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I hope you lose your relationship if you have one and end up alone yourself because you sound like a piece of shit human being glad that he's alone because your unhinged crazy ass thinks using escorts is "financial sexual coercion". How are you gonna be on on some moral high horse when your bitch ass is saying foul shit like this to someone whose struggling and trying to improve? You don't care about shit and your ass is the one who sounds deluded as fuck here. You're not a good woman at all. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:54 AM
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When it comes to these kinds of people, being decent does takes effort. It's going out of their way and isn't natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:51 PM
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Yeah, just an egotistical oldhead who thinks he knows it all even he's just gotten handed a lucky hand in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:12 PM
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Lol. You'd like to believe that. Blue pillers here are getting more delusional by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:21 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? No one is talking about looksmaxxing and virgin tradwifes?? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:53 PM
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If owning here means looking like a fool then yeah, I agree too sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:50 PM
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Are these friends also of the volcel variety? Had opportunities, had interested suitors before? Or are they people who can't get laid/find a partner no matter how hard they try because again that wildly effects how they're gonna feel about their virginity. And this isn't a PPD narrative, I don't know if you're from some hyper conservative or religious area but typically people who are virgins in their 20s feel some type of negative feelings about it. Obviously not to the same agree of PPD but at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:54 PM
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I'm not getting on you guys for being volcels, that's all fine and respectful. I never condemned you for that so I don't know why you're saying that. I just think it's funny that a person who seemed to never have that internal conflict and turmoil of not feeling and being attractive enough for a person to be with them which is the main issue with virgins who expresss that they're ashamed about it is gonna say that it's not that serious. If there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at those ages …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:36 PM
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We were both volcels. We're against hookup culture so it wasn't something we were interested in. Fucking knew it. Because no one whose an "actual" virgin at 23 would say it's not that serious. You guys weren't ashamed of it because you guys knew that you could get laid! This is unreal. The main reason why people are ashamed of being virgins at such a late age is because it shows that couldn't get not one person to be with them so they believe something is wrong with them. You guys didn't go thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:08 PM
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So are you. You want to make a "man bad, women good" and make this big ass generalizations about men, these are the responses you're gonna get. Deal with it because you sound crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:59 PM
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My bf and I were virgins until 23... not rlly that serious. Not that serious to you because you guys probably had opportunities in the past and just passed on them. I doubt you guys made it to 23 because you absolutely could not find someone no matter how hard you tried. Completely different circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:47 PM
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You sound like a lunatic ranting and raving foaming out the mouth like this. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:43 PM
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Of course, someone dating on easy mode would say some shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5tzf3ctihrxc1.jpeg?width=394&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=24f57c5bb8b989b08e83e43ceb6d396fb7210cf1 Real as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:46 AM
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The Infantilizing of women age 18-25 has been really annoying. I stopped engaging in age gap discussions because it's just too much. Apparently adult women have no self agency
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:47 AM
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Wow, really? I didn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:35 AM
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I will one day. Only thing stopping me is that I obviously don't have the money to yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:41 AM
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No, buzzballs is alcoholic drink. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:37 AM
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Mother got tipsy today. This is like the 3rd time this week? Also, a braindead argument she makes is that because she's not drunk driving, smashing bottles against the wall, killing people or other stereotypical dangerous drunk behaviors and still pays the bills and keeps a roof over our heads then she's not worthy of criticism and it's not that bad. Whenever my brother and I condemn her for getting obnoxiously drunk, she takes it as like we're treating her like she's done all the horrible shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:36 AM
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Mother and her stupid buzzballs 😒😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:16 AM
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Im not saying no one has ever condemned them im just saying not to the extent of lillith. Of course no one is condemning them to the extent of Lillth! What male user is posting about nearly the same shit every day, commenting about the same shit in the daily thread every day, is unbearable to debate with, stubborn as fuck, doesn't read what you say in arguments, and strawmans hard as shit? when are ppl going to do the same with the (19-21 bmi) guy Are you serious? He's just as worthy of being co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:02 AM
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How am I acting dense? Show me some unhinged male users that apparently no one had ever condemned and I'll believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:46 AM
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but not the countless totally unhinged male users here What unhinged male users? I'm here all day every day and I never seen any male user that's unhinged/annoying to the scale of Lillth and Icy. And I'm not being biased towards males when I say this. And this dude is getting condemned right now as we speak so I don't know what you're talking about how no one condemns males. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:39 AM
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People complain about those two because they're annoying as FUCK and unbearable to debate with. Lillth makes shit up for the sake of her argument and Icy acts like she doesn't know what you're trying to say. One rare crazy pops up and says this shit and suddenly they're right about everything. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:29 AM
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Pics of what? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:46 AM
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You can't after you pass high school. Sorry, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:40 AM
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Mother tryna come in my room with those gross chipped nail polish on her feet. Bitch, come back when you got those socks on. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:38 AM
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I fucking hate that bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:51 AM
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What the hell? Guys do that? 😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:44 AM
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Just use more emojis 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:37 AM
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Tips for what? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:32 AM
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You know, I've never been insecure about being a virgin. I've always been far more concerned about experiencing the smaller parts of relationships/intimacy like kissing, holding hands, going out on dates, etc because I thought those were at least things that I could feasibly achieve while sex always seemed like something that's definitely out of my reach so it's something I shouldn't be concerned about yet. I don't know if I'm making sense. It's kinda like if you're thinking about learning how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:23 AM
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I never thought that far ahead. Lol. I always subconsciously assumed that periods worked just like pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:07 AM
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It didn’t work but it did make me lol "That's fine that you want to fuck. Just always glad to make a woman laugh 😁" is probably what he said in response. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:18 AM
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COLD 🥶🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:01 AM
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I know, right?! Some many mysterious that lie within them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:40 PM
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Has it? I never heard of this meme before. At least I know it's not just me who thinks like this now. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:37 PM
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Not really interested enough to ask 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:36 PM
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No, it's not. I'm not a woman! How would I know how your body works? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:33 PM
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And apparently women can't hold in their periods? 🤨 I thought they could hold it in just like pee but mother got on me and said women have no control over it. Lol. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:22 PM
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It’s like the first time I asked one of my exes to get me pads from the store, and he thought the numbers meant size of vagina looool, instead of absorbency level. My brother and I thought the same thing when mother wanted us to get her pads. My brother said he thought the #4 on the box meant she had a size 4 vagina. 🤣🤣 Apparently it means blood flow or something like that. Lol. I still don't really know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:17 PM
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Thankfully, I never met anyone that asked me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:26 PM
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Omg, I hate that shit. If you vent about your dating woes and happen to use the word female then you'll have a bunch of idiots going like "You use the word female? No wonder you're still single."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:10 PM
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I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:04 PM
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My comment wasn't inspired by a recent analogy that I saw so I don't have one to share. This was just a passing thought I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:03 PM
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We're not your property anymore. Those days are long gone. I'm not some 75 year old that grew up in the 1960s so I have no clue how this statement has any relevance to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:50 PM
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They kinda already do that just in a discreet way. Lol. Wouldn't change much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:44 PM
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How would things be even worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:36 PM
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I kinda find it funny when women talk about how men give up "too easily" when it comes to dating. "These guys get rejected one time, give up forever and suddenly hate all women because of it. Men are so weak" "If you haven't tried everything and stopped approaching women then you can't complain." But whenever you hear some women talk about approaching a guy, they'll say how it didn't go their way and decides they'll never approach men ever again because of it. The excuses women will tell to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:21 PM
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A good analogy. I'm not defending fucked up ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:07 PM
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Should've seen this joke coming 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:03 PM
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One of the most annoying thing women do in debates is whenever a guy makes an analogy or something to help his argument and in response they go like "Oh, so you're comparing women to animals/inanimate object? That's not a good look."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:50 PM
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It is a good feeling the rare few times it happened to me. Not with books of course, video games
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:08 PM
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6 figures. Being 6ft would probably still do nothing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:05 PM
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That's what some guys here said to do relating to the paternity test thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:59 PM
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All the more reason to not date them. I fucking hate tattoos and piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:44 PM
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Why do women as friends with each other do gay acts? I've seen women sitting on each other's lap, holding hands and stuff. Very very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:41 PM
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For any behaviors that points to her not being a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:37 PM
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Why do women here say this? I haven't seen any guy here say anything remotely gay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:27 PM
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Well it's unfortunately how you gotta live your life as a guy. Always gotta be on the lookout 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:25 PM
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Remember guys that the vetting never stops 👁👁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:16 PM
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Hmm, I don't see how this dog and I relate 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:04 AM
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Really? Why? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:52 AM
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My brother has been calling me out and saying the things I do are peak autism. I will admit the things I do is pretty weird so I don't take it personally. There are labels on certain bottles and packages that overstimulate me I guess I would say so I avoid looking at them. And touching them too. I avoid touching as much as possible. Like there's a pack of avocados mother has in the fridge and the wrapper of it really bothers me so I kinda been refusing to open the fridge recently so I wouldn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:39 AM
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I'm the opposite. I fucking hate the word partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:05 AM
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Too lazy or too full of their own ego to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:20 AM
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Haha, I would assume so. So I'm guessing most are not gonna to it then, huh? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:46 AM
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Is this a women thing, people thing or is it just mother? She cannot just fully seize contact with her exes to save her life. She always HAS to remain friends or some bullshit. I hate this because some nonsense argument happens between them and now she's ranting, raving and getting drunk and shit because she's upset about some old shit in the past regarding their relationship. My brother for her recent ex told mother to block him and to KEEP him blocked because she has a tendency of not followin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:37 AM
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Thank God, someone finally is humble enough to come up and straight up admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:33 AM
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My friend told me a story where in middle school he would get together with this one girl just so she would do certain school projects for him, break up with her after she would finish and then repeat the cycle whenever he had a new project to do. He said that he must've done this to her about like 3 times. Man, it's literally so insane how much you can get away with if you're attractive enough. Hearing stories like this in person is really something else opposed to just reading it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:23 AM
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Would like to? Not really. Not because I'm close-minded but because nothing really comes to mind. If I wasn't so depressed and was looking for new connections with people, I would probably try out some. 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:06 PM
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It is so weird to see complete nighttime outside when it's only 6:00. I don't like daylight savings. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:01 PM
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I guess I don't since I never had a hobby outside the house. Socializing is something I'm obviously not the best at so outside of a few clubs when I was in school, I don't have outside hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:56 PM
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I really do want to do that, bro. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:50 PM
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I'm assuming when you say that, you mean hobbies that involve me being out of the house and in that case, none.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:22 PM
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I could go for some Pizza Hut right now 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:20 PM
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And I don’t drink either, never have. I wish there were more people like you around me. 😭 Between being newly 21 so people my age are drinking their assholes off and people like mother, finding anyone who doesn't drink or smoke is like finding a needle in a haystack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:15 PM
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Exactly the same here. Except most of the time I think they were sober when arguing. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:07 PM
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I have no clue how you could like hanging around drunk people. They are annoying as FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:58 PM
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It's just how I talk, I really don't know what else to tell you. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:53 PM
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Not interested in any kind of drink
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:27 PM
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Mother turns into an annoying loud mouth when she drinks. I fucking hate drinking culture 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:21 PM
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That's the girl crushing on you Not even that girl is crushing on me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:48 AM
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Of course I would. I can't see any guy here saying that he wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:01 AM
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Well, sorry if some of us aren't sexually savvy 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:51 AM
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Haha, same here, bro. Same here. 😂😞
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:49 AM
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Wow, really? Guess if I ever somehow have sex then I'll just put on two rubbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:38 AM
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I recently learned that rubbers have a 84% success rate?? I don't like those numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:34 AM
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That is...correct 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:16 AM
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I am a boy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:03 AM
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What is it? I don't get the hint. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:47 AM
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I think so. Definitely some shit "femcels" would say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:37 AM
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Can you give us a hint on what the topics were? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:32 AM
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I honestly think pinkpill is more delusional than bluepill. Whenever I see a pinkpiller (thankfully they're rare) I just see nothing but pure lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:09 AM
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Yeah, she's popping a pinkpill every 5 secs everyday with the shit she's saying. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:08 AM
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You actually went to see an escort? 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:34 AM
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The TV I've been using for about 10 years finally crapped out on me. So sad. So many memories playing on that TV with my video games. Had it since elementary school. Luckily, I found on Ebay the exact same model but it's just bigger and has an extra component, AV and HDMI slot. I know it seems ridiculous to go out of my way to buy a decade old TV model but I just let can't go. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:27 AM
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I got my dancing, painting, yoga and book club all lined up. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:00 AM
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I fucking hate asking people to hang out. As a kid and in my early teens no one would invite me anywhere so the only way I would hang out is if I initiate every single time. I think people were reluctant to come over because securing people to show up was such a fucking hassle. Getting an answer from people if they're able to hang out was like pulling teeth. I got it so bad that I straight up would text and ask one of my friend's parents myself since I had their numbers if their kid could come o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:44 AM
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Dogs are a good help for having women talk to you. I'm saying guys shouldn't get dogs purely for dating. As long as you already have a dog then it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:31 AM
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I guess I'd jump in to help then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:23 AM
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They don't have weapons, do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:18 AM
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Earthy definitely doesn't mean to get a dog. And dogs are a huge responsibility, I hope guys really aren't getting dogs just to be used as their dating props.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:11 AM
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What the fuck does earthy even mean? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 AM
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Holiday cookies? Bit little early to be making holiday cookies, don't ya think? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:55 PM
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She doesn't really have a point. The shit she just told us isn't enlightening and it's far from being new information. We all already heard about the niche bullshit already. She doesn't even give a shit about us finding GF's so we'll end up happy or something, she just wants the guys here to stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:45 PM
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Did you clean yourself up? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:31 PM
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You hear her folks! SHE CRACKED THE CODE
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:21 PM
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Goal? Nothing. I'm just typing out my thoughts to pass the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:03 PM
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I think saying that the average male struggles severely in dating like some here believe is cope. I literally know no one else who is struggling like I do. All have relationships or have been offered opportunities for sexual intercourse before. Relationships that been lasting since middle school, lost their virginity in high school, moving in with their partners, everything. While I have nothing. Reality is that some of us are simply outliers and are bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:52 PM
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I was at the police station for a Ebay transaction and I saw the autism police car. 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:01 PM
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I don't think so? Women consider the smallest things signals so maybe it's possible I missed some?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:40 PM
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Yeah, I don't think I've seen a girl ever flip her towards me. 😂 Do women really even do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:33 PM
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No incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:23 PM
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No woe is me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:22 PM
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Can't you turn off DM's on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:07 PM
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Exactly. They know the type of crowd that hangs around here. If the shit people here say to you bothers you that much when you talk about your life, then go somewhere else. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:02 PM
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: Grrr why is it always chad 🤬 This is why i need to incelmax Its over 😢 When i was 5 years old a girl made fun of my shoes Nice downplaying of other people's lives and experiences. You know the things some of the guys here went through wasn't as small as getting your shoes made fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:52 PM
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Don't be sorry, it's okay. Just part of your nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:48 PM
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Sounds fine to me. I'm all for it. These women know exactly what they're doing anyways. They don't give a shit and you definitely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:45 PM
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But no, fuck them kids seems like the mentality around here Not fuck them but people aren't exactly jumping for joy at the thought of raising someone's else's kids and the slow of problems of dating a single mom. It's just worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:37 PM
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Imagine your biological children living in another man’s house, following his rules, calling him Dad, and loving and respecting him more than you. That actually does sound kinda cool when you put it like that. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:15 PM
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This sub is so fucking unbelievable. How is saying that you have zero women in your life besides mother "incel content" and is a comment that needs to be removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:07 PM
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Seemed to pretty easy for me to do. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:43 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:41 PM
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Is that hard to achieve or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:41 PM
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Wow, why do I think about that before? Stupid me. 😵
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:39 PM
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Same here. I'm actually watching TV with mother right now. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:38 PM
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It would be a sugarcoated version, you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:19 PM
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I don't approach anymore nowadays. I've gone full NEET and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:10 PM
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It's your job to impress and convince her What? Fuck that, man. I'd rather stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:04 PM
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but then i realized nothing like that ever happens to me Yep. That's why I don't buy into the whole "well maybe, girls have liked you before but they just didn't tell you" nonsense. Never been asked to hang out or been asked any questions like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:02 PM
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Can't get dates at all. No interest, no nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:58 PM
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Yes. And come on, bro. We both know they're just as picky as healthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:54 PM
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you'll have to do all the work yourself. I have been. This is nothing but a fantasy I think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:53 PM
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Average, I think and 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:50 PM
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I wish I knew that when I was younger so I wouldn't be filled with so much and waste my time. I thought women on my level would be attracted to me but nope. Likes the top guys like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:48 PM
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I wish a woman would ask me if I wanted to hang out because she's secretly crushing on me 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:37 PM
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Lunch is too formal? I said lunch because it seemed small and chill. Lol. I don't know, maybe just hanging out at a fast food restaurant would make it better? But a coffee works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:25 PM
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Hmm, go to lunch or something? I don't know I never been to a date before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:20 PM
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but he didn't ask me out and that's like my only move 🫠 Omg, just ask him out. 😒😒😒
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:06 PM
1

