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“I’ll talk to women who don’t have an orbiter”, I’d imagine that would be difficult, unless you want to talk to below average women
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:04 AM
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Ideally OC or someone else - would saying something like “yeah, don’t think we met yet” and shaking the friends hand and telling him your name be a good thing to do, or would that be corny?
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:00 AM
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If someone is acting like a cunt I will call them a cunt - sincerely, someone living in the U.K. Edit - lol it’s you, the person who decided to call someone lame with no reasoning/backing behind it, trying to act morally superior ahah. Please share what you use to be so dissociated from reality.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:53 PM
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Any advice for what to do instead?
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:54 PM
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Fuck man I wish covid didnt fuck over my 2/3 years at university, and that i would’ve went out more often in first year. Fuck
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:54 PM
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Any recommended reads or channels for just becoming more sexual/teasing/witty/charming? I know charisma on command but it seems a little recycled
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:30 PM
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Any advice on ‘sharpening your mouth piece’?
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:42 AM
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Hello I bring the demand for the list 😂 good post
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:39 AM
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Ok
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:20 PM
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In all fairness we didn’t manage to get to talk a whole lot in person because of reasons that I won’t mention in the post (just in case 😆), but I know to not get my hopes up. I treat everything as an experience to learn from anyways, and that definitely helped me learn more and become better. I can feel that I’m getting closer to the so called success, at least when it comes to dating
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:31 AM
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Appreciate the insight! Yeah I wouldn’t be surprised, we met by mutual friends and didn’t manage to talk much, but still, after we go out things might switch around. I pm’ed you with more info
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:24 AM
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Sure and I get that, but men and women aren’t the same when it comes to dating, despite what the ‘modern’ outlook is - if a guy isn’t attracting women then the women he tries to get with automatically may think “what’s wrong with him?” even if they like him.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:18 AM
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Real question - sit and eat next to each other (if eating at the table) or opposite?
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:09 PM
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Mark Manson in his book ‘models’ pointed out that if a girl is a little hesitant he outright says something along the lines of “are you uncomfortable/am I moving to fast for you?” Or something along those lines. I’m inexperienced, but to me that would be a bad idea - you kinda put in a ‘seed of thought’ (if that’s the correct term, think like in the movie Inception) and you are correlating you trying to kiss to something negative, but I can see how it could be good because you acknowledge and sh…
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:07 PM
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What tv shows to watch? I know this may sound like overthinking but do you just throw on anything? Also, the tv in the room with the leather recliner seats/sofa in my house isn’t a smart tv, so I guess just hooking up a laptop to the tv will be fine and stream from the laptop onto the tv?
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:02 PM
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What to watch though? Any tv show?
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:01 PM
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Make sure to make it obvious you find us attractive!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:16 PM
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I never said that we are, but the advice I’m looking for would improve my life in general - I don’t want to be a clown, I just want to work on my charisma and being more than competent with my social skills. I’m not doing terribly but I do notice some problems and issues, and I think accepting that there are things wrong or things that need improving is a massive part of becoming better - in my case, the main areas of concern are; approaching strangers, breaking the ice and escalating. If my fri…
/r/seduction24/11/21 06:51 PM
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Appreciate it! I don’t go out solely for girls, given that I don’t go out a whole lot, but it’s definitely something that I wouldn’t mind. I struggle with approaching random people as well especially here in the U.K., so I must go out with friends so that the social status is there lol. Appreciate it man, good luck to you :)
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:33 PM
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100% agree, thing is I just want to know, or ‘unlock’ some moves so that I can use them in my repertoire, consciously or sub consciously, because last time I felt like I was just doing one thing all the time and even though I was drunk I could think about that. I’ve had fun, but I would have more fun if I was more prepared m
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:06 PM
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I’m confused by what you’re writing. Let me clarify - I like being prepared, I want to know how and what I can dance so that I’m not repetitive and how to dance with a girl (I.e. she moves in closer to me, how do I ‘respond’).
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:25 AM
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I just want to know what other moves to do apart from the same repetitive stuff I’ve been doing :/ I like being prepared to an extent
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:46 AM
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Yes but I won’t have fun if I don’t know what I’m doing, I like being prepared to an extent.
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:44 AM
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I just want to be good at it and know how to ‘loosen’ up. I see your point but I am naturally the type of person that wants to be prepared to some extent
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:05 AM
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That’s the goal, I actually considered it and would love to do it, just need to focus on one important thing before I do and then I’m definitely getting on Latin dancing.
/r/seduction21/11/21 12:02 PM
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I get that, but I just don’t know what to do to make it fun, light hearted and somewhat seductive if dancing with a girl. One of my friends said “switch up to ballroom dancing” as a joke so the girl I was dancing with a little we did the hand on hip and just started moving with exaggerated movements for it to be funny, which worked, but I wouldn’t know what to do next time.
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:17 AM
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Thing is how do I dance? I am very tall so I don’t really put my hands too high and I just side step and move my body a little, but it’s repetitive, every song is the same moves but different tempo. Dancing with girls I haven’t done much of, I don’t know what to do
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:14 AM
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We’re talking 3-4 years gap, we’re in our 20s, would that still be ‘suitable’?
