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| 7 | Cardio 101Simple. Increased and improved vascular circulation and greatly improved lung capacity. You can last much longer. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 4 | She wants to be treated like who she is.Old AF old school player here. Generally a good post and as long as the reader doesn’t go full autist on one of the points, it’s a good general message. What I have seen that commonly differs is that if the parents remarry into a stable situation, the kid doesn’t usually grow into being a whore. The drinking and drugs thing is, and has been spot on. Forever. The main thing, is hopefully no one tries to white knight these situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Make friends by being the initiatorGood write up. I qualify for old man status compared to probably most of you. The statement about old guys NGAF about random convos is pretty much true. I’ve been talking shit with anyone/ everyone since about age 35...some 19 years ago. It is, at times, very productive. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 16 | 25 Simple Principles of Game to keep in mindThat’s a pretty good post. Some of it is old school player stuff I’ve ran from time to time. Of course some variations would apply as needed which any fuck tard should be able to figure out. Don’t be dissuaded by the autists. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What, some of you clowns are actually MAD about OnlyFans?Seconded. The amount of blubbering bloopers I see and read about on a regular basis is astounding. Seems to the the new norm .... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Don't know where else to post, just have a lot on my chest.Dude you got branch swung. Classic case of it. You should post this on ask TRP. There are some excellent regulars on there. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Made a Fake Tinder Profile as a WomanI don’t disagree at all. The main thing is like you say, don’t use online as the only thing you do. It is one of many tools in the box. The main mistake I see are guys taking it too seriously and crying and pissing themselves over the shitty percentages. I did OK on it and actually met some of my best talent , but vetted relentlessly thru the stupidity and DNGAF. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/20 01:56 PM |
| 7 | How do I continue forward when I'm just less than a perfect guy in female's fantasy?Echoed on reading the sidebar and ask in AskTRP. Secondly, the fact that you’re able to ID and discuss your ASD indicates that you are well aware that you need to socially put yourself out there and can utilize it as a strength in life. By that I mean : HF- ASD people often have an intense focus and knowledge of their own specific interests (biology, math, science , tech ...whatever) So I encourage you to USE that ability to focus to your ADVANTAGE and smash your challenges and competition. It i… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 02:35 PM |
| 9 | Phew! It's a dumpster fire in the dating worldVery, very astute observation. I probably think and observe this weekly .... | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 18/11/20 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Protip: Don't ignore red flags heres whyFor sure. Took the words right off my fingertips. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/20 07:00 AM |
| 8 | Red Pillers who are 30+ if you were in your 20's what would you do differently?Old AF, mid 50s... There are, of course a lot of mistakes and enough wins but I’ll sum it up to a very brief “big two”: One....big mistake (30’s) was getting myself into a legal contract marriage. Need I say more? Got out of it. Recovery took years but got it. Don’t go there. Bad-bad! Two....big win. Stayed in top or very decent fitness since age 21 through a variety of lifting, cardio and cycling. However you want to do it. Lift, run , crossfit....whatever is fun and will keep you consistent. D… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:59 AM |
| 5 | LTR of 3.5 years asks for a break, tell me to move outYou don’t handle alcohol well. Get a handle on that and the powder, because if you don’t ....it will continue to fuck up your thought process, and eventually looks, well into the future. You should consider this girl “gone”. She was trying to trap you in a marriage. Further: suggested reading: check out Vassy’s “Disney Girl” post. He articulates the oneitis issue (which you have) much better than I can. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Starting to be turned off and jaded toward women age 25+Look man, I’m old AF, mid 50’s and your whole lubrication thing is out to fucking lunch. One of the wettest, bedsheet ruining, freak show broads I’ve encountered....is right below me in age at 48 right now. She’s supposedly menopausal and dry like the Kalahari right ? Well, in fact no....one would assume so but no. If your girl is dry, it’s most likely involuntary (and temporary if you’re on point) That said....don’t sweat the 25. If that’s your mental top line, then don’t fight it. Stick with y… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Best city for residency?That, is a very good question that I often ponder while planning my own escape. I’m ok with warm weather so I often look at Arizona but that may not work for the OP. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Best city for residency?Do NOT come to California... There is a mass exodus from here because the entire state is going down , down , down.... Lots of women here but that’s about it. If you come and get established here, job etc down the road......you’ll end up regretting it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Girl Uber’s to my place ever weekend doesn’t put outAdvance, escalate, move forward....do something | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 01:48 AM |
