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Your on point. Have to be able to face that fear and overcome it and be ok with it. It signals alpha male traits to women to be able to. It’s hard though I agree
/r/seduction28/07/26 12:24 AM
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Yes it’s the vibe is what matters more than anything so they aren’t wrong. Problem is most of your friends are naturals and have no actual idea why they’re good so they say be confident. You’ll have to learn how to be confindent to do it too. The looks matter less than u think tho
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:18 PM
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Go to the club or bar. Can go alone. Talk to everyone and minimize the time between interactions. Talk to girls too. Say anything and have fun with it
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:47 PM
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Get in state in the bar and have the highest social status in that venue. Need to understand what that means and then go practice and do it. Doesn’t have to do with looks
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:29 PM
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I’d consider myself someone that prob falls into what you’re thinking. Obv not never but got good and had a good dating life. Been with 142 girls now Main reasons are some luck. Good genetics with looks help. Good upbringing with looks and belief about women. Got into ‘game’ at a perfect time with an obsession with it. Went out to the bar 3-4x a week for over 10 years every week.
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:42 PM
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Start going out and socializing. Bars or clubs every week as often as possible. Go talk to girls. Then try to find sources or knowledge in how to improve on your sticking points
/r/seduction25/07/26 04:21 PM
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Start working on it. I basiclay had the opposite and am 37. Neither one is perfect.
/r/seduction25/07/26 01:46 AM
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Sure why not try
/r/seduction25/07/26 01:44 AM
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Probably but no idea where
/r/seduction23/07/26 01:32 AM
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Results wise Julien I’d guess. His drama game and ability to be super polarizing with hot girls works really well. Never saw anyone else teach that. Owen maybe too. His years of expeeriwncd and fine tuning his game is likely paying off wonders at this point.
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:35 PM
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Ahh the plot thickens
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:17 AM
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Sounds like something a woman would say
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:46 AM
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His couldn’t give a shit attitude is why. Signals a lot of alpha male traits to women which is all that matters
/r/seduction18/07/26 09:48 PM
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I actually would buy most guys don’t do that is fair
/r/seduction18/07/26 05:03 AM
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Pretty much no woman that likes you wants a casual relationship. From my experience.
/r/seduction17/07/26 04:07 PM
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Ai writtten stuff these days is becoming cringe. Game her DNA not her logical mind
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:36 AM
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Be more polarizing. Take risks with confidence
/r/seduction14/07/26 06:48 PM
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Then your vibe sucks. Vibe is all that matters and if you get nothing at all it’s the problem. Can tell from your response it aucks
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:08 PM
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Online dating sucks and you will never get approached. You have to go out of the house and approach people yourself. This is coming from a tall 6’4 good looking tanned white guy.
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:51 PM
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Nothing is perfect. Been single and in game 17 years. Over100 girls. The peaks and valleys are a lot bigger and it’s cool but eventually why bang another girl. What’s the point. Marriage isn’t perfect either tho. Get bored of eachother and live a boring life usually. (Most marriages I see). Pros are it’s stable and can raise a family which has its own benefits. Just depends on what calls to you and your priorities
/r/seduction11/07/26 04:26 PM
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Live your life man. Bang your co worker once and awhile and have some fun
/r/seduction11/07/26 03:29 PM
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They do for sure. Get you a lot of looks and that initial interest which does help
/r/seduction07/07/26 03:57 PM
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David Hawkins letting go book. Also watch Julien blanc transformation mastery and search letting go. He does a meditation that works well. Also David Hawkins power vs force stuff is huge and if you can understand that it’s a massive change
/r/seduction07/07/26 03:56 PM
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It’s your vibe. It’s all that matters. Learning how to ‘let go’ in a spiritual way made a huge difference for me. Prob your issue too. All the looks won’t matter I’ve got good looks and it doesn’t help much
/r/seduction07/07/26 01:38 AM
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Goodluck
/r/seduction07/07/26 12:42 AM
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Have fun and be carefree
/r/seduction06/07/26 03:15 PM
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Game. Which is a great vibe with women is the skill
/r/seduction05/07/26 11:36 PM
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Skills, consistency and some luck. Sometimes a lot of luck
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:23 PM
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Move on. You’re going to look crazy. Also take this as a lesson to not do it again
/r/seduction05/07/26 04:23 PM
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Maybe
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:25 PM
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I won’t approach that part is easy to not do. It’s hard approaching girls. More so if you know girls and know how to flirt etc
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:24 PM
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Only time it happens is if my vibe is 10/10
/r/seduction04/07/26 04:33 AM
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Honestly probably
/r/seduction04/07/26 04:33 AM
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An obsession with it. Prob lightly autistic. Also some luck. Good looking and went out 4x a week for a lot of years and got into game at the right time
/r/seduction04/07/26 04:33 AM
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Hard drugs are not a win. Ive done them and done the good experiences. The good experiences are great. Hard drugs aren’t cool. Coming from a guy whose has sex with 142 girls
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:42 AM
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Also I’m someone who has transformed myself. I’ve had a great dating life but now that I’d like to turn it off I can’t and it’ll likely ruin the rest of my life. So get ready for that if u are like that
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:36 AM
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I don’t go out a ton (I used to). But I do have an obsession with it. It’s actually closer to an addiction now as I’d like to turn it off but I’m not sure how to. I’m addicted to the high of feeling like I have a girl in my web so to speak. The power and control and the conquer of having sex with her is like a drug. If she’s hot it’s great. If she’s not it doesn’t matter much. The more hot or more unique the situation (married, co worker, she “can’t” do it etc) the more of an addiction or high i…
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:35 AM
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Neither do I but I’m willing to do what works. Be honest and grenade every relationship if you want IDC
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:03 AM
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Vibe still matters online. It’s really all that ever matters. If you re read a text convo from a neutral strand point the vibe of the convo is all that matters. Most people can pickup on whatever it is
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:02 AM
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It’s the vibe that matters the most. Imagine how you are when you’re just having fun, talking trash and super care free fun vibe. Thats the goal
/r/seduction04/07/26 12:32 AM
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Good for trying but becusse you are this invested it won’t work sadly. You basically need this opportunity but 10x it to have success. So do what you just did but go do it again like 100x
/r/seduction04/07/26 12:01 AM
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I’m also 6’4 and attractive. Basically never or very rarely
/r/seduction03/07/26 09:47 PM
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When she asks if your seeing other girls if you say yes I am or if you say no
/r/seduction03/07/26 06:20 PM
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Night game be social and talk to everyone. It’ll work best
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:51 PM
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Make sure to just go do it too (sounds like u are? )
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:46 PM
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Lying works. Don’t rly care what people say it does. Game her dna not her logical mind. Get about 10x the girls if you follow that advice alone
/r/seduction02/07/26 07:49 AM
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Yes being honest and direct works. Think of asshole guy that gets girls. No being direct doesn’t work. Think “wanna fuck” to every girl in the bar. Sure maybe it works for a couple but it’s not ideal. Somewhere in the middle is ideal
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:26 AM
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Been thinking about it lately. If you want multiple partners and want to be honest you can. But you can’t connect on a deep emotional level. You can connect super deep with women but then you can’t have multiple partners and be honest.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:06 PM
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Been there many times and if you don’t take it’s over. Also really sucks when it happens but a good lesson
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:05 PM
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No there isn’t. Depends what you mean by top guy. Too average guy. Top celebrity. Etc
/r/seduction29/06/26 01:21 AM
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Possibly missed a green light. Sometimes Giles give you one and if u don’t take it’s just over
/r/seduction29/06/26 12:52 AM
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Pain is a great motivator and sometimes is what you need to get to the next level
/r/seduction27/06/26 03:41 PM
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Everyone is ‘needy’ from an approach it’s basically impossible to approach and not be needy. The goal is to change that dynamic as fast as possible though. The best way is to actually just not be needy. As in you have 5 other girls and don’t care about this one. The best way to do that is to actually have 5 other girls. Faking it is extremely difficult
/r/seduction26/06/26 03:46 PM
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Bar/club can be good. I wousknt tell people you go alone tho. I do too but don’t tell people they will judge you
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:43 PM
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Hard to close on the first date if you’re doing dates. I wouldn’t even be trying to be honest. 2 or 3 dates yes but don’t bother on the first you’ll kill more opportunities than is worth it
/r/seduction26/06/26 04:09 AM
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I’m guessing you are a girl (not many post here) so the game rules are different for guys and girls. First thing you should understand. For girls it’s a lot of looks and how you look that matters. For guys this isn’t the case so you should be trying to max out your looks. With gym, clothes etc. personality matters but not as much as you’d think ( just the truth and you need to accept it). BUT it does help a lot if it’s good (personality) As for game having a lot of femenine energy is very attrac…
/r/seduction26/06/26 04:03 AM
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They matter just only matter about 30% of a girls attraction to you. For women their looks matter about 70% of it. It’s different for men and women. Look your best but focus on the 70% that matters
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:22 AM
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Just had one 2 weeks ago. The girls were quite interested in doing it and interested in eachother. After they did it tho they both found they didn’t want to again. Even tho both had fun
/r/seduction23/06/26 04:19 PM
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Yes it becomes a huge issue. I’m 37. 17 years of game and over 100 girls. Met a girl last year I really liked and can tell is a good girl. Can’t figure out how not to cheat or not get bored. It’s a real issue on the other side of it that you wouldn’t think of until it might be too late
/r/seduction23/06/26 04:18 PM
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These are more likely her just not being that interested than shit tests. So you’re confusing the 2. Also don’t react to them just be better
/r/seduction23/06/26 04:14 PM
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No prob. Just make it seem like it’s normal. Touch her to get her to move out of the way of the fridge etc. stuff like that “excuse me” touch her arm and slightly move her
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:37 AM
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Flirt with her. Subtle works best. Subtly touch her
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:45 AM
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Pork her
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:11 AM
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I care I ton about the girls I have dated but if your 100% honest ut doesn’t go as well as you think. I’m guessing you haven’t tried it from this response so go try it and see how it goes first
/r/seduction20/06/26 04:25 PM
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It’s not how nightclub game works. It’s a technique that prob does work but only with a small % of girls and still needs to be done right. I don’t care or have an issue with it tho
/r/seduction20/06/26 04:23 PM
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Yes it’s 100% true. Need to invest early to get the attention but the can pull back and let her invest more. I actually think this is a good dynamic if not done super toxic. But you can do it toxic too women also seem to like that
/r/seduction20/06/26 04:22 PM
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Just being honest
/r/seduction18/06/26 09:34 PM
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No but being honest seems like it doesn’t work either so what are you supposed to do
/r/seduction18/06/26 05:07 PM
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I’ve heard of guys doing this. Used to see posts. I belive that it works it signals a lot of alpha traits if you do it with confidence and hold frame. I still don’t think it’s the best way to run game but if it works whose to argue with that
/r/seduction18/06/26 05:24 AM
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Everyone tells you to be honest but seems like when I do people just hate you for it. I wish I had the right answer
/r/seduction18/06/26 05:10 AM
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Lying works until it doesn’t. But it will for awhile. I’ve noticed most girls deep down know you are too
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:20 AM
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Have tried being honest and tried lying. Tried all ways. Sadly lying seems to be the only way it’s worked. Everyone is going to hate me for that but just been ky experience
/r/seduction18/06/26 12:17 AM
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Do not tell the other girls. You’ll learn quickly girls want you to be wanted by other girls but then tell you not to ever see other girls. It’s dumb AF
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:46 PM
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Gives off beta male vibes
/r/seduction15/06/26 01:24 AM
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Yeah responses were good. More so Jay in general as a rule. This situation sounds fine
/r/seduction13/06/26 04:41 PM
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They both wanted to do and have for a long time. I didn’t need to do much they made it happen more than I did
/r/seduction13/06/26 04:40 PM
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More likely they both have feelings for me and it hurt them both. So may do it again but not with me
/r/seduction13/06/26 04:40 PM
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They both had fun trust me. Just found they don’t like girls and wanted to experience it but had the experience
/r/seduction13/06/26 04:39 PM
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Imagjne how’d you text if you had 5 other girls and text like that
/r/seduction13/06/26 07:44 AM
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Just had one a few days ago. Both girls never had one and always wanted to try. They both say now that they have done it they probably won’t do it again even tho they both had fun
/r/seduction13/06/26 07:42 AM
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Yeah man very similar situation. RSD since t started. Good at game. Currently met a great girl. Can’t help but cheat or keep looking at other girls. Become your own worst enemy sadly. I don’t have a solution
/r/seduction12/06/26 01:42 AM
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It is even for both beleive it or not. Women have problems too. Just different ones
/r/seduction12/06/26 01:39 AM
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Women’s DNA (what they’re attracted to) and what they logically tell you they want are usually very different
/r/seduction10/06/26 11:25 PM
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Yes and no. Yes you need to approach a lot and you will never have 100% success rate. If you get good though you can drastically improve your odds enough that you won’t care about your success rate. You only really need a couple girls to be having more sex than you need
/r/seduction10/06/26 01:45 PM
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Lots of hot girls with good bodies and hot faces tho. Is possible to have both. I’d rather a hot body than a hot face given the choice though
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:17 PM
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I’ve been surprised by people tons of times. One girl I’m dating looking at her I thought she was dumb when I first met her but beneath the surface she’s amazing. You really never know. I’ve met a ton of girls
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:17 PM
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So fix it
/r/seduction06/06/26 03:54 PM
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Yeah the looks get your foot in the door and more girls will check you out. But after that first 30 seconds it’s an even playing field
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:53 AM
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How did the one happen?
/r/seduction06/06/26 05:52 AM
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Also been with over 100 girls. Only ever had one real one that collapsed half way through. And 2 others that just didn’t quite come together. They seem tricky from my experience. A lot of girls want them but the logistics make them difficult
/r/seduction05/06/26 05:12 PM
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I would agree. Abundance mindset almost always fixes every game problem you will have
/r/seduction04/06/26 03:31 PM
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I am thinking of the fuckbiy type yea. The genuine incel hater type ironically still would do better than a white knight. But not great
/r/seduction04/06/26 02:00 AM
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Prob just wants to complain
/r/seduction04/06/26 01:59 AM
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“Yeah I love co*k. You guys come here often?”
/r/seduction04/06/26 01:59 AM
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lol yes they do
/r/seduction03/06/26 09:36 PM
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lol accurate
/r/seduction03/06/26 09:36 PM
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Women love those type of guys
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:49 PM
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I’ve done it it’s amazing and changed my life
/r/seduction03/06/26 05:23 PM
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Why I asked if he wanted to. Most likely just wants to complain
/r/seduction03/06/26 05:22 PM
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Condoms are for sailors
/r/seduction03/06/26 05:22 PM
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Do u want to fix it or just stay alone
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:20 PM
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David Hawkins letting go. Likely need to let go of the dense trauma energy inside you from this. It’s a spiritual thing but it’s actually practical and works
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:48 PM
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Can bring it up or not hangout with him with your gf. I wouldn’t
/r/seduction02/06/26 12:12 AM
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Super lame when guy friends do this btw
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:23 PM
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Becusse I spent years early on when I was a virgin trying to use looks to get girls and I can tell you it doesn’t work that well. Yes it helps and yes everyone should be trying to max out there looks. Just doesn’t help that much
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:09 PM
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Society thinks it’s how it is. The matrix is real. The reality is often not at all what the matrix thinks
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:08 PM
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Going out a lot every week on days I don’t want to helped me a lot. I used to go out 3-4 nights a week every week to the clubs. Feels like work. The success would eb and flow. Sometimes was great sometimes bad
/r/seduction31/05/26 07:07 PM
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100%. Dating apps suck and you need to be good looking and have a good profile to stand out. Clubs are great but do require a great vibe
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:07 PM
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I just looked this up and that’s wrong. They are actually under 6 feet. I’ve noticed a pattern that most successful people in business actually tend to be shorter. Most likely as they don’t get distracted by dating
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:06 PM
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It’s mostly the vibe that matters. Looks get you initial interest and about a 30 second window where the girl likes you. After that it’s all even playing field. You need to have a fun flirty vibe
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:04 PM
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There are perks yes. One being that because I have better looks my belief system with women is better and I’m aware of this. This alone is something that helps me more than my looks. Trust me I’m super self aware and analytical of everything I can see the advantage and disadvantage. The looks themself don’t help that much. The belief system helps more. Ironically this can actually hurt some poor though. As people just assume Because you have good looks your automatically good with girls. And whe…
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:04 PM
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It’s your vibe. I’m a good looking guy and I can tell you while it does help and you aren’t totally wrong it helps wayyyyyyy less than you think. And if I solely relied on my looks I’d have almost zero success. I can tell you this because I used to do it when I was young and it gets you basiclau no girls
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:09 PM
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Be dumb and have fun that’s all girls care about. Logical stuff is for guys
/r/seduction30/05/26 05:18 PM
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I always liked how Todd broke down the why of stuff. Helped me understand it. Also can tell he wasn’t naturally good so had to learn it all. Good coach
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:51 AM
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100% agree. Also coming from someone who is conventionally attractive I can tell you how much it doesn’t help. And how much getter more confident and social has helped me instead of just trying to be better looking. Ironically I tried the better looking thing and it even can make it worse
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:32 AM
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“Hello”
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:37 PM
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Depends on the goals. I always find it way more fun seeing a girl for awhile I’m genuinely interested in vs just another one night stand
/r/seduction29/05/26 02:35 AM
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Just go out alone I do it more now. It’s harder but can be done
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:56 AM
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It’s 100% true I’m just the one being honest here
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:07 AM
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Ironically you don’t actually. Your dna responds well to them and your logical brain prob tells you they’re an asshole. But 9/10 times it’s the guy you date or sleep with. I see it from my own experience and other women as well. Also for some reason women tend to have the hardest time admitting this to themself. Even though if they did it would help themself a lot
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:04 AM
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Keep in mind everything has pros and cons. No matter what it is. Win a million dollars is going to come with big negatives you just don’t know what they are. The lifestyle you have right now does that too. Big positives but can come with big negatives too. Just have to decide for yourself which lifestyle you want and what’s more important. None of them are perfect
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:02 AM
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Do itttttt lol. Honest advice is unless your super comfortable with him and yourself and feel confident about the relationship it’s just going to cause of lot of issues. And I’m guessing your asking here becusse you don’t feel confident
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:00 AM
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Women’s dating advice has consistently year over year been some of the worst dating advice I’ve ever heard. Time and time again
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:55 AM
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Lmao yeah man goodluck. Everyone says “bE hOnESt”. This is a good example of what actualy happens. Been there before too lots and I don’t like hurting people wither but it just seems impossible not to. If you okay the game you will
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:53 AM
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Gotta learn how to let go. It’s super simple actualy and you’re addicted to thinking and being in control. Can you just take your hand off the wheel right now and just completely let go? That’s what everyone is doing. You likely get a ton of mental resistance from that Thovuht
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:42 AM
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Tricky. Lots of people say to be honest. From my experience of actually doing it when you’re honest the girls get mad when they get emotionally invested. Usually give you some kind of ultimatum at some point. Next option is to be exclusive. Can do that if your into it. Or you can lose the girl. 3rd option is to lie about it as long as possible. Typically ends up blowing up at some point but I also feel like the girls know they just don’t like fully admitting it to themself. I don’t have any perf…
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:26 AM
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Social media and dating apps. Plus the general belief system around dating being pushed on both sides on social media
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:41 PM
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This is happening whether you like it or not
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:39 PM
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Need to understand the female brain to understand this. If you give her high social status or Alpha male traits like you prob did early in the relationship when you weren’t emotionally invested she likes you. When you said yo became emotionally invested you now signal beta male behaviour to her and she gives you dumb logical reasons that in her mind she does believe is true (arent actually true) and she leaves you like she is
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:11 PM
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Most likely your thinking too much. Your action is good. Way too analytical. You think guys that are naturals think this much and break it down?
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:27 AM
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Yup would agree.
/r/seduction27/05/26 12:45 AM
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All in your head man. Just have to learn to relax. Easier said than done but is what the issue is I’ve had it
/r/seduction27/05/26 12:45 AM
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I find every year I get older it gets 5% more challenging and I need to make up that 5% somewhere if I want to keep dating high level girls. Which also becomes 5% harder every year to make up. Just is how it is
/r/seduction26/05/26 02:35 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:51 AM
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As someone who is 37 and had to deal with this I find 2 things. One is you just lie and remember the bday of the year you’re lying about. And what age you can pass off. I used to say 28 for a bit but I can’t do that now. Second is if you say it with confidence I noticed girls don’t actually care. If you say it and look for approval on there response they care. “37. Yeah lol nearly dead. You come here with any friends” etc. “37 works great if you have daddy issues ;)” etc. but need confidence
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:51 AM
1