/r/seduction20/11/21 12:41 PM
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Parents are the ‘issue’ 😅 something could be organised but they work nights and I dont want to mess up their sleep just cuz I’m bringing a girl home when they have work
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:18 PM
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Well it’s not a must, but regardless a taxi/Uber would probably be necessary, my house is around 30-40 mins walking from the centre
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:08 PM
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Do you think saying something like “I baked x and I have some left, wanna come over and try?” (Obviously when you get to know the person and turns out she’s into cooking) or “I make pretty good insert cocktail name, wanna come over?” (Obviously bit more flirty or smirking or something), would that be good as well? The car is a small issue, I imagine by the time I order an Uber the tension will die down a little. Another thing I’m a little confused about is what other reasons can I say? The drink…
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:07 PM
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Hi, don’t want to spam here but I’ve replied with another comment above and some insight would be nice, you seem to know your shit 😅
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:06 PM
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Do you think saying something like “I baked x and I have some left, wanna come over and try?” (Obviously when you get to know the person and turns out she’s into cooking) or “I make pretty good insert cocktail name, wanna come over?” (Obviously bit more flirty or smirking or something), would that be good as well? The car is a small issue, I imagine by the time I order an Uber the tension will die down a little. Another thing I’m a little confused about is what other reasons can I say? The drink…
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:06 PM
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Do you think saying something like “I baked x and I have some left, wanna come over and try?” (Obviously when you get to know the person and turns out she’s into cooking) or “I make pretty good insert cocktail name, wanna come over?” (Obviously bit more flirty or smirking or something), would that be good as well? The car is a small issue, I imagine by the time I order an Uber the tension will die down a little. Another thing I’m a little confused about is what other reasons can I say? The drink…
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:04 PM
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Unfortunately it’s easier said than done, and I have a tendency to intellectualise (which I am working on). My main problem is that I don’t put myself out there for a variety of reasons, namely; logistics (no car just yet), small city/big town region (not much to do and clubs are low quality), living in U.K. (closed off social culture), on top of own anxiety and very few established social circles that actually talk to each other/go out. By preselection strategy you mean showing that women are a…
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:21 PM
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What exactly do you mean by shadowing a competent man? What would you advise him?
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:09 PM
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Big town small city area, the city is meh in terms of clubbing
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:08 PM
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I see, worst part for me is that I don’t get to ‘practice’ often as I don’t go out or meet new people, which sucks. When I do I think I do fine at least, but where I live it’s all a little bit weird (UK), best way to meet new people is through social circles, and mine have been slowly disintegrating
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:25 PM
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Not OP, but wouldn’t just teasing, flirting, etc get boring/stale after a while? I definitely need to do this more often, but I can’t help but think about how it might get stale
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:01 PM
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How do I build or join social circles as someone that has graduated? I think it’s extremely hard for me now :/
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:26 PM
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The problem isn’t not knowing what to do or what the goals are, the problem is HOW to do it; flirting, teasing, not being socially awkward
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:14 AM
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Aight bet
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:19 PM
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Theres only few cities with 1 mil+ here though, literally London and Birmingham IIRC. What would you say would be a decent starting point
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:40 AM
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I live in a 55k pop town, near a mid sized city currently, so sorta small :/ Also, might as well ask - what type of vibe? One of those magic wands or something else?
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:37 PM
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What does your friend think about the advice here? Can it all be applied to the U.K.? I just really want to have the fun I should be having and knowing what to do. What’s something to look out for and something to focus on so I can improve? Appreciate that uncommon advice with the vibe tho 🤣 I’ll definitely look into it once I actually get going
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:32 AM
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Any advice for mastering the social circle game in the U.K.?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:25 AM
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Appreciate it, and although that first paragraph sounds amazing, I highly doubt it would work i the UK, like I mentioned, people here are less social than everywhere else ive been, unfortunately... I do wish the culture here wasn’t so fucking rigid and daft, it’s one of the things I wish was adapted here from the states :/ About the vibrator, you just whack it out whenever? 😂 Edit - also, how the fuck do I put myself out there more?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:22 AM
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Questions; What tips do you have for getting “everyone to love you” at the clubs? any advice on the approach, breaking ice and escalating? you really bought a vibrator and that works? I was not expecting that Edit - also, I’m guessing US, right? There’s no fucking chance that would happen here in the UK
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:58 PM
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Replace men with any race and any stereotype/terrible statement and you have yourself a discrimination charge/crime, and rightfully so.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 08:26 PM
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I don’t know, red pill, or at least the good side of it is more about showing men that they need to work and focus on their self improvement, as well as some decent advice when it comes to dating/relationships. You gotta understand that a lot of things have changed ever since the dawn of instant culture - instant gratification, ‘instant’ deliveries, social media, etc. I gotta say, the entertainment I consumed (which is considered ‘blue pill’) definitely made my life more difficult and kept feedi…
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 08:24 PM
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So you’re saying, a 0/10 in looks, personality and prospects is entitled because she wants a 6”, “14 inches, which isn’t that much”, 100k and a Greek god physique guy? I hope I don’t need to put /s, but some people do be like that. Self awareness should be taught lol
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 08:21 PM
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This kid will be a public speaker, if he doesn’t, he’s wasting himself. More well-put together when speaking than a lot of ‘adults’.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 08:16 PM
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Free porn doesn’t provide the illusion of someone actually caring about you/talking with you, it just tricks your brain to thinking you’re piping a chick when in reality you’re fucking your own hand. It’s sad, but sex sells, and unfortunately there is a rise of weak men and a rise of moral-less manipulative women.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 05:39 PM
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Congrats dude, you avoid a false rape accusation.
