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I didn't "join" The Red Pill until after I was married as the community didn't even exist then. I already understood it's basic nature before TRP idea consolidated it all into one. Saying you don't need TRP when married and saying you do it to get laid shows you genuinely have no idea what you're talking about. It's more important when married, not less. The very fact that so many housewives cheat is the reason, you nailed it. You must keep being attractive to your wife when married, that doesn'…
/r/askTRP21/12/21 07:12 PM
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Married for 10 years and was with over 20 women between 18 to 20 (then I met my wife). I guarantee you I've been laid 😂
/r/askTRP22/09/21 05:19 AM
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Sugma and ligma variants coming next.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 12:09 AM
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Thanks for that. I think the plan is to see how im feeling in 4-6 weeks on clomid. If I'm feeling a lot better and my T results are higher I'll go back to the doctor and just lay it out. If my brain fog and tiredness are better then I'll do a cycle myself at a reasonable dose and see how I go. Not keen on doing it to support steroid use so not going to go insane on dosage. Only issue I have is reliability of supply its really a lottery and you could easily get a bad batch.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:22 PM
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Hypergamy and female nature is hard wired into their brain, just as men are hard wired to try and fuck or kill anything that moves. It doesn't matter what culture you're raised in. Western culture needs TRP because we've been brainwashed to ignore our nature and feel ashamed of our masculinity. TRP reframes men back to what were hard wired to be and that's innately attractive to women.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 08:45 PM
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Too many sheep
/r/askTRP22/06/21 08:43 PM
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My Mum wandered "what if" and she ended up with a narcissistic paedo who got my older brother kicked out of the family home at 16 and sexually abused my sister when she was a kid (old found out 20 years later). "What if" was disastrous for us. My Mum is still so brainwashed by him and with him after all the shit came out. It opened my eyes to what women are attracted to. I grew up very fast. My Dad moved on and upgraded to a much newer model, so he won in the end. Except for the damage to his ki…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 05:04 AM
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I've been thinking about doing it myself. I had been feeing really flat, no results at the gym, mental fogginess, etc, some tests and came in with low T. Saw an endo and he was useless. Wont give me TRT because I'm low but not super duper low. Australia is really bad with TRT. I've started taking a small dose of Clomid to see if that helps my symptoms. If that works ill try out TRT by myself. Have you had any issues doing it yourself?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:35 AM
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I think it depends. If she's young and insecure then yes, if she's had them sucked dry by 3 ravenous babies then no.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:46 PM
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Let her peg you and beg her for a reach around.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:20 AM
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Absolutely spot on. Look at the crime statistics and its clear as day that boys raised without a man in the house are massively more likely to be violent and break the law. Its astronomical. I read somewhere that something like 21 of the last 22 school shooting in the US were by boys raised without a father. Boys raised by men become men. I'm always trying to set the right example for my boys and raise them right.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:00 AM
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Tell me about it. If you're a woman and you have a minor hormonal imbalance they slap a patch on you, good as gold. No worries. I think theres a big inherent aversion to TRT because of the toxic masculinity bullshit. I can't get medical treatment that may help clear up a lot of issues I've been having but its not available to me, legally.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:20 AM
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Not swaying either way on juicing. I get why people do it and I agree it's tempting. I work my arse off at the gym, have some OK muscle but just don't seem to be able to put much on at all anymore. I've been lifting for 10 years. I got my testosterone checked as I have other symptoms and I'm quite low, especially for someone who eats as well as I have been and lifts hard 4 days a week. I saw an endo but they won't give me TRT unless I was mega low, which is absolute bullshit. In the US they give…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:13 AM
1

Whilst it's not my cup of tea we've all harpooned a whale at 3am. Maybe he got the taste for whale meat?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:25 AM
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If they ask what you do just reply in a Jersey accent that you're in "waste management" and don't elaborate anymore.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:16 AM
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What sort of detail?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 10:22 AM
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Its great hearing stories like this. Success and self improvement are infectious. Well done. I can totally relate to how it feels to lift. Its a total addiction and you feel so much better and more confident after lifting. It makes me feel normal. On the flipside if I don't lift for two days I sink low, really low. It's like an addiction and has to be satiated
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 11:47 PM
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Your height and weight means absolutely nothing. Learning to fight is for everyone, even if they're 5" or 7", 200kg or 50kg.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:29 PM
1

