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| 61 | Best cold approach openers | Outer Game | Wing_Inevitable | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:59 PM |
| 16 | Sexual tension | Fundamentals | Wing_Inevitable | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:25 PM |
| 15 | The fewest skills for Advanced game. | Fundamentals | Wing_Inevitable | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 11:35 PM |
| 12 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guide | Fundamentals | Wing_Inevitable | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 05:59 AM |
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| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?I think that she probably knew he didn’t fuck the girl, so I don’t think it made him look hot. The only way I can disprove that statement is to tell you That isn’t how that works. See emotions and thinking or knowing don’t mix well. Otherwise the hot criminal - wouldn’t be south after (google Jeremy Ray Meeks - for more info) and that isn’t a one off thing (Hybristophilia) Since logically (if you think about it for more than a second) he is a CRIMINAL. “Emotionally he is hot so fuck that.” Women… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?Preselection isn’t supposed to be a violation, right? 1 Never heard that before. 2 what is the violation EMOTIONALLY ? Stop looking at it with logic - IT IS AN EMOTION. So how does rubbing competition I. Her face help at all of the date is already set? It creates an emotions - so it helps getting a beneficial result out of the date (aka IT helps with getting laid) In that case she could’ve just canceled the date, because what girl wants to compete for a guy she hardly even wanted to go on a date… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?Isn’t that risky? Why would it be ? You are obviously new. It is less risky being a dick than playing it nice. Where did he get the nerve if he had such a little chance to begin with? Balls win. Women like men that take risks. he was playing the “sniper” game. So what kind of sniper goes and switches to preselection when they already locked a date in? No idea what that is, but the guy that killed his target. (In this case got the date) He is just in increasing his chances (significantly in this … | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?Can you answer it in this context please: I can and will There is a guy who is unattractive. Doesn’t matter. Emotions overwhelm logic for women. Pre-selection > he be ugly. In her mind A girl I know went on the first date with him (after they had known each other for like a month and a half) just one day after he posted an Instagram reel of him clubbing. In the reel, part of it showed a girl dancing (a couple feet away from him but looking at the camera) He was touching the girl’s arm above the … | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls? Depends. It is a nuanced thing. This one guy takes selfies with girls at the club and posts them. He also takes group photos with girls at the club. That works. The setting is a normal to hang out. As long as the pictures look like the people are there willingly it works. It also has the added benefit of girls having tun and the picture attributing it to him. When other girls see this, what do they think? Depends. Maybe even nothing… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:47 PM |
| 4 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsI played it 30 or so times and I have a few things that you can improve: 1 Rule number something in game : You are under no obligation to answer logically. It has critiqued me multiple times for answering nonsensically Sadly that is a great frame control tool that gets completely destroyed for no reason. One of the most outrageous examples her is “weird”. I however have 0 idea how you will train an AI to value nonsense. 2 It takes my “Pff” “Ewww” or “K” as bad or mid answers. Those are my go to … | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 12:47 PM |
| -3 | For guys, why do you want a woman?For guys, why do you want a woman? Sex. Someone to do shit for me while I get to fuck other women. WTF is this question. Life sucks, having someone to make it suck less. Apart from sex, what compels you to pursue women? I don’t pursue. That would involve me being under them in some form or another. If you mean why I give them a chance to impress me. Just to elevate the boredom. Hell I took a 6 month break from letting them impress me … that opened a new can of worms I’m dealing with. Like I actu… | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 04:37 PM |
| -1 | HELP!!! I am obsessed with womenHELP!!! I am obsessed with women Sounds normal. Like that is the whole point you are on this earth. The problem is idk whether this is my masculine drive to think of women this much This. Look you are probably a kid. Still have hormones pumping you up. It is normal - I have gotten erections from a hole in a tree. You should probably fuck some of them. i also take learning seduction a lot more seriously than my actual school work Now here is a question - when will you use the Pythagorean theorem … | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | To pua“let her win you over” Let her prove she is worth fucking. “dont let her win you everytime” Give her SOME validation, but never the whole thing. Instead of saying “I love you, YOU ARE MY GODESS, I would let you Nail my balls to chair for a single moment with you” Say “You are not so bad. We can hang” escalation or having sex it means i have to let her win 100%. so why second advice? Meh, she is lucky to get cock. (This type of thinking) | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Did I overreact?Yes. Just like Criminal Is more attractive than any of them. Prove me wrong. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Did I overreact?I thought you wanted to give logical arguments, I did. but all I read is you hating on doctors and comparing them with the richest of the rich of celebs. Alesso is a C list dude. Sean -was never rich or famous. Just because you decided “Doctor” was hot - doesn’t mean it is true. Makes no sense. Why ? You’re ignoring the real question, now let’s get back to reality and planet earth, I wasn’t. You just can’t read. Which is also your problem as well as being extremely annoying and mentally ill. is … | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Did I overreact?You are annoying me I’m about to block you. I’m not your mother - go deal with your own shit on your own time. money will never get me a girlfriend. Yes it won’t. It might get you robed however. I’ll give you an example why looks and genetics will always beat money/social status. Why would I take anything you say seriously? Also FAME is a hell of a drug. So you would be wrong AGAIN. but he’s a doctor and makes good money Doctor is a bad profession for getting women. Fight me. Give me a A list ce… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionthat works only if you’re a blonde and tall guy with Western ethnicity, One of the sources is a short brunette dude. actually you don’t even need all that “game” crap if you’re that guy. Sure. If you’re an average looking/short guy with some other ethnicitiy, everything and anything you do is creepy, even merely existing Ok. Live in misery. source: my own experiences) Sucks to suck I guess. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Did I overreact?what’s the point of having money if I suck at everything? No idea. Well you could date a 30+ year old gold-digger. It would never be a normal romance/loving relationship, while if you’re poor Aaaaaa. https://youtu.be/JaWYCr9r8Ks?si=Z911u5mVSyWxOHBn Chad blonde and tall, you get to experience love, feelings, genuine reltionships, I agree. And he deserves it. average looking rich guy can only dream of those things Ok. What you want me to tell you differently. You are offering MONEY. So you get an … | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Did I overreact?op is simply being honest to himself and to the girl. Different philosophies. Also “Honesty” and “being mean for no reason” aren’t the same thing. What you are telling me is “I disagree” and me calling you “a stupid fat perverted fuck” is the same. I don’t believe in imaginary confidence sway, And I don’t believe Nerds exist - yet the internet proves me wrong every day. So now we can both live in fantasy land. if you’re poor, you’re poor and definitely out of her league, Since when is money a le… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:08 PM |
| -1 | Did I overreact?Did I overreact? Overreact IDK . But you are defiantly stupid. Also - you brought this on yourself. By texting the way you do. She then requests a different restaurant nearby which is as twice as more expensive. You made all that happen. She is quite stunning and I think she is used making guys to bend to her conditions. You do know that I can see her face in the screenshots ? She is like mid level attractive for Moscow (at least when I was there 5 or so years ago) did I overreact by immediately… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?It is option 3 (doing all 3 would be stupid) Ryan Reynolds in Van Wilder type, Stifler -American Pie type. The most popular - dude. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex?Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex? Sorta. You could just copy what is attractive from it - If you want to FEEL like a good person. “confidence” Confidence - is seen differently by men and women. Men - think logically - so IF it seems like your confidence doesn’t match reality - you become arrogant. Women - think emotionally - so there is no LOGICAL limit. Aka there is never too much. This was your explanation. Now for the positive qualities (to get 85% of the effect) Uns… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Mystery method was wronghttps://youtu.be/3ulAZhXL4uE?si=fuB2MIWEErzCGDD7 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTk9N4nGzUo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POcuCvFtGTE The first things that came up - WHEN I GOOGLED IT. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About DatingShe shared that she’d always struggled with feeling pretty or confident in her looks, which was wild to me because, objectively, she was stunning. I asked her why she felt that way, and she started talking about her past experiences with guys. Hahahhahahah. Hahahah. Ha. Rule something in game : 1 Ignore anything that doesn’t help you 2 Don’t be her psychologist Also you fell for the oldest trick in the book. her ex-boyfriend was incredibly possessive and toxic. And she dated him - so she likes o… | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How can I take good pictures for a dating profile by myself? Also, I’d like your opinion on the one I made using the photos I already have.How can I take good pictures for a dating profile by myself? Wear cool outfits, use proper lighting. Do cool shit in them. It is recommended to get a photoshoot - so you don’t have to figure out photograph yourself. Also, I’d like your opinion on the one I made using the photos I already have. My profile - https://imgur.com/a/UlPMkfX 1-5 can go. Also change the bio. How can I take good pictures of myself without feeling awkward? How you feel is up to you. how can I find someone to take photos fo… | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 12:03 PM |
| -2 | Who do the really attractive women on the apps actually date?Coping with what ? | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Men: Stop wearing headphones in the gym.Ain’t happening. It is my happy place - I’m not about to ruin it for a random woman. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face?Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face? Edit: This was dead before it started. It might be smarter to let this one die in silence. She kept on accepting dates which kept on getting canceled and rescheduled. Call her out in a nice way “I really don’t like flakes” she is not right headspace for dating Translation : “I’m currently fucking someone else and I like him a lot” but she doesn’t totally rule me out. Translation :”But you seem like a person that would stick around till/… | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:26 AM |
| -7 | Who do the really attractive women on the apps actually date?Who do the really attractive women on the apps actually date? No one. HOT women don’t need apps. If they are on the apps - NO ONE WANTS THEM IRL who actually dates these women, or who do they actually date? IRL - Me, Athletes, Hot guys, Rich people etc. On Apps - no one. Just look at the first list and think - “Why don’t those men want her ?” with the knowledge that men are willing to tolerate a lot for a hot piece of ass. Apps have a way of really fucking up your perception of reality. It is li… | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How to know when you fucked up vs just chalking it up to the game?Yea. The short of it is “If you talk to the girl and not get your dick wet - You fucked up somewhere” | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?Im sorry, I think your values are a bit different than mine and you really dont understand that. We can talk again in 5 years. I am a simple guy who is waiting for marriage and looking for a girl who is the same. I’m sorry - This is 2025. They stoped making that model. You’d have to marry a 16 year old (and that is still a small amount of them) I meet lots of these girls but they only see me as a friend because they are like 20 at most and I am 27. I’m 27 and mostly date 18 to 22 year olds and t… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 02:25 PM |
| 2 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?So first of all I will answer the main questions since I had to ask for church girls in particular. The advice in general is Go to things that are church gatherings. The 3 types of people that get laid are: 1 Ultra rich cool hot - church dude. 2 Ex con/prisoner looking for redemption Get tattoos. 3 Famous hot Christian dude. So pick your poison. I gave you a little description. Sadly you picked a place that has 100 dudes that are competing for maybe 5 hot girls. Good luck outcompeting the rest o… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How to know when you fucked up vs just chalking it up to the game?How to know when you fucked up vs just chalking it up to the game? 2 ways : The one I used Take a 100% after the open (since that isn’t fixable) as the norm. So IF you open - not getting laid is you fucked up. The 80% rate I keep giving out is only because there are scenarios which happen so little - it would be useless to learn it. This way you also find - where you lose the most sets. The second one: Decide it is just numbers and continue being mid. This one is better for beginners since they … | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?I am outdoorsy and christian and like girls who are the same. Those are not good things. Modern people are lazy. Also you become “activity dude” - you know that guy you do that thing with. I am involved with church groups as well as hobby groups.Doing this has led me to no girls who I would be interested in, as well as no girls who are still single. Well what do you want ? I have no idea. I have met 1 semi hot church girl in my life. And she was rebellious as fuck. Also a born again virgin - whi… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Why just why are we so scared?The T-Rex killing you ? Like it could and would do it | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Why just why are we so scared?It is your brain doing a probability check for getting the value(in this case the girl). Since you go in sink or swim - It takes the danger as ultra high. And with 0 xp - chances supper low. Fixes include lovering the goal. Example : “I will talk to her” as the goal Or decreasing the danger Example : “she already loves me” Or increasing motivation is there an evolutionary reason for this? Yea It keeps you alive. Imagine you are out hunting and see a clutch of T-Rex eggs. Scenario 1: There is not… | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 09:10 PM |
| 0 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want? I will need to know what girls you like to tell you if that is even possible. Keep in mind a lifestyle won’t make the women come to you - it will just make them want to stick around you. I wanna open a dialogue on this because this appears to be kinda late game strategy for a lot of guys, and there seems to be attitude that “it’ll come naturally” that I’m not finding to be true. It won’t - You will actively have to work on it. , a lose… | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 07:17 PM |
| 7 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?How do you get as many hookups as possible? 1 Lower your standards like a ton. 2 spend and unneeded amount of time learning studding and practicing (like 2 decades) to be able to pull a magical trick out of your ass for every situation. 3 Do what my dad did and be the king of the university - it has limits. In all cases you will realise it isn’t really worth it. And then feel bad about it. I’m in college and want to go through my hoe phase and even though I do cold approach a lot of girls I stil… | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 11:45 AM |
| 4 | Keeping eye contactKeeping eye contact It generally applies to women. It seldom works on men. Hell I hate when a woman does that to me. And I’m quite used to it. When I see a cute guy that I’d actually like, I tend to look far away from him as he doesn’t exist. Fair. Looking at him, keeping an eye contact or smiling for the sake of giving a hint that I like him never works for me. Cuz that is a woman thing - also I still get creeped out by it and I’m used to doing it. It is extremely weird - good news for guys it … | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | I have some questions about this community, because hearing about it explains so much, and also freaks me out.I just didn’t think I’d be welcome on here not as an elderly woman but just as a woman in general as this is a man subreddit. You seem cool. And you asked a genuine question. I don’t see a reason to discriminate. I don’t know why you would blame women. It was a joke. It didn’t land. I meet people with no goal most of the time so I don’t understand your perspective but at least now I know it exists. I think there was a miscommunication somewhere. We all have goals. I already date queer people. Go… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How to attract females without saying anythingHow to attract females without saying anything Be loud loose and certain - aka confidence. Casanova He also said : “I don’t conquer I submit” He kinda just says random shit that sounds romantic on paper. Wearing Military pants Worst style advice. Either wear a suit (which is universal) or where some bad boy shit (which is just slightly more attractive to younger women/ daddy issues types) There you go No more needed style make you more perceivable as Dominant And that is a positive because ? roc… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?Ooo my dad bitches too - My mom never did cuz she communicates with young women. Here are your options for kids with no dating : 1 surrogate mother kids no woman (the dream I know) 2 Impregnate a girl in a committed relationship You get kids and someone to pay for them. Win- win 3 Be in a FBW/roommate relationship with a woman - dump her ass after she gives birth Has the negative of you having to pay child support 4 you know you can date a girl without marring her - has the same negatives as bef… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How does a relationship form?What are the typical implications that an exclusive relationship has begun if both parties never explicitly declare that they are an exclusive couple moving forward? First it is 2025 - those don’t exist anymore Second - You are trying to overcomplicate a simple process Step 1 - Fuck multiple times Step 2 start spending increasingly more time together Step 3 …. Step 4 Profit …. I mean form a relationship. If you are asking when it is a good time to stop fucking other people - Whenever you feel li… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?I don’t think it matters how you try to word it. It seems like cheating to me. It was bullshit - that was the joke. (those were her words - translated to English) I don’t think most women are very trust worthy. I have met a few in my life - usually coming from a Russian or more traditional upbringing. Sadly you are generally correct. Better off being the side dick guy than the main 10/10 times. I see no negatives to that. And I really tried to find one. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 06:45 PM |
| -5 | Ok, we know how to flirt. How does it look like when, women flirt?This would be like if someone wrote a phd thesis on flirting but was wrong in most of it. Really? And where am I wrong exactly ? And tried to be funny but wasn’t K | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 06:22 PM |
| -10 | Ok, we know how to flirt. How does it look like when, women flirt?Ok, we know how to flirt. How does it look like when, women flirt? Same as guys. And just like guys the level of skill varies from ultra shit to sometimes ok. And sometimes you meet a professional. “how to flirt and tease women”, blah blah blah, etc, etc. I have seen 1 (this one) and I have been back a mount. Keep in mind if that is what you search ot talk about in your day to day - Google keeps track and sends you more of it. It wouldn’t make sense that men and women flirt the exact same, in a … | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 05:51 PM |
| 10 | Are guys that work in porn good at pick up/game?Are guys that work in porn good at pick up/game? From the guys I know - LOL. naturally good at game because of their job, Their job is to 90% of the time poorly bang women. It is purely for a visual stimulus. You can try and copy it and see it will vary from mid to bad sex. or they need to study/practice game like most guys trying to get girls in a regular setting. Most guys don’t need to study shit. The people that NEED to are an exception - the minority. You do understand that learning game is… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?So she’s just cheating lol No no no. Think of it as a moment of bliss in an otherwise boring, mundane and tedious life. It is hurting No one and it is only for a moment of pleasure. This is why I’ll probably never get married You do you - I don’t see a reason you should. But having a life partner is probably fine. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?Usually the idea of advice is to be able to be used. Standards here must have really gone down hill - if you expected anything different. For shits and giggles the same advice in an unusable form : “ 1 Look at the human in front of you seeing deeply the human that is there , as the time starts to slow and somehow pass faster. Imagine you two coming together as like a puzzle ready to be a beautiful picture. Making sure she knows a man is speaking to a woman. 2 as the puzzle comes together speak t… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 3 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?A we were 18 when we met - we still fuck on occasion - so almost 10 years now. She is married now. Though It is still ongoing | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?What did you expect ? “You need to feel her inner core as a being and get an erection while looking her as the human she is “ | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I have some questions about this community, because hearing about it explains so much, and also freaks me out.I have some questions about this community, because hearing about it explains so much, and also freaks me out. Late thirties woman here, please ignore if that bothers you. OMG - a mythical beast. Jokes aside - why would your age bother anyone? I’m genuinely curious. but more like an object or a goal. This has nothing to do with this nerds. You are confusing them with an actual psychopath. This guys are either searching for that “genuinely want to know you” or you know are good enough to fake the… | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Where do you guys get the endurance?It isn’t harder - just different. Most guys that get good in person - suck on apps and those good in apps suck IRL . I haven’t had any bad interactions but can’t get deeper. Some advice - just focus on sexual tension - dump the deep shit - any girl will all fizzle out with deep stuff. you are right that I am relatively attractive. I know - cuz they tolerate your deep talk. You also have some lack - like lack of muscles or hight. Cuz it doesn’t happen often. the only downside is I’m on the shorte… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?Slow down your speech (talk slooooweeeeeeeer , have … more …. Or /and …… longer……….. pauses) , have more proximity (be closer) , Keep eye contact and don’t break it. Talk in her ear Use innuendo and distracted kino. There you go enjoy | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?Is my opinion about dating the reason I’m having trouble getting laid? I want sex but don’t want to commit. That sounds about on point for most of us. Unless she is awesome I have always viewed dates as a way of getting to know each other, so that it might lead to a relationship. Dates are to establish that “you make her wet” and “she makes you hard” - It has nothing to do with “getting to know each other. It should lead to sex - relationships are wayyyyy later. I haven’t asked any girl on any o… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys get the endurance?Where do you guys get the endurance? Maca. For 2025 I decided to start meeting women in person. as a guy that was successful on dating apps this was going to be a new experience. Oooo you are about to have a shit time. IRL - you have to be a bit out there - cuz you have to get attention. During January I put myself out there and ended up having two connections that went past just pleasantries. That sounds a lot better than most newbies. You must be good looking. Give your parents a cookie. Also … | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true?Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true? Seeing Michael “BABE” Sartain - probably Not. Considering he NEVER had much game to speak off - and probably tried outboating people - Yeaaa the bigger boat wins in that case From the one month I spend there - No, most people are normal. People did tend to be a lot looser about sex than what I’m used to. And from what I have seen women will generally ignore flashy things if something more emotionally stimulating is in front of t… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with fluidity in seductionHow did you feel when you first started noticing these patterns in yourself? Nothing. I told you that didn’t work for me. Was there a specific moment or interaction that really clicked for you when you realized you were starting to break the cycle? I told you I used the psychotic method. So it was kinda just painful and for a while I was more afraid of being nice than anything else . Eventually I normalised just on the opposite side - Aka “I can be nice IF I want to” instead of “I’m nice even if… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with fluidity in seductionbut I never really thought about forcing myself to relive the moment until it causes pain. That is how most “natural” fuckboys are born - the girl they loved caused the pain - technically. Seems intense. It kinda is. Still it is a last resort kinda thing. I just couldn’t stop myself from being nice. Even though I saw it coming and I still did it. The second option makes more sense to me—just constant reps and self-awareness. I do recommend it and it seems to work for most people. How did you per… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Struggling with fluidity in seductionAnyone else gone through this? Yes sorta. The way I did it. Your reaction should be different - feel pain instead of anger. And you will auto adjust in like a month. Like make yourself relive the moment till the emotions cause you pain Anger isn’t a punishing emotions since it is fleeting. (Like happiness) The less psychotic way which people swear by (It didn’t work for me but niceness was deeply ingrained in me ) Repetition and catching yourself if you do it. I do recommend the second option si… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Pursue without “chasing”?Pursue without “chasing”? Nuance. It is just a narrow behaviour pattern. Like the middle between them. I will give you an example: “Do you want to go on a date?” - would be chasing “Let’s go on a date ?” Is a middle ground where it depends on how you ask it. “Monday , mojitos , 8 pm !” - would be pursuing without chasing. See how that works. I hear this get repeated a lot but never really understood it. Cuz it is a narrow behaviour and no one stud there explaining nuance for 15 min. It really is… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong?Something involving talking (how to talk / Vibing/ Convo tips/ make conversation etc) for vibing And something involving general behaviour (how to act/ how to walk/how to stand / being calm, comfortable etc) for fundamentals I really don’t have time to re- read books to give you a more clear answer | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Are cute,hot and handsome the same for guys, if not how are they different and how they treated by womenYeah, women change in the daily basis throughout the cycle. That is some myth - probably trying to explain Emotions - logically. If you let your emotions dictate what you want - you will want a Goth girl one day, a nerd girl the next and a bitchy girl on the third. If a model looking girl decides to try and fuck you. It will change that daily want. You can take 2 things from that : 1 I wouldn’t put too much stock into everything I read on the internet. 2 As long as you can make her wet. You are … | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Strong Day Game, no night gameNo offence. I didn’t mean to offend you. Hell this was me tame. You should however transition in to a less verbal style of game. You can create any emotion - non verbally. Also do replace that deep connection shit with sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Strong Day Game, no night gameAnd I answers his question. In the club - you can’t go trying to talk to people (which will kill any dancing/fun vibes) and sit there trying to build a deep connection. (Which isn’t stimulating enough to keep attention) He should focus on sexual tension and dump that useless shit. So why should he ignore it ? | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 06:09 PM |
| -5 | Strong Day Game, no night gameStrong Day Game, no night game Nerd type connection game doesn’t work in Night game. It barely works in daygame . There reason solved. I (27M) have a strong day game. I’m confident stopping girls on the street, getting their number, going on dates, and escalating things. So dates and numbers aren’t nightgame things. You either plow or you are plowed. Rejection doesn’t phase me—I can easily talk to 10 girls in public and get their number. Great you want a medal ? seem to translate my success into… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 02:07 PM |
| 25 | Do you have experiences seducing "good girls"?Do you have experiences seducing “good girls”? Works exactly the same + tip toe around sex instead of being more upfront about it. So i feel like most of the usial tips and tricks are for women that are already quite romantically and sexually open, It is the opposite. You can’t get a hot whore acting like a connection nerd type. How do you people even think that it would work on a sexually active girl ? She presents herself as well mannered, intelligent and a “good girl”. Sooo that is what is ca… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort?How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort? Reframe the emotion. I know this one dude. 6’3 football player, southern accent in California, blonde curly hair and blue hunter eyes, really handsome dude. Seems like a hot dude - props to his parents. You should have picked better parents. All the girls we hang with flock to him. I had that with my cousin when we were younger. It was hilarious. They’re asking about how his day is, about his family, about his hobbies,… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong?All of them. They might be named differently or interwoven in the text - but every book has those things. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | "Pick-up artists"“Pick-up artists” Edit: What is with people and this hate? Do you know many “pick up artists” - that are not on the internet ? Have you been a part of that community ? No - you just see some nerds on the internet - that act like they know shit SAYING they are “pick up artists”. Also - that was NEVER the name. It was a slang term some nerds - that were NEVER a part of it to describe themselves. We never called ourselves OR each other that. This is just a call for a general discussion regarding th… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | When does the dating pool truly start to shrink?The article says “it was applied to childless men from 25 to 50 years of age and to childless women from 20 to 45 years of age. “ Now I will go on wikipedia and write “Several_Ad is a big Dudu head.” See how long that last. I even told you how to do research. Look you can find it out on your own. Find the law and translate it. Then read it with some comprehension. Aka not like you read studies. Your original question was - Which communist country had that policy? I showed you where to find it. A… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Breaking things off with a girl I really like?When you say basic manipulation, what do you mean? I mean you only like her - cuz she is using a game trick where she gives you little hints - that you are wining her over - the more you try. It is like basic game. (Operant conditioning) And as far as letting people in, you don’t think she’s the person for that? You do you. I just prefer different girls. Keep in mind I don’t know her or you. I just have your word to go of off. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Breaking things off with a girl I really like?Hey guys. I’ve been in the game for a while, banged some 70 women, but feel like I’m losing myself in this girl I’m seeing now. She’s one of the coolest girls I’ve met in a while. We’ve been on like 11 dates, fcked a lot, but I can tell she’s emotionally guarded from past relationships. So you have “banged” 70 women and when the exact same thing you do to girls is done to you - You fall in love. What do you want here? a solid dinner and gave a handwritten note. This is gonna get mocked to oblivi… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong?Constantly fail with women what am I doing wrong? Edit : Do what the book - whichever one This So I’ve noticed that I constantly don’t attract women and even when we talk it seems like the conversation is that I get generic responses from women like I was at a doctor’s office. And this : I’ve read countless books on dating, everything from Neil Strauss’s The Game to everything else you can imagine. It hasn’t helped to be honest, just made me more confused. Are contradictions since 1) Mindset is … | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 08:08 PM |
| -1 | Seriously…🤦🏽♂️Don’t lose your frame just because you want to get a dateSeriously…🤦🏽♂️Don’t lose your frame just because you want to get a date Ok. I disagree but maybe you have a point somewhere. And he is wondering whether that is a cultural norm in her country It ain’t. or something that he may reluctantly have to adapt to just to have the chance to go out with her. Aaaaaa. He doesn’t have to do shit. See here is my disagreement - The frame is “You are a peasant, buy me shit” He doesn’t have a frame to lose. He already fucked himself. I told him, you give her th… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What is the code I'm need to crack?Great now go tell somebody that you didn’t spend the last 2h pissing off. Edit : I will help, but I’m going to be a dick about it. So when I meet a woman, I talk to her about general stuff. Ewwwww. What she does, her hobbies, interests, career goals, etc. And all that is related to sex how exactly? After 2-3 days I ask her for insta which she gives happily and we start talking there. Again not related to sex in any way. Day pass by where we get to know each other and the moment I try to escalate… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the code I'm need to crack?Good now go do that so someone decides to help you | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the code I'm need to crack?Looks like you didn’t read the post properly. No I did. You told me shit. You said - I’m finishing my degree and I’m a virgin from India. I have NO idea - where you meet the women, what do you say to them, how you go about dating them. I don’t even know a rough outline of what you do. I’ve mentioned it in the very 1st line about what I do. What is the code I’m need to crack? I’m 25M residing in Mumbai. I’m in the last level of a professional course and my training will start any time this year. … | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the code I'm need to crack?I just gave a summary of each friend of mine so that it’ll help others to figure out the problem. I want to ask you a question. My friend Jane makes 16 k per mount - how did she become my friend ? Not easy when I give you totally unrelated information, is it. As per your format if I just write ‘how do I get pussy? As per the format - You want me to write a step by step guide which would be about IDK 200 pages in comment form or do you want to ask a specific question which I could answer. All my … | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What is the code I'm need to crack?What is the code I’m need to crack? I read it 4 times and I have 0 idea what you are asking. Like how the fuck AM I SUPPOSED TO KNOW WHAT MENTAL HICUPS YOU HAVE. And what code - you think women work like ATMs - you pit in the pin and Congrats pussy comes out? Like can you ask simply what the fuck is your problem so someone (not necessary me - since I prefer to never read a word you wrote again) can help you. ———- Here is a synopsis for anyone who might be able to crack the code of what he is ask… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | When does the dating pool truly start to shrink?You are just such a fine reader A bachelor tax is a punitive tax imposed on unmarried men. Literary the first sentence. A childlessness tax was enforced in the USSR from 1941 to 1992; it was applied to childless men from 25 to 50 years of age The tax was income based, taking 6% of the childless person’s wages. Childless men is what I will draw your attention to. Also the law states - that Married men are exempt form this tax. Also since you want to be a dick - The Bulgarian one The main law stat… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | When does the dating pool truly start to shrink?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachelor_tax You do know google exists. Russia, Romania, Soviet Union, Bulgaria, Poland Also turns out the US had one in the 19 century. - which is cool to know. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:24 PM |
