Loveshumility Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	[deleted by user] I appreciate your thoughtfulness. Am so lost as I kept hoping he would change. But what I know now is that he cannot or does not want to change. And when I envision the rest of my life, I cannot see him in it. Interestingly enough people come to me for advice and encouragement on how to move on from toxic relationships. Yet I am in one so I feel like a fraud. He also adores my 12 year old and fights and ignores my 15 year old who calls him out on his behavior. Am so confused, should I break up m…	/r/seduction	07/11/21 04:31 PM
2	[deleted by user] Thank you for your kind words.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 04:26 PM
1	[deleted by user] Good to know.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:39 PM
1	[deleted by user] Sensible advise. Thanks.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:38 PM
2	[deleted by user] Boys are 15 and 12… he doesn’t want to talk ever, if I bring up feelings and deep conversations he becomes a raging person. For as long as we talk surface stuff, he is fine with it. Am not worried in terms of resources, my issue is how the boys will be. Thinking of putting them in therapy.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:34 PM
2	[deleted by user] Appreciate your response. And that is where am at. Just wanting a desire for better without animosity or resentment. He does not want to do harm, he is just stuck in the way he has always done things and because that has worked for him, he see’s no reason to change. My plan really is to make this transition for all of us as peaceful and amicable as possible.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:30 PM
1	[deleted by user] Thank you for your response, very well said mmhh food for thought…I wouldn’t have thought of myself as having drama … but it makes sense as I re-read my post. Interesting. I will keep it up fo longer to get different perspectives. But my push back is it ok to want a male friend just to kick it with ( I think I already know the answer but would like to hear your response:)	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:11 PM
1	[deleted by user] Not looking to cheat, just a friend… thank you for your post:)	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:07 PM
1	[deleted by user] Thank you for your advice. I have no intention of sneaking around. This is my first ever public post, am seriously considering divorce. He won’t go to therapy never has, he stonewalls me and the kids if we try to have any deep conversations, he never wants to talk about our feelings. He thinks our marriage is fine as long as he provides financially, we can all leave him alone. He gets home and hops onto his computer or tv for hours and gets angry when we try to talk. He ignores all of us and onl…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 04:57 PM
1	does love bombing/increasing self esteem work on men? Need some advice, been in a marriage 18 years… husband is emotionally distant, great provider, but I want more, a friend, a companion, some who loves to laugh and doesn’t take himself too seriously but also is balanced and self aware, someone who values family… and is ‘right brain leaning, … am I asking for too much? I work hard, I work out, am self aware, easy going but love a healthy debate… Am I dreaming that such a person could exist for me? By the way am considering divorcing him because I …	/r/seduction	06/11/21 04:16 PM