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Well yes, if you meet a girl after she's been eyeballing you at a bar is much better than you walking over when her mom is just a few meters away. Doesn't make it impossible tho
/r/seduction18/05/20 09:18 PM
9

What exactly do you disagree with? Texting for ages is bad text game. I did not endorse it in any way ...
/r/seduction18/05/20 09:08 PM
59

Exactly. Literally EVERYONE worth mentioning has used a dating app at some point in their life, it's pretty stupid to generalize over a few bad experiences. Esp by a young op who makes the excuse of "the girl was just visiting town but I got enough validation out of her" It's just a source of meeting women just like any other
/r/seduction18/05/20 07:28 PM
3

Indeed. Most of their "shock stuff" was for marketing purposes. Plus a lot of pua advice actually involves self help anyway. Tony Robin's has 1000x the amount of fans. So it was just a natural progression
/r/seduction29/03/20 02:18 PM
13

Blame the SJWs
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:11 PM
7

This Blaming on age makes no sense
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:56 PM
1

The big pickup purge happened Anyways. Glad that there are still sensible people in here. It's a sad thought not being able to choose the girl you want and then complain game is for losers
/r/seduction17/03/20 05:59 PM
3

Porn does not affect your game. Inaction does
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:11 PM
6

I've personally met Todd and he's a cool dude even if in videos he looks very methodical. Don't follow the sheep, everyone has bad moments He actually played this clip at his opening mastery seminar and everyone clapped for his persistence. He then proceeded to call out everything he did wrong and it was very educational
/r/seduction24/01/20 11:54 PM
2

Numbers my friend. The more girls you see the more experience you get. Girls that match better with you will stick around
/r/seduction03/01/20 04:01 AM
1

Many things can happen, a lot of which outside your control
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:54 AM
1

How do you differ FWB approach from any other approach??
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:38 AM
1

Well if a girl gets disappointed for bad sex then that's a reason to not meet again
/r/seduction03/01/20 02:46 AM
1

Another reason to get social media, they are bound to post a few photos that will give them away If they don't have any clear pictures then just next their ass
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:30 PM
15

Lol I imagine the same but poor people giving finance advise onpersonal finance subs
/r/seduction05/12/19 10:56 PM
1

Meh votes on this site are meaningless
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:09 PM
1

Well sure but after pulling to your place you're not gonna chat with the girl for 6 hours before closing
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:08 PM
2

I never pick up the phone and I'm a dude If texting it's much better to do it on Instagram where the girl actually sees the cool 💩 you're doing
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:56 PM
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He said socials before number tho, which is true And 7 hours face time? lmao even dudes in the Game were pulling in less than half that time. The main reason why a girl regretted sleeping with you is if the sex was terrible
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:50 PM
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Not just that but OP also fails at optimizing text game judging by the "extremely time consuming". I can spend 5min max a day on tinder and get results Good text game is a skill too and works the numbers instead of being a time drain
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:48 PM
3

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You don't need to fuck everyone you talk to
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:42 PM
3

What exactly makes you high value?
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:52 PM
1

Yea I only use Instagram. Chicks usually respond to my stories Plus you can easily view who checked out your stories and proceed according to interest
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:43 PM
6

The first correct answer That's why social media is important. You don't want to be texting non stop, in the beginning you wanna strike while the iron is hot and close her. Afterwards maintaining is just a matter of sending her cool shit. If you do it on Instagram then it's a bonus because she can easily check you out without you seeming needy
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:11 PM
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It's a useful skill to have. I never said it wasn't. But you can do pickup fine without it, seen multiple dudes do it I don't know why you keep downvoting me for indulging in your argument tho
/r/seduction05/11/19 10:26 AM
0

Don't try me bro. Why you offending someone who's more swole than you Yes I did. It wasn't worth it
/r/seduction05/11/19 10:00 AM
0

Cool, what kind of fighting do you practice? Not the questions but I sent you a high value video and you just ignored
/r/seduction05/11/19 09:28 AM
1

Dude you didn't even watch the video. You can be in any fight but if the other dude is an actual fighter then youll get thrashed. I'm done with this argument He says lifters get more pussy than fighters so all your arguments are invalid
/r/seduction05/11/19 09:07 AM
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Maybe Luke took some Kung Fu classes. I have no idea Ufc (with a shirt on) - they don't look like they can fight. They can Bunch of ripped guys - they look like they can fight. They can't Relevant educational video https://youtu.be/YAXaCmky4Hw
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:58 AM
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I don't think he has a choice lmao he defo is unable to run away. at most he would just curl up in a blob of fat and hope help comes quick
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:50 AM
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Only a tiny fraction of dudes actually know how to fight tho And I think you're mistaking having a strong frame with karate skills. You can be a fat useless dude like rsd Luke and still say no to her every single time We are not in caveman times anymore man
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:39 AM
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I go to the gym not to pickup girls at the gym but because I like it. I play video games not to pickup girls in games but because I like it Op specifically wants dudes and telling her to go hike is nowhere near remotely efficient for her goal
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:50 PM
2

I never been to Austin. In the US I only went Miami, NYC, Vegas, San Francisco, LA and San Diego. All with widely different types of crowds in clubs Note I didn't say hiking is stupid. I said going hiking to meet women/men is stupid. The volume is so low and often times it's just creepy to walk to someone.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:34 PM
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Generalizing people you don't know is never healthy. All kinds of people go to all kinds of venues I never shot down anything. But hiking does sound stupid as even popular hiking spots barely have any people in it. Putting yourself in locations with high volume gives you better chances
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:27 PM
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Op specifically mentions no dating apps Just because you fail at socializing in real life doesn't mean other people are all the same. If all dudes are ditching your friends after one night then that says a lot Plus funny how you bash clubbing but suggest apps
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:21 PM
0

Lmao dude fighting and pickup are unrelated skills Would be funny seeing Rsd Tyler and Todd duking it out tho
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:13 PM
34

Getting money or getting fit does not solve all your problems. But it helps
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:24 AM
3

If you're not aiming for a close on the first date then you're dating with a handicap
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:18 PM
2

Don't put the girl on a pedestal, if you put a facade just to impress her then that's really low value. Stick to what's worked for you
/r/seduction24/09/19 12:19 AM
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Exactly. If you can't offer more value than some random song/her phone/some random tile on ground that she is blankly staring at then don't approach Unless you look like you're trying to beg or sell something then most of the times they will take their headphones to give you a shot
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:25 AM
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Netflix, gaming and sex
/r/seduction04/09/19 07:53 AM
1

It sounds like it but no, girl was super conservative. Plus I'm not gonna go for a drunk girl
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:27 PM
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Lol congrats on going to some rats ass completely homogeneous and close minded country and finding the 10% of girls who like foreigners I've been to Belgrade 3 times for work. In one of them I thought I had scored a huge catch. Girl agrees to come to my hotel lobby with probably the biggest cleavage I've seen on a first date, but then comes up with conservative crap like she'll only sleep with a dude if it was her bf after a month, well no shit I'm literally leaving the next night and was clear …
/r/seduction19/08/19 02:12 PM
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What?
/r/seduction18/08/19 10:02 PM
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"hey let's hang out at x place (near your place)" If you're writing an essay about her on the internet you clearly need to find other girls tho
/r/seduction15/08/19 01:08 PM
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My list: 1 - be hot 2 - make money 3 - be cool and chill 4 - good in bed
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:26 PM
0

Blabla
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:03 PM
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No one cares
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:59 PM
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Go learn english. There was no point at all. Thanks for reminding me why I don't date Spanish at all: besides poor in money and in English, also low IQ
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:42 PM
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You're* 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't believe someone is trying to be a grammar Nazi and still fails at it You're = you are You are mom is dumb.... Makes no fucking sense
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:38 PM
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Your mom is dumb
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:35 PM
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The only reason that I see why people aren't free to move on is if they are in scarcity and have no other people to have sex with. But in this case the scarcity is what causes unhappiness, not the crappy sex
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:15 PM
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Ermm why would it be a regular occurrence if it's unsatisfactory? I get that people are afraid of change but we're talking about casual sex, not a relationship. That's the basic premise of it, that people are free
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:01 PM
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Wouldn't that be tied to the experience depending on the other person instead of the act in of itself?
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:12 PM
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Not sure what you're trying to prove with these answers I wouldn't imagine someone would engage in casual sex just to be unhappy afterwards
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:27 PM
4

Take the girl to the closest bar where you live, plant seed along the date, don't take too long to pull the trigger
/r/seduction05/07/19 07:31 AM
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I'm the first one to say don't shit where you eat but op is a kid so most likely he works in some meaningless job for some extra cash Valuable life experiences are far more important than some extra cash
/r/seduction24/06/19 07:44 AM
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r/woosh
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:10 AM
79

When I saw 100 pushups I was disappointed you didn't follow up with 100 situps, 100 squats and 10 km every day
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:02 AM
54

You don't go to women for dating advice for a reason
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:36 PM
-7

Do it over and over again. Take ideas from porn I was a near virgin till 25. Now after getting good at this game and sleeping with over 100 girls with so many different tastes I frequently get compliments on my bed skills Even then there are some girls whom you just can't please.
/r/seduction15/06/19 10:35 AM
2

