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DISCUSSIONLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:14 PM
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LEVEL UPLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:14 PM
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LEVEL UPLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:32 AM
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DISCUSSIONLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:51 AM
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LunaValley/r/askFDS22/11/21 11:11 AM
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LunaValley/r/askFDS02/11/21 09:29 PM
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SEEKING ADVICELunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:49 PM
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DISCUSSIONLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:07 PM
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LunaValley/r/askFDS09/02/21 11:36 AM
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LunaValley/r/askFDS17/03/22 01:05 AM
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LunaValley/r/askFDS16/02/22 07:17 PM
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SEEKING ADVICELunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:17 PM
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SEEKING ADVICELunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:41 PM
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DISCUSSIONLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:15 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:59 AM
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DISCUSSIONLunaValley/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:24 PM
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This is actually very true and good advice. Thanks!
/r/askFDS16/02/22 10:55 PM
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Ok, thank you!
/r/askFDS16/02/22 10:55 PM
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Aww, thank you! 😭❤️
/r/askFDS09/12/21 05:45 PM
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So kind of you to check in, thank you. I am doing so much better! I look back on this post and think wow, why did I care so much? At the time this felt unbearable, but I’m feeling way stronger now, 16 days later. He could txt me now and I’d definitely be like …. Nah, bye. 😂 thanks again for the check in, much appreciated.
/r/askFDS08/12/21 10:43 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/askFDS24/11/21 08:23 AM
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Thank you so much, I appreciate your response. I’m just so sad at the moment and struggling not to take it very personally.
/r/askFDS24/11/21 08:23 AM
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Yes, they hate it! She said that confidence repels toxic people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:21 AM
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I think I’m attracted to dysfunctional men and being honest I’m a bit lonely and sad at the moment so there’s that too. I need to stay strong and move on.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:24 PM
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Thanks. You’re right. I already feel controlled by him because I’m being careful with what I say in case it sets him off.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:23 PM
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I was with someone with borderline before and.... yep, he ticks the boxes. I hadn’t made the connection til I read your reply. It would take a huge amount of work on his part and I don’t think he should be in a relationship until he has figured himself out, as borderline gets way worse for people when they’re in a relationship. Great insight, thank you.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:22 PM
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This is really good advice, thanks. I think I’ll sit down and journal about it and try get to the bottom of it that way.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:20 PM
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Interesting. Hadn’t thought of it like that.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:19 PM
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I actually am being walked all over. I was thinking that earlier, because every time he comes back I allow it and I realised to myself “He’s walking all over you, and you’re allowing it.” I need to be stronger but I’m finding it hard.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:19 PM
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Thanks. I didn’t tell him I was going out with another guy, I told him another guy called me, who I don’t know very well, and that it was strange. He made me feel like I was somehow totally in the wrong. It was horrible.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:16 PM
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I didn’t think he’d be manipulative coz he’s been doing so much work on himself. I misjudged that one.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:14 PM
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Yeah you’re right this is easy, if I keep down this path it will get serious and then I’ll be on difficult level 😂 it’s just hard for me to let go. He’s sort of addictive, is the only way I can describe it.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:14 PM
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It is enabling him and I feel the more I do it the more he’ll walk all over me because he knows I’ll accept it. Thanks for replying.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:13 PM
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It’s so hard. I know I have work to do, I am attracted to dysfunctional men and it needs to stop. I really miss him a lot and I’m dying to txt him but I know that’s wrong.