Because of laziness 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:58 PM
1

Bro, these women are not worth destroying your legs and the shit ton of money to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:41 PM
3

My best date happened in my dreams. Her name was Tiffany and we held hands at the roller rink until we went to the concession stand to get ourselves a slushie to share together. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:36 PM
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CMV? On a Lillth post? Yeah, right. What a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:33 PM
1

Uh, yeah I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:16 PM
1

I tried complying. Didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:12 PM
3

I hate these flare-ups where sometimes I am just aching for some affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:54 PM
2

Yup, nothing but a placeholder to kill time until some hotter dude comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:52 PM
3

Yep, gotta play stupid games just so you can get into a relationship? Just beyond stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:45 PM
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They wanna live in this perfect world where any guy can get a girlfriend through confidence and not confront the harsh reality that some will never experience love through no fault of their own even after doing everything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:21 PM
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I don't even know why I'm making this difficult. I don't think I've been to or invited to a party outside of obvious ones like birthday's. Lol. I don't think I've ever met anyone new at these events either. I have hosted LAN parties before like 3 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:03 PM
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I'm picturing those house parties like from the movies where there's a ton of random people you don't know. I don't really know. Party is super vague. Did it include birthday parties, weddings, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:58 PM
1

Can you define exactly what a party is in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:45 PM
1

https://youtu.be/aIDdzCZVupw?si=aIztPF_bXQtevqXP Fucking love this song. Depression music is a pretty good cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:16 AM
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21 but any age would be way late at this point for something as small as a kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:56 AM
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I totally forgot that I never even had my first kiss before. Fuck, I feel so extremely behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:50 AM
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Holy shit, I never thought about that. You're probably right on that. Lol. This world is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:20 PM
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Can you read at all or stop making up bullshit for a minute lol? I literally told her the exact same thing like a couple of hours ago. It's so annoying and debating with her is just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:29 PM
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Watching TV with mother is super fun sometimes. She will try and justify the shitty actions women make in these drama shows and it's fun having debates, calling her out and debunking her. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:22 PM
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A little but I'm not really thrilled on the idea of having to use medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:49 PM
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I don't know if it's the depression talking but I feel absolutely no desire to maintain and keep trying to form new connections with people. Same thing with relationships. I just like complaining about it but have no will or desire anymore to try to get one. Far from being in a position to be having a relationship anyways. I just don't feel like socializing at all with anyone who doesn't live in my house. It's not like I have a list of people who are just always begging to be around me anyways s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:41 PM
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Sam & Cat 😼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:16 PM
1

Blackpill, I have negative success
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:30 PM
3

You don't get it, he was super sweet and perfect at first and then magically turned into this giant asshole! There were about no red flags in the beginning, sweetie! I swear!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:08 PM
1

I am not only talking about gender dynamics here. I feel like you're referring to the R word 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:56 PM
1

I just do not get why this is a insanely hard concept for you to grasp. There's a big crossover with sexual desire and romance. There's your answer, just take it, omg. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:44 PM
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The TwoX sub has got to be one of the most vile subs on this platform. Every post that does well on that sub is just man bashing. But men aren't allowed to have their own sub while they get to bash men all day with the comfort knowing they won't get banned. So fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:39 PM
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They're still desiring and going after women aren't they? Clearly they don't dislike women as much as they say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:11 PM
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Are you trying to make us look bad, bro? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:08 PM
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They're still desiring and going after women aren't they? So clearly they don't hate women as much as people and even themselves claim that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:06 PM
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so idk why do men mald constantly over women hating them and being picky to a point of narcissism and then still want to date them 🤨 I don't understand... just don't date them then idk... For the last time, it's a biological drive to want to date the opposite sex. What part of that is difficult to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:47 PM
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At what age would you say all of the good people for relationships are off the market?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:44 PM
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I feel like I have expressed my empathy multiple times here, but apparently not. No, no. You haved. We're not saying you're haven't here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:08 PM
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Did I say it was an excuse or was I just pointing out a potential outcome that some people conclude to when being raised by an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:15 PM
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Did you read the whole thing or what? Because I literally already said it is no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:11 PM
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Everyone is different. Not everyone is gonna react the same way to experiencing the same event. So because a handful of people is able to have a smile on their face, EVERYBODY else should or would come to that exact same outcome? You really expect this to even be possible? This is such a bad argument. There is no male victim narcissist complex nonsense. Stop making shit up. The concept is plain and simple. Some people who have been raised by alcoholics become alcoholics themselves and some never…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:04 PM
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i’m very opinionated. i wouldn’t raise children with an addict or an ultra conservative. I don't think he was saying that being with an addict or an ultra conservative was trivial. Lol. But shit like pets, something that could absolutely be accommodated and compromised.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:09 AM
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Would 100% take that over never being shown any hint that someone find you attractive enough lol. Yup, me too. I really don't want to downplay their experience with being overwhelmed but the benefits most definitely outweighs the cons especially if I have the potential for my dating life to be "easy and pleasant."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:57 AM
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Depends on the person. Some people are used to living with dogs and/or have working dogs/dogs for their hobbies. I guess. I don't know, I just can't imagine rejecting a woman based off her pet. Like that what's gonna stop me from having a relationship? Now, if a woman is trying to make me get rid of MY pet then that's a different story right there. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:52 AM
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Religion? I'd say so. Pets? Come on, that's something that could be easily compromised if you don't have allergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:41 AM
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I was frequently “approached” by 20-60 year old men when I was 12, I guess that meant I had options but… Come on, Mrs. Snake. You know good and well, we don't consider those options. I haven't seen guys claim that literally every attention women get from guys is good attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:39 AM
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Because most men's dating problems aren't boiled down to fixing their personality. And sure, rewiring your personality so you're more desirable to a better selection of people isn't actually easy but I bet it's an issue men here would rather be facing than the ones they're going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:33 AM
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I’ve seen it happen to my friend (not fat) Isn't her issues basically just lie within her personality thus it all being on her? Can't get sane men to like her, right? I think we talked about this friend before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:21 AM
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Finding a guy I like from my endless options is super hard, sweetie 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:18 AM
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Not every woman has a mile-long line of men waiting to be with her. Be grateful you have the ability for people to be attracted to you in the first place. Lots of guys here and in general don't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:14 AM
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It's easily one of the dumbest things I've heard on here. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:08 AM
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I think that at the very least, you’d make a girl’s day by saying something nice. Nah, they wouldn't care. They've been complimented a million times by dudes since elementary school so at that point it would have no value. Make her day? Lol. She probably got complimented on the same shit 20 minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 AM
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I never thought I’d have to explicitly write that I think he’s attractive, I thought that would be inferred. Well, you should've said that in the first place otherwise the guys wouldn't have came after you. Lol. You would've been just yet another chick talking about their relationship and a comment that we would've ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:20 AM
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I just don't think you're complimenting them enough, bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:10 AM
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I compliment showered the fuck out of this chick at work. She was annoyed at first but I kept persisting and now, I got a date on Saturday bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:05 AM
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You did say it was only that. I remember what you said. You were making this gigantic emphasis about how being complemented made you want this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:01 AM
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no one is in her brain and can tell her what made her want to date and fuck her boyfriend. We can't tell her but we sure as hell can choose to not to believe her. She claims that it was ONLY compliments and being kind that made her what to fuck. No other factors were mentioned. Not physical attraction, height, income, morals, etc. Nothing. That is where the skepticism from the fellas here is coming from. That's it. This isn't about thinking all women want to be treated like shit or whatever nons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:57 AM
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Just love and respect then bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:46 AM
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they are just jealous. No one is jealous. Lmao. She's claiming that it was only compliments and being kind that made her want to fuck her now boyfriend and guy here buys it. That's it. This is like her third time saying this same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:37 AM
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You think there's a ton of guys out there that love girls but can't find a girlfriend? Yeah? You think every guy that can't get a girlfriend is some kind of woman hating misogynistic douchebag? Cause all the guys I know like that are married at this point lol I think this right here is my cue to just end the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:05 AM
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Funny thing is I wasn't even talking about simps as I know they're not ideal for relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:02 AM
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but if they do it'll be someone who loves them. Where the fuck are you get idea from? Absolutely not true in the slightest. But finding a boyfriend who loves them? Is easy to find but they typically don't want those guys. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:57 AM
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What, you expect guys who receive absolutely no affection and get treated like shit all their lives to have a smile on their face and not lash out in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:50 AM
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Well, I personally wouldn't do that as a guy 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:10 AM
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And that's fine. It's messing me up pretty bad too. I personally wouldn't call you privileged though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:50 AM
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Ok, now you're going too far with the sex schtick 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:45 AM
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Thanks so much for this answer. This is surprising 😱 I rarely if ever see a woman say that being involuntarily/perpetually single can have any ounce of negative effects to a man's physical or mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:31 AM
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They have compared themselves to neglected children and the poor. Multiple guys have stated “A child not loved by it's village will burn it down to feel it's warmth”. But that's not claiming it's the worst thing about their lives. They're just saying it's a really shitty experience. You're assuming shit no one is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:22 AM
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They can enter a relationship and never have to work another day in their lives. If that's not peak privilege, I'm not sure what is. Inb4 someone says "these days you need two incomes to live, sweetie!" But yeah, I agree with everything you said. I probably shouldn't give too much thought what women think about male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:17 AM
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These men are privileged if being single is the worst thing in their life and the worst that they're going through. First off, I haven't seen any guys on here claim that never being in a relationship before and being single is by far the worst thing about their lives so women saying this as if men are stating this is stupid. Secondly, never being in a relationship before and being unable to find a date is usually a symptom of a much larger problem so I doubt these guys being unable to find a dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:04 AM
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Peak insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:45 AM
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Just don't be fat, don't be a single mother, don't have a body count of 100. Yeah, absurd standards right there. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:43 AM
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I'm confused then. If that's the case then what's the point of bringing it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:42 AM
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So you agree with the absurd premise that men have high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:37 AM
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I thinks she's the "All men are secretly attracted to teenagers" chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:30 AM
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Glowupgirl's posts are always god awful. "If men lowered their standards, they'd have zero problems dating." Men already have super low standards, this is one of the issues of dating nowadays. Men should be raising their standards if anything. Men are far too accepting of the bullshit some women come with. Even women here say that men should raise their standards whenever men complain about how easy it is for women to get dates. And not liking single mothers, fat women and promiscuous women isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:22 AM
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I have hard feelings. I don't expect for them to understand but them also denying how our reality is and how it's our fault is the problem I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:09 AM
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Yup, these morons are blinded by their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:03 AM
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31? That's still fairly young. I thought you were gonna say that you were 40 or something 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 AM
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17 years? I took you for a young person. 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:12 AM
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She thinks she's one of us 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:36 PM
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Fiona was snorting coke and Liam got into it by accident. He's in hospital and she got arrested! What's happening?! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:07 PM
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I'm pretty much the only person I know who's involuntarily single so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:57 PM
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I'm on episode 5 on season 4 right now, can't wait to see what's gonna happen next then. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:55 PM
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How'd you guess the show from that one scene?! Is it a iconic scene or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:52 PM
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I'm watching a TV show right now and it's soooo brutal. The main character cheated on her boyfriend and when she goes to him to apologize, he says "I'm the one who's sorry, by the way." She goes "Why?" This dude replies back and says "That I'm not interesting." She of course tries to assure him how that's not true and he still continues. "I hold down a job, I look after my family, care about telling the truth. I'm sorry those aren't selling points." COLDEST LINE EVER. 😱 He wasn't even angry when…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:48 PM
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I feel like a lot of you haven’t had healthy relationships modeled for you. You'd be absolutely correct. Can't get a relationship and couldn't even spectate a healthy one at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:02 PM
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Well, I don't get any romantic attention so I'd have to be somewhere near below average, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:42 PM
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Indifferent or just basic kindness. Nothing more. So I guess average? I just don't know anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:32 PM
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They don't want them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:27 PM
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There could be more that people aren't telling me so idk. 🤷‍♂️ I thought I was average too but clearly not with the way women act towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:23 PM
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Heads up, someone is gonna say that PPD isn't a male only space. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:55 PM
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What are you like, exactly? What people say: Quiet, awkward, difficult to talk to, nice, chill and funny at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:43 PM
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No, I won't bro. Both tactics don't work anyways so I might as well just act naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:37 PM
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It is gone. 😒😒
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:34 PM
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I follow the advice just be yourself unironically nowadays. I will just be myself. I'm not gonna go out of my way to do what I normally wouldn't do just like everybody else. Act completely natural. No dancing monkey nonsense. They don't do that for me so why am I doing it for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:29 PM
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Just be that dancing monkey, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:12 PM
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You too, bro??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:38 PM
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Remember guys, a woman saying Hi is a signal 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:22 PM
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That's bullshit and men can literally say the same thing about women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:51 AM
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But yes, please continue on about how you as a plain Jane get no attention. It's all nonsense bro. They always hide behind this reddit excuse. Attention is attention no matter where it comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:30 AM
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then men are not coming out the woodworks to date you You actually have to get out and approach men yourself instead of playing passive? 😱😱 My mother is a SINGLE MOTHER that always got tons of attention from men throughout my life. Complaining how guy friends always end up liking her and having co-workers hitting on her. Average in looks by the way. Fat cousin I have, same deal. Every male friend she made in college right now ends up liking her. This average women not getting tons of attention i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:26 AM
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DC all the way. I just like their character roster wayyyy more than Marvel's. Both heroes and villains. Hulk, Iron Man, Loki, Fantastic Four, etc aren't interesting to me in the slightest. Spider-Man is the only person from Marvel I give a fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:12 AM
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I didn't know you were wild like that 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:17 PM
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I'm the same age as my mother now when she had me. I don't feel young knowing that. 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:07 PM
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I feel like my body language or something add to the reason I don't get romantically approached and adds to my unattractiveness. I think it's better nowadays but I had an awkward posture and walk. Mother bought me a posture brace in high school so I guess it was really noticeable. My voice of course I know is funny, nasally and young sounding so there's that too. I don't know I just wish I knew how people perceived me. I've had two women legitimately call me a retard before so maybe I'm more sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:11 PM
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No one ever cares about the other half 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:07 PM
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yet you don’t hear me bitching about being beta buxxed when men like me now You could though. You would be valid just like us. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:05 PM
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Let me make one thing clear: Women who smiles at you and says hello (common sense also but as long as she is not doing it cause she has to) is not going to turn around and be a complete b*tch if you start talking to her. I don't say she's gonna be a bitch. I just said she's not interested and was just being friendly. Unless you take TOO DAMN LONG to come over. Why don't you come over? Fix this whole "waiting too long, approach at the exact perfect time" bullshit. Its not rocket science. Never sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:03 PM
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Or because when women send these "signals" and men approach them, they 90% of the time end up not being interested and was just being friendly. Really? Saying hi is a signal? Give me a break. How many stories do we hear from men where a woman could be outright undeniably flirting, he makes a move and still gets rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:51 PM
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Nothing happened
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:46 PM
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Below average women? Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:40 PM
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There's some one for every one out there --> We're not getting attention from those women either, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
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What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:32 PM
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Saying hi is not a signal. These signals are dogshit aside from getting in his space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 PM
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Fuck yeah, bro 😼
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:29 PM
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Of course. Mother and I talk about this kind of stuff. Arguments get a little heated here and there but it's nothing serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:15 PM
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Something I find funny is that mother always talks about how deadbeat dads never get held accountable and the mother gets all the scrutiny. Firstly, that's just not true. Men (rightfully so) are always blasted nonstop for leaving their kids, I don't see anyone coming for the mother's head first whenever the relationship doesn't work out when kids are involved. Also, mother doesn't realize the perspective of the shit ton of kids like me who grew up in single mother households hearing our mothers …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:08 PM
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I don't want to be like 30 having my first relationship. 😒😞
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:44 PM
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Yep. Anytime men will complain about issues they face, some women will come to invalidate it by playing the murder card.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:38 PM
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How do you hate men already at such a young age? Jeeeez. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:25 PM
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I love having to bend to women's will and act in a way that's solely for their comfort and if I don't I'm alone forever 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:53 PM
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Zero, Ms. Snake 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:27 PM
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First 👁👁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:02 PM
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Dude does sound like a simp. Why the hell am I showering someone with compliments who isn't even my girlfriend? Like it's not even flirting. Just compliment after compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:25 AM
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Uh oh. Lol. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:59 AM
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I guess you're one of those rare few where something like this actually works (unless you're lying). This is unheard of to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:53 AM
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Men have them too. Hold up. Hmm, I'm not sure about that one. 🤨🤨 Certainly not me I'll say that much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:49 AM
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So just shower her with compliments and be sweet, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 AM
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And to also just treat them as humans bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:41 AM
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So you paint your nails just because you like the way they look in the shower? Women just keep leaving me perplexed 💫
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:37 AM
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Black nail polish looks really sexy on men No way 🤢 They're just as bad. I didn't want any of my male friends touching me when they tried it out. 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:34 AM
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“To make their feet look pretty” That does seem like to be the most reasonable explanation. 🤔 I'll ask mother in the morning what's her reason for her weird little color obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 AM
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Black?! Bro, that's the worst color for me right next to red. It's just too much for me especially on feet. It's like, why do you feel the need to plaster your feet with color?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:22 AM
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I know it's weird but....I don't like nail polish on women. I don't the way it looks and it's just gross to me. Especially when it's chipped. Makes me not want to touch their hands. Thankfully I'm never in situations where I have to touch hands. I remember always feeling like this as a kid. Something about having color on their hands and feet just freaks me out. 😣 I always tell mother to wear socks around the house, I don't want to see them! Take that fucking color off or put on the socks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:02 AM
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Bro might be onto something with this. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:09 AM
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That does make it just a tad better 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 AM
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No fucking way she actually said that. This is like next level delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:12 AM
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I don't get the flair joke 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:42 AM
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I might just go in the backyard to do it honestly. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:19 AM
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Bro, it's only been like 2 years since I left high school. It's not like I'm some 50 year old that's still dwelling on the shit that happened to him in his high school days. You see everything I post, right? Then you see I'm going to therapy soon and it's to help me get over these kinds of things. Anything else you gotta say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:15 AM
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I've also been thinking of posting my pic for a rating. I feel like people are going say I'm average or at best kinda cute and confirm to me that it's 100% my autism and social anxiety that holds me back like I've been theorizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:09 AM
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I don't know what it is but seeing pictures of couples together at their high school graduation hurts in a different way than just seeing them together regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:05 AM
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Mother works from home and is at home all day just like me. Lol. Depending on the time, brother might still be at work. I'll just have to go in the garage or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:16 AM
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Never give up. I just don't know anymore bro 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:07 AM
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Yep, mother and I found this guy like an hour ago. Said he works with autistic people before but it's not his specialty sooo...I don't know what to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:27 PM
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Also I'm forced to do therapy virtually because there's no in-person place within a reasonable distance. I fucking hate doing shit like this virtually. I don't want people in the house potentially eavesdropping on my sessions. Our rooms are so fucking close together, I can hear mother doing her sessions. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:22 PM
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<image> Got asked this question while filing out a questionnaire for my therapist. Bruuuutal. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:18 PM
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I don't know, I'm always skeptical of these dating cheat codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:56 PM
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But that doesn't excuse dating shitty guys as many women try to brush off all responsibility when it comes to picking men. This is one of their excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:51 PM
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I’m tempted to encourage men start either theater or dancing Well, you gotta be attractive first in order for that to work 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:50 PM
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I'm not either. They really should just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:48 PM
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So date a shitty man instead then? Why not just stay single if the quantity is that limited?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:46 PM
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Fellas how was your high-school dating experience ? Nothing happened bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:25 PM
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What does sound like a compliment to you then? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:16 PM
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How is cozy and colorful not a compliment? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:01 PM
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I like that being a high n count woman effectively shoos weirdos away. I’ll never have to worry about a ppd loser or some redpilled/blackpilled psycho. Lol. Having a perfectly fine preference apparently makes you a loser and a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:32 PM
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If I'm being honest, I don't understand it when women who have partners and are married still say that they don't find themselves attractive when they get constant validation from them. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:23 PM
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A really odd and bad argument I've seen some women make for dating shitty men is that good men are rare and that if you were to remove shitty guys from the market then women would have around the same little options as men. Mother also made this argument before. She said back in the 90s, they were no good black men. I told her there absolutely were good black men, you just didn't want them and those types of black guys were called corny for not fitting the stereotypical black guy mold. In respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:20 PM
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I wish to feel attractive again one day as well. I thought you had you had a husband? What's Mr. Snake doing? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:55 PM
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Thats why so many girls like medium ugly Come on, now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:52 PM
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Well, I don't to invalidate you so I guess I'll take your word for it 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:50 PM
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You can't be that ugly 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:47 PM
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It's funny because I find straight teeth to be uncanny. Like, how can teeth look so perfect and straight with no flaws?! It's weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:43 PM
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A lot of them, yeah. But you're Ms. Lillth so you're not gonna buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:41 PM
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Being lazy and not properly vetting men so you end up with someone horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:39 PM
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I'm so sick of people saying this. "No one I know is struggling, bro!! It's just you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:36 PM
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Doesn't really matter if you don't receive any kind of validation for your body. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:35 PM
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Most women complain about dating, too. Self-inflicted problems most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:33 PM
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Kinda, not really but in my dreams I recieve validation and attention for being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:32 PM
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In my dreams? All the time. In reality? Never
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:26 PM
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Absolutely not, hell no Bro!! 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:29 PM
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Of course. I wasn't talking about the really messed up ones. 😅 Though a missing tooth is kinda cute 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:17 PM
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Anyone else think crooked teeth on women is attractive? Idk, straight and perfect ones just seem so weird and robotic. It's just plain. No personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:14 PM
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Just looking for therapists that'll take mother's insurance 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:48 PM
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Today is therapy hunting day 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:31 PM
2

