I've been actively trying to improve my appearance and game over the last few years but i've still had no luck with women. I asked one of my female friends why I don't get any ladies and she told me that i'm "too confident" and that i'm just "too much". She pointed how when her mother gave me a ride to her house (I feel this is a good point to say that i'm 17) that I started conversation with her and how it was weird that I was doing it. Should I tone it down or should I keep being my own confident self? I've also been told before that I seem full of myself.