While I defo still suck at cold approach, I still have made some pulls with it. Without getting tinder dates I would never succeed at progressing girls I meet through day game since you do need to take them to a date location Now that the golden tinder days are over. I'm grateful I've mastered my dating process
/r/seduction08/06/19 06:10 PM
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The pub downstairs. It's shocking how most people even think about anything else other than logistics Scenario 1 - you and the girl get along, quick 30 second up the stairs Scenario 2 - the girl sucks and you waste 30 seconds going back upstairs Bonus - girl is late so you can actually stay at home doing stuff as opposed to derping around waiting at the date location
/r/seduction08/06/19 04:47 PM
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If it wasn't for tinder I would never get the volume of girls to get good at dates
/r/seduction08/06/19 01:38 AM
0

Lmao you sound butthurt Personality is shown on a date, not over text but I assume you wouldn't know that The girl should put effort too, it's a 2 way dance
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:20 AM
1

And waste more than 5 seconds for every girl while only marginally increasing response rate? Nah people have lives (or should have). This way also screens out girls who are time wasters/not really interested
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:17 AM
1

What will this accomplish?
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:15 PM
3

Which opener you use then
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:12 PM
3

I got financials, health and dating down but I'm struggling with the porn lol
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:23 PM
3

I upvoted him tho 😂 I only downvoted OP and the dude that said people need to tailor every message. Who got time for dat
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:19 PM
4

Lol this is Reddit where 90% of people come to argue and disagree with everyone else
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:18 PM
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I didn't say corny shit, you come up with a message funnel and you put that shit on copy pasta repeat
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:10 PM
14

Guess what, they will also cringe at the 2625th dude opening with some variation of hey what's up They will roll their eyes at the 20th dude opening with the same remark about about her photo Girls that really like you will reply almost regardless of the opener. It's about wasting only a fraction of your time and energy to optimize your results vs completely tailor every single conversation just to maybe get 10% more closes. Wasting time is obviously OPs problem that he can solve by being more c…
/r/seduction11/05/19 10:59 AM
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Not to mention that just with a daily dose of copy pasta you can just reduce all your texting time to less than 3min a day Or that you can even.fit some swiping in between workout sets of you are really worried about time
/r/seduction11/05/19 07:53 AM
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This sub is fucking weird. Post gets a bunch of upvotes, top comment is literally saying the opposite of the OP
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:54 PM
1

Move then
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:39 AM
3

How does it go from great date to bad match?
/r/seduction07/04/19 08:44 PM
1

An anti game post being up voted on a game sub shows its quality
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:24 AM
0

Taking a higher market share is taking customers from the other side. When you post stuff on your IG it creates the same effect
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:40 PM
0

So you're saying that Samsung shouldn't try to promote its product to not make Apple sad. Got it
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:33 PM
2

No it doesn't. Picking up a girl is giving her the choice of sleeping with you, whether or not she does it it's on her. A car doesn't have any choice
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:22 PM
3

A girl isn't anyones property tho..
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:16 PM
3

This is relevant https://youtu.be/_sbLiOPvdGY
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:56 AM
0

This is place of free speech. I see something wrong, I don't want newbies to make the mistake The fact that he tried to argue but then after getting downvoted he deleted his post right when I was trying to answer his reply, so that act of pettyness just made me copy what I had written into my post edit. He then got salty and replied saying it wasn't worth a reply as in he has no argument. Perfectly embodying the toxic behavior mentioned But sure go ahead and bash me, idc lol
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:14 PM
1

You too
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:48 AM
-3

Lol I'm ok thanks
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:43 AM
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Lol I don't care about you or OP. Sorry I hurt your feelings
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:35 AM
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/r/seduction24/03/19 11:15 AM
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Yea right. Typical can't admit you're wrong
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:10 AM
1

It should flow naturally into your game just like you are pointing out. We're not trying to be Dan Bilzerian but tis works
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:50 AM
5

Newsflash: you don't even have to post every month
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:49 AM
5

That's one of the reasons yes.
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:43 AM
5

Go look up RSD Maxs latest videos
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:15 AM
10

Stopped reading at social media. You have no clue on what you're missing out Edit: funny how OP replied to this saying it's a waste of energy, got downvoted and deleted his comment. Big karma ho lol. You waste more energy when you engage the number than an Instagram and with much less efficiency
/r/seduction24/03/19 12:32 AM
1

Practice pulling to hotel rooms, toilets if you can't afford
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:53 PM
1

Meh it's just another source to draw water from. Been on it for over 5 years, it's nice when weather is too cold to go out but without copy pasta is too much investment
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:14 AM
1

You wanna game them on a date, not on an app where if she's hot then it's basically a lottery of dudes Once you come up with your own message funnel, yes you may get higher returns from improvising but it pdoes not compensate the time investment. Just copy pasta and move on to do better 💩
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:54 PM
1

Varying openers is a waste of time
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:22 PM
1

A lot of people will sign to multiple apps anyway. I lost count of the amount of girls that matched up with me on tinder, and then I see them again on OkCupid or bumble. Maximising your reach is the correct term I actually think tinders marketing is well done. In London I only see bumble attempting to put ads.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:45 PM
1

I'm saying it does not. Anyone can sign to any free app. The only difference is with the shitty paid apps like match which tend to have older and more desperate users Do you have any evidence to refute?
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:28 PM
0

You're implying girls are different in different apps as if they are more legit Wtf do you even mean by precise strategy?
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:35 PM
1

I'm playing them all the same way and getting results while doing so, and I've done it in America, Europe and Asia. Putting girls on a pedestal just because they come from a different app makes no sense. Your message funnel should not vary depending on the app Online game is online game regardless of where the lead is generated from
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:22 PM
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Im not seeing the difference but then again I don't like coffee anyway? In any app, you're in control with whatever you want to do with the girls you're texting. The app doesn't tell you anything
/r/seduction28/02/19 08:32 AM
0

What do you mean by apps geared towards actual dating?
/r/seduction28/02/19 01:38 AM
3

That's two of the reasons why Instagram is just so much better than number. Actually remembering the person and then keeping it warm
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:54 AM
0

Jeffy and Max
/r/seduction23/02/19 03:14 PM
3

It doesn't matter. My friends all assume that I've slept with the girl by default
/r/seduction17/02/19 12:09 PM
12

If you get friend zone on the first date then sorry buddy but most likely you failed to escalate or just didn't offer enough value for the girl to consider anything more. Take the loss and move on. If you really don't want to burn Bridges then keep her on your social media for the distant future and have her look at your stories. If there's any chance then she'll approach you otherwise don't even bother
/r/seduction17/02/19 11:15 AM
2

I disagree with 10, I've introduced my girls to friends several times and it never impacted anything
/r/seduction17/02/19 09:22 AM
6

??? Who does not live at home?
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:05 AM
-3

Never shit where you eat. Realize that can go south and then it can get awkward at work ...unless you dont really care about your job, in that case go wild
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:27 PM
1

Why would you shoot yourself in the foot like this? Social media is superior to number for a large amount of of reasons
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:37 AM
3

More dudes maybe? Girls still swiping same amount of them
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:45 AM
9

Yeah match volume is significantly down
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:39 AM
1

?
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:25 PM
3

As in higher level girls, girls that you have more interests with, girls that match better with you Thinking that the girl you lost is the one perfect girl is a very negative scarcity mentality
/r/seduction04/01/19 07:10 PM
6

Thats like a fat person saying he can't lose weight. What can I say? Give up then?
/r/seduction04/01/19 06:24 PM
2

Go for higher quality then
/r/seduction04/01/19 05:53 PM
11

GFTOG - Go fuck ten other girls
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:48 PM
0

Well I mentioned Thailand specifically because I'm here for vacation I'm actually living in London and yea you can grow here socially and gamewise just like me. London is a foreigner city so you'll be able to deal with multiple cultures and avoid all religious nutters
/r/seduction27/12/18 08:35 PM
1

Beat advice: if the social environment sucks for you, move to another country. It's a big world out there and if you live in India, Thailand isn't that far away and it's a great country to pick up chicks It worked wonders in my case
/r/seduction27/12/18 07:53 PM
0

A lot of the stuff RSD puts out applies to girls and business too so they actually thank me
/r/seduction16/12/18 10:58 PM
1

Hmm maybe a very slight increase but completely not significant. So far in the last 3 months still only one bumble date as opposed to around 10 tinder dates
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:56 AM
1

Social media: give all the attention without actually losing value, and it works for all the girls instead of just one
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:58 PM
1

Lmao gonna give that a try.... Even tho I'm not planning on replying to the majority 😂
/r/seduction27/11/18 06:56 PM
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Meh I have something like "my mum says I'm handsome. Extremely cosmopolitan, open minded and know a lot of big words. Proud owner of Bitcoin, pot stocks and lover of crunchy nut because that's the best cereal Interests: ( like 10 emojis 🏋️🐶🍱🌮🍣🍺 If you must ask, I'm taller than you" All the lines should be hooks. Girls sometimes bring up one of them. I don't think it comes off as braggy but heard some girls during dates saying they thought I would be more arrogant irl
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:53 PM
5

Well I'm past volume, this was a way of screening out the boringness. Esp on bumble where they are supposed to open If I wanted to sound like a dick I would've said something like "fatties and asexuals need not apply"
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:36 PM
1

Welcome to online game
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:38 PM
3

Plenty of fish is the only one left I think. And it's terrible
/r/seduction19/11/18 04:49 PM
6

Lol okc just turned into a crappier tinder with the swipe thing. Ridiculous that you can't mass text anymore
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:44 AM
0

