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| 2 | All these three first dates asked EXACTLY the same questionsI would answer honestly | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 03:40 AM |
| 0 | What are your sticking points while on 40s?Approaching feels weird? Mindset problem | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 03:56 AM |
| 3 | How do you incorporate playing an instrument into picking up women?Learn game rather than playing instrument. But if you're into gimmicky shit, that you'll hate in a week if you're not in it for the sake of playing, join the band. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Help. I'm always attracting toxic women. What shall I do?What kind of therapy you did. Maybe different therapist or different kind of therapy. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What should I focus on to improve my dating life?Don't know what challenges you'd face, but cold approach. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Why it's not good? | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?What would be the goal in asking for a number of partners? | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 03:35 AM |
| 3 | How would you approach a girl at a train station?Hi. Do you like trains? | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Sweat over the women that reject actual nice/thoughtful datesJust because she reject some rando who she's not attracted to asks her on a "nice" date mean she's unintelligent? Shit, bro you got issues. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 03:46 AM |
| -1 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and MonogamyGoing for what you really want, what is true to yourself and not just copying social norms that often don't work. Love this post. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:28 AM |
| 5 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and MonogamyYour analogy is great. But unfortunately you didn't see it. You can lease the car, you can rent a car for a week, you can but it outright, you can take an Uber, you can go for a car meet. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and MonogamyI don't think he's complaining | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and MonogamyMaybe he is not looking for casual sex, and at the same time, not for a commited relationship. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:24 AM |
| 6 | slept with my friend's sisterYou don't need to justify shit. It's not his business. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Openers for ani.e lovers"I watched every one piece episode AMA" | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Nice girl run from meIf it's not your type of girl, let her run. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 09:22 AM |
| 5 | What’s your go-to move that actually works?I hear a smidget of limiting beliefs. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 03:50 AM |
| 14 | What’s your go-to move that actually works?Everyone want some special move. Basics are boring to them. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 03:47 AM |
| 14 | What’s your go-to move that actually works?I hate this for you as well, but can you .. idk .. learn how to dance? | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Confessions of a retired man-whore turned intimacy dropoutDon't make it a dichotomy. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 03:45 AM |
| 2 | My campus is a commuter school with low energy and my judgment feels clouded by too much advice. What can help?In this kinda invironment you don't want to go direct, because you don't want to be know as a approach guy especially when you're starting your journey. Befriend girls around you. Practice direct and more agressive game somewhere else. Don't chase and don't pedestilize is all around a good advice. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Best ways of cold approachingIt's not about lying to yourself that the grapes are for sure sour. But getting to a point that it doesn't even matter if you reach them. I think everyone can get there. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Best ways of cold approachingPlaying it safe by definition is to minimize the danger, in that case, of rejection. It mean you care about rejection. If you care at all, you care too much. Unless you are just at the beggining of your seduction journey, then its ok. At first approached maximizing chances of success is great. After getting some expirience it's becoming a crutch. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Best ways of cold approachingI don't care for eye contact before approaching. It doesn't matter, unless you're a b*tch who waits for "premission" to approach to "minimise" chances of rejection. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | New research identifies 9 elements in the chemistry of romantic attraction: Positive interaction (64%), Mutuality (48%), Comfort (41%), Compatibility (40%), Similarity (36%), Unexplainable spark (31%), Sexual attraction (28%), Intense fixation (24%), Physiological response (6%).Yea, no. | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | « make me laugh »She just didn't know what to put in bio. Don't over think it. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 01:47 PM |
| 0 | I'm considered handsome, but I can't relate to girlsThe way you describing yourself it sounds like you have no game. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 05:51 AM |
| 3 | When did you start cold approach?At 23yo | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How to know when to approach a female?You approach when you want to. You talk about anything you want to. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular seduction opinion: numbers game is so bad.Ok lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Do yall think you can date 10'sShe's just another girl. If you'll put her on a pedestal, she'll be out of your reach. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I think I need to give up on dating"I try everything" procedes to list things that have nothing to do with trying. You asked out 2 girls irl and want to quit already? Go out and talk to people, learn about game and step it up. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do we forget game?Are you using knowledge in seduction? It sounds like you don't have it internalized and as a part of your personality. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 03:36 AM |
