 PM
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Their problem, I don’t sniff around kids or maladjusted adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:34 PM
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It’s really gross that you hang around your friends just to creep on their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:33 PM
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I agree. The girls on OF and IG were pretty much confined inside the strip club walls back then. And they couldn’t get away with lying about what they do for a living. And they had to show up. They couldn’t just cycle back on the same 20 pictures from 15 years ago lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:33 PM
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Did it though? I feel like the internet actually makes it harder. Because people can lie about everything online but when I used to meet guys out at school or at an event I knew everything I needed to know on sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:30 PM
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I didn’t have sex until I was in my 20’s either and I was a full time model. Men are not a monolith based on you. Women typically lose their virginity later than men. I don’t know what flack you’re talking about but look at the way men talk to me just in this thread. Do people say these things to you a hundred times a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:28 PM
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Paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:26 PM
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Sure they do Humbert 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:26 PM
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You didn’t read my post at all and I won’t waste time on yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:16 PM
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Lol you’re funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:14 PM
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If you’re trying to date women who are younger than you , you’re the problem here. Obviously a lot of young people haven’t matured beyond the point of cheating, not knowing who they want to marry, etc. this is no different regardless of gender. It isn’t uncommon or weird. What IS weird is a much older person claiming to “save them” from a completely normal stage of development.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:02 PM
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Most of us are just dating well adjusted men our own age after going through the normal series of try ons and breakups
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:02 PM
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Men don’t have to compete for anything. White men in particular have the highest chance of getting anything they ask for, without facing bigotry, discrimination, or death threats. Once in the position they are the most likely to be surrounded by people who look, act, and think exactly like themselves, without having to hide who they actually are, unless they happen to be passing or gay. They are literally online complaining that the government refuses to legalize rape so they can force underaged…
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:09 PM
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Isn’t being a white male pretending that you have the same struggles as actually discriminated against groups who can lose their lives simply for existing a liberal faux pas, yet here you both are? But no. I’m saying if “nobody cares” why are you blaming women? It’s a gender segregated society. I think people care for me because other women do. If you think “people don’t care” it’s because men don’t care for eachother.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:06 PM
1

“As a male no-one really cares about you” What does that mean? It means other men don’t care about you. Women have a reason not to care. We’re more likely to be victimized by men than other women. But men? They just don’t care.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:04 PM
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It was accidental. I thought it was one of a thousand comments on basically the exact same post about a trans woman. I had so many flooding my feed that I just started copy pasting. Mea culpa
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:02 PM
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Look up the stats
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:00 PM
1

I just commented on the wrong thread and realized later that this was the one about a trans man not a trans woman
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 06:00 PM
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Are you me? Cuz, exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:50 AM
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No, it isn’t. You have to be sick and dying and watch the perfectly healthy person you love more than life itself struggle to pay the bills and keep the house clean and always look at you with that fake happy pained expression because they love you too much to ever let you feel like a burden. It is endless suffering worse than you can ever have even fathomed when you were alone. Loss is inevitable. You lose them or you lose yourself…your kids move out, pets die, houses fall apart. Life, love, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:50 AM
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On the original question: Love is not conditional. When someone turns out to be abusive in some way, you don’t stop loving the person they used to be. In fact, you are so disappointed and so sad BECAUSE you loved the person. If you didn’t love the person, you wouldn’t care what they did. Only someone you care about incredibly strongly is even capable of hurting you that much. Unconditional love doesn’t always feel like love. Not to anyone: dogs when you have to take something away they’d rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 AM
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No one cares about anyone actually. If men can’t form bonds with eachother then they should start. Making the fact that you don’t love eachother the way women do a “women problem” doesn’t make sense since we aren’t remotely involved in your relationships with one another.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 02:05 AM
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Is this a question? If so, I have an answer. Often, due to PERCEIVED privileged, people transition from one thing to another in a disingenuous way. For example there’s a film, I feel pretty, where Amy Schumer hits her head and THINKS she’s beautiful, therefore she changes her perception of every situation to fall into that narrative of what she thinks hot girls “get”. Someone opens a door and she walks through it, assuming he’s holding it for her. She flirts with herself on behalf of a guy, beca…
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 02:02 AM
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In my experience, yes. Tinder is billed as a space to get free easy sex and women aren’t interested in that. Meanwhile sites like match.com have more female than male users and are more representative of the population overall. Suggesting that if men didn’t want to deal with an environment where “plain janes are getting hot guys” (but more likely where hookers are scoping Johns, at least where I live) they would use an app that doesn’t promise easy no strings attached sex to its users.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 11:05 AM
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Not really. It’s unanimous in a sound chamber. Like asking the chess club if they like chess and extrapolating from their responses that everyone likes chess. Plus there are no consequences except the ones people make up so they can feel less bad about being rejected. I’m all for whatever fantasy helps you as long as you’re not using it to hurt others. If you’re sniffing around a girl waiting for her to get dumped so you can gloat, you are definitely the biggest douchebag in the room and deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:21 AM
1

This logic only works if you see people touching you without consent, obsessing over you, following you around and constantly begging you to get with them as a positive. I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:18 AM
1