RSD videos while at work
/r/seduction15/11/18 10:34 PM
31

This is applicable to your job as well, the amount of crap you can say or get away with in your boss's face exponentially increases with how much you value yourself
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:24 PM
1

Is it that bad to have standards..?
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:04 AM
-15

Well you ditch the bad ones and move on Last week I dated someone who was happy as a waitress and had no goals nor anything interesting besides her 6 days per week job. We still had sex but I'm just not gonna see her again
/r/seduction08/11/18 07:10 PM
1

I just say I'm a regular London dude, some interests and if she asks then I'm taller It's actually nothing for a big city. I know dudes who get way more than 10
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:21 PM
4

Can confirm, somehow tinder deleted my bio. The 2 weeks without bio I went from 3 matches a day to less than 1
/r/seduction04/11/18 01:55 PM
1

Lmao this reminds me of the meme "hey RSD my dick is inside her, what do I do now?"
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:03 PM
12

Yep This post can be terrible advice for newbies who just get sorted into the unnapealing beta male friends bucket because they lack value instead of befriending the girl on their own terms. If a girl goes "you're nice but let's just be friends" that literally translates to "you don't have anywhere near enough value for me to sleep with you" Bottom line, befriend the girl if she doesn't meet up to your expectations but still has value. NOT because you went on a date, tried to get her but she jus…
/r/seduction29/10/18 07:24 PM
0

Newsflash that this sub uses as an excuse: looks don't actually matter
/r/seduction25/10/18 12:56 AM
1

Not constant guys opening her A 7 will sometimes get it. A 6 will rarely have guys open her A 5 never had guys opening her
/r/seduction21/10/18 02:56 PM
2

I'm not gonna read a wall of text but I'd say an 8 gets attention from guys wherever she goes. A 5 is plain average and below that she has some problem like being fat or weird moles
/r/seduction21/10/18 02:36 PM
3

Not social circles are scares. Options in social circles ARE scarce
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:21 AM
2

I worded it scarce Going for colleagues at work is desperation. You don't shit where you eat
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:00 AM
5

Cold approaching = talking to someone you don't know face to face The alternative to that is social circle game, which for the vast majority of the population is really scarce in terms of options
/r/seduction20/10/18 09:35 AM
6

Not everyone can do cold approach. In the end it's just better to draw water from all sources
/r/seduction19/10/18 11:51 PM
8

People are mean, suck it up and move on
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:37 AM
1

Dude figure out what you want, if you want to find a S then be straightforward and say it. Girls will be upset because you're sending them mixed signals. If you were single and had a hot chick approach you only to tell you that she's taken then you'd be upset too
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:12 PM
1

Don't get numbers, get the Instagram
/r/seduction23/09/18 10:21 PM
2

Lol you said it yourself it was boring and nothing actually happened. it's ok to fail but learn to accept it and move on
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:14 PM
3

You should check out RSD inner circles on Facebook, they are present in most cities and you can find cool wings there
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:10 PM
30

Catcalling is not related at all to pick up
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:29 AM
5

Lol the topic literally doesn't matter AT ALL I will have an engaging conversation about the anime based on food just because I'm a troll and the girl's eyes will sparkle with interest As long as you avoid controversial and logical shit like politics and Trump then you should be good. With logical I include topics such as quantum physics, I don't care if the girl is super intelligent, you want to engage her emotions, not her logical side And you obviously need to be man to woman
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:48 PM
2

Lying is beta, man up and be real. Trust me it works
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:30 PM
3

Seducing a girl means you are picking her up ..
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:09 AM
5

Lol how did you even find this sub
/r/seduction17/09/18 12:46 AM
6

Lmao debt?
/r/seduction15/09/18 06:53 PM
0

Dress up, put makeup, get fit, go out and create a tinder profile Simple
/r/seduction15/09/18 06:52 PM
73

Definitely do not waste time looking for the perfect opener, just find a good message funnel and have the tinder leads turn into Instagram follows and into dates
/r/seduction11/09/18 11:55 PM
0

Looks and money don't matter ffs can it finally be stickied? Sure, a guy who dresses like homeless that hasn't brushed his teeth and has paint stains on his face is most likely not going to get far. Although one of my wings can still pull consistently using primark homeless clothes. As long as you get your shit sorted out then you can make it happen. Stop using looks and money as an excuse
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:38 PM
1

Nothing is impossible in game but it's just so much harder to escape the friend zone than simply meeting someone new. You don't want to be the orbiter. Plus you dont fuck up your social circle
/r/seduction09/09/18 05:23 PM
1

Getting to know the girl doesn't mean going on a platonic relationship for 2 years like most newbies are thinking
/r/seduction09/09/18 05:07 PM
1

You misunderstood. Being interested and actually pursuing are 2 different things
/r/seduction09/09/18 05:00 PM
1

Lol more like okc devolved into swipey swipey tinder but smaller userbase
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:37 PM
44

I'm completely skeptical about the Spotify thing. As said (and well said), attention spans are low, no way a girl is gonna go over your playlist
/r/seduction08/09/18 09:52 PM
1

Wtf????? Don't strawman me I'm advocating for HIGH level women with HIGH self esteem. You're the one going for low self esteem girls
/r/seduction06/09/18 11:01 PM
1

Lol you go for low self esteem girls then. One man's trash is another man's treasure as they say
/r/seduction06/09/18 09:44 PM
0

Just sounds like the girl was super insecure from the beginning, Max talks a lot about avoiding girls with low sex drive and low self esteem Once you get a girl that has high confidence herself then she won't break down like that It's a learning experience, now you are better equipped to finding out a better girl so the next relationship will be better
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:22 PM
1

Meh tinder is still pretty good if you learn how to optimize it I will be making a video on how to get the best value time per results soon but basically you want to just spend a few mins swiping per day and then copy paste/automate all your tinder texting to funnel them into your social media
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:23 PM
4

Lol "hey guys how can I sleep with a lot of girls without upsetting girls who don't like me sleeping with a lot of girls"
/r/seduction02/09/18 12:42 AM
2

Oh I used to see money as an issue back when I was a student. I would get to the bar first and order a Coke, then when the girl came I would tell her it was a rum and coke If I didn't do that all the time then I would've been bankrupt. Now that I hustled my way up, I don't find any difference between paying and not paying
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:25 PM
2

Oh I'll shoot the shit with the bartender but because I want to, not because I want to impress her. I'll quickly tap my card simply not to lose the initial momentum
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:14 PM
1

? I don't pay train tickets, I simply walk downstairs for 15 seconds to the bar I dont do it to be sweet, it makes no sense to be sweet to someone you never met before. I do it to just move on with the date quickly rather than waiting for her to find her card/cash and/or have a debate about who should pay
/r/seduction31/08/18 07:55 PM
2

The only reason why I pay for the first round is because I think it's fair that the girl paid her train ticket so in theory we are spending the same amount of money
/r/seduction31/08/18 07:35 PM
2

Check for engagement first, look into their stories and add value by saying their food looks good or they are doing some fun 💩 Don't be the creep commenting "you're beautiful" that they never get back to Eventually you can go share your story "hey this place is the best for X, I should bring you here next time". IMPORTANT: place has to be next to where you live, don't be some of the nerds in here scheduling movie dates across town and then come crying here saying they don't get any results or th…
/r/seduction29/08/18 06:51 PM
1

Ermm getting 2 dates at the same time is kinda advanced. Last time I tried gaming both the girl and her friend, I ended up flirting with the hot friend while the original girl got jealous and cockblocked lmao If you want to get friends then you should probably go for meetups instead of dating
/r/seduction29/08/18 01:02 AM
14

Post cool shit on your stories and send it to them. Just have fun
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:53 AM
2

Dinner is also a bad date because you'll be looking at your food lmao also watching people eating is not a turn on in any way Once you get some experience you'll see. I've dated a bunch of US girls before so it's not like they are any different But if you're not even 21 then it's worse because most likely you'll depend on your parent's cash, take every girl to dinner and cinema and watch your money evaporate. Financials are a big lesson to learn one day
/r/seduction25/08/18 03:02 PM
8

It's a horrible first date because money and logistics aside, you're foccused on the movie rather than the other person. As simple as that
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:42 PM
6

Why would you even take a girl you haven't even held hands with to the cinema? That's like shooting yourself in the foot
/r/seduction25/08/18 09:25 AM
0

You're already on a terrible mind frame. It seems like you're friendzoned from the start, have no logistics planned out and are more afraid of losing her than getting her If you really want her then be direct as possible, throw those statements of intent and escalate You're actually the creepy one by hiding what's on your mind and even considering these things over text. Get more girls in your life and stop being so needy about this one
/r/seduction23/08/18 12:15 PM
5

You either screwed up earning the friends trust or they don't want her to be perceived as a "slut"
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:57 PM
3

Uber yourself without the friends
/r/seduction18/08/18 09:55 PM
12

You're not supposed to keep the girl entertained the whole night, you're supposed to escalate and pull
/r/seduction18/08/18 08:32 PM
1

Well first you should screen and make sure the girl doesn't have anything else to do in the next 5 hours. Worst thing that can happen on planning a date is if there's a time constraint on the girl's part I meant frame as in, getting distracted into the fluff and going elsewhere instead of you own plan. An example, my last date said she was hungry and wanted to go to a restaurant. Instead of going with that plan I just pulled her and got her some instant noodles
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:57 PM
1