I’m sure there is. A lot of girls tend to get very angry when they don’t get what they want which gets old. Some other advice about being transparent upfront may be better
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:21 AM
1

I think a normal relationship dynamic just doesn’t work super well for me. Maybe have to look at other types
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:14 AM
1

Thanks man good take and based in reality from my experience. I also like that you said spending time apart creates sexual tension. Told so many girls this and they take as if I hate them. But seems to be true every time. Appreciate it
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:12 AM
5

It’s 50% luck 50% 4 nights a week at the bar for years every week. The luck part is I was born attractive, grew up with my sisters friends trying to hit on me so good belief system. And got into game at the exact time RSD was taking off. Work part is I applied it a lot every week and was very into it
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:09 AM
1

When did I yeah my peak? I’m 37
/r/seduction24/05/26 11:58 PM
3

Lmao always the guys fault. Heard that 100x at least
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:06 PM
1

Yeah seen lots of RSD stuff followed it for years. Hard dynamic to get into from my experience doing what you’re doing. Not sure how you do it
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:00 PM
2

I’ve tried being transparent but they seem to go crazy
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:59 PM
2

Open relationship is something I havent tried that may work
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:59 PM
2

142 for me. She’s a good person although we are breaking up right now even tho we already kind of did. Issue is I don’t do well in long term relationships
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:58 PM
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They aren’t always i didn’t say that. I said how do you avoid being tempted when the situation comes up
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:57 PM
1

Not ai
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:56 PM
2

I know the difference between the passion love and real genuine love. But I feel like my dna is still super strong to sleep with other women
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:17 PM
3

Not always hot I’m saying but given an oppornituy with one it would be hard to say no
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:16 PM
1

37
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:16 PM
1

Did you find this worked for you?
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:16 PM
4

I met an amazing girl that wants to I just struggle to be able to do it
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:15 PM
0

If you’re a woman though I’d argue your dna priorities are different. And usually you do need to feel loved and wanted and without that you will cheat. But for a guy it isn’t not the same dna
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:14 PM
9

Super hard to say no to a hot girl wanting to have sex with you and making it easy. I feel like 90% of guys would in that situation just don’t have the opportunity
/r/seduction24/05/26 05:42 PM
1

Keep in mind looks only matter about 30%. But if you feel great by looking better that’s what’s going to have the most effect. As it’s the 70%
/r/seduction23/05/26 10:38 PM
1

More about the vibe and having fun than anything. Just go out and talk to them and try to have fun. Try to think less
/r/seduction23/05/26 04:32 PM
1

I go out lots alone but I prefer with friends. More of have to do it but it can be fun. Just have to be social right away
/r/seduction23/05/26 12:16 AM
2

100%. I learned this the hard way from a ton of theory and trying to control outcomes. Hard lesson to learn sometimes but letting go and just having a great vibe is 10x more effective than any theory you’ll every learn
/r/seduction22/05/26 07:30 PM
3

Yes and no. I find it easier with friends but if you can socialized and have fun alone it doesn’t matter
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:38 PM
2

I haven’t heard of it but reading replies I see what it is. You are so much better off getting out of your head and having fun than trying to analyzing the framework of a convo into a cube.
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:34 PM
12

Look up the list of ‘IOI’s’ or indicators of interest. They are biological signals every woman gives when she is interested. Huge ones obv are she invites you over when she’s alone
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:26 PM
1

Send it if u don’t care
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:59 PM
1

Not in your relationship but it is possible yes
/r/seduction21/05/26 12:12 PM
7

Penetrative is 10x more intimate
/r/seduction21/05/26 11:14 AM
3

Focusing on looks to get Girls is like getting money to get girls. It might kind of work but never actually works
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:40 PM
1

The ‘matrix’ version of the world still thinks looks matter and they don’t know what you know. And the guys that are doing well are good looking so they also believe it. It’s dumb AF
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:39 PM
1

Lots do. Some don’t. Same as girls
/r/seduction19/05/26 04:31 PM
1

Every day for 17 years
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:28 PM
1

I’m prettty sure it’s just impossible and every girl gets mad at you for it. So just learn to deal with it and enjoy the time with them. Yes it hurts every time and girls can be mean but it’s part of the game
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:14 PM
56

I have dated some fairly hot girls. Bit of luck is involved and right timing usually. Need the skills to get the 7/10. Usually it happens when I’m on the ball with myself and sometime on a roll.
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:47 PM
3

No worries is good. “No problem” etc. all you can do
/r/seduction17/05/26 10:17 PM
1

Confidence is a big part of it yes. But you can be confident and a cocky assjole and girls won’t like it. So still needs some proper game
/r/seduction17/05/26 06:18 PM
1

Could be that too. These are the about basics but amazing how many people don’t do them
/r/seduction17/05/26 05:54 AM
2

Vibe prob got killed somehow and killed it for her. It happens and it sucks every time
/r/seduction17/05/26 04:24 AM
4

Any movie frame control is everywhere and always happening. I used to pay for chat gtp voice function and you can run role play scenarios. Ask it to role play prize frames etc
/r/seduction16/05/26 09:43 PM
2

Sweet may do the same
/r/seduction16/05/26 09:01 PM
6

Seeing it happen helps a lot. If you really understand it watch movies to see where people take and give frame. Another way is you can use AI to talk to
/r/seduction16/05/26 08:59 PM
1

Have fun and try to create a sexual vibe. More of a feeling kind of thing. You can feel sexual energy so you want that
/r/seduction16/05/26 03:26 PM
2

Don’t let your emotions get involved. As soon as you do you lost
/r/seduction16/05/26 03:12 PM
51

I’ve pulled twice in the last 2 years from going out alone which probably doesn’t sound great but was a huge accomplishment for me. Can be quite hard going alone but it’s worth it
/r/seduction16/05/26 03:11 PM
1

Your friend got hit on as well from what I’m talking about. Wearing a dress ironically displays a lot of alpha male traits as you are willing to risk a lot by doing it in a tribal mentality (as in we all still have dna like we live in small trubes). So he’s actually giving off those traits. I’m sure that’s not why he did it but that’s what it signals
/r/seduction16/05/26 02:58 PM
1

Oh you’re a girl lol. Makes more sense 😅
/r/seduction15/05/26 10:42 PM
1

You’re overthinking this man Jesus lol. I can tell you don’t get girls because if you do you’ll notice it pretty fast how they respond to certain traits vs others
/r/seduction15/05/26 10:07 PM
1

Are you in denial lol? It’s huge in the animal kingdom. Do you just not like hearing it
/r/seduction15/05/26 09:17 PM
1

Agreed. Almost Everytime I’ve been totally honest with a girl they just leave
/r/seduction15/05/26 04:25 PM
2

Yeah but that’s exactly what I mean. I mean that with absolutely nothing it’s impossible to alwyas give off the traits as there subconscious. What your saying will give you that feeling in your subconscious so it will work
/r/seduction15/05/26 04:24 PM
1

Signaling alpha male traits to a woman makes her respond to you in a way she wants to mate with you. Beta male traits do the opposite.
/r/seduction15/05/26 04:22 PM
3

Doesn’t work
/r/seduction15/05/26 04:34 AM
20

I should also add these are subtle cues to her subconscious that are almost impossible to re create on purpose
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:32 AM
36

So icy lol. Being cold and strong in your frame is what it is. Unshakable becusse you don’t care. It signals a lot of alpha male traits to women so their dna responds well
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:29 AM
1

If they don’t want to date something is going wrong after the initial attraction. Or they see you as a fuckboy type. Can you keep sleeping with them?
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:18 AM
5

Usually blows up on its own when they realize you won’t. Which is anywhere from 4-8 months. Painful every time and sucks
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:11 AM
1

Super sad when they end
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:10 AM
8

One night stands get boring. I don’t care to do them anymore unless she’s really hot. Otherwise who cares. It’s way better to have a situanshio kind of thing with a girl you like it just gets better everyday
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:04 AM
13

Try dating women for the honeymoon phase. It’s my fav thing to do now. 4-8 month relationships with girls you like and vibe with well
/r/seduction15/05/26 12:48 AM
1

Goodluck dawg u need it
/r/seduction14/05/26 05:12 PM
1

I’ve been in game 17 years and slept with over 100 women. Coming up on 200. It’s always the vibe. I re read your post. It’s your vibe man. It has very little to do with what you say and it’s all about how you make a girl feel (IE;the vibe). Your in a paradigm of fear (can look up the scale of conciousness) and that’s why you don’t say anything.
/r/seduction14/05/26 03:34 PM
1

I actualy agree except that the vibe is all that matters and I can tell yours sucks that’s why your not having any success
/r/seduction14/05/26 03:04 PM
1

Vibe matters the most and your vibe is way off
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:44 AM
0

For sure can be. And then use you to drive them around and get them free stuff. Dinners etc
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:59 PM
2

Women just like to chatter I wouldn’t be too concerned
/r/seduction13/05/26 03:14 AM
1

Next
/r/seduction12/05/26 03:18 AM
1

Yea can be fun if you are able to be social
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:56 AM
1

Be social with everyone and do it right away. Going out alone is hard but can be done with success. I’ve pulled twice going out alone but I’ve been going out for years
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:24 PM
1

Been in game a long time so still go out occasionally is why I still do
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:17 PM
7

Sober over time is much better. Harder yes but the best nights I’ve ever had were sober and you can also learn all the reference experiences. Also you can improve on the night before. It’s the best way but can be harder
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:44 AM
1

Signalling alpha male traits to your dna makes you respond. Beta male traits does the opposite (being nice usually)
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:23 AM
1

I’d pull away. Set a bad frame by taking her to dinner is the issue. Started on the wrong foot
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:18 AM
0

Not started sorry but still do***
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:10 AM
5

37 and yes
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:10 AM
1

Don’t let your emotions get involved and u won’t
/r/seduction08/05/26 02:21 AM
1

I disagree
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:55 PM
5

If you can learn to ‘let go’ it’ll fix your issue. That’s the solution. David Hawkins book letting go. Julien’s transformation stuff or power vs force kind of explains it by David Hawkins. It’s where your answer is and where mine was. I put in a TON of work at the bars and had the worst success until I fixed it
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:42 PM
3

I’ve been where you are and also have a similar situation as far as success and understandjng dating. You want it too bad. Outcome dependant and the vibe is off becusse of this. Need to let go basically. Watch Julien’s transformation videos on this it’ll help
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:17 PM
2

Talk to people day to day. Cashiers, waiters, people you see day to day talk to them. Then start going to the bars and talking to random people there
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:40 AM
4

It comes naturally when you have multiple women you are seeing. Without actually having it it’s going to come across as weird if you try to just act like it
/r/seduction06/05/26 11:39 AM
3

Over simplification of what’s happening but yes I agree
/r/seduction06/05/26 11:38 AM
1

Looks don’t matter as much as u think they do which is why it doesn’t matter
/r/seduction06/05/26 03:03 AM
1

It’s the vibe more than anything. A depressing I hate myself vibe (which you have) is not atttractive. Fix your vibe you’ll fix your succes with women
/r/seduction06/05/26 01:19 AM
3

Need to be signalling to her DNA that you are desirable and other women want you. Prob why you sleepin with other women made the sex good. A TON of people go soft in relationships and lose their edge and women can tell. Happens to me too to be fair it’s hard not too. Get your edge back. Have other women find you desirable. Create a little bit of toxicity in the relationship with other women wanting you and you’ll have your good sex
/r/seduction03/05/26 06:44 PM
1

100% agree
/r/seduction02/05/26 08:42 PM
1

I can tell you from experience I have done it and lost count of how many times
/r/seduction02/05/26 08:42 PM
4

True and also why not add 30% to your success in dating if you can fairly easily with fitness and clothes. Why make it harder than it needs to be
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:54 PM
3

Fun and safe are keys to game
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:53 PM
89

I’m physically attractive and I’ve done well in dating. I can tell you with 100% confidence that yes it matters and no it doesn’t matter. Everyone thinks looks matter in dating and they are correct. But for men it’s about 30% of it. I can’t tell you how shit I would do if I only relied on looks and I know this because I used to do that when I was young and I had ZERO success. They get your foot in the door and get you a lot of interest in the first 30 seconds. After that they almost don’t matter…
/r/seduction02/05/26 03:55 PM
1

Masculine vibe or energy. Think 80’s male move star kind of vibe vs soft liberal kid of today. One is way more masculine
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:06 AM
21

Like others said women want women other girls want. They will also never say that but 100% true it’s in their DNA
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:05 AM
0

Yes attraction but attraction a lot of time comes from a strong masculine frame. Or if she attracted and then you have the frame it allows her to be femenine. Sort of the same point
/r/seduction29/04/26 02:46 PM
63

Usually if you have a good masculine frame you can allow her to sink into her feminine frame which is why she gets goofy. Good sign for sure
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:19 AM
1

Will have to work on it then or be alone forever. Basically your only 2 options. Learn how to do it with friends first as it’s very similar. If you can do it with guy friends (funny banter and playful care free vibe) you can do it with girls
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:23 PM
1

It doesn’t mean ‘they haven’t been playful with you’ it’s up to you to lead with women and create that vibe. So the truth is you haven’t been playful with them. 100% chance you can do it just need to understand what it is and you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:47 PM
1

Nebr had that fun playful banter back and forth with a girl while slightly smiling and joking. It’s similar to teasing a friend and being witty or charismatic but with a girl instead
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:41 PM
1

Sexual vibe?
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:27 AM
6

Flirting is a vibe thing. Like a feeling or energy. Sexual energy usually. Need to feel that with women. Usually happens early when your with girls you genuinely find attractive
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:25 PM
3

This is a paradigm shift on game. What your referring to
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:23 PM
1

He’s prob looking for interest and body language cues. Just moves on if he isn’t getting them
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:21 PM
1

I’m not sure what you’re getting at. It sounds like you’re being annoying. People are bothered by it. Obv solution is to work on yourself and fix it. Or don’t do it and keep having the same issues
/r/seduction26/04/26 05:21 PM
1

Self improvement is not insecure no. I would work on myself. Your overthinking working on yourself and having a strong frame or being true to who you are. They are different but not massively different. Being annoying is not good. Owning your own frame is good and can be alpha
/r/seduction25/04/26 10:37 PM
1

People are clearly giving you signs they don’t like it. Either accept that or change it. What else can u do
/r/seduction25/04/26 04:51 PM
3

Your probably being rude an annoying and it’s not positive traits like your saying they are they’re jus annoying to most people. Need to live in reality.
/r/seduction25/04/26 11:51 AM
2

Online blows. Focus on bats clubs daily life etc
/r/seduction24/04/26 06:37 PM
1

She was interested in the moment. Her actually replying is a sign of interest btw and sort of a test. If she’s really not interested she just won’t reply or will block you. Best thing would be to give a witty comeback to her works number “love wrong numbers lol”
/r/seduction24/04/26 03:39 AM
2

Yeah I’d just non react too or if you have a funny counter it works great but needs some charisma. Also be careful at work
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:16 PM
1

It’s a vibe thing. The sexual ‘aura’ or vibe is what you are lacking. Sort of hard to explain it it’s more of a feeling thing
/r/seduction21/04/26 05:04 PM
2

I’ve also been lucky too and I think that needs to be addressed. Good genetics. Good upringing with girls. Got into game at the perfect time. So that’ ls PART of it too
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:03 PM
2

17 years of going out a lot and having good success with girls. 4x a week for several years very consistent
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:12 PM
1

Pretty much
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:11 PM
1

Prob hit your your wall with what you’re currently doing. Just need a diff thing that interests you
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:11 PM
10

I’ve pulled over 100 girls from night game now. Pulling another 7 and doing the ‘one night stand’ thing to me is not exciting. What I really like now is getting to know a girl I actually find attractive and that 4-8 month honeymoon phase with them. Sex is 10x what the one night stands is and just great experiences with the girl. One night pulls don’t even remotely compare. Should try more of that IMO
/r/seduction19/04/26 10:35 AM
1

Vibe is all that matters. I’m good looking and have had great successful nights and gone months going out 4x a week with 10years game experience and no success. Vibe is everything
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:49 AM
1

It doesn’t always. It does if you have a good vibe and she sees the guy as a potential mate and he finds her attractive. That dynamic isn’t always there. OR it can be there and th guy can make some kind of mistake during the attraction process of those couple weeks and ruin her attraction for him. That’s where ‘good game’ comes in. Some people have it and some don’t.
/r/seduction17/04/26 03:45 PM
2

You basically always hurt the other person and everyone is a bit manipulative. Just different levels of it. Everyone knows this and everyone dating still does it. It’s just part of the game
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:04 PM
1

Yeah I’ve had the same experience. I think for women it’s typically rare to get that response so they get offended you aren’t simping over them and actualy have choices (def the better and correct place to be) Then their response is kind of like how a child would react as they just have no game and are responding emotionally and think that’s how it would fix it
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:47 AM
1

If they’re blocking you and you aren’t sure why uts something your doing wrong. Just have to figure out what
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:14 AM
7

Vibe matters the most. Need to be able to feel the vibe and you want a positive fun vibe
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:55 PM
2

If u find them attractive it’s great. Easy date. Go
/r/seduction09/04/26 03:26 AM
1

Good vibes and good logistics. Have pulled prob 70+ girls from the club same night. Def happens
/r/seduction08/04/26 05:28 AM
1

Yes. Apps are useless and I do 10x better in real life. I haven’t even downloaded them in awhile it’s so retarded
/r/seduction08/04/26 05:26 AM
14

I’ve been this guy. Usually it’s becusse I’m bored in the relationship and I’m in the power position so I’m not chasing.
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:11 AM
-3

You wont and you will die alone. Try to enjoy that instead
/r/seduction05/04/26 04:31 PM
1

I’m 37 and prob could still but way harder than it used to be. My value needs to be a lot higher and my frame needs to be super strong when you find out how old I am. For example if she says how old are you and I say 37 and she’s 20. I need to be super confident and unphased when she likely will say “omg your so old etc”
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:56 AM
15

Wit top tier women it’s going to be very rare unless your the 1% of 1% natural. Or you have some men of status. Celebrity etc. For everyone else you def CAN sleep with girls all the time from nightlife but still going to take skill and work and pretty unlikely they would be top tier all the time. Lots of 7/10
/r/seduction03/04/26 05:12 PM
0

You can def do it but every harder obstacle is just a harder obstacle you will need to overcome. If she really likes you it’s prob fine. If you have to keep things at 100% months get step of the way to keep it together it’s gonna be a challenge
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:53 PM
5

She likes the attention and control. Your in a bad spot
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:42 PM
1

Yeah I’ve known some girls like that. Highly developed. Anyway like other people said just go say hi basically. Wear a tight white t shirt lol
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:46 PM
1

Hard to believe with those stats lol
/r/seduction22/03/26 06:59 AM
1

Troll post ?
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:58 AM
2

Sounds gay. Send her “let’s hangout again sometime” no question mark
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:55 AM
1

It’s not over but it’s going to be hard to change. But it’s possible if you want ut bad enough
/r/seduction15/03/26 04:05 AM
5

True stuff. And the other ones push that girl on you too which is annoying
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:09 PM
3

Shows confidence being direct like that and also people already know hey you’re talking to them on the street. So just saying I think your cute etc works well instead of asking for the time etc.
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:03 AM
1