| 54 | Has anyone ever ran into an ex and was embarrassed that you dated her after seeing how bad she let herself go?Yes! Many multiple occasions over my old ass, mid 50’s years. One in particular I nearly fainted each time we banged back in the day she was so hot...welp, she of course marries money, gets into white powder and walled up faster than an Angus heifer. Point is....get used to it men! The wall does mostly occur....and the way to keep it to your advantage and have CHOICES is to workout daily, and never, ever allow yourself to become a PHAT fuck! Edited for clarity: for a more recognizable breed of c… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | If you had a 40 yr sugar mom approach you, would you accept?Do they have Russian or Czech sounding accents ? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Filed Protective Order Against Crazy Ex. Her wealthy parents retained an attorney last minute. Need help.Short version : her attorney is trying to make a deal to keep from getting her ass handed to her by the judge. Which they will IF you have a strong case and some type of verifiable event (which I assume you do). A no contact order is common be nice language to keep people from having a record. *Source: suicidal BPD ex in my front yard at 0300 so, been here done this.... | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 04:17 AM |
| 73 | Older guys who fuck younger girls now but didn't have much luck in earlier years: what changed for you?Mid 50s. “Younger” for me right now is 36. I did okay in my 20s because I had the party pad, hot new job and toys....not as good as I could have though: The overall of what is quite honestly a Pandora’s box of answers is: “We now know what we didn’t know then..”....which propels us old bastards to execute with women more accurately and often. Do NOT grow up to be a PHAT fuck, men! The older you get the better it pays off. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys come at my table while I was with my girlfriend, how should've I reacted?You did fine, he left after you told him. You pretty much held frame. It helps to maintain eye contact with the fuck tard if there is ever a next time. Mostly, they will stand down. In today’s world in the US, you’re actually much better off if they initiate physical contact. Win in court and haul the GF (or, her replacement if she fact knew these clowns- which would come out in court ).....to vacation on their dime . | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys come at my table while I was with my girlfriend, how should've I reacted?Seconded Get in a witnessed fisticuffs nowadays and the ensuing court procedure is much more painful. Especially if you take the que and start off the teeth folding. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Never Put Kids FirstCorrect! Lead from the front basically. If you don’t, you are buying yourself a very expensive whale as well as feeding and sheltering your own last named future welfare recipients | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 2 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?Well young man, you’ll be done often because when you find one that doesn’t shit test, hamster or bitch.....better reach down to see if he still has a penis or went ahead and did the change already. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?Does anyone else find her behavior abusive? Meh...depends on the full context. Me being a huge shit talker, I would welcome it as “game on bitch”, push her buttons and as long as she is otherwise behaving/ sexual and non-cunty in other regards...it ain’t no thang. But, if she’s a consistent outright angry bitch then yeah I agree with you guys...time to eject. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 56 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?Word. Every time | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 312 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?You are, inadvertently doing what we call dread gaming her. Not a bad thing. By upping your physique (value) she intuitively feels the hamster fearing future competition. A response to her tits comment might be “Oh yeah? Well if you behave nicely I’ll let you play with them...” something along those lines Most importantly, never ever stop working out. Don’t allow yourself to become a PHAT fuck as you come up. As you age, your physique will become more valuable (both for living life and women). | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 4 | Non-married men 40+ years old: how is life? I'm deciding if I should ever get marriedMid 50’s. Married in my 30s but got out before the ten year mark. Lost about 35-40% of my then established wealth but thanks to the growth of the stock market - I recovered. Dating/sex/ relationships/social life has been fine. Career unaffected.... Don’t sign up for a legal contract marriage. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned.So, reading that, the next time she or some other chick wants you to beat off on the phone, and that happens to be the first sexual dialog she has with you: how will you respond? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 4 | No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned.It’s not sexual rejection. You would be requiring her to stop the online dick tease .....and show up for the real thing. Beating off on the phone to some chick who holds your frame and has you doing tricks for her.....ain’t the real thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I do not feel the urge to explain myself anymore: a sign of maturity or sociopathy?Not unhealthy at all. In the case if the camera operator: sounds like he’s your employee or at least a subordinate. The dumb ass shouldn’t be debating jack shit with you in the first place. In the case of friends argueing/ debating, sometimes silence is golden. Always remember : the guy who loses his shit first, loses... | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Don't shit where you eatdeleted | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone had success dating in their 40's?Yep. Better than HS, and my 20’s (well....most of it) , deff better than my 30s (married). So yeah, 40s was like a new dawn armed with better knowledge, game, and a full libido. Currently mid 50s and still full speed ahead. Don’t grow up to be a FAT fuck and you’ll be banging like a wild man well into mid age. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Fixing a milfAgain, depends on how much of a rapport you already have with her. We don’t have a good visual of what type of contact you’ve already had with her, ph calls VS text. So, go with whatever you’re already doing. And yes, you probably are overthinking it, which means you’re not outcome independent (yet). Find more MILFs to get with and read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 9 | Fixing a milfYou’re leaving a lot of context out that would help us answer you better but if she’s already supposedly into you, the good news is you’re absolutely correct by not over texting her. Less is better. Next: wait a couple days (or if she contacts you) do this: you invite her (in essence “tell” her) to go with you somewhere that you’re already going/ doing. Do NOT ask her on a date. You are inviting her to something you’re already doing. Huge difference because you are LEADING and not requesting. Th… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Toxic masculinity. Or not?Seconded. New age “man =bad” bullshit marketing for the masses basically. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 22/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Did I dodge a major bullet? Ex-LTRYes. Her circumstances are of course unfortunate, but yes indeed you did. It is difficult to pin down lies by omission but the best start is, screen with vigor for Daddy’s issues and avoid from there. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Possible to be redpilled in a relationship?You make that exact choice on your own. Or, have an open relationship | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Possible to be redpilled in a relationship?Exactly. This is why you A: don’t slip on the fitness and become a fat fuck, B: continue to run some game and have backup (plates) and C: be mentally ready to exit if need be. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | What's the best strategy for a man who wants kids but doesn't want marriage?I hope your post gets read as this is the most bombproof asset protection plan around. I would add, that one can contribute (stocks, IRA, and good ol cash) to their parents while coming up....rather than accumulating it in their accounts- which would expose it to community property divisions. What gets lost in these convos is that any grade B or better family law attorney can wipe their ass with a so called “pre nup”. Most aren’t worth more than the paper they are printed on, yet guys are duped … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | One girl sent me a picture of her and another friend of hers (also a girl) and asked me to choose one. Best answer?Assuming (?) both are attractive to you (YOU being the operative word here) then: “Depends on who shows up first at ______ on/at ____ (time -location ) “ | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with cockblocking girl in groups when cold approaching + tips?Someone has to run diversion with the cockblock/fat/ loud chick while the rest of you kids pounce. This entails one of you to be the designated cockblockEEE and willing to close the deal at all costs with the unthinkable. Back in my day we took turns. Above all, choose your bro friends well and none of this shit will need to be spoken. Bring lots of towels and cheap booze when it’s your turn. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 7 | Walked away from a girl who disrespected me instead of giving an apology she’s the one mad at me?Yes. Bang her friends or sister(s) instead. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | LTR has a guy "friend" whose SMV is higher than me, how to deal with this?This is spot on. OP should follow this to the letter. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl falsely accused me of abuse. It's been affecting my social life.You file an online PD documentation of the entire situation, with details, pics, screen shots etc......so that when she kicks it up a notch (or if) , you have a documented history of bullshit from her that will assist you in court. Yes, I have been to this extreme and yes it works. Fuck the small town local shit and what they think. Get your story in the right hands (law) before she does . | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | A Good Man’s PlaceThe good news is: you apparently acquired all of this while fairly young. If you end up divorced, say, before 35ish.....you’ll still be able to reacquire enough personal wealth before retiring (if you lose the standard divorce “half”) So, time is still on your side for risk. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 08/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 10 | Need some older male advice hereIf he drops the ball and shits the bed, yeah. He doesn’t strike me as a dumb fuck though. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 281 | Need some older male advice hereLife is a motherfucker and it’s how you grab the ball and run with it. So far, if you’ve gone from poverty to Ivy League you’re on point..... just don’t drop the ball. Secondly, it sounds like you’re well on your way to being a self made man. You’ll end up smashing all the silver spooned Daddy’s boys in life skills, women , career etc....because you are NOT silver spoon fed. Patience, this will happen. I repeat, plow forward and don’t drop the fucking ball ! | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Should I stop fucking girls with BPD entirely, or just not be emotionally invested?Or, suicidal threats on your front lawn at 0330. Yes it happened | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Man child checking in.Seconded. Dude has no idea how much overall talent he can reel in IF he wants those experiences. I hate to see a guy like him with his mindset ....give up after a mere 12 ho-hum warm ups. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 07/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Man child checking in.I think you guys read that I’m suggesting he get in another relationship. Not the case. What I’m saying is he’s in a prime place to get his brains fucked out regularly, with much better talent. JMHO, but very good sex (which he clearly hasn’t had) trumps permanent masturbation. I would hope he capitalizes on it. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 07/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Man child checking in.I totally understand the message of your post , have the visual and kudos to you for the awakening , BUT: If you’re 50, young looking, even lightly fit , groomed , clean and have your mental shit together, with the ability to roll out a little game....those 12 non events can easily become a warm up of what you apparently haven’t experienced yet. If your libido warrents it and you can keep up with them, you’re in a very , very good spot right now. Just sayin’ | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 07/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | In the end, what's the point of relationships ?Granted it is an exercise of the mind and is not so black and white. But yes I have been able to accomplish this, maybe moreso to being an old goat and learning the hard way and having practice. Balance....is the key. Your OP is well written and it would seem you would get where I’m coming from Having a deep internal understanding and acceptance of walking away if needed, is the best tool in our mind’s arsenal 👍🏻 | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Is this the Truth ??Enthusiastically nodding my head in agreement * | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | GF rejected sex today.Stop hinting. Got backup? Plate (s)? Why not ? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | In the end, what's the point of relationships ?As usual, the answers are a gray area. AWALT, conditional, don’t share feelings etc....are GUIDElines to apply and temper to the individual you are dealing with. These and other RP general rules are simply things to be aware of , memorize and utilize accordingly along with a strong internal frame. “Relationships” can be had as long as you are willing to walk away mentally (frame) clear from it. The sunset analogy is a good way to put it. Always be willing to walk away, and for God’s sake do NOT … | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 05:10 AM |
| 2 | 48M Should I start banging single moms?Yes. Time is enevitable and I’m slightly amazed you made it to 48 without it being a regular occurance. That said....just avoid their kiddos unless you plan on taking them over . | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys say when you're asked by a girl if you're single?“At times, yes ....depending on whose interested” | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 5 | My girlfriend says she is okay with me having sex with other girlsYes. Call her bluff and do it. Thing is, don’t brag or tell her. Fade out and for Gods sake end the “stipend”. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | 7 days vacation, 40 approachesNothing offends me and I actually hate rats. Women tell me all the time about you. Please, pass along some of your cocksmanship skills for our future knowledge | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How To Spot the Leftover Woman.Accurate post. I fell for that entire scenario, or at least portions of it about 25 years ago with “The One”. Took a minute and a buck or two to untangle myself. Good news is...there is a horizon beyond the E phase. If you young guys don’t allow yourself to become fat fucks and maintain your shit...it only gets better. Above all, follow the OP’s list | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 17/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 9 | I (34F) fucked all the drug users and paid for everything. Now I’m old and I’m not putting up with it. By the way, I’m a size queen so you better be good in bed.Good Lord. I’ve had 3 high quality IPAs. Can’t find my glasses but caught enough of her big shoulders, stupid fuckin buzzkill politics, then the tired of being Alpha.....oh then something about student loan debt. Does she not smile or did her ex not pay off her braces yet(?) Kids. Get yourself a nice, fit, motivated MILF who is above and beyond this Epiphany phase used car salesgirl...bullshit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | What I have learned from dating after 60Glad to hear! Keep up the good work, and posts 🍻 | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/20 04:36 AM |