| 3 | A new indirect daygame openerSuccess rate? C'mon man, you're better than that. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 05:04 AM |
| 5 | A new indirect daygame openerLol. How do you even know where I'm at? | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 04:41 AM |
| 4 | A new indirect daygame openerIt's just an opener. Don't overthink it | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Coming to a breaking pointGood luck | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 07:49 AM |
| 1 | A girlApproach other girls. Learn thing or two about game. Get good. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | A girlGet some practice in. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for going for girls with status?Just the same as with every other girl. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 10:55 AM |
| 4 | How do you do a "choosing signal" approach, without coming across as a desperate, opportunistic bottom-feederJust approach. The more you practice the less you'll think of convo starters. Don't wait for signals. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:00 AM |
| 13 | Shit tests from other menSame as with shittests, plus focus on a girl and don't get into logical conversation. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 11:34 AM |
| 1 | WOMEN & Social mediaGo irl bro | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | AdvicePick one | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Getting the conversation going after getting the numberYou should talk to her more before asking for number. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How can I seek out a ‘bad bitch’ on dating apps?Too much Red pills | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Should I lower my standards? Need some advice tooNo. You should approach every girl you want to. Muscles, hair, cool. Have you worked on your game? Just because they said you're ugly, doesn't mean they think that. They didn't liked your approach so they rationalize that you're ugly. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:39 AM |
| 7 | i find myself always pulling away and i don’t know whyInteraction was going good so you didn't wanted to risk it going bad and rejection by asking her number. That why you left with positive feelings about her reaction to your approach. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Improving on gameYou can do this to focus on learning mechanics of game. But at the same time you need to get more comfterble with "hotter" more intimidaiting girls. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand “game”You don't understand because you assume attraction in women works like in man. Attraction for women is created mostly by personality traits communicated by bechavioral cues. You see beautiful women with handsome man, this is self fulfilling prophecy. Attractive man feels worthy enough to approach beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Beating myself up for not approaching a girl when she gave me signals to approach her.Go for the next one, use this frustration as motivation | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Didn’t use protectionDon't drink bro | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on how can be really desired by woman mostly mentally and emotionallyWhole seduction is about that. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 2 | How would you seduce a woman that's anti casual sex?I wouldn't. But if i would, I would befriend her, would be nice to her in platonic way, and show her how much of a rageing man whore I am then wait for her to take the bait and try to fix me. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | From the Natural to nobody. Can’t figure out what changed.First question would be 'what has changed?' | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:40 AM |
| 7 | How do you decide whether to go direct or indirectI'll end your direct vs indirect war. Always go indirect direct. Indirect verbally, direct nonverbally. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | how do i approach women to make FRIENDSI really don't like you diminishing his expirience with depression just because you think he has no reason for that. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Went to the gym and some weird shit happened.Defensive again. Asd again | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 05:00 AM |
| 19 | So if you want to get dates then you have to not be interested or looking for dates/ already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, but if you aren't interested or looking for dates/ are already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, then how would you get dates?If you want to date than focus on it, just livong your life and hoping for the best is crap advice | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Went to the gym and some weird shit happened.Don't get so defensive. Asd is nothing to be ashamed of. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 04:49 AM |
| 3 | What are some good free/cheap date ideasCoffee, walk | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?I would love someday to need to stand on tiptoes to kiss a girl. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.Any old stuff from rsd would be great for you to learn from. It should be somewhere on the internet. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.When you'll learn what makes a man attractive, how much controll you've got over it and you will work on it feeling of "i'm not good enough" should be conquered. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | eye contactWhen girls are attracted to you they will break eye contact When girls are not attracted to you they will break eye contact Just approach | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerI've been there. You need to find something that will make this life not boring. That will make you feel alive. For me, there is one thing I value the most in life, I only focus on that, I only do things to achive that biggest value, I don't compromise. Other things are irrelevant. I know my approach to life is kinda extreme, but it's only life that works for me and I wouldn't be ale to stand "normal" ballanced life. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerWhat made you no nonsense serious person? | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerYou need to become more playful in general. There is no other way. Playfullness is one of the most important traits for attraction. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerEg. Girl is telling a story, you faking yawn looking her straight in her eyes. After that you smirk mainteining eye contact. By this action you implying what she's telling is boring (yawn), but in a playful way (fake yawn and smirk). | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerTease is when you give someone hard time in a playful way. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Dudes who consider themselves a good seducerWhat you need? | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Yo Fellas!!!Do both | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 04:38 AM |