/r/seduction19/04/21 11:05 PM
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Once again, you can’t really tell. She might just be Canadian
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:39 PM
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I understand this, but I cannot implement this into my life
/r/seduction26/01/21 06:18 AM
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Lol I never understood how in their brain that’s a shit test. Looking young is good.
/r/seduction01/01/21 05:56 PM
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What would make something a good flirt/banter? I think I struggle with breaking the ice along with this. I just don’t know what to say that’s flirty without being the typical cringey, power-deducting texts.
/r/seduction18/12/20 07:58 PM
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What do you mean exactly?
/r/seduction17/12/20 04:29 PM
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Personally the insightful advice, especially with examples, is the best advice I’ve received so far. What’s your YT, I’ll check it out. So basically, say what’s on your mind with little to no filter (depending on the topic)?
/r/seduction16/12/20 07:31 PM
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How should I do this then? I understand the theory but I don’t know how to put it into practice
/r/seduction14/12/20 07:17 PM
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And how tf do we make friends lol, I suck ass at beginnings/introductions
/r/seduction09/12/20 09:15 PM
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Needed this, although I’m not sure how much I’ll use it in the end. I’ll try to push myself to talk to strangers more often
/r/seduction06/12/20 01:08 AM
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If a girl focuses more on social media when with her boyfriend, especially on a date, then that’s outright disrespectful, same goes for a man that does that (as long as it’s not something important). About women stringing men on, from my personal experience, quite a few have done that, not specifically to me but can see it in general on social media and among my friends. There’s a difference between passive aggressiveness and playful teasing. One interesting thing I noticed is how quickly some g…
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:40 PM
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You’re over simplifying it. An actual checklist would be a LOT less developed, a lot less insightful and not psychological. If someone suffers from PTSD, they will have a variety of mental issues and be diagnosed by such, but the nature of the issue still exists, and although when simplified it can be classed as a ‘checklist’, it’s not, because it’s psychological, and behaviour, as well as responses, are rooted in our brains. It’s the same with PTSD, and same with some of the things OP talked ab…
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:25 PM
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Just here on upvote duty as clearly someone was mentioned in OP’s post and downvoted 😂
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:17 PM
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No that’s her brain, or the region where the brain is supposed to be found
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 11:19 AM
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At 8.25 inches you’re looking at over 99.99%.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 11:18 AM
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Girl inches/centimetres.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 11:16 AM
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I don’t know how to make the hug not awkward, haven’t tried tho but in U.K. I’m not sure whether that’s the normal thing to do
/r/seduction19/09/20 06:09 PM
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Could someone explain point 4 and 5 a bit more, with examples if possible? I don’t know how/what I should be doing and how to make a girl feel something. I also don’t know how to weave jokes/innuendos into a casual convo.
/r/seduction04/09/20 02:13 PM
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How do you make the other guys mad?
/r/seduction09/07/20 01:12 AM
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What’s the difference in hooking up + chilling and dating? Like are you supposed to act differently?
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:25 AM
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What would be an example of a serious movement?
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:52 PM
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What do you mean by “just ‘observe’ myself”? You mean taking action or something along those lines?
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:25 PM
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Thank you :) Mind if I ask where you live? I find that the people here are ‘colder’ than others (I come from Poland)
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:33 PM
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“UK women are different”, exactly this... The people here just seem so cold and miserable, it’s weird.
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:32 PM
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Advice?
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:18 PM
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/r/seduction30/10/19 10:45 PM
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/r/seduction29/10/19 12:58 AM
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/r/seduction27/10/19 02:34 PM
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/r/seduction27/10/19 02:24 PM
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How would I find connections when the hobbies are done at home/single handedly? I.e. Art, magic tricks, etc?
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:01 PM
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Not OP, but could you give an example of how to tease in this scenario or in general? I believe that’s what I suck at.
/r/seduction10/10/19 07:39 AM
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Any tips on being charming and fun?
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:41 PM
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Currently I’ve got 48 laws of power and how to win friends and influence people, do you think this is a good start? Also, any advice on how to text and spark interest in general? My main issue is with escalating the sexual tension especially over text.
/r/seduction05/10/19 10:40 PM
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Any other tips to remember when it comes to this? So far I know to not be desperate from this post itself
/r/seduction24/09/19 12:00 PM
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Question is, how do I get more girls into my life
/r/seduction24/09/19 11:59 AM
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Easier said than done. Currently impossible to do so
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:10 AM
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Unfortunately I live in a town and UK so I don't think its as effective as it is in bigger cities :/
/r/seduction19/09/19 01:50 AM
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Thanks :) Edit: I’ll probably ‘return’ after I read it lol
/r/seduction18/09/19 07:44 PM
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Is that a post here on reddit or pdf/book?
