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Lynfast/r/seduction13/10/16 07:12 AM
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Maybe she had another guy in the picture back then and was hesitant because of it... This is of course just me guessing shit. It's up to you if you want to try anything really. Might be she is interested in you or just wants a rebound or something. Just don't be needy this time if give her a chance... And step up kino and intent to fuck :P
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:45 AM
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I just ask them along the lines: "Lets go out for a date, how does your schedule look?" Then she gives few days when she is free, pick the one which suits you better and make plans and logistics. And I would advise not to suggest coffee. Don't be another coffee guy... Girls are so bored of coffee dates. Do something different check out events in your town, go minigolfing or bowling etc. Something else than coffee! In the first message you can replace "Lets go for a date" with "Lets go minigolfin…
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:42 AM
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Don't overthink or overly worry mate. Yeah a reply would be a decent thing to do from the girls part, be it yes or no. If she doesn't respond at all atleast in my eyes shes not really a person worth it. It doesn't take much to have common courtesy to say yes or no to you. Imo by your posts you haven't been creepy and scared her off (but hard to tell cos not actually seen how your interactions live went)
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:23 PM
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Wait a couple of days from your first text and then hit her up suggesting some activity (minigolf, bowling etc.). That way she will understand your "something fun" didn't mean just sex but was actually meant as something fun. :)
/r/seduction21/02/17 01:43 PM
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In my opinion you should lead more. A girl can read "something fun" as you wanting sex only. I think you should have just said "lets go for a date" simply and not be vague with "something fun". I think you can text her for example "How does minigolf sound on day x?" or "lets grab drinks at bar x at 8pm".
/r/seduction21/02/17 12:56 PM
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Confidence is good. I don't know you so it is hard to assess your situation. One thing that comes to my mind is that there are different ways people are confident usually either A. Polite, humble, confidence or B. Smug, unpolite, confidence. Even as A you have to be bit of careful and not "override" other people in interractions. Let them also speak and listen what they have to say. If you are A carry on as it is imo but your last comment "full of yourself" hints you are B... Tone down smugness …
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:19 AM
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Haven't subbed to Tinder so can't really tell. And how it affects "old" profiles vs new ones (or if it affects at all). I would recommend to you just deleting your account. Start it a new and try to make better profile because it is the most important thing. And you should get new matches easily again because new account. Plus its free.
/r/seduction03/02/17 11:36 AM
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I would recommend countering needyness with two things that have worked for myself. Number 1 is build an interesting life and have stuff to do you enjoy. Your hobbies and passions are supposed to satisfy you mainly. I bet now your goal is to get attention from girls mainly so of course you will be needy because you don't have other sources for personal satisfaction than attention from girls. So have hobbies etc to fulfill yourself so girls become "less important" in your mind. Number 2 is dating…
/r/seduction03/02/17 11:26 AM
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Delete your account and start it as new again. Tinder seem to fuck up old profiles and prefers showing new profiles (theres some theory that you get fucked up more if you just swipe right and don't look through the profiles). My matches went cold for a long time, deleted and started a new and bang alot of matches again.
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:26 PM
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Maybe if you and the girl is 13. They won't give a fuck when adults. Unless you dress like a goth or punk or something extreme... And if you talk about music with a girl, it's pretty easy to speak passionately about the music you love. Girls love passionate and confident men. Imagine yourself on a date talking about you listening to Drake when infact you're not into his music really at all...
/r/seduction19/01/17 02:25 PM
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Nah, for example she gives you tuesday and thursday. Just respond you're busy on tuesday but thursday works fine for you too. Simple as shit and isn't needy. She doesn't know how busy your week is. Sometimes I think this sub overthinks how texting comes across and how a girl thinks... Im just sayin this has worked flawlessly for me. And with this I've avoided this kinda interrraction where you bounce days back and forth, when schedules don't match and you try to guess a day: Man: Lets go to x fo…
/r/seduction11/01/17 02:11 PM
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I don't like suggesting set date or time cos the girl can easily say no and give some excuse. I like to use "when are you free/how is your schedule?" This way the girl gives you few days when shes available. Pick one that suits you the best. It has always worked for me but if the girl would state she doesn't have time I would assume it means she is not interested.
/r/seduction11/01/17 08:37 AM
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Yeah sure, I can review and give feedback.
/r/seduction10/01/17 02:26 PM
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Job doesn't matter I don't have it on my profile. Girls usually ask about what you do tho. I would advice to be straight about it but I do have a good job tho...