The drinking part of my dates are usually between 40-90 minutes then I pull You gotta lead man, if you fall into her frame then either you have the luck of being her exact type making her crazy about you or it's not gonna happen
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:14 PM
2

Yea definitely trust in yourself and that you can pull even if it seems like it's going nowhere. First one was asserting her logistics, you have to seed and investigate that man. Something like "you seem like the type that has some weird collection on your room" can be used to probe for logistics The second one... Just lead man, say "let's go" rather than asking
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:06 PM
4

"see if she wants" that's your problem. Watch the video. There's no need to "do the tap dance on the moon, good enough is good enough"
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:00 PM
23

You don't, objective of tinder is to funnel girls to your social media (or phone if you don't have it), then schedule dates from there The amount of girls that said they are not up for hookups and then in the first date they are telling me to slap them hard and call them names is insane Seems like you are not planning appropriately, watch this video https://youtu.be/j2aS5z6qsLc
/r/seduction15/08/18 01:42 PM
4

Once you stop caring then you know you've moved to the next level
/r/seduction15/08/18 11:22 AM
0

https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDMaximilian
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:46 PM
0

I have a rich 43 year old hot milf on the pipeline but I'd say a huge portion of my age range 18-35 has some form of social media, most Facebook (tho not as active), half in America have Snapchat with the other half Instagram, most in Asia have Instagram and Chinese usually have wechat and Instagram. Europeans a bunch of them are on Instagram but not as much Online is mostly about photos and text game. I have asian, Indian and black friends who do it successfully and pull quite a lot from tinder
/r/seduction14/08/18 09:49 PM
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Haha hot girls nowadays are millennials so unless you're into milfs then get on with the times And no, nowadays business people still text and email, only call if it's something that needs immediate attention (which some random dude is NOT). Not to mention you'll look low value if you called and she didn't pick up Lol at Instagram being for orbiters. Clearly you never done it right. Watch RSD Max or Madison's videos about ig and see what you're missing out
/r/seduction14/08/18 09:22 PM
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I found that if a girl doesn't respond to a funny meme then it's dead Hell even I don't pick up the phone. Creepy dudes calling girls are what made girls super protective about their numbers. Get on with the times and get the girl's Instagram, not number Edit: lmao downvote me all you want, I'll keep scoring off of ig
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:50 PM
45

Ermm.... Then you don't need dating advice, you need to move to a better country first
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:27 PM
17

Instagram. Give the girl a cool video about something you've done recently. Even food works wonders with some chicks
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:04 PM
92

Dude you don't send those texts, just don't. 1 Add value 2 Schedule dates Nudes and fluff are completely unnecessary
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:36 PM
6

Wow 3rd date and not even a kiss yet? You're doing it wrong It's not too early, if anything it might actually be too late and her interest is that your ass just became friendzoned "Going slow" is the same thing as setting yourself up for failure. She doesn't kiss you on a dste, she'll probably kiss and sleep with the dude she met on the following day, especially if she's a high value woman. Be more active and escalate on the next girl
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:03 AM
37

Even just a "it was a lot of fun, hope you get home safe X" goes a long way.
/r/seduction06/08/18 08:49 AM
0

No girls like shy guys. What happened was that you were the safe choice that matched the girl's comfort zone Chinese girls esp will dump pussy dudes
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:29 AM
21

Obviously the guy didn't execute well. And girls throwing this shit test are usually the younger ones who are afraid of being perceived as slutty, defo not self proclaimed cougars
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:50 PM
0

OP you just described 3 of the 4 ways of passing shit tests. The 4th one being misinterpret it, which I can't think of a way to apply here
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:46 PM
1

Hand of God is definite classic Not too sure about starting hunting at 11 and then saying they are all taken one hour later tho
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:11 PM
3

The one I use is "so tell me X, do you drink? Go to the gym? Good at cuddling?" Simple y/n all in one go. You can replace with anything but keep it simple. If she wants to over engage by writing paragraphs then all the better
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:34 PM
0

Is this coaching your business or are you actually doing it to give value? If it's the latter then interested in getting some ideas, mine is @pedro.sama
/r/seduction28/07/18 11:34 AM
3

I disagree with the first few paragraphs. One it's a waste of time to come up with a different opener for each girl, and you can bet a lot of dudes will have replied yes to her inviting people to go for Thai food on her bio. Asking questions is fine if they get the girl qualifying, it is plain boring for the girl if they serve no purpose other than keeping the conversation going. During the date use assumptions rather than questions. Seed the pull during the date with cool stuff you have in your…
/r/seduction28/07/18 10:07 AM
0

Ummmm... Hello The whole conversation is dating more than one.
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:46 PM
3

Girls who are open minded wouldn't mind you seeing her friend at the same time
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:45 PM
10

Use tinder plus beforehand and Instagram close as many girls as possible before you even get there Go to RSD inner circle of that city on Facebook, ask about where to go and also for some wings Enjoy yourself and do a lot of tourist shit your travelling enjoyment should not depend on girls anyway
/r/seduction24/07/18 12:31 AM
1

Hmm well I find it more surprising the fact that guys are not using social media than using it badly. Nowadays if you don't have it then it's almost as if you don't exist at all Take a peek at mine https://www.instagram.com/pedro.sama Girls have no idea what I actually do, since I do a variety of stuff they also are not completely sure what I'm into. Key point is that it actually passively games the girls
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:48 PM
1

Nowhere near as much as texting needy like you point on your post. A few bad posts are not as bad as literally conveying to the girl you have nothing to do but text her
/r/seduction19/07/18 10:21 PM
2

Well if you don't have an interesting life to show then you should be working on that anyway
/r/seduction19/07/18 09:57 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/seduction19/07/18 09:45 PM
4

Texting is only there to set up the date, nowadays you have Instagram to keep her warm. Set up the date then be silent until the day of the date (ideally within 2 days, none of this next week bullshit) Don't be the needy guy, have the girls be needy for you
/r/seduction19/07/18 09:27 PM
1

Well smoking from ass sounds more painful than having sex
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:30 PM
11

Wtf are you smoking
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:11 PM
8

Have sex first, then decide what kind of relationship you want with the girl
/r/seduction18/07/18 12:15 PM
0

I didn't consider filming angles. Of course the hard to tell part happens to me a lot so after deciding I want to open I just run to her side and approach her slightly in front
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:20 PM
1

By the love of Goku do not open from the side
/r/seduction14/07/18 01:06 PM
1

I suck with both Hispanic and Korean lol I do slay the shit with american, Chinese and australian One of my best Korean dude mates he's been dating this Spanish girl for 3 years now and he says his girl is super insecure about losing him. It's all about how you are your own person and just say fuck the stereotype
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:08 AM
2

Yes she is sleeping with all of them, at the same time The bigger the deal you make it, the quicker she'll dump you
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:03 PM
2

Like really pushed hard to fix everything, game, fitness, money instead of sitting on my ass playing PC. Also instead of pretending to know game by just watching RSD videos, I actually started going out a lot
/r/seduction14/06/18 08:03 PM
1

Had nothing going on in my life for 25 years, only slept with 2 girls and they weren't even 5s. Moved to another country, to the city of London, took serious action and now that I just turned 30 my lay count is pretty close to 3 digits
/r/seduction13/06/18 08:37 PM
-3

That's a beautiful theory
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:01 AM
6

I agree with these as an immigrant I went really far to stay away from people of my country. Whenever I find a girl from my country I either pass her to a wing or just walk away
/r/seduction12/06/18 12:14 AM
1

I'd say just for your next level just replace number with Instagram and add anything in between opening and closing lol a slightly solid number is better than a ninja number
/r/seduction11/06/18 08:13 PM
1

Girls literally kiss her friends, assume nothing until you actually have sex with her
/r/seduction09/06/18 06:49 PM
-2

You do what works for you but for me I just aim for the pull on the first date so I don't need for an "evil cooking scheme" to get date #2. If the date was a success then even the busiest of girls will want to meet you again anyway
/r/seduction02/06/18 09:49 AM
3

Instagram is better than a phone number
/r/seduction30/05/18 10:21 PM
2

I just scored a tinder date but will game near Trump tower before she comes
/r/seduction18/05/18 11:30 PM
2

At 7pm still good? Lol
/r/seduction18/05/18 11:28 PM
1

1 - you give her something different than all the other dudes 2 - you make it a win win situation where it's easy for her to go with you and not feel guilty about it
/r/seduction11/05/18 10:40 AM
19

Abundance gives you infinite patience, get more leads then you won't even care if one of them doesn't reply
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:39 PM
0

I got banned from r/Japan for posting a Julien video about letting go of negativity Most subs don't employ free speech, they have Nazi mods who will boycott stuff that they personally have a beef against In fact in the subs listed in the OP it just shows that the vast majority dont know wtf they are talking about. It's either the typical guy who never gets laid or the one who got lucky with someone mediocre from his friend circle. On the relationship one you have a huge onslaught of betas that c…
/r/seduction10/05/18 12:02 AM
1

Entertainment purposes, you don't have to find it funny but the underlying advice is solid If I could pick ONE video from the internet that has gotten me the most results it would be this one
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:16 PM
-2

ohhhh boy Definitely watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j2aS5z6qsLc
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:56 PM
0

Lol tell her you're a Muslim or a budhist 😂 It's not a big deal, if it is then you should prob run while you can
/r/seduction09/05/18 07:38 AM
1