/r/seduction18/09/19 06:28 PM
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Thing is I don't party/club at all and drink very little (Don't enjoy the feeling of getting drunk as well as it messes up my acne). How should I practice being more social and conversational in terms of 'knowing what to say' prior to actually going out an experimenting? I also live in the UK and this might be my personal view but the people here are a bit less 'open'. ​ Thanks :d
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:09 PM
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'Quality' advice...
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:08 PM
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How do I make myself be more fun to be around?
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:33 AM
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One thing I hate as someone who is inexperienced is deciphering the ‘signals’. Recently a girl messaged me saying that she wants to get into running,etc to improve her “thighs, butt and legs”, she was writing few sentences and it went back and forth for a few sentences (if that makes sense), then she suddenly starts with single sentences, being sorta unresponsive to slight flirts/teases. Maybe I misinterpreted the signal, making it even worse because I can’t understand what someone is thinking. …
/r/seduction17/09/19 07:39 PM
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Thank you for the advice, if you’ve got the time would you mind checking out my other post (I’ll link it in a sec), I’m having an issue with reading a potential signal Edit: Turns out I didn’t make a post but it was a comment - Also, if a girl messages you and within the message she mentions things like “yeah I want to go to the gym to improve my thighs, butt, etc”, how the fuck do you react to that lol, do you say something slightly flirtatious, direct/indirect or something else? Is it a potent…
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:55 PM
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How should I flirt in the example provided for future reference?
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:09 PM
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If she says that she isn’t single, how should you brush it off/react? I’m thinking “it’s alright I need to get to know the girl beforehand” or something similar. Also, if a girl messages you and within the message she mentions things like “yeah I want to go to the gym to improve my thighs, butt, etc”, how the fuck do you react to that lol, do you say something slightly flirtatious, direct/indirect or something else? As you can tell, I’m not experience in this lol
/r/seduction16/09/19 03:37 PM
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Congrats my friend, keep it up and hoping this is motivation for others, including me to actually quit being a pussy and talk to more girls/people in general :D
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:44 AM
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Funny thing is I just ordered the book few hours ago :D Another thing I've noticed is that I could develop my humour, but I don't know how to do so exactly. Any advice on this? Thanks for the reply, appreciate it :D
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:49 PM
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I guess this is a mix of various topics, i.e. Social skills and seduction. ​ I'll try to bullet point out the things I tried to put through in the short paragraph I wrote: ​ - How do I actually engage in the numbers game (successfully) - How do I maintain interest in a girl - How to 'become' one of the people that has few people messaging constantly (Guessing this links into #2, but in general) - How to improve my seduction/flirting skills before going in and actually doing it myself? ​ Hope thi…
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:16 PM
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Sounds like your life is a bit shit, also sounds like you think you’re someone you aren’t.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:46 AM
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Damn you’re cool
/r/seduction12/09/19 11:15 PM

"Then have a conversation about something that you observe" - Any examples? I learn better with slightly detailed examples. "No need to complicate this" - Yeah that's true, but I tend to prefer to know more before doing something new first, mainly to avoid fuck ups which are inevitable
/r/seduction11/09/19 11:34 PM
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Any specific posts you would recommend reading? This is some great info
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:43 PM
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Have you got any advice on who to watch regarding becoming successful, life advice/motivation and seduction? Note - I’m not ‘lost’ in life, thankfully, but I would like to find new ways to look at things (I.e OP’s war with anxiety) and how to obtain the traits of genuinely successful people, not these fake fucks you find everywhere
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:28 PM
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Any recommendations on who I should watch on YouTube for advice? I watch Todd V and I think he’s one of the best but could be wrong. Also, great post, quite motivating :D
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:26 PM
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Thanks :D Thing is I’m not putting them on a pedestal, but I just want to know what to talk about because I have this trouble even when it comes talking to my friends/ random strangers. Sometimes I can carry on a decent conversations but quite often I don’t know how to start
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:41 PM
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Yeah that’s true, fucking sucks to not know what the outcome could’ve been tho lol
/r/seduction08/08/19 03:11 AM
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Thanks :D It's a shame I missed this opportunity, the girl was from my country and I would rather be with a girl from the same country as I am, plus she was attractive and 'cute'. Oh well, shit happens.
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:06 PM
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Haha.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:01 PM
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Thing is I feel ‘weird’ talking to girls around my parents, partially because I talk differently to my parents than to other people and I can’t pin point the rest. What would you recommend I look into (YT videos/guides maybe?) regarding conversational skills/flirting? Thanks
/r/seduction07/08/19 01:28 PM
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Maybe not even flirting but talking
/r/seduction07/08/19 01:26 PM
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Thing is I was advised to not do so whilst she is on her holiday (forgot why exactly, but something along the lines of that she will be anticipating it for a long time before she comes back, which might be 3+ weeks). Also I don't really know how to pick up the convo's again, she was interested few years ago (2), but now I can't really pick the conversation up (and no, I'm not expecting her to be interested, especially after such a long time and little convo's, but I'm having a hard time escalati…
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:26 PM
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Now I’m not too sure, before - probably, but now it’s more about being ‘worried’ to go in without experience and have no clue how to escalate a conversation or even hold one for long enough. With my friends it’s usually alright to hold a conversation, although I even sometimes run out of things to say that build up the friendship, but if I’d talk to a girl I’d have little to no clue on how to combine that with keeping her entertained. Have you got any advice on this? I.e. what topics should I ai…
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:32 AM
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Ok thank you again :D Mind if I pm you some more info later?
