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I agree that if your vetting process is good and aligned with what you want from a man then dating apps are good option. I also met my boyfriend on Tinder two years ago in the pandemic. For both of us it was like finding a needle in a stack of hay. But we did find each other and I can honestly say that this is the relationship I have been looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 03:37 PM
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I want to give you my perspective here as well because I noticed a lot of comments about how you are probably gay. To be honest.to jump to such a conclusion without having more details and without knowing you as a person is just too rushed. First, regarding the comment that after the first year of marriage you did not want to have sex with your husband , I would ask what changed? Did reality hit you when you started living together and you transitioned more in the role of a mother instead of a l…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 11:20 AM
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Be aware also on using too much FB and social media. Sharing too much of your personal life (unless done for business) is a sign of lack of confidence and constant need of validation - you get likes so your brain thinks "ok, people like what I am". And this is total bullshit because people who "support" you on FB would rarely do that IRL. If he seems totally different in person and on social media, then maybe there's something wrong - he does not have a frame. Also, if you are interested look th…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 06:18 PM
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Well, the advice I can give you is linked to observing his behaviour when you are around other people. I understand you do not see each other but anyway it could be useful to you. Again, I speak from experience so be critical and apply my words to your situation. If he mentions always how beautiful, perfect and sexy and whatever you are, it makes you feel very special. For people who are more on the manipulative and narcissistic side of the spectrum of personalities that's just their way of comm…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 06:05 PM
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From what you have described it seems that his behaviour is not consistent which can be a problem for long-term relationship. The thing that striked me as the biggest red flag is the gaslighting - bringing a question directly on the table and him accusing you of being insecure is not the best reaction, it's not mature in anyway. How old is he? Did he had a father growing up or was just raised by his mom? These factors matter a lot for maturity. Similar interests in sex and BDSM can be quite thri…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 04:27 PM
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I saw that you have a lot of comments already yet I decided to give you some thoughts as well. These are all based on my experience and may not be applicable to your situation as I do not personally know you or your boyfriend. I would start by the question: Why would his exes want to know every little interaction? It could be the case where these women had their insecurities that they were projecting on him. It could also be the case where he gave him enough reasons to be doubtful and his behavi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 06:37 AM
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Bulgarian here as well! Off topic - how did you become interested in religion? :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 08:17 PM
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Actually I read a book where the authors explained transpeople in general. We all are conceived as female and it's up to the testosterone levels of the mother ( and other factors I don't recall) that in the first weeks the baby develops as female or male. If the mother has different levels of testosterone what happens is caring a male baby with female brain - the testosterone was not enough to develop male oriented brain. They also explained lesbians the same way - a female baby who received a b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 05:17 AM
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I am sorry that you've had a horrible family experience growing up. Family and our parents are the foundation of our beliefs and views of the world so I guess it was not easy seeing it shatter. YET, as you've mentioned a few times in the post this is YOUR personal experience. If we look at it purely from a rational point of view - it's an experience that you've witnessed and felt as a person who was affected yet it was not your relationship that got ruined but your parents'. If you find a good t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 05:24 AM
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Yes, please add me :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 07:32 AM
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I would also join a group - I like meeting new people and supporting progress :) Let me know if you decide to go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:11 PM
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I totally relate on the emotional toll - for me it's too much as well and it is the reason why I researched ways to improve it. The physical pain I can handle with some painkillers. However the emotional challenge is really starting to get ahead of me. I will follow the post quite passionately for further information :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 12:11 PM
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I can totally relate to your post as I have a similar quest for normal PMS again. In the past year or may be a bit more I also experience more though symptoms of PMS especially on the emotional side. It used to be just a day or two before my period and now it's a whole week before that. I become depressed, anxious and even aggressive at some points. It's hard for me to keep myself together and I cry a lot at the smallest things. This is NOT normal. Even my therapist confirmed that I should consu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 06:10 AM
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Thank you so much for your valuable input! Can you also share your fitness recommendations / sources of information? Thank you in advance!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:39 AM
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What I meant by my post was spot men who are free but somewhat not ready / not needing a long-term relationship - even when they say otherwise. I don't want to break up relationships or families if this is what you understood.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 05:41 PM
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Definitely support Man's search for meaning!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 12:59 PM
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I totally support the opinion. I cut off my social media a month and a half ago because I realized I was using it in quite a toxic and self-abusing way - to compare my life with those of other people, to gain validation that I am lacking to give myself, to make up stories in my head about an ex's life. All of that caused nothing but pain and further anxiety so I decided to stop it for now. My advice to you is really reflect on your reasons why do you want to use it. If it's any reason of the one…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:51 AM
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I've been using Audible for more than 6 months now and I find it great for walks and time spent in the car! If you're looking for books on self-improvement i can recommend: - The Four Agreements - 12 rules for Life - The User's guide to the human mind Other great books that I've checked are: - How men think - Shawn T. Smith - Marry him: the case of settling for Mr. Good Enough - Never chase men again - kind of a basic book but still has some good insight Will get back to you with more proposals …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 09:34 AM
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Thank you for the advice and the support!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 10:26 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to read it! If you have any feedback or proposals,let me know :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 06:40 AM