| 9 | When does the dating pool truly start to shrink?When does the dating pool truly start to shrink? Depends. I am a 24M. Never on any significant level Men can date anyone when they are any age. That is why - In communism there was a tax for being a batcher after 25. Cuz you can be fucking hot women well into your 40 without settling down. Just so you now this is capitalism - so keep your recourses (money , possessions etc) up. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Are cute,hot and handsome the same for guys, if not how are they different and how they treated by womenOk so simply ——— men have the 1-10 scale . Women have the yes no maybe scale. All 3 are in the “Yes” category. ——- Cute - means Yes but he is a bit of a bitch (like having feminine behaviours - nearing gay behaviours) no edge. No “I want his dick in me”. No “vagina tingles”. The best I can explain it is he is “HOT, but I don’t feel wet” Think - Hot guy from school type. Sadly I can’t think of a movie dude right now - since turns out - after 15 women tend to not find them attractive. Maybe The Ju… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 07:02 AM |
| 10 | how to master sh***t tests which you can hardly win?1 Ignore it - 😱😱😱 Rule #something of game - ignore anything that doesn’t help you. Just change the subject. 2 respond from your frame. “Is that your pickup line” in this case. It could be “cocky shit” it could be “You want my penis” - anything 3 Make a joke out of it Yes/no and …. (Make it absurd) ——— I’m going to explain this as simply as possible : A frame is a way you view the world. You view the world that way. Let’s use the “Prize frame” as an example: She says :” Is that you pick up line?”… | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Men who have been in many relationships, would you say most women have anger issues?No. I have had one yell at me once - and her dad just died. I will tell you a secret - You are letting her treat you that way. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How to get 2nd dates?Ok I will add a trick to that : set the 2nd date in person Have her text it to you - so “you don’t forget” Text the morning off the date (If you don’t get an answer till about 1h before the date -YOU flake) Respond if she texts first. There is no need to text her every day or be super flirty. Worse chances if we didn’t already have sex on the 1st one but still worth trying. chance as per testing Did nothing - about 4 - 5% Got the kiss - 10 - 12 % Set up the date - 40 % Tried for sex - 45 - 50 % … | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to get 2nd dates?Oooo. Just set up the date in person. By testing without sex it lowers the chance by about 10 to 30 %. So it isn’t that bad. It is preferable to “smash”. But it isn’t the end of the world if SHE doesn’t want to. I however doubt you will find that many app girls, that didn’t. Edit : Still try for sex. In the worst case - you are now on equal footing with the dude (I named something stupid) | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to get 2nd dates?I never said ask.I said set up the next date. “Are you free ____(time)?” “Cool. I know a place (activity)” Basically. If you mean why ? - a multitude of reasons not having to do it over text You know her emotional state - so outside factors won’t fuck you over for no reason she will tend to keep to her word more. others. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What are all the frames ?What are all the frames ? Sadly people have lives or someone might sit down and give you that answer. I will just give you an example so you sorta get the scope of what you asked. A frame of her ideas - it could vary form “You don’t exist in her world” “You are irrelevant” “You are a bitch” “you smell bad” to “You are hot” “Mid but has potential” “I really want to fuck his brains out” A frame in vibing - from “We aren’t vibing” “he is dull” to “this is fun” “I really like him” And that is just a… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How to get 2nd dates?How to get 2nd dates? By nailing the first one. I’ve been going out with girls from bumble/tinder. Ok so now that you have narrowed down what you want. 1 Kiss around the middle 2 Have sex with the girl 3 Set up the second date in person after sex. There you go. Enjoy. I’m able to get first dates consistently (basic get to know her texts, some light flirting and ask her out, easy stuff and works pretty well). So any girl with daddy issues and any “more fun” girl - won’t agree to a second date (or… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Buyers remorse after a kissBuyers remorse after a kiss That concept is stupid. Hi, 🖐️ Sometimes I have what it seems to be a perfect date, then I go for a kiss, I get the kiss, and the day after the girl is cold and unresponsive and she says some excuse not to see me again. 2 things: The one you do get : You don’t make her wet before the kiss - which leads to her thinking that there is no “spark” or “connection” between you two. And the one that is girl specific: Some girls will think you are a pussy IF you didn’t have se… | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:51 AM |
| 22 | how to create sexual tension with wordsSlow down your speech (talk slooooweeeeeeeer , have … more …. Or /and …… longer……….. pauses) , have more proximity (be closer) , Keep eye contact and don’t break it. Talk in her ear Use innuendo and distracted kino. There you go enjoy | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:57 AM |
| 6 | how to create sexual tension with wordsYou know nothing WOW it is where it is at. “i have a Level 80 wizard.” | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Looking to add to some easy to remember mantras to help confidence and mindsetHell I’m bored. Let’s see • View yourself as the prize. She says: “I don’t go out with guys like you” “You are just saying that cuz you haven’t seen me naked” She says: “I would never date a guy who is not blond and 6 feet tall at least” Well that is me. I’m blond and 6 feet (182 cm) “I know my perfection is blinding” She says: “Every guy is the same” “You wish” or the classic “Yes I’m an asshole” She says: Are you hitting on me? Point at me … point at her “Ewwwww” Edit : “I don’t talk to girls… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Looking to add to some easy to remember mantras to help confidence and mindsetLooking to add to some easy to remember mantras to help confidence and mindset Fine So confidence usually the problem is a missing perception. - I’d have to guess what those are for you. “You are cool/good/sexy enough for any woman” - if you think you are not good enough “ Her loss I’m awesome” - if you have a rejection problem. “0 fucks given” - if you have Approach anxiety “It’s just a game” is about the same as the previous one, but it would be more helpful if you tend to be logical “Make it … | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Long dates aren't good?Part 2 I told her, “Let’s do something before you leave” (stating it rather than asking). That is still asking. Stating - “Friday coffee -8pm, where something nice” - it means she doesn’t have the choice. When she chooses - it is asking. In fact yours is double asking “Something” - “whatever you want”,”Let’s” - “you know if you want” She agreed and said something like “What do you want to do?” Seee what I mean. She has to give you the ball back - since she doesn’t want to decide. I took the clot… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Long dates aren't good?Part 1 Long dates aren’t good? Depends on your personality. For most people - Yes. 1h to 2h is the recommended time frame for most people. A bit of context: Aaaa a return to my roots. Lady and Gentlemen: Welcome to women 101. I will be your teacher. Edit: It turned into Game 101 by the end She sort of turned me down before, Ok - so I will explain it very simple - SHE THINKS you are unfuckable. As the adult here I’m about to tell you - you can change that BOX - when you learn how.(which will be w… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 11:28 AM |
| 5 | How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Am I too picky?How can I create more sexual tension in a conversation? Slow down your speech (talk slooooweeeeeeeer , have … more …. Or /and …… longer……….. pauses) , have more proximity (be closer) , Keep eye contact and don’t break it. Talk in her ear Use innuendo and distracted kino. Am I too picky? Implausible. You are a man - you can basically fuck anything. If it seems that way - you are probably just missing a perception or misunderstanding something. Hi! ✋ if you could dive deeper into your response or … | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date?What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date? As everything in game - the answer is - IT depends. In this case - it depends on you. You can try and make her like you OR move on. I suggest the latter since over text it is just a minefield to change that. Ok so my question - this girl is interested in me, She isn’t. Ok like “Mehhh, not now maybe in like 15/27 years” is interest, but not something you can work with. I asked her out on a date (I do so quick coz I… | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Seduction killer?Mystery - is one of those things that is supper girl specific - since it is dependant on her wanting to know more about you. For IG I would recommend posting things that are SOCIALLY competitive for the girls you want. Let’s say you want those “ass models” (the fun whore type) - Posting things from Parties , Riding Yachts , privet plane rides. Etc. If you want the alt whores - how cutting yourself is an productive thing, metal parties ,playing instruments or being in a band , drugs and all of th… | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 09:45 AM |
| 0 | How to salvage the situation after coming in too strongOk so they’re 50/50 saves. (Aka I can’t guarantee shit) It is a one time use text “Hey, I had a fun time, but I like to hang out with cool people that are happy to hang out with me. But there’s a lot of cool people so if you’re not, it is fine” It will ether get the “Fuck you. You fucking cockroach” or “Hey I’m cool - I will hang out with you” The “have a massive fight” start (this is also know as the “nice guy” start - difference being she might actually give a single fuck you exist) Basically … | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:23 PM |
| -3 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsPSA: seduction =/= basic social skills They need to be “normal” for seduction to work. That’s not seduction; that’s basic human functioning. If you’re still struggling with that level of social interaction, you’re in the wrong place. Just block them and be done. Like you don’t have to deal with that. You can save yourself the headache This space should be about advanced moves, the kind of stuff that only matters once you’re past the stage of sweating bullets just saying “hello.” Ok you ask an ad… | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Models has nothing new, is it about frame?After the beginner stuff - is getting it down. At least to a point that you know what you can cut. Once you do that Get the “game solved volumes” - as stated before free recourses on the pdf site. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How set the mode in a party ?How set the mode in a party ? I’m (26M) a kissless virgin and recently I’ve been working on making up for past missed years to improve my game. How about you start with the basics - like learning how to turn a woman on. That would at least fix the kissless part of the problem. If you learn how to lead too - boom no more virgin. However for the age thing you will have to wait for your birthday - no way around that. I have the confidence & skills to smoothly talk and potentially ask a girl out, bu… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:26 PM |
| -2 | What's a good opening phrase?I wrote an entire essay on opening and then read the question. I’m genuenly sad I wasted 20 min. I know the best chances of getting a good response are when you have a question or specific compliment about the person. No. You know wrong. The best chances are IF she is stop and you make an emotionally provocative statement with some tension attached. (While asking for 0 or negative compliance) Sadly for my essay (RIP - you will be missed) - you are not asking how to do that. You want an open that… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | When to tell a girl you want something casual?When to tell a girl you want something casual? IF asked. It seems like there is no optimal timing. Optimal is “after sex IF asked.” - but you think it is douchey. And how do you frame it? You are asked - so just answer. The OPTIMAL and not at all a lie but douchey . “I’m not looking for anything serious right now, but who knows if I meet the right girl” “I’m not looking for anything serious” - there | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 11:16 AM |
| 8 | When to tell a girl you want something casual?When to tell a girl you want something casual? IF asked. It seems like there is no optimal timing. Optimal is “after sex IF asked.” - but you think it is douchey. And how do you frame it? You are asked - so just answer. The OPTIMAL and not at all a lie but douchey . “I’m not looking for anything serious right now, but who knows if I meet the right girl” “I’m not looking for anything serious” - there | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 11:16 AM |
| 3 | A Girl Started To Act DifferentWhat a monster. He was supposed to walk with her there. The creep. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 10:27 AM |
| 6 | A Girl Started To Act DifferentI’m too tiered to explain shit The answer to your question is “You didn’t try to sleep with her” | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 07:26 AM |
| -5 | Models has nothing new, is it about frame?I have no idea what to expect, It is a beginner book - expect dumbed down half truths that won’t scare of nerds. Hell it isn’t even a very good beginner book. but since Manson is so acclaimed, By who? Edit: Challenge : Name me 1 person with half a brain that remotely likes the book. Also Todd is acclaimed - that doesn’t means he is any good. I expected something more, but it just seems like a more politically correct Swinggcat, careful not to offend anyone. Aa you get it. Good. And no. Think of … | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 07:18 AM |
| 0 | Models has nothing new, is it about frame?I will ask you two question what do you expect from a beginner book ? And what new thing did you want to learn ? | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 06:44 AM |
| 2 | how to break into the top percentile of women?Today is that type of day - It is in the drafts It is done as information goes - I just need to find time to go thru and edit it cuz my writhing style is unreadable to anyone not from my country. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | how to break into the top percentile of women?I’m a 6-7 in looks depending kn who you ask, very fit but 5’7 and bald. Get called handsome semi-regularly even though I don’t go out much. Ok part 1 is done. For the hight I would recommend wearing lifts though that isn’t strictly necessary. Do fix your wardrobe if you haven’t already. Do you think that, given certain shortcomings What shortcomings ? You mean the hight thing - it is more of how much space you take up - than actual hight that matters. So I woulden’t worry about it too much. I sh… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachI’ll start pushing myself more, even when I think the set is fucked. Ooo you are going to do great. Also, how do you meet women day/night/online/social circle? I mean I wrote a guide. Edit : Turns out I didn’t. It is in the drafts along with what is a hook and nature of seduction. I should really find the time to edit those and post them. Though Online is not my forte - there are people who can explain that better than me. and which city? The more conservative parts of eastern Europe. (This is t… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:46 AM |
| 5 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachAlthough I only game once a week so I can’t be too hard on myself. Yes but I can. What are tactics you use to get girls wet? Some of the ones I like is eye contact, getting closer when talking to her, bits of kino (I think I need more dominant kino to make her wet) Talk in her ear in a way that your breath or lips touch it. Eye contact + proximity + taking slower (what you do in some disjointed manner) you can increase the tension by increasing proximity(getting closer) or talking slower. You do… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:31 AM |
| 13 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachI’ve come a long way in my confidence with women, I went from not getting a single phone number to getting instadates quite often. Now I’m about to teach you the most magical mindset in game “Make her wet” That is all you are there to do. Nothing else matters. My problem now is girls who come on a date with me it’s like “just friendly chatting” although I’m pretty direct when I approach them. Doesn’t matter that you are direct. She is there because you have potential. And wants to see if you get… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | how to break into the top percentile of women?how to break into the top percentile of women? Welcome to game where everything matters : 1 So fix you look - sorry but you would at least need to be a 6/10. have an effect. The 3 recommended ones are the bad boy (preferably modernise it a bit) , the cool kid (what ever the boys that would usually sleep with her wearer) and the Big shot (that high end dude style - the whole 3 pice suit shit) get some muscle on you. 2 Incorporate more tension in your game 8.5 and above - it needs to be massive an… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issuesI met a girl online and asked her out on a date, This is just for sex. she came across as quite shy and a little dry, but as time went on, she began to loosen up, and the date ended on a positive note. Which was … Like this is a sexuality based relationship we ended up having sex. And that is all this will ever be. she hadn’t done it in a while and that she would miss me Yes she is awkward and weird - she thinks you will bond with her more if she said that. Also I call bullshit - she is on an ap… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Looking for flirty reality showsToo hot to handle Fboy island Keys to the vip Lovers and Liars Edit: Love island America - in the english version the women tolerate a lot of bs Any other Romance reality | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 02:08 PM |
| 3 | How should I approach hookups/dating?Additional info: I’m late 20s, a solid 7/10 attractiveness who’s tall You handsome devil you - I will keep that in mind for once. and has great manners/respectful. And you threw it all away. Like Ewwww. Woman one was 30, Which one ? I will guess the one that gave a slight shit about your manners. woman three was 25. Ain’t happening - next. learned a ton of theory that has helped a lot with my confidence and success. You are welcome I take my payments in models. And non of that internet model shi… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 02:47 AM |
| 0 | I don't know what I'm doing...I don’t know what I’m doing... Ooo so like most everyone here. What is new? Edit: Sorry , for once that was uncalled for . She came over to my house and I cooked then we just hung out and she left. Ok I guess this week’s topic is offending women. Look IF you don’t try and have sex with the girl - you are basically calling her ugly. For pizza and a movie but im already feeling nervous about trying to progress things cause I don’t even know what the hell to do... Show her how to count showers (htt… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | From getting good at game to “settling down”Thanks. It’s more the approach part as it’s just something I don’t have the reps with at the moment. That takes study and practice. And you may well be right about picking hotter women. That’s something I haven’t tried. ;) On friends,. Good on you. That is a vey mature way to look at it. At the end of the day - your choice. Going to get out there and put in the reps and learn from mistakes and see where things go. Wish you the best of luck. :) | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | From getting good at game to “settling down”From getting good at game to “settling down” Sure if you like the girl do it. Like game is about having more options so you can pick from a bunch of girls. Have any of you guys got to the point where you just wanted to settle down with a woman and lost the desire to seduce/game? About a decade now - sadly my type of woman isn’t really compatible with relationships. How have you guys balanced this? Ok seduction is a life long commitment even in a relationship - you’d still have to be seductive. S… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman responds best to cold approaches?What kind of woman responds best to cold approaches? All Normal women or whores. And some nerd women. Some Nerd women have fears beyond human comprehension. So that like 2 % of hot women don’t respond well. We often hear cold approach has a high rejection rate, Yes - cuz you listen to A) couches - cuz there is 0 way anyone can make you a functioning human in a short period of time. Depending on where you start it might take mounts to years to fix you. B) losers that got no where with this. C) Ge… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?Are you very physically attractive or something? At this point I’m not sure. You seem like you live in a completely different world than most of us. You do understand most of you are the weird ones right ? (No offence) It could be selective bias (we tend to pick friends that are similar to us) - I think I have 1 friend that goes on dates and makes it a long drawn out process - and he only does it cuz he has some strange understanding of life (he wants that old classic love story) - you should se… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?Are same day lays possible in 2024? Like way easier than it was before. Is there some kind of work around 😅? Yes - normal game. Let’s say your at the beach and you see a nice big booty Brazilian sunbathing, how would you approach her with the goal of getting her in your bed soon. I would approach her with the idea of toilet sex in like 20 min. Usually unless she is some type of nerd - it will happen Is there any specific game for this? Yes - normal game It is genuinely harder to do it the way yo… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?That’s interesting that this pretty much comes down to not fucking her. I mean she wanted it - to an extend you almost never see. hyper-focusing on the texting the whole time I know. I didn’t realize how much of a misstep that was or how bad that might’ve made her feel. It was more of the dick behaviour (I know it wasn’t intentional) So in the future, your advice would be to push for sex and properly set dates, Let’s start there. I will rephrase one of them - “push things closer to sex” - this o… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?Part 2 Texting Her: Good morning Just invite her over to your place for morning coffee. I think somehow your looks made her think you were being respectful - instead of a complete pansy Quick before her friends catch wind of what happened. They will fuck this. 3 hours later I give up. Me: Good morning. Me: Just woke up lol It is k. I don’t care. Her: Really? Lol Her: Any issue? “Yea I need to talk to you” if asked why add “in privet” and find a way to use your penis. Me: Nah everythings good, wa… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?Part 1Interaction Edit : In the beginning I didn’t calibrate to your looks - so It was general bad moves. You somehow survived making them. Alright here’s the full scenario... Alright I will comment as I go. Came to a small town. Without describing in detail the specifics of where I was Aaa New York I asked if she wanted to grab something to eat one night. She said lets go to a club. Ok so she is not your type of girl. I can instantly tell this is going nowhere. She is a party girl - you are a s… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Cooked ? | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:28 AM |
| -3 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?This is the internet. Why would you ask this question ? Anyway the answer is IF you would still fuck her - yes. If you wouldn’t fuck her - NO. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?IF you are really appreciative - fix the problem. “I much prefer you get what you want out of this and hate me. Then you sitting in place and loving me.” - my dad. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?I know you Most people are fairly ignorant about most subjects and will just parrot common wisdom which may or may not be true If you pay attention to the post comments you are about to see why this happens. Anyway nice chatting with you. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Reading people's facesReading people’s faces The eyes. There. Small changes in them mean different things. leaving me on the aisle with a female worker reason being the girl helping me was apparently giving off obvious signals while I just assumed she was being polite, later while queueing my niece gave me a glance when the girl handed me the fish i asked her what’s up and said mentioned she left me alone to chat/flirt with the girl. The eyes get a bit glassed (I shit you not). It was a worthless thing to learn - It … | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:22 PM |
| -1 | Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish?Striking the balance between not being eager but not being standoffish? I had to work with this puzzle of disjointed, vague information for 20 min I littelary pulled out a pice of paper and wrote all the relivant information without filler so I can move things around to get a somewhat functioning picture. Next time - just give the fucking texts and let people work with that. Another important note - Stop trying to figure out your problems - You people misidentify them sooooo much it is just comi… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Are "leagues" a thing?Are “leagues” a thing? No. I didn’t know whether to use the inner or outer game for this one, because that is my question. Inner game influences outer game (aka it is supposed to be a filter or guide on what to do). Is there such a thing as a girl being “out of your league”. Yes there is a red rope IT appears every time you talk to someone out of it. I’m not kidding it is like magic It just appears out of nowhere, with a sing saying “he is a low grade human” pointing at you and making an alarm t… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Signs a man is catching feelings for his fwb (woman)?How do I get him to catch feelings and want to commit? Tell him you want something more serious preferably in person. Deal with what will happen like an adult. Aka no “You are a looser anyway” - type talk if things don’t go your way. I have had times where the reaction to me saying “no” was handled like an adult and I have had feeling blossom out of it. (They would later be killed when the girl decided I should chase her ) A more subtle approach with more varied results - show massive amounts of… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Signs a man is catching feelings for his fwb (woman)?He isn’t don’t worry. The LTR fucked with his head is all. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)If you don’t mind answering, I have another question for you. I will If you promise to never ask filler questions or for permission again. How would you reconcile “to keep moving towards sex” with wanting to respect women’s boundaries Fixed your question. You won’t be able to move it. She won’t let you. You moving it without her willingness is called S. A. And she will most definitely voice that to the cops. I think you are confusing what “keep moving to sex” means. As I have explained somewhere… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)A mindset is supposed to incorporate multiple things in one. Narcissism is attractive to women. Anyway I mean it as : “Yea I’m good enough , she on my level”, “I’m fucking awesome, the world loves me” , a body language fix - you acting cocky , a talking fix - “My words are law “ and talking about what ever you want - everything you say is good enough , a benevolence fix - trowing a bone when you have to, a understanding that it is ok to humble brag when you have to Not giving a shit “ Ok I will … | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 06:24 AM |
| 4 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyBuddy - A woman that loves you is a beautiful thing. It will make you happy even if you are a compleat mess. I can most defiantly guaranty that IF she truly loves you it will make you happy. You being content and fulfilled is a mostly game thing so you don’t get overly attached. It is entirely a modern concept and it has nothing to do with the happiness a relationship will bring. Every time I’m sad my dad tells me “Get a girlfriend”. And he is right it “fixes” me up quick. When I’m “fixed” howev… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Remember this golden tipFor those who find themselves in a situation where you’re unsure if she’ll call and your doubting mixed signals, remember - they’ll always call. Almost always. Never. Almost never. Women want life to happen to them. They even expect it. You want it to be different - kill all nerds on the planet. Look I don’t know how 6s work I have been far too removed, for too long from that growing xp. But I can for certain say anything above an 8 - Will not call. Hell I will go against conventional wisdom her… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)Best advice I can give in less than 20 words. Don’t be a nerd If you like the girl talk to her Failure happens. Keep moving to sex . Don’t get distracted Believe you are God. I would prefer 20 sentences but there you go that is good enough to get you at least something. At the end of the day getting laid is supper time consuming - you playing dnd and going to the gym might distract you from going full nerd , but they consume valuable time. On those topics If you were my son I would tell you : do… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Beauty shop number-closeWhats your thoughts on the following routine: Edit: I think starting from scratch is probably a better option than trying to fix this. It comes off to “gamey”. isnt unfortunate that we only have 1 nose? Like we can only smell 1 perfume at the time. It means that i need to Come here multiple times to get a perfume that i like.. It requires too much compliance. see, thats why we should connect… i need ur help to get your number It has that ”pussy indirect“ attached to it. after that i need help wi… | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Do men prefer 18-25 women?Do men prefer 18-25 women? Yes. As per studies I have read most do. Does that mean that a 27 year old - won’t get a hubby. No. Preference is just that - preference. I prefer blonds- I will and have dated brunets and the elusive redheads. Do you think women above 25 are worse and not gf/wife material? Hag maxing exists so … no. Jokes aside: It is an options thing. If I have 17 blonds that vibe with me - I would pick one of them instead of the brunet. If I don’t have any blonds that vibe with me -… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How to keep the momentum going on datesHow to keep the momentum going on dates Edit: I pre read it a bit before answering so that I can give you an answer. So there have a medal for asking a question that was new for me. Just keep moving things forward. It isn’t deep. There is no deep trick or magic about it. We invented this - after the great Natural game transition. So no one thought of tricks to do it. What I will do is point out pitfalls you fall into and how to fix them (again the natural way - Sadly I’m not a nerd to invent tri… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:57 AM |
| -1 | Who are the big guys making content nowadays?No. I don’t care how much you sucked. Are they good - No. Can a wet blanket out game them Yes. Just because you wasted your time and did stupid shit - I won’t give you sympathy or change my opinion on someone. If they either “get good” or start actually making students I’m not ashamed to call my pears - I might. Edit : I don’t know what kind of an idiot or internet brain rot person you think I’m. But I don’t give a shit about your sob story. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Who are the big guys making content nowadays?First : To many pronouns pal . I have no idea who out of the 4 people here you are talking about. Second : 16 years and you think any of the dudes mentioned are “the best at what they do”? I’m sorry for wasting 10 of them then in case you mean John 13 if you mean UMP 14 years if you think Todd And 20 if you mean KK | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 08:54 AM |
| 0 | You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely. This is brain dead shit. While Cold Approach Pick-Up is a challenging skill to develop, it’s essential if you want to succeed in dating. Was 20 years ago. Now it is easy. No other viable options exist: 1-Dating apps:These have become pay-to-play systems, leaving you paying for a slim chance of more matches. I don’t like them YET - they are viable. Frankly from a time to fuck rate more via… | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Who are the big guys making content nowadays?First : it is UMP and John Anthony. - those are the big guys these days. As to how good they are. It is questionable. You would probably(defiantly) be better off picking up an old school book (Any) and practicing it till you are good enough to cut stuff from it. In general it those styles of game filter girls for sexual value (aka mostly works on whores and sexually frustrated women). And that is the reason they got so big cuz sexually frustrated dudes want pussy even if it is mid at best. You c… | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 06:08 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks? I’m cheep - so I don’t and depending on how hot the girl is it might drive me to not pursue the set anymore. (Like 9.5 is about the minimum I would humour the request) - though 9 and above never really ask for drinks. They are kinda used to getting them without asking. Actually IF you pay attention the higher on the spectrum of hotness you go the less this “game” tropes happen. Anyway probably just call her weird or poor in a roundabout way and co… | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 08:21 PM |
| -1 | Can poor/broke me date?Can poor/broke me date? Yes. Cuz as discussed before money means shit to women. Historically, women have often sought to marry men with wealth and status, Which history ? I don’t remember reading about this in history books. If you mean when women were property and sold like cattle. Then yes - they were literary sold. Otherwise NO. That never happened voluntarily. as it provided security and stability. You are kidding me - a hot 20 something needing a man for stability. Like dude half the dates … | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Are there any good modern books on dating?Are there any good modern books on dating? No. I’m guessing you are an online guy (otherwise you would be doing something “old school”) In general there is next to nothing to be said about text game The best advice is to either avoid it and get her off any apps and in person asap. Anything else is a mine field. You can learn it don’t get me wrong but it has to be by practice. No one can summarise an infinite number of possible outcomes. So i mainly use online dating for matches. Guessed it. I wa… | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 09:30 PM |
| 15 | How do i escape the fuckboy trap?insight from smart people. Smart is questionable, but I do know shit sooo. run into something that i call the fuckboy trap. I googled it - It only gives out questions from women on how to get them to date. i have a prettyboy face and i am rather quiet so people think that automatically. Ok you are confused. You are closer to sex in girls eyes. Since they want to fuck you - they presume you fuck a lot (aka fuckboy.) Stuff like this happens so often! Like duhhh they just presume you fuck a lot. I … | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship? I have way too high standards. It is not from lack of options. At some point you will realise there isn’t much of a difference between 1 woman and another. Aka I have a type and it is rarely consistent with a relationship. But they somehow have difficulty getting into a relationship, most of the time actually rejected by women. They are not fuckable. And women (below 35/40 now) don’t date non fuckable dudes What do you al… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women?The idea ISN’T the same. You chilling with 17 random people ISN’T the same as making yourself look like a FAMOUS person. I’m telling you to appear better than you are. You are just doing normal people shit and paying for it. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women?Buddy - Your idea is a bad one. What I confirmed is that part one is the same. Everything else I added to the idea is good | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women?Leveraging wealth to build a pipeline of women? On it’s own won’t work , the basic thing you use wealth for is get an open. Frankly it is much easier and cheeper to use your rich “friends”. It would help getting 30+ year olds (since they compete on that front) but even than that is for dating (aka they will still prefer the cool dude and sex will only happen if they have “reassurances” ) I’m not talking about mega wealth where I can buy a mansion and throw parties… Ok give half to me. Probably s… | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Bootcamps vs. continuous coachingBootcamps vs. continuous coaching Nighter. But is that the best way to deliver lasting results, or is it just easier to sell? Nighter it produces more money. Intuitively, I think this can lead to deeper internal changes and more consistency. They have to want it and they usually don’t. Change is often caused by pressure and a want for a change to happen. Most people are content fucking a 7 a month. They don’t need couching for that. If such offers do not exist, there must be a reason for this. T… | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 02:12 PM |
| -1 | 📺 Video Response To "Definitive List of IOI's"You do know the idea of them is to “convince” nerds to make a move, right ? They are common shit most people on friendly terms do. If they give people balls to act like an adult and move things along - let them have their fun. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 04:20 AM |