Neither. I already have more husband than I have ever deserved, and the $2k would put put us, just barely, in another tax bracket that would make us even more broke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:16 AM
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Your idea of “honesty” is “saying exactly what you want to hear” and that’s the issue. It’s like that video a while back where the guy was screaming at women just trying to get some bagels because it was his perception that women didn’t like his height (https://youtu.be/PWfRu5YQahs) Sure, he’s short. But it’s clearly not the ugliest thing about him. Most of the short guys in my friend group find it easier to meet girls than it is for me to meet guys as a tall girl. There’s obviously a huge diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:14 AM
3

Based on what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:59 AM
5

That’s where I’m at these days. Don’t ask for my sympathy while calling for my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:59 AM
3

Hot people stay hot anyway. Like have you seen Cher? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:58 AM
9

There’s an old saying “if you’re determined to hang your dog, any rope will do for the purpose.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:55 AM
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A lot of people use “check boxes” as a way to exclude others because they don’t actually want a relationship; it’s no surprise that even if a “perfect” person comes along, there’s no chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:54 AM
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That’s why it’s in quotes. Since these subs are on some BS about “girls are poisoned by dating apps” yet only like 8% of people meet on dating apps. Maybe instead of sitting around name calling people they are obsessed with for being hot guys or whatever, they should go outside. They are WAY more obsessed with so-called “Chads” than I am, and they don’t understand the nuance of human relations. If you want to understand that you need to jump in the fire, and that’s the only way,
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:37 AM
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It would be beneficial in so many ways. Like have you noticed how many people look inbred these days? Tell me that’s not a result of boomer pervs running around and taking off on their families so nobody knows who they’re related to? Running around in DNA soup. But I think honestly some guys would do pretty well to just like watch some reality TV and see how hot guys actually are. They aren’t out here sleeping with everyone lol.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:33 AM
1

If “bottom tier men” love monogamy why are they the ones most likely to talk about how they don’t get a ton of girls while most “top tier men” are in relationships or married? All RP guys talk about is how they want a TON of girls to be into them, how is that monogamy? My SO had a ton of girls into him and only wanted one girl. Of course I trust him more, who wouldn’t?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:27 AM
1

Women are virgins longer than men. A lot of dudes aren’t.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 06:26 AM
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Where? All I ever saw in NYC were scary crackheads, septuagenarians and creepy photographers, other than married men and a couple doctors who weren’t asking me out after I puked on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:18 PM
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It comes across kind of pathetic because the only women putting that kind of effort into our looks are models and hookers. And even models don’t go out of their way to put on the “smoke show” prosthetics 24/7. It takes a very insecure woman to do that. Also it comes off as a total lie since I was a model and can’t even count the number of men who judged me or refused to date me because I didn’t have a serious enough job or make a lot of money like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:15 PM
1

100% of the men I haven’t been with judged what I do and what I earn. That’s why they aren’t with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:13 PM
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TL;DR I think they’re just using extreme outlying cases to describe what they don’t want. It’s like if I used my crappy ex as a yardstick for what I don’t date. They’re just saying the bar is low. It does seem vague if you take it on a personal basis instead of in the larger context (the women they’re actually talking about) So I have to ask myself, who fits these two categories? Which women I know who are always single fit into these boxes, and then it starts to make sense. So I’ll describe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:10 PM
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To becoming gay? And they said the gay agenda was a lie 😂
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 10:34 PM
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It would make sense if it worked but they’re clearly both still alone so?!?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 10:28 PM
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The reason women are upset when you post things like this openly online is because you are telling abusive men “hi I’m the injured deer who wandered away from my park” which forces the rest of us to scream “we’re still in the pack take the sacrifice and leave us alone!” Not sure why you’d volunteer as tribute but “I only trust men” girl is definitely a red-flag friend. It’s usually because her all male friend group doesn’t mind passing her around like a bowl of grandma’s Christmas candy but fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:32 PM
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If by “prefer to be single if the man they are attracted to isn’t available” you mean “would rather be alone than be a victim” you are correct. Wouldn’t anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:18 PM
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I’m a feminist. Why? Well that’s a novel. I’m a feminist because my brother was allowed to go out for teams and I wasn’t because there weren’t any girls teams. I’m a feminist because my brother was handed job after job because he was a boy and I was repeatedly told “girls can’t do landscaping” and “girls can’t paint houses”. Apparently girls can’t push ONE button in a factory either. So while he could afford to buy a car by the time he was 14, I was always broke. I’m a feminist because I was a b…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 01:49 AM
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“Well documented” like female infanticide and the unprecedented over-abundance of males due to deliberate subjugation and murder of women… Or documented in your own mind? In a society that hates girls and women, more boys are born. “Accidentally”. Sure. I….it’s not like you can choose to destroy a fetus based on gender if you have enough money or anything. Still, thank you for telling me I’m special. I already knew ;)
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/22 12:33 PM
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You’re in for a rude awakening when you find out college isn’t a college movie and most people there do, in fact, study the subject they’re paying excessive amounts of money to get a degree in.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:59 AM
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Men shouldn’t see their own selves as a monolith for “all men”….you don’t think women like you, and have decided it is because of autism (and it could be) therefore “women don’t like autistic men” Depends on the woman, but generally those of us on the spectrum or with disorders have to find someone who either understands or complements what we’re going through. My cousin has autism and so does his girlfriend. They met in a group for adults with ASD. I have a bunch of socially awkward issues, my …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:47 PM
1

