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| 1 | What does the classic finger touching lip body language mean?Ive heard lots of interpretations, but consensus seems to be it is sexually related yes. The biggest argument about this revolves around the fact it is likely different for each woman, generally done sub consciously and involves a range of emotions. | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 09:29 AM |
| 12 | How to respond to a nudeyou miss 100% of the shots you don't take | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to a nudeYep. So what are you going to say? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to a nudeI'd take this as some pretty hardcore flirting, to be honest. IF she's uploading for others to see, likely and exhibitionist and wants to see what your reaction is. So... What do you want to say? How do you feel about it? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 09:39 AM |
| 1 | No kiss after 2nd date ffs.When the opportunity is right, look her straight in the eyes without saying anything, drag it out for till it starts to feel borderline uncomfortable and she looks down. Say something along the lines of "I'd like to kiss you" or "I want to kiss you". Some women have said they love it when a guy asks permission if she's really shy she might like that. Essentially she needs to feel comfortable. You are going to have to go slow with this one, no way around that. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 09:14 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to a nudeWhat do you want to say? But lemme get this straight? She added you to her list of close friends, and uploaded a nude of herself to this group? Or was this sent just to you? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 08:58 AM |
| 3 | How should I respond, leading to asking her out?Got nothing soz Bro, these are deflection responses to avoid answering the question directly. Don't give up though, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. However, if you're dead set on saying something, I'd go for a fucking hail mary (while still being classy) in the hopes it tickles her interest. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Soooo... Is it good?Instead she stopped and kind of stood there in front of me giggling like a little girl She was waiting for you to invite yourself in. Women don't like to be the instigators. So I just kissed her on the cheek and left If you want something to happen, you made a decent fuck up here bro, kiss on the cheek signifies no sexual interest. Friendship vibes. But it sounds like you've still got a chance to bounce back. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it a good sign when a girl looks or ‘searches’ for you in a room full of people?If you are correct in your assumption, it is a positive sign. Not enough that I'd act on it yet, but keep your awareness out there for more. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 12:33 AM |
| 2 | About the 3% manEh, it’s very gamey. I’m sure there are other good ones, but you’re better off seeing what works best for you. I like Dan Bacons stuff among others, but that’s cause I’m Australian so it works for me. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Need some suggestionslaughs at my jokes and answers immediately to my messages decent IOIs. What should I do? Escalate to a date. How should i behave til I'll can go out with her Keep the mystery going, flirt, banter, be playful. Don't overdo the chatting though, you want to maintain that mystery and portray yourself as a good catch. A guy who is busy going about his life doesn't have all the time in the world to drop everything whenever she messages. Don't be a cold fish either, find a balance. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 09:19 AM |
| 0 | in need of some small advicehow young i look So what you're saying is you wanna be my cougar? | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 09:15 AM |
| 5 | About the 3% manSeduction? Not so much. He's all about playing the long game. It is definitely a great book to learn about relationships and communicating with women, but as for seduction and 'game', there is content out there. | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Why is most advice on here so goddamn contradictory?"Be yourself" followed by "change up a bit" Be a better, more authentic you. There's always something for you to work on, but don't lose sight of who you are. Your authenticity comes through all your language, don't be someone you're not, but work on being stronger, more confident, outgoing, etc. "Don't be nice/agreeable" followed by "don't be mean/insensitive" Be present with your emotions and feelings. If you don't like something, voice, just don't be a dick about it. "Be mysterious/have t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | I want to ask my friend (girl) to hangout this week and I kinda like her. How to respond to “is this a date?”"Woah you come on fast don't you? If you're insisting I guess" | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Having issues lasting in bedCheck this out And check out r/AJelqForYou Jelqing is more about increasing size, but there's some great content that'll help with pacing. Part of it is cortisol. The more stressed you are, the more your heart rate is up, the faster you will blow. Practice pacing yourself. Do 30min blocks of masturbating without blowing (otherwise known as edging). You're really trying to edge though, the goal is to get your body used to extended periods of stimulation without release. After a month or so of thi… | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Unsure of her interest levelSounds like she's got options and you're coming across as very neutral and not very interested/interesting. You're playing it 'too cool'. After that absolutely, you should have set something definite up, if she couldn't commit, give a "no worries, let me know when you're sure of your schedule". That last convo just sounded to chit-chatty. She's obviously not looking for that. But essentially her interest level was decent, but now it is low. Don't start pursuing, wait till she reaches out to you.… | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Help! Coworker of 2 yrs stares at me often; has gf - doesnt stopeither way he has a gf that seems to be a failed relationship but he lives with her and he supported her through college so vice versa now (yes he seems spineless or scared i dont know). we do know each other on a friend level, we know some deeply personal things about each other and he always makes an effort to see me (!) at work.... This is where you politely confront him about it. "I see the looks you keep giving, I can see what is going on, but you stay with your gf. That is your choice, but… | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Is there a guide on what to do when you have a girl coming over for Netflix?Just Netflix or Netflix and Chill? There's an important distinction there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What to do during your first hookup???Relax and lots of foreplay. You need to be aroused so everything happens naturally. If he tries to go straight for PIV, slow him the fuck down and say you need to be warmed up first, otherwise there's a good chance it could hurt especially if you're dry. Have some lube with you just in case. Key point though is to be as relaxed as possible. If he's a real gentleman, get him to give you a nice massage to begin with to loosen our muscles up, and slowly, tease around those areas that feel good. Eye… | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 08:42 AM |
| 7 | What has been the single most effective strategy to raise your self-esteem?Achieving goals. Check out r/theXeffect | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 01:56 AM |
| 4 | I live an insanely fulfilling life but my failure with women is slowing eating me up on the inside!Bro, this is low effort. What do you want, a magic pill? | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | The Godly Texting GuideBe interested in reading if you're still willing to share mate. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Should i break up with her?i wish I can on this instant be the person you want me to be, not carrying negative energy Yoda said it right, back then, my friend and it's been true ever since. "Do or do not, there is no try". You ARE that man, you just lack the self-confidence to act upon it. You know what you need to do, you are just insecure about achieving it. You are not sure what it should feel like to be how you want to be, even though ironically you already are. Think of it this, Rome was not built in a day. Clearly, … | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Should i break up with her?I really try hard to make us work but I dont think it will, wondering maybe it really is not the time for me to have a commited relationship i cannot be the man that she deserves, i cannot be a strong centered man Have a look at the things you're telling yourself. Look at all the negative energy you're carrying around and projecting. Women are very good at picking up on the energy you are vibing, no wonder she's backing off. Ease up bro. You're only 21! You've still got so much in front of you. … | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Avoid froend zone without being sleazy - examples?flirt and tease outrageously. Challenge her. A lover will stimulate her mind as well as her body. Be bold with your flirting, a friend would be too cowardly/awkward to do it. | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Avoid froend zone without being sleazy - examples?flirt and tease outrageously. Challenge her. A lover will stimulate her mind as well as her body. Be bold with your flirting, a friend would be too cowardly/awkward to do it. | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 09:58 AM |
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