| 12 | What I have learned from dating after 60That was yet another positive and usable write up. It was clearly evident when I divorced mid 40s that dating was going to be a candy store. Now, I’m constantly telling my young pup co workers that as long as they don’t allow themselves to become fat fucks, avoid legal documents, and maintain a usable amount of game.......it will just get easier and easier. And it does ! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 10 | i cant get the ones i want and i dont know why heeeeelpDuly noted and good post. Had no idea.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Finally ready to settle down at 42yrs? Well it's still not too late. Well step right up gents. This princess is a deal of a lifetime!All stop at “NO RANDOM HOOKUPS!” First thing on her “don’t like” list is _____ ? No elaboration needed I would hope | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Social Exchange Theory: Implications & ExamplesExcellent post for those who take the 10 to read and absorb. Many of the points are applicable to everyday life for both young and (cough) old . This is good content in comparison to the “how do I get laid/ become “Alpha” whiney bullshit of late.... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 6 | Mother of 5 looking for a new husband, but must be ok with her being 'friends' with Chad.“I’m not the one whose going to jump in the sack and be another bitch on your belt” Bettin my next stock dividend check, she’s just tellin it juuuuust like she’s promising to be....fucks wildly on night one for the right bank account or trust fund boy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | 47F, divorcee, jumped back on the CC. Why can't she find a good man?Saw this one elsewhere. Red flag one: “gone on a LOT of dates”, two: “it never goes any further “ three: “there has only been oooone man, blah fucking blah” Comically depressing..... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | New to this and a mother of 3? Press X to doubt.Black tank top hanging down straight = classic big tire hide | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/08/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I honestly feel overwhelmed with the amount it takes for me to be attractive to womenStep one: STOP thinking about what girls judge about you. Fucking STOP! Have you comprehended the sidebar ? Go re memorize the sidebar. Step two : STOP making excuses about fitness , height, dick size not being enough this or that, arms, chest , whatever. You DO what it takes to achieve the fitness results YOU want. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The error of GentlewomenIf you have to brag about anything , you’ve already “lost” | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 18 | What the fuck do you really want?This ^ In fact when I read through some of the lower quality stuff, I often wish there was a sidebar comprehension test before one can post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | Why you should never show emotion in front of a womanHaving been present during or immediately after the deaths of hundreds of people, including numerous children unfortunately, I can say this: there is no right way to respond or “man” up to it. They lost their kid and although she is a bitch about it, both of them will be completely out of their minds for a long time. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Narcissists, BPD, and YouFor sure. Nothing is absolute. I found that many of the traits and descriptions all kinda blend together both in what I saw and with later study, comparing those , etc | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 15 | Narcissists, BPD, and YouGood post! Can speak directly about BPD in particular. As mentioned these will fly under the radar and are often not ID’d beforehand. The one I was ensnared with was 22 + years ago and there wasn’t a whole lot online or other info about them at the time. It was a difficult long process involving the legal system to get away from this girl. It’s a six pack minimum to describe the experience, it so I’ll cut to what I hope may be useful: Some points to assist in ID’ing one very early on, in advance… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | How to soft next on the spot: STFU and EJECTGood, applicable post. Doesn’t matter where you are in life. Always calmly maintain your standards, explain nothing .....and play it cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 80 | How the Redpill saved me from a toxic SJW.Young man, have you been to the doctor to get your dick and bloodwork checked since the last time you swapped DNA with this disaster ? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I see your Relationship Advice Post and I raise you another: Man lets wife move another man into his home!If it’s a no fault divorce state, no. Half of his assets obtained during the marriage are gone or will have to be negotiated to keep more than 50% | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Read This and You’ll Never Struggle To Lose Weight AgainWas expecting a link at the end to purchase a fad diet or nutritional book or vid. None to be found so kudos to the poster for this very good info | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/20 05:54 PM |
| 62 | Post taken from relationship_adviceYep far from too late. Age 45, kids grown. All he has to do is seize the opportunity. If he stays after this then he is the settler... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study findshttps://outofthefog.website/personality-disorders-1/2015/12/6/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd This one is more thorough | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 8 | Thank youYou describe it well. The legal fees are worth paying for to untangle yourself if you stay the course . On the topic of rebuilding: now is the time to be putting every spare penny into your IRAs, 401s, or favorite stocks. Bargain prices right now that will explode up once the economy goes Bull again. Been here and done this through a couple of recessions and one divorce. You will accumulate wealth and recover quickly. 