| 78 | Does hitting a girl up after she already rejected you and some time has passed and asking out her out again ever workDid anything changed between you two? Any signs of attraction? If no, then no. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How are men in their thirties getting dates in the Bay Area?Women barely glance your way when you walking down the street, no shit. What did you expect? You approached 1 person in months and you are here bitching women don't make eye contact with you and don't how-do-you-do. Advice: approach a ton. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:13 PM |
| 4 | How to increase initial attraction.Looks give you 5 seconds. If you game isn't good there will only be 5 seconds. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with "Boyfriend"She said "we can do it" so you go with that. Your morals are your problem to deal with. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO KEEP HER HOOKEDSure will work on girls with daddy issues. But what about the rest? It will not. Besides, the way you respond to comments is a dead giveaway of you being really inexpirienced in interactions with people in general or you just are this kinda person, toxic manipulator who prefers low self esteem girls. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 11:35 AM |
| 5 | AI in seductionIt's all based on the quality of data you feed it. Most data about seductions is garbage so that the results you'll get | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 05:10 AM |
| 4 | male to female ratio in miami for dating as a man?Your logical thinking will hinders you more then any ammount of guys in your area. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | would you rather live in a congested area with lots of available non traditional women or spread out area with not many available traditional women?I can't stand trad women. Easy answer. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Women put no effortBy game. Showing attractive personality traits like confidence, emotional stability, not being needy. By creating strong emotions. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 03:03 PM |
| 15 | Women put no effortBeing good looking doesn't equal being attractive. First you need to make them attracted to you to make them want to invest in the interaction. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I need helpIt sound like you compensating much. That's not attractive. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Which one is betterThat's a no from me, bro. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I have done 205 approaches since 18. 23 (m)Arę you analysing your every interaction and developing yourself accordingly? | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl from the strong love bond of ex!!!!!So you want to steal a girl that you think (want to think) is unhappy in a relationship? Am I right? | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 04:44 AM |
| 23 | Mystery method was wrongLike it's 2008 again | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Keeping eye contactWhy he shouldn't get that you like him? | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:43 AM |
| 6 | Seducing Single MothersIf fwb and ons is your objective, don't ask about the kid, don't be responsible and caring father figure, be fun and exciting. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How to attract females without saying anythingTrollin hard | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:38 AM |
| 2 | I have some questions about this community, because hearing about it explains so much, and also freaks me out.If I would guess this community is the least goal oriented from all male communitys. If somebody have ability to sleep with alot of women and isn't despered for any particular one, don't see a need to manipulate and be dishonest. This notion of faking a personality is to get laid is opposite to corner stone of (what I would called true) seduction/game basics, which is showing your true and authentic personality and developing more free of outcome, spontaneus, attractive self and losing insecurie… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what a shit test is"are you saying that to every girl?" | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 04:58 AM |
| 3 | First date guideIt's not the first date game. It's game and attraction in general. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Valentines meetup group adviceFirst learn the basics of game and get some expirience. It's too much pressure to go to this kinda event when you don't know what you're doin. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you look for eye contact first?No, I just approach | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 05:01 AM |
| 1 | how to seduce hot but stupid girlsThe same way all the others. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Hi! Iam 23m and i will start approaching women for the first time in my life so what are the fundamentals should I build and focus on?You can do cold approach wherever you like and feel comfortable at. Depends what you count as success. But don't think about it at this moment. The worst thing you can do is to attache your ego and emotional state to outcome. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:45 AM |
| 11 | Hi! Iam 23m and i will start approaching women for the first time in my life so what are the fundamentals should I build and focus on?At the beggining try to have fun, don't take it seriously and don't expect anything. Results come with time and focused effort. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Getting a new GF as a 21 year oldHell yea, bro. You got it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Why you're telling me this story? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:53 AM |