Depends on what you want out of life. Sometimes I regret not partying and travelling in my 20s (did a bit but not much) but I wouldn't be where I am in my career if I had. If you love job it makes the hard work easier. There's no one right way to do life. As long as you die with a smile on your face then you've done it right.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:21 PM
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Sometimes you need to push yourself to see what you're capable of. Throwing yourself in the deep end can be great. Most of the best managers and workers I've worked with have all suffered from imposter syndrome. Maybe you have that, I certainly do.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:18 PM
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Depends on the company and team you're with. Right now I'm cruising because the team I have are amazing but some times itc can get incredibly stressful. I've been more stressed at less money. If I take the $190k job I'll be taking on a huge load though.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:03 PM
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Construction management. I work in the commercial and contract management of the business.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:01 PM
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I've pushed myself too hard a few times and caused serious injury. Twice I've been out of action for 2 years. You only get one body you have to take care of it.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:33 AM
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Did an engineering degree and was making $40-50k to around 26. Slowly climbed to $80k at 29. After that it sky-rocketed to $160k by 34. Just interviewed for a job paying $190k. I made career decisions based off "20s are for learning, 30s are for earning". I took two pay cuts to get work at places that would open up opportunities. Work hard and smart and things fall into place.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:43 AM
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He's his Dad and a young guy only just starting out, of course he's in his Dad's frame. What a silly comment.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:57 AM
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Totally agree. Some times people need a punch in the face and this dad deserved it. I've been that dickhead before and got punched. I deserved it helped me grow up.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:53 AM
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with standing up to bullies and cutting them out of your life. Toxic people bring you down and you should try to surround yourself with people that bring you up. I cut off my Mum years ago and I'm happy about it. I wouldn't do it but she deserves to be punched her in the face.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:51 AM
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Dread is important but it needs to be very light. She just needs to have it in the back of her mind that other women are attracted to you and that you'll be able to move on if you're not happy. Going full dread in an LTR fails comfort tests. This can be as simple as looking your best, going to the gym, dressing well and the subtle flirt with a waitress or server ever so often while she's around.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:44 PM
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I've been in an LTR for 15 and married for 10 years. Never ever ever stop improving yourself, going to the gym and striving for success. That's all gold in building long term attraction. If you do this you'll naturally be more confident and attractive to other women. That mindset is what passes all her shit tests. My wife knows full well I would be happy without her and that l'm with her because I chose to be (she's a genuinely awesome person). We have 2 kids, I work 60h pw, have kids sports 4 d…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:25 PM
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I do BJJ and absolutely love the people I roll with. They're a big family
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:22 AM
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MMA, BJJ, Muai Thai or boxing, doesn't really matter that much as long as you go into it without an ego, the gym has a great atmosphere/culture and you actually keep going. Some might be a bit better for fighting but they're all really useful and will teach you how to fight, building inner confidence. Finding the right community is probably more important than the actual fighting style, at least as a start.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:41 AM
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Interesting because I'm in a really good marriage and I encourage people not to get married. Even though I'm happy I would never do it again.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:01 AM
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Even a blue pulled father is better than no father. You were at least lucky enough to have an OK role model. You can't understand the depth of blue pull brainwashing unless you're raised by a single mum. I'm not making the same mistake my parents made and I'm 100% there for my boys.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:29 PM
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People don't go looking for things they don't need. Generally boys with fathers learn how to be a man from their fathers, not having one around makes that difficult. That was what I went through.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:42 AM
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Not sure why so many people go on about pick up up at the gym. Go to the gym to lift, not socialise. Not sure how to people find the time to talk to anyone, let alone women.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:26 PM
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Sex is phenomenal, she does literally anything I tell her to in bed. She's down for FFM 3somes. She cooks and cleans my place and takes care of my dog when I'm at work. We get along great and she's wanting to settle and have kids in the near future. Ask yourself if all of the things above went away would you still be happy in the relationship? If the answer is "no" then don't do it. Sometimes an LTR is worth it but all of those things you've outlined above become far more rare once they don't ha…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:23 PM
2