20 years from now you’ll look back and be amazed over both your education and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | I just learned about HypergamyAt 25, now you are aware and awareness and acceptance is half the battle won. Move forward without going Rambo and trying to achieve quick results. You won’t get them (for the most part). Remember forever as you go forth, that it is the woman who needs to convince you to be her “boyfriend” not you convincing her. Oh...while living in Moms basement save and invest what you can, when you can. Take advantage (albeit temporary ) of the chance to build monetary assets before you lock into mortgages ,… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study findshttps://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.org/most-accurate-article-on-bpd-we-have-recently-read-kudos/ This will get ya started. It is written by a woman and the problem is watered down a bit, but has the basics | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study findsHere’s the thing, if you have even a miniscule amount of value for her, she ain’t gonna lose interest. She is sick . She’s gonna claw in and exploit, leech and suck you (and your penis, and your family members and friends as well- if they have stuff she wants ) dry. Monetarily, timewise, emotionally. You think you can dump one .....until she shows up suicidal at 3 AM on your front lawn a month later. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study findsCorrect. The story and “study” is a bit off in many ways but the message and warnings need to more in the forefront | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 25 | Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study findsKids: learn yourselves up on Cluster B cray cray diagnosis stuff such as BPD. Well worth a weekly or monthly read up or refresher as they will sneak in on ya smoother than you can imagine. It goes way, waaay beyond “don’t stick your dick in crazy” and the ever so entertaining (if not reliable) hot/ crazy matrix vid. If you so choose to fuck ahead of the red flags...get your child support budget built up. Get your local PD’s restraining order log in page saved in your favorites. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | The Problem of MarriagePost script: My astute and expensive attorney reminded me today that one of the reasons I have prevailed in court is due to the fact that I live in a heavily dirtbag populated county. The five (5) workload overwhelmed family law judges have already dealt with hours and hours of felon daddies and legit “wife” beaters by the time I roll in there with dialed documents and my shit halfway together, no prison record etc. I’ve been able to stand there and tell it like it is, rather than be shot down a… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Magnificent Masculinity 💥 : What Boys Need 👦Great read . In regards to #1 : true that boys do well with involved parents. However I would not encourage any young fathering age men to sign up for a legal contract marriage the first place. This slams the door on the entire divorce problem from the gate. A boy can be raised successfully with an involved father, irregardless of a legal contract with the mother. Further, there are many cases where leaving the (for example a bat shit crazy, cluster B ) mother and having the boy in peaceful visi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 24 | The Problem of MarriageVery well played sir. Beer glass clink | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | The Problem of MarriageYep. Vas, that would make me suspicious as well. I’m talking about a single father who has regular access to his kid and has the applicable choice to either lead the kid or bail. I either have direct first person observation of this or have/ am living the experience myself. I have no experience losing my kid in court; therefore I don’t armchair what those guys had to deal with. It’s gotta suck | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 04:37 AM |
| 3 | The Problem of MarriageI think you mis read me or I didn’t articulate it well. My line of thought there was “abandonment” of the kid for whatever (blue pill esque) bullshit the Dad fell for. Abandonment due to drugs, pussy, ADD; whatever . Kid loses a solid male role model and grows up lost. Not to be confused with Femi Nazi blame game. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 4 | The Problem of MarriageAgreed about legal contract marriage particularly for young guys who are naive. Bringing a kid into the world is another thing . If they end up fucked up, 90% of the time the father dropped the ball somehow and it’s his fuck up (not the child ). Yes you will miss out on a lot of ass raising a child even if single, but at least it’s by choice . You either man up and raise the kid and lead or you hunt pussy on any given day based on visitation. Multitask. And agreed it can be done and successful w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Outside their prime age, the situation does not look good for women ...She has an awfully deep voice . Just sayin! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitIf you’re asking me Buch, the range has been from age 39 to 55 over my past 9 years of being reborn since my marriage. And yes, OLD, IRL all of the above. Win some lose some | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 04:33 AM |
| 15 | Ran into a girl from high school I used to orbitAs another old guy, I concur . The wall is to our advantage and as an old guy who still is gaming and banging like no tommorow the MILF crowd bestowed upon me.....I can say that most HS or College hotties will in fact grow into overated pigs. This is as old as the hills and we have all been there. Keep your shit, game and act together no matter what age you’re at. The best women are much, much more talented in bed and otherwise after some wall and life hits them and they maintain shape and motiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/20 04:13 AM |