/r/askFDS09/02/21 10:12 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:35 AM
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I work for a domestic violence service, and we get a lot of women ticking all these boxes. The amount of fear they live in daily is heart breaking. A lot of them have been so gaslit, broken down, and bonded to their partner through psychological trauma, that they end up returning to them. I meet women who have been raped, burnt, stabbed, punched, kicked, drugged, you name it. We are told to treat the women who use our service as potential murder victims. It’s truly shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:55 PM
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💯 thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:50 PM
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THISSSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:11 PM
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Wow, what a QUEEN 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:48 PM
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Makes a lot of sense too, because it just hit me today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:07 PM
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Thanks! Any suggestions for how? I don’t have a pet and my housemate isn’t up for getting one. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:00 PM
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I just checked my period app, and it says I’m two days away from ovulation. Interesting! That must be what’s happening to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:57 PM
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I hear what you’re saying! And I agree to an extent. But to play devil’s advocate, wouldn’t that also make the women who use Reddit LVW? Not saying they are, just saying, based on that argument, Reddit attracts low value people in general then? Which I don’t agree with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:08 PM
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I actually dumped him later that day, after a string of LVM offences. Lesson learned, next time dump at the first red flag 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:59 PM
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I was seeing a guy and had my period. I took some painkillers and told him I was in quite a bit of pain and he said: “Yeah, I don’t get that.” Me: “What?” Him: “Surely your body has adapted to the pain by now. It can’t be that sore.” Me: “Should I kick you in the balls every month and tell you to adapt to that pain?” Him: “That’s not the same though, your body is built for this” I asked him not to try “mansplain” my body to me, or tell me what level of pain should be acceptable to me again, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:18 AM
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I am gal! Well done you!! ❤️ I’m still in the early days of recovery. Alcohol and relationships with LVM seem to go hand in hand... 🤦🏼‍♀️ But not anymore. Feel free to PM me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:12 AM
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Thanks gal. More power to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:17 PM
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Thanks for this lovely advice! X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:17 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:16 PM
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I think that’s what I need to remind myself but I do have creeping doubts, that maybe he was just telling the truth about me and I am all the things he said. I guess I need to work on my own insecurities. Thanks for your response ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:16 PM
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Thank you so much ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:13 PM
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Great analogy, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:13 PM
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Thank you!! Will check those out ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:13 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:05 PM
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I’m guilty of the same thing. Don’t be too hard on yourself! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:44 PM
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They found the phones in a lake after he murdered her, the messages were him telling her that she was his slave and she had to allow him to stab her, and she was replying that she was scared and didn’t want to be killed. He murdered her shortly after she’d been discharged from psychiatry care. Awful! Her name was Elaine O’Hara.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:40 PM
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There was a woman from the area I’m from who went missing, her body was eventually found in a mountain. It turned out she had an array of mental health issues and a man had preyed on her and used BDSM to manipulate and control her and eventually convinced her to allow him to murder her. It was awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:23 PM
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Screenshot and reported him to the admins. 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:42 PM
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Thank you so much. ❤️ xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:21 PM
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Thanks so much 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:45 PM
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I am SO grateful I found FDS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:38 PM
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Thank you for your kind words, lovely to hear from a fellow gal in recovery. It’s hard going as most of my female friends are drinkers, but I am trying to grow a wider network of sober friends. I appreciate the offer of support ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:36 PM
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I really can’t deal with them anymore at all. I’ve lost any faith I had left in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:34 PM
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Thank you so much. It’s early days and it’s difficult but I’m getting there! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:33 PM
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Thank you. It came at a time I was feeling low so it was quite upsetting. Now I’m just disgusted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:05 PM
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Obviously that’s how he sees women. REVOLTING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:52 PM
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Thank god. Because a few years ago when I was much more of a pick me and in a vulnerable place I might’ve responded to something like this. Scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:23 PM
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I’ve tried but I can’t seem to find the option anywhere, it’s only allowing me to block?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:23 PM
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Complete and utter predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:18 PM
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Tracy’s dog is AMAZING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:14 AM
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Amazing! What you’ve done takes strength, proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:13 AM
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Nothing vulgar about it! Vibrators are great, better than a LVM anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:01 AM
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Thank you ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:00 AM
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Thank you! ❤️ Feeling relieved he’s gone but I’m emotional and a little bit up and down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:00 AM
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YES! Let him suffer and realise what he’s lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:59 AM
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I cannot understand this behaviour either. I even said to him “I really haven’t asked for much, all I’m asking is that you are nice to me.” Imagine having to ASK a man to be nice to you. Never again! Thank you for your kind words. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:59 AM
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Solid advice! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:56 AM
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Got one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:56 AM
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WHY IS SHE WITH HIM?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:44 AM
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I am going through the same thing girl. I feel your pain. I’m incredibly lonely. I went for a walk with my friend and I thought I was ok then out of nowhere a wave of sadness hit me and I just wanted to go home. I can’t get him out of my head. We will get there!! Just give us a week and we’ll already feel a bit better, and in a month we will be flying!! You can do this!! Lots of love to you 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:42 AM
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I will. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:07 AM
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Thank you. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:24 PM
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Aw thanks girl. Hope you’re doing ok. Thought mine was a HVM too, they rarely are. 😔 Lots of love to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:23 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:08 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. Can I ask, did you feel sort of... trapped? Like knowing you should leave but for some feeling feel you can’t? I feel like I’m in a spider’s web.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:08 PM
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