Yes. It’s your DNA becoming complacent. Really hard thing to go against Sadly women are also very in tune with this and usually end up breaking up with you becusse of it
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:44 AM
1

There are quality women at clubs…
/r/seduction05/03/26 12:06 PM
1

I’d be going to clubs 2-4 nights a week instead if the goal is women
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:07 AM
1

It’ll be showing weakness and she acted the way she did because you held your frame and never gave in. (What her dna responds to). If you say you’ve changed etc she won’t like it
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:57 AM
5

People do for sure lol. Not even remotely true
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:35 AM
4

Hinders progress sadly. But it can be good every once and awhile. Making progress sober is key. Fun events/ groups drinking is pretty fun
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:25 AM
10

Sober is superior in the end. Drunk you’ll never build skills while sober you can build skills. Stay sober and work on it
/r/seduction26/02/26 06:57 AM
1

When a girl says “I have a bf” 99% of the time it means she isn’t interested and is telling you that. How i would almost always take it. Been in game 15 years
/r/seduction24/02/26 04:39 PM
7

They’re all hoes to the right guy. Also I’m sure it’s not 6 it’s like 26. You just have to understand women. They respond to alpha DNA characteristics you likely give off beta vibes
/r/seduction21/02/26 05:08 PM
9

Good take
/r/seduction21/02/26 05:07 PM
2

Yeah I have at times. Making women feel super comfortably around you. Sex is no big deal. You have a great vibe are all things that will do it. Being needy etc will kill all that
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:31 AM
1

I’ve cheated. It happens. People in general like to backwards rationalize. Human behaviour
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:53 PM
3

Here is the grossest story I’ve ever heard that ‘sort of’ relates to this. My ex gf had a kid with a new guy who was sort of unhinged. Anyway they broke up so she says but he would still come over I don’t rly know the situation. Anyway one time I went to her house and we had sex while they were maybe broken up. I came inside her and then ended yo leaving. He showed up randomly after I left and she didn’t know. He ended up going down on her and eating her out after I had just cum inside her and s…
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:53 PM
1

lol brutal
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:47 PM
1

Funny how they never will blatently say it. Always ‘we broke up’ etc but you find out later it wasn’t th case and have to put the pieces together
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:46 PM
6

3 that I was actualy seeing and it was too much. Did it twice and didn’t last long both times. Too hard to maintain since they didn’t know of eachother and wanted lots of attention
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:53 AM
1

Figure out now or stay a virgin forever. Only 2 options pick one
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:51 AM
1

I’ve met girls like that. They’ll still have sex or do everything else and you’ll know it’s actually that. This situation isn’t that
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:22 AM
6

Yeah over a year ago. Pretty insane
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:37 PM
1

Yes I’ve used after party as a line countless times. Rarely do girl actually think you have one
/r/seduction08/02/26 07:05 AM
142

Man if you are actualy in a ‘relationship’ with this girl a she’s not having sex with you after 1.2 years you have WAY bigger issues. I doubt she’s dating you she probs just does it for the attention. My actual advice is leave this girl and move on. Insane situation
/r/seduction08/02/26 01:01 AM
2

It’s a skill like anything. If your autistic the benifit is you can typically hyper focus on that. Just work on the skill
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:16 AM
1

You either do it or you don’t do it. I never liked it either but my goal of getting better at it was more important. The alternative is you never get good so I chose doing the stuff I didn’t like. Now I’d say I’m 20x better than I was
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:41 PM
2

Get out of your head. Learn how to get ‘in state’. Makes all the difference
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:08 AM
1

How else do you meet someone. It’s just a method to do it. Can use whatever tool works for you
/r/seduction24/01/26 12:42 AM
1

Let go of the ego. Long spiritual path to figure out how to do it properly
/r/seduction20/01/26 03:41 PM
1

I don’t have an issue with it if it’s genuine. If you’re busy and just texting when you get it. If it’s coming from a place of neediness it’s bad
/r/seduction14/01/26 03:49 AM
17

Body language is a huge tell and if focus on that. Look up the list of IOI’s for women. Also though some women just want validation in relationships and will be very flirty
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:17 PM
1

Doesn’t matter unless you do it. Action is all that ever matters. Ideally you want both but no action and all theory will never get you anywhere. Be 100x better off with all action and no theory
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:56 PM
1

Vibe got killed somewhere.
/r/seduction04/01/26 06:38 AM
3

Yes any new girl will care a ton and it’ll be a huge issue. Likely a dealbreaker to them
/r/seduction23/12/25 04:28 PM
3

Natural are usually good becuzse they don’t think about what they’re doing they’re just having fun which is what works anyways
/r/seduction21/12/25 06:58 PM
2

IOI is indicators of interest. You can look them up. They’re body language tells that a women is into you and they can’t be faked. Really good to learn them all but there’s some common ones you see lots
/r/seduction13/12/25 04:05 PM
2

Depends what girls you’re going for. If you only look for IOI’s and approach those girls it willl usually go well but you’ll have a lot less girls to approach. Best bet is just to approach everyone. More rejections but better for success and skill
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:51 PM
2

Make sure it’s genuine if possible. Ideally girls you want to talk to. Otherwise your method is solid
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:23 AM
1

Yes and no like someone else said. If you’re in your 30’s especially early it isn’t a limiting factor. As you get older it will be if you still want young girls tho
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:46 PM
1

I’d be pretty careful if you want to maintain the friendship. Would be looking for obvious body language signs
/r/seduction10/12/25 04:23 PM
1

Yeah agreed. In your dna to want other girls. I hate how people make it seem like this isn’t completely normal. What you do with it though is your choice
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:45 AM
2

It’s in your dna to want other girls. Not a therapeutic issue
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:45 AM
1

It’s in your DNA to want to spread your seed. That’d what men are biologically meant to do and being young means you’re really gonna have that drive. It’s actually completely normal and I hate how people make it seem like it isn’t. What you do with that info though is up to you. Genetically we aren’t meant to be married but if it’s what you want you have to understand that drive is ingrained in your dna
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:44 AM
34

Might be the wrong sub. Your asking how to have a guy cuck you ?
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:45 PM
1

I’ve had girls buy me expensive stuff. More so when dating but also not. If I was seeing 2 girls and she did I’d feel a lot worse about it then if I was dating. It still feels weird though when girls do it. Feel like it’s immasuclating some how even though it should be the opposite.
/r/seduction07/12/25 04:55 AM
6

Doesn’t mean women don’t have value lol. It’s in our dna to want and need them so you will always want them whether you want to or not. And there is a ton of value in having a gf and enjoying amazing experiences with them. Something everyone should strive for. That doesn’t mean you need to prize them though. You can put value on it but not in a my life is over if this girl doesn’t like me. Or she is a queen. She isn’t
/r/seduction04/12/25 08:20 PM
1

It’s over. Appropriate response to “you’re too young for me” is “no prob”. Fact you’re writing this huge post means you care and that’s why it’s over. Not even about the age
/r/seduction04/12/25 06:58 PM
4

Yeah good mindset to have. Prizing women is a terrible one to have. They are so not the prize lol and once you see this it helps a lot too.
/r/seduction04/12/25 06:25 PM
2

Just do what you’ve being doing already. Looks like it works
/r/seduction04/12/25 06:22 PM
46

True story. Rule #1 has always been don’t be needy for me. Needy is chasing etc too. You obv need to approach and chase a bit or put yourself out there but always best to have the girl chase you as much as possible. Be the prize
/r/seduction04/12/25 06:18 PM
2

My thoughts on sex is you either have a lot of stability in a relationship and boring sex. (Live together. Best friends. No chaos etc). Which is obv good for raising a family. OR. You have a lot of chaos and amazing sex. Think breakup sex. Just met your partner and don’t know if it’s going to last. The girl is actualy crazy etc. usually uncertainty makes the sex interesting. Whether or not you want to do that in a marriage of 20 years is up to you
/r/seduction02/12/25 01:28 PM
1

Don’t do it it’s dumb. You’re setting a frame that the woman is the prize and women are dumb and shouldn’t be the prize.
/r/seduction02/12/25 03:46 AM
1

lol bruh…they’re green
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:09 PM
9

I’ve been with over 100 girls and used condoms with maybe 20 of those. Barely anyone asks. I had chlamydia twice that’s it.
/r/seduction24/11/25 12:28 PM
1

I’ve talked to a couple girls who always find guys like this. The issue is the guys don’t actually like you they just want their cake and to eat it too. That’s it. Need to stop overthinking it. I know 2 girls that just go through revolving doors of guys like this and I tell them this every time and they say nooooo. Then the guy leaves again
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:09 PM
1

No it works. I spent 10 years going out all the time. 2-4 nights a week. Yes it’s hard but that’s what makes it good. You sound like you just want to keep making excuses to be honest
/r/seduction17/11/25 04:07 PM
1

Then it isn’t a big enough priority. Easy answer. When it becomes one you’ll find the time. I used to be a gym trauner for 6 years it was the same thing. When someone was on the verge of dying suddenly they had the time
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:07 AM
1

Go to the local nightclubs and practice there instead
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:06 AM
0

Either you’ll figure it out or you won’t
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:42 PM
1

Everyone has the same amount of time. Go out to nightclubs. It’s either a priority or it isn’t. Stop complaining
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:25 PM
1

Depends how many issues you have. Main thing is keep trying and keep working on fixing issues
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:25 PM
1

30 rejections is nothing. Some people including myself get that in one night if your feeling off and putting in a lot of action
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:05 AM
1

You’ll get rejected a lot so have to get used to it. Just keep improving
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:04 AM
2

Take action. Really there’s only 2 paths. Start working on it from where your at and start fixing the issues or lay down and rot. Pick one
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:26 AM
11

I’m 36 and did sleep with a 21 year old not that long ago. Just have to be confident and not care about the age. It does get harder though for sure and you have to bridge the gap
/r/seduction20/10/25 05:05 AM
1

Also he may like to give. If the sex was good both times he probs does. Something that will help you give him one is tell him you find it hot and sucking dick makes you horny. Then he thinks it’s giving you something. Some guys are like this
/r/seduction19/10/25 12:36 AM
0

Like someone said maybe smells bad or thinks he does. I’ve had it where I had sex with another girl the same day and made the girl not do it for that reason. Unlikely but possible. Bad person I know but this happens. Also I personally don’t love bjs a ton so maybe just doesn’t love getting them. Can always just ask. I like them but don’t love them and unless the girl loves them I don’t rly want her to give me one
/r/seduction18/10/25 11:20 PM
3

Yeah that’s normal. I’ve been in game 16 years and I still get that. It’s better and my ups are more successful but I’d say I still have the same downs. Never seems to go away
/r/seduction18/10/25 09:18 PM
3

Yes 100%
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:44 PM
1

Yes it is
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:44 PM
16

You don’t complete it. I’m in a relationship and game theory matters still. I still have to be aware of her dna. Understand there’s competition. Stay sharp. Keep an abundance mindset. It doesn’t end
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:42 PM
1

You can’t man. Giver a try if you want
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:06 PM
1

Almost never works unfortunately and the more you want it to the worse it gets. It’s a sad reality if your in a bad place mentally right now
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:29 AM
3

Hard stuff is mental I’ve had it too. Dick size doesn’t matter that much but it can help. It’s more mental for women so the vibe like game in general is what matters
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:55 PM
2

Lmao alpha
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:40 PM
21

I’ve been in game 16 years and I’d consider myself decent and no. Too many variables including the biggest ones being myself. Even if I do feel good though the bar ratio may be way off. Not that many girls there. Nights not that busy. Just don’t run into the right girl etc. lot of variables unfortunately
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:37 PM
1

If it’s actually really good it’s not super likely but does still happen. Reason being there’s a ton of stuff going on in someone else’s like you don’t know about. Maybe they’re still dating and just wanted to see what’s out there etc etc
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:14 PM
5

Nah I do it too. 4-8 months on average. If you have game and options it’s pretty hard not too. I don’t really have a solution
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:15 AM
14

Go to the gym all the time. It’s like a magic pill for your life. I used to be a trainer and I’d see it all the time in people. Get fit. Also what matters most is your vibe. Looks are only 30%. That’s stil 30% but it’s not Everton
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:14 AM
1

Sounds like u are a girl and he may be bored. If this is Al ong term relationship it’s actually pretty common.
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:13 AM
1

Generally you want her to be doing this. You can do it too if she is receptive to it but you need to read her body language and see.
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:12 AM
2

Men need to be on their purpose. Well said
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:11 AM
2

Women do not want you to think about them all the time. Even though they might tell you they do. In fact they probs will tell you. The reason is those types of behaviiirs signal beta male to her. You want to signal alpha male traits. Game her dna not what she’s telling you
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:10 AM
3

Been in it 16 years I still love women just different style of it now. Having a one night stand with a 7 is boring to me. No appeal. Having a 4-8 month homemoon phase relationship with a hot girl and great sex with new experiences is amazing. Don’t think I could ever get bored of that
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:03 AM
1

100% true to all. Pretty wild to see it in person
/r/seduction14/09/25 09:11 PM
2

100% man. The hottest girls I’ve been with have serious mental issues. Usually they live in massive echo chambers of insane belief systems since they can get away with it. Genuinely not good people to date long term
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:17 PM
1

Have u guys had sex?
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:16 PM
2

100%. Doesn’t even sound like they’re dating or had sex
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:15 PM
1

Relax lol. You sound way too invested and if your that invested and she’s travelling I wouldn’t be surprised if she has a few guys. Are u guys 100% dating? Have u had sex?
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:15 PM
1

Go out lots and approach a lot
/r/seduction14/09/25 06:58 PM
3

Something genuine not about her looks works well. Careful with compliments though they usually don’t work well
/r/seduction14/09/25 06:57 PM
2

Vibe isn’t your looks
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:58 AM
2

6’4 black dude you have huge potential lol. I’m 6’4 and white and it def helps. If you can’t pull you need to fix your vibe. Also apps suck for dating
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:46 PM
2

It’s her dna. Logically she wants a nice guy. Genetically her dna wants the alpha male with high status. Game her dna not her logic
/r/seduction05/09/25 03:37 AM
1

Gonna have to just ask
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:21 PM
5

wtf are u saying
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:21 PM
6

Basically like everyone said. If you care it’s already over. Onto the next
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:20 PM
1

lol so true
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:20 PM
1

In pickup since 20
/r/seduction27/08/25 02:56 PM
1

I’m sure it would work but why. Just pay a hooker at that point
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:59 AM
1

Just ended. Will be nalther next week if you want to join
/r/seduction23/08/25 12:52 AM
15

“We should hangout tonight”. Sounds like the rest will happen if you’re a around eachother so just make plans to be next to him
/r/seduction22/08/25 07:12 PM
1

Not even that far just go and have fun
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:10 PM
2

I’ve done 3 girls twice now and only for a short amount of time. I’ve done 2 a few times and that’s my most common. If you are ACTUALLY seeing them you won’t have time for more than 2 without issue and even that will be challenging
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:22 PM
5

If it’s the first time it’s a lot more rare but happens. Women don’t want to come across as a slut. When your seeing her I have it happen all the time
/r/seduction12/08/25 05:46 AM
1

100%
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:19 AM
1

Really really
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:14 AM
4

We do a Friday call at 6:00 MST time if you want to join. Then have a WhatsApp group. Shoukd join and ask questions it’s been good. Can dm for the link it is real
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:12 AM
58

Having fun helps a lot. Easier said than done. It’s really more about gaming you’re self then gaming the girl. Get yourself having actual fun and you’ll do well by default
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:49 AM
1

Real life is always best. Can gauge people’s interest better and more genuine. If u have a good personality it’ll help
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:04 AM
1

Awareness I’m not sure. Being very self aware helps though. Being social and getting out of your head. Letting go. All helps with having a better vibe. Stop thinking so much
/r/seduction02/08/25 11:48 PM
2

If you are ACTUALLY doing everything and not having success then you’re missing something. Usually it’s the vibe becusse the vibe is what matters most of all. You can take every logical step there is but without the right vibe it won’t matter
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:27 PM
1

Kinda helps in a sense but also can hurt your game. Girls like a guy that can get girls. It’s in their dna too. But they don’t want a guy who’s a whore. So if you look like one they won’t like it
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:34 AM
2

Try to ignore or deflect. Dont get in fights it’s not worth it. There will always be guys like that as u know. It’s a sad way to live so just see it for that and try to defuse it the best u can
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:33 AM
2

Vibe matters a lot as u may know if you’ve had good success. Gonna be hard if your vibe is bad now. Unless it’s like a mysterious type lol. Maybe could play into that
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:31 AM
11

Yes everyone can. There’s always different levels based on genetics and upbringing etc. but everyone can get to a ‘good’ level. The greats will always have other factors at play though. This goes for anything though really. Any sport or skill. Gentics, luck etc can have factors too. But you can 100% at minimum get to pretty good
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:23 AM
2

lol how are you so knowledgeable ?
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:57 PM
2

It’s ok to be scared man. Everyone is supportive
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:53 PM
2

Join in maybe you’ll learn something. Camera has to be on. 100% serious. Can dm me and I’ll share the link
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:45 PM
3

lol pleaseeeee. No one’s paying 3k unless it’s your mom
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:42 PM
4

Join the meeting dawg. Talk trash there with a camera on plz :)
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:37 PM
1

Ratio of how hot the women are in that space matters. The club is a small version of this and it definitely matters there. The more hot girls there are the easier the less attractive girls will be
/r/seduction01/08/25 09:20 PM
1

Difference is like if you go into a bar and your nervous and in your head vs super social and having a great time. One is going to be really difficult to pickup anyone. One your going to kill it
/r/seduction01/08/25 01:47 PM
1

Yeah pretty much. People pickup on it
/r/seduction01/08/25 01:14 AM
1

I understand but you’re saying you have an issue and likely it’s the vibe. It’s hard to see a vibe as it’s a feeling and not something you can touch. It’s likely the issue
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:23 PM
1

I can tell you do just by the way you’re typing. You should read letting go by David Hawkins and watch Julien Blancs transformation mastery on how to use it. It allows you to let go of all that trauma and have a much lighter vibe. Changed me life
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:13 PM
3

I’d keep going out and working on getting better since I was in your place
/r/seduction26/07/25 03:41 PM
1

Vibe you have is killing it. You are doing all the right things but the energy and anger you are carrying is coming across to people. This is actually what matters most and if u don’t fix it you’ll keep having issues. Have to let go man
/r/seduction26/07/25 03:40 PM
2

Can blow up on you
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:34 PM
2

Yeah I’ve lied and say I’m 28 a lot. It actually is blowing up on me right now with a situation lol.
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:34 PM
1

You want them to chase you. See you as the prize. But you need to have a reality that you are the prize and it needs to be strong for it to work
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:33 PM
1

Oh I thought u were the OP
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:28 PM
2

Not really. If you can make her cum it’ll be 10x more. You cumming doesn’t do much. Her yes a lot
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:27 PM
3

I agree fun but I also second the be careful your doing it for the right reasons. Just doing to get the ego boost and validation is the wrong reason and you’re going to struggle. Also probably trying to make your ex wife jealous by the sounds of it
/r/seduction25/07/25 03:16 PM
4

Yes it is. I’m 36 and when you tell young 20’s women how old you are it usually blows up. Doesn’t mean it always will though and you have to own your age and say ut with confidence. But some will just walk away when you say it.
/r/seduction25/07/25 03:14 PM
1

Probs a mental issue. To be honest not a bad thing. Get good at sex and girls will love u
/r/seduction25/07/25 12:46 AM
1

Same I hate getting blocked lol. One of the things I. Hate the most actually. I still talk to a few ex’s
/r/seduction22/07/25 11:45 PM
2

Nice situation
/r/seduction22/07/25 11:44 PM
1

Sure. So if you fall into her frame you will be trying to keep rapport by agreeing with her. An example would be she says “I really love the weather here. I love this city” and let’s say you don’t but you say “oh 100% me too I love its weather. Really makes me happy”. This would be trying to keep rapport and being agreeable. An example of breaking rapport and sticking to your own frame would be “yeah I’ve heard that. Some people seem to like it but i never have to be honest. It just isn’t for me…
/r/seduction22/07/25 02:15 PM
1