| 8 | Girls who have guy friendsTo answer your question: yes these types of girls (usually) are more suited for short term relationships, flings or hookups, rather than a LTR. Don’t ask about her orbiter “friends” and don’t allow yourself to become one either . You’re not being insecure by erroring on the side of caution. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 28 | How to Learn About Your Woman’s Sexual History to Properly Vet Her for an LTRYep. In fact it may be a bit old school (I’m old and qualify...) but I have found that by being silent about your own history/ recents or whatever...is the best game of all. Keep all of them wondering forever. Further, If the girl in question is a whore it will be abundantly clear to you soon enough without any beta needy whiney interrogation on your part. Silence is golden here.... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/19 05:33 AM |
| 22 | So let's talk about the newly divorced older dudes.I was one of those who was in the happy to be divorced -fresh out of jail mode. Attitude is everything and although I hit the ground running at age 46, there were plenty of face plants. Never letting those get to me, and always remembering back how shitty my marriage was, is what got me back in the correct frame. I found that the hottest women (who are non cougars) in my age range have a short supply of fit men to choose from , so remaining fit has been a side blessing. Overall - spot on post . | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game?I’m early 50s. Have been back in the game about 8 years now. Have been maintaining fitness for 30+ years largely due to my job. I’ve mentioned this here before guys but I can’t impress upon you enough to stay fit and don’t become a lazy fat fuck as you age. You never know what playing field you’ll be on in 10–20 years. Being the rare ish fit old guy has helped my so called game by leaps and bounds and I have been able to live many of the dreams of ladies I wished for when I was miserable/ marrie… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who look way younger than your age, what benefits do you experience?In my early 20s it was a detriment because I still looked like a high school sophomore . Now, some 30ish years later, and having been divorced for a number of years now.....it’s a huge benefit. I digress from the topic a bit here but I can’t stress enough to you young guys to maintain your looks and fitness on a daily basis without fail, forever. Don’t become an old lazy fat fuck. The playing field for women ( non Cougars) is a lot narrower for the high quality / minimal wall hitter women as the… | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 10:36 PM |
| 20 | How my 2.5 year LTR Unicorn was actually a Wolf. Heartbroken but thankful for the Bullet dodged.You got off easy with just an RO in the end. Now is the time to enjoy the shorter work week and the six figures. Plate and bang her friends if you must... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 13 | How my 2.5 year LTR Unicorn was actually a Wolf. Heartbroken but thankful for the Bullet dodged.Took the thought right out of my head. I did the whole married/ kid deal with a cluster B. 8 years after the marriage it’s still a full on court war. This kid got off easy with just an RO | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Wife being nice during separation?“While you’re there” | /r/askMRP | 08/09/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | College class is filled with all women. Should I not shit where I eat?It’s a target rich environment and you should be open to fire at will.... | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 01:23 PM |
| 5 | If a LTR says she wants to take a break and it’s not cuz of “us” “just needs to clear her head” what should I think of this?^ this.... | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Can you demote a wife to plate status?As a fellow 50sish old nasty divorced dude myself.....I almost choked when I read “FIVE day jury trial”. I hope peace has long come ..... | /r/askMRP | 18/08/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Ex wants to send me my stuffThank you for your service. If you backslide/ initiate contact / take items back......you lost frame and she will own your beta ass until she branch swings up (again). Good luck son. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Ex wants to send me my stuffI’m in the no response camp. Like she doesn’t know your fucking address. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Texting: Validation and FlakesI had the experience you’re describing a few years ago during trial and error whoring and banging after my divorce. Granted I’m older and was/ am dealing with gals in their 40s, where we all grew up pre smartphones and texting...voice calls are more familiar territory for the group. It was easy to expose and dismiss the social media whores after a bit of experience. So that said, plus the fact I live about 30 minutes one way from my hunting ground.....I always make a quick phone call. I can asse… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Being strong makes her wet (FR)Makes sense. Good work | /r/askMRP | 02/05/19 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Being strong makes her wet (FR)I’m old as fuck with a bunch of mostly recovered injuries, including a herniated back disc (L5) when I was 26 y/o. Question : how do you even “think” about doing weighted squats whatsoever while recovering from this? No judgment and not talking like an internet tough guy here....just genuinely curious ?? | /r/askMRP | 02/05/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Frame and Game | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Tips for BPD? (Is it always obvious?)My experience with my BPD ex wife was, no she wasn’t obvious. What BPD’s will often do is in the beginning is act out a really nice audition phase to make a believer out of you, then once you’re committed (or in my case trapped in a contractual marriage) ....flip the script and let out the paranoia/ control freak zombie in her. What you’re seeing now with yours while you’re rolling in dark triad/ frame holding mode......may be a mere shadow of the total monster within. So buckle down if she does… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 23, 2019Admittedly I have not read this entire thread . ^ Your above did jump out at me though: FWIW, I know a guy who gave his blood relatives cash while he was married to hold just in case. I believe it helped him out significantly once the smoke cleared and everything was done later. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/19 09:06 PM |