Dude there isn't anything wrong with buying a girl a drink, in fact it's a perfectly good excuse to lead and walk her away from friends If a girl asks YOU to buy her a drink then yea it's an obvious compliance shit test
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:55 PM
8

Dude it's not about getting old jenny back from high school, it's about learning how to get girls in GENERAL so that when the right one comes along you won't bunt Most people have different starting points Some people are just lucky and found someone above their level. Most people instead are just happy with someone below average. Both of these when the relationship fails, you see them go multiple years single and without even getting laid Realize where you are, what are you trying to achieve an…
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:59 PM
2

I've had amazing success just running my usual routine stack and then Instagram closing Just stack as many leads as possible, waste minimal time texting since your social media will passively game them and then when you're there plan dates with the most engaged ones Your opener just screams "hey I'm a tourist can you please give me value?". Not to mention you're supposed to stand out from the locals, not tryhard and speak their language, speak English godammit Last why tf wouldnt a girl want to …
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:26 PM
2

Lol this is new Like the girl says right she's on a taking frame. The "can I talk to you?" Literally screams give me attention and a lot of guys that never been approached will think they are being solicited for sex Being indirect should work perfectly "hey I'm new in this city, where to go to x?... By the way I love your shirt" then transition into normal talk and pull to a nearby venue then to the room
/r/seduction18/04/18 07:14 PM
2

Not really, on a party a hot girl gets bombarded to the point of sometimes not even looking at guys opening her. There's already a negative bias towards In day game it actually shows confidence right off the bat, you dont get put in with the drunkards and losers.
/r/seduction17/04/18 09:10 AM
13

shhh in this sub people think looks and money matter. thus they upvote crap comments that reinforce their limiting beliefs like the post you are responding to. trust me I tried
/r/seduction17/04/18 09:04 AM
2

Breaking news, different forms of game work for different people
/r/seduction17/04/18 08:47 AM
2

So grab one and take her to dance, simple
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:54 PM
1

I assume you didn't watch the video which advocates being social
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:55 PM
1

You wanna be different from the other dudes then act different from them, approach outside the dancefloor
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:38 PM
2

Looks don't matter in game, and pickup at the gym is creepy. With that said, everyone starts somewhere This is a good starting point for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yzjj5SwI48Q
/r/seduction26/03/18 01:52 PM
1

I'm not
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:25 PM
1

Yes I'm poor and ugly so impossible to get girls pls teach me good looks sensei
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:11 PM
1

Is that the year you were born? Anyway nice talking to a good looking guy who fucks all the girls leaving none for ugly guys like me /s
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:14 PM
1

You seem to know a lot about me, I wonder if you got your info about my trip to Zimbabwe through your momma
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:04 PM
1

Haha I feel so hurt being judged by some chode on reddit who fucks girls because of looks
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:58 PM
0

Sure thing, I will keep living my results with my own ugly face Have fun and continue making excuses about what would life be if you had a non ugly face
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:32 PM
0

And I don't give a fuck about your ignorance
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:17 PM
0

Lmao are you serious? I'm directly implying that I have results regardless of looks or money and you tell me to work on my body. ok
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:24 PM
1

150 votes seems normal for this sub. I dont think there are bots involved here the surprise is that even though it says looks don't matter is 88% upvoted. And then you look at all the newbies in the comments
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:19 AM
1

Fine I'll bite your bait. I don't think I've been with any girl who thinks Tyler is good looking, he's a bald ginger midget. Also I never showed girls any other videos of yad or tom to girls and they both look like they have deformed faces but whatever How about RSD Luke and Ozzy? One is fat af and the other looks like a child molestor and doesn't even have clear English
/r/seduction22/03/18 10:16 AM
-1

Only people with no game say looks matter
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:15 AM
3

shame
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:18 PM
21

I've seen a lot of crap upvoted in this sub with dudes thinking looks and money are stopping them from getting chicks Watch this shit
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:18 PM
3

This is a good point, you want to be supporting the venue. In London many places only start charging after 9/10pm so we would go in before that time for free.
/r/seduction20/03/18 04:00 PM
3

As much as I like RSD, I feel the reason why they advocate that is because dudes use it as a crutch to approach and overdo alcohol to the point where they stop learning and just derp around Jeffy himself drinks a lot, I went to his hotseat before
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:57 PM
2

I'm no drunkard either and I consider myself healthier than 99% of people out there (workout 2-3x week but cycle every day to work). It's just that this whole "hurrr I can't drink because 19428141 mPUAs said drinking ruins your game" is totally silly. Todd actually made a video about this after he left RSD (I think it has been taken down) A few years ago while I was just a student struggling with money then yea I would just arrive at the club before paid entry and would have enough discipline to…
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:49 PM
16

I disagree with this whole no drinking BS. It is fucking weird and signals clear as day that you have an agenda First, if you are in an environment made for drinking but instead you're only there to sniper approach the hot girls you'll stand out like a pinata and bouncers will pick you up on this. I had this wingman who got banned from 2 bar/clubs because he never bought a single drink Doesn't mean you need to get wasted either in case someone comes strawman me Even simply saying "hey let's grab…
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:52 PM
3

The responses on this thread say everything about this sub lol Keep making excuses about other dudes being better looking, better than taking action
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:23 AM
1

Why is this crap being upvoted? Guys looks do not matter at all if you don't know what you're doing. Even game can be trumped over. A dude with bad game but great logistics will always have better results than a dude with massive game and terrible logistics for example
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:13 PM
1

Tyler from RSD puts it reaaaaaaaly simple Comparing to baseball you don't just want to bat only when Hershaw pitches, you want to keep improving and getting better the entire time so when Hershaw comes, you will have a much better chance
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:11 PM
14

Dude if you feel like a girl is more interested in murdering you or stealing your shit than sleeping with you then you probably should not be gaming her I've pulled almost 100 chicks and never has anything like that happened to me except for the one time I got Chlamydia from my trip to Singapore Although one time of my wings pulled a wacko and went to the toilet after sex. When he came back the bitch was stuffing her vagina with the cum from the condom that my friend tossed in the bin. She reall…
/r/seduction12/03/18 01:18 PM
2

TL;DR - GFTOW - go fuck ten other women
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:52 AM
1

?
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:54 PM
-1

This sub has a weird habit of upvoting posts with bad information and downvoting good ones. I know what I'm saying but feel free to do otherwise and learn the hard way .3. The main reason why I don't take every girl to the restaurant is because my wallet would suffer. Also I don't think most people live near a good restaurant so they would shooting themselves on the foot by going to some place with terrible logistics. Final reason is that food dates will have the girl focused on the food for a l…
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:50 PM
1

A lot of girls usually make their plans for those days so flake rate is higher plus you can just go do night game instead
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:54 PM
-8

You're doing a few things wrong already 1 - Do NOT schedule dates when the girl doesn't have time. Here it led to a date where nothing happened. 2 - Do NOT "agree with the girl", just specify X place and lead. You do not want to appear indecisive without a plan or worse, agree to a place with terrible logistics 3 - I would say do NOT take a girl you haven't closed to the restaurant, however restaurant downstairs is perfect as long as it's not expensive. If you even skip that and she comes to you…
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:19 PM
4

If you had to wait until the very last moment then your chances are already shit Go hard and direct, you probably wont see them again
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:05 AM
6

Watch videos and try it yourself I recommend this guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obci7c9qpNI
/r/seduction06/03/18 01:48 PM
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If a girl agrees to meet you at your place then it's a done deal anyways and you have to screw it up hard for it not to go down. Also even though you probably didn't physically or verbally escalate, you can still keep the tension with good eye contact and body language With that said, vast majority of dudes lose chances because they never escalate
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:59 PM
1

It is perceived as spontaneous
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:22 AM
1

The opposite my friend, as if I just got a hole in my busy schedule The cool part is so that she actually qualifies herself if she's interested. Latching on is for chodes I just want to make the plan myself. There are 3 outcomes and my follow up: "not much" -> cool let's meet later "I have this thing but not into it" -> yea that's boring, let's meet instead "I have this cool/important/super priority" -> ok cool have fun
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:39 PM
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I agree with the general premise but disagree with the points: 1 - a lot of girls will simply not put the effort of giving out her schedule with a random guy. What I do to effectively mitigate this is saying, "are you doing something cool later?" for the same day or giving her a false option that is convenient for you "I can do tomorrow or thursday, which day is best for you?" 2 - waiting until the day itself or the day before cuts a lot more flakyness and lets her know that you actually have sh…
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:43 AM
0

She felt overwhelmed because you were too needy, just play it cool next time and don't force things
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:38 AM
4

Plot twist, eastern european women are worse
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:37 AM
1

I didn't assume that, not sure how you even read it that way? The guy wants her validation in a needy way far more than he wants her as a woman but whines about not getting it and even goes as far as projecting a long term relationship with just 4 dates where nothing happened. That's creepy to say the least
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:25 PM
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If I asked "What are you doing this evening? I don't have anything to do today," This is absolutely one of the worst ways I've seen to ask someone out on a date. Basically OP just reeks of neediness without much going on in his life Also the advice being given and upvoted ranges from cringey to just horrible. I really am not into just having sex, because looking for a long term relationship so I have no problem with patience, but it's going too slow I can't even begin to explain how much of a te…
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:18 PM
1

