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It literally gained popularity because of a fanfic spreading on tumblr in the early 2010s. So stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:32 PM
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Have posted on rape counseling subreddits, men lurk on there a lot and jerk it to our worst moments. Fucking awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:26 AM
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I don’t shave anything anymore and my bf loves it ☺️. If I have a big event/wedding I might shave my legs but that’s it lol. Not worth the razor burn and time for me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:54 PM
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No there’s plenty of dudes who hate them too. My bf and his friends roast guys that go to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:53 AM
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I went to a secular all girls school. Best decision of my life and if i ever had a girl I would only send them to an all girls school as well. There’s so much evidence that it has tremendous benefits for young girls education. Never felt pressure to wear makeup, we had a uniform but I honestly liked having it for the most part. There was very little drama as well. I went from 5th-12th grade, and am about to graduate college with a mechanical engineering degree. About 50% of the girls at my schoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:42 PM
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They love to being up middle eastern women as some sort of “gotcha”, they’re saying “be grateful that we don’t treat you that way”. No dude, I am not grateful for your basic human decency, the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:43 PM
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In the comments a woman was talking about how every post with a girl in it there’s dudes in the comments talking about how they want to eat her ass or some shit, and all the men were saying “how dare you try and turn the conversation away from male mental health 😤” and someone even equates that to the women who get those comments being IDOLIZED??? Might as well say “shut up and take the compliment you prudish bitch”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:06 AM
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Oh I believe there’s women that think like this for sure, but not one of them would type like that lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:21 PM
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Yeah a man definitely wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:44 PM
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When women say they hate men because of all the shit they’ve done to us we want them to stay away from us, but when men hate women they want to subjugate us. That’s why I don’t take accusations of misandry or being “sexist against men” seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:29 PM
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I literally died my hair dark brown and wear baggy clothing when I go out because I hated the attention I got when I go out. As I’ve gotten older its died down a little but I do miss being blonde and wearing cute clothes. I just am too paranoid about any attention I am getting from men. But I also have PTSD so that Exacerbates everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:37 AM
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A FWB told me he sent a girl to the ER for being too rough with her during sex and he thought it was funny. Yeah red flag, he raped me later lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:05 PM
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Unless I am actively trying to get pregnant I am never allowing a male to orgasm inside me without a condom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:42 PM
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A guy slapped me without my consent once, we “talked it out”, I believed he was well meaning because he called himself a feminist. Yeah he raped me like a month later. He also ended up slapping me again and fucked up my jaw permanently so my left side clicks whenever I eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:27 PM
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When my current bf of 5 years told me he had never had sex before I was little concerned at first because he’s attractive and very charismatic so I was a bit shocked girls weren’t throwing themselves at him, but turns out they were and he was turning them down. Literally so attracted to him after he told me that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:29 PM
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Can’t respect men that use the word bitch. Don’t care how much they larp as lefties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:36 AM
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The only thing that makes women over 25 useless to these guys is the fact that their prefrontal cortex has now fully developed and they then have enough common sense not to put up with their pathetic bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:24 AM
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God this is cringe to watch, her “laughing” grates my ears and the daughters look pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:00 AM
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Honestly, as a rape victim, I hated the ending. Kinda wished we had one movie where we had a good ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:51 PM
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Whenever I get those low tier “prank” videos on my FYP it’s always almost exclusively the dudes approaching women (often woc) to “prank” them. They know if they tried that shit on a man they would get intimidated. Ex: saw one video where a guy just went up to random women sitting and laid his head in their laps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:39 AM
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The draft goes against one of the core principles of feminism which is that we all have bodily autonomy. There should not be a draft at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:02 PM
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I feel this. Learning about how much my sisters have to suffer every day at the hands of men is agonizing and rage inducing. If we aren’t pissed off, who will be? Men? Well, we all know what happens when men get angry…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:48 PM