Yeah possibly or just never get the opportunity
/r/seduction22/07/25 02:10 PM
2

Honestly I agree. Hard to get that past a girl though. But people need their own space
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:36 PM
3

Do you find your happier in the relationship becusse of this? Also is she allowed to do the same?
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:36 PM
1

This is one solution I’ve thought of. I don’t know how to have a monogamous relationship to be honest
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:35 PM
2

Yeah man long time pua here. Still single for this exact reason and I don’t know how to fix it. I’ll either just cheat or my relationships last 4-8 months on average and then it’s over. The issue is that it’s in yours (and men in general) dna to spread their seed. That’s biologically ingrained into you. So being with one girl your going against your dna. Hard issue to fix. Add in the fact you actually can have other women if you want and likely a huge highlight reel playing in your head all the …
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:35 PM
1

What do u mean
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:26 AM
1

There’s something called a scale of consciousness. Shoukd look it up. Everyone operates in a certain paradigm most of the time. Common ones are fear, anger, shame, apathy. You want to move into ones like love. Peace, acceptance etc
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:32 PM
4

She’s not your ex if you weren’t sleeping together. Just a girl you maybe had a connection with and sounds like you might be heading that direction agajn. What I said would be the same thing. Relax on the sex part and just talk to her like you would normally
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:30 PM
2

It’s in your dna to feel approach anxiety so nothing wrong with you. Doing it more helps a lot. I’m the same with when I’m in set it’s good usually but have approach anxiety still. Situational openers have helped me a bit
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:29 PM
1

Good when I do it lol. I find situation openers have been working well where it takes the pressure off of ‘im clearly approaching you’ and people tend to be more friendly. For example talking to someone in line if you are all waiting and the girl behind you etc
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:00 AM
1

Well right now you might be saying “hey do you have the time. Or where is the closest coffee shop” which is super platonic. So a next step could be “hey I like that dress I think it looks good on you. Or hey I’ve seen that workout before that people do. How do you like it?” It’s a little more direct at them and a step less platonic
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:59 AM
1

I have both ears pierced. I like the look but I don’t like wearing them 24/7. I wear them like 1-2x a week with black studs these days. And I’m 36. They can look decent with the right style and currently they look good on some people. If it looks decent on you I don’t see a big issue doing it but if it’s going to cause work problems then I wouldn’t do it. This kind of feels like some weird test she is giving you a little bit to see if you’ll do it
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:57 AM
1

She’s very nervous. Religion or the upbringing js making her that way. She’s for sure interested she is just taking it slow. If you want it to work you have to make her feel veryyyyyyy comfortable and it’s going to take a lot of work and effort. So hopefully you think she’s cute. On the plus side the sex will likely be really hot since it’ll take a lot of effort to get there
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:20 AM
1

I wousknt go. Cut the losses. You’ll spend the whole trip trying to bang and most likely won’t which will ruin the trip.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:15 AM
0

I’m too lazy to read the paragraphs these days. 10years ago when I was stoked I would buy social media has likely killed that
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:13 AM
1

Try to have a super calm vibe. But yea I get it. Some girls can just be straight up mean
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:12 AM
2

There’s for sure an issue there your right to feel off. She either isn’t finding you attractive at which point you need to end the relationship. Or the sex sucks. I’d guess more likely the first one. Sorry to be the bad news
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:11 AM
1

Lmao no man she can still be a virgin. A vaginal is similar to an elastic band in that sense. Relax and enjoy having sex
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:08 AM
1

Living in a tiny city would just make it difficult. Move if you have to
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:07 AM
1

Someone else on here just asked
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:06 AM
1

This is a situational style opener. I like them a lot actually they tend to work well. Next steps would be to be a little more direct or a little more obvious Your flirting. If it’s wayyyy to friendly people just think that’s all it is so have to be kinda obvious your flirting
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:05 AM
1

Just try. The awkwardness might be hot and fun
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:04 AM
2

Coming from someone good looking trust me looks don’t trump all. Vibe trumps all. This should be the focus. Also try sporting style openers as a way to get over the big wall of approach anxiety. Helped me
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:02 AM
1

We do weekly Friday 6:00 (MST) time meetups. I’m in Alberta. Shoukd join and then join the WhatsApp. Good way to have wings virtually as a solution.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:00 AM
3

Uhhh talk to Swedish girls??
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:59 AM
0

You’re stuck in a bad paradigm. This is actually the issue and will be a light switch if you can change it
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:59 AM
1

Just talk to her. You’ve already had sex. Be nice. Don’t be mean. Treat her like a person and care for her as person. Ironically this will get u laid
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:57 AM
0

It’s good good info in it if you read it but also long and these days people won’t read it. Need a word limit on here lol
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:56 AM
1

Because everyone is born different and have different experiences growing up. So some people are naturals therefore their experience is different thaan some they struggles a lot. Also therefore their advice will be a lot different. Usually bad lol. So just have to understand people
/r/seduction18/07/25 04:09 PM
1

Yes they do. They want to see other Gil’s like you. They also don’t want to see you being a player though if you are interested. So it’s like a catch 22 thing
/r/seduction17/07/25 03:16 PM
5

She probs just dressed like that when she’s comfy and relaxed. Relax lol it’s not a power move for a woman to dress masculine
/r/seduction15/07/25 07:16 PM
1

I go out lots. It’s a ridiculous environment if you really thing about it. So silly. But there is a ton of potential if you put in the work. That being said do what you enjoy. If you hate it there’s lots of other avenues
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:29 AM
2

In 36 and I lost my virginity at 19 lol. Relax it’s fine. Just keep working on it
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:54 AM
1

Most likely depressed because you aren’t doing everything you deep down know you should be every day. You know the answer to what that is
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:51 PM
1

I do yea. If your in a tiny town that’s going to make it way harder
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:31 PM
2

The problem ks your in your head too much. You can actually never fix the problem from this paradigm it’s called. I’ve tried trust me lol.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:30 PM
1

Yes it is i go out all the time
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:30 PM
0

I do because if you say your 36 to a 20yr old most times it’s immedietly just over
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:29 PM
1

Yea man should join
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:29 PM
2

Rule #1. Alwyas lie ;)
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:28 PM
0

Yolo. Any holes a goal
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:28 PM
2

Not a Terrible idea but there’s enough girls on dating apps that will bang if you are open to less attractive ones. I’d just go on dates with uglier girls and bang some of those
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:27 PM
1

Go out to the bar consistently every week. And go on dating apps. Sounds like you have a decent lifestyle just make sure your dating app shows that. Then just work on the problems that come up as they do. Def not too late to start I wouldn’t even consider that thovuht. It’s just a problem like everything else and it has a solution
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:25 PM
9

I’m 36. I find for 20’s it’s a lot more difficult than it used to be. The age thing will become a big problem for most girls. You have to either lie about your age lol. Or have enough value to overcome the age issue. The odd girl (very rare) will be into it tho but not common
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:23 PM
1

You need to understand her DNA is what you want to game. The logical stuff doesn’t matter. Shaping interest sometimes can trigger bad dna signals that make you seem beta or not like a good mate
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:19 PM
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My guess is you are so logically thinking of this your missing a key point. Yes you have all the logical stuff down but for men it still doesn’t matter. It’s just the 30% you have dialed in. What matters for the 70% is the vibe you have and the perceived status in that environment. Girls probs do find you attractive but sounds like the vibe may be a little off and you aren’t picking up on that. You can’t logically fix this btw the irony is that being logical IS the problem
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:18 PM
1

Someone that’s good with girls. So when they’re talking to girls you can tell the girl likes it a lot. She’s giggling. Seems interested etc
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:14 PM
1

lol better to be the playboy then jus be friends with one. Way more satisfying
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:27 AM
2

A lot of those people have huge social circles or high status in their environment. So meeting women comes naturally to them as their status just attracts women. It’s a form of game just a really hard one and rare. That doesn’t mean approaching is bad it’s amazing for you and you should 100% be doing it
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:19 AM
1

Yeah. Hard block. Usually ends with some yelling too. Or has sometimes. I hate that it ends being blocked though I have some great times together then it’s just over
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:42 AM
1

lol sounds like we’re in the same boat. I do really like the 4-8 months I spend with them tho. It’s great and fun but just has to end so poorly
/r/seduction10/07/25 08:08 PM
8

I like it for the female perspective and understanding women. Especially if you get realy friendly with them and they’re really comfortable. You can really understand how women act. Also it can just be fun too
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:49 PM
1

lol yea I always say that too. My timeline is like 4-8 months on average. Usually blows up hard too
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:37 PM
3

Most guys that are good looking typically have a more cool lifestyle and therefore didn’t feel the ‘need’ to learn game. But there are plenty of good looking guys that also have great game. I’ve known lots.
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:37 PM
2

Usually acting causal will get them attached becusse it creates that power imbalance. It’s never a 50/50 balance so if you aren’t doing it the other person probs is becoming attached. IMO I like this as it gives you control. Obv creates issues down the road but what can u do
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:31 PM
2

It’s the vibe between you 2. The energy. It’s hard to create this with everyone because not everyone ‘clicks’ with eachother. But having fun and getting out of your head helps. So don’t be thinking about how to do while you try to do if
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:30 PM
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Yeah done 2 now. Been good. Have a WhatsApp group going now too. Just chatting with other guys that are into pickup or game and collaborating really. Active people. Will be doing another one this Friday
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:46 PM
3

Focus more on your vibe than the logical things. It’s what matters. And your perceived status
/r/seduction05/07/25 04:04 PM
2

Depends. At the nightclub no difference. Day to day it’ll give you higher status and open more doors. Also has less doors in your way. So it CAN help. It doesn’t if you try to use it to get girls
/r/seduction05/07/25 04:03 AM
1

They were the masters and I still think the content is solid. Who would be better now?
/r/seduction04/07/25 07:40 PM
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It’s the vibe he brings off basically. The energy. Women are hyper sensitive to it
/r/seduction04/07/25 04:42 AM
1

Will do
/r/seduction04/07/25 01:16 AM
1

Yes u can but they may be more Likely to cut you if you don’t show value or aren’t important. Time to them will be imprtabtn
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:51 PM
3

Honest is ok just have to be aware of what you’re signalling to the girl. There’s certain things that are called displays of high value or low value. You telling a girl you’re unemployed and dropped out of college although true is saying hey I’m super low value. Likely why she’s ghosting you.
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:45 PM
1

They do care they just don’t care that much. If it’s a serious daye with some girls and her friends sure. But I’m referring to general attraction from a girl. They don’t care that much. With that being said that’s not a green light for guys to look like trash
/r/seduction02/07/25 01:18 AM
10

Just keep it very casual. If you guys hangout keep it surface level. No deep talks on life etc. make it fairly clear it’s just sexual so no couples dates. Sounds like you’re doing both then she’s getting attached. Do less
/r/seduction02/07/25 01:17 AM
1

Looks matter very little. I’ve dressed up a ton and had terrible nights and gone out in swaeapants abs a hat and I’ve pulled. Main thing that changed was your vibe. Also you had social proof being with girls
/r/seduction01/07/25 10:56 PM
5

Hug her when you meet her. That helps. And try to touch her ‘normally’ quicky. That way it’s normalized and sets the frame it’s ok. If you wait too long it can make it weird when u do even if its normal
/r/seduction01/07/25 07:06 PM
1

Movies and shows will be tough as it’s Hollywood and stuff that’s in Hollywood won’t work in real life. So the banter can be challenging. Reality tv shows may be more realistic for that. I used to suck a lot of convos. Best thing you can do is relax. If you’re nervous in your head you’ll always be bad. More you do it the more you relax
/r/seduction01/07/25 04:33 AM
2

Make her chase
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:13 AM
2

Most of those big following Reddit groups are stuck in the ‘matrix’
/r/seduction01/07/25 12:55 AM
2

Yes it works I do it all the time. In in alberta used to live on the island and did it lots. It works ur buddy is an idiot lol
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:39 AM
1

It takes someone unique typically to get into it so most of the guys you would meet would be weird. I have met a ton. And really weird too. There’s cool guys as well just more rare. I liked a lot of their stuff but I get what you’re saying. Some of it became theory junkie and guys would consume too much theory instead of going out and getting girls
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:55 PM
1

Like?
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:53 PM
43

I’d do it first then have sex. Better that way. The vibe gets killed sometimes if you cum
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:53 PM
1

Good post yeah I agree to most of that. As for the married my dream girl there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just a different path but if it makes you happy that’s what counts. Pulling girls from a club is not easy and takes a lot of work and skill. It’s not just you go out and pull. I wish it was. RSD has taught a ton of valuable info so depending how you crtizize them though you could be al loser. Not saying u are
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:16 PM
2

*does work. The principles haven’t changed. It’s like going to the gym. Same stuff that worked 40 years ago is still what works today
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:13 PM
1

Why is pickup deceptive? If it’s done right there isn’t anything deceptive about it
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:12 PM
8

RSD and Todd stuff has changed my life in the best way possible. Anyone here criticizing htheir stuff doesn’t work is an idiot. I almost pulled a 3 some tonight following their advice I’ve learned from Tyler
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:10 AM
1

Would be a massive waste of time. I’m sure it’s possible but at what cost
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:08 AM
1

If I were you I’d just use the drive you have to go out a lot and try to improve. Motivation isn’t there forever even though right now you probably feel like it will be. Work on your job and stuff too don’t be an idiot but if getting girls is imortsbr just focus it on putting in a ton of work and getting success. How. You just take a ton of action and learn as you go and learn from mistakes.
/r/seduction29/06/25 09:55 AM
1

Yea this is def true
/r/seduction28/06/25 04:13 PM
2

Yeah man nice to meet you. See you next week
/r/seduction28/06/25 05:33 AM
3

From personal experience. You can feel great and things are just easy. Feel bad and it’s like pulling teeth. Women seem especially in tune with it
/r/seduction28/06/25 03:47 AM
3

Yeah it was good had a few people join. I will be posting again next Friday same time for anyone else. Just have a look for the post if you want to join :)
/r/seduction28/06/25 03:46 AM
2

Read the book letting go by David Hawkins. Shoukd help a lot. Also think something based not excuse based. Easy to get in a poor me attitude and not a ok this happened what can I do about it attitude
/r/seduction28/06/25 03:45 AM
3

People pick up on the subtle cues and your vibe since you’re not ok inside. It’ll come across. Especially to women
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:41 AM
1

Yeah I get what you’re saying I definitely live in the reality of it though. I think that would come from not wanting to be attached to whatever reality is happening. And I’m very ‘with’ it if that makes sense. But it is a good point
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:27 PM
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Join Zoom Meeting https://us04web.zoom.us/j/77303687041?pwd=SyitRhlAh4HobxoalNmfAp0eM5DWJb.1 6:00 (GMT-6) time zone password is game
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:18 PM
1

Naturally I am so it does take energy to socialize. Sometimes it’s the end of the day to go out so just takes the last bit of energy you have. But energy drinks help lol
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:10 PM
1

Ok I’ll create one and post it with a zoom link. I’ll jusy see who shows up and if it gets traction keep going
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:10 PM
1

I do have a buddy I go with but he takes no action and rages at me when I do for some reason. So doesn’t help much. Breaking it up into smaller pieces though could be good. Have small goals each night.
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:03 PM
1

You said it yourself that people can smell it on you or see it. It’s really all about the vibe with dating and girls seem to be hyper sensitive to this. So if it’s off they’ll pick up on it asap. As far as fixing it it sounds like logically you have all the things in order you just need to see it a few times to gain confidence. And there’s only one way to do that by seeing it. So go out and fail a bunch until you start having success then you’ll gain momentum
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:48 PM
2

Self reflection is rare in general and typically requires people to let go of their ego. With women especially this is hard as they have huge egos these days from everything online. Accountability is similar. Issue is a lot of times people want to live in a made up reality as it’s just nicer to live there than the real world. And if they are accountable you’re asking them to see reality for what it is. Not the made up story they have in their head. And depending how far away from reality they ar…
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:45 PM
2

It’s a frame test from a girl basically. She wants to know if your frames are strong so she can come into them so she tests them. It’s in her dna to only go with guys that have strong frames as it affects her survival
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:42 PM
2

Because you have built up an image of yourself as a ‘cool’ guy (and maybe you are not saying you’re not). You have built up an ego around it. The lack of approaching is you protecting your ego. One thing that will help is if you can go fail a bunch. It’ll kill the ego and then you have nothing to lose. Ironically why sometimes your game can be better if your life is falling apart
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:41 PM
1

If your a girl use touching. Touch him and watch how he responds. Not sexually. If there’s a lot of sexual chemistry between 2 people touching eachother has a lot of energy behind it.
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:39 PM
5

Like someone else said maybe too aggressive. It’s all about the vibe. If the vibe was great she will ‘most likely’ go on a second date. Also sometimes girls give you green lights to go further and if u don’t take them they won’t see you again
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:38 PM
6

Try not to get emotionally invested but that sounds too late. She wants to wait because she isn’t that interested
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:36 PM
0

The looks don’t matter that much it’s more about status etc. 8/9 girls just have way more options as they fall into a ‘hot girl’ territory which every guy wants. As soon as a girl is a ‘hot girl’ she’s going to have a ton of choices. You just have to have better game or more status in these scenarios
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:00 PM
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Just be hot. Workout 6x a week and be fit. Dress well. I’m assuming you’re a girl so this should be your main priority. Looks for women is 70% of it. For guys it’s 30%
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:58 PM
2

Yeah the ideal response is if you had 4 other 9’s what would your response be. Would you freak out and be like “wtf I made all these plans!!!” Or would you just line up another girl. So the correct response is “ah yea no prob”
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:02 PM
5

No but if I had to sure. Gotta do what u gotta do
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:54 PM
1

Ideally don’t set this frame in the first place. If you set the frame that your a provider guy looking to take her on dates you fall into the 3 date, dinner etc reality. When you set the frame that there are no rules and she accepts it then no rules apply
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:55 AM
1

Yeah it’s just ways of communicating until you can vibe well or hit a topic that’s interesting. I find I ask a lot of boring questions until I can get to one that’s more interesting. It’s like a little golden nugget then I go down that rabbit hole. I’m just waiting for it with each question
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:53 AM
5

I’ll take 1/5 odds anyday that sounds pretty good. I’d say I can be in that range but I have to be having an ‘on’ night. On an off night I could be 1/50 probs. You have to enjoy the hunt and the game part tho to want to do it. Also like someone else said what is the alternative. Just do nothing? I’ll pass
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:52 AM
1

No you just need to have strong frames. So strong belief in your reality. It’s cool if someone’s a nerd but doesn’t care what other people think and just 100% owns that he’s a nerd. Vs not cool when a guys trying hard to be cool and a bad boy vibe becusse he cares what people think
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:50 AM
6

Yeah of course. There’s gonna be a lot of them so have to get used to it. Also gets way worse than that loss when you get emotionally jnvested into a girl
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:48 AM
1

Basically don’t get emotionally invested and care. Your game works well with 7/8’s cause you don’t care and fall into their frame. 9/10 you care and are outcome dependant so fall into their hot girl frame (to be fair a very hard frame to not fall into). Only solution is either have a bunch more 9/10 girls which is hard or try really hard to keep yourself from caring. Also gonna be hard
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:48 PM
0

You can. Just be real and authentic to what you want. And be honest about your intentions etc. The difference is you have to be attractive and have women want you. Then choose to be honest from that place. You can’t have no women and want to be honest. Get girls first then decide to be honest and treat them well if you decide to
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:49 PM
1

Give it some time then. Sometimes girls just are regretful for feeling slutty the next day and want to forget about it. But she may come around
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:20 AM
2

I find a lot of it depends how the nicht went. If it was fun. Overall a good vibe. And if the sex was good she will more likely see you again. But even still sometimes won’t. Hard to know what’s going on in someone’s else’s head or life
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:11 AM
2