| 2 | What should I do?Befriend her, then game her. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.And what you conclusion is? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone read the Alan Roger Curie books and applied the "mode one" in real life?I read all three at the beggining of learning game. I liked the idea of being really upfront, but from more mature perspective, if it's not used in calibrated way it can hurt you. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.You don't get girls because there's probably many things you do wrong. Your anger and butthurtness and desperation is very obvious for women. The can feel this from mile away. It comes across in your subcommunication. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Indirect game makes no sense to meAt the beggining you don't need to | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Indirect game makes no sense to meIn interaction you can show your attractive qualities. You can invoke strong emotions. You can make her forget about her boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | How long a man should last in bed?How long man should last in bed? As long as he wants. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Indirect game makes no sense to mePoint is, that they wouldn't be confused, they would be attracted. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 04:45 AM |
| 3 | getting rejected on all approaches i made yetYou approached. Good. Don't go direct. Don't try to close. First try to not make it awkward. Talk to them like they are a human beings. Are you having problem with approach anxiety or low social skills? | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIThe fact that she wanted to have sex doesn't mean she was after hookup. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIYou didn't had sex, that's why she lost interest. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Girl isn’t interested after showing me IOIYou went to her apartament and didn't had sex. Why? | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Fear of successIs it fear of success or fear of rejection? | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Demographics problemClubbing. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Starting on a journeyGreat to hear that. Wish you the best brother. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | She's out of my league, will she leave me if I escalate now?You need to lose this notion of "she's out of my league". It will f*ck you up sooner or later. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | When you cold approach, apologize for the awkwardness.Never apologize for approaching. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt without being too directAnything irl? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt without being too directWhat your flirting looks like? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.It's the same principles as getting "normal" girls. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Patience with women...1 and 2 theory for sure Play role in your situation. But what do you mean by waste of investment? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Getting over the fear of rejectionThe things you said are true | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Finally did first Cold ApproachCold approach is my fav thing to do. I'm having a blast every time, no matter the outcome. When the fear dissapate and you'll be having fun, adding some little bits of attraction building will be a killer. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Patience with women...Are you having any fun in those interactions? | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Finally did first Cold ApproachHell yea. I'm so proud od you. The best thing you can do now is to do it again and again and again... You get my point. And to start having fun with it. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Getting over the fear of rejectionSome elephants are imaginary | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Here’s the 1 & only way to do itI will correct you dear sir, "you need game" that's it. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Am i too much ?Personally I prefer not texing girls too much in between dates. I got shot to do and it makes dates more exciting. If you need reassurance that can be a problem. Why you need it? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Getting over the fear of rejectionFirst get out of mindset of league ranking system. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:15 PM |
| 23 | Th power of saying no !You don't want girls, you want validation. Self esteem issues? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Not near my goals for development currently, keep working on myself or improve my game?Improve game. Your selfimage is holding you back. You won't achieve self love by working out and furthering career. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | The real reason I'm afraid to do cold-approaches.What I do? I just approach. I don't care if she's alone or with someone. If he boyfriend is there and will say something to me I will deal with situation depending on his reaction. After years in game I have 100% conviction I can manager any situation like that. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Overly Cold, Direct, Impatient ''Grumpy'' Attitude... could this have been an Indication of Interest ? or the complete opposite?It was more of a "fuck my life, another day at the office, and this fucker can't even take out his licence, Jesus". | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:55 AM |
| 0 | What should I do when girl says "My friend(F) and I are going to the bathroom"?Bad mindset. Let her go, you don't need her, there's plenty other girls around. Game them, if she liked you She'll come around, if she didn't liked you build social proof, that can turn her around. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:51 AM |