| -4 | Keep struggling with building sexual tension/going past friendly vibesKeep struggling with building sexual tension/going past friendly vibes Let me guess you are trying to do it over text. When I manage to go on dates with girls, I’m never able to come up with something to say or do to build sexual tension or to create the right moment to kiss them. Learn to use innuendo. Play a tv show on that is geared to teens and anything the characters say turn in to - somehow being about sex. Start with pausing the tv show and later move to doing it as it plays. Also book re… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed (Only from those with Advanced GameDepends on what you want. But generally - play it off as a joke Something like “hu?” - her explaining shit - “Now I feel bad, you didn’t take that seriously, did you ?” (Credit Mehow) Then it depends on what you want. But generally I would recommend the Julian concept of “drama”. (Since it is the easiest to implement and I don’t have to deal with this anymore) Also remember to maintain the “US” - doesn’t matter for which one. And try to keep the interactions away from “connection” type topics Fo… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | why people say that what i say doesn't matter, but when i show them my convos they critique every line that i said?why people say that what i say doesn’t matter, but when i show them my convos they critique every line that i said? Cuz it doesn’t in the sense that you want her in person. How you get her there doesn’t matter. Aka the same reason we moved to skeleton systems involving filters. You want her wet -> what you say doesn’t matter as long as she is wet (getting wet) It matters in the sense that “not all things are created equal.” The problem here is your want for a simple one sentence answer - where t… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Advice Needed (Only from those with Advanced GameAdvice Needed (Only from those with Advanced Game I will just summaries my notes cuz they got too long. spiritual journey becoming a better person goes against getting laid. she mentioned that she was bullied as a kid and didn’t have many friends growing up. Noting it incase you want this to continue. building more comfort. that won’t work. Also not what it is It is a distance from reality (like a wall so you don’t get hurt). Trust - actual trust. (In her case it means avoiding any comfort and j… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How to move things forward from the flirty playful teasing stage?How to move things forward from the flirty playful teasing stage? Either introduce sexuality or us frame. (Advice till until you get how - do it in person cuz text mistakes are unfixable ) I (25M) met this girl (22F) a couple months ago, Do you know what “extremely fucked situation” means? Wayyyy too long being friends. Like my a couple of months. You can do it by it falls under the rule - “IF you have to ask it ain’t happening” I feel like I’m stuck in just eternally flirting but never moving t… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | realistic expectationsrealistic expectations Depending in starting point between 2-10% of girls you number close. This is a weirdly specific post, but bear with me. I like weirdly specific post. Though by the length of this I doubt it is that specific. Edit: It was extremely vague. I’m an average looking guy, 5’11 and I’m an Asian, I’m currently in a growing out my hair phase so I would say I might look worse than usual, but there are seasons where I feel confident because I look decent. Irrelevant information - I ca… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 06:04 AM |
| 0 | LuckLuck Irrelevant. If you leave it up to luck. You’d be fucked. Is any dating advice outside of be financially stable, psychically fit, and mentally healthy useless. No. Like 99% of advice is outside of those 3 frankly The reason for thouse 3 things being such a smal part of it is they don’t really do shit. financially stable Poor people get laid. https://youtu.be/bmav517MQJc?si=sGEcEhkUvN8WEfXj psychically fit Fat people get laid. Like wtf. mentally healthy I’m mentally ill. All “bad boys” are me… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:03 AM |
| 2 | 1992 talk show with a PUA, MRA and a feminist1992 talk show with a PUA, MRA and a feminist tried to post a link but it doesn’t work. If you’re curious about the video, you can type the title into youtube Firstly, I thought women back in the 90s were comparatively more reserved than they are now. That chick actually said pussy on TV?? Women - reserved (that is internet brain talk). You should see my mother swear. A sailor would blush. Also a couple of the things Ross said are applicable. (though I’m still skeptical of on whether or not ther… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.Ok - tension causes arousal. Or do you mean how to do it ? Eye contact + taking with pauses + proximity (increase pauses or proximity to increase pressure) Game Solved Volume 1 (sexual tension and sustained sexual tension sections) - explains it better than I can in a comment. (+it has problem fixes aka What to do if she won’t build it) Edit : The proximity just means don’t be too far away. It can work from 1/2 m. But not from 50m. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Does Reply Time Really Show Interest? No. There is 0 correlation. I have had girls respond within seconds and nothing happens. And girls that respond the next day and we dated for 3 years after. The reason that “rule” exists is so you don’t think about her for the whole day. (It will make you want her too much ) I’ve noticed there might be a correlation between how fast a girl replies after you first contact her and her interest level. Conformation bias. As per testing the results were a 10% cha… | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Behind in Terms of Physical Intimacy and Unsure How to Get ComfortableFeeling Behind in Terms of Physical Intimacy and Unsure How to Get Comfortable This is a common problem with girls. Don’t worry. I’m telling you this as an adult that has met multiple. My favourite ex - had the same thing - we waited 6 mounts before we went more intimate. My big sister is also this type of girl - her husband and her didn’t go beyond kissing for a year. One of my BFF - had sex with her boyfriend after 4 years of dating. Technically most normal girls are like this (around 3/4) not… | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 07:51 PM |
| 19 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation. I’m about to blow your mind - Sexual tension. Actually any type of tension would work. She was extremely keen on asking me questions about my life. As bad as this sounds - this is her distracting you from escalating. got really deep with the conversation. Fuck. Tried light touches here and there to break the touch barrier but just didn’t happen. Was she distracted when you were doing it ? I definitely didn’t feel like I was off my game. That i… | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle?Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle? Cold approach particularly night game I respect a whole lot because cold approach doesn’t align with his morals. Good for him. May he slay the pussy that he wants. I’m just curious to see anyone’s perspective. I’m quite opinionated so…YOU HAVE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE . Cold approach pros: -more efficient, because if you going to meet a stranger why not ask? They aren’t going to appear in your life if they reject you. You’ll probably never se… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 05:34 PM |
| 22 | Has your views changed since learning gameHas your views changed since learning game I was very young when I started so Yes. I can even point out some stuff for you. Niceness - I was a very nice kid (ask my dad he still bitches about it). Polite, loving , cared about other’s feelings - and that went away quickly. Love - I did believe love was unconditional - well that doesn’t exist. You either fulfil the conditions or you mean nothing. Women in general - my family is mostly women strong serious women (the actual meanings of those words … | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 02:07 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys handle nonverbal signals that say don’t approach?How do you guys handle nonverbal signals that say don’t approach? I approach. Cuz I’m god and she is mine. The thing is there is a mindset for you : “ You already have the girl from before you even meet her” Narcissism is one of the best skills in game. Here I will show you : eithier get them avoiding looking at me. She is so nervous around me. Or a slight change in there facial expression. Playing hard to get. Or I just get negative facial expressions. Cute. I interpret these as “don’t approach… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions for direct approach?Suggestions for direct approach? As I have been informed direct doesn’t mean going up and asking “want to bang” (even after 15 years you learn new shit) Anyway - There is stupid direct (asking to bang) - I can’t help you here Functioning human direct (aka asking if she wants to play the game with you ) example : “Hey I wanted to meet you, real quick” And Pussy (also known as gimmicky direct) :” I like your energy” The 4 common mistakes I see with opening (It applies to indirect as well) : 1 Talk… | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Attraction Killers1 I answered nicely. 2 I gave my opinion. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Attraction KillersI was under the impression that women like merdy guys If you think that - you do you. I’m not your mother. (provided that they’re not weird; or unattractive) - or is that just a myth? I think you and I put different meanings to the word. https://andrewelsass.com/why-im-grateful-i-was-a-message-board-nerd-for-10-years/ The picture. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Attraction KillersOh, so “entering her world” is just a weird way of saying being too passive? There is more to it. The idea being that it covers multiple things with 1 mindset. You can be passive and it still being your world. (Her chasing/trying to impress you - is one) I think I have one more explanation in me : ho-math (opinions aside) “women expect life to happen to them” The mindset is fucked (cuz it involves you trying - which is nerd shit) , but kinda like that. Sucks though cause I just naturally have a … | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Attraction KillersSo things like picking up/letting her introduce you to hobbies and such? Like going running with her in the mornings if she’s that type, or getting into the same kind of genres she’s into? It is more on the side of “letting her decide.” All those things are valid to do. As long as you decide to do them. Think of it as “My house my rules” type of thing. Bragging as an example : you can brag AS LONG AS you don’t want her judgment on it (like mentioning the brag as a after thought is a way to not l… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Attraction KillersThe actionable answer is: 1 Trying to enter her world (like trying impressing her ) 2 Acting like a nerd (broken body language, talking like a nerd etc) Generally with years of time anything is recoverable from. (Including sleeping with her mother,sister and cousin while you were dating than giving her photos of the acts as a present on her bday … apparently) In the short term - anything besides those 2 things won’t lose to much interest. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Does location matter for cold approach?Does location matter for cold approach? Yes. Bigger,more populated places, with a bigger % of hot people are easier. All of my friends tell me that NYC is much easier for dating as a man. OMG NYC. I was there for 7 days and I loved it. That and Miami (Though IF you can’t avoid paying I wouldn’t go there) were my favourite places in America. they are using dating apps primarily. Doesn’t matter. Is cold approaching easier in NYC versus SF? Never been to SF. But I can tell you NYC is supper easy. M… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 05:10 AM |
| 9 | The nature of “seduction”The nature of “seduction” This should be good. Based on all the posts I’ve looked over for advice and actual content, this subreddit is not at all for attracting for a relationship. It is actually. Welcome to the year of 2024 where sex comes first. I don’t like it anymore than you, but that is just how things work now. Trust me I have tried the old way it works way worse. I will explain actually. So here is the modern day criteria : “6’5” (around 2m) blue eyes, finance, trust fund” jokes aside Y… | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Christian girls?I’d like to understand the Christian mindset better, since she’s too shy to tell me directly. Hu? There is a thing called “Sexual comfort” - where talking about sex in general or sex between you two. That is a part of the whole arousal thing. So if she doesn’t talk about it. It means she has a fear of being judged. There you go find a way to fix that problem. I looked up some stats, in the US: 68% of people Christian, the average age at marriage is 29, and the average age to lose virginity is 17… | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Unexpected escalation winsDuhhhhh. That happens like 90% of the time. A quote: “If she has no objections you should have escalated sooner” | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Approaching when no signals are given?Link the field report. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Approaching when no signals are given?Sure. Don’t be afraid to post field reports so you get feedback. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl losing interest AFTER great sex?Girl losing interest AFTER great sex? Never happened in the history of time Anyway I met this girl on Hinge and she’s awesome. Super cool, has her shit together, and I’m really attracted to her. You lie. Wait I phrased it wrong. She is mentally ill somehow. Think about it for a second - would you date her ? Then why is she on the apps. So no probably isn’t loosing interest - just testing or “manipulating” you. yes, but after her usual good morning text she hasn’t responded to me yet today. Welco… | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Approaching when no signals are given?Yes. There are 3 dots (…) at the bottom of the comment . -> click save. Than if you want to view the comments you saved The circle with your picture -> saved -> comments. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Bootcamp adviceBootcamp advice was wondering if any of you have experience following a bootcamp for seduction/pickup? I have been doing bootcamps the whole summer with the idea of having recommendations when someone asks. I have one left in November. I will be giving an overview of all of them. And the one that was most eye opening was the one I led. I will give you the notes without naming anyone cuz I’m nice like that (this are from the top companies BTW ) I barely saw anyone improve. -The couches are supper… | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Approaching when no signals are given?Approaching when no signals are given? No one is stoping you. , I don’t really approach women unless its a night out. So like an adult. Would you guys approach regardless in this scenario? Sure. Just find a way to get in front of her. Probably find the right level of dominants you need to display. (Technically it is a lack of smoothness - yes more dominant girls hate pussy bitch style approaches - you can tell IF you found one by her asking for money or being completely unimpressed by you) What … | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:30 AM |
| 3 | I suck at attractingI think my issue is how to make it seem like I’m interested sexually or romantically without making it creepy any help would be appreciated The way our brains work - is that they calculate a %chance and if that chance is lower than the norm (we have made for ourselves) we find it impossible - even though it is plausible just a lower %. Example: I had reached a 80% open +hook (talking in a sexy way). Then whenever I saw something that had even a slight chance of not working I would get anxiety. (… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?My question is for the vets, when y’all are in the moment of conversation with a woman, do you all speak from your gut instincts or do you think your way through the conversation? Both - most “vets” have topics/sorta routines they use. But 70-80% of everything we talk about is on the fly. The topics and “routines”(more like soundbites) are when you get stuck for a part you suck at and sadly not everything you say is created equal. Another thing “vets” use is “filters” as an alternative to the so… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Mixed on a Friend's Advice.That is fair. but it does make it harder to take it seriously. That being the point. On your point of emotions vs info exchanges, I struggle with emotions honestly Negative emotions are still good emotions. Look we all to an extend repress our emotions. Mostly cuz mens emotions to an extend are to dominate destroy that which doesn’t suit us, and fuck uncontrollably - which are seen as negative traits in this modern society. We are SOCIAL animals at the end of the day. If we didn’t we’d be much h… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Feeling Mixed on a Friend's Advice.I guess tldr there are two issues: when to introduce some topics that are a bit more advanced and Yea that is a calibration issue. The idea here is to not fill your head with useless info and just wait for you to get it by hard work. In my xp it is the better way - or you start getting “body language dudes” The types that go on and on and on about IOIs and such. the second was my friend saying that latter point. Proper hesitation instincts there. Still there are nuggets of truth in everything. I… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Mixed on a Friend's Advice.In terms of balance I just mean showing no escalation and only talking like I talk to my friend vs the 180 of that. Sorry I don’t get this. English is my 5th language. Even with my friend there are things where I might talk to him about (say arrest of Telegram CEO) that I would not talk to most people about, but I would not get into economic theory or Carl Jung. As a nerd I appreciate economics theory thank you very much. I will try to be as concise as I can be here. There are safe girl topics y… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | What resources have you used that made you see results?I guess I’m referring more to material on the foundations of attraction “Foundations of attraction” and “Sexual connections” BY swinggcat. One is behavioural based and the second is emotions that cause attraction (aka Tension). Here I will give you a overview The 3 things of attraction are State baste - tension based - sexuality based - in that order - (you can skip a step , if she will let you, but try not to go back on them) State based is either caused by behavioural patterns OR you sparking … | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 05:44 PM |
| 5 | What resources have you used that made you see results?What resources have you used that made you see results? Back in the year of 2008 there were no good resources (which I could find with my 0 ability to use the internet) So what helped me was being cool enough to be a part of the “cool kids” cliques and copy them. Now we actually have good resources these days so use them. With the amount of information on Seddit, one can get confused as there are so many varied responses on resources. Not really - you just can’t filter out bad advice cuz you are… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Feeling Mixed on a Friend's Advice.Feeling Mixed on a Friend’s Advice. Your life your choice. In any case the proper answer is TRY IT first and than decide if it is bad advice. In the beginning the amount of times I got advice I didn’t agree with was astounding. Most (not all some was stupid as hell) turned out to be applicable to some types of girls. So a friend keeps saying I scare chicks away You are probably way to forward. Or talk like a smart ass/nerd. Or act weird. One of the 3. But then he was saying I should cut out poli… | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | The mystery methods “fools mate” calling all certified bachelors!!!The mystery methods “fools mate” calling all certified bachelors!!! There is a reason people don’t talk about this concept anymore. It leaves a perception that “normal” means “hard”. Which 90% it isn’t. Those 10% are not wort it frankly. To this day because of this dumb shit - I second guess anything simple - even though I made and tested it (for me) - I still don’t trust it. After having some amazing sex, how should I move forward? if I’d like to keep this physical relationship going & having m… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 01:27 AM |
| 8 | How did you get her to chase you?It is random chance (usually something related to daddy issues from xp) - good thing I have a thing for them. Sexual connections - by Swinggcat if you want to see what is the model of what usually works. Though you should modernise it a lot. Or Game solved volume 2 (the “interactional tension”sections and “Julien style engagement”) for a more beaten down and subsequently confusing option. It is mostly being a cold dude, STFU so she fills the silence, and refusing to give her anything she hasn’t … | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?If she opens she has some interest. So for the 7 time - YES. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?“Am I interested in this man” This question. This is not “is he someone I’d date or someone I’d have sex ?” Just will I go in to a conversation with him. Again attraction is not what you think IT is. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds? No, like you can become more or less hot after. It just ruins the game (which some people including me hate) and it forces the decision to be made at that moment (“Am I interested in this man” - is the question) It doesn’t stop attraction. It doesn’t prevent attraction after. “ hey I think you are cute” This one is not that direct. It isn’t even a bad open. either get you instant attraction, or you crash and burn. He is … | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:02 PM |
| 17 | Do women sometimes purposely bend over to grab someone's attention?Do women sometimes purposely bend over to grab someone’s attention? Yea. This is the modern equivalent of the old handkerchief trick. (Cuz you know everything in the modern world is about sex and handkerchiefs don’t exist anymore) However, if they’re trying to get your attention, I’d figure it would be obvious. 🤔 Noooooooo. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal?How about you read what I wrote first. Not just decide on what I said. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal?Most guys here act as women are some kind of software logically computing your game and looks and thus deciding someone to sleep with them Thank god I’m out with a nerd “friend” of mine Translation : most guys act like the girl sees you game and looks and decides if she likes you. In which case : Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal? This is worded wrong. It makes it sound like they put the girls looks on a pedestal To which the answer is Duhhh. Yes we would. Anyway to your question :… | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 01:01 PM |
| 2 | How much of dating is really a choice?But would you really change job just to have a chance to meet more girls ? No hobbies work fine For example I got in to modelling to meet more of them. Photography or DJing (America specific) would be better choices for people with less game. Mine is just less of a time investment and the skill requirement was lower. You could also be carried by your friends. And you can overcompensate by becoming great at the other 2 factors. There are choices still. I really just wanted to give him an overview… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 11:31 AM |
| 14 | How to get laid with minimal conversationOptions 1 Dance floor game - which you will have to learn on your own 2 learn how to create max emotion with face, body movements and tone It wastes more energy BUT you have to talk less. 3 Go for “whore” type women mentally unwell women tend to start of closer to sex Good luck - Non of them have actual resources. You will have to figure it out on your own OR start hanging around dudes that are good at it (basically the cool kids) | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:52 PM |
| -1 | How much of dating is really a choice?How much of dating is really a choice? Like 100% of it. You can choose to head down a road of learning “game”, becoming better looking, having a more attractive life. Really it is up to you the results you get. Most people just decide that hard work is not for them and settle. Now keep in mind I say it like it is easy IT ain’t. But it is YOUR CHOICE as to what you get. I do think you want to make a different point though (cuz you know you wrote a ecee ) so I will keep reading I don’t understand … | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:06 AM |
| 6 | What do I do stop wondering what’s wrong with me?What do I do stop wondering what’s wrong with me? Like is this normal enough to think every now and then or do I need to some work still? Our brains are shit , stupid and disgusting things. Example : Last month I pulled 4 girls that were far and beyond what I thought was possible. This month I barely pulled a 8. I thought for 2 days that I lost my magic and game. Until my dad told me that “shit happens” and “to stop acting like a bitch” Our brains are stupid. They over analyse shit. Put pressor … | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Outer Game Not WorkingOuter Game Not Working Edit : Inner game. What you described is inner game. You mentioned nothing about Outer game in the whole post. Edit 2: This is after the rant I went on explaining “what an idiot you are “ and actually tried to help you. Just mentioning it so you know- I think you are stupid and that there were full on insults in my comment. (Just take everything after this as an edit) (“good” job, hobbies, skills, physical fitness, etc.), no real increase in confidence has followed for me.… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men actually do cold approach?Like less than 1%. 4,000,000,000 men in the world. I don’t think you can find more than 3500 that actually do it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:55 AM |
| 10 | I don’t know how to approach game nonchalantly.A dude sent this to me and I expect it will piss me off. So let’s get started. I don’t know how to approach game nonchalantly. Ok and ? TL;DR: How can you escalate with women without caring about the end goal? Like don’t care if you get it. This is newbie advice since you people tend to know one way around a problem. Since it won’t work at least 70% of the time - you shouldn’t care SO you don’t get discouraged. When/IF you learn different ways you can and most definitely will care about the outc… | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 09:58 PM |
| 3 | How to push yourself in the moment?How to push yourself in the moment? There are a million different things you could do. In general for newbies it is recommended to use the 3 second rule - so you don’t freeze up. Other good ones are : Motivation increases like : Imagining having sex with the girl Imaging everything will go well Imagining the girl loves you. Downside minimisers like : What is the worst that could happen? She says no Imagine she likes you etc Others like : Not giving a fuck. Replacing negativity - It might not wor… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:33 AM |
| -2 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal AttributesBars and Nightclubs It is correct. But I’m a typical Fuckboy so. Chances are, you would also be successful with mainstream dating apps if you landed on this option. Sure sadly bad I HATE texting. It is correct I will run it for a few friends of mine that are better at different things. Edit : Friend 1 : Mainstream Dating Sites & Apps Sure Friend 2 - the one I wanted to run (cuz he is the opposite of what you would think a successful “game” guy is) Mainstream Dating Sites & Apps Wrong His normal … | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 03:56 AM |
| -2 | where to meet women in personGood that you FEEL something. Sadly “Facts Don’t Care About Your Feelings “. Bars and clubs. Universities or colleges. Concerts. Etc Loud places with a lot of energy and vibes around. Or places where they have to be Otherwise you can walk for 17h and MAYBY find one girl that you might sorta like. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 04:48 AM |
| 4 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineIt means you : A) Don’t vibe well B) you pushed too far too quick C) She has a boyfriend In any case move on | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever recovered from what felt like a missed opportunity?Like 5 seconds later. There is a time and a place to focus on negatives (when you don’t want to repeat the same mistake) For 30 min one time There is time and a place to focus on positives . When you want to feel happy and have a positive association with that thing BUT there is never a time to be an idiot. And you are acting like an idiot | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | When a girl accepts your disqualifier?A disqualified is a “joke”. IT is supposed to be accepted. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 18 | Better empty or full?Try both and see which one works for you. It depends on your sex drive . So no one size fits all applies Mine depends on some mounty cycle where one week I’m better off going full and 3 weeks I’m better off empty. So keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 07:31 PM |
| 3 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlThis must be a cultural thing cuz I have had it happen only twice one time in America and one in England Anyway just frame him as “weird” preferably by body language. (look at him like he is “disgusting “ or “Are you ok?” ) The only exception is if you two are friends - than you will have to out emotion him | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?honestly, Im going back to just meeting women online and threw social circles. Your life .Your choice. Just don’t go telling people that want to try to learn. That they can’t. all of this is dancing monkey shit. Non of what I said is dancing monkey shit. all so I can “prove myself” to women I don’t even truly know and quite frankly I probably wouldn’t enjoy my time around anyways. Nothing about proving yourself. You didn’t read my comment. And I spend all that time trying to teach you something.… | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?is she “giving me chance” or just tolerating me being there? The tolerating is after you fuck the chance up. Trying not to over explain it. Generally humans make decisions about potential mates in 5 seconds to 2 min. (Aka why first impressions matter ) If she opened you were a “Maybe” (or like some smarter people than me - managed to avoid being seen before they made an emotion - I know OF this tactic . NOT how to do it - don’t ask me) After that you creating emotions for 2 min - like if you tal… | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?The gist is (the first part) : “IF you open the girl - she is basically giving you a chance to win her over.(via emotions and tension) I can basically tell you where the general problem is BUT you didn’t tell me what you do exactly - so I can’t really give you a fix .” Edit : The problems are 2 : 1) You act “differently” in quick succession. You either A) go start flirting and than go to logical topics B) go platonic and then start flirting. 2) You build little to no emotion | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?Do ask. I have no problem explaining. I get bitching that over explain. So I just gave the words this time. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Im starting to think game can’t be taughtIm starting to think game can’t be taught Since I have thought it to 204 people on referrals. I know this is a wrong statement of fact. Ive been on hundreds of dates over the past few years and can only conclude that I’m coming off creepy and inhuman in spite of everything I’m doing right Do share with the group. I will go in with the presumption that you know everything. And since you are being a prick about it I will bully you IF you do anything slightly wrong. (like not distracted kino or bei… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.I mean... if you’re dating you’re probably going to have sex after a while... What ? noooooo impossible men and women having sex. That would be inhuman. Think of the children. You mean a man? I doubt it. Yea. Type Big Edd into google to see how low the standard is. But “friendship” is not the first step if you want to approach dating effectively and don’t want to waste your time. I mean I was giving an example. And it says “Friends to some extend” not “friendship”. Like the knew of each other pr… | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work. I love theories. As all good theories let’s see if it stands up to scrutiny. Googled it : Look it will work for some. They will be better off for it and for the rest of us - Life. “be yourself” may have worked, I will ask IS this about getting laid or dating? Cuz even a hunchback can find a girl to date. because in the old days there were far, far fewer men competing for a certain woman... Old times men were better. That is why it worked. They weren… | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 06:48 AM |
| 2 | I’m not closing enough; what am I doing wrong?I’m not closing enough; what am I doing wrong? You came to the right place. I like critiquing small mistakes people make that start building as you go. Anyway today we play guess the problem: A) You don’t sexualise B) you aren’t smooth. I’ll meet a girl that I hit it off with. We flirt, make out, exchange numbers/socials. But once the bar closes, they leave with who they came with and I go home alone. I guess I was wrong. Advice : There is a trick to pulling “You have to take her to a place sex … | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 06:25 AM |
| 0 | Feels like my sexual desire puts women off?Whenever I’m forward/sexual over text, even after a night of making out and intense grinding, it seems like it always backfires. Over text NOTHING that creates more than bits of emotion WORKS. Just get her off the phone and in person. Unless you know you are screening for whores. which doesn’t make sense based on our vibe that night? Text game - the smart ones avoid it. Look you can’t even make a joke. Let alone sext (I have no idea IF that is how it is spell it ) With 3/4 of girls you can do it… | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Date last night [Rant]Commonalities and rapport both A) Kill tensions B) Do not build emotions | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 05:55 AM |
| 3 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working? Cuz the second thing won’t stop you IF she opens. If she doesn’t open it is lack of interest - maybe don’t smell like a toilet. IF she opens then it is lack of skill. Don’t get me wrong sometimes the skill requirement is unbelievably high. But IT is your fought after that. I’ve been blaming it on my “lack of game”, only to realize that it’s probably more likely the women were just no interested … | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you balance a good bedtime with gaming?. So many of the world’s most successful people have a solid bedtime and a routine to boot. Sure. I know how much I sleep and all my richer friends sleep. So NO NO they don’t have a solid sleep. You are confusing MARKETING with REALITY. Maybe if you think “successful” means a job that requires very little work and you have a lot of free time (Like Influencer or Actor or Famous singer ) Jurassic like moving to Europe We are not that old. Maybe Caenozoic. Curious how you folks all do it? Pick a da… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Date last night [Rant]Date last night [Rant] Yey bitching. I typically have good dates but man.. yesterday I had one of the best dates I ever had. And now you will completely prove yourself wrong. I’m looking for a LT partner and this girl ticked off nearly every box I was looking for. Commonalities and rapport are a bad thing in girl land. BTW: You people always say the exact same things. It isn’t funny anymore. I don’t even have to read it to know where you guys fucked up. We were together for about 2.5hrs, Bad. Lo… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | 5 years ago, it was easier IMO5 years ago, it was easier IMO Hard disagree. It is more to do with lack of game in the first place. even I have a nice conversation with a girl, And there you go. Right as always. It is not like 90% of people that bitch about it don’t have the same problems. Look it is just the level of game required has increased from “Not horrible” to “OKish”. I was talking to an old friend that was checking out some old System His quote was “When IT told me-swiftly establish rapport , Gather information and … | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you get closer with a female friend and then seduce her? ( Ik theres similar topics but read description)How do you get closer with a female friend and then seduce her? Works the opposite way - “How do I seduce her to get close to her “ is the proper way to phrase that question they see me as funny guy maybe nice one? Ooo great. Get some sexuality going. Really - you are almost there. You passed the hard part. Now I want to know how do I get closer with them and seduce them? Really it is only adding that bit of SEXUALITY and you will get sex. How you go about it? well entire books are written on th… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How to make her obsessed with you!Well that’s the language we speak here soon Sad times. All the nuance of life lost. Oh you mean like how you weren’t earlier? Yea when I was like 12. Good thing I don’t have to make a distinction when IT IS ONE of the meanings of the word. Otherwise we would be here all day. It’s not my fault your ESL mate. 5th. So it is EFL. Now that I think about it english is the only one that has 1 word to describe 3 different things. (Since Lust is in the official meaning of love) No wonder you people are s… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 0 | How to make her obsessed with you!Being in love is not “being obsessed” first of all. Lmao. Sorry I keep forgetting English is a stupid mans language. Любов (the closest thing to the word Love in English) - is the obsessive type of love. When I say Love I mean this cuz that is love. When you even love even their flaws and bullshit. Обич - is what you think love is. Where you accept a person is flawed and tolerate them because you don’t want to be alone Страст - is Lust basically But it sounds like you’re young so I understand th… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | How to make her obsessed with you!Do you think they prefer the “bad guy”? Bad guy - NO idea what that is If you mean danger , unpredictability etc - most definitely. What happens is that you confuse being good with being dumb. I’m not confusing anything. You presume something. Learn to read. When did I tell you to treat her like shit ? Hell the next part is a straw man so I will just skip it Like an adult. That’s why they send you to fuck ys and that’s why they don’t respect you, not because you’re good, but because you’re an as… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 06:17 PM |
| 0 | How important what you say when you approach a girl?How important what you say when you approach a girl? Sorta not much. I see this quota so many times it is not about what you say, it is about how you say Yes. Example: topic about cats. 1 “Excuse me miss I hope this isn’t a bother , but mind if I ask you a question , like if it isn’t too much , do you like cats?” While stuttering and acting like a bitch the whole time 2 “Hey, Cats Opinion! “ with a judgmental look. Saying it with confidence. You are saying the same thing. But 1 is wrong on so ma… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:24 PM |
| -1 | How to make her obsessed with you!How to make her obsessed with you! How are you going to cover this topic in like 10 sentences ? It is an extremely long and deep psychological manipulation. Do you want a girl to beg you? I mean what is the point of game otherwise. That she’s obsessed with you? You mean “in love” . This is the internet you need to vail it up a bit. Well, that’s fucked up! And I am going to tell you why. Ooooo what a swerve. But no it ain’t you just got dumped and are trying to fuck up a bunch of kids that don’t … | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:07 PM |