I’ve been with over 100 now so I get it. You likely just aren’t with girls you like or connect with well. I’d say I meet 1 girl a year or 1.5 years that I actually connect with well. Those are the ones you need to spend more time with. Spend a few dates with them and sleep with them a few times. It shoukd just keep getting better. The rest are typically girls I’ve had sex with but no other connection and it feels flat and bland
/r/seduction20/06/25 03:29 PM
4

Not a lot. 5-7 I’d say. Been with. 139 for sex. Takes a relationship of some kind to get there
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:02 PM
2

Yes she can. Some of it actually will depend on the girl. Usually it’s when her needs aren’t getting met in some way. Biological needs not realy what she’s telling you. That will be the most common. But also maybe a guy is just better than u and in the right situation. Who knows
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:27 AM
1

I’m 36 and go out lots. It’s harder and need to be more on the ball. But possible
/r/seduction09/06/25 03:00 AM
1

Better vibe. I’m an attractive guy and been blown out lots. Usually by guys having more fun and a better vibe than I do
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:17 AM
1

I have with bar game. It’s always been the nights I’m having fun and being social. Talking to everyone. Out of my head and carefree. Very rarely have i on nights I’m in my head
/r/seduction04/06/25 03:29 PM
1

Haven’t seen lately but he was gaming well when fat
/r/seduction30/05/25 02:29 PM
3

Lmao it’s not too late I’m 36 and still going out lots. Lots of new experiences. Start now
/r/seduction30/05/25 03:48 AM
6

Tons do that are out of shape. Luke from RSD is pretty fat. I mean you should work on it tho there’s a lot of other reason to not be fat
/r/seduction29/05/25 04:19 AM
1

If your in some kind of city start going out every night of the week you can to bars. Go alone if you have to. And talk to Girls
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:36 PM
4

Your dick works 10x better on roids lol. Coming off them it doesn’t. But being on it it’s like being on viagra
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:35 PM
4

I’ve taken them. You can still do cardio it’s not that crazy. But it also doesn’t help that much. And after taking them a few times it’s not worth it. You just lose all the gains despite what forums seem to tell you. I don’t know why anyone says you keep gains you don’t
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:34 PM
2

Almost everyone at the top 1% level is on drugs. Thats not cheating it’s just what it takes to be the top 1% plus a lot of other things
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:32 PM
6

Taken it a few times mysclelf and used to be a trainer. 100% agree it’s way more common than you’d think. So many guys on it who you would never ever guess
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:32 PM
0

I’ve taken steroids 3x but won’t do it again. Test 2x and anavar once. You get a crazy high sex drive so if your having sec it’s great. But your horny all the time. Also it works well. Adds like 15% muscle in a month. Main issues are it comes with side effects and you jsuy lose it all when you come off. So no real point. Have to stay on.
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:31 PM
1

You don’t really when your good at it. Or at least very subtly
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:10 PM
2

Because the guy they have to be to get the gf is who gets them the gf. Then they lose their edge and date the girl and become a shell of their older self until their gf cheats on them with another alpha guy
/r/seduction25/05/25 05:20 AM
1

It’s a mental issue and it’s annoying. I’ve been with over 100 girls and just oiled last night and had this happen. Super annoying but I know it’s in my head. Not relaxed enough
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:02 PM
1

Depends on your game and how often you go out. I’d say once a month is realistic if you go out frequently and have decent game
/r/seduction23/05/25 10:20 PM
2

Night clubs mostly
/r/seduction21/05/25 08:16 PM
1

It can but you learn less and if you go out a lot drinking a lot becomes a problem in itself
/r/seduction21/05/25 04:11 PM
4

I’m 36. No time like the present
/r/seduction21/05/25 04:10 PM
1

If that’s your goal then yea. Figured it was just for one night stuff
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:17 PM
1

I mean I’m 36 and it’s the opposite side of it. You can always lie about your age. If your too young but don’t look it just say your older. Pretty easy solution
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:33 PM
5

At the bar works good too just is late and u need to go sober. Also need to go a lot
/r/seduction19/05/25 11:27 PM
2

Overthinking the trouble part there is nothing illegal about it. Yeah the apps suck. Daytime or night game is best iMO unless you have really great pics. I’m 6’4 and attractive tanned white but and get little to no matches
/r/seduction19/05/25 11:25 PM
1

Definitely not everyone. Coupe people commented that and I agree. It’s way less than y think. 2 relationships in a year is actually quite good. Not sure who your thinking is doing a lot more than that
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:40 PM
1

Lied about my age and said I’m 28 for one lol. I’ve had it be ok at 36 but it’s a bigger barrier so you have to have more value basicllay to bridge the gap. As just a normal guy being 36 and logically talking to her and she’s 20 she will most likely logically walk away. Need to be having a lot of fun. Maybe get lucky with a girl that likes older guys. You’re basically creating a big gap by saying 36 so bad to bridge it with some kind of value. If that makes sense
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:07 AM
3

It’s def possible. Some girls won’t care. I’d still be trying
/r/seduction18/05/25 10:35 PM
1

Lots of girls write you off just because of age. 18-22 ish it’s harder. 25-30 it’s easier. Logically it’s bad other mind so have to be able to have them not care
/r/seduction18/05/25 10:35 PM
-1

Women do belong in the kitchen
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:51 AM
11

Will be harder with the 20yr olds yes. I’m 36. But not impossible just have to be creative
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:50 AM
0

Sounds reasonable. Although I’ve noticed conservative women are a lot harder to find than liberal. So that’s gonna be the challenge
/r/seduction17/05/25 10:19 PM
6

True. I e noticed the people that actually DO change is from a very serious pain that comes up. Seems to be pain that’s the only one that will motivate people enough
/r/seduction16/05/25 02:40 PM
2

Extremely true and a very deep point. Real change is super rare. The acceptance part is also extremely true
/r/seduction16/05/25 02:39 PM
1

Letting go technique helps. Look up Julien blanc on YouTube his transformation mastery. Releases built up trauma around the subject and makes it easier. That’s one thing. 2nd I’ve been doing is standing around the bar at a busy night and opening girls with situational openers. Instead of going in direct jsuy open like your having a casual chat. Had been working well
/r/seduction14/05/25 03:57 AM
1

I find no. I know that sounds bad but the alternative is you just grenade every interaction so you just have to. Also a lot of my casual this never was gonna go anywhere situations turn into dating. In fact I’d say all of mine have
/r/seduction13/05/25 05:56 PM
60

It definitely creates chemistry when someoen you like touches you. It feels emotionally charged. Even if it’s 100% platonic. So do it if you are interested
/r/seduction10/05/25 11:57 PM
1

Just wondering if other people did it lol
/r/seduction10/05/25 11:47 PM
1

😍😍😍😍
/r/seduction10/05/25 06:02 PM
2

Probably way too forward. Gotta relax and let her come to you
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:02 AM
2

I’m sure you could get a 1. 5 only scale is basically as low as u can go
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:50 AM
2

8’s are tricky tho and some 6’s can fill the gaps
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:49 AM
1

Lmao why it’s a legit question
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:49 AM
1

I do think like a 12ye old
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:48 AM
2

lol it’s not a flex it’s a genuine question 🤷🏻
/r/seduction10/05/25 07:48 AM
1

That many approaches will work your vibe or something is just off is why it didn’t have as much effectiveness as it could. You can do that many with a bad vibe and do 500 more and it won’t matter
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:35 AM
5

Either she’s super close friends with you and just doesn’t see you as a sexual option or likes to flirt but wouldn’t actually cross that line of sex. Either way it’s likely going to be really hard to cross the sex line and it’ll just be like it is now forever or you’ll ruin it by trying to cross the line
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:10 AM
3

There’s always a power dynamic going on. Who has more. You want to have this. If you’re giving her more then she’s going to pull back a bit. If you want her to chase you have to strengthen yours and have her chase more
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:00 PM
1

If you ever have added your name into a girl snap on her phone she legit will have 10 other guys un opened snaps in there. It’s gross
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:08 PM
1

Just the fax
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:08 PM
1

Vibe is what matters to the women
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:07 PM
2

Money talks amiright
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:07 PM
1

They both have pros and cons. Single life is harder but higher highs and lower lows. Relationships is more stable
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:02 AM
1

It changes the box that your in. Dating app it’s almost neutral. Instagram has a different dynamic and set of rules so to speak and they don’t sound like they’re helping u. Someoen else said just don’t go to Instagram and I agree
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:57 AM
1

Good advice
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:57 AM
1

Ahh yea. Some girls love it like u said. But yea some girls just immedietly reject u. You fit into that box and in their mind it’s evil. You can try to qualify your way out as that’s a loss too. It’s basically a no win situation.
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:55 AM
1

If it’s work I’d be a little more careful but can always ask her to do something outside work. Go for a hike etc
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:51 AM
1

Been there 100x man and so has every other guy. Def not alone. Way I see it is it’s a power struggle and the woman always needs to have less. So she needs to always be chasing. This is why it’s good when you don’t care but when you get feelings she feels it and it flips the power dynamic so she loses interest. Same way you likely would with a girl if you knew you could have her whenever you wanted. Solution is to never let it happen. Always stay 1-2 steps behind her emotion invented. And yes I g…
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:50 AM
1

Probably was nervous. If the vibe was good that’s what matters
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:47 AM
8

It’s how online is. Women likely have 10 other guys just like you so they barely have the attention span for one of them. I actually jsuy prefer meeting in person for this reason and don’t have the apps. As a solution though you have to stand out more if you want to be noticed. If your fairly average your just another guy she has on her ig or app
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:45 AM
1

I mean it’s just always going to be an issue. It’s not really a grey area opinion thing it’s just a lgisticla fact thing. It’s gonna be an issue. So you either move closer or get better game to deal with the obstacles that come from it. But it’s just gonna be an issue
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:43 AM
6

Message her on fb and talk about normal stuff. See how open she is to it
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:01 AM
2

Same man. Way rather try and fail than not try. No worse feeling
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:00 AM
2

Yeah man I feel the same. Way more pressure alone and it’s like do or die or you’re in your head and screwed. So easy to fail
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:20 PM
1

Nice man. I find it way harder so never have. But there is opportunity there
/r/seduction06/05/25 02:36 PM
2

It’s going to be the vibe or the energy you’re giving off. Sounds like you have all the logististical things covered. Hopefully you workout too. If I had to guess you come across as too need and too interested. There’s always an underlying power dynamic going on and you want to win it. If you’re always chasing and she has all the power it’s always going to make u lose. You need to let her come to you. Rule #1 don’t be needy
/r/seduction05/05/25 04:45 PM
4

Yeah 100%. Just anything I could have a convo on. Even lied and said I was from out of town etc. then as I got more fluent it got better
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:23 PM
1

These ones look decent they don’t look trashy
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:22 PM
7

To be honest I’ve never had much success with it besides last night. But the main thing I changed was I just talked to everyone. As soon as I got in line. Girl behind me. Guy in front etc. about anything. Just tried to be social
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:01 AM
3

lol yea I don’t get it. Who cares
/r/seduction05/05/25 12:59 AM
3

lol
/r/seduction04/05/25 07:51 PM
3

I see that. Most people will fail going solo. And putting yourself at way higher chances of failing. Why not have some wins then go solo as a tool if you have to
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:15 PM
2

I disagree. Takes way more skill to do it solo and likely just going to fail. Better to go with people turn solo later if you can or have to
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:09 PM
1

I second another commmet talking about the vibe. It’s all that matters really with logical stuff sprinkled in. You’re getting frustrated and giving off a weird energy. Until you fix that it’s gona be a grind
/r/seduction04/05/25 03:26 PM
1

This is what it is. Good answer
/r/seduction04/05/25 03:25 PM
7

Situational opener then just started talking. Conversation and banter was good and energy was light and fun. It was really busy so had to be quite close to her and that started creating a sexual vibe. It just started getting more sexual as the chat went on then we started making out. She said we should go back to my hoise
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:42 PM
1

She stepped on my shoes as it was busy and she was ahead of me. I said they’re ruined as they’re white shoes and it just started from there
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:41 PM
7

I go out solo lots and have never been able to. I find it a lot more difficult to do well
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:40 PM
3

More pressure on me for sure. I find going solo super hard to do usually I have been for years. Never had that much success with it
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:40 PM
13

Actually I remember exactly what it was. She stepped on my shoes which are white and I was “aww my white shoes. Now they’re ruined”
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:39 PM
13

They had cat hair on them actually but otherwise wasn’t bad
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:39 PM
25

Yeah sure I can share. The actual girl was just waking in front of me. Was a situational opener and then just started talking about random stuff. So like “it’s crazy busy in here” or something along those lines. Then just started talking and the vibe was good so kept. Then it started getting sexual and we made out and went from there
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:38 PM
22

They were black and it’s dark so don’t think anyone even noticed
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:37 PM
5

I go through period of not drinking. I just say I like it better personally. If you say it and be genuine it’s usually fine
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:13 AM
1

This is actually true contrary to popular belief
/r/seduction03/05/25 03:59 PM
1

Doesn’t matter. Looks matter about 30% of your game. BUT they still matter for 30%. So yes max out your looks. Get fit. Dress well. Fix your life. What matters most is the vibe and how you carry yourself. But fix the looks too
/r/seduction03/05/25 03:59 PM
1

Yeah man I still get it too. 16 years ish in game. Had some good success
/r/seduction03/05/25 01:13 AM
1

Man I still get this after like 10 years in game. Annoying issue
/r/seduction03/05/25 01:13 AM
0

Just make her feel comfortable in general. Then try to steer the convo to sexual topics. But do it subtly and causally. Like a joke “that’s what she said” on something if it was funny. But then try to keep the convo on that topic and see if she’s willing to stay on it. “That’s what she said” “Haha omg” “lol have you actually ever done that though?” “Lolll!! With a guy?? No not yet 🫢” Ideally like that
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:52 PM
7

Good to have her feel comfortable around you so let her talk and make her feel comfortable. Eventually it’ll lead to her feeling comfortable sexually
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:29 PM
2

lol just enjoy time and hanging out with her. Sounds like a nice experience man just enjoy it
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:17 AM
2

Coming from a guy 6’4 and good looking I can tell you looks matter WAY less than you think
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:37 AM
27

Status matters way more for guys. Looks matter more for girls. Looks still HELP with being a guy though but it’s about 30%
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:47 PM
1

Drugs are the answer lol
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:21 PM
1

Yeah I think I need a new goal. Maybe lack inspiration
/r/seduction27/04/25 10:21 PM
7

I’ve pulled around 70. It’s a lot to do with the vibe you have. Being ‘in state’ is like playing o beast mode. If your in your head and logical it’ll be very difficult
/r/seduction26/04/25 04:20 PM
2

I go out solo every week. It’s 100% harder but if no one to go with it’s an option. Just understand your playing on hard mode
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:01 PM
1

I agree. Not taking action is the worst thing ever. I’d rather go out and take action and fail all night then no action
/r/seduction24/04/25 02:38 PM
1

Yes do it
/r/seduction23/04/25 01:47 AM
1

Like trash
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:33 PM
0

No one here knows what a pleasure dom is. Need to edit and clarify
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:44 AM
1

Lmao no. I’m 6’ 4 and I n shape. Absolutely not true
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:42 PM
1

I can also hate them
/r/seduction20/04/25 06:54 AM
1

You got emotionally invested and fell into her frame. To be fair if she’s crazy hot it’s extremely hard to not do this. But it’s probably over already. The only thing you can do right now is nothing. And then hope that works. But it’s probably over
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:11 AM
3

Movies are the ability worst for relationship advice. It looks nice but it’s so out of touch to reality it’s insane
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:10 AM
-3

Seeing the matrix can be tough
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:20 AM
-5

Too late
/r/seduction19/04/25 11:18 PM
2

Nothing wrong with a girl that likes sex. If you want commitment you need to be hot or really good in bed
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:08 PM
-3

This makes me hate women even more. But it’s true
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:07 PM
1

Yeah my current issue is I can’t get to the initial approach part. If im in set I’m ok. Seems to be a wall there
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:51 PM
1

I am older but I don’t feel like that. I’m around young people a lot and go out a lot so I feel quite connected to the younger generation. It is changing but I don’t think that’s the issue. The 2 that resonate the most with me right now are either protecting my ego. If I don’t fail I can still have my ego. OR my subconciiis has a huge list of bad rejections that actually have trauma and I need to ‘let go’ of this trauma with meditation
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:59 PM
1

The image part I don’t care about. The perfect opener would be low stakes so low rejection. Which makes me think it’s fear of rejection
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:38 PM
1

This was another one that I thought was it too. Years of light trauma from so many rejections that it causss too much fear. I don’t ‘feel’ that way but subconsciously it might be happening
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:30 PM
1

Well I’m not sure so this is the issue I’m having. I do take some action some nights but nowhere near what I should be doing. Some kind of huge resistance around it for some reason
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:19 PM
1

Yup definitely could be that too
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:33 AM
2

Yeah doesn’t offend me and I have used the skills for lots of other areas. I’m in a sales job and they transfer to that. I was thinking what you said there too. I have Al of of pressure on myself right now and maybe I need to relax and let the answer come to me. So I appreciate that advice that was another theory I was lightly thinking about
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:30 AM
1

No they’re usually super insecure. But seeing you flirt with other girls in front of her if she’s likes you could make her mad. Depends on the scenario
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:15 AM
3

Did you sleep with him? A lot of times for women the guy he is before and after sex is 2 diff people. Also the game changes a lot for both scenarios
/r/seduction18/04/25 12:33 PM
5

Learning how to let go and move from the paradigm I was in to better paradigms. Badcily move from fear to a place of love
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:08 AM
1

I’m not ‘choosing’ to be a pos to get laid. It’s more so the less I care and the more of a pos I am the more Girls like it. I’m not ‘doing it to get laid’
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:48 PM
1

Bigger the pos I am the better I do with girls it’s quite retarded actually
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:15 AM
1

But of both really bit doesn’t seem to matter much. To be honest the bigger the pos I am the better I do with girls it’s retarded
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:14 AM
-2

I lie all the time to women and feel fine. They lie to us all the time so who cares
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:27 AM
1

Yes I can imagine I’ve been doing it 16 years
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:26 AM
-1

Too much work. Next!!!
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:25 AM
2

BMW’s make such great daily drivers. Still super fun but also kind of practical
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:24 AM
7

They’re like daily driving a Ferrari. Super cool. Fun to drive. Everyone wants it. Problem is everyone wants it. Really hard to maintain and impractical to live with each day. Basically a pain in the ass once the excitement wears off.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:56 PM
-2

Impossible task to be honest. You can’t be honest but lying isn’t great so what do you do
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:32 PM
4

I date girls that I click with for 4-8 months for this reason. Get to enjoy the honeymoon phase then have it end when it starts getting boring and you both hate eachother. Sounds cold but there’s a lot of positives like keeping yourself sharp etc
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:53 PM
8

Exactly yea. When your emotions get involved it’s almost impossible to have good game
/r/seduction16/04/25 05:32 AM
61

Massively over invested right off the bat but to be fair if she’s super beautiful it is hard not to. So I get it. Sounds like you realize this too. You ran good game until you got invested basically. Def a challenge with very pretty girls
/r/seduction15/04/25 02:23 PM
2

Been in game 16 years myself and I like Owen’s way better. I did a bit of mystery at the beginning and to be honest I almost want to go back to it a bit. I’m struggling with approach anxiety lately and some canned approaches might help me. But overall Owen’s is way better as you don’t need to have canned anything
/r/seduction15/04/25 05:50 AM
1

lol no. But a few a day
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:15 AM
1

It’s never 50/50 in a relationship. One always is more invested. IMO that should be the girl. Mine typically have been like this and it goes well as I’m in control. Until it doesn’t. I don’t invest enough and anywhere from 4-8 months it blows up. Pretty consistent pattern
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:18 PM
1

Don’t say it just let it go. Only reason you want to say it is becusse you’re still emotionally connected and angry. If you truly had let go you would just move on. Moving on is the hardest option but what you have to do here. Ironically it might actually make her interested again too but you can’t ’let Go’ to get her interested
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:16 PM
2