| 7 | ESP Number Guessing RoutineSounds like cringe | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueIf you want to take feedback from women on what they are attracted to, you won't have much success. To know that you need to find really self aware "female" or guys who observed it and influenced it. Your example is very shallow, if you'd dig deeper there is alot more. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueThe "things that woman traditionaly value" are not what attraction is. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Gently pushing back against her beliefsIt doesn't need to be superficial, but it cannot be that logical. Challenging yes, but not a debate style. You need to make her feel not think. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What's good?Too broad question. Try again | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What to do?Ask yourself why you care do much about her opinion of you and fix THIS. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Advice for young-ish newbieHow's your game in general? | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Please help me get closer to a woman I'm interested in for something stable.Befriend her, then game her. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 12:19 PM |
| 4 | The secret to how most guys become playas0/10 | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Women's Perspective - Key to Successfully Maintaining Casual RelationshipsWTF? In casual dating mans job and edication matters. Lol. And these league levels. You sound like a redpilled woman, if you're a woman. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Gently pushing back against her beliefsYou are getting into rational convo, bro. That's a no no | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Seems like frame control has 2 parts?In your gym eg. you're qualifying. These are shittest and we all know how to deal with them. Ignore, admit or exaggerate to start with. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | seducing our storage boyDon't do dr*gs kids | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Girl pushback when being cocky-funny. Advice?Maybe some specific example? | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?I'm not saying my approach is better in absolutne sense. If my client wouldn't like my approach, wouldn't feel comfortable with it, I would tell him to exaggerate with humor. I think my line have some important upisides, like for eg. bigger emotional impact. But we can argue. Most important for me in this line is screening. I don't want to pull any girl, that's not my thing anymore. If a girl would have a negative reaction causes by this line and my humor and way of being in general, we don't fi… | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl at work how to approach and general strategy?Befriend her, friendzone her, game her throughout this proces, let her to pull you. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Something or nothing?Yes, you're overthinking | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Approach a girlIntroverted autistic person is not a scum of the earth. Where this idea is coming from? If you're autistic you'll have hard time reading social cues and acting accordingly. It doesn't mean that you cannot learn that enought to get a beautiful girl. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?You can. It's too boring for me. If I can invoke more emotional impact while passing a shittest, I will choosed that. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Approach a girlSituation you described don't mean she's interested. You're overanalizing | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:25 PM |
| 8 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Are you gamin her? Creating attraction? How she respond to you? | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | When approaching a girl…And if you think that's a small step, you're wrong. Besides, it's not that clear cut, "she like you she’ll text you if she doesn’t like u she won’t". You can do alot game in text. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | When approaching a girl…Otherwise you depend on her to do the move. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:11 AM |
| 4 | What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dudeTreat her as if she's unattractive and you don't need anything from her. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | When approaching a girl…Take her number. Only option. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How to get backYou won't, right? | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?Amplify and funny is ok, but not cocky enought for my taste. Telling 22yo that she's too old for me is weak? OK | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 6 | How to handle girls who “just want to be friends first”Build more attraction | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Flirtation mistake: how I can fix itI'm sure she knows you're interested. Even too much. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 06:24 AM |
| 0 | Men in their late 30s - how has physical fitness helped your game?If you wanna workout do it for you. If you want to pull more (and more quality) focus on better game. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 07:43 AM |
| 19 | I fucked one up pretty badly. Age shit test?Shittest. Better respond would be "likewise" | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?At 35 my game is waaay better than at my 20s. How you building attraction in interactions? | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 07:37 AM |
| 0 | How to get backGet game | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Flirtation mistake: how I can fix itYou f up again by saying "we need to meet as soon as possible." You're too eager. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Why does the chick keep staring after rejection?She said she have a bf? That doesn't mean a thing. Did she tell you to f off? Or even "I'm not interested"? | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Liam Mcrae – Tinder Seduction Stories (2017) Book ReviewYou have no idea... | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you be yourself if you are just a very friendly guyIt sounds like you're fine with how things are. Do you want to change it? If so, what would be your goal? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with anxiety any time a girl over 7/10 talks to me?Feeling unworthy - therapy. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Question about eye contact.Left, rights, doesn't matter. Focus on one. You can change it during interaction of you like, but don't need to. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10sThose are shit tests. Be laid back don't push. Pass the shit test and let her come to you. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls like cookie cutter personalities so much?Sound like rationalisation. How's your game? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 08:55 AM |