| -4 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?No one. I quite like my friends. Why would they pee in my cereal ? Edit : I found out it means: “in a bad mood? “ I’m not. I have no idea where you got that from. | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 10:47 PM |
| -5 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?“Those who can’t do, teach. And those who can’t teach, teach gym.” Woody Allen (I know it from Jack Black in “School of rock”) I enjoy helping others and than people like you appear - and I have to resort to bulling. If they enjoy teaching Either they do it privately OR find ways to deal with losers thinking they know better - like bulling. Tooo many “yous” saddly | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 10:01 PM |
| -10 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?Is Mystery outdated? No. Who is today’s greatest PUA? You will never meet them - they have lives outside of game. I don’t think even 1 has an online presence - teaching a nerd about approach anxiety - is not really anyone is keen on doing. You are probably asking about youtube. I don’t know - I find all of their games lacklustre. And the ones who have good game are people I would never endorse so … Pick someone you like as a personality. Edit : Ok one has 1000 friends on instagram - if that coun… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 09:34 PM |
| -1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10’s to 10/10’s is unreal. Ooo you have 0 idea. It took me 7 mounts to start getting 7s. 1 year after that 8s and 5 years to start getting 9 regularly. This is the world’s most frustrating thing. I have not met a man that starts going exclusively for 8.5+ women that is not incredibly pissed at women. Then when you do and see it wasn’t that hard you just had to live in hell for 2 to 5 years. How do y’all do it? Study a lot. Practice a lot. Prey to god a lot… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 0 | How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls?It lets you drink more. If you mean as in physically IDK | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls?No cooking oil. Edit : Sunflower seed oil | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:50 PM |
| 20 | How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls?How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls? Drink less ? Wtf is this question? Wait - take a spoon full of oil before you start drinking and drink the same. comes time for drinking games and escalation, I usually end up getting very drunk very quickly, The oil trick. It works but it is disgusting. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?Do you know what frame control and frame breaking are ? Cuz otherwise I don’t think there is enough space to cover what you are asking. Just get something about you two together going - It could be a competition , dynamics , you two doing something. Even role plays or you two in the past or future. It doesn’t matter as long as it involves you two TOGETHER. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:35 PM |
| -2 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriend“They don’t have to like me to love me” And thanks I know I’m perfect. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriendFor what HE gave ME I gave him advice. 1 Don’t listen to women And 2 Be a bit less direct. ( I even gave him an open) And 3 Next time instead of bitching - tell us what you do And 4 Be smoother - have more steps in between “Hey” and “Want to date” Just because reading is a problem doesn’t mean I didn’t give advice. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 01:06 PM |
| -2 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriendWomen I approached either married or have a boyfriend Pls tell me you tell us what you do. You most definitely do something wrong. Guessing - You ask too soon (aka you are not smooth). I always do day time approaches Night game - at least you will get a “fuck off” when you fuck up instead of an “I have a bf” - so you know where the problem is. boyfriends or are married(95%) a fcking virgin Add that to the list of problems. Edit : You guys tend to fuck something in your game supper supper bad. I … | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Am I coming on too strong?Never reply to a women with weird biological shit. Unless you’re both already nerds in that sphere. Are you slow or something ? I was making a point why not to listen to women. I keep forgetting most of you have 0 idea why you do what you do. she’s just telling you what her own wants/feels. Nothing to do with generalized advice. No. Edit : The” beta disgust” thing I mention later I was trying to avoid it . Girls advice for getting girls is usually terrible because other than themselves and their… | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?Sorry I thought I commented back yesterday. She gives me I make a flirt y or teasing comment to give some emotions to not Stay in a platonic conversation This is still platonic. The concepts of “US” and “sex” are the two that are not platonic. and I also if she doesn’t ask anything I say something about my self from the topic we talk... Well basically this only you say something cool or interesting about yourself that shows you in a “viable mate “ light. I’m having a hard time explaining the nex… | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 05:14 AM |
| 6 | I want to attract an "influencer" type.Edit : This is must read. Just when you think it can’t get any worse - It gets worse. It is like I’m reading a train reck in real time. I want to attract an “influencer” type. Frankly I find this idea idiotic, but the “delusional” comment made me read the whole thing I’ve been mulling over this idea for awhile now and really trying to figure out means how normal people would even be able to interact with someone like them. Ok you are fucked. You need access to enough of them depending on skill l… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Am I coming on too strong?Am I coming on too strong? I texted the girls the next day to grab some coffee next weekend if they are free which they all declined. Strategy mistakes. When you tell me what you did you might get advice. They proceeded to say I came on too strong and that’s why I got rejected. You wouldn’t get the number if you came on too strong. Edit : Response. You wouldn’t get a response Guys: you should text her after a day or two for the date A lead lasts for at 24-48 h. Anything after that is useless. Gi… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:35 PM |
| 8 | Leaving this subLeaving this sub Ok Good for you . Why did you feel the need to tell us? i saw very insecure incels who don’t want to improve and only seek negativity. I try and help them then I just block them when that is a lost cause. Try it the sub is way nicer. I will answer questions if it’s confusing for some. Yes why did you feel the need to tell us ? I genuinely want to know. When I left I didn’t tell anybody I don’t think you owe an explanation to a bunch of strangers on the internet. And that is conf… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?She needs to fell at least some excitement so you can do that. Tips: your problem is in initial logical vibing If I had to guess you don’t DHV. But that is a guess IDK. You didn’t tell me what you do. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateKeep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first date Spark = arousal. There in your problem. Fix it. I physically escalated things by putting my arm around them, holding hands, and they would only let go of my hand when I did. My war on kino continues. This in not enough kino (if you plan on continuing down this path) and it isn’t distracted kino. However, when I went in for a kiss, I got turned down. Escalation problem - Too big of a jump. Which proves my first point. Also how do you react… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | The fewest skills for Advanced game.Better ? | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | The fewest skills for Advanced game.Advice on how to do that would be greatly appreciated. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 34 | Girls who say they “don’t kiss” on first datesThat is a frame/believe not worth fighting. You can do it but you are not seeing her again unless you pull (good luck with that ) As long as he really wants to kiss you - you are doing good enough. If you want to get sex fast filter for more of whore women (mentally ill - I will stop mentioning it eventually) You can do that by seeing if they go for dates straight to the house or sexting (innuendo and such). Tattoos and big hooped earrings are sorta sings for that. Instagram with a lot of pictur… | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What to say after what’s your name?Well you are setting yourself for a dead end . So yea we start with the approach so you have an open area where you can do shit. What to say after what’s your name? I generally don’t say my name. So nothing. I’ve seen a lot of questions about how to approach but not about what to say after. Edit : There is a reason. What you are about to tell us is a horrible approach , you are setting yourself up for a dead end. (I just made a post - check out skill 2 ) You are in Us conversation (I like you - … | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Is pre-selection true attraction?I mostly like commenting on everything. I tend to be awful on movie dates. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Is pre-selection true attraction?Is pre-selection true attraction? No. So I currently have two women interested in me. But I’m struggling to make a choice. Ok don’t. Girl A Is summery : Has red flags out the ass but is hot. Girl B. Summery : she is into the poster but is meh. Girl A now but I’m unsure how honest her attraction to me is. Again she is hot - and that is basically all you give a fuck about. So my question is how stable is attraction that is bolstered by pre-selection. Like not much - Like an emotion. Look get the m… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Confusing situationConfusing situation Hello lovely OMG. Don’t be cringe. I’m M35, married with 2 kids (8 &5), Oooo. Your cringe is excused. Every good dad should be a bit cringe. can’t go for a divorce currently cause I love the kids and I don’t want them to grow up without my presence. Like at worst you will see them 2 week per month. You seem like a stable dude. Get the divorce. My parents got divorced when I was 8. Just explain to the kids that Mommy and Daddy can’t keep living like this. And be good parents s… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Soft Next or am I Overthinking?Overthinking . She likes you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How to make female friend/acquaintances not see me as friendly guy or excuse my cringe "beta" ?Pfffff. By being both a fun dick (the beta) and being more going in to sex (a bit dumber and pushing things a bit) | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?How did you get rid of your victim mentality? Don’t care. I have 0 idea how you people never get over stuff. I was talking to a girl that had divorced parents (they divorced 10 years ago) and she still think it affects her life. When My parents divorced I was 8 , by 9 I was done with that problem. I haven’t cared like 3 mounts after the divorce was finalised. (And People used to call me my dad’s bastard to my face) How do you people care for years after the fact is beyond me. Actually tell me, e… | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Beginner's Field Report going out Solo and Somewhat sober. Feedback appreciated.Beginner’s Field Report going out Solo and Somewhat sober. Feedback appreciated. Ok. On it. I know a lot of people say that the mystery method is outdated, but I didn’t know where to start. It ain’t. Works just fine and better for beginners. I decided to follow the format in the mystery method for beginners where you go out 4 hours a night and approach 3 sets an hour. I don’t remember that from the book . My goal wasn’t to go home with anyone that night. My goal was to get over approach anxiety … | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:52 AM |
| -3 | Do you go on dates with people you aren’t into?They will get over it - with an abundance of pussy and the girl is going to a monastery, if she ain’t gay. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you go on dates with people you aren’t into?Do you go on dates with people you aren’t into? I made the decision long ago that I prefer having pretty children more than actually tolerating their mom - so yes a lot. more like people you would consider to be 5/10 subjective attraction level, super super neutral. Ok then NO. As stated before looks mean more to me than personality. At the end of the day it is your choice. But I wouldn’t. I tend to fall in love very easily so I avoid people that can fuck up my future kids with. The other way I … | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Approach Format Explained + 5 ApproachesChildren tend to do contra productive things to their well being. That is why adults are there to teach them the correct way to do stuff. I know reading is hard. Don’t worry one day you will learn how to do it. | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Daygame Approach Format Explained + 5 ApproachesI will be the adult in the room and tell you - Take off the fucking glasses. You are correct about the silence - too bad , the sunglasses stop you from doing the actual thing that silence is used for - To build tension. I could not hear a word from the sets. So you ain’t getting help there. | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Men: do you like a girl more if she subtly rejects you ?Men: do you like a girl more if she subtly rejects you ? Like unless she is a bet or when I was proving that you can get any girl . The slightest push back I get I move on. Despite the popular belief that “men like to chase” I have yet to meet one that actually even slightly enjoys it. So men: how would you feel towards a girl, if you were him? The moment that she said “I have to work for it” I’d just friend zone her. Would her not going to your party make you chase her more? No. I wouldn’t give… | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Does mystery method work for day game?As life often works : the same disagreement we had was had by Mystery and Ross. And they reached the same conclusion it is a personal choice. https://www.youtube.com/live/BnjWswrCrro?si=1_nw9u5p39g7kdPV | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Does mystery method work for day game?By the way, there are a bunch of things to comment on your sentences but is very difficult to comment using this format. I know. That is why it annoys me when someone ignores it and tries another angel. A god of seduction doesn’t have to do anything to make women fall at his feet. That is not correct. “entice (someone) into sexual activity” If you’re lucky, women will start talking to you and you don’t have to do anything, just be there at the right moment. In that case you still need to “not fu… | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Does mystery method work for day game?I’m trying to imagine how it looks to skip the comfort stage... Easy I don’t build comfort. Any. I even told you what the 3 things are. it means that after A3 I don’t talk to her privately, I don’t qualify the girl. I do isolate her(depends on her really) but even then I don’t build comfort. I don’t go to dates, not take her to different venues/bars, As stated above - I don’t I have been on 1 date in my life. not even take her to my apartment or a hotel room, not isolate her from the group (if s… | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Does mystery method work for day game?Once you see his version you can change it to suit you easier but at least you know the original version. Buddy you do understand I’m a big proponent of M3 and Mystery as a whole. I don’t like “comfort” - personally. I dislike doing it and avoid it. That is my choice. I don’t like that you say you can’t skip it - you can and if you don’t like it don’t do it. It isn’t necessary. Hell the only thing that is necessary is getting her to a place sex can happen and to some extent (she might do it hers… | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Does mystery method work for day game?Ok. Do it . I just prefer not wasting time ,doing something I don’t enjoy, for no reason. Anyway since I don’t tolerate misinformation : Skipping it : The 3 frames that need to be covered are - will you stick around(girl dependant) , will you hurt her , will she be judged (Girl dependant). So just mentioning You two have a connection and will hang out more and that you are Non judgmental/Open minded and not weirding her out is good enough. And No , people pull in 10 min and in 40 min. - You stat… | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Does mystery method work for day game?Avoiding comfort (4-10h) - that is it. And frankly it is the only thing I ever disliked about M3. The other things people state are misconceptions about the system or book. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on feedbackOk basic game advice - “NEVER listen to women” So even if this wasn’t completely idiotic and makes you even seem even worse. They’d lie to your face. Just ask here and we will give you some. Edit: Your friend | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Dating in SwedenThis is long so I will make a game of reading it. 3 Presumptions 1 you are American - bast of the fact you decided to argue this topic (other options are any largely feminised country like England or Australia - but those guys tend to not speak out of turn and are quite nice ) 2 You told us what your game consists off - bast of the fact this is supper long for no actual reason 3 You presume I’m a compleat nerd and haven’t gamed in Sweden and Mostly everywhere. (I haven’t been to Brazil or Asia -… | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 2 | OLD: do you change your approach based on what the girl is looking for?I have a standard first date routine: We meet up at a coffee shop, vibe, then maybe dinner, with my place or hers being the last stop. Outcome independent, of course. Sometimes F close sometimes kiss close. You are overcomplicating it. You don’t need more than 45min to 1h dates (doesn’t mean put a stop watch and when 1h hits leave) My question is: would you change your routine/ plan just because the girl is “looking for long term relationship“ in their bio? No. I just know it might take anywhere… | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Dating in SwedenI’m about to tell you a secret - game is game. It doesn’t change baste on location. If you can get laid in New York you should be able to get laid in Paris. If you can’t you have a base problem that needs fixing. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 01:43 AM |
| -5 | What would you pay for personal advice?What would you pay for personal advice? Hey bros, I’m a married guy who went from a high school nerd who was a virgin until 19 to a body count >100 by age 30. Sadly in the modern day that isn’t that much. This is some marketing advice - don’t put credentials that are not WOW. I’m in the process of writing a book and want to launch a dating advice business, but I’m unsure what to charge. So here is how it goes in a niche popularity business (what dating is) You need to be popular. And until you p… | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 2 | What does this mean and how should I approach it?I have been doing this for 15 years. It is a boring path ,but I’m quite happy. There is a difference. The other path you are currently on is way less happy. Trust me I tried that 12 years ago. That is the path that drove me to depression for 5 years. Actually it is why I know that inner game is the stupidest thing ever. Don’t assume in general. It makes an ass out of both of us. On the find myself thing - This is me. Good news : you are about to figure out some axioms of life. Hope you can handl… | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean and how should I approach it?What does this mean and how should I approach it? My best skill. Translating women. I went to every morning and we had and have great chemistry. When you say that - Most people will presume it is true , even if they would logically know it ain’t. This is just general advice : don’t do this if you want actual advice. I got her friend to give me her number and I opened up and expressed myself to her over text, Edit: this is a mistake. It shows that on top of being egger you have no balls (and I ty… | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I defintely move on?Should I defintely move on? Edit : YES , after reading the whole thing - like 100% actually this was decided when you said she was from a dating app, but the rest of it was solidified my answer. I have my thought process below enjoy. I have met this girl 6 months ago through dating apps, we spent two weeks talking and we had two dates (second requested by her the day after the first one). Ok. Yes . Women have a lot of options IRL so if she is ok looking and NOT constantly busy with WORK. There i… | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 20 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?They are easier. The girls have to be nice to you at least on the open. And that is the biggest % loss in game. If anything besides that goes wrong it is a skill issue. Opening is just an unfixable problem we all have to deal with. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameHow much action is needed to get results in daygame Like 3/4 girls. In the last 30 days - how many conversations have you initiated with women in real life? I think like 4. There aren’t enough hot women. If the answer is less than 80, you are not taking enough action Excuse me? 80 ? You have serious problems - beginners should need 10 at the most. And that is because they funnel them down. You have some extremely glaring flaw in your game IF you need 80 girls. So many guys message me confused on… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?Yea I was making a point. You are probably right that I should have clarified. like, listening to her, going "oh, you poor thing, you don't deserve this," telling her she's amazing, and surprising her with breakfast in bed/a trip to the spa. It is this one. Constructive criticism is welcome and appreciated. I will add the edit so no one gets confused | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability? You missed pirate and Supper rich man. Vulnerability is not , a woman must have told you that lie. Actually yes I will go over Vulnerability at the end. consuming erotic material in literary It is more concerned with how the woman brain work. Which is not a topic for the internet . Sadly . Balme nerds and feminists BTW : some women who are more unconcerned with societal norms - do watch porn. Some times it is far beyond what you would th… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 01:27 AM |
| 2 | She gave you her number and then ghosted you? Here's whyIs being nice/cute/friendly not something that works? Reading is important. Being nice and coming off nice are too different things. I feel like I'm doing pretty damn well with it. Good for you. I do believe we can all game 6/10. So don’t brag. Being perceived as those things is a death sentence. It means you don’t make her wet. So what you just said is : “I don’t make women wet and still FEEL like I do pretty well”. “It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool tha… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Girl I date have a lock screen picture of someone elseHave you seen a girl having a picture ONLY of her brother? As A screensaver ? Actually now that I think about it - she could be displaying pre-selection. Which modern women seem to think works. FOR some reason. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Girl I date have a lock screen picture of someone elseGirl I date have a lock screen picture of someone else You are the side bitch. Enjoy. On Friday I had a 3rd date with this girl, we hold hands the whole time, make out twice for the first time and went to different places it was very fun. You people have a very weird ideas of what dating is. Are you official? No. Then you are not dating. You are not a woman stop falling for old fuck boy tricks, that I did 14 years ago. I noticed she have a guy as a lock screen, the picture doesn't really show hi… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need date adviceEg « if you’re into x, we might not get along » Not exactly that but you get the point. Welcome to the land of Stupid shit. Imagine you were the girl - and someone said that to you . I would look at you like you are some imbecile. Or get up and leave. Here IF you are hell bend on using lines a test for which ones to use. Would a dude that gets laid say that ? Will he say : “ If you are not into x, we won’t get along” - No too wordy. Too not fun. Sounds logical. 1) She doesn’t respond to it Why w… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate from dancing?The not exactly chaste thing was just a bit of sarcasm~ I don’t understand the word. English is my 5 language. I know these women I'm interacting with at clubs are probably more promiscuous. I don’t actually think so. As referenced by being pulled away. was exploitative. Without me going over how brains work - It isn’t. Again I tried to tell you what is happening with simple words. I assure you that in all cases both parties were actively contributing to the escalation, and the comfort of my par… | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate from dancing?Okay here's the crux of it lmao. By 'more kissing' I mean like 20-30 minutes worth escalating to tongue, her hands under my shirt, the works, Ok so. This is a bit of a hard concept to grasp. I will put it in simple words so it is not exactly correct but you could understand it. Those are Right before sex activities. If anything puts her back in reality she will freak out. The hard part is getting where the line is. In game we keep the line way back. And when we are near a sex location - we “pull… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Setting the standard for Oralhow does one improve such situations? He can’t. The proper answer is don’t set it up this way in the first place Is OP done for? Like NO ,he just won’t get head every day . WTF | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Setting the standard for OralSetting the standard for Oral TLDR: My GF doesn’t give me head as often as I give her and when she does it’s because I ask her too, Is there a way to communicate I’d appreciate receiving a little more often without asking? Stop giving her orgasms and sex . When asked why Answer “I don’t feel satisfied in the bedroom” That is the round about way . The normally functional human way is just tell her how you feel. Communicate Edit: after reading the whole thing. Just let it go. You ain’t fixing that… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Why you should be SPEAKING to as many girls as possible, and not just to game them.Buddy we have mostly seen eye to eye in the past. and I stay away from other peoples comments. The thing here is that For once someone made something I can’t bitch about. When you introduce a concept to beginners you need to explain it. It can be as long as shit. This one is way shorter than it could have been (also 1300 words is not long - You have read a book ) You can’t read it - don’t, but don’t bitch about It. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:58 PM |
| 46 | She gave you her number and then ghosted you? Here's whyYou tried to answer a multilayered question in two words. And I don’t tolerate that. People need to find what they didn’t do and fix it. Here several reasons and fixes: Reason: Her emotional state changed Fix: Set up the date while you are in person. (Just get in the habit of doing this) Reason: She has nothing to tell her friends about you Fix: Lifestyle - tell her Good things about yourself (preferably make them socially competitive for her ) Reason: she felt no “spark” Fix: learn to build ten… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Rejected at Concert/Need approach advice22M went to a concert last weekend and got rejected 3 times. Sucks especially because I rarely put myself out there and have a hard time talking to strangers/girls more specifically. Shit happens. Attempt 1: Then I told her I wanted to know her name and she told me but didn't ask for mine. Because at a concert that would be weird. I told her mine regardless and she looked visibly uninterested so I walked away. That will happen most of the time. Look her current VIBE is Parting. Why would she exc… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate from dancing?How to escalate from dancing? You still need to do everything else in game. All other skills are relevant. So even though you think you cracked the code. You haven’t. But the easiest thing you can do IS : just take her to a place sex can happen. If she doesn’t agree just Vibe and move her one step closer. To your other questions : the way I hear escalation described is talking -> dancing and/or making out -> happy ending. Not how it works : Get kiss -> Find a way to not over escalate it -> Take … | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | 100% success rate from cold approachThe one that was acting supper bored. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | 100% success rate from cold approachHow do you know crew of 2 are paying girls? I know how girls react when you approach them. Again from the 3 sets I saw: 1 was looking at the camera the whole time making sure it was on her good side. 1 was Over acting. 1 was legit. As for nueskii, how's he finding these girls? How the fuck Am I supposed to know that ? Looks like he is approaching random girls? Editing : It has a lot of venue cuts. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Searching for advice: Reason why I get rejected or ghosted after closingSearching for advice: Reason why I get rejected or ghosted after closing Ok. It usually is something about your life or who you are. Let’s see. get rejected or ghosted after having great meetings with women. This mindset ? I don’t even know how to fix it. I meet a woman on the street, talk to her and ask her number. Aaa the famous “Talk to her and prey to god strategy” She give me her Instagram and tells me that she can't wait to talk to me and that she hopes I'll write to her as soon as possibl… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 11:32 PM |
| -4 | Is “giving it up” no longer valuable for girlsIs “giving it up” no longer valuable for girls It has never been Valuable. It is just sex - it kinda just happens. You probably grew up and now you need to have something in your life they should brag to “The bitch squad “ I mean her friend to. Anyway let’s see what else you wrote about makes sense because now they have “given it up”. You are confusing How sex works for a woman. You are giving them a girl erection (making them wet) the fuck you. They are not giving up shit. They’ll give it up on… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them hereYes I think someone once told me I could compensate for my looks. Not sure why I believed it, wishful thinking I guess. You can. Honestly not sure what you mean about the ribbon thing. I mean that you are focusing on the wrong thing. Are you big Edd or Shawn levels ugly ? Not sure what you mean. Google them. And you will see what I mean. As much as I genuinely want that to be true, I've actually never had any woman consider me attractive before. When you google Big Edd and Shawn Stephenson - the… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex?• I never had any envy and have always been with very good looking women, instagram models, influencers and whatnot At 14 - bullshit. Those didn’t exist like 5 years ago. (Instagram models or influencers) what are you having a midlife crisis at 19. • and lol, reproduction is survival It is a part of it . The whole thing is much bigger than a part. Any who I cannot make any sense of what you are trying to say Yea . Sorry . English is my 5 language. Doesn’t really matter. This is fun and all deb… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 07:33 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex?I had a pretty happening dating life even when I was young. By that you mean : you had tons of sex or just dated a lot? It doesn’t matter both were related to what I was talking about . I just like gossip. It is more related to envy than having tons of sex. Like was the girl chased by everyone or was it some fat bitch. You will kinda get why men select more for looks now. If you think about it. It was also kinda related to did you have your pick of the litter. And the final part of that puzzle w… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 07:14 PM |
| -5 | Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex?Might I ask why you attribute this way of thinking to lack of sex at a young age? A few reasons. Which I will go in to. Life experience : In game there are 2 types of guys. The MEs - that could get laid from a young age and just wanted to get better (I officially started gaming at 12 - by 14 I had a massive stack of women behind me - you can imagin) they tend to get bored of sex (like me) quickly. And mostly focuse on other things. When my body needs it I can get it in like 20/30 min with a 8/9 … | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | 100% success rate from cold approachCrew of 2 : The girls are paid. One kept looking at the camera. Another kept overacting. There was a real set in there. He did play proper game (she was btw unreceptive up until the end) Also You can number close pretty easily. Nuekskii He seems legit. Probably does a lot of Volume. He dhv’d - while keeping tensions. His secret is he finds girls that like him. Ayokiss : His secret is he is tall muscular and handsome so he needs no game. The nerd video is particularly telling that he keeps a very… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them hereThere is a long road ahead of me, I get that, I think it's just me who thought if I worked hard enough and improved that maybe it would compensate for my looks. You are trying to compensate with a niche thing. That is why I said” I’m positive you are stupid” I didn't mean to put words in your mouth, I'm just trying to make sense of things. You can’t unless you start understanding it is a multi layer thing. We may disagree but me continuing my improvement and making myself better I don't see it a… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | 100% success rate from cold approach100% success rate from cold approach I will tell you right now it is 10000 things you don’t understand and they won’t teach you. Cuz Most of them involve manipulation and cheating. In general the best you could be thought is someone giving you an optimal move (like a 75-85%move) and you learning it. There are generally like 4 stages where you could fuck up. Open -> Vibing -> making it sexual -> leading At best that is 1/3 girls. So even If I teach you everything today - you’d still f-up at least… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 04:14 PM |
| 0 | This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them hereWell I'm not sure if it is that simple. On one hand there's people who day looks do 100% matter but then another person such as yourself says that looks don't matter? I will slap you with a wet noddle. I keep telling you it is the whole thing. And you keep picking out excerpts : read the whole thing and than don’t put words in my mouth. My answer to this dumb topic is THE WHOLE FUCKING 17 sentence comment I left. If something was irrelevant to my answer I would have left it out. You can see why … | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 03:58 PM |
| -6 | The best advice you'll hear today about meeting girls:Part 2 : cuz there was a lot of stupid shit here No pressure Technically - wrong. Practically stupid. Pressure changes believes and breaks frames. You will have to keep her under a lot of it while still keeping it fun - to make her like you. In higher level game -This concept will fuck you. Exactly why NO teacher EVER has thought it. The concept you could use (aka proper repackaging) Is : “Everything is no big deal” This way you don’t put pressure on yourself , but are still allowed to pressure … | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 0 | The best advice you'll hear today about meeting girls:The best advice you'll hear today about meeting girls: Most of the posts i see here are from guys asking how to approach a specific girl. Not a bad thing. The problem being they lack the skill to do it. Though what they are doing is actual game and seduction - at least they can say that. I presume you are one of the volume guys - look your lack of skill shouldn’t reflect on how others go about stuff. Besides the incredible limitation of options, these guys are puting all their hopes in a single … | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 34 | Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex?This perception is most likely caused by lack of sex at an young age (14-17) and now you are over compensating Which in fact makes it LOW- Value. Now understand that sleeping with someone below your standards means you are giving yourself for cheeper than what you are worth. Again Low value . Also being a sex obsessed weird - Is most definitely low value. So congrats you have a wrong belief. What a shocker. How to fix this: learn to value yourself more. Stop selling yourself cheep. She either is… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | First date convoWhat do you have success with talking about on the first date? I usually talk about “fish sticks” or “corn bread” - yea I know it shows how fat I was before. What things do you avoid? Acting like an Aloof dick, being an imbecile, having a boring interaction , try hard , aggressive or egger . Everything else is small shit - which isn’t and won’t end chancess. I try avoid showing that I’m too into her I think it comes off cold. Aaaa the dumbest thing in game. Whom ever invented this deserves to be… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 12:48 PM |
| 2 | This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them hereSo if looks do matter I understand that you people are stupid. And don’t understand that the answer to the question IS THE WHOLE thing I wrote. Not just one comment. For people like you is best to accept it as an axiom “that looks don’t matter” and move on. then what could be done for a guy who isn't good looking enough for women? There is no such thing. Sorry. I know you want an excuse to suck, but there is 0 way you are disgusting enough for women to not like you. As stated IN MY COMMENT : eve… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap...The rule that applies her “If you have to ask it ain’t happening” It is a very complex topic requiring calibration and skill above what you would consider Humanly possible. Sorry but I’m not about to go over micro-nuanced things that is wayyyyyyy longer and extremely unmemorable(you ain’t remembering it anyway) topic. In game they do teach you to NOT do a lot of stuff cuz IF you loose it you ain’t getting it back. - take it as fact till you reach Modern Mastery level - and than you can ask this … | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them hereThis community says that looks don't matter Since thinking is a problem in the modern world I will do it for you : Matter for what ? - If you think for 2seconds you will see that that phrase is unfinished so we will have this argument 100000 times and still be saying the same thing - we are all saying the same thing. Even you are . Right now. Watch (well read I’m not about to make you a video) How easily you will get girls ? Yea they do. Everything matters for making your life easier. You having… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 10:17 AM |