If you’re asking a girl who likes you how to get someone else of course she’s gonna lie, what did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:27 PM
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My brother got a lot of great advice from my mom and aunt. He dated our high school volleyball captain. And he’s happily married. In general if you do the exact opposite of anything pilled guys say you’ll be happier XD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:11 PM
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Sometimes the guy who asks is someone you want to date, so I really would be wary of that too. When I was younger a lot of guys asked me for dating advice and it really did send a clear message that I was not someone they considered worthy of dating, especially if they had a specific target in mind. We really do hate stuff like “you’re a girl…how can I get Amber to date me?” Or the guys who ask you to dance just to ask if your best friend is dating anyone. If you’re going to ask a woman for advi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:47 PM
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Guys will give you bad advice just to mess with you. Most guys have that one idiot friend who just doesn’t get it, so they just give up and laugh at him instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:43 PM
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PUA is more like a dude dressed as a pirate surrounded by paid wenches tells you he’ll teach you how to fish for $500 and then takes your money out drinking. Then uses what’s left over to pay more wenches to con the next guy. It’s EXACTLY like that. Source: I was a paid model for these events.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:42 PM
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The only useful advice here is that the same tactics don’t work for everyone. An ultra-hot pua working in NYC doesn’t know jack about picking up women as a treasure troll living in LA. Know how people see you, know what they want from you, and go from there. If you can. I think it would be easier as a man but I’ve never been one. As a woman I know I can easily pick up men by dressing in clothes sized for a toddler and acting dumb and hyper sexual…but I could never respect any man who wanted a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:39 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:36 PM
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I guess he’s saying do this and then lie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:30 PM
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You are definitely not qualified to advise me as a pathetic loser who waits several months just to feel like you got a chance to hurt someone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:29 PM
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This garbage actually helped me as a woman. I stopped feeling sorry for guys and thinking I had to date them even though they weren’t as attractive, athletic, or kind as me. I realized they were just trying to guilt and manipulate me and that they are way more evil than men who just react to their natural emotions. I started doing the exact opposite of everything they suggest and met my so of 14 years (and counting). I honestly credit them with opening my eyes to how evil and manipulative ugly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:25 PM
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EXACTLY!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:21 PM
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Right? Like stop trying to throw other women under the bus damn lol. She just described all my friends wtf? And most of us were virgins basically out on a date with each other at that age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:20 PM
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Wouldn’t know. I don’t date average because I read too many of these posts assuring me that average men are psychotic manipulators who only want to use me for sex and only ultra hot rich men date for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:19 PM
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I’ve met exactly one guy who did this (pretended to be someone’s friend for 5 years just to get her to sleep with him). He was a giant in his own mind but the general consensus was definitely “wow that guy is pathetic.” He was the same one who would go out on one date with a girl from tinder and say she was “obsessed with him” because she texted him the next day. Full on delusional megalomaniac 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:17 PM
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It doesn’t. This message was brought to you by the same morons who complain if you’ve had sex with too many people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:14 PM
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Don’t do drugs kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:43 AM
1