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Lundy Bancroft was accused of abusing women as well (specifically his female clients). Fucking shattered me when I found out :/ I still agree with a lot of his theory though. But it just proves no man is safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:01 AM
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I have an IUD but my bf and I always use a condom to be extra safe. I seriously don’t understand how other women just…do not stress constantly about being pregnant if they let their partners jizz inside. My bf gets stressed about it too regardless! Also we reaaaalllyy do not know the long term effects of birth control yet on women :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:14 PM
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What’s funny is that men literally seek out women with mental health problems because they know they’re insecure and less likely to advocate for themselves so they’ll put up with more shit. But women don’t fucking do that do we…we say we don’t want to date mentally ill men because we know they are not ready for a relationship so why tf are they even trying to date without working through their issues first? I’ll have PTSD for the rest of my life, but I got my shit together first, made sure I had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:48 PM
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God I wish I could have “I fuck to cum” as a flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:18 AM
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Right wing men: women are private property Left wing men: women are public property
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:04 PM
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I fell for this shit when I was in my teens, guess who needed even way more therapy than before because I literally re traumatized myself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:35 AM
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Yep, this is part of why I transferred to a female only school. I was always placed next to the rowdy boys in elementary school just because I was quiet, they would always harass me (snapping my training bra straps) and I was sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:04 PM
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I pretty much had to tell any future SO my trauma/health conditions because it affects my sex life. I waited about 4 months and after we were officially together to tell him and he handled it better than anyone every has so now we’ve been together 5 years and we are designing the engagement rings now :). He also opened up to me about vulnerable stuff after about 2 months so I appreciated that. But I think if it won’t affect the relationship in any way then it’s not necessary to tell them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:37 PM
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It especially annoys me when men claim that just because a woman can’t prove it in court, then she’s automatically falsely accusing the man. Like that’s not how the law works, you have to provide a shit ton of evidence for rape to even go to trial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:23 AM
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Literally describes my rapist so perfectly I shuddered. Originally slept with him consensually and then he turned up the misogyny to 100 and hid him constantly crossing my boundaries behind “sex positivity”. But oh yeah he haaaaated all the misogyny in all fantasy/superhero media right? Hey he was such a nerd and good guy, and hey his moms were super cool lesbians so extra points! Nah the nerd men are all the same. Cant stand them now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:35 PM
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I turn 25 soon and I’m soooo ready to be 30! I tell every older woman in my life now that I’m envious of their wisdom and experience and I can’t wait to be like them. Older and younger women must unite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:43 AM
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This girl is going to end up being on the other end of a “rough sex defense” trial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:10 PM
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We never making it out the patriarchy 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:09 PM
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I’m bisexual and have managed to go my whole life without following instamodels, I find it trashy if anyone does. The only girls following those models are other wanna be influencers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:33 PM
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Ugh I used to do that too. I wanted to be seen as the fun kind of feminist. I cringe so hard looking back 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:26 PM
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I really do not understand this argument that just because someone makes more at their job (typically the man) that does not mean they are the one entitled to do less housework, especially if their wife is working a full time job also? It’s literally makes ZERO sense to me. This is why men hate it when their wives make more, because they don’t want to feel guilty about how little housework they do. If they are the ones making more they feel entitled to their wives free labor but if their wife wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:52 PM
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Society nerfed us because Mother Nature 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:00 PM
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If they really wanted to see women treating men like they treat us we’d start up a million porn subs degrading their “holes” and “stick sizes” and whatever gross terms we COULD come up for their body parts...but we don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:53 PM
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Dad bod trend has gone way too far lmao. I used to say I liked "dad bods" but I meant like dudes that weren't ripped, not legit overweight guys, 🙄 give em an inch tho and they’ll take a mile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:58 PM
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I swear most men are bigger misandrists than most women with how they consider themselves as practically animals with their “primal instincts” ....and after it’s done they consider HER the dirty one. Men just use it as an excuse to not hold themselves accountable. No you don’t need a woman who has never had sex before because it’s “biology”. You just want her to not realize how shit you are in bed. Act like an animal...get in the cage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:01 PM