| 1 | I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap...I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap... It isn’t. One small factor doesn’t end chances. Edit: it probably isn’t BUT you will have to do shit. I (26 M) have had a coworker that has had her eye on me for months now (29 F). Oooo this fucking shit. Fuck her. If a woman is hitting on you and shit tests you - she is clinically insane. Or extremely stupid. I've done very well with push-pull, disqualifying her, disqualifying MYSELF (Which worked ridiculously well) Holy mother of fuck. Why st… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:59 AM |
| 20 | When someone don't have enough experience to seduce their fav womanYou don’t create a hook(there are exemptions) It isn’t something that last forever.It is something you keep up. The example for lifestyle (and frankly easiest way to do it) is : Telling her about the way you live (bonus point if you do it in two words ) An exemption would be : “I’m a DJ”- implies (not everywhere mostly america) that you have lots of women, travel a lot , have money etc etc etc. “I work in a tech company” - is one you have to keep up , cuz it implies nothing. An example of a tens… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 33 | When someone don't have enough experience to seduce their fav womanYou are lacking a hook (something to keep her around you) Lifestyle or any tension really. Is a hook. You just spamming her with emotions is not, sadly. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceYou misunderstand I don’t lie when it comes to getting me laid. I just don’t have qualms doing it. Frankly I suggest it more often than not - cuz most of you don’t understand “A girl needs 0 info about you to be in love with you”. Also frame control: If I don’t explain it- It sounds like a lot of people love me and I have a lot of people who are vying for my attention. (Like I’m famous or some shit) This would be a good time to actually talk about frame control - but that is a way too big of a t… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever meet a girl but you know you can’t afford her lifestyle so you just never shoot your shot?Like why do I care? She has free will. I’m just giving her the chance to decide. You can’t force shit on people.(as much as it might seem that way) | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever read a romance novel as research?I have never been able to - I just read some implausible shit and dump them immediately . I have had summaries recited to me by Exs (also had the sex seen read to me ) and at one point wrote one . They mostly involve : Some either extremely (to an absurd degree ) HIGH Value dude or some personification of adventure and danger Hitting on a blank slate (at most 2 /10 in personality) girl that is CHOSEN by the gods for the quest to get her pussy wet. The dudes are so awesome that at any point when … | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 05:29 AM |
| 5 | I can’t get an instant date, any suggestions?(This part is only here if someone wants to read it and learn something) Compliance (how willing she is to go with him ) is based of: 1 Value (could be anything from general Fun to lifestyle to Just being a man) 2 How safe she feels around him (It is more of you not coming off creepy/nerdy than anything else) 3 How much she has invested (anything she gave back to you - including laughing to your jokes) 4 Momentum (there is a right moment and a wrong moment - an example of a bad time would be her… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceActually a fair point. I have been reflecting on people I communicate and hang out with on a daily/weekly basis recently. I don’t really consider people “friends”. (I don’t know how to formulate this sentence) I decided that for a person to be considered anything more than a acquaintance - they’d have to be A) irreplaceable OR b)At least make me think twice before I just decide they don’t exist in my life anymore. I do have a lot of people I hang out with , I do help them if the need arises. I j… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | 13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteranAha reading problems veteran help … And than when you lucked out and found one actually bored enough to help you , start insulting them. It means : You lucked out TO find a Bored veteran. IDK how you didn’t get that. Also this is conserving for a PRO to say : It's not luck. It's pain Not getting laid by hotties regularly apparently | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:40 AM |
| 0 | 13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteranProjecting what ? | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 0 | 13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteranDamn you mav bro? Yea borderline psychotic. You like more mad than I am lol. Duhhhh. This is me. I don’t fake it. Lot more to this story than meets the eyes. And your ,may I say frankly genius plan, was to ask for veteran help when anyone that has done this for more than a year would instantly lough his ass off. And than when you lucked out and found one actually bored enough to help you , start insulting them. Maybe next time : add the detail or IDK don’t act all offended when your betters call… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I can’t get an instant date, any suggestions?I need to know what you do. But generally IT is like leading - You need to know where you are taking them and What you will be doing (preferably make it sound FUN or interesting ) | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:35 AM |
| 0 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceis it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romance Just Lie. It makes your life easier. And who knows it might turn in to something real at some point (so It is a Lie on credit ) is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romance? They don’t really care either way - It is either societal (don’t be a whore slut etc) or close people (parents grandparents or friends) - that force that idea on them. I know this happens to me all the fucking time cuz my par… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Logistics - is 20 min Uber from the bar too far away for women?Not that long. Attraction can be kept up easily (just don’t shut up - you can talk about anything ) . You will get objections repeats every 8-12 min (so just repeat the same thing you used the first time 2times after) | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 0 | going to a club give me tips ASAPThat would be 1 contra productive right before you go out . And 2 Not helpful. The idea for helping you in the sub is not to fix your whole game in 20/30 min. It is to fix problems (what TIPS DO) Still by my own decisions in life which I regret at this point . The problem is how can i get some girls in the club? Try - fail - realise what mistakes you made or ask (preferably in a field report format)- fix those problems You ain’t getting laid from 3 tips and 0 xp. how can i use being in a group a… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 0 | 13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteranYou are no veteran. There is 0 way you haven’t gotten this exact thing 2456676 hundred times in 13 years. No - she gave a plosive excuse. Respond with “NP” wait -3 days and try for another meet up IF she hasn’t given you alt plans by then. Edit : By attraction you mean wet or in an emotional ecstasy ? | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Do magic tricks sound like a good opener to you?Is it you ? Yes - Then do it. You might alienate a few girls but at least the ones you get are ones you would like. Optimising it would be following the check list on opening (somewhere on the sub there is on) | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Current state of the seduction industry?Ok so that ain’t happening. Thanks for the memes anyway. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:00 PM |
| 5 | What to do with distant peopleWhat to do with distant people I would move on. Unless she is the 1 10/10 per year I see. It frankly it is not worth the effort and it requires a lot of finesse. Have come into contact with women who are distant and won’t text more than once a day. Oooo that shit. Advice : avoid or minimise texting - there is no actual game you can do there . (Just confirm the date and be done until she a) flakes or b) is on the date) I try not to be desperate and just match their energy but man is it exhausting… | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Should I get back together w my ex?No I won’t even elaborate . Just “NO” | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 08:34 PM |
| 52 | Why do women attracted to me act so bossy?She is normal. I get this sometimes. I don’t like those types of women to begin with - so I just move on. (They get supper upset by it ) It is a way of flirting created by lack of xp (they like it - so you should too , kinda thing) | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Current state of the seduction industry?Thank I will check him out Edit : I didn’t see any advice But the memes were fun | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Current state of the seduction industry?Current state of the seduction industry? You just want to start a war in the comments don’t you. What has changed in the industry? A million stuff. Most of which don’t concern the consumer. There are no actual top guys teaching game now. Is the basis of it. Most are NO names (even in the forum days) and Taylor and Mystery are well beyond their prime. Who are the major players? Major - NO one. The industry is (probably for the better) almost dead. There are some lunatics still left - that at best… | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 16 | Why we like MILF's ?I have noticed that women are more emotionally sorted out than men. Talk to more girls and that opinion will change drastically. They are very emotionally unstable even the High End ones. And very logically/morally/ideologically/believes/ behaviourally lost. I don't have any real-world experience, Yeaaa. That might be the reason. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:14 PM |
| 79 | Why we like MILF's ?It is because A) They tend to diregard social presure B) Are more mature than most women C) know what they want D) show a capacity for child care E) Make more money F) know how to treat a man G) Giving birth tends to widen the hip area - which is attractive for men H) Don’t force you in to a box of 6’5” finance, trust fund , blue eyes I) Don’t play stupid games J) Have house keeping abilities (which is another trait men search for) K) Don’t expect you to be that ultra manly Macho man L) ARE HOT … | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 5 | how and where can I reset my sexual destiny?You are fucked. First : There I live in a formally communist country - That luck ain’t happening there. The difference is we are not Muslim - You have -100% chance of casual sex. Also “3 years and ALMOST” is not good enough for the liberal countries. Hell “ 1h and almost got laid “is not good enough . So you would still be fucked even if you move. Second : Red heads - I know of one place that has a big supply of those and that is Scotland. Otherwise they are supper rear like 2–6% of people. Also… | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Recording and uploading approachesCheck your local laws. Some countries/states allow filming without Consent , some don’t. I’m not about to guess and get you thrown in jail or sued. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why only advice "pieces" are wrong to learnAre we actually discussing this? If so You are awesome. they would have to invest more energy, which most people are not designed to do. And here is my problem with this. Open any nerdish type of post - and it is all bitching and moaning. So they can spend the energy to bitch and spreed negativity. But can’t spend it actually improving? Hell hating or constantly bitching wastes more energy than a 10 min Google search. I think that just because someone is an "adult" does not mean that they can gi… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl invest or attract through textGood luck. If you figure it out - do share. The community has been trying to figure it out for longer than I have existed. But You might have better luck | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateGirl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second date That is not a good thing. Shaking fidgeting etc are sings of tenseness. It means she was uncomfortable with kissing you. And you doing it is frankly disgusting. First time on a date trying game - with a smart/educated girl - think doctor/lawyer/mba type. OMG. What game teaches you - Push by what she is comfortable with and make her feel disgusted. I really want to know so I can say bad things about the dude that teaches it. She was blushing at f… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:34 PM |
| 4 | $$I have been broke for 90% of my “game” carrier. I still avoid showing sings of wealth. The answer is NO. NO they don’t. Women don’t give a shit about money or status or looks. They all help. But NOT having them won’t stop you from her liking you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Why only advice "pieces" are wrong to learnThis is actually a good topic (too bad No one will discuss it) The problem is people want a quick fix to a multilayered, complex problem. Which I can’t give you - I can only answer the question you asked In a not so convoluted way. When I try to actually give all the info (which mostly just sounds contradictory IF you can’t read) I either get “Too long didn’t read” OR the famous one “ That is a contradiction” Here would be an example I as A man - don’t like touch “It is wayyy to close way to rea… | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Seeking advice:)Buddy find a guide on youtube . I’d have to show you - me explaining it in text will only confuse you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Question regarding preselectionNo problem. This is the beginner sub( I think ). I just wanted to explain it (like 12 people asked me about pre-selection today) I didn’t mean any offence. It is better to ask so you learn :) | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with girls dictating or holding a conversation?I don’t think it is a leading problem since I’m actually very bad at that part of game and that has never happened to me - Hell I usually let the girl lead and I just bounce of what ever she said. The first one is an Engagement problem. You are either boring her enough so she doesn’t care about leaving or ending the convo OR you are just not fun (aka It is not engaging enough ) - this happens to my dad whenever I enter a interaction - But it has never happened to me. The second one : I have no i… | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Question regarding preselectionI will go in to pre-selection (It just seems you people don’t get it) Fat , Ugly , or weird women don’t give pre-selection. Same group girls (especially when one of the girls gets NON) don’t give pre-selection. Only The hot girls (and By that I mean close to her level of attractiveness) give out pre-selection. You hitting on her friend will : 1) Put her in a more awkward position - where she is now the bad person for putting her friend in that position. 2) Getting the group to hate you . 3) Losi… | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?Sometimes. - I will start flinging shit at them . Some women like to push past flirting - like getting to close or to physical when that is something I’m not ok with Or If they shit test me - then it is fair game. I basically trow out the harder shit women trow. Like pushing It back to flirting or avoiding her. The jab trowing is actually flirting. (The you are short, bald or what have you) - men usually tend to have fragile egos. The whole let’s keep it logical - test is one that I have 0 idea … | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Noticing the delusion and cognitive dissonance some women have regarding their optionsAnd the second sentence is : “She might have forgotten that men actually hate girls having other men in their lives OR is just stupid.” What she is doing and what is happening are TWO different things. Reading is not that hard don’t overcomplicate IT Edit: since you keep adding things and I don’t like to leave Points unanswered Pre-selection absolutely works on men. Fuck no it doesn’t. It might work on people without options. Let me show you: 2 exactly the same girls are hitting on you. They are… | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Noticing the delusion and cognitive dissonance some women have regarding their optionsI think you can’t read. I said Pre-selection doesn’t work for men at all. It only works on women. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 17 | Noticing the delusion and cognitive dissonance some women have regarding their optionsShe likes you and is displaying PRE-SELECTION. She thinks you will like her more , she might have forgotten that men actually hate girls having other men in their lives OR is just stupid. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 02:14 PM |
| -1 | Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No SolutionBefore I block you . I will try and teach you something when that inevitably fails , cuz you want to be good enough the way you are (which trust me you are not) I will put you in the “beyond help” category and just let you suffer away from my ears. "Wow, this is like a super power. All I need to do is approach and find a girl. It is possible!!!" No one has ever said that (at least no one with game) Like dude I critique beginners field reports like they should know what they are doing. I usually … | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 12:09 PM |
| -4 | Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt?You want to date a girl you met on tinder ? Not my problem. Same plan just pick option 1. There are 3 options for investment (aka what you should be getting so she would date you) Physical - The easiest and the one I gave you. Emotional - Which involves you causing a lot of Drama (and is risky) Time : The old 7h rule (where you hang out for 4-12 h ) If you have a fear from the friend zone - This one is to be avoided | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 09:52 PM |
| -7 | Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt?Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? I’m about to tell you something very stupid that YOU women do. And anyone with options (Men or women) completely disqualifies you. The whole Dominating game. Where you just trow out random Dumb shit at people to see how they react. Now let’s see what other advice I can actually give you. Disclaimer: I understand that you guys are mainly heterosexual men. However, lesbian … | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Lack of women during Daygame?Lack of women during Daygame? Welcome to Modern life. I have seen like 1 -10/10 in public in the last 2 years. Though going to my friends privet parties - like 70/80. And I get to be weird as shit (which is a nice bonus) Hi guys, how are you? Fine my question is, where does women are? Asked wrong. “Where are all the HOT women? “ is what you should have asked. To answer my bastardisation to your question. Most likely: Home,Privet parties,Traveling , Getting dicked(I love this word), Gym(Though A … | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | What is the next level for me?First - Daygame is generally harder ( I’m telling you this as the only man that did a 10 for 10 in daygame) At beginner level a 1% - close rate from the numbers you get is about as good as it will get for years (provided you do constantly practice , read, test , learn to cheat and get good at the skills you use) As for what you want advice on - I have no idea what you do - so I can’t fix it or tell you what to do next. BUT getting nothing out of 30 usually means you go in meek(weak or nerdy) - w… | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Not "attacking" on first two dates - is it bad or not?Depends on who you ask really. In personal experience IT doesn’t matter : I have made moves on the first second of seeing her and not made a move at all in like 6 months of casual dating (usually they can’t take my bullshit at some point and they make the move) The question is did you arouse her? If yes - you are fine. If no - then welcome to the friends zone. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 09:21 PM |
| -1 | No PUA course is good?No PUA course is good? We do recommend some, so you at least have an idea of what is happening. Even I don’t like the idea of them costing money - that is why I always say “sail the 7 seas “ Otherwise If you buy more than 1 you will end up figuring out YOU in particular are the problem. In a way it is contradictory. NO - money. I don’t like the idea People should spend money for a basic needs like fucking. And then capitalism comes by and tells me water should be paid for. Also IT is not - we ar… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Unsure whether to chase or waitFirst of all - Non . You neither Chase nor wait (yea you can do both - cool hu) The MAX time you wait is 48 h. Investment starts diminishing at rapid speeds after .(Which can be a good thing IF you had a fight or something) Send something NOT needy - like a dumb meme you like it doesn’t have to be funny at all . You are allowed to 8x triple text. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:16 PM |
| 0 | I feel nothing, anyone else?Sure What do you want ? | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 01:56 PM |
| 0 | I feel nothing, anyone else?I don’t teach unless you were send to me by a referral. I tend to corrupt people. There a guys here that are good in game pick one of them . That is less psychotic preferably . | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 11:23 AM |
| 3 | I feel nothing, anyone else?I went on the alcohol path - It is fun . But I would avoid it if I was you . | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 08:21 PM |
| -1 | I feel nothing, anyone else?Marriage was a way to bind a woman to a man. Aka she was sold to him for profit. The first recorded evidence of marriage ceremonies uniting one woman and one man dates from about 2350 B.C., in Mesopotamia. It has changed shape to be a UNION between two people (not a sale of goods ceremony) It offers societal benefits - Not biological ones . The medieval ages where they needed more peasants. It was still a sale of goods or a deal between kings . Romans still took it as a sale of goods (In law it … | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I feel nothing, anyone else?Buddy - You are just at that stage where everything is easy. Both people and life make you bored. I had that after I solved game for myself . I have been this way for 15 years now. As far as I have gathered from advice given to me by people : Find another passion. Something else to do I decided to write a book about game - It has been a whole 3 years and I have barely passed by what I want to write in it. It is supper though finding testing and “fixing” (If at all possible ) every single tactica… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Can an attractive guy be a "boring nice guy"?Ok I tryed working with you but IT won’t work . Boring means average . Uninteresting , nothing special. Nice means a dude that doesn’t make her WET (rather it be verbally or physically ) That is what is an attractive dude - A bit better and makes her wet . Enjoy | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I have it all on paper but still struggle?I have it all on paper but still struggle? than fake an internet post for fake internet points so please bare with me. Good cuz you picked the wrong place to do it . Let’s get started : By order of importance (what to fix first) 1) No sexual tension = no chemistry (you guessed this) Slow to escalate and mid fashion. This is what NO chemistry means we shouldn't continue because she didn't feel chemistry. This also means you had no emotional Relevance (aka you weren’t fun) 2) Too serious all the t… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Is it always your fault?Where do you fall on this question, or do you neve believe it to be this black and white? Those guys are idiots and get nothing about women . Let’s have some empathy for once and : Imagine You give a 2 a chance and they proceeded to fuck it up . The thing is you wasted your time with that 2 . They/It (I don’t know what you call aliens) fucked you out of something you can’t get back (time). Further more the aliens stoped the 10 hot 8s (they all really wanted to come and hit on you , you can tell … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:41 PM |
| 0 | HowLike a gorilla : https://youtu.be/3431b8twU-U?si=BA_WOtG-pO1owuxM | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this page open to short me?Like You can be attractive and bought short and ugly . So your hight doesn’t stop you from qualifying for “attractive men”. But yes we do have that requirement . | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)In technical terms : 1) You set the compliance to high (You ask too much for what you are giving her ) . 2) You are chasing so you are not a prize . (You are asking ) 3)You are confusing Emotional agreement with Logical agreement (In other words you make the joke fun times “real” ) . 4) You presume texting means something . Fixes 1)There are numerous solutions to compliance problems . -Like not setting up a date just hang out using compliance triggers (read a book on “persuasion” ) Getting small… | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 03:22 AM |
| -1 | Too busy to dateToo busy to date I went on a date yesterday with a girl that I met on Hinge. The date lasted for 4 hours so I think it went well. ‘ That is the opposite of going well . she is too busy to maintain a relationship. Translation : “You are cool . But the idea of dating you is discussing “ I actually thought about other options , but then realised she’d lie if you had a chance . I know she works a lot but is her saying that just a way to let me down easy? Yes she just finds your personality boring . … | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Day 2 doing cold approaches Video in commentsSince i put on some weight and got a little older (more winkles etc maybe?), i've noticed my approach to lay ratio getting worse and worse, but more importantly, lots of approaches are met with a kind of rude reaction. If you consider the fat chick rude - You were extremely hot before . Some flat out ignore me, some just say 'i've got a boyfriend' even If I just said 'hi' or used a situational opener etc (I tried using pickup lines from pros for when girls say 'i've got a boyfriend' but none hel… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 12:04 PM |
| -1 | Strange observation: The more attractive, the less approaches?Cuz you are not more attractive . Your testing is flawed . Small social groups where your personality in front of one person affects how everyone treats you . And big social groups where it doesn’t . women have 3 level scale Yes , maybe and NO . When you get the personality bonus (as far as I can tell it gives you about 4 points from what you told me if you want to use 1-10 system ) you go from a maybe to a yes and get approached . Without it you might be hot but still in the maybe category . An… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Become a better boyfriendAaaaaa . What are you smoking and can I have some ? I do that when I want to break up with a girl . | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Weird situation and how to proceedI am in need of your infinite wisdom. Sorry for the long post. Some joke about be being better than everyone (I’m tired ok I can’t keep making them up ) Show some love, even if not perfect, this is my first post here. Fine . even friends are like "what's going on with you two, u gonna do sth or nah?". Mehh . Some people tell me that there is chemistry between me and about 10 girls . I don’t feel it . People that can’t hold tension typically can’t tell if there is enough for actual chemistry to e… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Day 2 doing cold approaches Video in commentsDay 2 doing cold approaches Video in comments Omg what was that monstrosity of a video . Thanks for the subtitles , I wouldn’t have understood anything otherwise . And what ever was happening in the video was supper distracting . I thought I was watching a cartoon for the first 30 seconds . Second : what was that conversation . She lead it . You didn’t do anything just asked dumb normal conversation . Considering below it asked Owen Cook for advice I would have expected actual emotions being cre… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Ended up asking my LDR if she’s having second thoughtsDude how did you even turn it into his girlfriend being the asshole? I don’t judge people . Low standards and all that . Unlike you who is a Saint . Shut yo' dumbass down. “When he saw the child of some prostitute throw stones at a crowd, Diogenes shouted to him, "Take care that you don't hit your father!” Don’t insult me . I’m only being nice right now so this doesn’t become an insulting match and I can actually take my 3 mounts break . We don't even know if she cheated, It doesn’t matter . Tha… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Ended up asking my LDR if she’s having second thoughts“I wanna take time to answer this properly”. It was a simple yes or no question tho no? Translation : simple “Yes “ Translation : honest “OOOO SHIT HE KNOWS I’M CHEATING and he has way too many options , I’m not sure if he is the best I can do or not , if it ends up that he is , I will have to stay in line and I will not subject myself to this , I will tell him after I ask (pick a number out of a hat ) dudes tell me if they want a relationship or not . “ Enjoy . | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 0 | My above-average looking asocial friend gets lucky by exactly doing nothing at the parties I invite, and now he lectures me how to pickup girlsOoo really . Why ? | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 05:28 PM |
| 5 | My above-average looking asocial friend gets lucky by exactly doing nothing at the parties I invite, and now he lectures me how to pickup girlsMy above-average looking asocial friend gets lucky by exactly doing nothing at the parties I invite, and now he lectures me how to pickup girls Good for him . Hell he is even nice enough to help the less fortunate (namely you ) . Let’s all go and give him a “pussy slayer” shirt and arrange 1 free lay for him . Why are you being a dick to the dude ? It's so annoying and it feels unfair. “Life is unfair” - Malcom in the middle theme song https://youtu.be/ZtKqQNpFJCo?si=uO9WVws1_m9XLmcI Deal with i… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:04 PM |
| 3 | "Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure""Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure" It sends a very wrong message . And that message is : “I’m not for sex . I’m one of the nerds that pays money for dates and maybe after 7-8 mounts I will fuck you (if you let me of corse )” What do people think about saying something like "don't worry, I'm not hitting on you" after you approach? In person or online, dating apps or social media. Even worse . In a setting like a gym or workplace it seems like it cpuld help li… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:36 AM |
| 16 | Girl is coming over tomorrowDo a satanic goat sacrifice ritual . You are more than 100% getting laid .(Unless you shit yourself in front of her ) relax and enjoy yourself + buy condoms . | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?skedaddle Just for this one word I will do as you ask . mind elaborating on the last bit ? Not at all . I started going down the dog analogy and realised this was Reddit . When you want something enough - you will do things to get it . The more you want it the more you will do . Well you can extend or increase the want by giving small part of that thing if they do what they are told . This is called Compliance (in the pua world ) it is taken from dog training . And like dogs . Once trained they … | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?I swear there is a conspiracy in this sub . Admit it there is a meeting to pick the topic of the day . Girl I've been talking to for a while complained that I talk to her like she's one of the guys , not like she's a girl, what does that mean ? To not listen to her . An old friend of mine : “Unless the first words coming out of her mouth are “A man once told me” Never listen to a woman’s suggestions or advice” True unless they are your people (Actually invested in your success ) . I rarely say a… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:02 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about this ?I think she is either : stupid . Did it and the guy didn’t want her after thinks her Bf will cheat if he sees how easy it is Annoyed that you get laid Had bad sex (from that xp) (cuz a million reasons ) and thinks it is bad Has “wild friends” and thinks men are like women . In other words : that is just stupid advice | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong with these girls?My crystal ball isn’t working at the moment . Maybe sharing one such Text exchange might help identify the problem . (If you do pls censor the girl ) | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?Date , Are you asking me out ? - format it to sound like you . | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | do guys like getting sexual with a virgin?You do understand you are asking a bunch of degenerate sex fiends if they like virgins . To your question : have done it three times : First time by accident (she didn’t tell me ) : went overboard kinda ruined her . Not my proudest moment Second was a gf : It took a while before we found a place we were comfortable with . First time was me basically trying not to destroy her . Second was a bit worse . Third time she decided men do all the work . By the 10 time I was just sitting there . Around t… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Are girls more attracted by looks or confidence in guys?This is one of those questions that has no answer . If you are butt ugly (unkept , smelly , etc ) - confidence won’t help . If you are pretty but act like a looser . It still won’t work . So the answer is 50/50 or have a bit of bought . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 20 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?It is about fun . But yea . Once you get a taste for 10 and a 8 is giving you the same shit . She ain’t getting any . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Who is Sam Randazzo ? | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 154 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Buddy . That would actually be impossible . You could do it for a month . If you have girth . Every single time . I’d shoot myself . You will get tired of trying to pull ,all that dumb fuckery that needs to happen , repeating the same words over and over and over , having to tolerate her dumb little brain , proving over and over that you are the best man she will ever have in her life , the same excuses that you have to act like you care about , all the girls being 97% the same and you acting li… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | What I didn’t wrong ?is it you who always does them? Probably . Though mine are not brutal . Just honest Lol. I enjoy reading them. Thanks I guess | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:46 PM |
| 3 | What I didn’t wrong ?I think you are confusing “USSUNG YOU” with “liking you” . I get that it is tough . But better you hear it now , than repeat it later . Look on the bright side - You listend to the Randy Newman song | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 10:10 AM |
| 5 | What I didn’t wrong ?Not really - we get this exact thing 100 times per week . You should see the ones I’m actually pissed at . Not “stupid “ guy , “did nothing” guy . Next time try to at least kiss on the second date (at the latest) You can drag your feet on sex (till the 3/4 date) but the kiss needs to happen fast . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Any good book to reattract an ex?You want a book on “How to do this highly improbable , very resource and time intensive thing , that won’t sell cuz it has a very small demographic” (and would be a scam if It was ever printed ) “How To Get Your Ex Back - A Step By Step Guide To Getting Your Ex Back Fast.” - enjoy it not working . :) Edit : just to prove a point : Review 1 : Made me decide that I did not want my ex back Review 2 : This book did not really give me any more advice then what common sense would give. So Its not real… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Conscious v Sub-Conscious flirtingYes I got that (after 2 text) and I’m saying she didn’t do it on purpose . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 09:31 AM |
| 8 | What I didn’t wrong ?What I didn’t wrong ? What I didn’t wrong - is something beyond even my english . Hi Reddit, I prefer God or daddy , but I will let it slide this one time I met a girl on a dating app. Do we need to even continue . Unless you did anything but fuck . That is what you did wrong . We met in person several times (about 7-8 times) and talked every day. Ok . There problem solved . Question answered . You talked everyday and you went on 8 dates with a girl you met on an app . Why is there more text ? I… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Conscious v Sub-Conscious flirtingIt means “I want you to choke me” . I’m guessing but - He probably had big hands . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Conscious v Sub-Conscious flirtingWomen in general follow the “Behind closed doors” rule . The rule states : If is something shameful it is not done publicly . Or we need an excuse as to why we are doing it . If it was your friend flirting with her bf - It follows the rule (She is not doing a socially stigmatised thing ) While cheating is socially stigmatised . So she would avoid doing it in front of her bf (in this case you ) | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Conscious v Sub-Conscious flirtingI re-read the opening. Sorry . Your gf was flirting . I thought it was your friend . On so I would say unintentional in that case . | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:48 AM |