I hate down time at the gym so I superset everything. Turns a 90 second rest into 30 seconds.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:49 AM
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Should also show up to their house late at night. Dont knock, just wait outside in the bushes. Women love that romantic stuff.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:57 AM
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If you get into a fight you've already lost. Even if you win the fight you're still a loser for letting it escallate to that point. There's nothing manly about letting your emotions overtake you to the point where violence is the answer. The best fighters I know, like my BJJ instructor, are always raving about avoiding fights and the damage they can do. Best case you defend your ego, worst case you're in prison for killing them when their head cracks on the ground. A bruised ego is better than a…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:32 AM
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Step by step, day by day. I was in a very similar situation. Raised by a single mum, abusive step father with my Dad overseas. I was so blue pilled beta during my teens and just didn't get it. My mum would always go on about being a nice guy, blah blah blah, but I hot nowhere. I'd get lots of initial attention from women, even honked and waved at a few times from cars while walking but I could never escalate to anything. Eventually I cracked it and my RP journey began (wasn't called RP back then…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:36 AM
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Reading my old Facebook posts from 15 years ago. Cringe.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:03 AM
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Fuck yeah. I call it the 5am club. Exclusive to winners.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 01:00 AM
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HB is Hot Babe and the number is their rating out of 10.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 07:49 PM
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Travel all over the world. Travel expand the mind. Bit hard right now though 😪
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:48 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:27 PM
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The pill messes with their heads massively and changes the way they unconsiously smell. Smell is massively involved in attraction. The pill is so fucked. My missus was on the pill for years and she seriously changed over time. Less patience with kids, whiney and down. I just thought it was normal for overworked people to be like that. We tried her going off the pill and it was like a light switch. She started exercising more, was way happier, temper with the kids died down and she got ravenously…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:27 PM
1

Fake it till you make it. Once you've been doing it for long enough it doesn't really become fake anymore. I know I definately need alone/ down time to offset the socialisation, its draining.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/21 09:56 AM
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If you have an absolute rock solid frame and your LTR is trustworthy then absolutely let her go. Living your own lives and having space from each other is incredibly important for any LTR to actually succeed. Finding a girl like this in the first place is the hard thing and why vetting is super important. She just has to know that if she fucks up she's out. No questions. That's established with frame and boundaries from the beginning of the relationship. From what you're suggesting I don't think…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:09 AM
1

I had no idea who she was so I googled her. I was wondering what the hell you were on about as she was quite attractive. I then googled her with vampire diaries and could see exactly what you were talking about. From "yeah she's still cute" to "shit on my chest and ask for more" hot.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:59 AM
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A sorry with the "if" isn't a sorry, she should be sorry "that" she did it. Shes qualifying that she's sorry about your reaction, as opposed to her action, means she's not sorry.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:57 AM
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I don't agree 100% on that. A good slap on the bum or a titty squeeze as you walk past is extra affection. Do it every chance I get to my LTR. She doesn't admit it but you can see she loves it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/21 01:09 AM
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Absolutely true. I have folders of scopes, evaluations, designs and report samples I've worked on throught the years. Every lesson and mistake I've made over the last 10 years is in there. This is my treasure trove that I've sold (not explicitly) to my new employers and its payed off handsomely.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 03:51 AM
5