I do hate that term not enough to make a post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:27 PM
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I personally don't but yeah men should probably stop doing that unless asked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:24 PM
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I don't know why people get upset when men here say we don't like fat women. Fat women don't approach me or coming to me for relationships so it's not like I'm rejecting them. My standards literally don't matter to anyone to fat women because they have no interest to me in the first place 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:20 PM
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and then crickets when they see an actually average american woman (overweight, neither ugly nor pretty) What crickets? They all straight up they wouldn't date her. No one's hiding anything. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:14 PM
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Oh, then we're all good then. I was confused to see only fat in her stomach area 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:03 PM
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I personally wouldn't mind dating her. Only thing I don't like is that gut but the second she shows romantic desires towards me, I'd probably forget all about it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:54 PM
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Money? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:13 PM
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I think a lot of men would over doing shit like cold approaching 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:34 PM
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I remember the only rare few times a girl asked me to hang out was from this one female friend I had in high school. I remember being so surprised when she asked if I wanted to go to the mall with her group after school that I thought she liked me for a quick sec even though she had a boyfriend. That kind of attention from a woman, even platonically just had me so shocked because it was so new. Lol. Anyways we kind of drifted away from each other because Covid hit a year later. Lol. Good friend,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:31 PM
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Needle in a haystack
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:11 PM
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"are we chads????" I'd say so. Damn sure aren't one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:04 PM
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No 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:56 AM
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And why is that? 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:27 AM
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Eh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:27 AM
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Does being dominant get you off more than the appearance of the woman? I don't even think about the concept of being dominant much less getting off to it. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:26 AM
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My honest reaction We already know you don't care. You think anyone here takes you seriously? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:23 AM
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Is the way I use the word mother really that weird? You're like the 5th person to say something about it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:21 AM
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I'm so sick of being in a world that doesn't understand. Psychiatric help didn't help as a kid because no one understood what exactly was wrong and how to help. My peers ostracized me because I acted different and didn't understand why I did the things I did. Mother, who has been with me the whole time, just barely knows how my disorders affect me. I feel unbelievably alone because literally no one in my life can remotely relate to my experiences. It's just too different and it's frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:01 AM
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One thing that doesn't bother me (and hopefully never will) is seeing my friends in relationships. I don't feel jealousy, resentment, bitter or anything like that towards them. I can hang around them with their girlfriends next to them being all lovey dovey, hear them talk about how they've been since middle school and stuff and not feel a certain type of way about it unlike some guys seem to be towards their friends. I'm just not that kind of guy. Some people here like to make me out to be some…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:38 PM
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I have very low libido so that's why I never watched. Apparently people watch very young. I have a cousin who started watching at the age of 10??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:27 PM
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I don't even watch porn. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:24 PM
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I don't look for empathy. No way I would ever come for empathy from this fucking place. Lol. These women are laughing at you if anything, fellas. They're never gonna give you the reaction you want. Just give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:11 PM
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I have no clue. I don't know what her deal is. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:49 PM
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Talking about mother made me realize how better my life is (which isn't saying much) now that she finally decided to voluntarily stay single. No more dealing with father, no junkies, and just shitty relationships in general. So done having a front row seat to her god awful dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:33 PM
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Growing up in shitty home environments. I grew up without a father, how is that not paying a price? Lol. Mother and Father fighting everytime he visits. Arguments up the ass. Yelling nonstop. When she dated that drug dealer, that was a complete mess. I came from school one day to see a junkie that OD'd on our patio so I had to call mother for the police to come to pick him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:13 PM
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Well, I don't do any of that AWALT nonsense. So take that up with the manosphere crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:06 PM
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No one's changing the definition. Depending on the area you live in, there's a Chad for it but that Chad isn't the same when it comes to another area. Like the Chad in Korea isn't the same as the one in California
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:01 PM
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My mom literally .dated a felon (my dad) .dated a drug dealer (ex-boyfriend) .had two kids who didn't have their father in their life (my brother and I) I love paying for the price for a woman's shitty mate selection 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:57 PM
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He was probably a Chad in the area he was in. Chad isn't just one singular archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:51 PM
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That's what happens when you date Chad 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:45 PM
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I agree yet us single guys are always told it's either no big deal or not worth it or some other BS to get us to shut up. I hate this shit so much. By far the most frustrating thing people gaslight us on. Trying to make it seem like we're crying over nothing. But I know it's bullshit, I know it's won't work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:44 PM
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Why 60? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:16 PM
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I should unironically get reparations for missing out on the most fundamental human experience during my teenage years. Yes! We definitely deserve some form of compensation. Something's gotta give.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:58 PM
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Not everyone snores, I don't want that part. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:53 PM
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Why would I want it to snore? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:50 PM
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I'm almost at 25 and people are starting to settle down, seems like im too far behind even if I woke up good looking tomorrow Yup, and all the good women at the point will probably be taken. Not in terms of looks but personality, morals, mental health and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:49 PM
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I've been thinking about getting a body pillow. Not the ones with the weird anime girls on it but the nice, plain and classy ones I saw on Amazon. The weighted blanket has been for good for my autism but it doesn't feel like I'm being hugged like people claim it feels like. With the pillow, I'm actually hugging it so I get really feel what's it's like to sleep next to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:45 PM
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I'd say 25 like most people agree upon. But 30 is also one. I definitely cannot imagine still trying at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:32 PM
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Second 👁👁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:03 PM
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Whoa, you're one of us. 👀 Didn't expect that coming from you 👁👁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:42 AM
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I'm slowly starting to not care about socializing more and more as the days go by. Texting people back feels like a slog and a chore and the desire to make connections with new people is nonexistent. There is no drive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:22 AM
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Omg, guys. Men's love doesn't last forever. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:22 AM
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Just get leg lengthening surgery bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:11 AM
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Difficulty 100% Maybe for you it is. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:06 AM
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Pretty sure i always see you complaining about stuff like candy grams and now middle school Yeah, it's called ranting about my childhood. Trauma and other shit about that bothers me. You got like an issue with that or something? I'm like confused here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:03 AM
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All they play is Animal Crossing and Stardew Valley. Never the games you like too. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:58 AM
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I'm not beefing with kids, what are you on about? Kids who are now the same age as me? And I'm only 4 years older than you. Real super ironic too you of all people telling to me to grow up. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:52 AM
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I wouldn't want to try that, sounds kinda odd tbh 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:43 AM
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That was my guess but I never heard of almond peanut butter so idk 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:40 AM
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Almond or Crunchy mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:38 AM
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Fuck all those kids in elementary and middle school. Never invited me to a sleepover
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:47 AM
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I fear the last day of hanging out with my friends. It's obviously not gonna be like this forever. Hell, probably not even the entirety of my 20s. Lost two friends in the group last year. Lost another because he moved away to live with his girlfriend. And now sometimes I'm spending Friday's alone because everyone else is choosing to hang out with their girlfriends instead or because my depression is really bad that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:38 PM
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Haha! That 70s show is too funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:16 PM
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Yikes, that sounds pretty trashy. But also brutal because I know I wouldn't be on that spreadsheet. Lol. 😂😞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:49 PM
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What's so bad about hookup culture that I'm keep hearing about? I don't indulge in the topic here so I really don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:44 PM
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Have any guys here have far better experiences when it comes to older women? (Like 35 and up or women who are just not in your age range). Not romantically of course cause I don't receive that. Lol. But just in general when it comes to socializing. More nicer and they're the ones who give me compliments. Women my age though....that's a different story. 😂 Idk why this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:39 PM
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Why are their houses so untidy? 🤔 I never realized until now. When I had a dog, the house always had to be clean at all times, especially in the middle of the mutt's training.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:09 PM
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Things are finally moving forward. Mother and I are gonna look for therapists on Monday. I hope finding one I'm compatible with won't be too hard. I feel most probably won't understand my traumas surrounding my disabilities. Therapy didn't work at all when I was kid so being left years without proper help has me a little skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:51 PM
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I don't wanna drag everyone else down. Jumping to conclusions here, huh? 🤣 Why would I want empathy from people who I know are incapable of showing it? That's why I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:29 PM
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Well, it's a good thing I don't care about empathy when I post here, isn't it? I don't believe those who claim they're empathetic anyways. I'm pathetic either way whether I shit on people on here not. It's just the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:26 PM
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Compromise! 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:18 PM
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Therapy and some social skill classes 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:07 PM
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Hmm, I don't know. I feel like women do that shit to lowkey brag or something. Not situations like you where you simply tell stories about your husband or just reference him but these weird long-winded middle school diary styled monologues about your happy relationship is just feels distasteful to me. Like, you can't go anywhere else to share that stuff? Why here? Seems so out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:03 PM
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No one. I'm just saying anything, bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:45 PM
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Yep, I don't talk about my problems at ALL to anyone irl. Online, I don't look for sympathy. Just to vent and maybe a little validation here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:42 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:33 PM
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That's what people are here for. Not to see women talk about their lovey dovey relationships like we're at a Sunday brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:31 PM
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I feel you're looking for a specific answer. I just told you the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:16 PM
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Because as a woman, it wouldn't be gay. That's the point. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:15 PM
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I would sleep with them whether I was attracted or not. The prompt was how many guys would you sleep with to help them out. Nothing about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:07 PM
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Mother and I watching a Wojak marathon right now 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:03 PM
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Omg, another "just sleep with other men" comment. 😒 I'm not gay, I'm not doing that shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:01 PM
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Impossible for most people not even just women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah, that's where I'm at as well. Back then, I would've easily said #2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:58 PM
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But I don't know any women to invite to small parties 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:56 PM
2

