What worked?

GrowCanadian · 2025-02-25T21:55:39+00:00

Go home tonight and sit quietly with no distractions. Close your eyes and imagine the best version of yourself. Picture what you’re wearing, you’re likely smiling, wearing clean cloths, fit. Think what the best version of yourself hobbies are. Now write down all the stuff you think the best version of yourself is and start working towards that.

I became interesting. I do martial arts, have hobbies that I can passionately talk about, and I’ve become social forcing myself out of my comfort zone. Instead of going out to try and get laid go out to enjoy yourself and if you interact with people learn as much as you can about them. People love to talk about themselves. You will start to make new friends, uplift your social skills, and people will naturally gravitate towards you. If you make friends with a girl, you don’t have to sleep with her. You can be friends, use her as social proof that you’re desirable. If you walk into a room with a girl, even if she’s your friend, people notice. Be genuine, in the moment, put your phone away, and keep eye contact. Be the best you.

Mc_Dickles · 2025-02-26T02:17:00+00:00

All of it is good. You can do all of that and still not get the girl. Just be the best version of you for you, and accept anyone who accepts you.

My personal story? I think just being a fun person to be around is what will get girls to want to be around. On Instagram, I'm always at fun events around my city and I'm always posting cool things. One time I posted a video of Bad Bunny performing and my inbox was flooded that day with just girls saying how jealous they were, a lot of them saying "invite me next time!"

Obviously they just wanna see Bad Bunny, but now they know me as the guy who could get them to see one of their favorite artists. Now the next time something cool happens, I could shoot anyone of them an invite, show them a good time, while also showing them who I am.

You could have nice skin, low body fat, good finances... if you're boring to be around, what girl will wanna be with you?

CoachSlyDating · 2025-02-27T05:06:44+00:00

Slim down but keep the wide shoulders. Girls like slim guys more than really buff guys on average.

Read. Meditate. Get lot of sleep.

Talk in front of a camera everyday. Then watch the video and observe yourself.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-13T05:42:02+00:00

Doing all the things you deep down know you shoukd be doing everyday

gardenofeden123 · 2025-02-25T19:23:17+00:00

In order of effectiveness (imo)

Weights Fashion Inner game Social circle Finances Skin care

Title	What worked?
Author	All_in848
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Comments	6
Date	February 25, 2025 6:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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