I've found high protein keto to be amazing for muscle retention. Great appetite suppressor and good for medium intensity cardio. Best cutting diet I've done. I lift 4 days and cardio 2-3 days at 20% deficit with 200g of protein a day. I've been putting muscle on even at that deficit and they're not newbie gains at all.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:07 AM
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Keep your relationship exciting and secure I've been in an LTR for a very long time. This section is absolutely spot on. Even with 2 insane kids, high pressure job and a million kids activities I ALWAYS find time for the gym and BJJ, even if it means doing it at 5am on a Saturday morning. My wife constantly nags me about doing too much but I always ignore her and do it anyway. 15 years later she still looks at me the same as she did when we first met, treats me like a king with the attraction we…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 01:46 AM
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Jordan Peterson described it as walking the line between order and chaos. Too much order and you never face genuine challenge and end up having no coping skills for when life actually challenges you, basically a giant man baby. Too much chaos and you can't cope, turn to crime, drugs and abuse. Walking the line gives you the challenge you need to grow, so you can actually cope when life shows you shit. I had a very challenging upbringing (single mum, abusive step father, chaos) and I wouldn't be …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 08:03 PM
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I lift 6 times per week, have good diet, don't eat processed crap and I still had a low testosterone result. As we age our levels naturally drop. You can do all the right things and still be low.. See a doctor, get tested and follow the doctors advice.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:09 PM
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Going to the gym in the morning was revolutionary for me. I used to say I could never do it but now I do it 6 days per week and work 10h days. It can be done, you just need a routine. Going at night after work sucks. Its crowded, your tired and your brain has hours and hours to think up an excuse not to go.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:03 PM
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My missus is half Italian, quarter Russian and quarter Irish. Its a powder keg 🤣.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:44 AM
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Currently reading The Power of Body Language by Joe Navaro. Its a really good read.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:09 AM
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All I read is "me, me, me". Run...
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:04 AM
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If you do that much work you'll collapse into bits. Losing weight/gaining muscle takes time and if you shock your body too much you'll get injured and your work will be for nothing. Take your time, measure and record everything you eat, eat at a slight surplus in a high protein diet (high protein keto worked amazingly for me), work out an hour a day at high intensity (max at the beginning) and get plenty of rest and it will come. A great starting spot is a 5x5 program, you can branch off from th…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:43 AM
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Thats perfectly normal. I get really sore if I miss 3 days at the gym. Not sure why though, it feels like the muscles get tight and the tendons strech a bit.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:33 PM
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I do construction management. Probably the best bang for you buck in education requirements compared to income but it's tough. Long hours, high pressure, mentally draining but well suited to the alpha/RP mindset. Once you make it you can make very good money.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:19 AM
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I also get the same management garbage, its what they do to keep their good people. Often the only way to get the promotion you deserve is to move. I've moved a few times and it's helped my career immensely. I was on 80k and pushed my boss for a pay rise. After a few months they gave me an extra $10k so I left and made $130k at a competitor. No point sticking around if it doesn't benefit you.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 08:27 AM
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I'm 100% the same. Socialising and being friendly is fun but it's exhausting, I have to save up my recharge time for home. My family know not to talk to me for around 20-30 minutes after I get home.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:04 AM
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Mainly in the workplace. Be happy, smile, crack jokes, ask them stuff about them, remember their kids names/activities and be fun to be around but don't be controversial in politics and religion. Being miserable, not engaging with people, not going for a coffee, eating alone, etc, doesn't endear people to you. Even something as simple as saying good morning with smile makes people feel good. Also go to the work after hours events whenever you can. Nothing bonds people like getting drunk together…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 03:52 AM
1

This sounds like its a US system but I'm in Australia. The US has fantastic laws that encourage entrepreneurship that the Australian government are too brainwashed to implement and we have very strict lending laws.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 12:09 AM
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That's the issue though, you need assets up to $1m to secure the loan otherwise they won't offer loans. I work in construction, managing large scale industrial and commercial projects, so they have a pretty high risk profile. In hindsight I wish I'd done a trade not engineering because their entry risk is minimal and starting a business is so much easier.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 10:38 PM
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I wish I could start my own business but you need at least $500k-$1m start up or a rich daddy to even consider the field I'm in. That's not just pocket change lying around.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 10:21 PM
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60-70k is a very low benchmark for salary, especially if you have a family. I'm on considerably more than that and it's hard to balance some times. I'm frugal so don't overspend either, my kids just eat me out of house and home and have sports/activities that cost money.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 10:18 PM
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This is seriously good advice and the very tactics I've used to double my salary in 5 years. I used to think that just doing a good job was enough but it isn't. You need to be good at you job, push for more and be highly likeable. I'm now on the verge of a management position and trippling my 5 year salary all because of this type of advice.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 07:54 PM
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Have you tried testing them out on a sure like photofeeler? I can go from a 7 to a 9 depending on the photos. Some of the ones I thought were good simply weren't.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:06 PM
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Get your testosterone level tested. Its an easy process and will open up options with your doctor.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:54 AM
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To be blunt if it wasn't for the PUA stuff I read and tried as a teenager I never would have been able to be who I am today. It set me on the path to TRP. They're cringe but have their place for people like myself who were absolutely blue pill brainwashed by a single mum.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:53 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with complementing a woman if it's deserved and genuine. It's flattery that's the problem, not complements.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:48 AM
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I don't fully agree with your comment on men in their 20s compared to 30s. I'm way fitter, have bigger muscles, dress better, have a better haircut and infinitely more disciplined at 34 than at 24 (and make over $100,000pa more) I look back at my old photos and cringe about how I presented myself back then. In general you're right though, so many of the dads at my kids school look like absolute shit. Fat, unkempt, lazy and horribly dressed. The mums are no different.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 01:40 AM
2

Before taking any leadership role read How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It has all the answers you need to start the process of getting people to do what you want without aggression and making them like you in the process. That book should be mandatory reading for everyone. You need to tailor your style to the individual. One person will be fine being pushed around, others need different incentives. You need to learn how to read people and work out their motivation. This…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 11:17 PM
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The idea of "not giving a fuck what people think" and just telling it like it is to everyone is far too simplistic. You need to pick your moments. If you're at the bottom rung you're effectively worth nothing and hold no power. There is an art to confrontation, especially in the workplace. If you're too confrontational people won't want you around you'll be fired but if you're a push over you'll never get what you want, advancements, promotions, etc. I've used the idea that everyone needs a litt…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:42 PM
1