Yes it’ll all still work. Worked then will work now
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:14 PM
5

I’m attractive as well and get a fair bit of IOI’s. It’s actually ironic how becoming more attractive can make you worse. Even though you have more opprtmtiyu. This is likely due to you tying your ego to yourself and not wanting to get rejected. Where as before you had no ego so you didn’t fear rejection. Ego is what’s become the issue
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:13 PM
2

Go to the bar and talk to girls. Unless your underage in which case go to the mall and talk to girls
/r/seduction14/04/25 02:47 AM
9

Studying game is not cheating not. Having sex with a girl is yes
/r/seduction13/04/25 11:59 PM
8

There’s a power dynamic you need to be aware of when they get interested. It’s in you Masculine best interest to keep control of this becusse if it flips the woman needs to take on a masculine role and she finds it unattractive. Also signals beta male qualities. So have to avoid it. Easiest way is never let you emotions get involved
/r/seduction13/04/25 11:49 PM
2

I’m going through the same thing actually. Known a girl for 4 years and never cared much until just recently. She blatantly wanted to date and then I sort of said yea whatever. Then I got emotionally invested and she pulled away pretty hard. So I’ve had to just let it go. My analysis is 2 things. One is that the girl has some underlying issues that when she gets close to someone they trigger. But Goodluck changing that. Better to just be aware of that and try not to get feelings involved. 2nd is…
/r/seduction13/04/25 07:37 PM
53

It’s the magic pill for your life. Was a trainer for 6 years. Used to see it change people’s lives all the time
/r/seduction13/04/25 03:54 PM
1

Being needy is my guess. And outcome Dependant
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:18 AM
1

Second this
/r/seduction13/04/25 02:56 AM
1

Of course I do lol. But it’s hard to know. And there’s a lot of random things that can happen that’s out of my control
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:44 PM
1

Try not to let yourself get into fear. Fear is why you do this. Presence and a clear mind will help
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:27 PM
1

Pretty normal. Keep approaching and working on skills. Eventually it’ll go better
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:26 PM
1

You can’t. And lots wil lie if they are dating so it doesn’t matter anyway. Some women cheat
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:19 PM
1

Haven’t drank in over 2 months
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:08 PM
3

I go out 2 of the 4 nights alone
/r/seduction12/04/25 05:25 AM
5

Also really really great sex from my experience is out of your control. It’s things like a forbidden fruit scenario. Friends ex gf. Friends mom etc. those types of things. Or a buildup over months and months. Not saying I’ve done these lol but I’m saying the ‘emotional’ side of it is very powerful but usually out of your active control
/r/seduction12/04/25 05:16 AM
1

Sex god method is a good book
/r/seduction12/04/25 05:15 AM
13

You have to be taking a lot of action even as a good looking guy. Al that means every week. Personally I go out 3-4x a week. On top of that your vibe is likely off. So the energy you give off. Women are hyper sensitive to this
/r/seduction11/04/25 07:50 PM
5

I’ve had this thought with really hot girls. They’re sleeping with someone. Why can’t it be me?
/r/seduction11/04/25 04:26 PM
2

Crazy seems to be one pattern that can be true
/r/seduction11/04/25 04:23 PM
15

I’ve thought about this a lot and I’d say no. It’s almost always random. I’ve tried to notice patterns but almost never is any. Besides her being kinda crazy sometimes that is one. Seems like something women have the ability to completely let go during sex and it’s a seperate entity from other parts of their life. So it just comes down to each individual
/r/seduction11/04/25 04:22 PM
1

More chill responses like other people said. Sort of match her energy. Shorter replies and more relaxed. Try to get her to invest
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:31 PM
1

Nice man. At 137 myself. 100 was a goal for a long time and made the game fun for that reason. Most of mine came from night game tho rather than daygame. After 100 that goal vanished and now women are a much different thing in my life and much better too IMO. But the 100 goal had a lot of rewards
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:38 PM
4

I’d be very transparent with the next guy you meet. I think you’ll find they’re ok with it and it can be fun and hot. The problem you are likely having is guys are trying to sleep with you as they fear getting put in a friend zone etc. if you just clarify that you are interested but actually just need to take it slow I think you’ll have more success
/r/seduction10/04/25 08:57 AM
1

It’s never actually a 50/50 split. Alwyas someone who has more
/r/seduction10/04/25 06:40 AM
2

IMO you as the guy always want to have the power in the relationship and it sounds like you don’t. Which is why your having issues and you can fe it
/r/seduction09/04/25 05:09 PM
1

Just talk to guys and if they seem interested keep talking. Much more simple for a girl
/r/seduction09/04/25 01:04 AM
5

Subtle differences in what you say and what you do. You become outcome dependent and care about what happens and the girl can feel it. Almost impossible to fake the not caring
/r/seduction08/04/25 09:55 PM
1

Just gotta do it. Try not to overthink
/r/seduction08/04/25 11:32 AM
31

I don’t really have one right now but I have before. You get rejected LESS because your vibe is better and you care less about other girls. But 100% still get rejected. Usually just by the girls you want still but less by all the other ones
/r/seduction08/04/25 10:37 AM
1

IMO it’s the best way to start
/r/seduction08/04/25 06:19 AM
1

IMO it’s the best way to start
/r/seduction08/04/25 06:19 AM
2

It’s more about the vibe you’re creating. Subtle stuff goes a long way. And when the vibe shifts to being more sexual but both people aren’t quite sure about it it’s very fun. I’m sure you can do this already
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:25 PM
2

Yes it works still
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:24 PM
3

lol sounds like fun. So toxic but probs so hard not to get invested. Sex does sound like it would be amazing. It’s a huge game that she reacts really well too clearly. You already know what to do
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:21 PM
1

It happens. Some guys are into it. I used to come across it on dating apps. Or the guys actually partly gay or gay and not admitting it. That seems somewhat common
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:54 AM
2

Guys that get into game are typically way more logical and I’ve met some that actually might be autistic or have something wrong. I’d guess most guys are just in fear though and they hyper fixate on things like control. I did that too and felt like I was autistic. I still might have it a tiny bit but way less
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:44 AM
5

Hard to do but it’s a night where you just feel on and charismatics. Words flow easily and you’re funny. Best way is to approach a lot of girls with short breaks in between. It forces you out of your head. You’ll def know when you have it it’s quite a great feeling
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:39 AM
2

Just logistics. Like is she a girl that’s willing to go home with you that night. Some girls just won’t
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:37 AM
16

Best way is to have fun and genuinely have fun. Hard to do but works best
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:36 AM
2

All I know so is what it is. Hasn’t seemed to affect the ability to sleep with girls. Maybe even improves it
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:17 PM
1

I am good looking with some game and poor. So I guess I’ll take that
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:00 PM
18

You’ll know pretty quick. Usually it’s a night where you’re just on. Every girl you open seems interested. Very charismatic. Girls all seem to be checking you out. Called being in state
/r/seduction06/04/25 04:11 PM
39

Yes and no. Yes if you are doing it all right you still need to find the right girl. No as in if your game is way off it doesn’t really matter how many girls you approach
/r/seduction06/04/25 04:06 PM
4

I’m 6’4. Similar build. Work out lots and look good. This was me in my teens. Everyone told me how many girls I should have or they bet that I have and I had none and was a virgin. Used to try relying on my looks to get girls and they would literally just laugh at me. Opens the door a bit but shuts awfully quick if you don’t know what to say or do
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:12 AM
1

True. Social status. Perceived social status etc are all very powerful tools
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:11 AM
18

Like someone else said it helps get you in the door but that’s about it. It’ll open more doors for you but just a crack open. Then you can shut them just as easily once you open your mouth. Still takes other skills
/r/seduction06/04/25 01:03 AM
1

Been in game 16 years and I still have approx anxiety. I’ve had it go away lots. Best things I’ve found are approach girls (any girl) right when you walk into the bar. And then do lots of approaches every week. Only things that’s I’ve found help minimize it. It’s in your dna to fear approaching so it’s always going to be there
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:08 PM
1

I just reply with whatever comes to my head. I’ve done the overthinking evey text and I still do a tiny bit. But I found it’s better to just reply with the first thing I think of
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:07 PM
6

Most likely giving off a different energy when your relaxed vs done up. Done up puts more pressure on you and your giving lff a different vibe
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:06 PM
9

Been in game 16 years and still struggling with approach anxiety. It’s hardwired into our dna tho. Only solutions I’ve found are approach right when you walk into the bar to set that frame for yourself. And do it lots every week to minimize it.
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:05 PM
1

I haven’t seen that and I’m in this sub a fair bit
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:57 AM
2

I’m 36 and my buddy is 40. We go out lots
/r/seduction04/04/25 03:35 PM
2

Every one’s been like that
/r/seduction04/04/25 12:28 AM
3

Fun person 100x over
/r/seduction04/04/25 12:28 AM
7

Until she forced me to date her with blackmail
/r/seduction04/04/25 12:13 AM
3

I’ve dated a couple pretty attractive girls and once the hotness goes away this is pretty real. Usually have massive egos. Every guy is trying to bang so they’re hard to trust if you can at all. Huge headache
/r/seduction03/04/25 09:18 PM
3

I go through phases where I suck at approaching. Currnty in one. It’s just a fear I need to overcome by doing it. Been in game 16 years now and still have this as an issue. It’s hardwired into our dna so I get it but still can be annoying
/r/seduction03/04/25 07:37 PM
6

Value just tanks lol
/r/seduction03/04/25 07:36 PM
3

Yeah I mean I wish it mattered more lol. Could just go out and stand theee but unfortunately it doesn’t
/r/seduction03/04/25 07:25 PM
9

Good shift in mindset. From someone who is tall and good looking I can tell you from experience it doesn’t help that much lol. That mindset shift you had is 10x more powerful
/r/seduction03/04/25 02:20 PM
33

These girls are sleeping with someone. So obviously people can yes. Dating a 10 tho is like daily driving a Ferrari. Super cool. Everyone thinks you’re cool. Really exciting sometimes. Problem is everyone else wants it. Can’t park it anywhere without worrying. Maintenance is insane. Daily ing it is actually a massive headache an it’s just impractical.
/r/seduction03/04/25 01:41 PM
1

lol wtf dude. I’m not gaslighting him I’m just saying he likely has a lot more insecurities about height than I do. Which I’m lucky to not have and o understand that. He’s posting about it here so clearly he has an issue with it I am trying to help
/r/seduction03/04/25 12:01 AM
1

Relax. Just becusse a girl is being sexual doesn’t mean she will with you. Learn the lesson here
/r/seduction02/04/25 12:47 PM
2

She’s both interested and kind of using you. She likely sees you as a cool older guy that’s kinda badass and daddy vibes. So good frame to have on your part. Probaky fantasizes about you telling her what to do and scolding her. Why when you said you weren’t ok with stuff she started walking over and brought u nerds etc. so she clearly likes that. And although needs doesn’t seem like much from an attractive girl that likely has everything given to her to walk over and buy you something is actuall…
/r/seduction02/04/25 12:45 PM
1

If I could go back and game in hguhscholl I would just become more social with everyone. And then just look for IOI’s (indicators from interest) from the girls and work on those ones. Being social and making people feel comfortable will make the girls do this
/r/seduction02/04/25 12:38 PM
1

Chew mint gum at as many points as you can. So many guys miss this step. And take care of your teeth with flossing and brushing. Just ask someoen that will actually be honest if you do. She may have left for other reasons too tho so it’s hard to say
/r/seduction02/04/25 12:36 PM
1

Funny how being busy and not caring is actually great game lol. Been busier lately and it works great. Your overthinking it yes it’s normal for someone to get to know you lol. Some of that ‘spark’ you had being the mysterious guy will fade away and it’ll become more routine. Normal stuff
/r/seduction02/04/25 12:33 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:44 AM
2

Just go try things and experience ut all and see what you like
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:43 AM
1

Coming from a 6’4 conventionally good looking guy and someone who works out. This is who I am. I can tell you all these things matter way less than you’d think. I have been blown out countless times by guys just having more fun or a stronger frame/better vibe than me. That’s not to say my looks haven’t helped but it’s like 30% of how much it helps. While I’m sure the road will be way harder for you due to a lot of insecurities I just want to say having the height and looks thing does NOT matter …
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:42 AM
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Gotta figure out how to get into the places they hang out. If you’re attractive that’s gonna help a lot. Def lots of guys like this out there you’ll just need to find the hubs or hobbies of them and be around that. Unfortunately I don’t have an answer to what those are
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:30 AM
1

Yeah you need to ‘help’ open up her mind and let her feel comfortable to explore. Don’t pressure her and start small. I’m sure she will like it a lot if she feels comfortable
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:28 AM
1

Just get creative and try not to overthink it. I’m sure you already know some things to say
/r/seduction02/04/25 01:15 AM
1

Try not to overthink too much. Sometimes too much reading is actually much worse than just being natural. Good game a lot of times is just being normal and having a fun vibe. So you don’t need to ‘do’ that much. I wouldn’t say you like her though. If you’re having fun and flirting it’s going to be somewhat obvious but the part that’s interesting is not knowing for sure if the other person likes you. Keeps things fun
/r/seduction01/04/25 06:05 PM
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lol nah. There’s just different ways to approach it but being direct can work really well and girls find it attractive. But it’s not for EVERY situation so you have to be able to read the room
/r/seduction01/04/25 06:01 PM
1

No
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:26 AM
1

Nothing wrong with being direct in daygame. She already knows what you’re doing just come out and say it.
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:50 PM
1

Yeah it’s a real thing lol. But win win as you have more fun and you get more attention.
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:01 AM
1

I read a lot of them since it’s entertaining for me and your def in a really good spot by the sounds of it. Tons of other guys having much harder problems
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:01 AM
1

More so saying if you have more fun you’ll get the hot girls attention too
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:00 AM
6

Hotter the girl is the harder it is to get her. Just a fact. Competition is much higher. The game itself doesn’t change but the competition does. Also at a rave your vibe is very important. If you’re looking around for validation that’s a bad vibe. Vs just genuinely having fun
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:49 AM
1

Just commenting I think this sub is quite good too. And seen lots of really good advice. Game forums are tricky to find so it’s nice to see this one being so active
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:48 AM
1

I’m 36 and still go out to the bar 4x a week. Your fine. Sounds like your doing well actually
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:39 AM
1

You ask her out and see what she says
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:43 AM
3

If you follow the process Take action, Fail, Learn from mistake and Correct it, Take action Then eventually over time you can’t not succeed. Stick to the process
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:40 AM
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Sounds like you’re doing everything right IMO. Not every girl is going to have sex. In your eyes def is likely becoming no big deal but it’s a much bigger deal to some girls. And more risky both to the mentally and actually to their DNA. So it’s a bigger step. This is just alwyas how it is and alwyas will be but your doing great I don’t see any issues. Personally I find the honeymoon phase so like 4-8 month relationship with girls the best. Get to expected some awesome sex and experiences and th…
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:29 AM
2

Start at the root of the problem then which is the date and jsuy keep putting yourself in that situation. Also work on letting go of the built up trauma and try not to create more. I can’t stress thing enough how much this has changed my life. I see your doing it too
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:23 AM
1

Look up the list of indicators of interest (IOI)
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:28 AM
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Yeah the only way out is through. I used to get a ton of anxiety with girls the first time. Couldn’t get hard. Went to the dt and he gave me visgrw. Didn’t help. The only thing that helped was bringing back more girls and eventually being comfortable with it. You likely need to do the same. Also your developing a lot of anger and trauma around the subject you need go let go of with meditation. Read letting go the book and look up Julien Blanca’s transformation mastery YouTube videos. This will a…
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:09 AM
1

“Hey I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi”
/r/seduction31/03/25 01:47 AM
1

Get nice clothes. Shower. Brush your teeth. Whiten teeth if possible. Clear skin. Workout and be in shape. Look at all the areas you can improve looks and make them the best you can. That’s all. Measurement stick is yourself and I’m sure you know yourself if your trying to look your best or not
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:15 AM
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I’m sure it depends on the coach but I’m sure the right coach could help a lot. Main thing being they could look at you as an individual and know what your individual weak points. Compared to guessing on your own
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:13 AM
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Yeah kind of but also you should be trying to look your best. Sometimes “people will like me for me!” Is just a cop out to not put in the work you should be to look your best. Always should be trying to max out your potential looks
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:48 AM
2

Yeah I’m the same. Don’t think I’ll ever get married. There’s lots of people doing what your doing you just haven’t found them
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:44 PM
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I’d guess you feel alone in what you’re doing. Most people you know are dating or married so it makes you feel like a loser for doing what you’re doing. Posting here will actually help as a lot of people here go out lots. Myself I go out 4x a week and I’m 36. Have been for 16 years. You’re not alone you just don’t know anyone like you in your city. But there’s also probs a lot of people that are. Also being married and dating is not always better. Personally it’s not for me and I really like goi…
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:02 PM
1

Honestly I believe less is more. If you only have sex once a week etc but when you do it’s really good. Thats so much better than like 3-4x a week and it’s boring and too routine. I’d just ask her how she feels about it like someoen else said. If she’s ok with the current amount then no issues. Sometimes more isn’t always better
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:00 PM
2

Not many people here will be in sugar relationships so the advice is going to be tough. There is a sub for that tho if you want to ask there. My recommendation would be to just be clear with the girl that you have to focus on work and would like a relationship but the time is going to be an issue. That’s why you’re paying. Doesn’t seem like a huge issue to be honest
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:52 PM
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No it’s fine. When you have good chemistry the rules don’t matter. Try to have sex on the next one waiting too long for that can ruin things.
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:47 PM
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Sounds like you’re very lucky and it’s nice you want to help him too. I’d suggest relaxing. You’re likely getting in your head and going to start getting more nervous it isn’t enough. You have to learn to ‘let go’. With someone experienced your likely going to feel like what your doing is wrong etc. but this is most likely what he wants. He wants you to let go and just own it. Some girls that are great in bed can do this. What I’m saying is stop ‘trying’ to be sexy etc and just let the feelings …
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:45 PM
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Typical nice guys are triggering beta male chatacteristicd in her dna. Asshole guys trigger alpha male characteristics which she wants to mate with. Basicllay what it is
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:50 AM
1

Don’t see anything just message here
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:14 AM
1

No I mean talking to lots of girls and it going well. Being realy charismatic and giving off a great vibe. It’s called being in state in game. Basically having a great fun time
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:19 PM
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Had this happen many times myself actually. Don’t understand it either
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:18 PM
2

Yeah the real pain is coming by the sounds of it. Most likely when she tells you she had sex with someone else. Usually a hard thing to hear Relationships that aren’t going amazing are interesting though. It’s usually a lot of issues and it’s just easier to take it one more day then break up. But eventually you hit a breaking point and do it. It just takes years later to do it
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:01 PM
1

Yeah I know man I get it. I can hear you really want it to mean something and it’s not to say it means absolutely nothing. But it just doesn’t mean that much. And by the sounds of how much you want it to mean something you might screw it up. Why not just read out to her though if you really want to know. Think of if it this way. When your on your death bed would you rather have tried and failed? Or never tried at all.
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:15 PM
2

Might still be coming when she meets someone else. Or moves on. I felt like I didnt care a couple times then it hit like a brick. Depends on your situation
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:12 PM
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I know you want it to mean something becusse I can tell by how your typing. It doesn’t mean that much I’m sorry to disappoint. You could try reaching out but do NOT bring up that u know she’s viewing the stories
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:04 PM
1

Looks for guys matters about 30%. So while you can max out your looks if the other 70% is off it won’t matter. BUT if you have that 70% gold why not add in another 30% to help ?
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:03 PM
1

Post your text convos here and blurr out the names or numbers and ask advice. You’ll get lots of help
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:01 PM
1

Cowboy is somewhat masculine so that’s going to help. Especially if you are an actual cowboy
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:01 PM
1