They had a date, didn't work out, it's a no brainer to next her ass even without the number rejection. Telling OP to go fuck ten other women is a much better advice than wasting time and energy trying to revive a dead horse
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:21 PM
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Agree with the first part, you're supposed to get the number BEFORE the date. (better yet, get instagram) Strongly disagree with the rest One thing is a girl not wanting to give her number after chatting with you for 2 min on a cold approach, but this is a date. If nothing happened on the date (which seems like it, maybe OP was too passive), and even worse than that, she is not even comfortable exchanging contacts after the date then it's game over pal. The only alternative I see is that she act…
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:14 PM
2

One date is not enough time investment? This is terrible advice
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:11 PM
2

If all it took for the whole interaction to crumble was bad sex then you should next her anyway
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:09 PM
2

The girl who knows you are bad will give you feedback and might even help you improve. This happened to me on my 3rd time The girl who knows nothing will never help you improve
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:03 PM
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I've had many girls telling me their first experience was awful because the guy was also a virgin/really inexperienced so it really put them out of doing it again for months or even years. Whether dude came too fast/looked way too insecure/mistreated the girl/even put the condom wrong, too many things can make a first experience horrible Plus, as a dude you're just not going to be able to perform well if you don't have experience
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:37 PM
2

they technically open the conversation Meaning that she's the one opening and you can just gauge her investment and send something back matching. You don't open her open, doesn't make sense
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:19 PM
1

Neither know wtf they are doing so there's no way it won't be awkward
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:22 PM
1

I would not advise your first sexual experience to be with a virgin
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:49 AM
1

Point him to self help videos. There's so much stuff on YouTube that it's crazy. RSD Tyler's videos tend to be long but they nail a lot of points that newbies need to hear
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:00 PM
4

Good game does not look like game With that said you're not really gaming if you don't show intent
/r/seduction15/01/18 06:42 PM
2

Don't bother, seems people on this thread are too close minded and/or just have sucky social media Anyone failing to see how much safer is a facebook or an instagram when compared to a phone number is just out of touch with reality
/r/seduction18/12/17 04:46 PM
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It's a shit test to ascertain your value, to pass it you can just reply with "cool me neither, looks like we're on the same boat haha so anyway... Let's exchange instagrams". DONT look butthurt angry and DONT give a beta "oh okay..", both of these will make you fail the shit test hard Instagram is so much better than number these days. If you don't have one set up then just go for snap chat instead. Girls will gladly want more people on social media and less creeps texting/calling them on the ph…
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:04 PM
1

If you're afraid of friends you should get to working on that instead of plotting schemes to avoid it. High value girls are frequently surrounded by friends
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:36 AM
1

7 lays over 3 years is nothing at all. I disagree with people saying you learn nothing. Unless you are straight up telling the girl to come to yours, you still need to take the girl on a date and game her. With that said, the more volume you do, the more you'll learn and the higher the chances of meeting really cool girls that you'll want to date for longer
/r/seduction15/12/17 01:13 AM
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There is a huge flawed logic here, women are not looking for vulnerable guys, they are looking for emotional spikes and relatability Walking up to a girl and putting a facade about getting fired and losing a relative is NOT going to get you laid consistently (it still provides the girl an emotional spike tho)
/r/seduction13/12/17 03:53 PM
1

You don't need dirty talk at all, esp not for just kissing
/r/seduction09/12/17 11:01 PM
1

Try on the first date next time rather than having nothing happen
/r/seduction09/12/17 10:20 PM
2

The fact that you state you're not looking for tricks but then say you have no chemistry altogether with the fact that you go for 3 dates with nothing happening then it literally screams passive friendzone guy Escalate and aim for making it happen on the first date. Don't be afraid of pulling the trigger or you'll never get results unless you actually find yourself some low self esteem girl
/r/seduction09/12/17 09:45 PM
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Half of your post literally screams "I shot myself in the foot and am already in the bucket of non sex worthy to the girl" Get out of your scarcity, next her ass and go for the next one. Esp when you're actually scheming for the next 2 months to get this one chick
/r/seduction09/12/17 09:36 PM
2

The only valid answer to this is neither "text only for logistics" nor "keep constantly engaged in text" It's social media Social media allows the girl to see that you actually have a life and stuff going on and it allows you to game passively and provide value without seeking the girl's approval. My flake rate has pretty much gone down to 0 for every girl that I added to Instagram and I've even been able to necromance some completely dead leads
/r/seduction09/12/17 09:18 PM
12

What's even a good opener during yoga. I imagine if you just walk up to one and say "hey you're cute" the entire class will eyeball you hard
/r/seduction06/12/17 08:39 AM
21

Is there a tldr of that?
/r/seduction06/12/17 08:37 AM
1

No one owes you anything that you haven't explicitly agreed on. I went as far as shifting this belief into, "even if they've agreed to it, they STILL don't owe me anything" I expect a girl to flake until she says she's coming and I never feel butthurt this way
/r/seduction30/11/17 09:52 AM
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approaching is shittiest and creepy. It's all about building attraction How can you build attraction without approaching..? I swear sometimes the weirdest of posts get upvoted on this sub
/r/seduction15/11/17 05:19 PM
1

"The moment you've said hi, you already won" - RSD Max This is the best way of getting over your fears, realizing that every interaction doesn't need to end up in having sex with the girl, just a simple hi is a success
/r/seduction14/11/17 12:01 PM
0

This post is pretty good man I'd say that #3 really helps with #1 in the sense that even the crappiest social events can be turned into value just for the fact that you can have other people see you mingling with new faces/ doing random activities With that said I would be up for following fellow redditors and boosting social media Mine is @pedro.sama just drop a DM and I'll follow you back
/r/seduction13/11/17 10:29 AM
1

Sorry man, interesting discussion, even though it seems we keep missing each other's points, but I'm struggling on time because im going on a vacation to south east asia tomorrow (which I added about 30 girls from tinder onto instagram so really excited about it) Not sure if it was intentional, but your messaging here is a little conflicting. You go from suggesting that any guy should suggest to the girl that they are "together." Which equals serious. Then you define "something serious" as "cree…
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:46 PM
7

If she's wearing sunglasses or headphones Fuck that, majority of girls in the city will be on their phone with headphones and possibly on a call. Don't miss out, just go in and say hi
/r/seduction24/10/17 04:23 PM
1

they'll make statements or suggestions that assume you'll still be together or hanging out in the future I will be the one doing that. As a dude you want to seed the fact that you and the girl are together and paint a picture on her head about the value that you can bring to each others lives. Something like "oh you are into smoothies after running? cool let's do that next week!" Sometimes they'll outright state that they want something serious, early on. Ehh if a girl says something creepy like…
/r/seduction24/10/17 08:45 AM
1

About the casual vs serious thing, I really don't know how people sort those out. I had a few girls saying they want to be serious but only after a few nights of casual sex. Which means you probably had an opportunity without the social media and didn't know. (This last sentence isn't a value judgement, just an observation of a possibility.) There is always a probability but I'm confident that a good instagram builds up on that probability more than just a number. Open their profile and check mu…
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:39 AM
1

Replying on my new phone so not sure how to quote stuff. Well real life happens and you can't be on the phone all the time. By posting a cool moment, the girl gets a chance to open you and stay interested even without a lengthy text exchange. Obviously there are 3 types of girls based on interest the ones that are super into you. Just with a number, set up the date asap and she doesn't even need to see your stuff because she's already made her mind girls who are on the fence. Maybe they found yo…
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:42 AM
1

2 - What I used to do before I went hard on IG/FB was to just send a value text once in a while. If you spend over a week without contacting a girl you haven't closed yet then there's a high chance it will just fizzle out, and you want to keep the ones whom you closed, around and warmed up I like posting and sharing stuff, it gives me something to look back upon. I now started writing blog like posts and am seriously considering youtube videos but I'm doing for myself, not for pickup (girls seei…
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:54 AM
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Yea I've seen so many crap posts getting upvoted (the recent "social media is bad" and "you can't find love if you move too fast" come to mind) This one actually deserves it
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:44 AM
1

You're changing the subject. I wasn't talking about indirect game to try to get someone to do something. Social media IS indirect game You can game all you want but you need to game girls even when you are not physically with them or they will phase out, unless they are super into you at which point they will text you regardless social media does just that. Social media conveys value and keeps the leads warm as opposed to just a phone number and a name I'm not sure about your notion of social me…
/r/seduction19/10/17 10:56 AM
1

Social media is like the new phone. You can use it to stay in contact, but you're not meeting new women reliably that way. Depends on how much you invest in it. It is exactly like a farm but when the crops are upgraded you will get girls to text you Actually I started adding girls from cold approach AND tinder/okcupid into instagram and my flakes have gone way down ever since.
/r/seduction19/10/17 08:34 AM
1

1 is total bullshit Social media is a gold mine, how are you going to do your 4 without social media?
/r/seduction17/10/17 01:36 PM
1

what is your opener?
/r/seduction29/09/17 08:34 AM
1

I wrote pretty much the same thing on this sub and only got like 2 comments Anyway yea, in day game it's possible to score much better girls than online
/r/seduction29/09/17 08:33 AM
2

Post random stories ideally one per day, if the girl is interested she will appear on list of people viewing it From there you can just comment on one of HER stories saying something funny, banter a bit, and then "how about drinks with a cute boy tomorrow?"
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:27 AM
2