Depends on where you are. A trainer in Australia is around $AUD 60-70 for a 45-60 minute session. Having a few sessions as a beginner is well worth the money and I'm glad I did it when I first started. Even though I've been lifting for over 10 years I still get a trainer once in a while to check my compound lift technique, especially bench press, squats and dead lifts. An example of how useful they can be and how much poor form can affect you has happened to me twice. Just recently I started get…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:57 PM
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If we go through life without making enemies then we've never stood for anything important. Trying to be liked by everyone won't give you success, the most successful people in life have hate clubs. The skill is knowing when to be liked and when to crack skulls. In saying that if people are hating on you for self improvement are dickheads.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:15 PM
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5x5 is a great beginner workout. I couldn't recommend it enough.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:46 PM
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If you're new to lifting do yourself a favour and hire a trainer for a few sessions. Get them to help with a basic program but mainly get your technique down pat. Lifting with poor technique will slow growth and lead to injuries.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:45 PM
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I'd much rather be single than in an unhappy sexless relationship. There's nothing wrong with being single.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:31 AM
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You can't negotiate desire and if she's using sex as a negotiation tactic to get what she wants then she doesn't want sex. The harsh truth is that women want sex, a lot. If you're hitting the right emotional notes she will sing to you. When you lose frame and drop in attractiveness then they won't want to fuck you as much. It's your job as a man to hold frame and stay attractive. I've been married 10 years, have two insane kids, an incredibly busy life yet we still have sex 3-4 times per week. I…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 01:17 AM
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Because so much of the Rona is hyper emotional, not based in logic. People being obsessively pro-vaccine is just part of that and posting pictures of them getting the vaccine is just virtue signalling.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:56 PM
4

Personally I'd say Muay Thai as it trains transitions to takedowns and kicking, which is more valuable in real fights. Muay Thai transitions really well to subsequent grappling training like BJJ and wrestling.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:46 PM
1

If there's grass on the.wicket, play cricket.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:32 PM
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The answer is 42.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:08 PM
2

This 100%.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:26 PM
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Running is so fucked. It wrecked my body. Lifting weights, low impact cardiovascular and BJJ have extended my body by years.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:23 PM
1

A good one I used to do when they wanted a drink was tell them we can play the lying game to get a drink. Its really simple, you ask 5 questions and they have to lie on each one. You win I buy you a drink, I win you buy me one. Ask them these questions (or similar). "Who's your favourite friend/co-worker?" (Good if they're in a group) "What colour shirt are you wearing?" Fein disinterest "I think I'm going to lose, what's your favourite drink?" stall for a few seconds, straight face "which one a…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:17 PM
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Walking is an underrated exercise. Low intensity, can do it for hours, so it every day and it's fun. It's a good compliment to lifting. It's also very therapeutic and helps clear your mind.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:57 PM
2

If I could list all my fuck ups over the last 20 years the list would be impressive. The difference is that I've learned from every single one. Every time you make a mistake you have the option of stewing on it, blaming other people or accepting it as a learning opportunity. It might not seem like it but if you try to live the RP life you will pick it up and internalise is slowly, day by day and improvements will come. Stay strong, learn from your mistakes. It might take 2 years or 20 but you'll…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:49 PM
1

On your online dating thing, have you tried uploading a whole bunch onto a photo rating site? You can get some really good, unbiased feedback and tailor you profile to have the best photos you can. You could be putting up photos of you looking like a 7 but you're really an 8.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:02 PM
2

When you ignore women like you're doing to the friend, their attraction sky-rocket. Give her some platonic attention and slightly ignore the one you like. Women are hyper competitive and the one you like will be even more attracted to you and make it work.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:13 PM
1

https://youtu.be/FdSFnZYA4m8 Always have your consent form
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:00 AM
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As long as you're not taking the piss out of yourself then it's fine. Women love it when you make them laugh as its fantastic social proof. Humour from wit is the best, visual humour can make you look like a bit of an idiot. Laughter is a social binder and one of the things women look for. In saying that humour should be situational and not forced. If something comes up crack a joke but don't say planned "knock knock" jokes. If the humour comes it comes, it if doeant then don't force it.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:38 AM
4