Did you mean: How can I be an authentic human being who other people like because I’m not fake and treat others like people not objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:05 AM
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I’m a diagnosed narcissist and even I know that shit is wrong. He has to be a psychopath. “She also keeps complaining about the bodies in the basement”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:00 AM
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I can’t believe I’M saying this…but it’s definitely not all men. 😭 don’t put me on this side of the fence I hate it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:59 AM
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It doesn’t help. My SO looks like an angel stepped out of Heaven but my body goes on mute whenever he gets close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:57 AM
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It’s actual rape, since he’s admitted to years of grooming and using force in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:56 AM
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You clearly didn’t read his douche post saying he deliberately used lies and manipulation to force her into sex and she has given up on life. Basically because even some of the worst incels to exist are human beings with souls who can see the wrong in something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:54 AM
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He rapes his wife daily and complains that she doesn’t like it. Where does he live I’m going to get this woman 😭 Also just being honest it seems like he was trying to write an RP fantasy to make his kind jealous? Because it reads like the RP version of a flex. Ultimate woman abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:52 AM
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Oh god I thought this was going a whole other way
/r/askMRP09/08/22 10:51 AM
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When will any of you learn that men aren’t a monolith and have varying sexualities just like women? I a woman, should not have to tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:48 AM
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In this community or in actual CMV? I think it’s a genuine attempt to see the other side’s view a lot of the time. Not here. In CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:46 AM
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The greater Reddit community is not a better sample
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:45 AM
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RPeople are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:45 AM
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He’s with me. It seems to offend a lot of people who aren’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:43 AM
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Q4M why is it that most men will say models “aren’t that attractive” but a woman instantly becomes the most beautiful girl on earth the minute she’s dating them. The ugliest girls become “conventionally attractive”, the 6s become “downright beautiful”. Is it hormonal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:42 AM
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Nobody cares what you look like. And your post is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:38 AM
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Post an Imgur link
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:38 AM
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Sure chuckles. You got only one problem The guy who formed the movement admitted that he no longer supports it because of the violence against women (rape and murder) being promoted within the community. Oof and you’ve also got the intense regularity of threats of rape and the worst kind of violence on incel forums and websites to contend with if you want to keep pushing that fairy dust. But hey, you might just get by if only all of this wasn’t easily accessible publicly posted information. Oof.…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:15 PM
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I’ve explained it. If you don’t understand what’s wrong with it, I hope you figure it out. But at the end of the day my life is in no way affected by what you do, and here’s the kicker, I’d like to keep it that way.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:08 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 08:31 PM
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There are ９circles of hell, per Dante. The upper circles are the minor crimes that lead into the major ones: Limbo, which I have equated with the space where men believe something is wrong, but want to solve it by bettering themselves. Lust, which I have equated with men who care only about who they can have sex with, and obsess over “getting women” rather than forming relationships Gluttony, which I have equated with this type of man’s increasing obsession with amassing what he believes to be k…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 08:30 PM
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Sounds more like an issue with what you’re watching than the platform itself. YouTube and TikTok both recommend based on your previous views.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 08:20 PM
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I’m seeing none of what you’re seeing. My TikTok is nothing but makeup for men People telling me how fabulous I am Cute music, and funny scientists I think you may have broken your algorithm by consuming the wrong kind of content. So I’ll just link everything in my scroll for you. We can fix this!!! Your wife is your partner not your mom Let people have bortions Men are more emotional …go down that rabbit hole, and tik tok will realize you don’t fetishize woman abuse :3 For the rest, my brother …
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 08:04 PM
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Yes, this kind of thinking is the problem. Thank you for the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:57 PM
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Sure. I believe the drug revolution and normalization of addiction behaviour killed and continues to kill both equality and chivalry. Addicts are inherently self-obsessed, and prior to the late 60’s people had more basic decency. Anti-woman rhetoric also kills chivalry even in spaces where drugs and social climbing aren’t a thing. The minute you devalue women and girls as people or treat us as a commodity. You’ve got a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah well how is it our fault they watch too many Hollywood movies where teens are played unrealistically by highly paid 25-32 year olds?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 01:25 PM
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I don’t get casual sex either, and I’m not stupid enough to want it XD
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 01:24 PM
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Okay to be fair some fucking idiots do but we don’t talk about Bruno
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:53 PM
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“Intellectually” 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:50 PM
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As a creator, I concur. You get a lot more views on “wtf” “lol” or “what in the fuck did I just watch?” Than you do on “wow, thanks for this incredibly relevant and well thought out educational information” And you get a LOT more views if you say the slightest dumbass thing than you do from people who actually like you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:49 PM