Prime Mr. Depp looks fucking cold. Makes me feel about the way I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:52 PM
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If that's feasible to do in one day then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:49 PM
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Yes, I second this. Place doesn't really matter if these are the conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:47 PM
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So lucky 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:36 PM
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Now, now. That's not true 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:35 PM
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Perhaps a sport club (I love kickball), the library or the roller rink. It's hard thinking of places since I'm not in school anymore 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:34 PM
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Adapt my friend, you'll be fine I don't know, I've never been good in those types of social environments. They're just so fast paced and loud 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:26 PM
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But some of them are just coping, so I'm not coping. Lol. I didn't say all women who claim this are coping. I know there's some women who are genuinely okay being romantically alone. i personally think men who think sex will solve their problems are coping, but im not a man so is it ok for me to think theyre coping, It is ok to think because they are coping. 🤣🤣 I don't think sex will solve my problems so I'm definitely not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:21 PM
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Going at the clubs with your friends is very important fellas What if the environment is too environment is overwhelming for me and I don't drink? 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:15 PM
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They literally called me a shit person just for venting. That's not criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:03 PM
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Yeah, maybe you're not them but I think most of those women are coping. I think the same thing about men who say that too so I don't think viewpoints that don't agree with mine are fucking fake. I think people in general who say they're glad that they don't receive attention from the opposite gender are massively coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:02 PM
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What the hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:57 PM
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Huh? They weren't trying to help. Only thing they did was make me feel worse. If they were trying to help, they got a funny way of showing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:57 PM
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Do you actually believe them? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:54 PM
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Yeah, for free. Chad treatment all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:50 PM
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I don't know how she said that shit was debatable. Women would absolutely lose their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:47 PM
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Problem with the internet, as it is IRL, is that you can't guarantee people will even understand your situation, much less empathize with it. And then people wonder why people like me resort to i*cel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:38 PM
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Idk, I guess whoever just approaches me. Or friends that have issues dating and just need a little action to hold them over with the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:34 PM
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Noooo, being in the position that the guy is in. Not asking a guy out. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:30 PM
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I can't even vent about my lack of a dating life to other autistic people without getting shit on. "Oh, it's because the way you think and behave. Not because you're autistic. I have autistic male friends who are in relationships so I don't know what you're problem is." "You can’t blame it on your Autism as there are plenty of Autistic people in successful relationships, myself and my ex boyfriends included." They pull the stupid bullshit where they take your reddit post history as a metric for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:27 PM
1

Don't they have to be 18 though? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:44 PM
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I'm not saying that they SHOULD keep their body count down. They can sleep with as many men as they want. I just won't be with that type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:43 PM
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She sounds like a catch, absolutely shocking that she’s single Not shocking to me. Probably does no effort on approaching men and is passive as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:39 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:37 PM
1

Huh??? I don't want to be messing with high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:35 PM
1

Why should a girl NOT sleep around? They can sleep around, I just won't be with them. Some other guy can and will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:34 PM
1

No relationship experience or virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:23 PM
1

Well, this is just assuming that I find a woman at this age which is...unlikely clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:22 PM
1

Yeah, I'm 21. Sub 3? Hmm...I guess that isn't too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:15 PM
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Yep, you'd be hard pressed to find an inexperienced woman past the age of 20 and I'm being generous with the age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:10 PM
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Inexperienced men have no business getting with experienced women in my opinion. Bro!! At this age, that means we wouldn't be able to be with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:02 PM
1