Spot on. I work in construction and we hit almost every "discrimiation" box every day in our shit talk with each other. In the end we get along really well and the banter makes the job fun. If someone gave me shit about being a spoilt rich kid with a drug problem that would be a good day.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 11:23 PM
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Agree. If she really likes you she wants to please you and make you happy. Works both ways.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:10 AM
21

Stop giving her attention and validation when she gives nothing back in return. If she knows you'll keep coming back for more without giving anything away she's going to keep doing that. Move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:56 AM
6

Creamy mayo, based on the comment below
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:54 AM
3

Sometimes you eat prime rib, sometimes you eat McDonalds.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:59 AM
1

Raising kids is the hardest, most challenging thing you will ever do. It's also the most rewarding thing you will ever do. Being a dad brings new meaning to life. A life that wouldn't be whole without them. Just make sure you vet the hell out of their mother. They ALL change after having kids, your relationship won't be the same and holding frame becomes so much harder.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:53 AM
1

Don't stress about it. If you tell yourself you're confident, act confident and hold yourself the right way it eventually becomes internalised and real. The old fake it till you make it. Worked on me as a shy virgin 16 years ago and now it's just who I am.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:32 AM
4

Only criticism is on carb intake. There's none, absolutely zero, evidence that our body needs consumed carbs to survive or fuel our bodies. There are essential fatty acids, essential amino acids but no essential carbs. Our modern diets have our bodies almost exclusively fueled on carbs and for a large number of reasons that's not ideal. Once you body addapts to using fat as its main energy source it's amazing. I've found my performance and weight control is infinitely better on a super low carb,…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 07:57 PM
6

I've cut out half my family as well. Toxic people have no business in our lives, family or not. It's such a relief not having to deal with the drama.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:06 PM
6

Absolutely this. I saw a cute girl at the gym this morning and I genuinely thought she was an architect that came to our construction site a few days earlier. She gave no IOIs and seemed 100% disinterested in me. I casually asked her if she was the person who came to our site (she wasn't) but she absolutely blew up with IOIs from nowhere, eye contact, smiling, hair play, the lot. All that was from a 1 minute conversation of mistaken identity. After I walked off to somewhere else in the gym her e…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:26 AM
1

"Have you always been so attracted to dominant men or is it just to me?" Conversation over.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:29 AM
4

Alphas never apologize. This is untrue. Real men know how to apologise when they fuck up, learn from it and then move on. In saying that OP didn't fuck up and shouldn't apologise for expecting a certain standard in what the relationship entails.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:25 PM
5

I've had a few solo holidays and loved them. If you're young enough staying in hostels can be great as you can meet people easily on the way.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:40 AM
1

The biggest thing its done is to get my arse into gear and make sure I'm always attractive, pursuing my hobbies and maintaining frame. I go to the gym every day and know that I need to stay attractive and high performing so I know in my head I will be able to move on if it all falls apart. I love my wife to bits but I'm not delusional enough to blindly believe it will last forever, even if I hope it does. Shes a good egg and I'm fortunate to have met someone so awesome at a young age. We met whe…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:44 AM
3

Really depends. My father in law is definitely the alpha of the family and the leader. My partner seems like she's perfectly hard wired to accept that type of person as the model of what she's looking for.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:27 AM
1

I know this if a side thing but went through the same depression when gyms shut. Honesly lost my shit. One they open again you'll feel like a new man.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:53 PM
5

Where I live in Australia we had 8pm curfews, a 5km travel radius and 1h outdoor exercise alone with marks. We were prisoners in our homes and suburbs.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:49 PM
1

Yep. I see the mums when I go to pick up my kids. Maybe 1/4 are a good weight, the rest have blown out. If she's struggling now she will balloon after kids. God damn I'm lucky my missus is slim after 2 kids.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:36 AM
6

Often women's friends are so toxic. When I was younger I started seeing a girl and she was amazing. Everything I was looking for, cute, caring, quiet, humble, low count and the complete opposite of my mother. I'd been plating (wasnt called plating back then) for a long time and was ready for an LTR. We'd been dating for a few months but her "friends" were horrible and super jealous that she was in a good, happy relationship and they were single trolls. They would snipe and complain behind my bac…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:21 AM
5