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Yeah the only videos I’ve seen with this hashtag are other creators making fun of him for being an idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:47 PM
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You make the classic bigot-creator mistake of assuming people watch content because they LIKE it. Hate views are often more powerful than love views, as any creator including me can tell you. My most popular video with over 13k views and hundreds of shares is popular because it made people very angry and they really wanted to bandwagon and cancel me. It’s sad that a certain type of creator is unfortunately encouraged to keep creating because they think viewers are the same as fans. They are not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:45 PM
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It does not make it worse. Being nice to perverts makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:51 PM
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And you expect anyone to believe that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:15 AM
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I think maybe it’s an unfortunate bi product of refusing to spend time with women, you end up surrounded by other extremist men speculating on what women say/think until you believe your own stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:59 PM
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Pretty easy to deny when I look at who is employed and who justifies firing me because of the way I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:01 PM
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I feel like you’re unfairly comparing very hot women to very ugly men. Most of the guys I know (in the performance industry) have little harems of dedicated fans. I don’t know that any of them worked so hard because they wanted to get laid. Maybe one of them, but his gf dumped him because he didn’t see her as a person. When asked why he was with her, he didn’t talk about her qualities as a person but the fact that she looked like an actress he’d always had a crush on. If that’s your “only ask” y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:00 PM
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Hit the nail on the head there. Consuming sex with no substance content makes men awkward and makes it harder for them to relate authentically with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:57 PM
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They don’t? I‘ve seen it everywhere I travelled. On men too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:56 PM
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Honestly I agree with you. “Self improvement for men” is much more toxic. Makeup companies and the fashion industry are all about diversity and making everyone feel good. Mens spaces tend to lean FAR the other way, heavily shaming men for taking a step out of line. As they say of cocktail parties, when two women wear the same thing, they are mortified; when two men wear the same thing, they high five. Men are quite literally conditioned, and violently at that, into doing exactly what toxic manho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:55 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say people have eyes and they like aesthetic things XD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:46 PM
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I like makeup. It’s pretty and sparkly. I’d rather more men wear makeup than less women. I’d be happier in this world if people walked out the door with intention 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:45 PM
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If you had ever been the hot girl you would understand why it becomes frustrating to the point where you act like a total bitch hoping you can live life for five fucking minutes and have people leave you alone. If it’s not women asking you for hair and makeup and fashion tips that wouldn’t apply to them, it’s men constantly harassing you, begging you, and threatening you. And everyone is always pissed off ar you anyway. If you just brush your hair and walk out the door some girl is going to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:40 PM
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Not with my SO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:39 PM
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I don’t think it’s about the male gaze personally. I only really have to be attractive to one man. But other women LOVE you if you’re good at makeup or fashion 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:24 PM
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Shockingly, you can like and respect people without being them. I know it’s hard to believe but most people aren’t abusive narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:26 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Oh you’re actually mentally delayed. I get it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:24 PM
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Uh-huh. I lived in the thinnest developed country in the world Rihanna is still an icon You’re just a horrible judgemental person who happens to also be unattractive, like most men on these subs. It has really nothing to do with which third world country you live in. I don’t know what kind of person calls Rihanna fat, but it isn’t one with eyes connected to a functioning brain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:24 PM
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It’s interesting how often you all claim to speak for “all men” when it’s clear the vast majority are getting everything you claim to want simply by not being mysogynistic extremists. Most men are NOT you. Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:17 PM
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That’s my entire genders entire argument? Yeah, we don’t talk. Your rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:14 PM
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The fact that you think anyone cares if they’re YOUR type while spouting suck venom is incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:55 PM
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See now that’s a guy who gets laid ;) probably by Rihanna
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:54 PM
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Rihanna without makeup and still a shining example of a wonderful beautiful human who constantly gets recognized and begged for attention in public defies you. But even if what you’re saying IS true, you’re negating your own narrative by saying talent, your attitude, confidence and the way you dress are more important than your looks. 😂 I won’t disagree there. The fact remains that Rihanna without makeup is still more beautiful than a lot of women with makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:52 PM
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Literally one of the most objectively beautiful and talented women on earth. But someone will say she’s “overrated” which in the bigotsphere is code for “not white”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:49 PM
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I’ve seen guys here rate models without makeup as a 3 and say they “hate all that fake shit” because the so-called “manosphere” is a smokescreen for hatred and misogyny. At some point we gotta call a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:48 PM
3