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:54 PM

How should I develop the tonality/body language for that? And yeah, probably true that I shouldn’t plan ahead so much, but I like being prepared :D What would be a good way to pass the shit test in that case? Would saying “Oh yeah, constantly” and brushing it off with a smirk be a good way? Thanks :D
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:22 PM

What example of a shit test could there be if I said what you said? So I shouldn’t say “I’m only joking” at all? Even if she might’ve been genuinely offended?
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:26 PM
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!remindme 1 day
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:17 AM
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Thank you :) If you don’t mind, I can pm you some more info, I’ll probably do it tomorrow when I wake up though
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:59 PM
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Easier said than done, especially when you don’t know how to tease/flirt well
/r/seduction10/07/19 10:43 AM
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But you can always become stronger.
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:59 PM
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/r/seduction05/07/19 10:53 AM
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Thank you :) I’ve got a few questions tho: How can I tell if the girl is shy or whether she’s not into me? (I believe this could be mixed up if that makes sense How can I learn/prepare myself when it comes to teasing/flirting? I had little experience (no girlfriend so far) and I believe this and understanding humor is crucial because that’s what I feel the least confident/prepared about. (note - Humor is fine when it comes to close friends, but to strangers/girls it’s a lot different)
/r/seduction04/07/19 10:35 PM
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/r/seduction04/07/19 08:49 PM
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/r/seduction04/07/19 06:20 PM
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Thing is she (At least from what I could tell) was interest back then (that one r two years ago). We have talked, just not been talking really for 2-3 weeks and mainly just sending snaps that’s it. So how should I find out when she’s coming back?
/r/seduction04/07/19 03:45 PM
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As of now I’m 18, and the main problem I have is getting to know more people (even though I’m at university, I’ve only gotten into one group and not much outside of it). The “don’t be obese and have a good facial structure” part is pretty much sorted. Regarding the mental and body need for sex/relationship, it’s a bit more difficult since I wasn’t ever in one. Thanks for the advice :D
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:54 AM
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So now, how do I “attract women on a regular basis”?
/r/seduction03/07/19 06:08 AM
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She’s on holiday, I doubt she is planning staying there considering she hasn’t said anything. So that there is something planned (at least roughly) Thanks for the ‘input’
/r/seduction02/07/19 08:00 PM
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What sort of conversation topics should I look at?
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:49 PM
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Feelsbadman, where’s the F bot
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:28 AM
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Could you elaborate the fifth point?
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:01 AM
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Thanks for the effort to write this :D Regarding the “...rather trying for yourself”, I would want to do this but I don’t know how to put myself into an ‘environment’ where there is a lot of girls present. I’m currently texting one girl who I used to talk to (but for few reasons stopped) and currently haven’t really talked to her for 2-3 weeks (initially we talked a bit but I couldn’t escalate it over text), any advice regarding this? (Can provide more info in pm’s if you’ve got time to spare) T…
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:49 AM
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Could you expand on being playful/teasing? That’s one of the things that I have little knowledge on. I used to talk to this girl a while back but then because of a recent rejection at the time I decided to shut convos down essentially and work on myself, slowly but surely. Now I popped up recently and the convo was alright but it would be spread across multiple days and didn’t essentially end on a particular day (if that makes sense, basically she replied few hours later, then so did I, etc). I …
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:45 PM
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Followed for an update, congrats bro may this energy jump into me too
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:11 AM
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Thing is I don’t club or use tinder. How should I approach them and what should I be trying to accomplish at the end of the short convo?
/r/seduction16/06/19 07:57 PM
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Do you have any advice when it comes to hanging out with more girls? I don’t really text many girls as well because I feel like the convo will just die out. (E.g. I thought I saw a girl from my previous school at a gym, but I couldn’t tell if it was her due to the distance and my eyesight being slightly off, but I was sure that she was glancing at me from time to time, but regardless I didn’t go up to her or anything, and definitely not message her as I just think of it as weird to pop up random…
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:29 PM
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What should I show off? I don’t tend to post directly to my story, and considering it’s raining here for most of the time doesn’t make it easier. I did start to play instruments, work out, read, etc
/r/seduction16/06/19 05:53 PM
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So what difference is it between now and later
/r/seduction16/06/19 05:51 PM
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Would you say asking her out a bit later would be a good idea even if we didn’t talk up to that point?
/r/seduction16/06/19 09:48 AM
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As an 18 year old?
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:52 PM
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Thing is where I live it’s pretty dead (or maybe I just haven’t found good places yet), I have no idea for a date and also still got that “don’t want a rejection” mind set
/r/seduction10/06/19 10:00 PM
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Desperate for advice, as in I just want to know what I should be doing ( I’m not going out of my way to get girls, that’s not what I meant by ‘desperately’) How would you suggest that I make more girl friends and where should I look to develop the way I talk with them (e.g. I’m pretty much without experience and I don’t know how to flirt/tease) Thanks
/r/seduction08/06/19 04:37 PM
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One problem is that I only started texting her again (texted her before but I just decided to cut it). Mind if I Pm bit more details?