However, I tend to put a limit on how frequently and how long they can do this. It is one thing to soothe emotions and make things better; and another to keep focusing on a distressing issue and perpetuate the pain. Absolutely this. My LTR would come home and whine about work from the moment she got home till the moment we went to bed. It sent me insane so I set a limit of 7pm. After that it's happy time and no whining. It worked amazingly. She got to bitch about work and I got my peace and quie…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:28 AM
31

Pre LTR I would have women call me an arsehole/dickhead/wanker all the time only to have my tongue down their throats an hour later. That is what opened my eyes to real female nature. That was way before TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 07:18 AM
2

An extra 2cm would be great. Doubling my length will help with confidence.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:00 AM
4

This is absolutely true. If you're in an LTR and still have good sex that she really wants then that's the number one best sign. If she stops wanting to fuck you then the relationship is over. I've been in my LTR for 15 years, I absolutely still have frame, our marriage is the very traditional model and her libido is still high.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:54 PM
53

I wouldn't recommend that, organising anything on there is a real pain in the arse.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:53 AM
4

This is untrue, there are more than 2 genders. There's male, female and mentally ill.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:29 AM
1

Sometimes you eat prime rib, sometimes you eat McDonald's.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:42 AM
6

There's absolutely nothing wrong with complementing a woman, in fact you should do it regularly. What you shouldn't do is kiss her arse and smother her with flattery. If you're going to compliment them it has to be absolutely 100% genuine and deserved.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:39 AM
1

I did BJJ and boxing. Its good to mix a striking and a grappling but the best thing is finding the right gym with the right instructors that support new people and don't accept hot head dickheads.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:43 AM
2

BJJ/MMA can be great for inner confidence. I did it and have to go back (incredibly busy right now) and it helped massively with social confidence. There's an inner calmness that fighters have that can't be faked. Most of the guys I train with a nerdy, slightly awkward guys that have built so much confidence.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:42 AM
1

I have, but usually by 50 year old women that pinch my arse at bars. Sadly happened quite a few times 😅
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:28 AM
5

Oh my sweet summer child. Never talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:16 AM
3

So true. They're literally hard wired for being self centred. The amount of times I've cracked it at my LTR about being selfish and inwardly focussed is long.Housework is a big one. You can work 60 hours per week, drive kids around 3 nights a week, do the gardening, fix stuff around the house, manage all the money, do the grocery shopping, cook dinner and put in an hour of housework a day but they don't see any of it. That's why doing shit for women is a highway to an unhappy relationship. They …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:50 AM
1

Toxic parents can seriously fuck you up. I was in a similar situation as you, absent but super loving father and a cold, emotionless mother. It fucked our family but it isn't a life sentence if you have the drive to succeed and can reflect openly on your shortfalls. Don't feel bad at all cutting toxic people out of your life. Surround yourself with positive, successful people and they'll lift you up.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:26 AM
9

Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:15 AM
29

There's a big difference between harpooning a whale at 3am while balls deeps in $4 pints than paying money to one of them to show you their bits.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:45 PM
3

He was married before taking the red pill. Lots of people, myself included, lived the RP lifestyle for years before the RP was even a thing. RP has really only become a thing the last decade or so because of the mass emasculation of men and the widespread attacks on masculinity. In saying that there's nothing wrong with getting married or being in an LTR if the woman you're with compliments your life and its you making the decision without pressure, loss of frame and you can still pursue your dr…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:26 AM
1

Laugh and say "have you always been so attracted to narcissist's or is it just me?"
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:41 AM
2

I've been married for 10 years and I still lightly game women. I'm not going to do anything about it but its really fun and good practice for if I get divorce raped. Even when I'm around my wife I still crack jokes, tease and be friendly with women. A little light dread is good for an LTR.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:05 PM
3

I'd say its a combination. Cetain pressures in childhood shape kids in certain ways but the building blocks are genetic. I was given a bullshit childhood, single mother brainwashing, abusive stepfather that would beat us down, sexually abused my sister. At 16-17 I was such an unconfident beta cuck. Life sucked. Once I left that shithole life and started fending for myself everything changed. Took control, build myself back up and started becoming what I wanted too be. It's funny because by the t…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:59 PM
1

Just going to the gym and lifting isn't enough to put on muscle. You need 3 things, stimulus, nutrition and recovery. When you lift it needs to be hard, very hard. As a minimum you should be finishing your last set to absolute failure, where you couldn't possibly lift any more. Its better if you're progressively failing on most sets then dropping weight for the next set. Between 4-8 reps per set is best for hypertrophy. Nutrition. Make sure you're getting enough protein to actually build muscle.…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:40 PM
4