Bug fax. Do not mention the Instagram story. So cringe. Someone just did this to me actually and was a girl. Still came off as cringe
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:58 PM
1

Viewing the stories from a girl while it seems promising really doesn’t mean anything. You could try to reach out but I wouldn’t put much eight on the stories being viewed as meaning much
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:58 PM
1

RSD used to film that stuff a ton and post it. I’m sure it’s possible to find it if you know how to do that. I don’t personally
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:56 PM
1

I dated a girl for 4 years off tinder. It’s most likely something you are doing. Sounds like you have dating and closing down pretty good. Sex part could actually be your issue. If it’s good she’s going to want to see you again. If it’s just whatever she can get that anywhere so hopefully you have some other great qualities that make her want to stay
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:55 PM
2

Here’s the reality. She’s out dating currently. Has lots of options. You may have none. This puts you in a bad place which you are overthinking which is why you posted this. I’ve been there. Talking to you is fun and super exciting becusse everyone tells her not too. The sex will also be amazing too so I’d def do that. BUT do NOT make it serious and ask serious stuff. Just go in as if you have 5 other girls and you’ve moved on but still care about her. Gonna be hard to do tho without actually ha…
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:53 PM
1

Little bit confusing post but sounds like newer part of liking someone. I’d say don’t let yourself get needy. This should always be rule #1 which you are currently losing. Be nice to her but don’t let anything bother you. Be ok with it if it goes well but also if it doesn’t and have that vibe
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:50 PM
1

If she’s dated someone like you that means you actually ARE her type lol. Dont listen to what women say listen to what they do
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:47 PM
2

I’d say no. Work on going out consistently or daygame to meet women. Harder long term but better pay off in the end. Don’t worry so much that you haven’t had sex
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:45 PM
150

Anything that’s social will help. Social skills is a great skill to develop
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:44 PM
2

Shoukd have let her come to you. Who knows why she is. Maybe her bf is close by and it was easier lol. Also it makes her invest more if she does. Don’t be nice lol
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:43 PM
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Shoukd use the pain that’s coming as motivating to work on yourself. I see people handle pain 2 ways. One is it drives them to get better and it’s like rocket fuel. It’s incredibly motivating so just point it in good directions like the gym and going out. The other is self Sabatoge. Lay in bed eating chips and get fat hating yourself. This is the mindset you want to avoid.
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:42 PM
1

I’m sure you’ve always heard nice guys lose etc. It’s fairly simple. Women in the logical part of their brain can understand that if a man’s trash she shouldn’t mate with him. But her DNA is still hardwired like a monkey to react to alpha male characteristics. Even though a nice guy is being nice. So things like social status, not falling into her frame, having other women want him etc. all these things are triggering someone she wants to mate with in her dna. Which is what you want to actually …
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:39 PM
1

Go for it
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:36 PM
1

Don’t try to get back with her man please move on. That doesn’t mean you should go help her with the resume and have sex tho. Cause I would. But don’t expect anything more than that
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:25 AM
2

Letting go was the only way. Trying to hand logically no matter how hard I tried never got me the results I wanted
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:43 AM
2

You’ll never get the results you want doing it logically. I tried for years.
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:42 AM
1

I would just do it and accept the fact it’s likely not going to be great. Then give him advice on how to get better. The natural progression and actual improvement if he likes it will be more fun for both and more enjoyable
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:41 AM
6

More about the vibe. You have to let go of your logical brain
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:39 AM
2

It’s both
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:37 AM
7

lol definitely. Social status in the venue is a powerful tool
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:02 AM
4

Good game vs bad game CAN look the same from the outside if you don’t know what you’re looking for. Ok game to great game will actually be really subtle in what the difference are unless your in the interaction and can ‘feel’ the vibe. If he pulled one girl. Basically got lucky that can create the confidence to change the subtle behaviour he would need to pull more girls. It’s all in the subtle stuff like the body language etc. how you react to her shit tests. All of that is what creates good ga…
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:31 PM
3

lol yea funny how it doesn’t matter that much
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:27 PM
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I’ve basically never had money or much status lol but have slept with some pretty hot girls. By status I mean real world. The status I DID have pulling those girls though was status in the club that night. Perceived social status by being in state. This is really all that actually matters though and even if you have social status outside the bar. You’ll kill it over anyone if you can create the status within the club. (Speaking for bar game obviously)
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:25 PM
1

It signals beta male behaviour in her DNA is the easiest and most simple answer. And the opposite behaviour signals alpha male behaviour which her dna wants to mate with. Thats why she won’t like it. Funny enough logically she thinks she wants nice guys and women likely do. But their DNA is hardwired the opposite
/r/seduction27/03/25 04:19 AM
1

lol so your a virgin
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:55 AM
1

Lmao how to friendzone yourself 101
/r/seduction26/03/25 05:06 PM
3

Jsuy be really careful not to say dumb sexual words though. You want to create a sexual energy WITH the girl. Not just you becusse that’s just weird and creepy. Creating sexual energy between the BOTH of you is fun
/r/seduction26/03/25 05:04 PM
1

100%. Women say they hate this stuff but secretly love it. I just straight up told a girl I was full of red flags and it seemed to be help
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:53 PM
1

None will unfortunately. It signals weakness and beta male behaviour in the women’s dna. That doesn’t mean you have to be a pos if you are going to be more alpha in her eyes. You can not be total garbage and still be triggering alpha male characteristics in her dna
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:52 PM
5

It will happen. Example being a friend who knows her and pulls her away
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:50 PM
12

I think it’s better actually. Can crate a sexual vibe. Just don’t say dumb stuff if you get horny is all
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:42 PM
1

lol goodluck
/r/seduction25/03/25 05:57 PM
-1

Fair response. Hard to make a nuance point with less than goldfish attention spans
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:48 PM
2

It’s Reddit the attention span is that of an ant
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:47 PM
1

Are u actually being serious that you think buying a bmw is the best way to pickup women?
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:31 PM
1

All of that works. Ideally just do all of it. Why not have 3 resources instead of 1
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:26 PM
1

She def is interested if she does this. Yes reciprocate but do it very subtly
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:25 PM
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So longggggg
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:24 PM
1

Do u really think getting to walk on the outside is gonna get her to let yo have sex?
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:23 PM
2

I’ve read some dumb posts on Reddit this might be the best one yet
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:22 PM
1

They both take time so it’s just hard to do both. Figure out which ones a bigger priority. You do not need money to have success in dating trust me
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:19 PM
1

Fax
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:19 PM
1

It’s usually becusse the girl wants to date and thinks if you bang you won’t see her again. So she drags it out as a way to try to get you emotionally invested. Although you think you’re setting the right frame by being honest and saying you just want sex you obviously aren’t with all the other stuff. If you set the frame your total trash lol women will just want to hang. Your likely setting a relationship frame even tho you think you aren’t
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:18 PM
3

Sounds like you’re approaching the right girls so that’s fine. Looks only matter about 30% for guys so just understand that. That doesn’t mean don’t do anything about it but just know it’s only 30%. But that’s still 30% so maximize that part of t. So the 70% is how you carry yourself etc. and that’s what really matters and that’s the part that the women are rejecting
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:16 PM
1

I agree with this
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:12 PM
3

Her saying it yes. I’m a 36yr old guy and I ask for girls snaps. Although I’ve seen them open their phone there’s like 15 other dudes with un opened snaps in there
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:11 PM
1

No easy way but to just do it unfortunately. You’ll be in your head unless you do something to get out of it. It’s normal
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:10 PM
3

The girl probably literally thought a romantic place and was interested. Then when it was your house was like wtf you think I’m like that. Although it can work if done right you’ll have to know if the girl literally is taking it seriously next time. Some girls will think it’s serious
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:09 PM
1

Needs a tldr; at the end
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:07 PM
1

Do something subtle to talk to her. Comment on what she’s doing etc. something normal and then gauge how she reacts. If she’s super friendly and open then keep talking and try to build a connection
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:06 PM
1

It’s just a logistical issue. No different than if a job was 2 hours away. Car you wanted to buy 4 hours away etc. so just depends if you want to make the logistical issue work
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:05 PM
2

Then you friendzone him and bang the guy that doesn’t care. Amiright?
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:01 PM
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This is so lame dude
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:00 PM
-1

lol this is so lame. Do not do this
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:59 PM
1

Find a girl that walks you through it. Not an escort. Just be open to one. There will be one that will help I’m sure if you know how to get girls. Just make it fun and light
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:59 PM
2

Thirding this
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:58 PM
4

You’re able to let go and be charismatic. You can do it sober too just requires more work. Read letting go by David Hawkins
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:57 PM
24

Uhh what. Some nice looking girls are quite crazy and you’d never guess. Just have to be able to make them comfortable to explore it
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:23 AM
1

Typo meant yea* lol
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:00 AM
1

Some girls have bf’s and will still do stuff. So I wouldn’t ask directly until it comes up
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:00 AM
3

lol dark. But true
/r/seduction24/03/25 03:47 PM
1

It can be year
/r/seduction24/03/25 03:09 PM
2

Common response when asking for a 3 some
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:38 AM
1

You coukd go to a sex club. Thats an easier way to make it happen. Besides that if she’s not that down then it’s gonna be like pulling teeth and probs create a lot of issues. Best way would be to keep opening up her horizons sexually and make sure your getting better at it so she enjoys it
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:36 AM
-5

If she’s kisses a girl who cares lol. That would be a positive. If you try to control her it’s only going to make that worse. The forbidden fruit thing just something you do NOT want to create. Her hanging out with a whore friend tho is concerning. If she’s conservative she likely wants to experiment and it would seem exciting. So I’d keep an eye on that
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:34 AM
1

Bit of both. Have studied this topic lots. Think of someone born lightly autistic. They will be highly logical by dna. Vs someoen rich brain will be easier to let go and have fun
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:34 AM
1

Both are common. More common to see naturals but lots of guys have studied it and got good too.
/r/seduction22/03/25 04:21 PM
7

In 36. Been in game 15 years. Yes all of it works. I go out every week and was out last night. Good game is really just about being yourself and having a fun vibe though. Lots of guys are super weird so to even get to the point of being normal is actually a big win. Reality is a lot of the games and power struggles etc do work though.
/r/seduction22/03/25 02:47 PM
1

lol no. Looks is what you’re asking about. It helps about 30%. So that’s still 30%. But also only 30%
/r/seduction21/03/25 03:23 PM
2

Not that easy but really depends on how much fun you’re having. More fun and better vibe the better
/r/seduction21/03/25 03:19 PM
1

I mean it always sucks. That’s never going to change. Try to pull her and do everything you can next time. At least if she gets pulled by someone else you didn’t feel like u didn’t try
/r/seduction20/03/25 01:36 AM
-7

Didn’t read your whole post cause it’s long lol. But I’m 6’4 and good looking. Sounds like we had similar issues growing up. I did the whole looks thing and found it actually made it worse ironically. It’s still good to have it just doesn’t matter that much
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:27 PM
18

Yeah I agree. Was common game theory for awhile that looks didn’t matter. They don’t like it does for women. It’s more like 30%. But 30% is still 30% and it’s gonna make it easier if you look good
/r/seduction19/03/25 05:34 PM
1

No idea
/r/seduction19/03/25 05:15 AM
-1

I didn’t watch the video but it is possible to have success like I’m guessing is in the video. It’s just really rare and you need to be super on the ball. ‘In state’ so to speak
/r/seduction18/03/25 06:02 PM
3

Some girls are really nervous so they won’t. Hard to know in this case. You can usually tell when you actually talk to her by her body language though. I’ve had girls that didn’t seem interested in person but also wouldn’t look at me. And turned out they liked me. Kinda hard to read that well so you’ll have to decipher for yourself
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:53 PM
2

100%. Have felt like that for a whole year at a time. Letting go of that feeling is actually what fixed it. You’ll never really get any results being in that state all the time
/r/seduction18/03/25 05:00 AM
1

Chlamydia 2x. 136 girls now I probs used a condom with 20 of them
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:37 PM
1

That’s a basic understanding of it yet and pretty much all it it. Really confusing if you go deeper and actually easier to just see it this way. I like it like it’s your reality and beleifs. And you just hold those. Your not afraid to break rapport to keep your beliefs
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:37 PM
1

No but socializing with a lot of girls all night women notice and will sometimes even open you
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:35 PM
1

I actually wrote this wrong I meant I only used condoms with 20 lol
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:35 PM
1

Oh I miss won’t they actually lmao. I meant only used with 20 of the 80
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:34 PM
1

I agree
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:34 PM
1

Almost every girl won’t just have sex right away. You have to treat her like a human lol
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:36 PM
2

Extremely true. Look at how girls look at you in the bar if your talking to a girl bs standing there alone
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:36 PM
37

Bar numbers are just really flaky. It’s just part of the game. Even if you have great sets. I had one a couple weeks back spent 3/4cof my night with a girl. She was super into me. Even texted after. Next day nothing. Ideally just text as soon as possible. Problem is the girl wakes up hungover and likely just forgets or regrets most of the night
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:32 PM
1

Well you’ll have about a million of these opportunities so just capitalzie on the next one. It happens all the time
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:30 PM
1

Been with over 100 girls only used a condom maybe with 80. You’ll be fine
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:27 PM
6

Lots of comfort and make her really horny
/r/seduction17/03/25 01:13 AM
2

I mean you said it yourself. Kinda boring for the nice girls. East girls exciting
/r/seduction16/03/25 04:14 PM
1

To be honest if she isn’t texting you at all or just once a day and you are dating that is strange. Usually any girl I’ve dated texts me all day. So something seems a bit off. Does sound like you are chasing her now though and that’s never good. Idealy you want it the other way around
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:14 AM
4

100% belive both those guys do well. Look at Shane Gillis for example. Gf is hot AF he looks borderline retarded which he says
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:34 PM
1

There’s different examples of it. Basically what you have to do is take the opportunities girs give you. The green lights so to speak. That doesn’t mean she won’t still give you resistance. But if she gives you green lights and you don’t take them it’s over. If she gives you green lights then stops you at sex it’s usually fine. Just try again next time hopefully that makes sense
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:06 PM
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The looks argument is always a big one in dating. For men IMO it helps about 30% of your game. So why not maxamzie that 30%. Yes it’s better to focus on other stuff and with great game you can overcome looking terrible. But 30% is still 30%
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:04 PM
1

It’s in your dna to have approach anxiety. Like a fear of heights or fear of falling. It’ll never go away unless you go out a lot and approach a lot
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:36 PM
1

I beleive it’s biological. It’s a way to test if you’re ready to be a mate for them. So you have to jump through the hoops
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:35 PM
1

It has to do with frames. He isn’t accepting her frame and is staying in his own frame. So it becomes attractive. Can also create fun playful teasing too. Most people aren’t willing to do that for fear of being mean etc. so when a guy does it comes across as alpha or higher status in her mind. Yes it’s retarded lol but it’s true
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:42 PM
1

I’ve had decent success in dating and considered it. Likely hard to get your feet on the ground and become well known so don’t see myself ever doing it
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:39 PM
3

Day game direct Night game indirect
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:38 PM
1

Coffee is the easiest
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:37 PM
1

I find later on is best. 8pm ish-10
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:35 PM
1

I’ve been doing it 15 years so it’s been good for that time. I go out 3-4x a week every week. My main challenge is approach anxiety still. I do lazy approaches but still need to be better
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:31 PM
53

You did hit it there. It’s what in their current relationship do they need somewhere else or trying to fulfill. Typically these are the women that will cheat. They either got into a relationship they aren’t happy with. They haven’t been having sex. The husband isn’t doing something. These are the most common scenarios anyway. You also have women who will cheat and just rationalize it too though. He didn’t empty the dishwasher so I deserve this idea lol. That’s more so just women who lack respect…
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:29 PM
1

Bit of both. I’ve been with over 100 girls so I’ve done ok. I go out a lot though. Have failed a lot so that’s 50% of it. The other 50% is the charisma etc
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:49 AM
1

Sounds like it to me. I’d just ask her out and see. Sounds like you have similar interests so a workout isn’t a bad idea
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:45 AM
1

Just relax and try to let things happen naturally. I lost my virginity at 19 and the first time was terrible. It’ll probs be bad for you too so just do it. Try to enjoy it and move onto the next
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:43 AM
1

Doing all the things you deep down know you shoukd be doing everyday
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:42 AM
1

When I’m on my death bed. I’d much rather have tried and failed then never tried at all
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:40 AM
1

This is a good example of a woman that’s interested but axtualy has a bf and waits to the last min to say it. One of the best scenarios for a woman with a bf. One that says “I have a bf” right away is likely lying and saying it becusse she isn’t interested. Obv she still has a bf so up to u at that point. I would entertain it just for the entertainment but a decent chance it’ll go nowhere
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:39 AM
2

I’ve shared ‘game’ with several girls. Almost universally been negative lol. But ill still do it just for the fact I find it interesting
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:37 AM
1

If it’s day game the malls are always good. Or busy streets. Night game is just whatever bar is popular that night. I go out 3-4x a week every week and it’s my main source of meeting girls. It takes effort and isn’t easy but worth it IMO
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:36 AM
1

Not uncommon. She may be embarassed puking like that too. I’ve had it go really well with women and then ghosted after. Hard to know what’s going on in someoen elses head.
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:34 AM
2

More about each women and being able to bring out that side in them. Most girls will do almost anything if you make them feel comfortable enough with it. Have taken a couple girls Virginity. Anal virginity etc. most girls are willing to try if you make them feel ok
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:32 AM
1

Not sure what u mean
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:30 AM
1

Lmao man. Been here. Still here. Maybe forever here I dunno lol. Very tough to do both but I understand the importance and the benefit of still going out. But yea girls will hate it so it’s going to be a struggle. I dated a girl for 4 years where I would go out Saturday without her every week for this reason. Weekly arguments etc. it’s a really tough one. Every girl I’ve dated actually has seen this pattern in me and tried to change it. Asking to hangout weekends etc. huge issue for me so can re…
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:29 AM
1

She made it clear? Try to relax lol. If you screw it up remember there are only 4 billion other women out there
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:27 AM
1

Nice work. Keep it up and onto the next one :)
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:25 AM
1

I can feel your subtle ego through the post and it’s likely causing you the issue. You have to ‘let go’ When you truly understand that it’ll be a huge change and likely fix your issue. Took me 12 years to learn and been a huge change personally
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:24 AM
1

Some of my favourite flirting with women had been where you aren’t quite sure if you’re flirting or not. But your pretty sure your flirting. Super hot and fun and keeps both people guessing. Things like very subtle touching has this effect. Standing a little bit closer to someone than most people would if they were just friends. It’s Almost like an art form but typically just happens naturally when 2 people have great chemistry
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:21 AM
1

Depends on the girl and what you want. If you have other girls and like the entrainment and she is just saying that but actually seems interested I might entertain it. If your main goal is dates for sex for dating it’s likely going to be more of a headache
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:19 AM
1

Don’t be the last one to text. Don’t be the first one to text (if possible). Letting her come to you when talking. Letting her bridge the space gap etc etc
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:17 AM
1

Group sets are tough. I person struggle with those a lot. But it neverrrrr is a bad idea to be talking to more girls at the bar and be seen with more girls. So even tho they just saw u as a friend (maybe) it gives you social status
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:16 AM
1

I’d feel comfortable with any girl to be honest even a 10 celebrity. Mostly because I’ve dated some attractive girls and I know they’re just people too behind their image. They get insecure, have issues etc and the hot girl part is just an image. Don’t say that in a bragging way more so a hot women are people too and I see that in them
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:15 AM
1

16 years in the game and I still struggle with approach anxiety a lot. Don’t take the action I should be at the bar unless it’s easy approaches. This is my main one. Second is my mindset. Seems to fluctuate a lot and causes issues for myself. I have a good general mindset but struggle with the parts I can’t really control
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:13 AM
1

Just go hangout with her again casually. It’s quite fun if you have a lot of chemistry but no ‘logical’ way to have sex. And have it just happen becusss you want it so bad so you just figure it out. Much better than planning a place for it.
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:12 AM
1