I agree very much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:54 PM
2

Gay dude? Is OP not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:36 PM
1

Haha, I'm both too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:34 PM
2

I don't know, bro 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:32 PM
2

I fucking hate red nails
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/zk2brx/im_gonna_do_it/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 You and I will NEVER experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:24 PM
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That's the point. They want to make the rule "no incel content" as vague as possible so they'll have free reign to remove your comments or ban you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:22 PM
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Yeah, it's super annoying having to constantly monitor what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:07 PM
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Not really a social circle in the traditional sense since there's no women there. Bruuuutal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:35 PM
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I hate that I still remember two of my crushes birthday from elementary and middle school. Doesn't help that they both coincidentally have the same birthday too. They didn't give a shit about me but yet I still remember their stupid birthday. I remember buying one of them a gift in high school. I wish I never done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:15 PM
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Damn it, so close to being first 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:08 PM
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Seems like she just has to fix whatsoever personality issues she has that makes sane men run away from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:04 PM
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If you're a woman that's neurotypical, average looking and not fat but supposedly can't get a boyfriend then it's you're fault. No excuses. 100% sure you're rejecting guys too but making it seem like no one has ever liked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:51 AM
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the couple of guys who ever asked me out were either totally not interesting to me or didn't want a second date after I refused sex on the first one. Fucking, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:42 AM
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Why you guys now sharing fucked up sex stories here? Yesterday we got the mother/son one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:59 AM
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Yeah, she's not exactly the best looking 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:09 AM
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I can feel a depressive episode coming along. I was doing so good today. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:08 AM
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What, are you mocking him because he constantly brings up BMI or something? I feel like you were making a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:18 AM
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Yeah, right. They're gonna be just as cold and disinterested
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:16 AM
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Sureeee, like you would approach this dude irl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:02 AM
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Brutal, you literally just picked this dude apart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:58 AM
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Yeah, I don't think women like long hair like that on guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:47 AM
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I'm gonna go with yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:27 AM
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You're not entitled to sex!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:18 AM
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Super agree. I don't want to be stumbling upon that shit when I'm on the front page. It's just takes one post while scrolling and now suddenly I'm pissed off. Get that shit out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:22 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:19 AM
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I just really wish I was born normal so I wouldn't have ended up in the situation that I'm in now. Spent more time with therapists and psychiatrists than I did having healthy connections with women my whole life because of this stupid autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:36 PM
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Delete this please 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:20 PM
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Excuse me if I look stupid then. I have absolutely no clue what's mandatory for relationships and it's inner workings so I'm just going based off TV and growing up in a single mother household. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:57 PM
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Sometimes I think I would be a bad partner if I got a relationship. I don't like the idea of having to attend to family events regarding my GF's family as I really really wouldn't care at all about meeting another family. The thought of having to pretend like I'm interested in her family sounds kinda tiring. I already kinda don't like going to my own family's events. The concept of family is just weird to me. It feels like fake socialization. If we weren't related, you wouldn't give a fuck about…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:49 PM
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Why didn't I see this answer coming? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:31 PM
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Right....😅😅😅 I guess it's better than being a wagecuck so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah, in like elementary school. Middle school and up, you're on your own. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:17 PM
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Even platonically, I still get screwed over on Valentine's Day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:07 PM
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NEETmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:06 PM
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I know. School dances are far from the things about my childhood that extremely bother me but it just would've been nice to experience it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:04 PM
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They need to BAN candy grams from schools when it comes to Valentine's Day. It just makes a lot of kids feel super left out and rejected because no one would send them anything. School is built for ultra normie neurotypical morons. Beyond unfair. And of course I always that hope, that stupid little hope that someone send me something every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
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I wish a girl asked me to a school dance. Oh well. That kinda environment is not for me anyways. I hate unstructured social events. What the hell do I do the whole time? 😞 Also the obvious mega loud music is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:54 PM
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Holy shit, mind crushingly brutal. I hope that doesn't happen to me when I go see my psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:48 PM
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sighs I guess I'll take the daughter. I wouldn't be able to live with myself seeing my boy as an incel. Such a cruel, mental destroying way of life. My son doesn't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:40 PM
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Only for the comments under the post to tell that on her profile she was posting on FA (Forever Alone) subs. This moment really reminded me that misery loves company. That was absolutely golden. Glad to see people put that bitch on blast when she made that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:34 PM
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Apparently autistic people are 4x more likely to suffer from gastrointestinal issues. That probably explains my severe constipation as a kid. I always wondered why I had that problem. My constipation was so bad once that I had to go to the hospital. Occurring to mother, MiraLAX back then was only obtained through a prescription. Little fun fact. Also, at least I know I'm 100% not gay because I DID NOT enjoy having those enemas shoved up my ass as a kid. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:20 PM
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but I used to be a genuinely kind and sentimental person, but people rarely reciprocate that. Yep, back then literally all I wanted in life was to connect with people despite the disabilities that held me back severely. No ulterior motives, didn't want to use people for selfish gain, none of that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:29 PM
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Haha, I guess you're right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:57 PM
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My childhood just feels like a one big giant lie sometimes. It confused me when a girl I liked in the 4th grade that I saw again in high school was acting cold towards me. She never made eye contact, waved hi or anything like that with me. I was convinced that she just forgot who I was. I approached her and found out that she did in fact remember who I was but just never acknowledged my existence. I then asked for her number and texted her but she never responded back. I was beyond perplexed bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:57 PM
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Well, mother doesn't think it's weird. I never heard her say anything about it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:34 PM
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It was a joke. I already explained it when someone else said the same thing. 😂 I wouldn't be anywhere near this place if I actually had a GF 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:19 PM
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I need validation when I vent about my nonexistent dating life not being told that I'm basically crying over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:08 PM
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She feeds me bluepilled nonsense so I wouldn't go that far, bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:04 PM
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That's funny. I was feeling dumb for a second. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:01 PM
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What's up with these fancy words? Posh? Peculiar? I don't know what they mean. Lol. Me mum? Now that sounds "posh." I don't like the sound of that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:00 PM
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Why do people keep empathizing mother? I don't get it. 😅 And how is it peculiar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:54 PM
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I don't get it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:50 PM
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I recently found out that mother watches Wojak videos. One day I randomly sent a video in our group chat and she said that she watches these kinds of videos. I was so surprised that I thought she was lying but she telling the truth. She's seen Doomer to Bloomer. Yesterday we watched Chad Tries Tinder. Where he matches with a chick whose bio says no casual hookups but when matched with Chad, she broke her rule and asked him to head over immediately a couple words in. Lol. So weird that mother wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:45 PM
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He told me that he refused to date the girls that are interested in him. WHAT?! No more sympathy for that dude. I was on his side 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:53 PM
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😞😞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:39 PM
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Such a great answer! 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:39 PM
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Fourth 👁👁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:12 AM
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What's schizoposting? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:34 AM
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I don't have a girlfriend. I was just mocking that stupid thing some women do here where they gotta tell very long and specific details about their happy relationship. And why'd you put mother in quotation marks?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 AM
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What are you trying to say? 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:38 AM
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My girlfriend is just so sweet. She just bought me a pair of roller skates to go the roller rink after I told her dates in the past never wanted go because they all hated skating. She's the first to show interest in this favorite activity of mine and can't wait to hold hands at the rink. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:07 AM
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How is that even possible? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:26 AM
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My friend said he watches porn while having sex with his girlfriend. She's cool with it but jeez, it's just not enough for some people, huh? Whole ass girlfriend and still needs more. 😒😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:40 AM
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Whaaaat? That shit is real? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:35 AM
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It's just that simple 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:30 AM
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Who said anything about a one night stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:02 AM
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Cum in your pants immediately I'd probably get a rush of anxiety and hyperventilate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:54 AM
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They still don’t approach in the way that men do. It’s that they give hard IOIs that clearly can’t be interpreted as anything else. They’re still not the ones asking for numbers and shit like that tho. Doesn't really make it any less brutal 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:53 AM
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I'm so sorry, bro 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:46 AM
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Not necessarily "Chad" but good looking guys who have social skills. All the more brutal. They will also sometimes complain when they get too much attention and get overwhelmed. Of course they do. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:42 AM
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Female desire is brutal? Why? Because you will never experience that and can only just witness it. Get to have a front row seat of what it's like when a woman has real desire for a guy and shatters the idea that women don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:42 AM
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Mother and I are watching a show right now and there was a scene where a girl kissed a guy on the cheek and rubbed his hip before she left. They're teenagers too to top it off. Asked him if he was going to school tomorrow. Mother asked, what would I do if that happened to me. Tried so hard not to say it would never happen and instead just said I don't know. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:39 AM
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I've never had a Chad friend so I don't know what female desire looks like. I heard it's extremely brutal witnessing in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:33 AM
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men get turned off too by female interest Maybe the Chad's do. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:24 AM
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God tier comment. One of the best commenters here. I wish I had female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:10 AM
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I want to go to the roller rink for mine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:16 AM
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This is the stupidest thing I've seen on here and that's saying a lot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:28 PM
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Playing video games usually or drawing but depression is making it hard to want to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:27 PM
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It's raining outside, I can't go out for my walk! And my trauma thoughts are popping out right now 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:17 PM
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Seeing children being carefree and playing has been a trigger lately. Upset that I couldn't be that carefree because of the lack of genuine interest from my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:14 PM
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Is there something stopping you from getting adequate sleep? Severe Depression
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:02 PM
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Are you saying that men are dogs?? 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:45 PM
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you: woman suck! they do heinous things that I find morally horrible and they are horrible people Some women not all of them. Lol. I just think a lot have shitty mate selection not that they're horrible people but ok. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:41 PM
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Ugh, it's raining outside. I can't go for my walk 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:06 PM
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Physical affection must be amazing. Too bad we'll never experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:04 PM
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Looksmatch and similar social status
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:49 PM
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I hate movies about nerdy/introverted girls navigating through typical high school life and trying to become popular. They always crush on the most popular guy like everybody else instead of the one on her level. Didn't make feel bad at all about the main characters shitty social status. To be fair, movies that are like the same but with a male lead do the same thing but I don't like guys so I don't care. Lol. I think it's less realistic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:30 PM
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Yeah, he's 6' something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:16 PM
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If knocking up some woman is all that matters to you, why not? That's not what matters to me. I don't where you got that from. I don't even fucking want kids, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:58 PM
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I actually don't know, I didn't bother to ask. I don't hear about any half-siblings aside from the one so I guess just two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:56 PM
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Yall really think abusive men just walk up to people and say Hi i am abusive stay away from me No, I had this same discussion with mother before so I'll say it again. Men show red flags but women just ignore it. Like the story I just shared. Father literally has went to jail and prison before. Still chose him. This dude had a gold mine of red flags but because he sweet talked her a little it was enough to overlook them. These men are not perfect NPD mastermind manipulators where it was just impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:35 PM
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why do women dislike skinny men? I'd like to know as well. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:28 PM
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Exactly, bro. This logic makes absolutely no sense to me. "Finding good men isn't worth the effort and too hard so I'll just date the first Chad who talks to me because it's easier."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:26 PM
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Ok? So what? So instead going through the effort and vetting to finding that one good guy, you're gonna be lazy and say "fuck it, I'll just date whoever turns me on immediately"? Are you kidding me, bro? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:24 PM
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He's not wrong. He's fucking spot on, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:21 PM
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I blame both of them. Father for being a shitty person and mother having dogshit vetting. Where did I say it's solely my mother's fault? But ofc if we pick better Define "picking better" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:17 PM
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The "if you're failing at dating, it's probably you're fault" shit is getting old. Women saying it's most likely men's views on women that they're single. Lol. My dad went to jail before, had a drug dealer father and a god awful relationship with his mother. Glaring red flags but mother still ended up being with him. Later found out that he had a list of women that he wanted to knock up. She was #3 on the list. 😁 I don't know if that was before or after she had my brother when she found out. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:06 PM
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Haha, I remember you said this nearly word for word the other day. I'm so sick of these "if you're failing at dating, it's probably you're fault" posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:50 PM
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I'm just really depressed but yeah, I can stop for today. It's hard dealing with these obsessive thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:30 AM
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https://youtu.be/X0bdlJ13SQI?si=_PffxiY-Is8YZDW1 Would you consider it pathetic to be watching these kinds of videos? 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:08 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/kqv8y840l8zb1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb3589be2dac7102ab0dbb3550a26cb1f91212a0 Why is he smirking by himself in the dark? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:51 AM
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You don't have to think they're horn dogs. Just always be looking out. And you know what you're possibly signing up for when you befriend guys. I don't know what to tell you. You can't want to be friends with men and not accept the very obvious outcomes that come from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:46 AM
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Sure, I guess it would be negative rizz 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:43 AM
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I don't expect to have any but I didn't think it was noticeable 😞😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:37 AM
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My friend in our group chat said I have no rizz. So brutal. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:02 AM
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would you be comfortable with that? Hmm, I don't know. Feels like I'm being interrogated. Why would I be in therapy if I already had the answers to the questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:48 AM
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So he fucked his friend's sister and ended up simping for her for literally an entire fucking year afterwards and his friend got really mad at him for fucking his sister. Destroyed their friendship pretty much. He really broke the bro code? No morals. 😞 He also developed a really nasty cocaine habit for a bit there. Why do your stories always include drugs? 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:40 AM
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Idk, just some sort of validation. Not that I'm too young for this to bother me, I'm not trying hard enough or that it must be my personality for my lack of success
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:34 AM
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I really really don't want to hear any bluepill. I'm so sick of it. That shit is for normies. I'm not a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:18 AM
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Then just don't enter mixed friend groups. Easy for me to do, because of fucking course it is. You can also just maintain a distance from these guys and be acquaintances at best. Women are not forced to do any kind of deep socialization with men so I don't get this excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:00 AM
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Women complaining about their guy friends hitting on them will never not fucking stupid to me. "I guess men can't just be friends with women." Well, you know what? There's some truth to that. The majority of guys will always have feelings towards their female friends. But if you notice this, why are you still fucking befriending men and acting shocked every single time they confess? If it truly bothered you that much then you would stop befriending men. Super easy solution. God, this is such a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:48 AM
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Pretty shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:01 AM
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I'd say so, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:56 PM
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My friend just called me and asked if I could see if mother would allow him to stay at our house since the people who are living with him plan on moving by the end of Dec. He reached out to others to our group so it's not just me. Also I have no clue what's gonna happen if he can't move in to any of our places. I'm very anxious because I know 100% mother isn't gonna go for it and I don't want to have to deliver that news plus in general it's a really big ask. I rarely had people come over to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:27 PM
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I've been having for the past 21 years. I'm autistic so I'm undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:30 PM
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When I go to therapy, would it be a good idea to let them know about my lack of romantic experience and the mental anguish it's causing me? I want to talk to someone about this without resorting to incel forums but I'm afraid I'm gonna hear bluepilled shit from the therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:18 PM
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People who can get into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:54 PM
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Well, I'm miserable. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:48 PM
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Why? It's not like it'll happen anyways and you desirables will just keep getting relationships. My words have no power.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:46 PM
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I wish desirables would get autism or something. They don't deserve the ability to attract partners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:39 PM
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Disastrously brutal. Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:36 PM
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What's with you people? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:32 PM
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Only the incels bros here get affection from me here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:28 PM
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Fuck that. I'd rather sleep forever than to go down that route. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:26 PM
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Idk, whenever I talk about this, someone always talks about how they know this friend who's 25 that's never been in a relationship and they seem to do just fine and unfazed by it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:24 PM
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Bro!! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:19 PM
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Yeah, bro. My mistake. Lol. I'll just pick better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:18 PM
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Well this took place in the 2000s so idk if was common back then too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:17 PM
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So fucking privileged. I can't even date just one person plus I'm older
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:16 PM
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No, in the US. lol. I was surprised too when mother told me they had cameras on me. I don't know what the hell that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:57 PM
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Is there any studies that cover the psychological effects of having no romantic experiences ever in your life as an adult? No way that kind of life has no impact on a person's wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:56 PM
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Apparently when I was in pre-school, they had a camera in the classroom and my mother and grandma would be able to see the footage. Mother said grandma would cry and feel bad because I would be by myself and not be playing with anyone. So brutal, even from the very very beginning I was alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:40 PM
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Yes, it's mentally exhausting. I'm constantly in mental anguish and I do take 12 hour long naps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:34 PM
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Yeah, I had a white alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:04 PM
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God tier analogy. Perfectly describes the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:03 PM
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She is trying to help. I just don't like hearing about my disability no matter what the context. It's too embarrassing and I'm full of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:59 PM
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One-sided friendships are the worst. The people I hung out with growing up as a child I thought were different from everyone else because they fully accepted me with my disability. Recently I realized they were barely different from everyone else because they would rarely or just straight up never initiate to hang out unless I was the one to do it. 10+ years of knowing these guys and I never even had a single sleepover with them even though I expressed interest in one multiple times as a kid. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:49 PM
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For the most part, no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:32 PM
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Damn, prince is on a roll today. These people really need to hear this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:22 PM
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I hate hearing my mother talk about my disability. I covered my ears today when she tried talking to me about it. I just hate hearing about my embarrassing behaviors and how awkward I am. I've always had to hear how awkward and different I was, I just want to stop being embarrassed about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:06 PM
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I actually like that name for us. And it's a good substitute for spaces where we're not allowed to say incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:23 PM
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I was begin sarcastic. I don't actually love playing on enhanced hard mode, bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:10 PM
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Yeah, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:06 PM
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I love playing on enhanced hard mode 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:58 PM
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"I liked a non-Chad once but he didn't make a move and I'm too shy to do it myself. However with my current BF, I strangely felt super comfortable asking him out and pursing him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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why do u want a gf anyway Because we're biologically hardwired to desire a relationship? What kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:45 PM
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Because he rejected everyone's genuine attempt to help with a snarky attitude and implies it's on us to prevent it. Someone who's in severe and extreme emotional damage and distress is acting a little irrational and hostile? 😱😱 maybe tough love will Tough love. Lol. Bro, you don't give a fuck about this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 PM
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She's like the only teenager here. Lol. And that "trying to be edgy" shit is such a cop-out. She's not trying to be shit, just being asshole because that's just how operates when it comes to guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:19 PM
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A guy in the daily thread a little far down seems to be legitimately threatening suicide and people are having meltdowns
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:16 PM
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Every woman here is either dating chad or a virgin. Omg, you're actually kinda right. I never realized this until just now. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:14 PM
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I know she's a teenager but I don't give a fuck. Teenagers know that shit is wrong. She's like what, 17? At that age you don't know what's a obviously morally shitty thing to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:04 PM
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i didn't say that I didn't say that you said that, you're just kinda acting like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:55 PM
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Then don't? Lol. It's just one comment to scroll past through and it's not like dudes are talking about their attempted suicide in the daily thread everyday and every 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:52 PM
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Like guys here aren't the same exact way? Not any that I have seen so idk. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:47 PM
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You can talk about anything in the daily thread though so the debate thing doesn't apply here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:42 PM
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It's in this daily thread. Just scroll down a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:41 PM
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Is it not?? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:40 PM
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<image> Yup. Some women seeing guys in extreme emotional distress and be emotionally triggered is just funny to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:39 PM
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We don’t enjoy seeing that Maybe not you but plenty of women here laugh at the misfortunes of the incels and their rants about their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:27 PM
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What's your diagnosis? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:19 PM
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Well, this is what you women (especially with partners) come here to see apparently. This is the kind of daily entertainment you guys enjoy consuming so I don't think you guys even care. 🤷‍♀️ So just sit back and enjoy your show
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:06 PM
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Cards that people who have trouble speaking use to communicate their feelings or wants
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:51 PM
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High school but school in general really
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:24 PM
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Maybe if I used communication cards when I was in school, I could've gotten a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:13 PM
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it’s not like they’ll experience it anyway, so… Just love it when women decide to rub that one in...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:23 AM
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Luckily for me, I'm a NEET so it all works out 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:26 AM
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the guys who say that women aren’t capable of love I fucking wish I could cope that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:18 AM
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Yeah, then I'm going with incel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:13 AM
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would you date the ghost of a woman who died in or near your home? She’s very attractive and if you concentrate really hard you can touch her. But you can’t tell other people about her or talk to her in front of them, or else they’ll think you’re crazy. Yeah, I would date the ghost. If it's someone who desires me, I don't care if it's just some ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:10 AM
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Sorry to hear that you're one of us now. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:09 AM
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Holy shit, this is such a tough question. Can my son not be an incel because he's autistic and a freak like me and just be neurotypical and ugly or something? If so, then I'd rather him be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:06 AM
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I don't really like being touched with like hugs and stuff so I don't crave for nonsexual touch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:33 AM
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I've been using a weighted blanket now for when I go to sleep. I don't know if it's a coincidence or not but it's reduced my stimming before bed so no more hand flapping
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:25 AM
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Who is this bunny ears dude? I've been here everyday and don't know recall this user. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:20 AM
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No, I just want to be actually desired and not used
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:18 AM
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What bunny ears dude? That's kinda vague
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:53 AM
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Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:41 AM
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I wish I was a normie neurotypical. I can only dream of having their kind of life and childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:33 AM
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I know I have a say. I'm just worried it's probably gonna be the only way I get with somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:29 AM
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Talk about how men shouldn't approach women under any circumstance and that should do the trick. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 AM
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I don't want to be a betabuxx. I'm scared for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 AM
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I've never seen you this brutal in the sub like this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:11 AM
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What's the incentive to be successful in life if you can't get a relationship? I really don't see the point obtaining a high paying job if I can't get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:07 AM
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Yeah, the selection here isn't exactly the greatest 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:03 AM
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Lucky 😞 But I assume you don't like them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:37 AM
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Did someone here really try to shoot their shot? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:29 AM
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Omg, that is so fucking spot on 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:01 AM
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I've approach plenty of girls when I was in high school but none were receptive to any of them. I'm bad at flirting but I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:33 PM
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Ainselegz likes Oz? 👀 Best PPD woman poster here by a landslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:17 PM
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I don't know how long I can keep up my good attitude when it comes to my self-image. When I see myself in the mirror, I just do not see an ugly person at all but the zero interest from women throughout my life has me second guessing from time to time that I'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:15 PM
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So you'd like to be a brokie in a struggle love relationship? Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:09 PM
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Two weeks. It was a test run because it was my first time downloading it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:03 PM
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Unironically, society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:02 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:01 PM
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My most brutal one was when a girl was nice to me and often complimented my hair and looks. She didn't do this to other guys. I don't understand why some girls do this. It confuses me to no end, I cannot up with a reason as to why some do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:42 PM
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Why do you feel guilty? Were you like the girl I described in my story? 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:29 PM
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It's so crazy how oblivious we were. It honestly blows my mind. I hate that a woman just being nice to me is enough for me to fall head over heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:29 PM
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I remember when I first asked out a girl on a date. I was 14 and when I texted her, she just ignored what I said and pretended like I didn't ask and changed the subject. I should've known she never liked me. At our middle school graduation, I gave her my number but she never texted me after I waited for about a week or over so I asked my friend who had her number to give it to me so that's how I even had her number in the first place. We would never hang out and if I called, she would never pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:01 PM
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I mean isn't the whole point of dating is to eventually get married? If you been with each other long enough at that point, I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:11 PM
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Idk, that sounds cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:09 PM
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I don't know if I'm just unlucky or something but in my experience people still being with their high school sweethearts isn't rare. I have two friends who are still with their MIDDLE school sweethearts and another from high school. Life is so soul crushing. Never been to invited to anyone's house to just hang out when I was in middle school while others were already in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:08 PM
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I don't know how you're able to keep going at your age, bro 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:00 PM
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They've probably been together since high school so it's been long enough, I suppose. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:57 PM
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21 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:49 PM
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Just stumbled upon an old classmates Instagram page and saw that the person is already engaged. Oh god, it's already starting. I didn't think it would be this soon. To think I couldn't be more miserable, life always has a way to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:47 PM
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4?? Damn, harsh. 😅😅 Looks like a 7 to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:20 PM
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Good thing I'm not one of those men who view women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:01 PM
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Also someone always asking me if I want a drink when I hang out is kinda annoying too. I already said I don't drink and don't plan on to. My answer is not gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:00 PM
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It's not unbearable just really annoying so hopefully it won't get to that point. These guys are pretty much my only source of socialization so I'd hate to voluntarily have no friends. Nah, I'm good. I don't ever want to drink alcohol, it tastes like shit and don't like the concept of being buzzed. It's just a unhealthy and trashy activity to me. I don't see the fun in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:51 PM
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I don't, bro. Why do you ask this question? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:47 PM
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I believe so. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:40 PM
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I hope this alcohol shit they're doing is just a phase. I struggle with depression so the will to socialize and hang out is already really low to begin with. Combine that with the annoying drinking now assuming it'll happen again, I might not even hang out this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:39 PM
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I don't agree with the awful personalities nonsense but dressing really bad is a possibility. If there's one thing I will agree with that women say is that a lot of men do not put effort into their fashion sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:34 PM
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Why? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:23 PM
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I'm starting to really hate the alcohol drinking when I hang out at my friends house. Last time, I swear every like 20, 30 minutes or so would have someone gathering everyone around for shots. Kinda annoying when we're in the middle of playing video games so now everything has to come to a stop and I gotta wait for some fucking drink. Another time is when one of my friends girlfriend got too wasted so she snoozed while she was in the bathroom. Nothing happened but it's trashy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:22 PM
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I've only done it once and that bitch really deserved it, at least in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:53 PM
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Good, I don't either and I'm also 21
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:00 PM
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what possible reason would a guy think women are better than men? Women are desirable by default
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:59 PM
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They never do. Adults can never get enough of fucking alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:53 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:50 PM
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I love being garbage 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:52 AM
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You're right. So just genetic garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:51 AM
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You'd have something to share and could be like that women down there with the 400+ likes on Bumble if you just download the stupid app.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:49 AM
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I can't imagine. It's just that foreign of a concept at this point. Price you pay when you're a subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:44 AM
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Guess I am feeling particularly hopeless today lmao Today? It's everyday for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:40 AM
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omg shut up and be happy for me you bitter fuck damn Why should I be happy for you? I'm done living life that way. After 20 years, doing that shit gets old. Showing happiness to others with lives you wish you had is pathetic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:28 AM
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Women bragging about their relationship comment #1,987,524
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:15 AM
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Typical "both men and women are assholes" response. I don't give a shit if this is a ragebait or not. With the amount of women that condone that behavior or just turn a blind eye, it might as well be fucking real. This stupid mentality goes beyond just "some women are assholes."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:14 AM
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Let's just say that it is fake. There's still women who are exactly like the post describes, acts out like that to men who approach and condone this mentality and the proof is in the comments. So even if it is fake, it just exposes the volume of women who agree with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:59 AM
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Why is it everytime a woman does something blatantly shitty, it HAS to be fake or rage bait? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:32 AM
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This genuinely boils my blood. That poor guy was approaching for the first time and chewed out for it. Then this BITCH has the nerve to say to his friend that he should never approach women ever and takes glee in the fact that he'll probably never approach ever again. I don't ever want to hear that experiences like this rarely happen because it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:18 AM
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Right in what capacity? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:09 AM
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Yes, even them. Anyone that can get into a relationship, I call them the desirables. Those who can't at all like me are the subhumans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:16 AM
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Doesn't matter what men say. If men are going to you for relationships, you are desirable. Doesn't matter what the reason behind them going after you is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:12 AM
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You're literally engaged and experienced teen love. How the hell are you not desirable in your eyes? And yes, I mean partnered and the ability to get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:04 AM
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But you subconsciously think you because you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:01 AM
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Nah. Fuck that bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:58 AM
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I hate most desirables. With their stupid egos they cast out on people like me because they could get into relationships. Thinking that they're better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:52 AM
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Hmm, I guess you don't fall in that category then. But most desirables are just able meet the opposite sex's standard from default with no effort. The concept of teenagers dating is proof is this. You think they did any ounce of effort to get into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:49 AM
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Because you desirables typically just live life naturally getting into relationships with no external effort to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:44 AM
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Why the hell am I getting the maximum punishment, bro? 😂 I didn't call anyone out. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:30 PM
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In that case, my chances are -50% 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:25 PM
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but i aint sayin no names Why not, bro? Now you got me, curious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:20 PM
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Fuck no. Most women here have absolutely zero empathy. No thanks. Katatonicsnake seems nice, though. Can't think of anyone else rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:15 PM
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Of course, we're gonna be jealous. Try understanding the positions we're in but that would require some kind of empathy so that's asking for too much. Rich coming from a teenager themselves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:02 PM
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Add AdviceToTeens to the list of subreddits to avoid. Seeing teenagers talk about their relationships is triggering. And it's like half of the posts there that are centered around relationships. That nonsense that most teenagers don't date is such bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:57 PM
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The crashing and burning is the subreddit's natural state. It's always been like this. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:41 PM
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So brutal. But I can't wait for that autistic men post. 👀
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 10:40 PM
2