| 2 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationHow to get back exgirlfriend - weird situation Women 101 . I will be your teacher Edit : In today’s lesson - How to fall for cheep tricks and enjoy it . We broke up in 2020 without even talking properly, it was childish. Both of us went through it very badly. Edit : She broke up with you . And only you cared Fast forward 2 years later, in 2022 I wrote to her long message that I understood my mistakes and I want her back, I promise to be better etc. And you are done . I would suggest the “go and … | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Conscious v Sub-Conscious flirtingHow much of flirting is conscious v Sub-Conscious on the woman's part? You ask hard questions . -This included directing her body towards him Depends . leaning in to hear him directly while seeming to forget myself and his gf were there It depends . Could be bought honestly . -genuinely smiling and laughing at his jokes/stories Could be either one . Depends on the girl . throwing her hair over her shoulder and twirling her hair (this was the biggest giveaway as it was so blatant) Depends on the … | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | When you get rejected, is it more often clear and direct or subtle and situationally gray?Second one . | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Being to availableDo you people collectively decide what the topic of the week would be or does it happen on accident . Generally YOU don’t need to fill up your time . Just leave it be . What should I do to fill my time, or how should I distract myself from talking to girls, why girls doesn’t like when you give them attention? Watch a movie . Play with your friends , masturbate , learn how to dance , invent a song about “how much you love Chicken and broccoli sandwiches “ , play the guitar , go on a walk . Have a… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | When you get rejected, is it more often clear and direct or subtle and situationally gray?When you get rejected, is it more often clear and direct or subtle and situationally gray? Welcome to tonight show where We play “guess what You did “ . I’m you host Dick Dickerson First question : Why do I get nerd subtle rejections ? A) I act like a nerd B) Show too much intent C) I come off as a Emotionally unstable child that can’t handle the truth D) I come off as too invested in this happening E) Random assortment of the previous answers F) All of the above .(besides E of corse ) And the c… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | IM SO TIRED OF THE REJECTIONI don’t have to chill if I don’t want to . And I don’t want to . As for tips : There is an opening check list(somewhere on the sub ) - find it - I’m not chill enough to look for it for anyone under 12 foot . Extra by me guessing . You probably have a Body language problem . (I can’t tell ) if you act meek - shit ain’t happening You tone should be fixed . Stoping moving sets is usually harder to do properly Probably start off dull . So that is something to work on . | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 07:23 PM |
| -1 | IM SO TIRED OF THE REJECTIONIM SO TIRED OF THE REJECTION Ok simple answer : learn how not to get rejected . So before the story im 6ft 3 Short . and girls dont call me ugly They are being nice . i get choosing signals You’d be mistaking stares of sheer disgust . I don’t care what you look like . They don’t too . If you mention any looks related shit I will insult you . but i dont go for em now I learnt about Cold approach last year i think november and i was very excited like fr ive been single for most of my life(turned 1… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How to be louderTake a voice course . | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | When may I be myself?What ever your Looks rating is 2-3 points lower girls . You will basically loose all personality points so she should still feel like she is wining in life . A quote I remember is “You can date a 10 , but you can’t love a 6” - now that I think about it he was calling me ugly . That mf . Also certain girls will not be against this . Though by xp they are too low a number to find .( something like 1 in a million ) Since you asked a general girl question . The general answer is never . I know it su… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesYes and I did a 10 for 10 last year (and I’m done with daygame for a while ) so you can do better . Also I teach on referrals for free . I can’t and won’t deal with people with AA also I refuse to be nice . So the couching gig ain’t happening . Infield 1 - toooooo short a set . No tension , no flirting (maybe you did some sub- com stuff though by her voice I doughy it ) BTW she liked you a lot . That could have been a insta date . Edit : Infield 2 same as the first one. It might just be a German… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Boring atittude its keeping me from getting girls & friends to go out with and meet girls. I have no clue what to do, neither know if there's a slight chance of being able to change this.Boring atittude its keeping me from getting girls & friends to go out with and meet girls. I have no clue what to do, neither know if there's a slight chance of being able to change this. I will be the judge of what is keeping you from success . Don’t do my free hobby for me . 28YO. south american guy living in south american city. Latin . So we won’t have to talk about machismo - good I was getting tired of that . Throughout my life I've thought I only had bad luck towards my scarcity of places… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 05:20 AM |
| 1 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?Saddly he won’t listen because I wasn’t nice about telling him what was happening . Anyway - thanks :) | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesWhat system are you using ? those results are piss poor . If you look around and see what the approximate numbers are that you should use as a guide, I am well below everything you can find. Yea . It is daygame - so they will be lower (I think 2-5% is a normal ratio for a beginner ) Open to Number in particular seems to be my weakness. Yes . You have interaction problem . If I had to guess you have short sets (so you don’t get responses ) and don’t build any emotions (so most don’t give you numb… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest reasons not to do John Anthony's program?It is not a bad program . Let him do it . Here is a rule about life : “just because you don’t like somebody doesn’t mean his advice is bad “ | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 2 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?You are proving why no one wants to help you people anymore . I don’t have to be nice about helping you If i don’t want to . If you want to be babied go hire a couch . I’m nighter you mother nor do I want to be . Good luck with your life | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?Buddy . That is a literal joke I see on bought facebook and instagram constantly . You didn’t cause emotions or she would’n have used an excuse to leave . I think can be solved as the probability of charming them both is quite slim. It is game 101 . It is one of the first things you learn . At least for most men. And seduction is a thing 1% of men do . Your point is that 99% of men don’t do it so it is hard for them . Yet even some of the people who didn’t learn it can do it . It happens but it’… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:12 AM |
| 4 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?The difference between creep and not creep is if she likes you . This is a seduction sub . Don’t quote the internet’s dumb shit . You don’t cause emotions you are a creep . That is it | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?So in order to talk to one girl, you must charm the other? They just need to know you are not a creep. she at first said she and her friend didn’t want to drink when asked why she wasn’t dancing. Yes . I got that . “I want a drink now” Girl code . I remained calm and didn’t approach them as it happened and the girl with me left to meet her friend once she noticed. Doesn’t matter . have had at least one instance I experienced where the friend was even the one who gave me her contact and proceeded… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 10 | I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks?I’m fairly new to clubs but is this the norm that club girls have a friend that cock blocks? Yes . No . Depends on you . Yes and No . You need the 2 girls to like you . And for them to notify each other that they like you . Depends : One is getting free shit from the other I approached one eventually after mustering courage and she was quite friendly depite the ridiculously loud music - she made real effort to chat. After talking for a bit she says she has to get back to chatting with her friend… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 02:36 AM |
| 19 | A day in the life of a hot girlIt is extremely exaggerated . Mostly to make a point . And the point is “Unless you are doing shit better than everyone you ain’t getting in to her life “ As a man that has had Extremely hot women as bought friends and GFs I can tell you their lives are just as much a hell as everyone else . Only they get nerds buying them shit . | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Important talk - Big talk about ApproachingI’d prefer you teach me like you’d teach someone to walk. I’m not your teacher . Also I don’t have enough space to write that much . you’re not really helping that person to learn how to walk. Did you ask me how to walk . Or did you ask for an opinion . Because those are 2 different things . Dickish behaviour - What are those? Watch a old teen movie. What ever the bully or bad guy does . I don’t have enough space for this . There are books on the topic. Arrogance - It is not a bad word . Why is … | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Important talk - Big talk about ApproachingYou get 20 looks a day dude.. I get 20 stares that I catch . what the hell, whyyyy? Extremely good looks , arrogance , fashion is on point (more retro - let’s be real modern fashion is stupid ) dickish behavior . I’m a bit short though . What vibes/looks/talks/whatever is working so well for you? I don’t know what 50% of those words mean . Vibes - means exchange of emotions - how would that work Talks - How would I get the stare by talking . I do not recommend it BTW . “I go in there, creating e… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Important talk - Big talk about ApproachingCold approach : I go in trying to cause as much emotions as possible (till she starts asking questions ) and then I alternate tension and emotions till it is time to pull . In the case of she locked eyes IF she is hot enough - I gust start alternating emotions and Tension and go from there . A more in-depth look would involve me picking a specific girl and telling you what I did . (Because It depends ). Tbh, if she gave you the interest look, I’d say she did the break ice/initiation and now is y… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Important talk - Big talk about ApproachingMine or getting the girl to do it ? Nerds lack “attractive qualities” . You end the tension to get it to happen . She feels she did what she could to get you to talk to her(like 80%of the time - you could try and call her over ) . Blame old gender stereotypes and nerds . | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Important talk - Big talk about ApproachingCorrect . All that is true . I’m for approaching . Though that is mostly because (and I found a way to make it happen constantly ish) getting a girl to approach you is a bitch and a half( to the point if your lock eyes once it ain’t happening 80% of the time ) and you still need to do most of the work if you want something to happen (they tend to suck at gaming men ) Also most men that approach are nerds . They ain’t getting girls to approach them . Why not . If you are good looking enough it wo… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I too filthy for him?I have no idea why that happened .sorry . | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Need advice. If you r pro or somewhat successful plz help.Stand straight , shoulders back , chest up a bit , legs shoulder width apart . Head not cracked to the side . Arms should not be in front of you body | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Am I too filthy for him?Tame ? I think shibari , neck chokers etc is tame sooo that means nothing to me . That particular girl was just a nude . It came out of nowhere . That is the problem . | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Need advice. If you r pro or somewhat successful plz help.Need advice. If you r pro or somewhat successful plz help. Sure Read some popular book on pua. I guess i am absolutely average - felt good with friends, but no confidence with girls. 13-16 read and watched a lot. Which book ? I will try and guess First approach - kissed a young doctor at an appointment. So it is not Mystery Method . Or any old school game book . Was not preparing it was more like instinctive. She paused to talk on the phone. I was sitting next to her. And at that moment of her t… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Am I too filthy for him?I have had girls overdo it . And by overdo it I mean I didn’t take them as sexual objects so It came out of nowhere . Did you by chance not turn him on beforehand ? Or acted nice and proper ? Or in anyway imply you were looking for a relationship ? | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Theory v. Experience, What's more important?Experience , theory is for when you have problems you need fixing . But you need to know what needs fixing first . You can’t fix a problem you don’t know you have . | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What to say at very spontaneous encounters?No . She likes him . He has to royally f-up for it to matter . You can “hoop “ the name later when getting the number . How ever you number close …”wait what was my name? “ and give her some shit for not remembering . | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideI wasn’t . Wtf . I just gave examples . I even left a :) at the end . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideYou are not rude - it is a fair criticism I tried at the end of the day thats all I can do . English is my 5 language . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:07 AM |
| -1 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideNarrowing your eyes consciously is gonna make you look unnatural for starters. https://youtu.be/UBIOa2WhBv4?si=4h0Nv2FyCK2SdtFu The second picture . If you can find an infield of Julien he does it every 10 seconds . Just act natural, try and relax, sit in a relaxed position. When did I say not to do this ? About the comedians.. An example that aren’t boring and talk with pauses https://youtu.be/2hZMSSyHTaQ?si=rgoGbRoQ7XqbUqaK I was going to pick Matt rife - but then I get bitching that he is pre… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:59 AM |
| -3 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideReally ? Eye contact . And “you seem … nice “ - will offend people . If you have ever watched a comedy show Comedians talk with pauses . And that is that exact reason I feel I need to explain it . Find examples for each one and then tell you about it . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:20 AM |
| -8 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideSure . The one that I don’t have to explain for 4h (I won’t explain it at all actually ) Eye contact( narrow your eyes 1/3 closed ) + talking with purses + proximity The pauses build tension and proximity builds tension . Also I can see your past comment don’t try and make me tell you . You can just ask I’m more than willing to tell you . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 10:03 AM |
| -11 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guide1st you didn’t read it 2nd you are being rude to me . You devalue my effort to explain something I’m giving for free . And insulting me Why do you think I would want to help you or answer your question ? | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 09:34 AM |
| -8 | Attraction - Women 101 do it yourself guideYes i can give you a synopses : Attraction = Tension that can’t be explained by her. Edit : Connecting , making her lough , turning her on etc is not actual attraction . It does different things but it doesn’t attract her to you . I hope that suffices . Until I stop being lazy and explain how to cause that tension . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?I actually read into it more - seems to be the case . That is pretty cool to know thanks :) . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Why do people cheat on their partner?As a psychotic amoral shit of a human . I can answer that even nothing is a good enough reason just not good enough excuse . You want excuses I can give you a hundred . At the end of the day I wanted sex at that moment in time and she wasn’t in close enough proximity so I found the nearest thing that was around that didn’t require a lot of effort . People cheat IF they can . If you are asking about why they would cheat with a particular person - that person makes them think about sex and is avai… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Am I allredy friendzoned?Like “in a month I will leave . And have to cut contact” Buddy thats basic manipulation . You two are not friends so she won’t give a fuck if you do this . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Am I allredy friendzoned?You are confusing acquaintances on friendly terms with friends . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Am I allredy friendzoned?If you are actual close friends - Leaving her(as in permanently ) and adding a time limit to before it happens . In most cases men are not actually friends with the girl . So them leaving means nothing . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who improved their looks and got more success?I technically got less success in the beginning . Then when I fixed a minor problem I had about the same only less work . (I skimmed off 2 min on my average set time ) I do get more looks and people staring at me . Also sometimes girls would open me . That is about the difference . | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 01:13 AM |
| 0 | Am I allredy friendzoned?Am I allredy friendzoned? Yea I think you to are acquaintances on friendly terms . The friend zone is fixable . I’m not sure this is . I never had a longer or deeper conversarion Good never do . and without hasatating she said yes. Means nothing So I also took her shooping for a dress and everything and I really got to know her in this whole process and now I really like her... And this is were we became simp zoned The party was also amazing and we danced all time and I really saw it on her face… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Finding love…Buddy I thought I could use the same tactics on her but it didn’t work. The reason it didn’t work Is because you think it is a TACTIC . Aka fake , not you - which makes you Incongruent (lying about who you are ) She sensed the bs and left me. She actually saw that you weren’t causing emotions anymore . doesn’t work for serious relationships. It works . You just have to be THAT GUY . Not act like him . How can I be more prepared for a future opportunity? Either change who you are or change the st… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Tinder bioI have a digital business that allows me to travel most of the year. Too much info Looking for an adventure partner with the same freedom 🙌. Remove this . Mentioning travel is good enough to get those girls . Fix : Business owner . Traveler (mention a place where have been and like +something you did there ) Add a few more hobbies that show you in a good light anything sports related works fine . example : surfer - Sahara has the best waves Cook - My Dubai fish sticks are to die for Crocodile ri… | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Rejection challenge new to the game“If anyone is down to get blown out because of wing “ - is not a very good sales pitch . Buddy that is not how you do desensitisation therapy. What you are doing is the Johnny the Englishman (Barber I think ) thing of reframing losses as wins . You will actively screw your progression up . Like to an unfixable degree . Someone would have to instil the fear of rejection back in you and then re-fix it . Try other AA fixes first : Like if you are set on reframing - reframe the anxiety as you being … | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Experts what are your best tips and tricksYou see why I wanted to know what you do before hand ? Sexual tension depends on how you build it . The bf line is dreaded ? Buddy just give me an example interaction and I will work with you . | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Experts what are your best tips and tricksTip number 4 was for this . I like the topic of “corn bread” the now locally famous 45 min convo was only lead on that topic . If you can’t get the “HOW to talk” down this topics work fine : Sex , relationships , drama . Note : NOT about you two having sex - just sex in general - That comes later in an interaction . What to do : Open -> build emotions until she likes you (This could happen instantly or 2/3min ) and than alternate between sexual tension and Emotional spike -> lead (compliance stu… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Experts what are your best tips and tricksCan I get at least a hint on what you do ? Or which part you need tips for ? Or what you need improvement on ? The more info you give - the more of a chance you actually get help . Scripts - NO . Even routine baste game - only had scripts for moments in the interaction . It would be https://youtu.be/FSKX0YwiZ-U?si=Evn1idg0wTXabp6U to make one . And it won’t help you if you act like a nerd . Tip : don’t waste compliance . Tip 2 : kissing is done one time - don’t become “club make out guy.” Tip 3 … | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Curious about social mediaHaving a cool life . If you have anything going for you post that . And shirtless picks if you can pull it of . Linkedln - I don’t think so . Facebook gets weird looks | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Curious about social mediaNot having it won’t really inhibit it . It might help you (if you know what you are doing) . | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 02:56 PM |
| 12 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Ok I think we are all just arguing on semantics . Cold approach comes from Pick up - it is refereeing that YOU don’t know if she likes you . So presuming things won’t go your way (aka she is “cold “ ) and you might have to “plow”/“persist”/“do some magic shit” (all mean the same thing) for her to open up and talk to you . The idea behind it was that you , don’t sit there with your hand in your pants if she is not ecstatic to talk to you . And the name just stuck . Because it worked for newbies a… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 11:23 AM |
| 7 | What to say at very spontaneous encounters?It doesn't happen very often, but today I saw a girl on the street who smiled at me. When I turned my head after about 10 metres, she also turned hers and smiled again. Cute . Something that is very easy to do / say. Hey :) . She already likes you so . If you want something to use : “Hey we had a moment back there … My name is (whatever)” | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Kiss close that’s works for meYou mean the kino thing . It is more for Style since he had a problem going sexual . You can do it multiple ways : I just use a slight variation on the Mystery kiss close . There are also Qualification and Challenging (Swinggcat ) Or a more rough variation is the Kicking out the convo by GS The one eye other eye lips trick . Different kino variations De something kino ladder The stop looking at my lips . Others It is 3 o’clock and I’m in a post nut clarity state if someone points the correct nam… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Best cold approach openersNot proving a point . I’m actually testing it . I don’t have a point cuz I don’t know. Edit : read the comment the Mod left . I now agree on the points you made and would like to apologise | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winIt was common before “I will get what I get “ game was invented . We all had to learn to stfu . And when she is shiting herself with enjoyment in front of you it is hard . But you learn and adapt . You did great I look forward to the next time I nitpick your sets for no reason :) I can bet if you keep it up and improve in 6 mounts to a year you would be nitpicking mine . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Best cold approach openersTrue. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termHe begs her in the beginning for her to go on a date with him - that is why I said it . “ A streetcar named desire “ - is a good one (ignore the rape part ) Any romantic movie ever . If you want to see how to build Sexual tension Tom Cruze in “Rock of ages” Are all good places to start . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | State of the subIt would be idiotic (not silly )not to allow cold approach talk . They usually do . I will go and test it and get back to you . I’m not sure so I will test it before arguing . Edit : and now we wait | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:23 PM |
| 11 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termDoes showing too much interest kill your game long term The short answer : YES . The less short answer : It depends on your relative value to hers and You are making her more valuable by showing interest . Now add random dude 5 (who doesn’t do that ) to the mix and you have less value than her and him . Now add Social media and random dude 5 becomes a glorified version of himself . And you are devaluing your self . Now we wait for the simps to show up and say “direct game bro “ . the more intere… | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winEye contact talk slow with pauses Flirting would be something that builds compliance BTW : good job . Asking for clarification is a good thing to do . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 05:08 PM |
| 8 | State of the subBuddy I’m on the side of the moderators on this one . It was pointless just like the 9 paged novel one . The dude used 100 words to say “be sociable “ . Also it was worded in such a way . That it was probably going to start a insulting match between people . If you haven’t paid attention - they on purpose leave FR for a day or two so that the people can get advice even though it is against the rules . They tolerate my and others “bad” behaviour because we give useful advice . I got yelled at onc… | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Mommy/Daddy issues? Why am I always attracted to ho’s?It is good that me doing the same thing hos do to you so you would see reason help you . It is supper hard to find that special woman . I wish you the best in your future together . :) | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Logistics dilemmaDifferent ways to play the game . You are not there yet . Ao don’t worry about it . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winA) Build tension B) get a commitment C) lead . If it is off the bat - tension would be best | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Mommy/Daddy issues? Why am I always attracted to ho’s?I have a savior complex Morals . I explain it in the end . I just wanted the mirroring between “villain and hero “ Because as much as I know about psychology . The topic makes me extremely uncomfortable , so I focussed on poetic shit or jokes to undercut the tension . with these “ho’s” and when I first get with them they are fun, sexy, open etc, then I start to catch feelings and all of a sudden that fun, sexy open isnt cool anymore because I aint the only one, so I get mad and leave them or kee… | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Mommy/Daddy issues? Why am I always attracted to ho’s?Mommy/Daddy issues? Why am I always attracted to ho’s? That is like the most basic shit ever . Hot , open minded , sexy , fun … Welcome to why women like the bad boy dick of a dude . As embarrassing as it is to say as a man, Wtf . Look we are not women , we don’t judge low standards and all that . I have always been attracted to the crazy red flag ridden ho’s, jumping from one dude to another, lying, always with ulterior motives, Yeaaaaa . I just read this and went all fuzzy . With emotions and … | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Logistics dilemmaNot what style means . You probably don’t need the logistical improvements . At the worst case it would be repeating “5min away “4/5 times | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Stuck in a Triangle of Love & Need Help Choosing Between 3 WomenSummery of the whole thing with every relevant part still in it Part 1 Just nothing . Has a Meghan that fucks him and a Hannah he fuckes over . Part 2 and 3 He meets a drug addict that continually just fucks him even 10 years after they stoped communicating . Incredibly improbable shit happens Part 3 and 4 Gets high meats Mirage girl - she is perfect in every way (she has next to 0 character so i’m guessing) Part 4 he continued harassing her and got kicked out . Part 5 Some improbable to impossi… | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Logistics dilemmaAnd the style ? If you don’t know just tell me where you learned about logistics . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Logistics dilemma20 min by car or foot ? And it depends on what “game” you play . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:09 AM |
| 6 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winYou are pretty good (for this sub you are basically a god ) . Most people would “choke “ under that shit . You are just laking a few tactical stuff . A win is a win (don’t glorify success ) . Keep going and you will do great things . | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How to differentiate friendliness from IOI.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PqccEpqvwPY Just heard it for the first time . Thanks for that :) | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | My bestfriend is mad at me for having a threesome. How do I fix it?I have 3 questions : 1) Are you the pretty one ? - be honest I will never meet you IRL . 2) does she act sexually free as well or no ? 3) does she have a crush on Mutual friend (23M) ? I can’t see her problem in this case . The only advice I can give without knowing what she is mad about : wait a bit - try again - you will smooth this over eventually . In any case : Never tell her about what you do again - she doesn’t deserve that level of trust . What you do in any bedroom is non of anyones bus… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 09:15 PM |
| 33 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winI love it when they play hard to get but you still win "Why is such an attractive girl not accompanied?". She responded with "I can ask you the same thing". So at this point she likes you . Just don’t fuck it up . i'm gaming to the max; using all my lines and charm that usually works but it's not working lol. So after a while, I straight up tell her she has amazing lips and I want to see how they feel. Why ? She likes you you don’t need attraction (the PUA term) She then starts saying "You're wa… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysWe just want regular conversations sometimes Had to remove text . So I took away anything that wasn’t important to the point Nooooo . Don’t lie to the kid . No woman wants “bleh “ or bland . Just like no man wants a 3 . Maybe you are think this for a hot guy . Imagine Bobby the class nerd (short (5”1, ,no muscles , his face is full if acne ,has the sleazy hair style bold spot included , Body language resembles a hunchback ) comes up to you. Now you will not even acknowledge him (If you are anyth… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysNo. No he is not nice . Or no I’m wrong for giving the advice ? My honest take is that he is trying too hard. Probable take . Him being a bit mean will fix that . Look I have limited info and limited resources (comment space ) If one thing can fix several probable problems I will take it . He has a clear goal besides just having a conversation There are entire schools (multiple ) of game dedicated to this exact thing (not that I like it) most people here do this exact thing . whereas the other g… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:04 AM |
| -2 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysEasy . His mean is your normal . And NO you are confusing this he is not “acting “ nice . He is nice . Otherwise he would be calling those girls “bitches” , “sluts” or what have you and having a field day insulting the female gender . At worst he will go a bit over bored (and trust me not by much ) once or twice and then dial it down . And best he will hit the sweet-spot on the first try . I could go on and on why that is actually the proper advice , but I think this will suffice . | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 03:45 AM |
| 0 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysFirst : It would do you well to read a human psychology book before making comments . For reference (because I’m nice) : Agreeable and submissive behaviours are the things you are looking for . Second : Find out how humans work and why what you are suggesting will take longer and will be less reliable as advice to give . | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach in 2024Not supposed to help my argument . Just giving you the chance to defend your points . I could quote a few precedents about this and ruin the fun of the argument . | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How to differentiate friendliness from IOI.How to differentiate friendliness from IOI. Aaaa . How do you confuse “I want to fuck you “ with “I like friends , you are one “ ? The eyes sparkle (thus why it is called a spark) - they are a bit more narrowed and she will be smiling . The other is her just looking at you . No emotion behind the eyes . I don't want to confuse someone being a nice human being/friendly for romantic interest - how would you tell? I told you the eyes . They can’t lie . | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 01:59 AM |
| -9 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysWomen are cold to me but warm to other guys This is why : try to do my best to show kindness and interest This is disgusting . I nearly barfed . However with my friends, other guys I see women smile and actively listen and ask questions back. The have the magical (frankly over explained ) thing called Attraction (The PUA term not actual attraction ) How can I make women open and feel comfortable around me? Show less interest . And don’t be kind . Learn how to talk with women . Be more fun / inte… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How to battle ignorance at a Bar pickup?How to battle ignorance at a Bar pickup? Read Mystery method - the chapter you want is called “Group theory” There are advancements but no one has written about them . So guess them yourself . went up to a group of 4 girls and tried to chat them up and ask one for a dance. Ooo boy . If you get rejected it will end you for the night . She did not seem keen and finally they started ignoring me, which made me leave. Expected . It is better to leave on a high than ask one to dance . This is a social… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How many times per week do you go out?I test shit right now so 2 times per day except weekends (1 time than) So 12 times . Normally 1 time and the rest happens on accident | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I hate textingthanks for all the feedback bro, much appreciated. You are welcome :) you're right i don't really remember, Do a set and share it . You are more than welcome to . The worst you will get is advice . we talked about where we're from, etc etc. That is not conducive to getting laid . (It is a dull convo everyone does ) this seems to be a common sentiment that if a girl likes you all other priorities in her life go out the door, It is a fact not a statement . Everyone that has gamed - has had a girl … | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach in 2024Are you dense? No . I’m not supporting the human insulting and yelling at a woman at 3 o’clock at night . She told him to fuck off from the start and so he did. No . She said “don’t talk to me “ To which he continued to try and talk to her . If he had stoped, not of this would be happening Yea he commented she could have said it nicer, No . Not her job . She was nice enough . Just like I don’t HAVE to be nice . Nor you , nor anybody . Live gives no shit about your feelings . you calling me dense… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 12:36 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach in 2024Cold approach in 2024 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLV8hDM1/ I think the dude is: 1 an compleat idiot 2 uncalibrated as balls 3 A dick He is one of those people you can’t fix , just make less bad . The girl is - alone , angry , walking . It is the middle of the night (again ALONE) , he is from behind . I would say a milion worse things than fuck off (she was nice) if some imbecile decided to yell at me at that point . hell I might punch him And then he processed to insult her . Fuck him . I’m on he… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I hate textingi like to have long conversations with friends and others via text. Aaaa Skype good times . Sadly everyone texts these days not just 5 people you know . was at a live music venue i go to every week. saw a girl standing alone listening to the music, walked up to her and asked what she thought of the band. we talked for 15 min or so, turns out we had some random things in common. So I get nothing from the set . What did you do in it ? I will try and guess from the texts : "want to hang out another… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I hate textingI'm a pretty social extroverted person , have no trouble meeting women. I every woman that I ask for her number gives it to me and they all seem down to hang out again. Ok good when I came back in the game . I got a “texter “ once and decided Texting is not for me . So I call . Pretty standard. The standard is - set a date on the street and then text only on the day of the date . To see if she will flake . That is the common advice . they all wait hours or days to reply, And you answer them ? Wh… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 02:01 PM |
| 3 | How to turn ONS game into LTR game on first dates?How to turn ONS game into LTR game on first dates? You can’t . OND is not made for dating it is made for fucking . - the chances of you finding a girl that is ready to settle on them (by my estimation on women that are actually dating on them and google statistics ) is 1/60 - of the ones you go on a date with . looking for an LTR, OMG someone lying . Nooooo . After my last date I was thinking maybe I'm coming on too hard onto girls on these first dates? Look I’m about to tell you a secret - Wome… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Blast from the pastWhat they mean depends on what she said . I tried writhing out guesses - Turns out there are at least 17 variations with different meanings (and I might have missed some ) So be more specific to what she said . :) | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Asking a girl out while she is talking to another guy?You mean in set ? See which one he likes (who he flirts with ) and isolate for him . If they have more xp (so almost never) they will be nice and you can ask him which one is which. - In game code If they have less xp (so 99% of the time) they will try and block you out and you are free to cuck them | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 03:42 AM |
| 0 | OLD: Call out one worded answers?Ghost . The call out (not recommended but was a part of the question ) : “ I understand you are shy , it is not every day you talk to gods gift to this world ,you are welcome btw , but the whole idea of this is to get to know each other so I know you are not a stalker “ And pray to god she reads it . Edit : I made up another one (technically a copy from a book I read once ) “You don’t have to try so hard to impress me , I like you “ She will probably answer (if she does) “I’m not” You answer “su… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:22 AM |
| 0 | What's something that you have learned from getting rejectedHow to avoid getting rejected while pushing the envelope . | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 09:59 PM |