| 12 | Eye contactIt's simple. If a girl you find beautiful makes eye contact with you, you say 'hi'. If a girl you find beautiful doesn't make eye contact with you, you say 'hi'. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 06:28 AM |
| 7 | Outcome Independence vs Being a Walk-Over - A Question on FundamentalsIf you are dating for fun of it, you don't care if she flaked in the past, you're just focused on present moment and fun. If you date seriously and she shows character traits or behaviour you don't like, you reject her. Don't try to make people fit your type or to change them. First couple dates should be fun, exciting. It's not that serious. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Whats your approach?In work scenario I'll friendzone her at the same time gameing her. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 11 | This question is more for the f boysPhone is just to setup the meeting. On a date you work your magic. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenCool, then you should try seduction | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenYou have no idea... | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I work on my looks more before cold approaching? Anytime I get a weird reaction from a girl I just think I’m ugly, wtf.Your face is good. With facial expression, smiling would be really good. Just go approach and work on your game. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Mind wanders off and so does eyesAccept it. The more you fight with it the bigger problem it will become. If there is a movement and you look and then look back where before, then it's not a big deal If you look at bare skin while seducing even better. Unless you stare, do you stare? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Making her qualify on dating appsIt's adorable | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys make of her behavior?Your post says different story. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Making her qualify on dating appsGame | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 04:54 PM |
| 6 | Making her qualify on dating appsNo idea what you mean by that. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 4 | What do you guys make of her behavior?So you called her after she unmatched to check - reactive. Next day you called and text her MANY times - unconfident, unsure, assuming being rejected. You made many errors. It would be better to yell "I'm despered" Move on. Work on your inner game, cos being so moved emotionaly by a girl you spoken to once on the phone is hella unattractive. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?No, watched alot rsd | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach & Casual Dating FatigueWhat is your point in the game? Why you do this? What it gives you? Why don't stop? Besides answering those questions, the surface level advice would be to make it more about your fun, not about the lay. Make game fun for you, even if it means losing the girl. Eg: tell her that you're a virgin after it goes really good or after sex or during, Or make up some harder achievments, like 3some or kiss with timer in your hand or pull without saying a word. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?If so, daygame would be the best, but if it's hard for you to find time, just focus on first step of group approach. Open them and say some comment or complement. If this won't mąkę you feel do stressed, try making short convo with them, if that would be easy for you, try to lead convo and be charismatic. If you'll get to this point with no fear go to the next point. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 04:17 PM |
| 18 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?Approach whole group, befriend them, tease the girl you're interested in. When she's vibin with you, isolate. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 03:58 PM |
| 6 | What's the best way to tell a woman that you don't live alone without killing the mood?It's nothing to worry about. If you want to make it more fun you can always say that you live with your gf, so you both need to be really quiet. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a maybeI don't know, Man. It really feels like you push her to give you concrete answer that she will commit to and you do it in logical way with no emotional spike. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 27 | Push / pull workout before a datePush pull before a date and push pull on a date. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Trip to Poland. Any advice?There's nothing specjal about Polish girls. Just go indirect direct, fun vibe. Basics. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Any good movies with womanizers?I mainly based my opinion on his interviews and demenor in general. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Wondered about openers and how can i be more playful during the convoJust approach, don't judge it. Don't put so much pressure on it. You don't need to be funny, playful or anything. First tackle aa, then think about making it better. Have you tried indirect? | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Quick questionBeing upfront works, but this line is too invested. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 03:46 AM |
| 2 | How to approach a moving set / a girl who's walking4 out of 5 of your fears are connected to your ego. You need to lose that. Get rejected as many times as you can. | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | "Right place, Right game, Right time"Context and reading the room is important, sure. But, aren't you affraid that guys who need game advice will read another advice like "analyse and calibrate before open" or "words you say matters"? Besides, exemple 2 is good no matter where you are. I would use it even during funeral. example 1 is direct so you jus handicap yourself form the get go. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Any good movies with womanizers?NO | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Any good movies with womanizers?Russell Brand would pull like hell even if he'd be homeless. James Bond is a male virgin idea of seductive man. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Approaching on Community College CampusYea, you know man, it's this humidity in this basement. Love you. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | M20 I got caught cheating on my perfect girl what should I do?All depends on why you've done it? | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:54 PM |