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:28 AM
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Go to the popular ones. The less used sites and crappy ones have crappier girls. Search through this subreddit on how to make a good profile and get someone to take good pictures. No girl is interested in a guy with dull profile and few selfies. You can be cool as fuck irl but your profile isn't and that matters online. There are guys who look good but have shit profiles and there are guys who aren't that good looking but have good profiles. So don't oversweat about your looks. And imo important…
/r/seduction09/01/17 10:44 AM
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Yeah nowadays it is standard imo to split the date costs. And yeah offer first round and she will most often pay the next one. I meant more that if you have a lot of dates in short span the cost can tally up real fast in your weekly/monthly budget. Alcohol in bars is stupid expensive where I live.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:51 PM
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Probably 90% of the guys take girls to a date for either coffee or bar... Don't be one of them, stand out. Take her to some fancier/cooler place. For example there is this killer Drink bar that is themed as Japanese street bar and also serves hot dogs. Perfect as its different and you can have convos about the place itself. Also one other drink bar here is themed after bootlegging time era. You have to ring a phone to get in etc. Also take her to see live music, girls love that. Find something s…
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:50 PM
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Do you have any examples of your texting for us to evaluate? Could pinpoint what you are doing wrong. Maybe too pushy/needy or some other reason... Also are these numbers from live girls or from online? I myself ask pretty fast for a date and have high conversion percentage for dates, so the problem definately can't be asking too soon...
/r/seduction03/01/17 01:35 PM
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In general bros before hoes. But opening doesn't mean shit yet, especially in social party setting where everyone is socializing. Imo its free game until the girl shows clear interest in you or your friend.
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:14 AM
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Yes it is possible. I'm shorter than you 6'3 and 260. Still overweight and high bodyfat percentage. I can run game and be confident in my weight and you can too. But you just have to accept the fact that some girls are picky and want athletic/slim bodytype because they are attracted to it. It doesn't hurt loosing weight/bodyfat. I was at my worst at 288. Trying to loose weight slowly but surely as I want to get to normal weight for my length. Bonus is of course that the "pool" of girls raises wi…
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:51 PM
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In general it is better to go for it than not go for it. Even if it gets rejected. If you've read the signs right just push through the mental block, don't think of the outcome, just block the thoughts and do it. As you said after the first kiss that tension kinda loosens up and you have no problems after that ;)
/r/seduction09/12/16 10:48 AM
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I would recommend on working on yourself and your self worth first. This way you become less dependant of what girls think about you. Check out this great older thread and evaluate yourself in the areas mentioned and then make a plan to improve in them. You don't have to be perfect in any category but not severally lacking either. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2h87h8/hey_seddit_wanted_to_share_a_graphic_i_made_on/? When you have that somewhat covered girls will be more attracted to…
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:09 PM
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Just try to get get out more and be more of a happy person. Smile, listen, eye contact. Theres some books to read about the subject like Dale Carnegies "How to win friends and influence". You won't change in an instant, it's an progress. Work step by step to impriove. You definately wan't to eliminate judging people as it puts people off and you might already prejudge people without getting to know em truly. Also great for being a vegetarian. It's pretty common these days so it's not like you ar…
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:48 PM
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Yeah I would assume its easier and the percentage be higher to get along with new men. But I think it's more because you have had more "practise" with men your whole life from kindergarten to adulthood as boys usually stick with boys and girls with girls growing up. Also guys have their own topics to talk about :) Just keep improving those social skills, maybe with focus on interractions with women. It also helps to have experience to handle different personality types in interractions.
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:41 PM
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Don't generalise, there are different women as there are different men. Not all men will be your bros in an instant like not all women will like you. Improve your social skills and the more people will like you, male or female.
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:30 PM
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True, but it's a bit of hit and miss when it comes to how interesting the girl is.