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:46 PM
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Thing is there is nothing planned yet, so should I say “I’ll let you know when (if we do) we go out, get your group to come as well so you’re more comfortable”, etc. Thanks Edit: “I’ll let you know when we go out so you can come if you want” or something along those lines?
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:13 PM
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Thanks :) Where would you recommend that I ‘prepare’ myself a bit more and find myself around more girls (Cold approaches don’t seem like my kind of thing, although I haven’t tried them, but in UK people aren’t as open)
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:06 PM
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One problem is that I live in a middle sized town :/
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:34 PM
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Thanks for the response :D One problem is that I don’t see the one girl in mind (haven’t spoken in over a year) at all, and I didn’t carry on talking to her because the rejection occurred few weeks/months before so I wanted to work on myself prior to that, and also due to the lack of ‘information’/knowledge. Swerving from the topic slightly, what would you suggest in that case and also what would you say are good date ideas (two different questions, I’m not ‘imagining the future’ but rather woul…
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:32 PM
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Thanks :) 1st point isn’t a problem, but regarding chit chat/ small talk, where should I look for developing that specifically (or any advice)? Thanks again :D
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:27 PM
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Shameless plug? Fair play I have a request - Advice for texting/sexual tension :D
/r/seduction22/05/19 12:37 AM
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Good bot
/r/seduction02/05/19 10:10 AM
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Do you know where I can access it or do I have to buy it? Also, would you recommend any YouTube PUA’s that don’t talk random shit for 30 mins?
/r/seduction01/05/19 07:02 PM
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Thanks :) do you have any recommendations regarding PUA’s? Also any advice on making the conversations more interesting and hitting correct topics even with girls that I don’t want to get together with? Much appreciated
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:05 PM
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I forgot to add - Me and my friends do have a 'specific' type of humour, some of us drop in the 'dark' humour, and we all usually take the mick out of each other lol
/r/seduction01/05/19 01:14 AM
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" "I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" " - Does this actually work?
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:07 PM
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But how would I try to get to meet with her? I know cinema is a trash idea, and where I live it is pretty dead
/r/seduction08/04/19 10:30 PM
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Late reply, but could you elaborate on this?
/r/seduction08/04/19 10:29 PM
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Where would you recommend I look into in order to learn a bit more before jumping in unprepared? What are the things I should avoid doing, and what I should be doing? (E.g. Don't be a cunt, and listen with understanding?) Edit: Forgot to thank, thanks :D Edit 2: I guess I'm mainly worried of being unaware of how things progress and what changes, e.g. Talking/texting before being together and then how that changes.
/r/seduction06/04/19 09:28 PM
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It might be just me, but people in US (or most countries outside of UK) seem more open/friendly, whilst in the UK 'such' people are thought of as 'fake' by groups of people (at least from my understanding), which is stupid. This country is a lot more 'moody' when compared to my country or countries I've visited, that's why I was a bit confused about the random approach. Cheers again :D
/r/seduction08/03/19 07:20 PM
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Jeez respect for the effort, didn't expect a fucking live reply ahah. Everything you've said made sense (especially when you included examples - that's one of the things I always see lacking in some advice I receive/watch). I'll definitely check out the playlist in my spare time and if I'm still confused about something I'll drop a message (the bit you mentioned at the end regarding 'countering' people 'attacking' you with their ego does clear out a few things that I was looking for beforehand, …
/r/seduction06/03/19 10:27 PM
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"Internalize that you have to take risks to be successful, put in the hard work and be selective." - Already doing that for pretty much everything apart from this. "stop seeing rejection as something bad, see it as something you can grow from." "If our ancestors didn't go out to hunt mammoths, risking their lives to keep their tribes fed, their children and women healthy and safe, we would not have this discussion." They didn't hunt mammoths empty handed, did they? That's why I'm looking for adv…
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:48 PM
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Thing is I don't go out to events a lot, I never clubbed as of now and never been to a party (few occasions, but I just came up with an excuse back then). Do you have any reddit posts regarding small talk? Thank you :)
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:29 PM
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Do you have any examples for 1. and a bit more for 2.? Also, regarding 3., I've got a group of friends but we didn't talk to many others outside our group, not many attractive girls on the course as well, and I don't know how else I can meet people at uni (societies I know of, but which ones and time is a problem). Group projects are done between our group as well, and now everyone has their 'group' so it's a bit weird, probably gonna try to get to know more people next semester. Thanks :)
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:27 PM
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How do I become more funny and uplifting though? I feel like I have to know the people in order to actually have jokes with them, any advice/links to that? Thanks for the answer :D
/r/seduction21/11/18 11:53 PM
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Nah I don't have a problem with that (don't post pictures tbh), I quit caring about snap scores but I guess they help with a reason as to why you are snapping them.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:20 PM
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Ah ok, so nothing too extreme (usually)?