God, that new rule about the flair is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:36 PM
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People who have virgin friends or friends who have zero dating experience in general, do they judge their friends for having this status? Like, seeing them in a different light after finding out or trying to figure out why they're in that position? Idk, I feel like I give off the energy that I never had anyone into me and that's it's obvious. There's no way my friends don't have an opinion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:07 PM
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the bar is only low for personality and behavior. That's not where most men are failing. So infuriating that we gotta keep saying this. I don't know why people can't get this through their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:43 PM
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I really hope I can get some results from when I go to therapy. People say therapy is worthless and doesn't really work so I'm a bit scared. I've been struggling so much, I just wanna get better. I have to flap my hands and rock my body when I'm trying to sleep because I just get so overwhelmed with my trauma and thoughts. I hate doing this nearly every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:16 PM
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There's 200+ guys that found you attractive in a few hours lol That kind of validation is beyond incomprehensible to us. Life is way too unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:37 PM
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I guess it does. Lol. Idk, I just don't like people looking at me when I stim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:34 PM
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I don't think they'll judge. I just find the stimming embarrassing and I try to hide it as much as possible. I don't like being caught doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/pnTbKjQEQM I fucking hate my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:16 PM
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Well, it's not like it's coming out of my pocket. Mother got it covered. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:12 PM
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Talking in therapy is way more harder than I anticipated and it was only about 30 minutes or so. Idk what it is but talking about my feelings and problems are anxiety inducing. It had me stimming kinda hard as I was rubbing my hands together everywhere the entire time. Luckily it was online so I didn't have the camera down there so the therapist didn't see me. I can't imagine how difficult it's going to be when I actually start having real sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:08 PM
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I wish a woman would approach and ask ME out for once. I hate that's apparently something that's too much to ask for. I hate always being the one to make moves. Being desired one time is literally all I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:16 PM
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I'm 21 and I'm not sure if it cracked at puberty. To me, it seemed fairly the same throughout the years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:09 PM
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<image> I still got it when I tried it. I even went outside so I would be somewhere quiet. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:42 PM
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<image> I keep getting in the 140 - 155 Hz range 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:34 PM
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It is most definitely not Tom Holland-esque. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:25 PM
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How important is voice to women? People have made it clear to me that mine is high pitched and young sounding so I don't know if that hurts me in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:17 PM
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Average men get average women all the time bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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No, I don't work out bro. Lol. But I'm not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:59 PM
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Got a little therapy session in two hours. It's just to determine if I need to get on medication and to get into therapy since I told her about my depression and speculated autism. Of course, my anxiety is shooting up per usual. I'm really not used to talking about my problems, at least not irl. But I'm glad something is finally happening. I've been depressed for nearly a year being a NEET because I found it so hard to come forward about the depression and autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:38 PM
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Even on here? Haha, that's a good one bro. No one cares that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:16 PM
1

And no one should pretend that they ever cared in the first place...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:13 PM
1

Doesn't matter to me either. No one...cares
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:10 PM
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Most parents don't even care that their children are in these positions, I'm supposed to believe a stranger on the internet could possibly care?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:08 PM
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People venting about their sad lives isn't automatically a cry for help. I do that here and I'm currently not crying out for help in this fucking place. And those people probably don't give a shit that you see them as a lost cause. People here need to stop acting as if they're able to give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:05 PM
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Did they ask for help? Do you even care that they won't accept help anyways? Most likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:57 PM
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People here who claim that they tried to help incels are so full of shit. Fuck off, you don't give a shit about them, stop acting like you wanna help. I've seen you morons here say (especially the ones that have partners currently) that you come here because it's entertaining to see others at bad positions. If you really hate seeing men here whine then stop flocking to spaces where you'll see it. Again, if it really bothers you like you claim it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:19 PM
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No 😪
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:57 AM
1

You're a woman so we kinda already assumed you didn't care by default...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:15 AM
0

Forever Alone Women
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:08 PM
1

Well, when you put it like that...😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:01 AM
1

Chrome. Who the hell uses Firefox?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:56 AM
1

A shoe is literally for the outside. If you're wearing shoes....you're living life outside your house. "How do I argue in bad faith?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:00 AM
1

How PPD women think would happen if they fought back to a man. https://youtu.be/qikQ2sIILTw?si=jChJSig21PxeHTu2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:52 AM
2

Whatever you say 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:36 PM
1

Lmao. Your life is a fairytale if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:15 PM
2

Because those are definitely the same men who say that 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:03 PM
1

I hope you know I was being sarcastic 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:52 PM
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Sorry buddy, doesn't matter what happened to you. It's all your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:12 PM
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I wish I could be like those people who delude themselves into thinking that relationships aren't worth it so they'll stop trying. Or the men who think women are incapable of true desire and love. I just know way too much at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:26 PM
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Yeah you mean the same social reality where men say “fat women and single mothers should know their league”? In this case, why does it matter? They always have people to date no matter what so women shouldn't even be bothered when men say that. That single mom still has more options than the dude that's making fun of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:13 PM
1

I'm 21 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:50 AM
1

Is this a trick question? I don't think so. I couldn't attract anyone before my depression. Certainly wouldn't be able to afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:48 AM
1