| 12 | How to lead a conversation?Topics can be boring, flirt is in the way you talk, topics are irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachI wouldn't say that it's more natural. What is more natural, then walking down the street and somebody cought your eye. If they felt uneasy, they could lie. If they didn't want to lie, because they value their friendship, but still felt uneasy telling truth, it doesn't sound like firends that should be valued. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Approaching on Community College CampusI would probably said something like "I really wouldn't want to be in the shoes of somebody who pissed you of like that" or I wouldn't even mention it until her responce and then calibrate with some humor. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Approaching on Community College CampusClosed of body language doesn't mean alot. It can be just a resting bitch face. If they're in a hurry you can use false time constraint. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachLow volume | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Approaching on Community College CampusWhat do you mean by they don't look apprachable? How did you approach them til now? | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Got a date for the first time in forever, help a guy outDon't try to play it safe. It's boring. Don't have any expectations. Including the ones you've got. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Besides clubs and high end malls what are other places to increase your numbers?Hit the street | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Sales and womenIf you want to sale yourself to a woman, you already failed. Flip the script. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Stop Clowning YourselfI didn't know Marylin Monroe stutter | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Can Attract but not secure a dateWhat do you mean by "attract them"? | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 03:08 PM |
| 18 | Which game works best for someone you see regularly?Game her while friendzoning her. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | What's a good opening phrase?"oi" | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Her Attraction vs Her Expectations during dating & relationshipsAnd if you didn't sustain these emotions or incorporate other and let her be bored with you, you fucked up | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:54 PM |
| 2 | I feel bad for these young girls, confession.Same age, similar story. I do fbw rather than ons, but still feel the same. I just am really upfront with my lifestyle and what I do trying to feel what she's up to. If I feel any neediness or fake non neediness I don't sleep with her. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:49 PM |
| 14 | Her Attraction vs Her Expectations during dating & relationships"her attraction for you gradually falls, the sex gets less frequent and the blow jobs less passionate. The nagging starts, and no matter what you do as a man she is not satisfied" If that's the case you've done something wrong. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:38 PM |
| -5 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Imagine being so despered for sex that you avoid being friends with women. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Should i have been more stubborn?"She then told me her parents wouldn't allow it, didn't really ask why just said to her she could sneak out (in a playful manner)." That killed me. Her line was rejection or shit test and you responded with logical solution. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:09 PM |
| 18 | Dating App Advice: Ask her how she’s enjoying the app?Bro... Overthinking, Writing dialogues, Her possible responces, This notion that you "win" either respond you'll get, Saying that you're honest and upfront, Or that you have kinks in second message, With I'm-not-like-like-the-other-guys attidute, sounds psychotic | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 01:50 PM |
| 7 | Learning to let go of outcomeIf you know stoicism you know it's not about abundance but about not giving a fuck about abundance nor scarcity | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 02:31 PM |
| 47 | How to talk endlesslyIt's not about getting better at taking. You just need to leave your head. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Advice Needed (Only from those with Advanced GameYou got it | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Does it matter how long to wait to approach a woman after she just rejected someone previously? Night-game setting.You're thinking too much. Just go. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Advice Needed (Only from those with Advanced GameYour reaction was caused by level of your emotional investment. It seems like you invested alot. The important questions is why you invested that much? | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 03:51 AM |
| 4 | The opener that works everytime (even on a funeral)It's not natural, spontaneous thing to say. It's not a good line. It sounds like you were thinking what to say. What do you mean it work every time? You know what works? "Hi" | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | The opener that works everytime (even on a funeral)Yes | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | LuckWhat you mean that game is near impossible? Do you even know what game is? | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | A failed attemptWhat do you mean "thought that there is a chemistry"? What signs you get from her? You didn't talk to her proper, gave her your number like a kid in in middle school. Probably didn't show her your attractive side. If you did, how you did it? Where you flirting, teasong, showing your personality, qualifying her? Talk to her longer, get her attracted, then pull the trigger. She need to like you and want to give her number to you before you ask. Get her number don't give her yours. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:59 AM |
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