Go to the club/bar 3-4x a week sober and start talking to women. Then post your issues as they come up here. Goodluck
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:09 AM
1

Don’t rly understand the post but guessing you’re referring to the subtle ness of good foreplay. And I agree with it. It’s written in a book context though for women
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:08 AM
1

Technically the best way to go about it
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:07 AM
1

I would work on your grammar a bit but that’s just some feedback. For the situation she sounds interesting and is basically asking you to take action. So you’re gonna need to take action or you’ll lose the opportunity. Women unit give you one MAYBE 2 chances. If you miss that it’s over
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:06 AM
1

I like your response actually it sounds cool. I’d leave it and message her on Friday and see. Don’t send another text
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:03 AM
1

Car sex is always awkward unless you have a van. It’s gonna be awkward lol just accept that
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:02 AM
1

I used to use apps and I had great pics. I saw it as if I could sleep with one girl a month with fairly low effort it was a win. Got banned on bumble and hinge somehow (wasn’t doing anything offensive) so just gave up on it. Preferred meeting in person anyway. Haven’t downloaded any apps in over a year and I don’t think about it. In person is so much more rewarding
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:01 AM
1

My huge got banned a few years back. Same for bumble. I haven’t even downloaded tinder in like a year lol I just don’t bother with online. I see so much more value in meeting women day to day
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:00 AM
1

Do it as often as possible is pretty much the only way
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:58 AM
1

It’s hair so it’ll grow if it looks bad. If u hate it wear a hat
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:57 AM
7

Assuming you’re a girl? Guy maybe got nervous. For girls it’s pretty basic. Just approach and be direct. 99% of guys will be very welcoming. Your goal should be to be as hot as possible. Gym. Clothing etc. can’t emphasize gym enough. Looks are much more important for women
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:56 AM
1

Yeah sounds like it’s just logistics stuff. I’m sure it’ll be fine
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:10 AM
1

I would just explain the siteutin and see if you can find a solution. It’s a real life situation so no reason to lie or try to oush for theirs if they aren’t for it
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:06 AM
2

Yeah obviously good to keep it with game but going to hold you back In daily life
/r/seduction12/03/25 03:21 PM
1

Think I understand what you’re saying. Basically your more polarizing in your convos which in cold approach works. Also you have nothing to lose so you likely don’t mind it. When in social interactions your still being poloraizijg which can come across as just weird though. I’d say it’s something to actually work on in the social context. It’s def a good skill for nighttime or cold approach and gaining attraction quick. But when your just chatting with people saying outlandish stuff comes across…
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:52 PM
1

Yup exactly. Not saying without lots of practice it’ll get easier. But just that like the gym if you stopped going for 6 months you’ll go back to square 1 approaching is the same. But yes if you go 6x a week 125 is gonna start feeling easy
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:49 PM
2

Doing everything you deep down know your supposed to be doing everyday helps a lot. Like if deep down you know you’re supposed to read. Go to the gym. Work x amount of hours or on something but your not doing any of that. It can make you miserable. Being on your path daily helps a lot
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:48 PM
0

She might have not been interesting. But assuming the girl is somewhat engaged or interested if it’s loud. What I’ll do is touch her on the shoulder at lean in to hear her better. That will break the barrier. Then what I’m looking for is how she takes that. Maybe I’ll get an IOI after or she will touch me back etc. or just neutral. Bad is if she pulls away
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:45 PM
1

It’s likely the vibe or energy you’re putting off. People can read energy or vibes in people so if yours isn’t good they’ll pickup on that right away. It’s a hard thing to change but it’s the reason when you’re doing really well it all comes easy. And when it’s going bad it all goes bad
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:02 PM
1

Just have to do it really. No easy way
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:00 PM
2

As a man I always beleive it comes from action. If you’re on your path and doing everything you know you should daily that’s what makes me confident. If I’m not doing that I can try to fake it all I want it doesn’t work. You likely know the answer to what doing everything you’re supposed to daily means. The closer you can be to actually doing this the more on point you’ll feel. On a side note to more passion if you guys are open to it try a sex club lol. I went with an old gf once and was an ama…
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:00 PM
5

There’s a list of IOI’s you can look up. Shoukd be easy to find. Just google it and take a look there’s a lot on there. If you study it a bit you’ll start noticing some common ones. Proximity is one of the playing with her hair or pulling it so the side is another. Comes from old dna. She pulls her hair to the side to show her neck which is a vulnerable part of her. Sounds silly but it’s extremely common if a girl likes you.
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:56 PM
1

Yeah it’s what works though. So if you want it you have to follow that path
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:55 PM
1

Ideally text should be to meetup with someon. Lots of pickup guys will teach you this. The main issue with text is it’s so easy to have it not go the way you think it will. So unless you have a lot of rapport it’s ideal to just text as a way to get a date in the beginning. So with the demographic your referring to it should be friendly then just try to find a time to get a date
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:47 PM
1

Being comfortable only comes with practice. So just keep practicing. More so the part of talking to girls you like
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:45 PM
1

That text looks fine. Getting someone to come to the bar with you is always hard. It’s axtualy easier to get someone on a date then to come to a bar
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:44 PM
2

You’re probs giving off a weird vibe and you don’t know it. Tikes it worked was because you were relaxed and let it come to you. The better you get the more you can see the subtle things you didn’t see before. Which is what it’s about. It’s like seeing a world you were literally blind to before. And it only comes with experience and being in it a lot
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:43 PM
1

Sounds like you’re just a little off your game. Likely putting off subtle little cues you don’t know you are to not seems as comfortable as you could be. Just keep trying. It also sounds like even already the second ones going better than the first. So your on the right track
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:40 PM
1

I go to the bar 3-4x a week sober. It works. But there’s also women literally everywhere so pick your poison
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:38 PM
1

I’d take pills and go lol. Try and hold it together. Unless you don’t care much but if you cancel there’s a decent chance you won’t get another shot
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:37 PM
1

I mean it’s definitely telling you something. Technically on paper the warmer approaches should be easier and go better. So if they aren’t your doing something here that you don’t do in cold approaches. Or something different. Sounds like a unique sitsutin to you so it’s hard to know exactly what it is. You’ll have to look at patterns and try to self analyze
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:35 PM
1

Really loud music is always tough. Like if it’s overly loud. Never been a fan of that. If you’re at a resort though just mention something about being there. Cheesy but like “what brings you here” lol. Then just gauge her interest as you talk to her. If she’s not interested at all just be friendly and move on. If she sounds interested keep talking and try to escalate
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:33 PM
1

If she’s looking at you then smiles then looks away a bunch that’s generally a good thing. If she just looks away the whole time at her phone it’s usually a bad thing. Her saying she’s not interested. You can try to push through this and sometimes it works and can be a test. But it’s very difficult
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:32 PM
1

Seems like a lot of beautiful women are quite toxic tho am I right. Funny how that is. As for approaching you need to understand it’s in your dna to fear it. So it’s always going to be there. The only thing I’ve ever found that really helps is doing it a lot. Every day or every week and it lowers that fear. Besides that nothing else seems to work
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:30 PM
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It’s called proximity. It’s one of the indicators of interest. While it is ONE it doesn’t mean she likes you. But also it can be an indicator. Pretty easy to be friendly though here then look for other indicators that she may like you. If you see another 2 or 3 there’s a pretty good chance it’s a yes
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:28 PM
2

Going out a lot and failing. Then slowly having some success. Then seeing patterns and understanding women better and repeating the at success. 15 years later still failing a lot but knowing that if I follow the process it leads to success
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:27 PM
1

Lmao bruh
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:42 AM
1

It’s biological for you to feel that so you’ll always feel it forever. The more often you do it though and more consistent the more it goes away. But it will always be there
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:42 AM
3

Well one is you can make women feel super comfortable sexually where they will do anything pretty much. The second is that very very sexual women who just ooze sex when you meet them are rare and almost every guy wants these girls. So they are difficult
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:41 AM
1

Girls sometimes are just nervous. So if everything went perfect they can still just be nervous and put barriers in place for that reason. Sometimes they just aren’t interested. So that seems like hard to get. Sometimes they are but aren’t really sure on you so are testing you. So that could be on as well
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:21 PM
1

Your friends don’t sound great so there’s that problem. If you like going alone just go alone. I go out alone every week. Personally I find it difficult to go alone so I try not to but I go out a lot so I have to if I go lots
/r/seduction09/03/25 02:29 PM
6

This is true
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:42 AM
1

Work in self improvement
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:43 AM
1

Don’t have a message?
/r/seduction08/03/25 04:12 PM
0

I go out alone sometimes but I never say I’m alone. It just doesn’t go well. I’d say y buddy is around. I just got here my friend is late etc. then just move on
/r/seduction08/03/25 04:10 PM
2

I don’t approach groups personally. Not because it’s a bad idea it’s just way harder and intimidating lol. Unless it’s like 2 girls. Sets I’ve had that I’ve approached and pulled they typically start off all around the same. Girl is sort of hesitant to talk. But then attractiion builds and at some point it gets sexual. Then you just have to ask herd to come home with you. After party works well. It’s way more about my vibe that matters the most though. There’s always girls at the bar but if I ca…
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:08 PM
2

I try to go to clubs with a buddy. I go to talk to women so just looking for girls to approach. Usually when I get an IOI I’ll approach or someone walking by
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:06 PM
1

Yup Basically. Might talk to no one. I should talk to one person.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:05 PM
1

Just ask herd this forum is quite active and helpful
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:39 AM
1

Investing in yourself is never a bad idea. Gym. Clothing. Gym is more just effort but maybe a membership. Seems like it could all be positive
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:38 AM
1

Sure what’s the question
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:20 AM
1

Typically no. Girls can just sense if you get other girls or not. So you don’t need to advertise it. I’d argue it makes it worse
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:20 PM
1

As someone who is attractive and 6’4 the looks/height don’t matter nearly as much you as you probably think. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t help. Yes it does. I get more attention for being good looking but a guy that is funny/has a good vibe/Carrie’s himself well would killl my game if I wasn’t on point as well
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:19 PM
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I go out 3-4x a week. Slept with over 100 girls. About 70 of those one night stands. The club/bar is the best as you CAN go out that night and pickup someone and have sex with them that night. Most other venues or situations make that a lot more difficult (not impossible)
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:17 PM
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No I go sober most of the time. It’s way better in the long run and actually have better results
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:08 PM
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I go out at 11 on Monday and Thursday for 10 mins on Monday. So get back by 11:20 ish. Nothing. Crazy. Thursday maybe in bed by 12. So it’s pretty realistic still. Again it isn’t easy to do t but it’s important to me so I make it happen
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:07 PM
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Some guys really do want one woman and kids/that family life. So it’s genuine and then they just deal with the urges. And in that case I think it’s cool. I’d argue that’s less of the case typically though but I’ve seen some guys that really do want that life
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:06 PM
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Better not to wait. If you wait too long you can miss the opporrujtuy. Dont force it but try to make moves when the times right
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:04 PM
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No. Best way is to just do it more so you get comfortable with it
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:40 PM
1

Pulling girls that are too drunk to really know what they’re doing
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:39 PM
1

Sort of yes sort of no. Loa is kinda BS while stills being true. Letting go in itself is actually an amazing tool and you should read letting go by David Hawkins. And wash Julien blanc on YouTube.
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:37 PM
1

Go out a lot. I go out 3-4x a week partly to just feel comfortable. I’ll go out on a Monday alone for 10 mins largely for this reason
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:36 PM
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I’m 36 and dunno how I’ll ever do it The issue is it’s in your DNA to spread your seed. Biologically men are not designed to settle down you’ll always have that drive. So take that for what it’s worth
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:35 PM
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I’m 36v been going out 15 years. Still get approach anxiety really bad. Never goes away. 3 second rule can help. Going out every week and doing approaches helps. Just have to do it no way around it
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:33 PM
1

Less canned stuff these days. More about becoming a cool guy instead of using canned lines to seem cool. Which IMO is way better
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:32 PM
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lol yes I know you know what your doing you just want people to tell you it’s ok. Yes he is cheating and you are helping with it. Not like I would care but just be honest with yourself
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:31 PM
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Look up the list of IOI’s. It’s out there somewhere. Indicators of interest from women. It’s all body language stuff and when you see it you know she’s interested
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:29 PM
2

If your attractive to girls your attractive to all girls. Although some still have types
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:28 PM
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Likely not gonna get many replies from girls on apps that link their insta. But just try saying hey I saw u on X how are u. And see if she replied
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:26 PM
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I go out alone every week. BUT I try not too. It’s wayyy harder to go alone so just keep that in mind. I have a friend I go out with every weekend but in the week it’s just me. It’s def more intimidating. What I try to do is stand around the bar like I’m waiting for a drink. Or stand close to people so it doesn’t look like I’m alone. I’m sure no one cares but helps me feel more calm. Idealy try to talk to people asap as well
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:25 PM
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Usually a girl will give you ‘green light’ opportunities. So you have to see them and you probably do. You HAVE to take these otherwise it’s over. So when you see them and feel like you have one you need to take it
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:23 PM
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So Monday Thursday I won’t go out that long and usually go alone. Monday I’ll go out like 10 mins. More so just to be comfortable in the club and have that environment feel normal. Thursday I’ll go out a bit longer and take it more serious but still 30 mins tops typically. Usually alone. Maybe. 1-2 approaches Friday /Saturday bigger nights. At least an hour. Maybe 2. Try to do more approaches. If I pull it’ll be one of those nights. I go out sober most of the time and I live downtown. So that ma…
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:21 PM
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Basically
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:17 PM
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Lots of those are fairly lazy approaches but I try for volume. Like girls walking by me for example
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:17 PM
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I go out 3-4x a week so 10-20 at least
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:31 AM
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Should read letting go by David Hawkins and watch Julien blanc on YouTube for the practical of it. It’ll help let go of the dark energy you currently have. Otherwise it’s going to hold you back in so many areas you have no idea. Hopefully you can do this and then just learn to enjoy the process and the beauty in life. Sure your buddy was attractive but you can learn a lot more and appreciate more if you stick with it. Also can likely have way better more rewarding experiences. It’s the paradigm …
/r/seduction05/03/25 03:56 PM
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Be really casual. Be yourself too try not to get weird. Just reply as if you were going to reply in person and don’t overthink it. Sooooo easy to overthink texting and come up with some weird reply
/r/seduction05/03/25 03:53 PM
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Social status yes. Money no. Power yes. Girls are attracted to how you carry yourself and perceived social status. Who is the alpha in the room. Think poor guy in high school but if he’s cool and the alpha women love him. Money in itself will not convey this. But money can help you gain power and open doors so can be a tool to get social status and power
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:01 PM
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It’s true. Just some constructive feedback
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:47 AM
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That’s fair enough. If it’s important to you it’s important. And there will be some guys that just want sex and not dating so I could see that
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:30 AM
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While I agree the sad fact is almost no one will. So you just lose almost everyone. I’m pretty good for trying to read things and I won’t do it. Places like YouTube are better for long form content as people log on looking for that
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:28 AM
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Yeah I wouldn’t do that. You’re asking too much of people on the internet lol. Unless you have a niche following or are trying to build one you’ll just lose 90% of people
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:22 AM
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Not who she is choosing to date but how guys are seeing her. Like u said they don’t see her as the church girl but obv as someone else
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:07 AM
1

Neediness is a killer. Ideally don’t want to ever let yourself get more emotional attached than the girl. Best way is abundance. Multiple women. Go out to the bar every week and talk to women. SEE that there’s 4 billion women in the world
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:05 AM
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IF you can you need to be in place to understand her and why she’s like that. Then you can help her (assuming she’s open to it. Don’t force it on her if she’s not). For example if this is something she’s struggled with a lot and it’s genuine. Not some weird way to get attention. Then having someoen that helps her open up and feel comfortable could be the greatest gift you could give her. Again tho some people do this for attention and it’s actually just a weird thing so u need to understand if i…
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:04 AM
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Fair enough. I don’t think the time to have sex/how great the girl is actually has much correlation. I know this is common in society and it’s a big pet peeve of mine. While there may be a tiny bit of it I’d argue it’s way less than people think
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:51 AM
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Pretty quickly. Only a couple days. I mentioned them in my post there but myself being less angry was one as the internet is an angry place. Also realizing life isn’t so bad. Watching people’s highlight reels is so bad for your brain. Even their life isn’t like that
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:49 AM
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This gives me hope for gaming if I have a kid lol. Sounds like a great opportunity to meet single moms to be honest. I’d just talk to them and be friendly. But then throw in the odd flirty thing and see how they react. I’d guess lots would be Married and in relationships so need to fish for that
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:48 AM
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True. Coping mechanism
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:46 AM
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True
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:46 AM
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100% will
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:45 AM
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To add into this technically you aren’t wrong. Men that are great guys compared to a girl that’s just hot is wildly different. But you still want that hot girl so you still have to go through that door. And in the mindset your in you’ll fail really badly. So while you technically are correct you have to let go of that feeling because it’s gonna kill your game
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:45 AM
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Let go of your ego. 100% the issue. If you had no ego you wouldn’t feel this way. Genuine confidence lacks ego and is much more attractive too.
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:43 AM
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Likely missing the sexual ness part of the date. Or the flirty part of the fun vibe and your being too much of a friend. Sounds like you’re doing good on having fun as a friend guy. But you miss the flirty this is ‘man to woman’ part which the girl wants. But feels is missing so sends you that text
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:42 AM
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If it’s done right and genuine it’s ok. But don’t try to stick around forever. I would do “hey sorry I see your eating but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi”. Keep then convo short after that. Try to get the number then leave. If she wasn’t eating it’s diff but in this case I’d say better to keep it short
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:40 AM
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If it’s done in a genuine way yes they do quite a bit. And it’s nice. For example “hey I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi”. Will almost always be positive and women will like it
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:38 AM
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Sounds like a genuine response. Your posts are too long btw for modern internet ant attention span lol. But they seem like good advice
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:37 AM
2

Reading the energy in the room and adapting to it def is a good skilll most new PUA’s lack. Or jsuy being able to read people’s energy/body language in general
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:35 AM
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Really good idea. I tried to do it for a month and made it a week lol. Actually very hard to do but has a lot of benefits. 2 biggest for me was to realize how angry the internet is The world you live in is WAY different than the internet makes it look. And life isn’t so bad. Looking at everyone’s highlight reels all day is terrible for the brain
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:32 AM
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Rule #1 has always been-Don’t be needy
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:31 AM
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I slept with 2 gf’s on the first date. So that means extremely little to me IMO and most guys I think are the same. But the compatliboty and loyalty etc was imortsnf
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:29 AM
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True. Most guys are not seeing past just wanting to bang as that’s really the only value there is
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:28 AM
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True
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:27 AM
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I dated a girl for 4 years that came over and had zex on the first date. She even offered. I liked her and the sex was good so I wanted to see her again. It’s not about that as much as you think
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:27 AM
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This is true. Asking if you’d date yourself is a good question. Do you bring any value besides sex and maybe average sex. If the answer is no then there’s your issue and all anyone else sees. If you’re super hot you bring sex and great sex which is hard to find. And the value of a hot girl. Great personality then that’s fun to be around plus good sex. Super smart. Etc etc
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:26 AM
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While this is kind of true is doesn’t fix the problem
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:24 AM
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True and not true. While it may fix part of the issue it won’t fix the actual issue
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:23 AM
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Men are 2 completely different people before and after sex. So you need to understand that. The person you know before may not be the same after. That Does NOT mean don’t have sex with guys. That means that if you aren’t of much value besides just having sex that’s all they are going to want. Ive met lots of girls I only wanted to bang becusse that’s all I cared about. And I’ve also met lots that I had sex with and would kill to have sex with again. But really it was up to the girl if that happe…
/r/seduction03/03/25 05:22 AM
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They aren’t ’set up’ to be a scam. It’s just how daring is online so it default gets like that. Women post a pic. Every guy says yes. They control all the power as they have 100 options and men lack it. The dynamic is just twisted in their favour by default
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:05 AM
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