I believe that those are my biggest 'weaknesses' (apart from no experience in a relationship) when it comes to attracting girls or being charismatic in general. I can make jokes/laughs with my friends because that's just the standard in our group (although there are a few fuck ups occasionally lol), but that's because I know the people more, and I sometimes have problems with 'small talk', especially when it's not snowballing or if I can feel it becoming more rigid.

Has anyone got any form of advice in order to solve this issue? Any help and video explanations are more than welcome :D