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Wasnt this like...a prank tiktok that somebody posted? They got a cameo of Ben Affleck to say “why did you unmatch me” or something like that and made up a fake story to go with it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:53 PM
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I’ve mentioned this a few times on this sub, but I was raped several years ago by a self proclaimed male feminist. Also called himself a democratic socialist. And he has a pretty big YouTube channel at this point too where he boasts about how progressive he is and all the girls swoon in the comments. It’s straight up a manipulation tactic that dudes on the left are using now to get you to fuck them faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:45 AM
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That’s what my bf said! Back in my libfem days I tried to change his mind but he refused to say he was a feminist because he said “feminism is for women”. I’m so glad now though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:41 AM
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God I’m so glad my boyfriend and I don’t want kids. The more we look at the political/economic climate where we are the further we push our plans for having kids back and now it’s to the point we don’t see it happening at all unless by adoption. And honestly, I’m selfish and would like to spend some of my own money on me and my own future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:02 AM
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Really? I thought they originated from incel-ish communities, especially in gaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:52 PM
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I love: “dump your porn addicted boyfriend” as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:11 AM
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Kinda off topic but men also think they have inherently more dignity than women.. I frequent a lot of rape survivor forums, and it’s so frustrating hearing /some/ of the men on there talk about how much worse it is for male victims (because they grew up thinking rape only happens to women not men)...it’s kinda gross but I never say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:40 PM
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Came here to say the same thing. I agree with everything except for that part cause even in my pickmes days I knew I was dressing up and putting makeup on was to make my existence under the patriarchy a little bit easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:31 PM
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Oh if libfems knew where the phrase came from they would be horrified 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:23 PM
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One of my lesbian friends was expressing how she wished more straight/bi women would accept the title of political lesbian. Bi women now have the word febfem, but I agree with her. I think there is a group of lesbians that also don’t want that title to be used by straight women though which I can understand, it may come off as appropriative and there’s obviously a lot more to being a lesbian than just not liking men sexually. But yeah definitely not a negative thing to be called that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:51 AM
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He should empower himself on onlyfans rather than committing insurance fraud :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:41 PM
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Men saying that this sub makes them more misogynistic reminds me of when I was vegan (had to quit while recovering from ED but plan to go back to it) men would always be the one to tell me “well now I’m going to eat TWO burgers tonight haha take that!”...like okay. Americans already consume too much meat....men are already killing women...this isn’t anything new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:59 PM
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Do not trust “woke” men, worst mistake of my life. If he says he’s a feminist, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:26 PM
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I’d be interested to here from Mina (@ratbastardmina) on tiktok since she’s really blown up. I feel like both FDS and her are the reason why so many young women now are turning away from liberal feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:21 PM
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I think sex work is work in the same way child labor is “labor”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:15 PM
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Best comment I’ve ever seen on this subreddit. I feel like it could be the premise for a thesis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:34 AM
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Yep, same thing should be applied to when when sex starts out consensual and guys “accidentally slip” into anal sex with a woman that she didn’t prior consent to. That’s happened to me with almost every man I’ve ever slept with! Like dude let me try shoving my hand up your ass without asking, I bet I would get my neck snapped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:57 PM
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I agree! But recently I’ve see some women calling other women pickmes for not supporting the horrors that happen to girls and women in the sex trade...so we gotta be sure to call that shit out when we see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:01 AM
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YES. That’s part of what makes this sub non heteronormative! We don’t vet only our romantic prospects but also any relationship with a man whether it be familiar/boss-employer/platonic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:59 PM
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Men know this and use our own empathy against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:21 PM
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When I was OLD allll these dudes claimed to love cooking but they never seemed to have any pics of meals they’ve cooked or tried to show off their skills to me...funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:50 PM
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And this is why bi women have the highest rate of domestic abuse of all genders/sexualities. People expect us to just be “down for anything”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:39 PM