Let me just stop you at the title: no we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:46 PM
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I live in North America, not a polygamist Sub-Saharan African tribe. Honestly the manosphere bitches about feminism and also whines about what happens in an unequal, male-controlled society where the strongest men obviously get all the women because equality isn’t a thing. “Have had” and “will have” are two different things there, Chachi. You live in the best possible timeline for weak, ugly, unintelligent pot-bellied annoying men and some of you still complain that you aren’t getting top-tier w…
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 02:11 PM
1

Imagine believing “prominent red pillers” exist. You do know most men aren’t crazy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:01 PM
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Oh wait except that’s the opposite of what literally anyone did? Oh and it’s not “defending” someone to ask that a WORSE CRIMINAL get a WORSE punishment Are you actually this insane or do you just fake it to troll online? Either way, it’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:51 PM
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You replied to a post in which the person asked why he a man with plenty of experience with dating and marriage over the years has less venom than inexperienced people toward us, and you responded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:51 PM
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I agree with what I said in the first place. If you’re a woman, they are all exactly the same thing. Call it Red Pill Black Pill incel the fucking he man woman haters club It’s just different states of the same unsafe being. I don’t want the chrysalis in my life any more than I want the moth. I can’t even speak to the fact that you had to use a case in which a 17 year old psychopath murdered her “boyfriend” by encouraging his suicide, which even the people magazine article refers to as “sick” an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:55 PM
1

My degree is in political science. It crossed over with a number of sociology and psych classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:53 PM
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Nope. I assure you, I can both drive a vehicle into a crowd, and pull a trigger if I choose to do so, as can any woman. We just don’t. At least not in as large numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:47 PM
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He responded to someone who asked why people with no experience have this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:46 PM
1

Same crap, different pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:41 PM
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Someone with more experience has told you that isn’t the case. But you double down on inexperience and repeat “the narrative”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:48 PM
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I understand how you feel. I’m 42, granted I’m in a long term relationship. But I don’t understand using inexperience as an excuse to commit a hate crime. Especially just based on fetishizing people who by nature aren’t that into you. Why not just go out with someone who is? It all just feels like an excuse for violence. Maybe it’s inexperience that does it, but they’d have to have never met a single actual woman. How is that possible? Doesn’t everyone at least have teachers and a mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:46 PM
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This is the only way they get laid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:43 PM
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“It works” because they say it does? 😂😂😂 Because men Never LIE 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:42 PM
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Not to mention the valuable information it gives you on which behaviours to look out for so you know exactly who to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:41 PM
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No, you’re right. We don’t actively hate them. We don’t accuse random unrelated men of being part of them, we don’t threaten men with rape and murder when they say men deserve basic human rights. We don’t become homicidally enraged when they refuse to wear what we tell them to wear And we do not actively set out to murder men because they won’t have sex with us. We are against hate groups. We are not forming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:39 PM
1

People don’t like shifty, manipulative douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:35 PM
5

Imagine committing a hate crime and then being all “the group we hate doesn’t love being hated”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:33 PM
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We hate it because it’s an actual threat to human lives. Edit: Yes, the entire “manosphere” is nothing but misogynistic ideology that promotes violence against yourself and/or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:31 PM
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Haven’t I replied to all of this a thousand times? It’s so annoying. But the main screw up is in the first three lines. “The rise of the manosphere is helping men!” “That’s why they’re miserable alone violent and suicidal!” ….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:30 PM
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We’d have to admit substance abuse is a problem, not a party, first lol.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 12:23 PM
2