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Thank you a lot for the detailed explanation! I just discovered this side of the Wiki! I am now super excited!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 09:10 PM
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Where I can find this section on social media? Is the sidebar the same as RPW wiki? Sorry for the stupid question but I am lost.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 07:49 PM
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I was on the pill for more than three years and while on it I had episodes of big depression, severe mood swings and being unhappy for quite a good amount of time. Back then I was 16-18 and had no idea that it could be the pill. Until last year (27) I tried it for a month and again became this unhappy mood swinging person. I stopped taking it after that and I am never going back again unless there is a solid health issue. Try to be reflective for a month - for example with me it was bad when PMS…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 06:42 AM
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I can totally relate to your feelings. I am also just recently single and I've found myself deeply bothered by the number of younger and more beautiful women than me. It's devastating. Did you manage to cope with it?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/20 11:16 AM
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When you get your qualification I will be more than glad to try out your nutritional therapy. And I don't find it a bad thing to want that knowledge for yourself and your loved ones. Food after all fuels our hormones and they can drive us insane sometimes if things are going bad. I'm happy to hear you're from Czech republic, it really is nice to have Europeans here as well as the American majority. It would be awesome to meet some day :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 07:38 PM
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I totally agree with the above . Plus one more - hydrate! Drink water and cut soft drinks and coffee.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 05:37 AM
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Sure - am sharing the link. I did not break up with him - just the opposite. He dumped me because he realized he did not know what he wanted. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/ekzh68/break_up_with_a_rp_man_how_to_handle_the_healing/
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 08:40 PM
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What would you recommend for bettering myself emotionally? I've been in therapy for more than 2 years now but I don't think it should be the only source of emotional stability. I tried meditation a while ago and it had some positive effect. Is there something else I could try?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/20 01:25 PM
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Wow , I am amazed by your story and strength to endure all these break ups and a divorce and still find love. Congratulations on the baby! Where did you two meet?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 06:55 PM
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Thank you for the advice and for the books recommended. I've ordered the Surrendered Single on Amazon and can't wait to read it - even though it would take a month of shipping. What are these six intimacy skills - I mean in which book can I read about them?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 06:53 PM
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Can you give examples of turn offs for men? Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 08:20 AM
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Thank you for sharing! I am quite interested what is nutritional therapy? Why did you decide to go with it? Regarding the traveling - I am from Bulgaria ( en European country) so if you or any other of the wonderful ladies here come across, I would be more than happy to meet you :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 07:13 AM
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That's one of the greatest advice ever! Style is something I am struggling with - i guess others too. Can you share with us some sites / blogs / women / Instagram accounts / YouTubbers or basically any visual information that is useful for creating a more stylish you? Thank you in advance :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 07:46 AM
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Thank you for sharing! What is your bussiness and how do you plan to become financially independent?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 09:27 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I noticed some other women here shared also writing a book and since that I something I dream about for years now I have an idea. Maybe we can start a thread or another topic for support through this journey?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 09:23 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I really like how specific your goals are - hopefully by the end of the year we can have a positive update on the topic. One of your longer term goals is writing a book and since I and some other women here have that dream as well maybe we can start a thread of support?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 09:22 PM
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I have the same feeling just from the description. Having power over someone is both dysfunctional for the relationship and delusional in general. That's why I wanted to hear opinions from some women with more RP experience.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 06:43 PM
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Ladies, thank you all for the insightful comments. Can you help me with advice how to move forward? What can I do to improve my feminine spirit after the break up? Thank you all.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 09:47 AM
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He always said how good of a man he is and how he is high value. I was crazy stupid and naive in love and I believed him. I was so high on the hormones that I saw what I wanted to see - a man with entrepreneurial spirit, someone who was romantic and cared for me, someone who talked about wanting LTR and feeling best when in one , someone who loves adventure and new experiences, someone striving for better life and a better self, someone with great attitude towards sex and exploration of it, some…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 05:01 AM
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Thank you for the genuine and useful comment. I will learn from this experience for sure. I especially like the last part - that've already learned that nobody and nothing owes you anything just because you're good. You have to me smart, persistent and do the work towards what you want in life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 09:20 PM
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No, I haven't but will do. Also I have the Practical guide to men by Dr Shawn Smith which also focuses on how to pick better men. I've always aimed for a high value guy. I do realize that a lot of these men came to the RP community because they have issues, they did not have dads and are just learning how to be men. And I see men that have no clue for the pill but are good and high value men.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 09:09 PM
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Thank you for the insight and the advice. What can I do about vetting? Have to start somewhere so I guess some reading material would be great if you can suggest some? My first boyfriend was RP without reading it - he's a natural so I do believe there are men out there who have no idea of it and are still good men and marriage material.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 09:01 PM
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How to vet a guy before committing? Where can I educate myself on the subject? Because there's a lot of shit on the Internet.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 08:52 PM
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That's what I am trying to avoid now. How to filter men better so that I ( and other women) do not go there?
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 08:49 PM
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