Keeping eye contact

A1Horizon · 2025-02-04T00:09:25+00:00

I can’t speak for everyone but I’d say eye contact and a smile. If I see a girl that’s obviously trying to look away from me, I’m instinctively gonna assume it’s not a good reason she’s doing that.

Eye contact with no smile is very 50/50, you could be interested in me, but I can’t really tell, how long you hold eye contact might help, but it may start to get awkward at a certain point.

Eye contact with a smile is always a good move. Especially if you make eye contact first and smile after it’s definitely a solid hint there’s potential interest there

LucaCoco_ · 2025-02-04T04:43:19+00:00

Why he shouldn't get that you like him?

Wing_Inevitable · 2025-02-03T23:38:28+00:00

Keeping eye contact

It generally applies to women. It seldom works on men. Hell I hate when a woman does that to me. And I’m quite used to it.

When I see a cute guy that I’d actually like, I tend to look far away from him as he doesn’t exist.

Fair.

Looking at him, keeping an eye contact or smiling for the sake of giving a hint that I like him never works for me.

Cuz that is a woman thing - also I still get creeped out by it and I’m used to doing it.

It is extremely weird - good news for guys it isn’t a required skill.

So you don’t have to learn it :)

I feel extremely uncomfortable as if he shouldn’t get that I like him.

Cuz you are uncomfortable with sex (or tension) which is quite normal and you shouldn’t worry about it.

Anyone experiences the same thing or someone that could overcome this?

1 by looking at a single spot in a wall for prolonged periods of time.

2 Practice with people you know

3 Practice with random people

What should I do?

Just be upfront and ask him out. There you go problem solved - no needed complications here

_SKUL_ · 2025-02-04T00:49:16+00:00

Do more than eye contact, step it up

Dandys3107 · 2025-02-04T10:05:08+00:00

If you can't make a leap, take a step. Come closer to the guy, take open posture, speak up, look at him just for a little bit. Anxiety may be an obstacle or a signpost.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-04T02:46:05+00:00

Def gonna need to at least hold eye contacts and smile. Guys NEED obvious hints to approach you so the more obvious you can make it the better

liftingnstuff · 2025-02-04T18:00:23+00:00

Eye contact, smile, bite your lip, if he doesn't do anything after that he doesn't get it or is a pussy or isn't interested.

PleaseDontBeTakenPlz · 2025-02-05T01:12:15+00:00

Start with making eye contact with men you’re not attracted to, smiling, and saying hi.

Gradually you’ll get confident speaking to all men, I promise.

throwaway193867234 · 2025-02-07T02:23:12+00:00

It's like that for most people. Like we don't have much trouble maintaining eye contact with people we're not attracted to, but if we are attracted it suddenly becomes really tense and awkward.

It's just a matter of building confidence, it's not easy

Title	Keeping eye contact
Author	drunk-reactor
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	February 3, 2025 10:49 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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