Forever alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:45 AM
1

Go ahead. Post your “scientific fact”. Not the words. The actual studies. Since it’s demonstrably untrue and you know you’re completely insane but hey, let’s play pretend. That’s what the internet is for, right? 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 11:44 AM
1

Some people change but … the older I get the less I know why. The less I can predict if they will. Addicts don’t typically change. Douchey seeming guys sometimes do…like they mature. Kind people can become total trash. There is no way to know who someone will be 10-20 years in the future. You can’t even know who you will be by then. It’s the human condition I guess
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah but no but…maybe? I dunno. I’ve met a lot of interested guys who met THE standard but not MY standard. And my SO had no real redeeming features except the one that mattered. Yeah…I don’t think there’s one rule on this. Other than yeah, either look for someone who is already where you want them to be, or live with the fact that people don’t change. It should be obvious. But it’s not.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 12:32 AM
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I’m pointing out that the action some men take will not yield the result they claim to want. I have met a lot of men who whine that their wife shows off too much or dresses too sexy, but they met her at a club grinding on dudes. They complain that she’s never home on weekends but they never complained about predictably running into her at the bars every Friday and Saturday night. They bitch that she got fat but they used to sit around McDonalds with her laughing at “loser girls who diet”. Marry …
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 12:02 AM
1

If they’re that stupid they can go fuck themselves. Literally 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:09 PM
2

I’ve experienced the same thing with OTT RPers though
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 07:33 PM
2

Same…bot probably
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 07:32 PM
1

I’m an anarchist. I just read all the subs trying to predict who will radicalize enough to kill someone first.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:51 PM
1

I have not.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:50 PM
1

What do you mean, “safer”?
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:50 PM
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To be fair I was a fat “ugly” kid that couldn’t get a BF until I grew 10” and got skinny in like 11th grade and it had no lasting impact.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:50 PM
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Sigh. I hate where I live. All my male family members are tall (over 6ft), hard working, gorgeous (dancers and models among them) and smart (so many straight a students). But this town is full of racist ratchet drug addicts mating with treasure trolls, and every day the populace becomes more inbred. If I had a son, he would have to be Shrek to attract a mate here at all. If my son looked like me he would be forever alone because I was lucky enough to have parents with money so I could meet guys …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:45 PM
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What were the parameters of THAT study?
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:42 PM
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My SO grew 3-4” between 20 and 25. Other things also got bigger. To be fair he was malnourished before.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:41 PM
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Actually yes. Before you turn 25, eating healthy and exercising, and avoiding smoking can increase your height. Also living in a clean environment. My SO was underweight when I met him at 20 and had stopped growing at 5’8”, but after moving in with me he gained like 2” in height, filled out in weight and became healthier. He didn’t have much food before and he lived with smokers. Seems like anything that reduces your lung capacity also reduces your height. It goes without saying that growing isn…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:39 PM
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None of this “history” is true. In the 1950’s everyone wanted to marry Elvis Presley who looks extremely similar to modern stars like Chris Evans and Zak Efron. My Grandpa looked like Elvis and my Nana looked like Grace Kelly. Most defining actors of the 1920’s (Boris Karloff, Lon Chaney) were extremely attractive by the day’s standard and over 6 feet tall (Lon Chaney was 6’1”, Karloff was 6’5” or so) Prior to the 1920’s we get an even wider view of what was considered attractive from books. In …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 06:05 PM
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There are too many men because of female infanticide, genocide, and hyper masculine socialization that devalues women. If the trend continues (and I predict it will) we’ll face an extinction level event. North America already has to actively replace our population through immigration due to a low birth rate. Which also replaces our values. This can become detrimental because they have more ties to their country of origin than the one they live in. It results in income transfer overseas, housing …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:52 PM
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It was disproven in its infancy by scientists who concluded that a significant number of illnesses and disorders aren’t genetic, are unable to be seen until later life, and more importantly that a number of less-than-desirable traits (like having 3 toes, webbed feet or for some reason brown eyes) are dominant traits that can and often will be passed on even 10 generations out. Of course there’s also the fact that a number of genetic diseases actually make people more physically attractive, like …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:46 PM
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Let’s start with some basic truths. women are the choosers Men are historically more likely to reproduce offspring in greater numbers than women. Women are more likely to care for children, which explains why women are so choosy. We face a greater risk from reproducing than men, physically emotionally and financially. 80% or more of single parent families are female led Both women and men sleep with roughly the same number of people but it is women who are more likely to have less partners in ol…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:38 PM
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I saw a TikTok about this today. He said a man wants a submissive woman until he has to pay the bills. I don’t like the word submissive but I think he’s right. A lot of men use “traditional gender roles” meaning they want a 17th century woman who cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids and maybe has a hobby like gardening or crafts…but they don’t want to be a 17th century man with varied interests,travelled and cultured, and follows a code of gentlemanly conduct They also want her to look like a h…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:26 PM
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There are a lot of fake stories like this in Asian media. They encourage people to go over there for surgery. Reality is most plastic surgery looks the same.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:16 PM
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Idk where you live because that’s pretty much already the case here. And what it does is destroy the genetic health component. “Beautiful” people having uglyfuck kids with horrible health problems or addiction issues. Also plastic surgery IS surgery. Scar tissue, infection, med interactions and of course facial nerve damage… you can definitely leave looking worse than when you came in. I’m more a proponent of post-humanism. Apps with filters. VR chat. Normalizing wearing masks. Robots, hell. It …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:12 PM
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Not at my church
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:08 PM
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I have lots of controversial opinions. The 4 upper circles of modern hell are as follows: MGTOW, PUA, RP, Incel. Each circle poses an increasing incidence of severe mental health issues, lack of self awareness, and the tendency to blame all women for their own social issues. Too many men descend through these circles of hell and drag other men to perdition with them by using “all men” or “men” to describe their own insane opinions.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 05:05 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😂😂😂😂😭
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 04:59 PM
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Pillows are amazing. We create a fortress every night before sleeping
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/22 04:58 PM
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You certainly have a backward view of what men in general find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:46 PM
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You never know. People often hide their tendencies by swinging too far the other way. Like transwomen who act like the most toxic possible men to avoid suspicion, there are women who pretend to be traditional church going balls out conservatives while secretly touching themselves to Obama lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:40 PM
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Unless you live in my neighborhood. Then it’s just facts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:38 PM
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Can we even agree that it’s rare? I can’t. It isn’t rare around here. And how can RP agree that it’s rare while simultaneously complaining that women in modern relationships have too much power?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:37 PM
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True. Sexuality is a scale not a fixed point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:36 PM
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What’s wrong with you??!?! What’s wrong with YOU?!? Is this what men think? Is this what men actually…. God save us from this toxic masculinity before these men destroy themselves. In my opinion one of the greatest problems with society is the idea that men should compete based on strength, that they should never be the victim of anything, especially those dirty emotions, and that their relationships must always be at least somewhat predatory. To say nothing of the tendency within the pedophile-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:35 PM
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Did you just say the definition of the scientific method is not the definition? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:26 AM
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Or they realize how wrong they were, that they had a mental health issue, and that they needed to stop being garbage. The man who wrote “The Game” actually realized it did more harm than good. It didn’t stop men from killing people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:23 PM
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Interesting. You choosing won’t get them deplatformed. And that’s your excuse for continuing to consume the content and for currently spreading the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:18 PM
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That, to me, is the main issue with men. They will make a million excuses for the shittiest behaviour from other men, and then make ridiculous oppressive rules for women. To the point where they will let a male friend live with them rent free for a year and say he’s the best guy ever, just a little down on his luck, but scream bloody murder if they have to pay $2 for a woman’s coffee. Devaluing women is built into the language of who deserves what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:16 PM
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Because sexism thrives in a falsely anti sexist environment. If you don’t have any friends or know any women, you might buy into the idea that women have it easy, and anyone with a vagina will think you’re actually mentally delayed since it’s obvious we do not.,
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:12 PM
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That sounds more like MGTOW than TRP and either way the premise poisons the whole apple. Woman bad. Man good. Unga Bunga🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:11 PM
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It makes excuses for evil behaviour on mens part. People will do anything to see themselves as “good”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:07 PM
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“As a woman”….no you fucking aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:07 PM
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Yeah I joined the sub because I thought it was a Matrix role play. I was very disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:06 PM
1