1 high density area, otherwise I'll just be derping around with no hot girls 2 ideally you want them to stop, but at the same time you do not want to be an obstacle. If a girl doesn't stop then walk alongside her and keep talking. If they are never stopping then there is something inherently wrong with your approach 3 the opener doesn't really matter. Hi, you're cute/like your bag/where's the nearest mcdonalds/ PANDA. You can have the most amazing opener but then what matters is just keep talkin…
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:18 PM
1

One single date does not mean relationship lol nowhere near that A date going "great" is too vague. Did you plan a 2nd date? Did you kiss? did you fuck? Just keep dating more girls and eventually one will stick (or more will stick), do not fall into the trap of putting all your eggs in one basket. I've been there before and the mere thought that the girl that I thought everything was well, her not responding was just shattering in every way
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:52 PM
1

It takes a whole LOT less effort and commitment from a girl to comply with "hey, let's go upstairs, there's mario kart and wine, it's right there!!" than with "hey we need to go into an uber for an 80 minute drive outside the city and btw we also need to split the uber ride" With this said you MUST know for sure that the girl does not have any other commitments after seeing you. If a girl tells me "I can meet you for a quick drink then I need to go somewhere else" then I simply reply with "I don…
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:47 PM
1

lmao that would accomplish the following "redneb, Julio my dance partner told me you cried in front of him, wtf is your problem? At least he understands me, he is a much better guy than you'll ever be, bye"
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:43 PM
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The moment you become afraid of losing her is when you lose her Spying on her private messages is creepy behavior to say the least ...
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:40 PM
1

It IS harder to pull to their place indeed. My closing rate increased 10x moving from my auntie to living by myself I'm curious about your opening though. I've used RSD Jeffy's lines and they worked fantastic for a while, now I'm just using a Hi, but less than 25% actually reply
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:21 AM
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That 90% is wow. At most, I get a 20% response rate. Which is still fine and enough to get a good amount of leads per week. Online should supplement day game and not the other way around Beyond the K Close Just seed cool shit you have at home, walk towards your place and lead. Seriously it's not hard. Any newbie with good logistics will have better results than any advanced guy with shit logistics. You'd be surprised to know that pretty much every girl will be up for drinks and mario kart as lon…
/r/seduction18/09/17 03:33 PM
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I don't see it as desperate, more like an elaborate last attempt If it doesn't work out then I'll let it be, recognize it's not my fault and just go pimp
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:24 PM
5

lmao why is this downvoted Is saying hi rude or people depend on some random pickup line
/r/seduction14/09/17 10:04 AM
10

Like I said, the girl was hot so of course I would get turned on Thing is, I just had sex with a different girl the day before and masturbated same day before meeting this one
/r/seduction25/08/17 12:07 PM
20

I decided to go for the nofap after I almost failed to get a boner with a hot chick
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:10 AM
2

Just remember that you need to practice, and don't wait until you get or buy something. You can just walk out the door and start doing it
/r/seduction17/08/17 12:51 PM
1

I'd say pretty good
/r/seduction17/08/17 09:43 AM
2

Holy fuck this is big Todd is one of the best out there. I went to one of his paid Opening Mastery seminars during a time when I could never open. The inspiration was huge Hope there wasn't any bad blood going on. Looking forward to seeing where things go
/r/seduction16/08/17 11:24 PM
1

It can show up in your body language but the process of verbalizing it is a pure conscious decision get it? Guys should have their inner game sorted out, yes no argument about that. But my curiosity was about what girl would agree on meeting up with someone that has such a negative frame
/r/seduction28/06/17 04:18 PM
1

Umm a conversation is an interaction using your conscious thoughts. You're not going to talk about something that you don't want to. Not sure how you can say something unintentionally
/r/seduction28/06/17 03:41 PM
3

I'm curious as to how one would score a date if those thoughts are inside their mind
/r/seduction28/06/17 03:23 PM
1

You need to ask in the group, then one of the admins can add you
/r/seduction26/06/17 03:20 PM
1

I am. Sometimes I hit oxford street
/r/seduction26/06/17 08:36 AM
1

Actually I pirated Execute the Program but I went to one of his Hotseats and it was a really enlightening experience I also got the Natural by Max and Day Game by Todd, both top notch
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:26 AM
1

Same guy but it's an online product. He's releasing resonator and I'm really excited about that one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F16zmsLk3qE
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:25 AM
2

Very varied. I should approach more but at least I force myself to approach AT LEAST one set even if I'm out with friends. 2 weeks ago I went out alone to a club on a Monday night, turns out it was a sausage fest of a night but I still tried going over every set I could
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:24 AM
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reading and watching videos for over 6 years, only really started getting into it 3 years ago RSD Jeffy Execute the Program average 2 dates with new girls every week. about 3 lays with new girls per month plus the regulars
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:56 PM
1

These all concern the physical side, which is great but not a be all end all A deeper layer would be improving your lifestyle. Hitting the gym and maybe playing a sport would be a boost, other stuff such as scheduling travels, reading books, learning some languages, dances, etc will make your world much more interesting for the girls to dive into. Social media is a quick and easy way to convey the above
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:10 PM
7

I live in London and I do have a bunch of asian wings who get laid like absolute mofos. Same thing with black and indian dudes Basic thing is don't be the stereotype, give them something unique. In RSD Jeffy's Execute the Program he gives his comment on his house mate's infield date recording who is an asian dude and there are some pretty solid lines in there. Self aware jokes such as "yes yes, I'm asian and I'm awesome at math, suck at driving, have small penis etc... can we get that out of the…
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:08 AM
3

Approaching, yes. Asking on a date, no. At most the girl will say something like "would you like to meet?" And that is fine, when she shows the interest, it's a nice timing to pull the trigger and set a time and place. Remember that it's your job to lead Since you appear to be a hardcase, I'd recommend watching some videos such as: The classic Fast Newbie Guide: How To Pick Up Girls, Get Laid And Get A Kick Ass Girlfriend! And this one, which is kinda more self development oriented
/r/seduction26/05/17 12:51 PM
1

I never said I know everything... If the guy is attracted, he will be interested in the girl like a light switch. Just saying that for a girl it's mostly unrealistic to stand next to a guy for 2 years and still be interested in him. Then again op is very young anyways
/r/seduction26/05/17 08:26 AM
2

Well can't be expecting much from reddit
/r/seduction26/05/17 08:22 AM
2

My comment was not saying that what you did was a bad thing, it was simply that you can probably get a much better guy who actually knows how to treat a lady, rather than a guy who is completely inexperienced. Girls have it so much easier than guys, it might seem like a big step now but in the future once you realize it's actually a simple and normal thing, you will come back to this thread and laugh
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:18 PM
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If a guy doesn't ask a girl out then he's not interested or doesn't know what he's doing. Not saying that a girl can't take an initiative but with the highest level girls they just get hit up by so many dudes that they don't need to Then again if nothing happened in 2 years then this is a clear case of friendzone. Not impossible to get out of, but hard and awkward to do so. There was a thread a while ago about 2 weeks... I'd go as far as saying that 2 hours should be more than enough to gauge if…
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:22 PM
1

wat
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:09 AM
4

Being well spoken is a plus no matter how you view it. What I can perceive to be considered as negative is the frame of where it comes from: If you're saying big words for the sake of impressing, trying to get a reaction then that's a big nono. If you're using big words just randomly peppered in the conversation without changing your tonality to rapport seeking then girls will appreciate that Remember, completely regardless of their educational background and intelligence level, girls respond to…
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:45 AM
4

Wow you're really judging girls for being dumb just because they are on tinder. A lot of very smart and successful girls don't have time to go out and socialize so they use tinder
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:10 AM
2

2 weeks? If you can't figure out after 2 hours then you should deeply reflect on yourself
/r/seduction23/05/17 08:51 AM
1

People in marriages and with fewer sexual partners before marriage are the ones who report the highest quality and quantity of sex Pure bullshit Having a higher sex drive translates into more sex and better sex. Someone so repressed as to wait for marriage to have sex, has a low sex drive, which translates into way less experience, which translates into worse sex. It's common sense. If you practice something, you'll be good at it and will want to do more of it. If you never did a certain sport, …
/r/seduction16/05/17 09:44 AM
2

What does that have anything to do with his comment lol
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:39 PM
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I don't think there is ANY SINGLE PERSON in the world that's into BDSM and is waiting for marriage to have sex. Then again I may be wrong Sex is a basic human necessity. People waiting for marriage are needy and repressed
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:39 PM
0

???
/r/seduction14/05/17 09:59 AM
1

No, your mentality is just very closed. But your choice, keep depending on alcohol
/r/seduction12/05/17 12:26 PM
1

You don't know how a girl's brain works Do you think they hit a club to use their brain and think critically about solving the world's problems? A random dude at the club thinks "oh shit that girl is hot", "what should i say to her?", "what's my approach angle?", "does she like me?", etc Regardless of being drunk or not, do you want to know what's a girl at the club thinking about? They are thinking: "I DON'T CARE, I LOVE IT!!". They really just want to unwind from work and have fun. Any drunk d…
/r/seduction12/05/17 08:30 AM
4

if you were to post this in another sub with a greater cross section of society, people would agree that going to a club sober to pick up drunk chicks is creepy Most people in society think picking up chicks is creepy period But the paradox here and as Tyler correctly puts it, the one thing worse than learning pickup, is NOT learning pickup You honestly think drunk guys don't freak the fuck out of girls?
/r/seduction11/05/17 04:12 PM
1

approximately from 11am something to 7pm. I'd say almost 2hours of theory and Q&A, about 1 hour of exercises at the end, rest is infield breakdown
/r/seduction10/05/17 09:30 AM
1