/r/seduction13/10/16 10:41 AM
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I try to keep it short as possible and lead the interraction to a date asap and so far I have more than decent success rate. It just comes sometimes a hassle if the date is scheduled for next week or later, I feel like I can't just totally go silent til date day. Yeah dunno how to word it. Like you have 6 girls in line, do you text em all and just hope date times don't overlap with em? Or do you schedule the better looking ones first and lock them down first or the girls you had better interacti…
/r/seduction13/10/16 10:39 AM
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You have 2 options: Carry on as it is. Try to find a similiar girl who is introverted and accepts you as you are. -> May take ages or never happen because girls won't show at your door By themselves Self improvement and get more social -> you will improve yourself, be more social and it leads to you being more attractive in womens eyes. Also you will have to stop thinking yourself as a "no fun" person and actually enjoy life and in your own mind be a fun person first. Again this also leads to be…
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:24 PM
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Every guy will ask those questions and its the usual "small talk". They wont set you apart much from rest of the guys. One thing I've found succesful is simply asking her "How has your day/week/weekend been?" She usually gives an answer what she has done, what her mood is etc and stuff and then just ask more questions about w/e she told you. Throw some some jokes and tease in the mix. Also remember you don't want to be texting for ages and waste your time texting. Once you establish "common grou…
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:14 PM
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I suggest breaking down areas you want to improve and rank their priority to you, for example: 1. Education 2. Sports and health 3. Work (improvement in your field and career etc.) 4. Social skills and social life 5. Hitting girls 6. Hobbies (playing guitar etc.) 7. etc. Then set long term goals and short term goals. Thing is a lot of areas in life are tied to each other in some way and developement in different areas help in others. For example education helps with work and social life helps in…
/r/seduction23/08/16 01:06 PM
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Pretty boring casual small talk if you ask me. You could have imo played more the university card. Find some common things that might spark her to chat and share with you. For example: - same course -> "man that course was hard" - annoying professor -> "i swear he/she hates me" - parties -> "did you go to that party? It was pretty wild" - etc. This could be hard and akward if there was a line after you tho :)
/r/seduction23/08/16 12:22 PM
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but that when we began to text and hang out I gave her a "friendly vibe" which made her think I friend zoned her. Are you escalating enough tho? I don't really see how proper escalation can come off as "friendly vibe"? Other thing is girls can probably see that you don't want a relationship whereas they more than likely want a relationship. I dunno how open you're about it in your interactions?
/r/seduction19/08/16 07:13 AM
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Imo in general asking too late is worse than too soon. But you have to judge ýourself when is the right time based on your interactions with the said girl.
/r/seduction19/08/16 06:04 AM
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Eye contact and kino escalation.
/r/seduction19/08/16 05:56 AM
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Eh what are you trying to say...? So all 9's and 10's are prostitutes? Maybe you should go back and think about your image of women.
/r/seduction09/08/16 10:56 AM
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I'd say random shit but something related to her/your first date. Something she told you or some thing you laughed about etc. For example I had first date with this girl the week before she went to a Holiday for a week and now she came back. So i hit her up initally with basic "did you have a nice Holiday blaah blaah" and lead quickly on to "We should go out and You should tell me more in person, hows your schedule?" Then just setup time and place and leave the talking to the date.
/r/seduction12/07/16 01:01 PM
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You could continue chatting but I would advise shutting emotions out. Seems like you have feels for her and if you cling to em you will not be living your life to the fullest as you are in "maybe one day" daydream mode. So chat with her but dont expect anything or cling. Live your life and see other girls etc.
/r/seduction12/07/16 12:48 PM
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a. Why not? You got nothing to loose. b. I usually use: We should meetup "how is your schedule/calendar"? If she is interested she will state days that are ok with her so pick one that best suits your schedule. If she doesnt give any dates, move on.
/r/seduction12/07/16 12:22 PM
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Doubt you suck so much as a person as you think. Women don't demand perfection. You don't need to expectional in every aspect of life, you just have to not be severely lacking in any. So make progress on the severely lacking parts and strive to be the best man you can be but remember that perfection isnt what women are interested in, nor is it what they require.
/r/seduction05/07/16 07:39 AM
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If you want you could always order a drink to "blend in" but not actually drink it.
/r/seduction22/06/16 10:20 AM
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Do whatever works for you mate. But just don't fall into a position with a girl where you're just a friend to text to.
/r/seduction20/06/16 09:04 AM
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Yeah it's a bit clusterfuck when it comes to individual posts and styles. I would start with the sidebar stuff and go from there.
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:52 PM
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Be straightforward. Don't have long text convos. Like in the 2nd or 3rd message already state you should meet in person to see how your chemistry matches in real life. In the same message ask for number. If she gives her number shes open for a date. And if she doesnt give it, move on. And do not make the mistake of starting long texting interaction after you've got her number. Only use it for setting up the date (time, place etc.). Even better option is to ditch texting and call her. Calling wor…
/r/seduction02/03/16 10:20 AM
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Any tips how to handle obnoxious cockblock friends? Had similiar shit happen to me a couple weeks ago.
/r/seduction29/02/16 01:43 PM
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How is the stock market?
/r/seduction29/02/16 10:15 AM
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