/r/seduction15/11/18 11:08 PM
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"unless you're such hot shit that she forces herself on you which is not something most men can bank on anyway." - I do wish girls would actually come up more often, would make things much easier, especially when it's near/next to impossible to decypher their thinking (Even when a girl blatantly checks me out I don't go up to her) Regarding the 'toxic' people, I cut them out from my life a while ago, there are still few left as well as new ones in my new group, but that's why I just attempt to c…
/r/seduction15/11/18 02:50 PM
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"Research shows that only about 15% of people really know themselves. In my experience, people often don't know what turns them on or off - hence the phrase "Attraction is not a choice". I'm sure you have also heard of girls who are dating guys who they never thought were their "type"." - Haven't actually heard a lot about this, seems interesting. "While there are some great points here, this is also the reason why you might want to take any advice and feedback here with a pinch of salt. Cat str…
/r/seduction15/11/18 02:46 PM
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-Can you give an example of a 'shit test'? -"Not having decent text game. Have something funny to say. I prefer outrageous comments that are based on my interest." Any advice or examples of this as well? Thanks :)
/r/seduction15/11/18 02:38 PM
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"Show her the real you, but don't treat her like a therapist" and the "emotional connection", could you write a bit more about this? Thanks :)
/r/seduction15/11/18 01:06 AM
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Currently using Epiduo (external medication), got another prescription of it (each bottle was supposed to last for a month, now it's going into 3 months, even after 1 month using it more, so I know how much I need to use for my next 30ml bottle), works pretty well but after not doing it for a few days it comes back, not as bad, but still visible, it is getting better in general though, I was told in Poland (went to the dermatologist in my country) that if these two 30ml bottles won't solve it, I…
/r/seduction15/11/18 01:05 AM
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That helps me understand some people I met before, thanks :D
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:57 AM
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Thanks :d, I've got a few questions tho: - How do I put myself in an environment with more girls - How do I approach/join such an environment - Any recommended channels for basically all you mentioned ahah - What would you say the boundaries are for flirting/ getting touchy with ALL of the girls? (Without blatant interest into you) - Advice on flirting/getting touchy? I always think I would do something that would be slightly awkward (lack of experience as I have mentioned before, probably) Than…
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:56 AM
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" Priorities brother. Focus on your work, plenty of other places to speak to women. " - I know, I know haha, I go there to self improve, but talking to a fit girl is always a welcome 'side effect'.
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:52 AM
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" gun fanatics " Don't blame the guns :(
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:51 AM
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" it's just an economics equation " - Oh shit, hello economics (Doing an economics module myself right now :D) ​ This seems logical, the main problem for me is just the lack of experience and having a mindset of limiting unnecessary risk (such as getting rejected and then that message being spread around).
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:50 AM
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Makes sense, girls aren't all the same when it comes to specifics but few of the things I see on this post come up a lot: Hygiene, no goals, being a bitch ​ Thanks :D
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:48 AM
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Same problem here - Acne (getting better now, wasn't severe, but not mild at the same time). ​ In my opinion, looks do matter, it's just that the world is becoming way too sensitive and people need constant reassurance or even going as far as lying/ altering the reality or what is the norm so that people can be 'themselves', at the same time lying and being stuck in a mindset which suggests that there is nothing wrong with their lifestyle/choices, etc, even though (example) they eat 3000 calorie…
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:46 AM
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" Taking dating super serious and acting like you’re in love with them when the time spent is disproportionate. " Could you kind of explain a bit more what a 'relationship' should look like (I know there are no specifics, but I'm slightly confused by this), I don't understand when a date means something, by that I mean if I go on a date with a girl, what does that mean? She (probably) likes me, and considering a relationship? (On a date would you behave like you are in a relationship? This is pr…
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:42 AM
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Guilty of 2 and 3, have you got any more advice as to what is the biggest turn on etc? PM is more than welcome :D
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:37 AM
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Ever watched game of thrones? If not, there is this actor who has dwarfism (I believe that's the condition), as the name suggests, he is small. His character is mocked for it occasionally, in season 1 (I think), he meets another character who is a bastard (and he is bothered by it a lot when people point it out), those two characters then meet and the bastard asks a similar question to yours, the 'Imp'/'Half man', says - "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not, wear it like ar…
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:34 AM
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Here, have an upvote
/r/seduction15/11/18 12:31 AM
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Any advice on improving your humour/making the girl laugh? (I don't know if I can do this well as I haven't really tried for a long time after a rejection (and rejecting girls myself)
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:29 AM
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Can you elaborate/ Put up links to where I can learn this?
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:26 AM
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" I think there are about 25 to 30 girls and maybe 18 guys at this point. " - Big group
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:26 AM
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"I am extremely introverted" - Are you sure about that? *Insert meme* " A minute later, they ask me to dance. I hate dancing and I am terrible at it, but I'm a little buzzed and I say ok. I'm holding hands with both of them, spinning and twirling them around, it was one of those moments where I was thinking "wow, I'm killing it right now" - Stupid question, but how do you dance in the club? I fucked up a chance of 'dancing' with a girl at prom because I was too shy of making myself look like an …
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:25 AM
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" I've seen people make up silly excuses like "Hey sorry I was in the shower", but that depends on your sense of humor. " This made me laugh, here, have an upvote
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:20 AM
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" Do you communicate in a way that’s dry, formal, professional and uninteresting? Are you serious at all times? Do your conversations sound like job interviews? Do you only talk about sensible topics and in a monotone way to boot? " - Can someone elaborate on this and how to counteract? How do you make the conversations more fun (when meeting a girl for the first time / early stages of knowing each other and later on as well), thanks :D
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:17 AM
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That would be great :D Thank you
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:18 PM
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Thank you :D
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:22 PM
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Thank you :D I'll make sure to read through it
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:22 PM
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Thank you :D You mind if I pm some questions in the future?