Watching it in your computer and live is not the same thing but it's still very valuable, especially if you don't have the money/they aren't coming to your city
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:36 AM
1

$300 USD
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:34 AM
1

Yea it's an online only product with some text game and infield dates
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:34 AM
3

I illegally downloaded Jeffy's Execute the Program and it was the one thing that got me laid the most BY FAR. Now that I actually got a job and enough money, I decided to go for his Hotseat as a form of paying him back. Anyway as the super introvert with neither balls, nor a strong verbal game, trying to replicate Jeffy helped me boost both aspects as he's a master of both
/r/seduction08/05/17 04:10 PM
2

Free tours are always filled with a whole lot of people. Even by just being there, you can meet a lot of cool wings to game with you. Some people complain about getting total newbies when getting wings out of the internet. I think it's a wrong mentality to have, you should be able to get on with people from all skill levels. The real problem with getting some wing on the internet is that there's a chance he doesn't even do basic hygiene and then he just scares off girls just with his smell. On t…
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:44 PM
15

1 - the weather 2 - your ex girlfriends 3 - the hot girl standing next to the counter 4 - your favorite porn stars 5 - how high prestige you are in Call of Duty 6 - how supportive of Donald Trump you are (or brexit supporter if you are in the UK) 7 - the number of deaths in last terrorist attempt 8 - how much you loved your latest mcdonalds meal 9 - how long was your biggest dump 10 - if she likes anal (on first 5 minutes) 11 - if she eats dogs (when she's Chinese) 12 - if she eats chicken (when…
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:59 PM
1

Or actually I just seen this and accurately portrays me when I was like you https://youtu.be/b5mFl7ov5xk?t=12127 "It wasn't never the people that I hated, it was myself"
/r/seduction20/04/17 03:58 PM
1

There you go. I would understand an experienced guy to get burned out of constantly going out but if you're still not even past the stage of overcoming approach anxiety then you're really limiting yourself by negatively judging girls and venues and not even giving them a chance I'd recommend watching some of these videos if you ever feel like changing your life https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=rsd+approach
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:30 AM
1

Like someone's house? That's social game, not cold approach
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:44 PM
1

So what is it that you like?
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:12 PM
2

You're limiting yourself then
/r/seduction17/04/17 01:12 PM
2

people you're probably not compatible with anyway. That's exactly what I've said, you're pre judging before even knowing the other people. Bars and clubs are the main places where people socialize whether you like them or not, of course there's day game and you can be wildly successful there but night game has the biggest volume
/r/seduction17/04/17 09:43 AM
3

Treating women as a game Not sure where you got it from but the women themselves are not the game. Friendzone happens when the guy wasn't man to woman enough to establish a lover frame. Or when the girl wasn't even looking for anything more than free value in form of dinners. It's totally fine to not want to waste time in having a girl as a friend if she doesn't share the same mindset
/r/seduction16/04/17 08:57 PM
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Whatever you want to call it, it's your own choice. For some reason the OP hates the common terminology but they've been around for over a decade now. There isn't much advice here: 1, 2 and 5 are basically "I hate these words", 3 is incredibly vague. 4 is a terrible mindset to have, to group all party girls as unachievable for the D&D nerd is just negative thinking. I'm a gaming nerd and sometimes a lot of the so called party girls are also into gaming, or there are several other interests that …
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:52 PM
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because everyone wants to get one girlfriend /s
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:43 AM
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Time really comes down to logistics, I spend less than 5 minutes to seeing each girl, then I keep my failed dates shorter than 1 hour.
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:40 AM
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It really depends on how you structure your dates For me I nail the logistics down to the core and have the girl come to the bar right downstairs so no transport money spent whatsoever Then I'll buy myself and the girl a drink, but the thing is I have a discount at the bar. That's it, ONE drink. Occasionally the girl will offer to pay the 2nd round and I won't spend money. Then there are some outliers, 2 months ago there was this girl who coerced me into a bet which made me drink 5 shots. Still …
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:38 AM
2

I feel like your mindsets except for #3 are essentially the same thing, be your own genuine person, not a fake people pleaser Regardless, pretty good read
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:34 AM
1

That's narrow minded. A lot of the hotter girls actually make money out of their followers, especially models
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:08 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=tinder+score
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:21 PM
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I just think it's kinda unfair to judge someone based on the amount of time they spend on something Hot girls put their instagram to get free followers but they can still get guys without having anything else in there
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:19 PM
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Not just that but some people just make it seem as if the girl goes to your place, you have sex and the girl leaves You might be doing just that but in my case I actually spend some time with the girl and if a girl annoys me, it doesn't matter if she's hot, I'll just next
/r/seduction29/03/17 12:30 PM
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sucks to be you then
/r/seduction29/03/17 09:29 AM
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That's a scarcity mentality, you're pretty much saying you'd go out with everyone that gives you a chance When and if you start getting more matches/numbers than time, you need to learn to pick out the ones that are worth it from the time wasters Not to mention that you lower your tinder score by swiping everything
/r/seduction29/03/17 08:28 AM
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Can't upvote this enough, screw all those catfishes I've been having great success with including the following on the bio: "Please don't be fat in real life". I NEVER met a fat girl from tinder after that
/r/seduction29/03/17 08:27 AM
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Her profile description is ONLY her instagram handle This means nothing. If a girl has nothing on her profile then it means that she doesn't need to add anything else because guys will message her anyway. Mostly agree with the rest tho
/r/seduction29/03/17 08:24 AM
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Mostly good advice in here. On parties I would recommend NOT waiting for a right opportunity as it makes you just stand around there doing nothing and looking low value Trust in yourself and bring good energy to the group, like you said, people are out there to have fun so meeting a happy looking fun dude is a great thing
/r/seduction03/02/17 12:13 PM
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This does not work for everyone. In my case it just makes me feel more anxious and less cool (not to mention that if the girl is really hot then I might not last long if I havent had sex or fapped for days) A walk is okayish but you might have some trouble getting that eye contact in. Until you become more advanced I recommend just taking a girl to a bar/pub close to your place If a girl is talking it's usually fine but it seems to me that you just asked for boring logical topics (it's a date, n…
/r/seduction20/06/16 03:11 PM
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But I believe you can make more money in London Anyways you have a good point, it's important to keep things as cheap as possible because just 2 glasses of wine can go well over 10 pounds and at the end of the month the bill can add up pretty quick
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:44 PM
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Oh yea average game and good planning always beats good game and no planning, logistics are important for pulling I always choose the closest pub to my place, just 2 minutes away
/r/seduction04/12/15 01:17 PM
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Close first, think about long term later. You can screen but if nothing happened then there isn't much point thinking too much about this one girl I see no way of this working out
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:38 PM
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Really hot girls have a lot more abundance of guys and therefor tend to have more experience in bed, which can make it higher quality sex. With that said, good looking girls that aren't super hot can also have tons of experience. In fact, my best sex wasn't with the hottest ones, but with the ones who slept with the most guys.
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:49 PM
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I've made this thread over a month ago however since you replied to it, here is a short update from last 2 months. Gave up on Badoo due to the ridiculous paid features that should be basic. Wasted 10 minutes on Match, gave up on it. Waste of time Pulled 3 girls out of OkC, dated 3 other, also got over 10 prospects. Dated 2 girls out of PoF, got 2 prospects. Dated 1 girl out of Tinder. Decided to give up on it OkC is the best IMO
/r/seduction09/06/15 03:45 PM
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You're in the wrong subreddit if you think pickup is trolling
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:57 PM
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Didn't say you were, just that it's the stereotype for asian guys. I know that's not true as I have many awesome asian friends. Though quite a few of them are shy and not confident around women I must say. On Tinder you just have to try to break the shy cycle by showing some value with other girls in photos
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:29 PM
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Hey some girls are willing to try out asians! Get some photographer guy to take a few snaps of you and have one photo with you and 2 white girls on each arm to show you are cool and confident (thus breaking the shy and nerdy stereotype that they might have) and they will be falling for you like leaves. Best thing about Tinder is that you just get Flamite for Chrome and then you only waste a minute every day liking girls
/r/seduction29/04/15 11:58 AM
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OkC, POF and Tinder are free and if you appreciate the site or want to get that edge then you can pay to support them and obtain the bonus features. Their business model seems a lot more successful. Paying for basic functions just screams shady. I guess use whatever works for you, but atleast in a big city I don't believe you should waste your money on a pay2message site when you can pretty much go blitz message every girl you see in a day and not run out of targets.
/r/seduction29/04/15 01:33 AM
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I believe it's completely different since you should go with the mindset that you buy clothes for yourself, you pay the gym fee to keep yourself healthy, you pay drinks for yourself, you pay transportation for yourself, etc. And take immediate value out of it On a dating site, you pay the dating site. What you get in return? What should be there for free
/r/seduction28/04/15 09:39 PM
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What's the point then? If I want to pay for sex instead of working for it I will just bang a hooker
/r/seduction28/04/15 08:26 PM
1

Never tried that match but I read somewhere that you can't message without paying? that's bullshit... it's like the most important feature
/r/seduction28/04/15 07:51 PM
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