So you admit people shouldn’t take medication that does fuck all or makes them sicker? Red pill, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:05 PM
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A knowledge of anthropology would at least keep these dumb tits from ascribing things that haven’t been true for at least 4,000 years to “evolution” and “biology”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:03 PM
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Oh lord my dad has that degree. You do not want to be around people with that degree. Mathematics better predicts human behaviour than a discipline so biased it should be called fictionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:02 PM
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They believe they’re going to get me with shitty behaviour. They are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:00 PM
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Actually I met the perfect man in high school. My mistake was believing society’s ideology that you aren’t supposed to fall in love with the first guy you date. Likewise, men become toxic to themselves when they believe in these ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:59 PM
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You’ve heard of holistic medicine I see :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:58 PM
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If my medication made me sicker, I would stop taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:57 PM
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Giving deliberately poor advice in order to increase their lack of success and radicalize them in service of a hateful cause does, in fact, make the person a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:57 PM
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I assure you, there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:55 PM
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If it’s aiming at being scientific, it may need glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:54 PM
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You’re 26. You have no idea what 50 feels like. Go, live your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:38 PM
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Too many stripes on his tank top lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:37 PM
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Then he has too many stripes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:37 PM
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I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:36 PM
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If you’re not lying, that woman is a fucking idiot, and I feel sorry for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:54 PM
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I’ve got news. People in their 30+ stage of life look fucking miserable. Single people want to blame our relationships but nah. My body sucks. My responsibilities suck. Getting what I wanted but it’s not as good as advertised, sucks. Having someone to bitch to at the end of the day about how much it sucks, rubbing each others backs, snuggling, and hating bad movies together…does not suck. It’s like the best part of my day. Ok but some people get married to have a wedding. Or they marry someone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:51 PM
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Captain America’s suit has one star, not 52. Therefore he is not Captain America. He is Captain Puerto Rico El Capitán América tiene un traje con una sola estrella. Ahora, su nombre es Capitán Puerto Rico.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:48 PM
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No. I take each situation on a case by case basis. There’s a difference between dating people because of their age, and dating people in spite of their age. I met my SO at work and “are you 9 years younger than me?” Wasn’t a question I asked. I honestly had no idea, until someone in his life brought it up. By then we’d already been dating for like 6 months and I wasn’t ready to dump him over a number. Likewise I have a good friend whose husband is 25 years older than her. He was her next door ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:44 PM
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More men than women cheat. But damn do I think about it. If my thoughts could cheat by thinking about cheating I’d be a backwards porcupine. Luckily most men open their mouths at some point and remind me why two is even worse than one. But holy shit if a hot fully functional man ever exists I’m cheating so hard 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:32 PM
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It is a basic truth of humanity that many douchebag extremists are so grateful for any female attention that they simp for any woman who ignores their BS. What goes around usually comes around, as the girl who puts up with them is typically exactly the kind of girl they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:30 PM
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No you peasant because I’m riding around in a $550,000 vehicle. Get with the cool kids. It even has a bike rack for when I gotta off-road 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:28 PM
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Ahaha hahaha hahaaaaaaa I want to see it. A man who manages a household. I want to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:25 PM
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Exactly. I feel sorry for his ex dating a loon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:24 PM
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Holy shit the comments. Holy fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:18 PM
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I mean what else is new on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:18 PM
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Right? Imagine anyone posting this about a man with ptsd? All I did was run the blender and my dad sat there pointing a gun at my face like a fucking mental patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:17 PM
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Men don’t do it. That is literally the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:16 PM
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Exactly. I think it’s very different. Besides I am literally a “fucking mental patient” and guys love fragile girls like his ex. In inpatient those girls have the hottest boyfriends constantly doting on them, so please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:15 PM
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This is confusing because the post clearly says there was interest in her, but that she was kicked off the sites for violating their rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:12 PM
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It’s easier than self reflection amirite? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:10 PM
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I don’t see how they’re wrong. When I’m sad, watching a Disney film definitely makes me feel like singing and dancing in spite of myself. Those jerks even made me smile while REJECTING me for a cruise ship job. What other employer closes a rejection letter with “Keep looking, auditioning, and trying. Your dream is out there, you just have to go for it!” They fire you the SAME WAY. You can pry my Disney channel addiction out of my cold dead hands, XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:08 PM
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I don’t think that’s true. I was raised by hippie feminists and wasn’t so much as allowed to watch the sound of music. I didn’t like television much but what I did watch was Care Bears and Sesame Street. If Sesame Street had influenced my sexuality, I would definitely be a gay man I do love shoes…. My desire for a relationship comes from an innate physical desire to be snuggled, held, and sexually pleased. I happen to derive said sexual pleasure from a dildo-shaped object, and these are often co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:05 PM
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Accurate. I have to double my antacid dose every time I read a post on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:00 PM
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I’m more upset at rich people who are completely obtuse. How can you live in a town where people can’t afford homes, build a massive building using government funds, and justify over charging rent? How can you be a person with the means, capacity, and funding to make life better for your fellow humans and actively choose against that? How can anyone buy a 20,000 dollar watch when 20,000 would pay my rent for 10 years? If you’re living your dream, why would you actively choose against other peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:00 PM
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I thought you were a guy and a douche because of your username and found your comments so confusing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:55 PM
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Try bodybuilding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:55 PM
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I haven’t. I still expect to be treated with basic human decency and respect, and will beat the living shit out of any asshole who tries to hit me, and that will never change. May you spend the rest of your life alone 🥰 I really wish that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:16 PM
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Your dirty jokes is great advice. I did something similar I read that as he made comments that sexualized their bodies. Also no, most women do not like compliments focused on our bodies. We get them all day. It proves you don’t want to know us for anything except sex and you don’t care about us as a person. Cat calling and “wow you have great boobs” are the same thing. But I must be wrong because you can swear and get angry. How does that usually work out for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:40 AM
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Ok I’m sorry for the too much honesty but in my experience the more rich person pays and if 2 people are the same amount of rich the uglier one pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:46 PM
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This isn’t why they didn’t work out, and it also would have ruined the chances of my current SO. But please tell me more about how everything you do wrong is right because it’s wrong? “It didn’t work out because he did something wrong. Therefore he was right to screw up” -panascope, 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:52 PM
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Here’s some very specific advice since I was part of a group that right swiped over 5,000 profiles and went on hundreds of dates for a research project. My weirdest advice you may never have heard before: If you laugh randomly, tell the person what you’re laughing at. A lot of people will assume you’re laughing at them, even if you think the real joke is obvious. If you look a bit like somebody famous, try to look more like them. You’ll benefit from their access to the best hair, fashion, and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:19 PM
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I like your cat, wanna bang? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:41 PM
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Also a great way to get raped and robbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:40 PM
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All of this is great advice. It’s also important to think of the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:40 PM
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While I’ve been in a lot of situations where a guy didn’t make a move and should have, I’d be wary of giving this advice because some people would take it too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:39 PM
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Or…you ruined your chances by doing something women don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:37 PM
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