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Sex is not and never will be a human right. It goes against the belief of bodily autonomy which feminists have been fighting for since the dawn of time. No one has the right to someone else’s body. I’m also so sick of seeing people try and bring people with disabilities into it, it’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:37 PM
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Lol just follow the method of every successful man in history. Even Einstein forced his equally intelligent and successful wife into servitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:50 PM
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YES. I swear male feminists are the worst type of performative activists because they use it to sleep with us now it’s so fucking gross. I literally got raped by a dude in 2016 who said he was a male feminist, this was before I heard of Rad feminism and thought he was soOo empathetic to our cause at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:33 AM
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Ah exactly. I don’t want equality with men, because men don’t even have equality among each other! I want more for everyone, I want a society without rape/murder/violence. Men can’t even do that among themselves when they have all the power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:30 AM
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I just say that the devil is obviously present if they’re going to argue with me on rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:19 PM
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Are you me? I’m currently live with my bf and his roommate is one of those types that loves to “debate”. He leans pretty far left on most things so it is fun sometimes, but I had to stop talking to him about women’s issues because it’s so fuckign frustrating having a man just sit there and have zero empathy for half the population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:17 PM
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Not sure what you mean by woman identify person? But yes I definitely agree that there are so many of us and yet men seem to know no perpetrators!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:46 PM
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Yep, my bf likes all the posts I’ve shown him from FDS. He likes how this sub has shown me how to set boundaries! And he laughs at all the insane posts on here along with me about shitty men. And if there is ever something I feel like we can work on he is more than happy to hear me out on how to go about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:36 PM
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had beer cans thrown at my head Halloween 2017 for not responding to catcalls lmao, god I wish I had this sort of god complex men have where they think if someone wrongs them they can just immediately sort it out because nothing has ever gone wrong for them ever, especially physically....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:59 PM
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Yep. Until about a year ago I always saw myself as an exception for male violence. There was just something about my intrinsic self that attracted abuse from men. But here I see other women recount almost word for word experiences I’ve been through and it makes me realize I’m not an exception. Thinking I am an exception has just been a coping mechanism to keep me from recognizing how widespread male violence is. Because once you start to put it together, it’s so fucking painful to see how many o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:46 PM
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This guy is okay, he still pushes women to get botox and places unrealistic beauty standards on women though. Although it is humorous how he flips the script on men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:45 PM
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Female separation is looking more and more like a necessity :/. Even in countries where we are considered most safe this shit happens daily. I’m so tired girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:42 PM
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I don’t hate men. I’ve never raped/beaten/abused a man. But I’ve had multiple men, starting from age 4, who have raped, beaten, and abused me. And based on USA gov statistics and personal testimonies from friends I know I am not alone and am not an exception. This abuse is systemic. I can see pattern recognition. I don’t hate men, but they sure seem to hate me. This sub has helped me set boundaries for myself, it helps me recognize when I’m on track to my old self harm tendencies. Sometimes it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:47 AM
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Wish I could just show this to every woman to open their eyes to how so many men think of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:27 AM
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Literally every rape scene/violent sexual assault scene you can find on porn websites with millions of guys jacking off to it. It’s TERRIFYING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:40 PM
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I hope she uses that letter in the divorce proceedings. Imagine finding out the person you love and cherish thinks you’re dumb as rocks and only wants you for sex. This guy watched too many nerd movies where the ugly guy gets the hot girl he -deserves- for being smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:59 PM
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My brother swore off dating due to women being too “high maintenance these days”. Told my brother that women aren’t high maintenance he’s just low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:39 AM
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I convinced myself I liked choking and slapping when I was younger too. Until I found myself flinching every time my bf raised his hand outside the bedroom too. It’s not just ~fantasy~ it’s trauma bonding and it’s fucking up a whole generation of girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:56 PM
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I’m so sorry that happened to you. I went through a similar thing where a guy slapped the shit out of me on the first date while kissing me, no consent, like 30 seconds in. He raped me a month later, I should’ve ran at the first sign but I didn’t. And now the fucker is gaining fame on YouTube. I hate how normalized it is now, I’m so scared for the next generation of girls. If you don’t mind me asking, How do you deal with understanding it as assault later rather than sooner? I didn’t realize how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:14 AM
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