The key to going bald is to own it. If you try desperately to save each wisp of hair you're going to look weak and unconfident. If you just shave it all off, put it in the Shine-O-Ball-O and own the baldness it can be an advantage. I'm around several bald people all the time and the ones that own it make it a positive. Oh and thank god for my thick, luscious, uncontrollable hair.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:05 AM
6

Dude, I've been happily married for 10 years and I still have an abundance mindset. If you work on your SMV while in an LTR you will know you will be able to move on if the relationship breaks up, that's what creates the abundance mindset needed for a relationship to work in the first place. Spinning plates isn't essential, it's just the best place to start. Hit the gym, get a hobby, work on your SMV and the abundance mindset will come.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:40 PM
30

Woke up this morning feeling like shit, body sore and tired. Read this, picked up my shit and went straight to the gym, smashing legs. Now I feel absolutely amazing. Thank you so much for this. One I would disagree with is the "working hard in silence, let your success speak". I used to do this but realised that the ones getting the promotions weren't the hardest workers or best at their jobs, they're the ones that talked themselves up. These days I will always tell people about my successes and…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 09:14 PM
1

Really depends on the person. I need 7 or I'm stuffed but I know one guy is the most alpha you'll meet who only sleeps 4h a night. The guy is my BJJ instructor and an absolute machine. Does 12h of BJJ every day
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:30 PM
1

If there's grass on the wicket then play cricket.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:24 PM
5

It doesn't matter where you get the motivation, the drive and desire to improve will set you 10x higher than the average chump that was bullying you. Keep working on yourself and never stop. Also remember that looks are only one part of what women find attractive. You can't help if you have an ugly face but you can give yourself an awesome body, stand up straight, project confidence and become wealthy. Also one thing that is awesome to stop bullies are cauliflower ears. Get into some BJJ/MMA and…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:21 PM
2

Some people, like me, got married before being fully red pill aware. I'm happily married to a woman in my frame but would never do it again. Ever.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:59 PM
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I think it's a matter of the market. Finding a high value woman suitable for an LTR or marriage is seriously hard in the first place. If there are 100 age appropriate women probably 5 of them are 9/10's but probably 20-30 are 7s. You're far more likely to find a sane, caring woman without baggage that meet a your criteria if you look at 30 people compared to 5. I was married way before reading about red/blue pill but was always reasonably red pill aware without realising it. I'd been with plenty…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:57 PM
5

It's simple but that's seriously good advice. In hindsight I've found my gut has been right almost all the time and trust it implicitly now.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:12 PM
4

If your friends don't match your admission and level of success then you need new ones. Friends push their friends to success, toxic people do the opposite. They say yuoure the average of your 5 closest friends and maybe you've exceeded them. If you're looking for new friends sports clubs, especially martial arts like BJJ, are great. I've met most of my adult friends at those places whilst they choke me out.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:29 PM
1

If you want to get into an LTR and cohabitate that's when the real work starts. You absolutely have to maintain frame and still be the same person she was always attracted too, just do it all the time. If your frame isn't internalised it's going to be tough. Women are absolute experts are turning lions into pussycats and you can't let up even one inch. If you can't reassert frame then just move on, learn your lesson and do it better next time. I've been married for 10 years and still have all my…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:22 AM
8

Don't black widow spiders eat the males after mating?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:26 AM
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There's an Aussie slay saying "We'll I ain't here to fuck spiders". Might be useful.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:59 AM
2

Women say so much shit you should just ignore most of it. I've had numerous say they wont have sex only to do a complete about face once value is proven. Judge women on their actions, not their words.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:50 PM
2

The first and most important thing you can do is to work on yourself. If you get your body and life right women will come along with you. Focussing on "how to get them" is a bluepill mindset. Men lead from their frame, betas follow in others frame.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:44 PM
1

Just reply with "have you always been so attracted to narcissists or it is just to me?". That's not narcissistic at all 😂
/r/askTRP23/03/21 02:32 AM
11

I've made most of my adult friends from soccer and BJJ. Sports are the best.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 10:26 AM
1

Spot on. I had a lot of injury issues while I was doing running training. I switched to non-impact cardio, BJJ and gym work. Basically injury free since then and much fitter than when running.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:08 AM
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This. BJJ is amazing cardio if you know how to roll. I've done lots of different fitness styles and a good roll still leaves me wrecked. My head instructor was nearly 200kg and is now an 80kg machine. He did it with BJJ.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:04 AM
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