I have depression so it was already low to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:44 AM
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My brother once said that I just do not have "it." That I simply lack the thing that would make a woman attracted to a man. Mother this week came out and said that she always knew I was autistic after I came to her about how I was suspecting that I had autism for the several months. Self-esteem cannot go any lower. I just wish I had one memory of a woman being interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:32 AM
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Everyone does not say that. I can only think of three other people who say that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:51 AM
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I finally worked up the courage to tell mother that I think that I'm autistic and she said that she always thought the same thing when I was a kid. She asked my pediatrician about getting tested and apparently psychologists didn't think I had autism. Has is it that I came to the same conclusion as my mother years later as an adult after doing my own research but psychologists didn't think the same? Very odd. Diagnosing people must've been vastly different back then because it's so obvious to me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:40 AM
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Hmmm...I'm still skeptical. Though you are one of the better women here so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt this one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:23 AM
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She definitely knows that she's bragging. A sea of men everyday in this thread talk about their dating woes. Did she really think no one was gonna see what she's doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 AM
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Leave your relationship right now and you'll be right in my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:17 PM
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You're right. Except in our case our romantic lives were always nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:12 PM
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You are pretty attractive. Don't give these chicks free validation. It will never be enough. I swear incels don't whine this hard about being ugly. And she's not even ugly! As much as I don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:56 AM
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Depression fuel 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:46 AM
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Painfully brutal bro. We will never get that time back. If high school/college was bad, I don't even wanna imagine the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:24 AM
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The best times to meet women (high school/college) have come to a close. Absolutely nothing happened in that timespan. Absolutely brutal. Not a good thing to tell myself before I go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:15 AM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:00 AM
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I probably wouldn't go on the show even if I could. I wouldn't want my friends to know that I'm autistic. It would be too embarrassing for me. I don't even like my own mother talking about my disabilities, I can't imagine going on a show where it's all centered around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:02 AM
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Yeah, I've seen that clip from the show. Him being a doctor also makes me feel bad. Was never good in academics. Shit socially and shit academically. Just shit at life. No upsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:51 PM
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I feel anger and like shit whenever I watch a show that has an autistic main character. They always manage to have a love life despite being autistic. Makes me feel like I'm just that undesirable. I wish I could've lived a life where I'm don't feel embarrassed because of my disabilities but rather loved/in spite of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:45 PM
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Doesn't everyone need a job? I'm confused by this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:23 PM
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Cheap? 🤨 Do people place a certain value on compliments depending on who's giving it? Odd. Compliments are all the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:21 PM
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I'm a man with morals. No drugs or alcohol ever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:16 PM
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Of course they count. Why wouldn't they count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:15 PM
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Throughout the week I'm not but like I said it doesn't bother me that much. Not too long ago, I was having zero because my depression was so bad that I wouldn't hangout. But thanks for the concern, though. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:10 PM
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Of course. I wouldn't keep going if I wasn't. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:00 PM
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On the Friday? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:58 PM
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I have friends, I see them every Friday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:53 PM
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Mother went out of town for a month and brother works 9-5 so I'm completely by myself in the house the entire day now. It's like a little glimpse of what my life is gonna be like in the future once I move out. I don't call or text anyone during the day. I'm so used to this lifestyle that I have no desire at all to socialize or to do anything with people in general. Just me and my traumatic memories that I constantly replay in my mind that put me in my depression. My only interactions I have with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:39 PM
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Heart shatteringly brutal. I almost shed a tear. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:27 PM
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I think some men believe PPD women just hate men. Because it's true? 🤨 Couldn't be further from the truth? Lol. Let's just pretend those posts about all men being secretly attracted to teenagers never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:47 PM
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What are you gasping for? You're only 2 years older 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:42 PM
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No I do not. If anything it has worsen my opinion on women DRAMATICALLY. And it makes my depression worse from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:28 PM
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Well of course you don't have feelings, you're married bro. 😂 We're talking about single ass dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:23 PM
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I don't know....I heard the discord is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:53 PM
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No, but they usually have some kind of free trial. I'm just entertaining the notion of trying one out not paying for a whole service.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:27 AM
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That I'm not paying anyone anything? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:23 AM
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I don't care about sex. And I'm not paying for what others get for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:19 AM
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Should I try an AI girlfriend? That recent post really got me a little interested 👀 A robot GF kinda sounds badass. I could probably get a glimpse of what it's like to have a woman that desires you texting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:12 AM
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No most of the time you don't get the guy you want. You have to wait for another guy to show up, and since women rarely find men attractive that means there is a lot of pressure to lock a guy you think is attractive down. It might be months before you find another one, and you want what you want right now. Oh, boo hoo. 😓😓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:01 AM
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Just because I don't want to desire going after women doesn't mean there's no anger in me, that it doesn't bother me. It's a good way to let my frustrations out, to let my thoughts out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:49 AM
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Gotta add this to my list of why dating is worth giving up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:11 AM
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And once again, men using my gender to delegitimize my experience, we love that. I don't care if women don't like it. I can't sit here and pretend that our realities are even remotely similar or close. Women have it so easy romantically. Getting attention as early as 11. I find it hard to believe that a woman can possibly be in the same situation. Whatever, enjoy feeling sorry for yourself. I'm not enjoying it. And why act like you were trying to help me? Women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:07 AM
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you don’t put in the effort for them. you do it because that’s what you want. Well it's not something I want anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:56 AM
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To be around others like me. Be in a place where I can safely vent out my frustrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:53 AM
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Well, you're a women so right off the bat our experiences are probably vastly different soooo yeah, no comprehension. If you were in doomer mode of any kind then you wouldn't be saying the stuff you're saying. I'm skeptical of people like you. The ones who were "just like us" at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:50 AM
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I'm not shitting on ppl for being displeased, I'm shitting on ppl for going doomer mode because they haven't had a gf at 21. It's easy for you people to do that because you're just some outsider looking in. You have no comprehension of what it's like to be in our position.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:43 AM
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A lot of people say at the age of 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:41 AM
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but i know you couldnt have possibly tried even close to everything. Why would I try everything for people who clearly want nothing to do with me? What are women doing or have done to try to be with me? Why should I put in so much effort for them? I don't care if I'm making a self fulfilling prophecy. I'm don't care anymore. Relationships don't matter to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:01 AM
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Cowardly? I disagree. I don't NEED my failures validated but it's nice to be around people who understand me when I live a life where people literally cannot comprehend what it's like to be in my position. but why not think of a new approach, a new perspective, a new place to look? And what approach would that be? To keep trying? Disappointing myself over and over again? Crash and burn like I did before? Yeah, I don't think so. What new perspective can I possibly gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:40 PM
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he's not a doomer blackpill. he's had chances with chicks Well, then no shit he's not gonna be doomer blackpiller if he's had chances with chicks. Regardless if he turned them down. I've had NO chances. No validation that I'm someone even worthy being taken on a date. Only as a joke that girls would use to fake ask me out or say that one of their friends liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:34 PM
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why wallow in misery? Sometimes it's honestly comforting. To see others relate to the same pain I feel, to be in a place where i know my feelings will be validated as opposed to the outside world, people act like what I complain is a non-issue and just in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:26 PM
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I don't care about sex. Relationships only really and at my age it's definitely not too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:22 PM
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you talk about meeting a new guy every week blud Bruuutal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:14 PM
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Well I never said I identified as an incel. I'm just using the site. I personally wouldn't call myself one but I definitely fit the description. What would you call my situation then, if hopelessness doesn't fit it? I'm certainly not someone who's a "late bloomer."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:12 PM
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it wouldn't be that unusual for a male peer to not have had a gf or sex yet. In fact, I have male friends who haven't yet. I'm the only one of my friends or just people I know in general that have never had a girlfriend. Even my brother who's younger than me that never had a relationship either has at least women offer him sexual activities quite a number of times. I have no experience of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:06 PM
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What do you mean? Ages of incels mostly fall right in that age range. It's nearly post college age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:57 PM
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The problem with going there regularly is that you might start to think and speak like that IRL which can ruin your life especially if you are in college. I have given up completely on trying to date women and making social connections with them in general so I really don't care how I sound around them. Either way if I did speak like the dudes on that site, I obviously know better not to speak like that irl. Obviously, you can still browse there if you aren't easily influenced by that stuff I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:55 PM
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you should stay away or limit your use there. Why? Is there something wrong with the site?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:38 PM
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How is 21 too young?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:29 PM
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I'm not sure if I can talk about this but I made an account to an incel site. The language there got some getting used to but it feels nice to around others like me. Women don't find me attractive and I feel like they never will so I might as well just give in. Definitely feels better than reddit and don't have to worry about women saying stupid nonsense in discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:12 PM
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He is a good resource but not a figure that I can relate to. Only the blackpill channels can do that so I guess I'll just stick with them for relatability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:20 PM
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People need to realize that trying to date awkward, introverted, shy, nerdy women is all bullshit too. Just because you share the same interests doesn't mean she's more likely to being attracted to you. I learned that the hard way. They want the same top dudes like everyone else. And a lot of them are Asexual/Aromatic or have some weird mental hangup around dating. It's so true when guys this. The only girl in my social circle right now is openly Asexual. And the one from my childhood is Pansexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:15 PM
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How is Dr. K an autistic creator? I already watch him but he doesn't fall in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:07 PM
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Well, isn't that we do here? Complain? Seems fitting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:29 PM
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Realized? Bro I been knew. It's no surprise. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:26 PM
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Fucking hate that all the autism content I see on social media are plagued with 95% women. No male creators that I can relate too. All of them are extremely high functioning stupid normies who have dating lives, children or are married. Get the fuck out of here. People who really struggle can't even fathom the idea of someone being attracted to us. Where the hell are those types of creators rather than a sea of women shitting on autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:20 PM
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About time someone recognized the quote. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:03 PM
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I don't even know what those woman terms you used mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:59 PM
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I have all the characteristics of a human being. Flesh, blood, skin, hair, dick. But not a single clear identifiable emotion except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside me and I don't know why. My nightly blood lust has overflowing into my days. I feel lethal. On the verge of a frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:52 PM
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Oooooh, now I know what you mean 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:43 PM
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also why did she have her arm completely blacked out??? 🤮 I think I found my favorite commenter here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:38 PM
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Episodes aren't even that dark. What episodes are you watching? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah, I don't like none of that shit. I hate alcohol and people getting drunk. Don't have anyone in my life that I'd want to see, dressing fancy is alright, after parties probably consist of more alcohol and of course you already know about the dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:35 PM
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Lack of proper treatment and help for mental disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:30 PM
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Because I don't like dancing? And what's there to like about weddings?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:25 PM
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I actually think the quality has gone up quite a bit recently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:24 PM
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Ruined. I fucking hate tattoos and that was by far the worst I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:23 PM
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Don't like shitty tattoos = squares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:22 PM
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Bad joke 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:19 PM
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I don't like dancing and I hate weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:10 PM
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Top 50%? That's generous 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:08 PM
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Fucking hate that all the autism content I see on social media are plagued with 95% women. No male creators that I can relate too. All of them are extremely high functioning stupid normies who have dating lives, children or are married. Get the fuck out of here. People who really struggle can't even fathom the idea of someone being attracted to us. Where the hell are those types of creators rather than a sea of women shitting on autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:06 PM
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Dogshit post
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:59 PM
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Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:46 PM
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Have a lot of leverage in nearly all social situations at the expense of being cat called and harassed and sent dick picks This all day. Such an easy choice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:40 PM
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But not being Chad doesn’t mean you can’t have a fulfilling love life. I know you were smirking when you typed this. No way you did with a straight face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:42 PM
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The idea that you need to be in the top 0,1% of guys to have a woman who genuinely desires you is complete nonsense. You're right, you need to be in the top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:39 PM
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HAHA, BRUUUUUTAL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:11 AM
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I feel like such a fool for ever thinking girls in school would want to date someone like me with special needs. They would sometimes openly make fun of those type of kids (the kids obviously had more issues than I did otherwise I wouldn't be in the same class as these girls) so I don't know why I ever thought I had any chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 AM
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Not IRL, but reading the comments from the women here does get to me sometimes. Yeah, spending time here most definitely does not help. Better than blindly thinking women are generally wonderful people at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:28 AM
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Twitter It's called X. God, you people are insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:18 AM
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Didn't even try to hide the bragging
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:17 AM
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I'll probably just write a personal one in my notebook for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:15 AM
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What's so surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:36 AM
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Haven't heard that one before. If that was actually an option I would've been done that by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:28 AM
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How many else struggle with starting to hate women? Day by day, I give less of a fuck about women and what I say online, form negative opinions about them as a whole and starting to just not want to date them ever in my life. Genuine good experiences with women my age throughout my life has been so small and shortlived that it's simply not enough for me to continue wanting to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:59 AM
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Stupid ass answer 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:46 AM
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I love just world fallacy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:15 AM
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Please spare me the "we don't care" spiel 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:38 PM
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Always easy for people say on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:15 PM
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Men need to stop making posts about what if scenario on women approaching. They wouldn't approach your ass still if they did. Like my mother told me "Oh, women approach. They just don't approach YOU. They don't like YOU." Women don't give a shit about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:41 PM
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Women aren't gonna like this post one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:35 PM
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t's a completely foreign experience. I hope it stays that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:09 PM
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It's useless talking to these people. Nothing but excuses to remain fat from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:07 PM
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This sub is the only place I’ve seen people question why women want to gain muscle or do strength training. Really? I never seen that kind of discussion of any kind. Women barely gain muscle or do any sort strength training anyways. Too lazy to do it and want to keep having excuses for why dating is dangerous for them so they can make it seem like they have it just as hard. If dating is so dangerous as women say it is, you would think women en masse would work out, bulk up, learn weaponry/self d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:30 PM
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I don't get why women hate it when men express their disliking for fat women. In my eyes, since us men are always told to self-improve to the absolute maximum and if I were to do that scam, I better get a good return on doing it. Not saying I want a Stacy but fat women are automatically disqualified. I didn't self-improve myself to death just so I can end up and reward a woman who has a sloppy lifestyle and hasn't done shit for herself. No one cut me any slack before so why the hell am I giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:21 PM
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Never had the opportunity to reject anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:17 PM
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I so desperately want to be aromantic. I can't stand this anymore. Women don't give a shit about me so I wish I could erase any desire to be with them. Having this innate desire is pure hell. I fucking hate this world
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:56 PM
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lol jk Brooooo, you're so cruel. 😭 I wanna be pissed but it was a good prank. There's no way society would allow this pharmaceutical option to exist. Why? I'm sure it would be extremely profitable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:09 AM
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Just take antilibidinals. Can I really just take these? Where would I find these? Are they safe to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:50 AM
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Male, Asexual/Aromatic. Just let me out of this hell please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:39 AM
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Most women are in it for love. They don't see their partner as some utility or a means to end. Haha, lie after fucking lie. Absolute bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:30 AM
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Today I was absolutely blown away. My friend gifted me a PS5 for my birthday and it's coming on Sunday. No joke either, he sent me a screenshot of the order. I was grinning uncontrollably and almost cried from him telling me. He said I deserve it just for being a good friend. Most of my life, I was always shown that people barely had any interest in me and that I wasn't good enough to even be asked to hang out without me initiating every single time. This made my self-esteem extremely low and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:33 AM
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No one expects you to do anything. Even if you guys could, we know you women still wouldn't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:54 AM
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According to them, you can. They tell us to do it all the time whenever we complain.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:15 AM
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Ohhh, sorry I'm not wearing my glasses rn. Hard to read sometimes. Anyways, fuck no. Those girls weren't into me back then and I'm not gonna be chasing after them now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:36 AM
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No one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:32 AM
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What part isn't clear bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:28 AM
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How the hell would I know? My friends definitely don't do that nor would I hang with that kind of crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:01 AM
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valid excuse Men have plenty of reasons not to approach women. Where's our excuse and validation to not approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:31 PM
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But when men talk about terrible experiences they've had, or very much expect to have based on other social interactions, they're weak-willed losers who won't man up and touch grass. So fucking bullshit. They can have one bad experience and can choose to not to do it EVER again. But God forbid, we merely just complain about our experience. Turns out bad experiences do shape future behaviour after all, eh ladies? They know it does, it's just only valid for them. Haha, not us of course. No sir, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:48 PM
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Omg, I hate parents that have a hard time seeing from their children's point of view whenever they criticize them for something they did. They get soooooo butthurt whenever you called them out on some bullshit they pulled on you as a kid. If they didn't physically abuse you, refuse to feed you or some other stupid extreme example, then you have little room to complain and your issues get downplayed in the process too. I appreciate and know you made sacrifices and went above and beyond for me but…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:23 AM
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What's inappropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:37 PM
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She is not. I'm in a single mother household. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:14 PM
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I had a discussion with my mother about body count. She said that a reason women could potentially have a high body count is because since men typically are not good at sex, she has to sleep multiple guys to finally figure out what gets her off. 🤨🤨🤨 How true is this statement because I've never heard this before. Sleeping with a certain number of guys in order to learn what pleases you sounds off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:00 PM
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One of the guys in my pacing group is so cute. I invited him to join for post run refreshments, but he had plans No woman has never and probably will never think about me this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:37 PM
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This is nothing but BULLSHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:50 PM
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they get treated as pets a lot. There was this dude i went to school with, let's call him finn. Everyone acted nice to his face but he never got invited to anything and people talked behind his back. This is my EXACT experience. It was so confusing. Everyone acted nice to my face but I was NEVER invited to hang out at someone's house, to a birthday party, sleepover, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:47 PM
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Women are constantly socially conditioned against that, from everyone but especially their fathers. I thought men didn’t want fatherless women? Because that is peak fatherless behavior. Socially conditioned my ass. Women KNOW men want them to approach them more nowadays. Get the fuck out of here with that excuse. Just say you're fucking lazy and don't want to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:10 AM
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I'm glad someone pointed this out. "Autistic Men are coddled by everyone." Like what??? Autistic men get little to no sympathy from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:06 AM
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I'm not moving the goalpost. Either way, let's have a hypothetical. Let's just say for some reason, men didn't use women for sex and were upfront. Would these women who don't approach supposedly for the reason we're discussing start approach men first? Personally I'd say hell NO. I highly doubt these women are like "Man, I really wish I could approach and go through a potentially hurtful rejection but damn, the guy is just gonna use me for sex so I can't." Like they wouldn't approach STILL becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:48 AM
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Supposedly just as valid but if he were to share this mindset to others, he would get laughed at and told that he's gonna end up single. Literally nobody would take him seriously and would be called delusional for doing such a thing. Funny too how if a guy does this he's has to "accept consequences" but with a women it's nothing but a net positive. Jesus Christ, what a clown world we live in. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:34 AM
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Also it's not a valid excuse. What if men said "I'm not gonna approach women because they're probably only gonna say yes to use me as meal ticket." Would they be just as valid? Would society take them seriously in that reason because it's a concern men have on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:26 AM
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OP never even said that he was fooling this chick into thinking that he wants a relationship with her. He's just hoping that she becomes into a FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:19 AM
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They are choosing to play it safe, and not expecting the specific reward they want. Haha, and that's what I hate the most. Men have no opportunities to be "playing it safe" but whatever doesn't really matter. Women will never approach first as much as men do. They can keep giving all these excuses for why they won't do it and I just won't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:16 AM
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It doesn't matter if it's hard or not, it's something you should be working on. Not having this childish mindset where you feel like you shouldn't have to do that and have everything come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:08 AM
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but a good number of women do believe they will get taken advantage of if they showed interest like that, cause men could very well leave them after getting sex from them. I still really feel like that this bullshit coverup excuse to not approach first since men now are wanting women to and they cannot reasonably justify not doing it by saying "nope we can't, society says we don't have to." So they cook up a nonsense reason for why they won't do it. Most women REALLY don't want to approach out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:02 AM
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even if it's impossible to change, like height. Just being content, somehow, hasn't worked for them. Real easy to say from someone where height has no impact on their dating success at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:31 AM
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why a good number of women don’t initiate anything first. This is NOT why women don't initiate first. I'm soooooo sick of people saying this bullshit. 🙄 Women don't initiate first because they do not fucking have to. They're not expected to due to how our dating dynamics work. Plain AND simple. Any other reasons are just bonus excuses to justify their lack of approach. There's are tons of reasons why men shouldn't initiate first but I don't see them making excuses for why won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:28 AM
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I didn't blame my genetics, I was just stating why I'm so skinny. Obviously also because I don't work out but my high metabolism also plays a part. Men who are 21 typically aren't 125lbs. and are telling me today you only ate 1 thing that's like 800 calories max, didn't even finish it, and it was 90% carbs and bullshit I get full fairly quick that's why I didn't finish it. Hard to finish a lot of things without feeling full.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:44 PM
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Publix subs are good. Lol. And what's blackpilled about a sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:26 PM
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A Publix Sub (didn't even finish it) and that's it. 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:24 PM
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It is literally an excuse. It's not an excuse bro. I only gave a reason for why I'm currently 125lbs. It's not like I said because I have a high metabolism I'm not gonna work out or something along those lines. She's trying to get me into a relationship, Im just trying to fuck. What? Why would you pass up on a relationship? I can't imagine doing that. Seems odd to put in so much effort in your physical appearance just have sex If you can fuck her and make her cum you can get in a relationship, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:15 PM
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I don't even know how to respond to someone who is 125 pounds. That's just how I am naturally bro. I don't know what to tell ya. Lol. High metabolism genes so it's a little harder than average to gain weight. Not an excuse just how my body works. I literally said less than 2 sentences to the girl I hooked up with Whoa. I didn't know muscles would do that much for us. I'll consider the gym now. And hookups are good and all but are you able to get into a relationship? I'm not interested in hookups…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:01 PM
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Good you should there is no excuse Well, I know there's no excuse, I'm not one of those people who think it's impossible to find success in dating. I do have legitimate reasons why it's hard for me though that are valid to complain about. We both know how catastrophic SM is for a man's dating life. Post your bench, overhead press, and deadlift Haha, I don't know my bench, overhead press and deadlift. 😅 I'm like 125lbs bro. Lol. Would working out really make that much of a difference even with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:51 PM
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I literally had a hookup I literally have selective mutism, have heavy stimming attributes, am 5'6, and have short face syndrome, that requires major reconstructive surgery, where you can't see my teeth if I smile And I fucked, You have no excuse Now I feel like shit. I have the exact same traits except for the heavy stimming and obviously the short face syndrome. I cannot for the life of me have someone be attracted to me. I have no clue how you did it. The SM being my biggest problem mainly. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:38 PM
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90s Halle Berry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:34 PM
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Should've specified Halle Berry from the 90s. She still looks better than all these other women in Hollywood. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:29 PM
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Ugh, she is the definition of MID
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:21 PM
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Halle Berry 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:17 PM
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Yeah, you're on my highlight reel of God tier comments. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hevl079e5wlb1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5259cad2956a539c055a9e2fcac5cc34d8770668 This was my favorite comment too. Now THIS is something I wished I heard from my mother instead of the bullshit she told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:09 PM
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Not everyone experienced the same mess you did as a teen so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:03 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/x4nrxu3h3wlb1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=57c30ad2f43fc85dea5002ced47d6fca9b8a200f Finally got some validation when I argued that those of us who never dated in their teens DID miss out and the idiots I've seen countless times on reddit trying to say otherwise are liars. Not even with family could I express dissatisfaction for having no romantic experiences without being fed lies and copes. "Trust me, if you had a girlfriend you would start wanting to be single.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:58 PM
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And people don't evaluate their privilege and non-privileges before getting sad or getting depression lmao. I do. Helps puts things into perspective. Doesn't always work but I do it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:35 PM
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They're all holding out for Chad. Completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:33 PM
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Fucking God tier take
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:29 PM
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I don't know...sounds like cope to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:48 PM
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What partner? I never had a partner in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:24 AM
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It is awkward and messy, though. I know it is but people make it seem like it's this most horrible thing ever. 13 year olds “dating” usually involves a lot of embarrassment, parental interference, and little to none of what actual adult dating does. Sounds like getting to be a real teenager and actually living. I'd rather go through that than the nonsense and suffering I went through around that age. Does that change the fact that most “dating” from the ages of 11-15 is effectively just glorifie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:22 AM
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Difference is that men have no equivalent of that sub. If there was, it would be banned within a week. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:18 AM
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Fellas that are in our 20s with no relationship/romantic experience whatsoever, just remember don't let these people fool you that kids/teens dating is some rare thing and that you didn't miss out whenever you vent. Your female counterparts have been getting attention from their peers since they were 11 and teens start regularly dating as early as 13. I fucking seen it all while I sat on the sidelines. Don't buy this whole "it's all awkward and messy anyways" and "relationships only last 2 secon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:13 AM
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Rare Litllth W. I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:26 PM
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She's 16, I doubt this is the first time of her reading something like that. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:19 PM
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I'm curious as well. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:15 PM
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Haha, I think you know what I meant. I mean women my age at the time. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:45 PM
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How do you dress Just casual I feel like. And I admit I like wearing colorful shirts like baby blue, red, green, etc. what’s your demeanour like Quiet, awkward, silly at times. what’s your build like? I'm 5'6 and wear a size 6 in men's. Very skinny and about 124lbs. So a small build I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:42 PM
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I'm 21, I can barely talk to anyone younger💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:37 PM
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Very but I've gotten this treatment even when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:35 PM
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How do I stop getting women infantilizing me? All my life I've never been treated like a sexual/romantic being. I don't know if it's because they sense that I'm awkward/different but I always get the feeling that women see me as kid no matter what age I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:32 PM
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I forgot about the money aspect. Another reason why I didn't get into it. Yeah, you do have to spend a considerable amount of money on cards if you want to stand a chance with good players/friends. Lol. I am NOT doing that for a game I'm iffy on. And the learning step did seem step the way they tried explaining it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:48 PM
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Can be said about any hobby but once you start tearing the shit out of everyone things start to get fun. Oh I know. But nothing hooked me in so I kinda just gave up. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:42 PM
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My friends back then tried to get me into it, I just could not get into it at all. Just seems too confusing to learn. 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:38 PM
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It is. I love the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:36 PM
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Nothing says a Friday night like hanging out in the daily thread all day. 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:28 PM
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Women get less attention overall, whether it's romantic, platonic, professional, etc. Huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:05 PM
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When I say average, I mean 5"8-5"11ish height range, typical job making 50/60k a year or so, neither handsome nor offensive in looks, and no severe mental illness/neurodivergence. Damn, I fail in all of these. I didn't know I was THAT below average. So brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:46 PM
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When women here say "OMG stfu, turn gay and date men or become asexual if you're having so many issues dating" do they really mean that or is it just another way of saying fuck you? It confuses me because they seem so sincere when they say it, like you can actually become gay or something to solve your problems and I don't think I gotta explain how this makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:46 PM
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Of course we are. You're the one who started the trend after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:33 PM
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Cold comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:32 PM
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The caps was to make a point All it did was make you look more childish. Didn't have to use all caps to make a point. It’s the other way around bud It's not. It's really not. You don't have me fooled. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:28 PM
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You're the one who was just screaming in all caps earlier and I'm the dramatic one? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:14 PM
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What...ma'am? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:04 PM
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That makes no sense. I've never been anywhere close to where a woman would supposedly see a lack of interest of her orgasm from me. Like I've never been kissed let alone be close to having sex. Wtfff? Lol. Just say you're glad that I'm a loser in dating. No need to make it seem like it's somehow my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:02 PM
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Whatever helps you feel better about men suffering. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:50 PM
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Imagine dating someone or sleeping with someone who thinks like this💀💀💀💀 They don't. That's why I'm here, aren't I? If someone ever imagined dating me I wouldn't be talking in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:33 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's horrible or not. Makes no difference to me anymore. It's not like others are gonna struggle just because I want them to anyways. It's nothing but a fantasy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:20 PM
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Life is dark. I got used to it, it's about time others do to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:13 PM
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You got another thing coming if you think women who are in similar situations don't do the exact same shit. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:09 PM
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A break from life. Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:07 PM
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I'm just regurgitating what men have said. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:03 PM
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they’re all so mean imo. They got pushed to this point. It was never like this. Chad has never said anything remotely comparable to what incels and Redpilled men have said. Of course not, you think he's gonna say that shit to your face? Lol. But I see you already addressed that point. Also the men known for pump and dumping sure are nice. 😂 Sexless men actively enjoy the suffering of others. It’s sick how they complain but treat people horribly. I don't care about the lack of sex, relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:58 PM
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I've never had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:44 PM
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Omg, I hate this guy. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:42 PM
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If you don't shoot your shot I just assume you don't like me, that's how it works. You know good and damn well some of those guys liked you, you just wanted to be lazy and not make the move yourself 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:21 PM
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Perfectly summarized how I feel too. I don't know why people just don't understand that a lot of men like their women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:16 PM
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Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:15 PM
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That's not how that works. Either way, I really don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:12 PM
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They don't, I just said that to be condescending. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:10 PM
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My "ick" is women being bothered when someone uses the term "female." Like, jesus christ stfu. Can't imagine being with someone who complains about such a non-issue. It's not dehumanizing or whatever nonsense they make up for being mad at it. I pray to GOD that women irl aren't like this and it's just a reddit/online thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:04 PM
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Women don't put in the amount of work that they claim they do, how could I be any more clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:43 PM
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Obviously not zero but most definitely not as much as you people claim you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:35 PM
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This all required a lot of work and effort on my par I'm suuuuure it did. You're such a hard worker. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:23 PM
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Considering you didn’t even know that people tell bitter ass women to shut the fuck up about using their race as an excuse………. I'll admit that I was wrong then. Happy to see people are finally telling woman to shut the fuck up when it comes to certain things in dating. So this is a happy camper right now. Then, why the fuck do y’all care that some women don’t want you for your height? Because it's a very high amount of women that don't want short guys. Kinda hard to ignore if seemly every woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:12 PM
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it makes me want to go lay in the road 😭 Women are so dramatic. Lol. Especially in your case because you know you'll find success on a dating app but won't do it because you supposedly "don't feel any attraction through it"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:50 PM
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Boys in dresses? 🤨 What's going on here, are you a teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:45 PM
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Absolutely. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:41 PM
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And it’s not dealbreaker for alot more women I don't know how you can say this with a straight face. 😂 I don’t fucking cry when I see guys say “i don’t wanna date black girls”. You probably don't but lot of others do but I don't see anyone telling them to shut the fuck up. Does their self-esteem rely on every single fucking person liking them? That's...not what their issue is. Like, at all. I don't know how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:40 PM
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At some point though they have to accept that it is what it is and play the game with the hand they've got, much like with fat women. Huh??? Fat women still plenty of options and they can stop being fat. I don't see how this is remotely comparable to short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:36 PM
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I'm not being dishonest. Always thought it was a waste a time to be pinning for women I knew would do nothing with me. Like why am I thinking about someone romantically if I know it'll never happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:27 PM
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Everyone has fantasies of dating someone “perfect” and way out of their league. Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:01 PM
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Good for you, I don't judge. 🤣 Be proud you're gay bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:54 PM
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Only 15% of men are 6' and taller. So what? Ngl, that was a COLD comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:47 PM
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I think you're the gay one, bro. This gotta be some heavy projection or something. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:40 PM
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Not every woman likes sucking dick. Are they gay? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:36 PM
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I'm gay because I don't like munching? Lol. Not every straight guy likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:32 PM
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If it's inevitable, why the hell would I care if I speed it up? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:29 PM
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🤢🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:28 PM
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Why did you post? For a discussion. Who really uses the CMV flair to have their mind changed? People really need to stop pointing this out. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:24 PM
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I definitely wish it was something I could care about and have on my criteria. Having to spend a long time just to make her orgasm does sound annoying. I'm convinced now! This is something I've never thought of before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:21 PM
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We don't wonder. It's because women lose interest in their SO's FAST in the relationship. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:16 PM
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Definitely is 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:52 AM
1