| 14 | Do women do soft launches on social media to maintain exit optionality?Do women do soft launches on social media to maintain exit optionality? No . They do it to gage public response aka she is unsure if random dude 55 is up to snuff and is trying to see it . Edit : Qualifies for women 101 So welcome to women 101 I will be your teacher . An ex of mine posted me on the first date (where i swear we weren’t even together yet , but she decided we were ) and her current bf was soft launched for 3 mounts . girls simply refuse to post their BF on social media. They are us… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What happened to this sub?Sure . It depends on you and what you want . | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone not find this stuff just draining?Thanks for your in depth comment, ive spent a good bit breaking it down haha. I hate to start this way : stop with the “HAHA” haha.;Haha ; haha - I counted 4 . so, a "Talking stage" is basically someone you are dating. Its between dating and making them your girlfriend. Or simply dating. Ooo going on dates . Thank you this was informative . My dad is a deadbeat. No job, no social life, lives off welfare payments. I have no masculine figure in my life, closest to this are friends who are older th… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How To Make Your Game Work: The Two System RuleFinally, someone with in-depth experience. It is good to be seen . Wait no awwwww . “SEEN” Fuck . I'll make a post listing all the game styles available in pickup in a few minutes), Don’t forget “chasing game “, everyone always does - mostly because it it supper hard and everyone refusers to learn it . Ooo and “tension “ - I have recently like 2 years started using it . Boy is it good shit . I can respect your cold reading ability. I have a crystal ball . I hated Todd guys in the forums back in … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What happened to this sub?So, I was an avid member of this sub roughly 4-5 years ago. Good for you . I was a member of the forums back in the day . (The Mystery ones , and the top beasts one from RSD ) Same shit only we all used the same system . The RSD main forum was one to one this especially with all those Todd people (maybe why I dislike him though he has been nothing but nice in person) Like, folks all swear everything is based on looks or say cold approach doesn't work. Duuuuuuhhhh . We did that too . Only we had … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 06:57 PM |
| 0 | How To Make Your Game Work: The Two System RuleIt's come to my attention lots of guys either focus on one aspect of game or the other. Yes knew someone would point this out eventually . They either focus on the first half of the interaction or the second . Namely, they choose between inner game or outer game. Ooo this is not a debate . Inner game is pointless . Unless you have mental hiccups . Like literary just take a Meditation week and you’d be done for inner game . For the rest of your life . The inner game guys are the primary audience … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | What happened to this sub?Aaaa what cataclysmic event did I miss for this to happen ? Like yea I read the hot guy story -Side note : Nick Bateman and Sean O’Pry are not in the same league . It was a fun read . The dude nighter shit on or envied him . It was a fun story . WTF is this . | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Anyone not find this stuff just draining?Anyone not find this stuff just draining? Edit : doesn’t qualifies for women 101 So teens 101 I will be your teacher . my excuse for starting late. I know people that started at 50 what are you talking about Late. talking stages. What is a talking stage ? You kids and your modern words . Stages: 1. Get close with the girl 2. Go on a good amount of dates. 3. She starts being distant (aka the start of the ghosting) 4. I give the same energy back. 5. Ghosted So a talking stage is wast time and get … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Hot Girl gave me her numberI’m saying it is fake . Those ads are not real . | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Hot Girl gave me her numberThis is the “HOT singles near you” porn ads . If it sounds too good to be true , It probably isn’t . | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | The Most DTF Girl I Met In Day Game… But Cockblocked By Her GFApproach #1 – The Lesbian Punk Rocker Girl Now she would be more of a sexual deviant - and will have less objections to being a “slut” . see any foreseeable way to pull Cassie right then and there. I will popularise toilet sex . It does wonders and the magic of it is Most places have toilets . Looking back, maaaaybe I should car closed her? Yea that works too . – Shocked By Cassie Projecting Hard Sexual Intent + IOIs: Most girls I approach aren’t hella DTF like Cassie. You are not using tension … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:56 AM |
| 6 | How to get over awkwardness after asking someone out?Improbable - you have broken the secret trust of Fuckbuddyisum . The best I can do Is give you a Guide to probably get it done : Step 1 : Being an adult and telling him that NO is an ok answer and you want to be homies If it fails : Step 2 : Maybe if you take him out and get him a new girl (become his wing girl) If it fails : Step 3 : Stop trying to bond with him There problem solved . | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Had fun with a girl at the club but didn’t hook upI already dislike Rotterdam . “It makes it better” - works wonders in this situations | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Had fun with a girl at the club but didn’t hook upFrom the info (sense he can’t guess what the friends were doing exactly ) the options are something to do with the friends (including but not limited to them saying she came off easy ) not pulling . Her not remembering him . Now all 3 are plausible , so let’s see which option helps him the most . He can’t change the friends . - so that one is dumb advice to give (thus why no one is ) +they were girl helping him He can work on pulling so that is a good option + it would fix the 3 one too Him work… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:24 AM |
| 0 | Had fun with a girl at the club but didn’t hook upExplain to me how you would’ve done it tho. K We both live 25+ minutes from the club. horrible logistics We both were with friends, we both were drunk. Bought of those mean nothing . She was getting picked up by her parents. Time constraint - A quickly will work . And there is absolutely no possibility of fucking her in the club. They don’t have toilets in the club ? So 3 options 1 is risky and the other is toilet sex and the 3 is just trying anyway . The risky one is outside behind a bush (this… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 13 | Had fun with a girl at the club but didn’t hook upTL;DR: Hit a breakthrough in my nightclub game, but what can I do to increase my odds of actually hooking up next time? Something to do with “focusing on pulling” if I had to guess . Edit : TL;DR : start getting Hints . She was with a group of like 6 or 7 girls. This is good group logistics . She then grabbed my hand and pulled me a little closer. Ok she likes you . I later managed to get her snapchat when we were away from the dance floor. You should probably isolate at some point . One told me… | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Is she insinuating she wishes to be platonic friends or am I overthinking it?Look from the info you gave I can only presume the most common outcome (which is the friendzone) I however can’t be sure so TRY . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Help me with this chat where do I messed up?(man. but not a man you know). I don’t know what this means . Thank you for taking the time to explain with details. Yea I'm a fucking weirdo. -sigh- You are just a nice kid . Don’t worry . Just take on easier women . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Help me with this chat where do I messed up?Help me with this chat where do I messed up? Everything or just the point of “it is fucked “ ? (m31) So, I want some insights about what I did wrong in this conversation ... So everything ok . She is from Eastern Europe. My specialty OK . If at any point you weren’t acting like a complete macho man . You could play the rich card too - but that is just till marriage then divorce happens . she takes some pics of my dog. Mistake one . Then everything goes normal and she went back to her table. Mist… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?A double standard is the application of different sets of principles for situations that are, in principle, the same Hypocrisy - the practice of claiming to have higher standards or more noble beliefs than is the case. Different things . Double standard is if the situation is the same but the details are different . Hypocrisy is me calming one thing and doing the opposite Hypocrisy in this case would be me claiming men having sex is bad and me as a man having it . So no I don’t have to pick shit… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?Why - do you people want to fell special ? No it isn’t . GAME IS NOT LOGICAL . The nurture will only change what you like logically not emotionally . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?Why ? Morals are societal norms so they stand to be dualistic . Also I can Have a different opinion about men having a lot of sexual partners than I have about women . So no this is not hypocrisy it is just a double standard . So please answer it, do you have what you would consider a high body count ? You were nice so . For a man no , for a woman wayyyyyy over the limit . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:25 PM |
| -4 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?Buddy I wish you the best of luck . Date whom you want - Really not my problem . But don’t judge my preferences FOR WHOM I WILL date . And who I wouldn’t . I don’t go out of my way to call you a “ Joke of a man that takes what he can get , because no one wants him and is a disgraceful joke of a human with a small dick , no options and lacking mental capacity to actual find the vagina opening “ So I would appreciate you don’t to . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:10 PM |
| -7 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?Having preferences - Is incel shit ? Wow you must have sex with every 2/10 you see . Your life your choice frankly not my problem . Just know some people can afford to have standards and criteria . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?If it makes you feel better- sure . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:53 PM |
| -1 | Recommended online course/material?There is a search function - USE IT . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:00 PM |
| -3 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?Date as in a relationship - no . I can’t bring a person with 0 morals to meet my little sister or nice . As a NOT meet the family and random sex kinda of thing - Sure why not , fun is fun . This breaks 3 of my 5 criteria . She can’t be good with kids cuz they need to learn morals She isn’t willing to sacrifice for the family - cuz she is a self-serving person . she can’t be a good person cuz she lacks morals . And to the statement : BUT she has changed A moral from my childhood “A wolf may chang… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Making it a Man/ Women FrameFOUND IT the work book for” Sexual connection “ - It is in found on the 7 seas for free . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Infield post pickupWell if there is that infield they are in prison and it is taken down . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:40 AM |
| 15 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?Evolution … IT hasn’t . It takes wayyyyyyyyyyy more than a generation to change mating preferences . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:38 AM |
| -1 | Need help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 datesK . You have no friends . You life not my problem . Can you point to the part that had nothing to do with sex ? Just quote it . | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 01:44 AM |
| -1 | Need help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 datesYea . You just copy and paste . And if people like you they respond in a reasonable amount of time . One of them is on the couch 1 is my sister and the rest are close friends . Why would this be unreasonable ? I’m asking what did I get wrong so I can fix it Not how I sound like ? | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 01:39 AM |
| -3 | Need help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 datesYou seem like a dude that needs to help getting girls especially from tinder . I’m sure you know better than me and the girl on the couch right now and my sister who called him a “compleat dick “ and the 3 girls I send it to to make sure I didn’t imply anything that wasn’t there . Explain what you think is wrong so I can fix it … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 01:28 AM |
| -1 | Need help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 datesNeed help understanding why this woman broke up with me after 3 dates Welcome to women 101 - I will be your teacher . a woman (34) Ooo this is about to get all sorts of fucked up . who I had amazing chemistry with. I need more on this . past life connection or something. And that is why . Next question . Ooo you wrote another 10 pages of text … Fine . On our first date, we went to a rooftop bar and saw the sunset. She was physically very closed off but very talkative and I had a few moments wher… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Making it a Man/ Women FrameSomething from Swinggcat but the exact name eludes me . It is basically - narrow eyes (1/3 closed ) talk slow with pauses and have some proximity (the more the better effect you will get ) having a cocky/ sly smile (what happens when you think about fucking someone - so you can use thinking about sex as a mindset ) | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 8 | When will you be done with pickup/active dating?Sure I’m still procrastinating : 1 Hot 2 Good with kids (I have a little sister and a niece so they give the final vote on that one ) 3 Home care (making the place look pretty) 4 being a good person (This and 2 overlap a bit the difference being that it is actual qualities displayed in front of me not the kids ) 5 I don’t know the words in english , so I will just explain it : Willing to sacrifice for the betterment of the family . An examples of this would be my big sister - willing to go out t… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 11:40 PM |
| -2 | Making it a Man/ Women FrameI read it in a book once and then tried it . I had done it by accident and seen it before . But that was the moment I started doing it actively | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:39 PM |
| 9 | When will you be done with pickup/active dating?The moment I meet a woman that checks off most things on a very short list (like 5 things ) of what I want in a partner . So probably never . Sense I know how bad girls are In modern times (I have met like one that checked 3 things) I give the advice that if you find a woman you like , you should stop the “Ho phase” and settle . | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this Yearnice to just get out in the field again. Yea I kinda miss going out just for the shits and giggles . I get you . Made sure I looked good (although I need a haircut, I still groomed myself well), smelled good, had a nice fit, all the above. At first, I was kind of just scoping the scene and talking to familiar faces, but after getting a couple drinks in me, I was activated. You have a pre-plan That is good . I approached this one really cute girl and opened her talking about her outfit. She had o… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:24 PM |
| -4 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .No . What xp are you going to get ? How to get 2/10? You already can get lower girls . You need to be a compleat loser not to . You should practice maybe 7-8 personal range in the beginning (pretty much your type or near to your type ) “It is always better to get a feel for what YOUR audience wants “ - some dude I once saw in a video | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Balancing Multiple GirlsThe modern day “dating” as in “fucking and pretend care “ The answer : 1 time a week each Prioritisation is ONLY if you are in a relationship (an actual one ) with one she gets first dips and more time (depending on attachment levels ) Not Fixating : Don’t consider her more than what she is . just get laid the fastest way possible and arrange for next week . *Remember relationship purgatory (not knowing where you stand on that topic ) is your bff here . *If one starts bitching about a date take … | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Being the funny guy?I literary had to beat this out of me . It still has it’s uses : If she is not opening out of intimidation (you do it 1 time , so you become harmless and she might open ) - If it is not from intimidation - It won’t work If I ask for too much compliance (I pull joke out of my ass and replace the ask with a smaller one ) If you wing - you are basically a distraction that courses high spikes for which he gets the glory . Other than that it will at best - wast time , at worst - actively fuck you . I… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Weird mixed signalsWeird mixed signals Women 101 …. Teacher yada yada yada . I will just jump to the confusing part It will take long enough . she literally says "yes" with a picture of some dude I've never seen before stuffing his head into her boobs 😬 It is not a mixed signal she just happens to be a idiot . Pre-selection states that if a hot woman is around you , women like you more . However it doesn’t work in reverse if she has a hot man around her you (as evidenced here ) will not like her more . She however… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful?Thank you for proving how useless mindsets are . • thats how you become friendzoned Now you might have dull conversations with your friends and that is fine (I’d find better friends ) Most people - Make jokes (including sexy ones) , mess with each other , say whatever they want (the first in known in the community as innuendo , the second is called Flirting and the third is a way to never run out of topics to talk about ) Thus the reason mindsets work for some and not for others . He asked for… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 04:23 PM |
| 11 | So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful?So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. It is NOT . That is newbie training . It is supposed to teach you to leave your ego at the door , not react to the bad responses , beat AA , outcome independents …. It became common practice when people got some results from this by raising their Value (be it Looks ,actually saying positive shit about themselves , other … ) What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful? No idea I need to know what NEEDS fixing… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | 1st day approach?I am sorry to brag but man, I feel like THE MAN right now! You go king . Now let’s see what you did . RBF RBF - Resting Bitch Face . Googled it . I jokingly said, "Hey, are you guys hiring right now? Cause I am looking for a new job. And from what I have seen, I would have much better chance at getting an interview if I "network" rather than mindlessly apply to jobs online." She went "Yeah of course we are hiring!"...and then gave me some more details about the job role etc. etc. Ok . This could… | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Someone hitting on your girlThere exist AMOG tactics . I would fucking baby him(if you want an example there was “Love island “ episode where the Italian (David- I think) had this rival and he fucking when there and did everything in his power to help him ) . And then at home she gets like a h with no attention , and at the end make her apologise for even entertaining him . But that is dog theory . And people think it is cruel so pick your poison . | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Are women less competitive?General public . I have seen multiple women chase men (mostly because most of my friends are women ) . Usually they have a “backstage fight” and the looser are forbiden from chasing him . The other options is one where they don’t know each other . Men are publicly competitive , women are not . | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?So you open and they don’t tell you anything or react in any way ? Yes It . But never from a 5 . Like maybe an 8 and than you just “plow”until the open up . I don’t understand what you mean by” brush you off ?” - HOW do they do it ? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?Can you give me an actual example of one of this things ? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys interpret when a girl brush you off or ignores you but then is obviously staring at you for like 5 minutes after?Guessing from lack of ANY context : You are pretty but do dumb shit . Edit : It might have something to do with you miss understanding what they are saying and walking away . Now that I think about it | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 09:30 PM |
| 0 | how to deal with “im looking for serious relationship”?Whenever i use dating apps and try screening a girl, some of them say sth like “no hookup, just serious relationship” “just a friend” Stop using apps . Ok fine I will be nice . “You know how it is . Nothing right now but for the right woman …” or some variation of this lie . Just pass on and look for another girl? No you should get off the apps . You were not build for them . or assume it as ASD and handle it smoothly? ASD? - Anal Sucking Dinosaur . - I have no idea what this abbreviation means … | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | 2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessonsIt also had jokes sprinkled in . And you are welcome . | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 01:39 PM |
| 3 | 2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessonsI shamed him for : Insulting weirdos (I happen to love them they do give you interesting info ) . Calling women that are older a wast of time , thinking the rape joke is a good idea , hitting on the 3/10 than deciding she is beneath him ( that pore girl she really must have had her hopes up ) +more . I have no idea what your point is . Those things are mean separated , insulting and frankly degrading . And he should be shamed for doing them so he doesn’t do it again . | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | 2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessonsThis is aggressive ? I was extremely lenient to the guy . | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Indirect opener examplesAnd where do you go from there? Cold read something . Or if she hooks bait a bit more before cold-reading . Or ask something . Or make a joke . Any transition really . You’re actually curious about something? What does the word “Bait” mean ? Why not just outright say what it is? What does the word “Bait” mean ? I know I’m repeating myself but you seem to be missing a fundamental thing about the questions you ask . What’s the appeal here? For you to use it ? Or for the girl ? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Help! How to move the frame to where she wants to impress me?Help! How to move the frame to where she wants to impress me? Why exactly ? "close" the interaction, It is cute you are using the lingo . :) "I hate Apple Maps haha that's a brownie point for you." Awww she likes you . while not being a shit test, Shit test = flirting - nerds invented the name . So this technically qualifies as flirting . she is transitioning the frame to where it looks like I'm pursuing her approval, correct? No . And what do you care . As in, I have to earn these "brownie poin… | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 01:43 AM |
| 13 | 2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessons2 numbers, 2 Ig's, Plenty of lessons I have no idea why you posted this , but I’m procrastinating and you seem like a good teaching tool for the kids . My goal was to work on: Qualifying the girls Physically escalating Leadership So your goal is to start from the end (like 10 min in but still ) I expect you used routines to get to that point . Other wise whom ever told you to slit train game is an idiot . The ideal spot in my opinion is the spot that has a high volume of traffic/girls walking by… | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 01:28 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?Yes . You should call me daddy :) | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Indirect opener examplesIndirect proper - “Squared up, Body language showing intent “ - Hey I’m really curious about something ….(wait for her to say something keep eye contact ) *this one is also know as a Bait open . | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Advice needed: How do I move forward with a girl after the first few dates when you want something more without appearing needy?forward with girls after the first few dates. I'll give an example of a situation down below, but this question applies to all women and situations really. I don’t get what you mean by forward so I will get back to giving you an answer after I read the example . Edit : So by me asking a friend - she gathered that by some inexplicable logic - You two went on 3 dates and you want to become an item . The simple answer is “Have unadulterated sex .” If your question is “how do I get laid ? “ Get her … | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Owen Cook vs Todd ValentineFor your question torrent them . One is a abstract concept thing (energy and all that stuff ) - Hot seat at home The other is a logical guide (The system ) Personality opinions aside - I think nighter Todd or Taylor have particularly good game . But maybe they teach better than they game . But if I have to guess from their students NO . | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 01:53 PM |
| 9 | Indirect opener examplesBy indirect you mean …. Becouse those are “situational openers” Form direct to opinion openers Direct - Hey I just saw you and I thought you were really hot . Direct (less stupid ) - Hey You look nice and I wanted to meet you real quick Cold read open (try to be at least a bit close ) - Hey your energy look (cold read) and I wanted to talk to you . Or - "Hey, are you (cold read something)?" Classic shy open (Confident body language and tonality)- Hey sorry, I’m really shy, but I just had to come… | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Shy after incredible, nasty sex with new guy (graphic!!)I gave him the best head of his life, deepthroating and edging him for ~30 minutes until he was curling his toes and letting out high pitched moans and my makeup was running all down my face. You are a good woman . How can I bring something like this up when I’m feeling so shy all of a sudden? So what you are asking “how do I text a dude that I gave the time of his life lest time we saw each other?” Come on . How would you like to be texted if a dude gave you 10 orgasms ? Ooo you don’t care grea… | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 09:50 PM |
| 0 | How overweight are you and how do you manage to pull?Yes . Sorta , I can try . Think of a Romantic movie : The moment she sees him there is this “I want his dick inside me moment “ (They always make it sound like it is more romantic than it actually is ) “HOT” guys create emotions with their looks . A certain “spark” . Well you can recreate IT somewhat (like having 90% of what the hot guy does - besides doing it just by existing ) So you go in just crating emotions (I used to start with negative ones sense they tend to be stronger and I like getti… | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?Aha . “Models “ is not a model it is a self help book. Model (Like the London Daygame Model) or system (Like Mystery method) is a step by step guide to doing shit . As always when dealing with humans and trying to explain it all of them have flaws that have fixes . If you want to go in without one I need a exact field report to figure out the problems | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How overweight are you and how do you manage to pull?Damn, I'm actually glad you brought up that initial part. The 1st minute or so. You just mass spam emotions . I remember my first “hot” (during covid I lost the weight so I didn’t really know I was good looking )cold approach she was a hard 8.5 + blond So I expected for her to be uninterested from the start . And went in like a missile and called her a paretic joke of a whore (I might have been a bit rusty ). She just looked at me and started crying . Then the biggest back track of my life happe… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 10:07 PM |
| 3 | How overweight are you and how do you manage to pull?I used to be extremely overweight 120 kg on a 165 cm for 8 of my 15 years got a growth spurt at 20 and became 180 at 180 (was actually quite proud of this ) for about 3 years and than lost the weight and gained muscle (had health problems ) for a year , for the past 2 years I have been 63 kg at 180 cm . From all those points short and obese , normal hight and extremely fat and normal hight 5%bf I can tell you : it is about the same only difference was the initial part (like 1 min or so ) of the … | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why am I scared of younger “alt” girls?Yourself . Just like different girls . You are not their type . | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?Like any model that is out there . It would just be easier for me to figure out the problem form a specific model . i know or can guess the weaknesses by watching an infield of a teacher . | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 06:19 PM |
| -5 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’. I am a chad. I’m going to teach you guys how to get the ‘baddies’. As an old man I had to google this . “girl who is highly confident and can hold her own” I refer to basic game theory .(literally any ) Be sexy (either genetically , emotionally and/or body language ), build tension, ignore her , treat her like she is a smelly pile of shit that should be glad to be allowed in your shadow .(I mean like she is beneath you ) Next . What the fuck did you write a… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Why am I scared of younger “alt” girls?Why am I scared of younger “alt” girls? Why am I intimidated by girls aged 23-25 - not any of them, but the type to be hyper independent, usually tattooed or pierced, trying to dress artist like it alternative (Berlin style) - behaving more bold all around. Because you don’t know how to deal with them . How to improve on that ? I can (and have) sleep with them . But never really liked tattoos or piercings on girls . I did give you pointers at the bottom, but as to how no idea . My theory: I feel… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong? Flaking is a investment problem (usually) . Am I being ungrateful after getting a number and going for more? How ? When ? How long are the sets ? What investment do you get ? Are the girls in glee when they give you the number or kinda just “k” ? I'm assuming this is an inner game thing and something about my vibe or spirit gives off a bad feeling later over… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 10:39 AM |
| 6 | Is it necessary to shoot down a girl’s ego every time to catch her attention?Is it necessary to shoot down a girl’s ego every time to catch her attention? I mean nooo . Hell I used to do it because I found it fun . After one actually took at as an insult I stoped . I have been thinking about this (the title) for a while and I was wondering if that is the default approach. What it has been for as long as I can remember . Talk to the girl like an adult human . In this day and age of social media and attention to women being available at all times, it seems like “hoeflation… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 02:58 AM |
| 5 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?wouldn't put up with a partner that disappears I mean that is your choice . vulnerability is challenged. Why are you trying to rationalise it . She likes Abusive men . There is no vulnerability there . Stop it . I will not buy you a present for your bday if you continue. I don't need to change how I treat girls, I never said you did or should . won't play these kinds of games. Not a game . doesn't matter how "perfect" the relationship feels. Ok . Why are you telling me this ? Because that's the … | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 4 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?what you're explaining is the syndrome of me "being the first guy to treat her well." Noooo . She doesn’t like that . You could be the 100000 guy and she’d still not like it . With her trauma, she has learned to be emotionally unavailable, seeks this same type of man. Not the trama . She is who she is stop trying to explain it . IT is not that deep . She likes being treated that way - You can’t or frankly want to . Move on . Which I'm the opposite of, as you correctly assessed. Not that hard you… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 08:05 PM |
| 36 | If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed?Women 101 . I will be your teacher . If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed? You ,as a dude , when you tell a girl you don’t want to date . It means the exact same thing - “I don’t want to date YOU” She told me that she had got cheated on by her ex, that she had a hard time trusting men, and that although her heart was into it, her brain couldn't fathom being in a serious relationship right now. The kinda dude she likes . She then … | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 07:14 PM |
| 10 | i got a crush ? i think ?ENTP woman 0 ideas what that even is . Anyway i don’t what to do, i wanna talk to him but about what ? Ask him out on a date . Before graduation . Preferably tomorrow . Be nice | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Follow up to question about costumes, peacocking and general views on PUA practicesgeneral views on PUA practices Most work great , the modern ones are specifically good , but most retro staff is still its own thing . Have problems some problems : in modern society- because they simple creatures that can’t function properly Create a false since of reality that all women are whores (This is mostly because of sleeping with everyone, in particular married or taken girls ) Side note : this is why the rule “ Respect other peoples game “ was invented . have a tendency to be manipula… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend not having sexTalk to him . I could try and guess . But it won’t help anyone . | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 10:17 AM |
| 0 | How to know if girl is actually interested or just want free drinks (food etc.)can you please help me understand this problem and help me figure out some of the things I should be looking out for so I don’t get played like that again!? I will try One most definite problem I can tell is : thinking This romantically? And this I can pipe her brains out at some point in time Belong in the same sentence. Exception might be some porn movie description or review . I start talking to a girl and then her friends join the conversation and then the next thing you know, I’m buying the… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Kino Reciprocation?Stop . Try something else . | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Feel somewhat emasculatedShe laughed at me and said she needs to teach me how to have sex. Hahahah . That is a good one actually . Take her up on the offer. I don’t know but since then I feel a little change in dynamic of the relationship like a little loss of respect. It was a joke . Take it as suck … I mean such . Hell (it would have ended sex) I would have gone “hahahh you like sleeping with babies” and then just laughed for 7h straight . You handled it better . | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How to Proceed?“A million miles away , a message to the man “ “ Seasons come and go , but I will never change “ … https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YgFyi74DVjc Seriously - just ask her out . No need to waste anymore time if you too are having fun . | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I wasted the perfect opportunity, what to do next time?Feel like I wasted the perfect opportunity, what to do next time? Lengthy post, apologies! Not accepted we are enemies till the day …. Ok fine you were nice I was interested from when I first saw her but she brought up she had a boyfriend the 2nd time we had lunch together Yeaaa . She wasn’t interested . Now I’m wondering how you will make this the perfect opportunity . Because IF you excepted that frame you are about done (there are only hell marys you can do ) so I put all those potential roma… | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Best inner game mind switches?I wasn’t even approaching - I just decided to not give a shit . You can just stop . | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Books on the subjectThen go to clubs and test out pua tenchniques(I know, outdated, whatever. Even just for the fun) You will end up using routines (even in natural game ) - not every witty or funny response is created equal . The difference being you will create them yourself . And No they are not - I literary re-tested “old school game” a month ago . Cuz someone told me it doesn’t work . I only went of script once to get her to move to a different place because the music got supper loud and she couldn’t hear me .… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 11:16 AM |
| 9 | Best inner game mind switches?“I just don’t care “ mindset - I got pissed one day and said “ fuck it I don’t care anymore “ | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you learn, Actually?No I’m saying watch something to point you in the right direction so you don’t beat your head in a wall for 2 years - You still have to go out and practice it - just PICK one guy . They are all pretty much the same . And that will give you baseline skills . If you have friends that get laid watching and copying them is about the same thing . Just make sure you can get it for free (the reason I’m stressing this sooo much is: paying 500$ for something you will have to fix in 6 mounts is not worth … | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you learn, Actually?what exactly do you mean by infield? What the word means . A video of someone doing an approach. What program exactly? Doesn’t matter as long as you don’t pay for them | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:54 AM |
| 0 | How do you learn, Actually?The Game - is a marketing tool designed to sell Niels friends stuff (supper successfully I might add) The thing is nothing works for everybody thus the divide in the community . the whole scene seems abselity sick, I feel insulted , but yea pretty much . as actionable as possible. Ok than . Go out and approach see what fits you .- trial and error - figure it out by yourself . You can watch what others do and copy it (though It might be tough to find in the modern climate ) If you want a more non… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:31 AM |