| 16 | Raiders of the Lost CovenantVery well articulated. Like many, I married one of those so called Christian women under the false haze of the Convenant idea....only to end up on the ass end of a real life contract. I ended up coining the term “Porno Christian” from my marriage, which means: Christian until it (the sin) feels good, gets her buzzed, exploits someone...or makes her money....then God goes is the window until she is “saved” next time (again). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/19 05:41 AM |
| 3 | (28m) My wife (27f) says she doesn't feel sexual desires anymore. Was asked to post this here.This ^ You can divorce after 3 months standing on your head. Oh and the next lady, make sure you learn to get her off. Do whatever it takes and then learn other ways to get her off. Put those in rotation. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test DemeanorDepending on the context and situation of the shit test.....laughter certainly can be an excellent response. Amused mastery ....is the overall mindset in any ST incident. EDIT: I agree with the poster that you win nothing. You’re dealing with a child and the first step there is have your own shit together. | /r/askMRP | 19/04/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Wife escalates with physically assaulting me during argumentsGet the hell out of there. Don’t touch her, divorce NOW and take over the kid with 100% custody . She is 5150 and will eventually be a danger to your kid once he/ she “pushes her buttons”. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/19 12:27 AM |
| 3 | What is the ruling on texting with an ex?No one can make the decision for you. The sidebar material is very good so get over there and absorb. When you get tired of her orbiter ex continuing to try to fuck her, as well her continuing narcissistic attention needy bullshit from him........execute, and live by that decision....whatever it may be. | /r/askMRP | 14/04/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with my girlfriend after she tried breaking up with me 4 timesTime to start banging all of those alleged women you are doing the personal training with. Slightly off topic, for future reference: as a general rule hairdressers are bat shit crazy and or downright flaky/goofy. I’m convinced it’s all the chemicals they’re exposed to. ^ Edit: “Moreso” than women in general | /r/askMRP | 13/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Solipsism and contemptVery well articulated. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/19 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Be a man - Go outside and scare yourselfI ride enduro style mountain biking about twice per week. The mental buzz is like a top shelf line of coke. Have had plenty of co pays and a surgery or two from it over the years but it keeps me in shape and mentally on point. Suffice it to say, I scare the shit out of myself sending it on new downhills.....quite regularly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Plate just flaked for tomorrow night and I'm pissed.Single Moms and anything surrounding special needs kids are moving targets to schedule quite often....but she could be branch swinging upward as well. “Next week “ is kind of vague but you have to be the judge based on the rapport. That said, she needs to initiate the next move and it better be good enough to pull you off your back up plate. You do have back up? Right? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The fallout of saying noSounds like he’s just starting out, so no. The situation I relayed was 8 years in with a kid. Hopefully he will get it handled sooner than I did | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | The fallout of saying noI’m one of the guys with a BPD ex. I also frequently work nights so sleep at home is a premium mandate, especially back when I was married. This will date me but she once pulled the bed time TV /noise manipulation horseshit much described in the OP. After about 15 minutes I walked over, grabbed the disc player with the loud movie she was watching in it , and dumped out the second story window of our bedroom. I think that was the same year I filed for dissolution . Any so called “loving life part… | /r/askMRP | 08/04/19 08:36 PM |
| 8 | 21st century meThanks. Great read. The everything in moderation mentality in the comments applies. It’s funny...many of my fat miserable couch friends are puzzled at my lack of general pro sports awareness and talk a lot of shit (I’m an avid cyclist and just DNGAF) yet when I suggest we go out and run a street game of football or catch?....they run to the ice chest and chips. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/04/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Selection and Existential FearAgreed. Even before I was RP’d , and at my older age, Tinder and Bumble in particular were an absolute ass fest that went on for a number of years. So, I fail to understand Rollo’s thought on that theory. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/19 02:10 PM |
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