/r/seduction01/10/18 08:48 PM
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Thank you :D I'll make sure to read up
/r/seduction29/09/18 01:44 PM
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So what kind of 'skills' help with being more witty? "I use that to break bitch shields by making fun of the girl, while amusing myself." - Could you give an example so I understand a bit more? Thanks :)
/r/seduction29/09/18 01:40 PM
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Thank you :D, one more question though - You mentioned chatting up the cashier, 'even saying hi' if you're feeling courageous and giving a compliment to a random girl, what sort of conversation would you have with them straight afterwards (if it was a girl who might be going the same way or whatever), what would you do, what would you avoid (I realise that you meant this in a casual way, but is there anyway to escalate the simple 'hi' into an exchange in numbers or something) ​ Thanks again :D
/r/seduction27/09/18 08:43 PM
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What about wit?
/r/seduction27/09/18 08:26 PM
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Yeah I guess I know it now (I learned that it is effective in rejecting girls you don't like, but they like you) Question not related to this post, but how would I be more open and pick up more girls (more like the first one :>), I have no idea how to approach random people I have nothing in common with (at uni I only talk (as of now, freshers here) to people from my course), I just think it's weird/not natural. If you've got the time, I can pm or if you want check my previous posts from few day…
/r/seduction27/09/18 08:25 PM
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Any advice on getting her out on dates and picking up girls in general? (If you have the time, I can pm or just check my previous posts, you will probably get a hang of what I need advice on) Thanks :)
/r/seduction27/09/18 08:22 PM
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I'll try this soon, I guess, but thing is, my mindset is wired to ''Avoid unnecessary failures'', I guess you can say I overthink, because I probably do - This is why I don't like approaching completely random girls as I know she will most likely talk to her friends about it if it goes awkward. Do you mind if I ask a few questions later/tomorrow? Thanks :D
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:20 PM
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How should I work on my wittiness and learn on how to spit out jokes often? I feel like that's something I don't do that often, also any examples on 'wittiness'? Thanks :D
/r/seduction26/09/18 07:03 PM
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How should I search for them more effectively?
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:13 PM
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I know, but still looking for advice that is in depth, I've literally got no clue
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:12 PM
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" Magnets have two poles after all... one of them repels. " - Was not expecting that ahah, interesting response and true. " Get off the internet. Get out into the world. Fail. Fail often. But FAIL FORWARD. " - Yeah I know, but I wouldn't go into a marathon without any training/experience, because that's an instant fail, which I know, they are the foundations to success, but I don't like 'unnecessary fails'. Thanks :D
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:11 PM
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Guessing high school (live in england it's called 6th form here)
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:08 PM
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Yeah but would I do this 'on the go' - when I'm just casually walking into my lecture or in a quicker, fast paced environment? Also isn't that kind of weird just to say 'hi' and nothing afterwards?
/r/seduction25/09/18 11:08 PM
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I'm not gonna say things like 'Safe bro' or talk to a girl I like the same way I talk to girls I ignore
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:11 PM
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But how would you approach her? What would you say?
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:36 PM
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Could you explain what it is in pm's and is it alright if I ask some questions? Thanks :D
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:33 PM
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Thanks :D, thing is I literally have no experience, and 'cracking jokes' isn't something I had a lot of time to practice, mainly because of some idiots in previous school so I just preferred to laugh back at them when they tried to get me annoyed. Also how would I keep the conversation going, without it getting boring (mainly need advice on flirting, sexual tension and timing)
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:16 PM
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I'll have a look into it now, thank you :D
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:10 PM
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Thank you :D, I'll check the channels out and try out the self hypnosis for sure, what do you think about channels like ''Charisma on Command'', ''Alpha M'', ''Based Zeus'' and ''Far from Average''? Also is it alright if I pm some more questions? Thanks again :D
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:06 PM
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After that, its just physical touching and teasing. Advice is needed on that as well ahah But once you get a girl's number, the best thing is to say something straight up like "I think you were cute and very interesting, would you like to get a cup of coffee sometimes?" See that's where I get confused, some people say that when you say things like 'cute' you 'lose' power, I get the straight forward bit but still kind of 'scarred' (I guess) after my first (and only so far) fuck up - rejection, bu…
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:37 AM
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Go to every event/club/game Thing is I don't really party a lot, and I need some advice on how I should be talking/behaving, etc. Thanks :D ​
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:25 AM
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Any advice on the ''verbally flirt'' bit? I've got ZERO experience (no gf, 1 rejection so far, 18m)
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:02 PM
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Mind if I pm about my problem?
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:00 PM
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In my case I'm just anxious of there being a chance of fucking up (as I don't have any experience apart from a single rejection), I haven't got a clue what I'd be talking about with a girl before setting up a date/after a date and how I would ''introduce'' the sexual tension (or whatever the fuck its called), between me and the girl :/
/r/seduction17/09/18 08:58 PM
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