| 3 | I forgot how to escalate or be touching during datesI forgot how to escalate or be touching during dates Good I’m currently in a war with kino “this isn’t the connection i’m looking for”. No sexual tension i didn’t touch her once and that was after a 2h+ date. You don’t have to . There are multiple ways to escalate kino being the worst Verbal - sexualising / innuendo Logistical - moving her closer to sex location (aka toilets) Non verbal - which could be just holding the tension to more shit Physical - aka Kino / touching I just keep analyzing to… | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Is there anywhere online I can post field reports?You could post it here . And have a day or so to get advice | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Not F closingjust wanting attention and validation from girls. And that is a problem? Everyone ever has wanted validation from hot people . That is why you started to “ game “ to begin with . That is why we all did . I'm not emotionally attached to? This one I can help with . Alcohol and imagine she is your ex . Did it happened with you too? I have always been like this . Only when I want sex i actually fuck . Mine is caused by having too many options, a semi god complex and I like personality more than look… | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | How to make a girl respect youSo you discovered “compliance” - good job Again kids READING is important or you get things nearly 20 years after everybody else . BTW : you could have fixed it on the same day (maybe in 20 you will figure that one too ) And what you explained and what you did are two different things . Compliance and Emotional state . Positive Emotional state (aka her being happy ) raises compliance - thus you got the date . You however had little to nothing to do with that state - you just lucked out . | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 01:23 AM |
| 14 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth. Ok I’m going in to this bought intrigued and a bit annoyed . I have been heavy flirting with this girl for a few weeks now that has a boyfriend. We are not a sentence in and I already hate everyone involved Respect other peoples game ! things have escalated physically up to the decent point. I dont really want to pass the kissing stage because of her boyfriend. I’m… | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Unlocking the Art of Closing. How do you guys go about it?How do you guys go about it? Wellcome to the simplest hell ever . Short answer be persistent and work with the girl . longish answer : 1 Get logistics at the first possible moment - decide if it is worth it . 2 seed on those logistics - just in case 3 Turn her on (so life gets easier ) after she likes you . (Attraction , arousal , investment , complying and others Lower compliance ) 4 provoke some objections you will most defiantly get later . Answer them either by Framing , Objection handling (… | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Where do i go from here?Okay this is something I can give a story to example, I remember I went to my first fetlife event with a lot of women. I would love to hear it . Preferably in detail . Holy fuck that sounds so negative, I don’t see the correlation. You were going on and on , i was being bitched at for not paying attention to a girl that was over . And I just wanted to get to some advice I could actually give you . I apologise . I shouldn’t be so mean to someone I don’t know . I talk the way right. I mean it as i… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)Edit : you were quite reasonable and respectful . A pleasant change of pace to say the least . Also good formatting . 1.) The freedom of choice is not the point. The point is the lack of nuance and middle ground. It is how humans work . Thus the good and evil distinctions . I don’t like it anymore than you . dont deal with them. Yes . use sex as some sort of bargining chip. I agree . Basically people just need to pair up appropriately. If you have a low sex drive find a low sex drive guy. Again … | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Day game + Cold Approach in Grocery / coffee shops? Seeking critiques.Day game + Cold Approach in Grocery / coffee shops? Seeking critiques. Yeyyyy my expertise and frankly I would do anything to procrastinate on the book . Edit : >What do you guys think? 1 You do fine - try longer sets to make the number more solid 2 Learn to write field reports - you left a lot of stuff out that could be useful information (like the texts on girl number one or any of the actual interaction ) and left a lot of frankly not needed info - Like your looks - I can guess them by the re… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Where do i go from here?Surprisingly i had two girls really interested in me. I had girl that we spent a lot of time playing games together, picking on each other, i kept from telling her my feelings because i was scared she would leave she cut connection anyway without connection. the other girl was less attractive but she was absolutely obsessed with me. Sadly she was super possessive and insecure, we had to cut ties. Wait so you were possessive and then you met a possessive girl . Your story is one lacking in any de… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Conquering Life's Challenges and the Mystery of ConnectionIf I could manage to understand the mystery of women, for me, then my life would be close to perfect. The simplest way to explain most of what or why women do shit is : They like : men , dicks , power They think in emotions rather than reason . Almost never mean what they say (look at the subtext) Love : sex , sexuality , emotions , Protect : ego and social image. Hate : nerds , weakness , lack of stimulation (rather it be emotional or sexual or just keeping her attention ) And from this point i… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The only pua advice you'll ever needI have 0 idea - And would easily pull that set . Hell the date is even easier . Hell you have a fuck tone of advantages : 1 friends - they would say nice things about you (aka DLV you up) 2 Isolated scenario as in NO cockblocks , Amogs , or having to pay attention to her “friends” 3 Help : your friends are there they will “push” things in your favour or at least not get in the way . you do want her to think you get women . By showing any skill in game she will assume it - if not flat out ask . T… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 02:20 PM |
| -2 | Extremes (Hot or Cold)I must be missing something curcial here. Multiple things in fact : She either wants to be a slut and fuck 25 guys in one year or have a boyfriend/husband and sleep with him once a month if that. 1 people have free will aka The right to choice what they want to do with their bodies . I’m bough - depending on the girl I’m dating / or bored out of my mind . 2 Often women speak on men feeling obligated to sex in a relationship and that it isn't their duty to offer sex to their partner, It isn’t . b… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 12:43 PM |
| 9 | What’s better going out with friends who don’t approach or alone?What’s better going out with friends who don’t approach or alone? I prefer alone , if I go out with friends I’m more invested in their success than mine (Aka why I hate wings .) When these are your only options what do you recommend if you want to meet girls or get a one night stand? If they are awkward and just ruin fun vibes - you don’t need them . They will only be a hinderance at best . Alone has negatives too - back up can be invaluable to a guy who is learning game . clubs are kind of a nu… | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Went out with a girl on a date, made out but did not have sex. Did I fumble?The next day she asked me to hang the following weekend. Great . Go ,have fun , build an emotional connection , enjoy yourself . Should I try again on the second date? I mean yes - don’t get butt hurt if she says no again . She will probably sleep with you on the 3 date .(If we go by the old relationship rules ) Even if she is looking for a relationship, is it a bad sign if you don’t sleep together on the first date? The opposite . It means she is Looking for a relationship . This is how one sta… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Did she have buyers remorse?Did she have buyers remorse? I will comment as I go and give you an answer at the end. Was out at a bar I frequent a few weeks ago and this cutie approaches me. Ok good start. From this point IF you build a connection the answer is Yes , If you don’t It is a No (and I will try and guess what happened ) We chat for a bit and bounce to another bar with her friend. Her friend leaves soon after leaving us alone. Both girls were on mushrooms. And why did you think this was a good idea . We dance and … | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?It's a trash tier argument, like most others you wrote. Sure . You're even using 'street game' wrong. https://www.girlschase.com/content/nighttime-street-game Googled it the first thing that came up . I know the terminology changes but you don’t have to be a dick about It . Just because you don’t know something . You're clearly talking out of your ass and clearly never pulled during closing hours. I mean after the club I have . This exact thing I haven’t done . Keep theorizing, big brain. This t… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?Drunk and tipsy are different things . Thus : Tipsy : • Women are supper unreceptive unless you met them in the club earlier (or have good looks or great game ) Drunk : • Drunk women can’t give consent - an I’m only saying this to save you the allegation and lawyer fees But You are correct I should have said : “inebriated to the point of incoherence “(Aka the only set you will close with this exact subset of street game .) . I just thought an adult would get what I meant . | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 08:22 PM |
| 44 | Anyone have experience with sleeping during the night, then getting up early to hit clubs during closing hours?This idea is called street game : You can add : To Pros : Cheep . To Cons : Getting the leftovers of the leftovers Women are supper unreceptive unless you met them in the club earlier (or have good looks or great game ) At 5 am you ain’t getting any - drunk and tiered coming of an emotional high you can’t match just won’t work . (Again great game and good looks might help) You will get your ass beat . You ain’t isolating . A wing is a necessity . Good luck finding a good Wing willing to get up a… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding being strung along after a pseudo rejectionsays she wants to think on whether she wants to take it to the next level. And buddy that is why we say learn your shit . And anybody that is good to great recommends studding . LMR or objection handling (or what ever the term is this week) - would be what you do in this situation And I’m telling you this from xp - she was worried your friendship would end IF you had sex . Or that you would become overly needy (IDK - it depends on what you did before- maybe you came off needy or nerdy ) What you… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys? It is you . So,long story short,I met a woman through an app in February. Aaaaaa well there is what I expected to see . What did you expect . Just be FWB for a while What relationship ? FWB , fuck buddy or any modern term is not a relationship . You are either dating or not dating . And you guys weren’t dating . meeting was very inmature. You mean the f buddy that is constantly pushing fo… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:54 PM |
| -1 | An unanswerable question from a woman:Try this and get back to me : “Wow , I know you like me but at least buy me dinner first before we start dating “ IF some dumb fucker is her answer “No seriously” “I will handle it “ Edit : write proper punctuation - English is not my first language so I don’t know where the(,) go. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Kiss attempts rejected but still progressed into a long date and coming homeTurning a woman on in a public setting (rubbing her pussy will turn her on - she won’t let you in public - there might be exceptions ) Innuendo or sexualising (the same thing just depends where you heard it from ) Talking about sex . (Again it has a million different terms ) Tension (ANY It doesn’t have to be sexual in nature ) Avoiding getting her in her head (also known as “nerd shit” “DLV” - some of the names are in my original comment , talking about logic and others - I’m sure there is a fu… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:05 PM |
| -2 | Kiss attempts rejected but still progressed into a long date and coming homeKiss attempts rejected but still progressed into a long date and coming home I’m hooked What are your thoughts? You asked Connected with the lady through OLD. Hinge. Asked her out and I set up the day and time. She is probably insane - which will contribute to what will happen next . Edit: she is not - seems like a well adjusted person . On the day, I brought coffee and I had apples at home so just cut them and brought in a box. She liked the gesture, was like you are gonna get famous amongst my… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | How must a man display confidence if he is short and fat and?How must a man display confidence if he is short and fat and? Short - make bigger movements - it will compensate for hight . Fat - Just be confident . Speak with more energy . How should I approach, what angles do I take. Idk how to explain it, but I’m anti social but if someone were to give me in depth clear and concise instructions I believe I would do my best to follow them. You will have less initial attraction than a good looking dude - so add 2-5 min in the set . This is the only differenc… | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 08:25 AM |
| 1 | What does “Tig o’l bitties “mean? 😂Big boobs. https://youtu.be/-I_XMQkifHI?si=UbW1lJyPbrKQXfX9 | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaDisinterest is a form of high value . Aka in MONKEY (woman ) speak “He ignores me he must get equal or better than me - so he is in demand “ | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice to an Adult Virgin (GIGACHAD EDITION)Why ? Tell me . I for once was on borad with the begginer advice UP UNTIL you decided to promote courses that are OUTMATCHED BY FREE ADVICE . You don’t need them - this is not 2005 everything you would ever need is free or in the 7 sees . STOP WASTING MONEY . Buy 500$ = 5mounts at the gym + Vocal lessons + a cheep prostitute . If a course is reasonably priced at FREE than you can and should buy it . Lesson of the day kids : Stop spending money on Idiots you get better FREE advice . | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here read The Handbook of Relationship Initiation by Susan Sprecher?It is dull as shit . When I finished it (It takes a while and I like reading ) I felt scammed and I got it for free . The IOI list and How relationships happen - the rest is unusable information . (Hell they are mostly for knowledge sake - they have very little practical application - and the relationship happen has been proven wrong ) The other things It proves is Pre-selection exists . It became fully obsolete when mystery method came out in 2006 (It has all the useful info from THRI) . And Th… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How to behave with a guy player?So is it true that players are only interested in girls who are hard to get? No . Quite the opposite . How would you behave with this type of guys? I’m that type of guy soooo . I think he is being friendly . I treat my friends the same way ESPECIALLY if they act “hard to get”- I presume there is no interest and nothing and no one can convince me otherwise. I get to be me and since they have no interest - I can actually have fun with them and not worry about being forced in to something . I like … | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Dating tips as a man (to save time and money)Tldr Dating tips as a man (to save time and money) Mindsets : Your busy. You don’t want to waste time. You are balling on a budget, lol. The coffee date. But you have to mention that it’s a QUICK coffee, or say it in the beginning that you have something to do later. CUT THE DATE EARLY. Pick a bar you really like to go to. And go there with everybody I’m currently building a course on dating and these were some thoughts that I had. THAT WAS THE WHOLE THING I SHIT YOU NOT As for my thoughts It is… | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?Orgasmed and got off you ? I will let someone else break the news to you . The first point stands sorry | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Is she even interestedI don’t get the joke sorry | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:46 PM |
| 54 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?1st - If you did it 4x and she came 1 time - she probably didn’t - probably just wanted it to be over 2nd - casual means just for sex , stop annoying the girl . When she or you want dick or pussy (respectively ) just call . 3rd - yea read a book about rough sex . Try again | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 03:24 PM |
| 13 | Is she even interestedIs she even interested In a sexual or romantic way - NO Welcome to women 101 I will be your teacher. Everything went cool, we have a lot in common, been like 10 days of smooth chatting with her. From here I can say NO . Just from this one sentence you have done the following game sins : A lot in common - the nice way of putting it is “they don’t give a shit , they are not like us” . The mean way of putting it is “they only put up with that “nerd” talking shit is they are attracted to you in a se… | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 02:54 PM |
| 3 | which emotions should we be trying to invokeAny including “negative” ones . They release the same Frankly depends on the girl . Some universal (99%)ones would be : Arousal , Tension (sexual or interactional or any really ) , Happiness (from being wanted , being cared for , being treated well) Jealousy , chasing (The feeling of wanting to chase someone - but I have 0 idea of the technical name of the emotion is ) | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?So expecting you to do what you said you would is a demand now Forget I said anything. I retract it all. Just please stop typing words at me. I can see you have some problems go deal with them I’m not you therapist to mentally help you or your High school teacher to teach you how to read or your father to teach you how to act like an adult men . | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?K . Just delete that dumb comment you left and we (hopefully ) never have to communicate again . | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?Wow man! It's clever how you flipped it to insinuate that I was making fun of myself Weren’t you? and not your heros! I doughy you can make fun of my parents since you have No way of knowing who they are Or do you just presume because I’m willing to give credit where it is do they magically become my heros . Look I don’t like 90% of the people that I quote or give credit to BUT I have enough of a moral standing to not claim their ideas for my own . I know morals are a foreign thing now a days so… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?No, it's been presupposed by some of the least capable and most embarrassing social actors ever seen. Dude I have no idea who you are or when you have presupposed it . But that is no way to talk about yourself . I’m sure you are a great guy . Just work on it and you will become capable . I believe everyone can get good if they try . Good luck with that . If you need any advice just ask If you want to be fucking cool and mysterious like you think an anime protag-kun is, go the fuck ahead, you'll … | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?Depends on context . In “game” terms it can be used in set very effectively just in more subtle ways . (The correct term is disinterest) An example of disinterest I saw recently (a form of ignoring) is Marcus from UMP in the Russian dude speedates on youtube . In life you just have to have same value for the ignoring to work . | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:35 PM |
| 37 | Do women chase guys who "ignore" them?Ignoring someone is a form of Higher Value . So duuuuhhhhhh . That has been a known fact since 2006 . Hell try IDK teasing her next and tell me how that one goes . Wait try going to a club with 10 hot women and get back to me . Let this be a lesson - Reading is important kids you get shit 18 years in advance . | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How to get her mentally hooked with me ? She talks to another guy more than she talks to me.I Got to know that another guy doesn't respect her. She hates this disrespectful behaviour of him but she is attached with her. He sounds quite fuckable . You don’t . “I respect woman omg and handsome bad/fuck boy over there gets all her attention . Wow is me .” The day man get that women couldn’t give less of a fuck about respect and only care about emotions is a day sexlessness ends . (Also relationships and marriage and having kids ,society(?) , general discomfort, prostitution ) How to get h… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Lover vs ProviderYeaaa , just for a few days . Work get’s hectic sometimes . That, the book (before you ask still for my future kid , you ain’t getting it ) and getting laid doesn’t leave much free time . | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Approach Result keeps happeningOk soooooooooooooooo I know what you are doing and how you f - up and yet I can not explain it (without a paper and gesticulating for 5 min ) - You are being “incongruent “ The simple explanation is “You are breaking a spell” You are being extremely charming and mysterious when you do this .( they get to infer whatever fantastical shit their minds can come up on your personality ) and than they talk to you and you are not “fantasy man” you are “normal cool man “ “Normal cool man” can’t compete w… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Lover vs ProviderAnyway : you can JUST go on dates her without telling her what you “BRING TO THE TABLE” until you are bf and gf officially . And than IT becomes a bonus . After she likes you for you . You can be bought - IT used to be called “being a functioning adult men” . The concept problem you have is Taylor . It was based on in the beginning of an interaction . Here I will explain it better : Welcome to Basic Game 101 I will be your teacher . There are 2 factors for someone liking you . Attraction and com… | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I just realized, you need to cold approach submissivelyMystery and Lovedrop | /r/seduction | 03/12/23 11:28 AM |
| -6 | Reputable PUAs in 2023Reputable PUAs in 2023 Depends on what you want about 95% of people from back in the day still teach . I was very involved in the community between 2008-2015. I am now married with 2 kids so very out of the loop. Edit : I genuinely believe you were from that time . You do sound like an RSD guy -( 0 research , wants things on a plate , and gets exactly 1% of it ) I know ‘PU’ is dead. Really ? Had 0 idea . Thank you for sharing . I mean we all still do it . Most old PU teacher still teach . And ad… | /r/seduction | 01/12/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | I just realized, you need to cold approach submissivelyI genuinely think my point stands within the "dark areas" or suspicious surroundings. I can't imagine a girl feeling safe IN A DARK AREA after getting approached with a "low deep voice, assertive, straight to the point, no bs" approach of a man. -straight to the point, no bs - this is just dumb . A dominant man : Projecting calm , Loose , assertive , the voice should be calming and assertive . You don’t have to be Direct about it . You can have bs . The idea is to spark attraction asap . And you… | /r/seduction | 30/10/23 08:57 AM |
| 4 | I just realized, you need to cold approach submissivelyStop that RIGHT NOW . You will end up having bad habits . That would lead to more flaks . It only works for you because you are naturally submissive . Fix the problem instead of working with it . But IF you really feel like acting that way - just do the Mystery Method opens (They are still showing dominance BTW , just not the overt type ) until you become more dominant . No one will agree with you on this . We have all tried to cheat the system - it will only fuck you at the end of the day . | /r/seduction | 29/10/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?My question is how could you have game without having frame? Those 2 things are connected. Or if you can have game without frame then why the fuck is frame necessary for? Sorry had to google what that ”Masculine Frame “ is Reading comprehension . Every time you read something wrong I will just say this and you can read my statement until you get it . I said it is not something that You need - It is not Game , it is a crutch . It helps , It gets you 30 sec . why is frame useful for - It helps los… | /r/seduction | 17/09/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Why obsess over trying to do something when there’s guys who are naturally born with it. You want to do it too. Or bitch about it , frankly not my problem . Guys who have been doing it since they where 14. Yea some people are smart . I’ve pretty much seen all the advice there is, from maintaining masculine frame, Aha so you mean , you have seen - How to be “basic “ advice (Hell that is not even a fundamental , I have no idea what your point was here ) . I started at 17 now 26 it’s been 9 years s… | /r/seduction | 17/09/23 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?No . I’m saying I am not rich just middle class regular dude, A street bum. average 5/10 face, 3/10 - as long as he is not disfigured. not a comedian, Yes not charismatic, Depends on what you mean by charisma , if you mean the inherent skill of influencing people Yes If you mean it as : the knowledge base on how to be smooth and cause emotions aka “game” Sorry this is not fairytale land . I am a also a skinny dude. A sickly looking dude . Hell add short to the list . You’re telling me I can go a… | /r/seduction | 17/09/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against womenDude , No one needs to do shit. Things are the way they are - Deal with it or Don’t . At the end of the day the quicker you go with how things work instead of against it , the quicker you will be happy . I to this day don’t like that I have to pay the country for something I own , bought with my own money (for which I shed blood and tears to earn ) .and for what so they can fuck with me more . But if I don’t they will take it from me . And no amount of bitching will change that . I don’t like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?I don’t mind . Role play , seeding - Me and you Competitions, challenging her - me vs you Not answering questions (being aloof ) - some sort of mystery | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?Usually it involves an “Me vs you “ or “me and you “ or a mystery she wants to understand . How you go about it is your choice . There are a sit ton of techniques . | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?In normal words : “You league” is decided by who goes out with you . Not by deciding that beforehand . Aka if you don’t ask you will never know . Sorry for translating it , I know it is a dick move but some non native english speakers will have a hard time understanding what you said ( I had problems ) and I thought it was quite a good way of thinking about it . | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 10:20 PM |
| 18 | Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?There is no such thing as a “League “ They might be hot , but you are awesome and that is worth way more . But to answer the question : YES Or better get them to ask you out . | /r/seduction | 13/09/23 04:07 PM |
| 13 | Hand /cheeks kissing is definitely underrated.That would backfire horribly . O wait you mean a hot guy doing that - Than No - it is still dumb , he just gets away with it . | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 12:32 PM |
| -1 | I fumble girls by being too honest.I fumble girls by being too honest. Ok this is interesting - never heard that before . girl says something stupid or something I disagree with I HAVE to assert my opinion and I get way too passionate about it. Aaa my problem . Here a fix in 10 second - Don’t take people seriously . Like just don’t . She thinks man should be slaves to women . Fine her opinion - and it doesn’t matter . I’m talking she’s IG model level no exaggeration. So soft 8 - IG models aka models that are not hot enough to be … | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 08:39 AM |
| 10 | Would you consider it a good thing if women often think you are an athlete when they meet you?Yes. It is technically a Attraction trigger. | /r/seduction | 18/08/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | THE SEX GOD METHOD: How Can One Avoid Overdoing Dominance During "Token" Resistance?Wrong place he won’t see the comment | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | THE SEX GOD METHOD: How Can One Avoid Overdoing Dominance During "Token" Resistance?Never read it . But have heard of it . On the misunderstanding - all books are misunderstood by 90% of people - I’m guessing all school systems stoped teaching reading comprehension after 2006 | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | THE SEX GOD METHOD: How Can One Avoid Overdoing Dominance During "Token" Resistance?It is an old How to have sex guide (If i remember correctly - a book ) | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 10:16 AM |
| 15 | THE SEX GOD METHOD: How Can One Avoid Overdoing Dominance During "Token" Resistance?Has anyone else had this level of experience? No , it is generally a good idea to baby step sex (to avoid accusations) or LMR chapters from pua books . Anger is not the attractive part , that is a unattractive trait in general , Dominance is attractive but the two are not related . You can be dominant but not angry . Aggression is a part of dominance , but it is controlled aggression What you are confusing the anger with is the primal emotions you feel (if i had to guess you have avoided those f… | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women?How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? You want someone to write you a book on the subject because the answer to that requires a book written in the comments It's obviously money in most instances, and being unrealistically good looking yourself is the other factor. No Just curious to see where these men meet those women and if there's any common traits related to approaching and finishing the job. Too many for a comment . At the end of the day there is no difference between a 5 and… | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How to get some pussy quick (no dating apps)I’m presuming you have no skill Depends on quality of pussy you want - But you could get any lower level pussy pretty easily , in the club or bar You could pay for it You could find a low morality woman they tend to be easy for most men | /r/seduction | 13/08/23 12:31 PM |
| -3 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingI’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing There is a belief that you need to act uninterested to keep a girl interested. Where do you people find this information ? she is dating, Well if you act uninterested. You are not dating . Why would you act uninterested if you are dating ? if you are not giving enough attention she will give up and find another man that gives her the attention and validation she needs. Well this is wrong too . Look generalisations are wrong . There is no one … | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 11:22 AM |
| 3 | This one slutty trick will win your lifeDude do it and that complain - That is like the basics of at home practise . | /r/seduction | 04/08/23 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction.Wtf do you think PUA‘s job is? And not true it is just not a good time investment | /r/seduction | 02/08/23 03:21 AM |
| -5 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEWhenever I have these kinds of conversations with guys I'm coaching and I say "Just escalate" they often shoot back with "You mean just kiss her out of nowhere???" Pls tell me that was a joke - no one actually said that Maybe I'll say, "These feel like very delicate hands, you must be really spoiled. 😄" Or "Do you play an instrument? I can sort of feel it in your hands" Negging love to see it - FUI pls don’t if she is not validation seeking you will kill the set . If you're confused on when it's… | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually pull girls at clubs?Ok …. Why? | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Do people actually pull girls at clubs?Sales books ,persuasion book , any modern game person - I guess i just know the modern duds teach it I found this on youtube : https://youtu.be/tBF2HmbZLyE https://youtu.be/cU1fe2G02zg https://youtu.be/hzjIigX8nHQ | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Do people actually pull girls at clubs?Do people actually pull girls at clubs? Yes a shit tone the trick is to actually pull them. Anyways I dance and build rapport with 3 different girl at different times in the night This is your problem . Rapport is useless in night game. Or in day game for that matter. Unless you can build enough attraction and make yourself “brag worthy”( they can brag to there friends about you) you really don’t care about it hell even than it just becomes a waste of time. The second problem is you gave them wh… | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Omg - I want to read it now that sounds like a total shit show . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.When i visited FDS like a while ago there strategies were the nice section . Not the horrible bitch section - What has changed i wonder ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.How dear you treat the man you like nicely that is such disgusting behaviour . (Sarcasm) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Congrats : You learned an important lesson - the easier you make it for a person the more of a chance you get of getting him Ps: I would date you and I’m very picky . My usual dating strategy is this: leave most of the planning/organizing to the guy You must be really hot if you think someone will do that more than once for you Wait at least 1-2 months to have sex That is tooo long 3 dates is enough Only offer to pay occasionally and never pay for the whole date Sure . Don’t offer at that point … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls who have boyfriends stare at me?That can’t be true you are awesome and girls like sex . So you just found the exceptions to the rule ;) | /r/seduction | 22/07/23 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Why do girls who have boyfriends stare at me?Women like sex - so they hit on men , they are afraid a man could kill them thought So the boyfriend lets them hit on anyone they like and FEEL safe You have NO idea how much easier it is to sleep with a taken girl | /r/seduction | 21/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 150 | Just cold approached the same girl again 😂Do it a third time. Make it a running gag . Use a different open each time. | /r/seduction | 15/07/23 11:28 PM |
| 9 | Women's dating preferences propel hegemonic masculinity and gender normsThank god someone can read. I was about to go insane wondering how they came to that conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:58 PM |
| 0 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuine4th You are weird. What ever happens doesn’t matter you did it for you . They might spit in you face or marry you but you didn’t want any of the outcomes they happened that is it. I give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:43 PM |
| 0 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineThat is my fault for expecting something They were a dick - I should have guessed and not given them money , I fucked up it is on me, not them No one owes you anything in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 0 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineExpecting it to not be negative is expecting something You people confuse the shit out of me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineYou confuse me If you expect nothing - why do you care if they are negative for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:04 PM |
| 0 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:42 AM |
| 0 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineI did all those thing because I WANTED TO , if he didn’t ask me for anything i can’t expect for him to give me reciprocity. What you are saying is that if i give 20$ to a friend that doesn’t need or want it i should expect him to give me a 100$ every time i want them Hell if a friend asked me for 20$ i wouldn’t expect him to give it back let alone lend me money if i need it. “No one owes you anything” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:39 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?She can pay the bills while i do “creative” work and i don’t get to see her all that often . A double win in my book . All jokes aside - no she should work if that is what she likes doing as a job good on her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:30 AM |
| 9 | The flaw with a nice guy argument is that it assumes nice guys are not genuineBeing nice and expecting something in return is not being genuinely nice . Nice people do nice things because they want to - not because they want something. Being a dormant is not being nice as well . - this is not having self respect Ignoring your friends/family to help a random person - This is the opposite of being nice Ignoring yourself to help is not nice as well- that is being dumb If you have self respect and boundaries ,respect for the people close to you and you own well being and expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsOk so : That is usual a frame set (shit test depending on how you want to view it ) on their part and it means “You are under me in value so sweeten the pot and buy me a drink - you need to do better for me”- when it happens in the middle you need attraction to do it right (for it to be a shit test) other wise is just ok he annoys me lets at least get a drink for the time he wasted in your case i think you had NON - even what you said would work if you had any at all. | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionMan can’t take rejection most just get used to it . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?but I didn‘t show any sexual or romantic intent A nice guy( in old men terminology) is a men that doesn’t do that “he is nice one of my friends might like him” for is confessing his love to a girl who he was friends with. I have done this only i showed sexual intent beforehand and she knew where i stood on the topic - it didn’t come out of nowhere So, all of this takes a close resemblance of the Nice Guy stereotype. Was I a Nice Guy or not? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:47 PM |
| 18 | I don't understand why those fake "bad boy" dating profiles workBecause women like that . Have you ever watched a female fantasy move before. They like masculine , handsome and dominant men I don’t know where you got the idea they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. Pre-selection And i will just add to this my two sisters (16;36) Both say “short “/ ugly /fat men are undatable(under 1,85m) 16 is dating a 1,74m boy 36 is married to a 1,68m fat man They think I’m too short 182 (and shorter than their bf ) so you make of that what you will . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:26 PM |
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