Suuuuure....🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:26 AM
1

Typical Lillith nonsense. Always warping the narrative. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:24 AM
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Perhaps it isn't 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:48 PM
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It is and I don't give a fuck. I stand by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:10 PM
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blaming parents (almost always mothers and grandmothers, because of course it's their fault), Most of the time it is their fault. They're the ones who fed me stupid bluepilled lies and made me think girls wouldn't care about my disability. And the ONE time I complained about my lack of a dating life, I basically got told to just suck it up. I didn't even blame her for anything, I just needed to vent. My mom's boyfriend on the other hand actually went as far as to try set me up with someone. It f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:06 PM
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Or you can whine like a 6 year old who has been told he can’t have candy before dinner. Your choice. Fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:45 PM
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Get what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:36 AM
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That's the thing...I don't. Never have and now I'll never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:20 PM
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Like I said in a previous post, FUCK NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:35 AM
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Fuck no. I'm done approaching. Sorry, but I'm not willing to get rejected every week just so I can build an immunity to it. I don't know why women think men are Superman and can easily shrug off rejections like they're bullets. They can really crumble a guy. I'm sick of always making the first damn move too. I want to be approached, I want to be desired FOR ONCE in my life but apparently that's too much to ask for. Everyone can call me a little bitch all they want for giving up but the juice ain…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:38 AM
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Perfectly well said. I don't see how trying to progress a friendship into a relationship is "trying to get your dick wet." "You developed feelings after spending time with me, getting to know me and caring for me?! You low-down horn dog!" This weird rule where once you guys become friends, you CANNOT try to make it into something more and if you do you're a horny slimeball is puzzling to me. Most men are afraid of confessing their feelings to their female friends because they actually value the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:48 AM
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I know that they want attention but it was a bit confusing to me. I wouldn't go out of my way to make female friends all the time but get upset when they try to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:24 AM
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