M3141592653589 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The real reason dating is broken	Discussion	M3141592653589	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 11:45 PM
0	The real reason dating is broken	Debate	M3141592653589	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 02:52 PM

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–	Many women here can't seem to differentiate between consent and making a pass at a woman I am going to agree with OP. Sometimes it is very difficult to realize when she is not interested. I had recently a case where a woman literally put her ass into me. She joked with me for a while. Then when I started flirting with her and touched her arm she started saying she had a boyfriend (when before she said that she did not have one) and that I was making her uncomfortable. I said if she was not interested she could tell me that there was no problem. She literally called her friends, call…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 11:31 AM
-1	The majority of men act in ways that encourage women's entitlement and narcissism. The system is how most governments work in the developed world nowadays. Women now have the freedom to pursue their own career, vote within democracies, they don't have to marry because of social expectations/independence like before, social media and instant communication give them access to an endless amount of attention and men that not that much before did not exist. Freedom to pursue their own career creates two things among others: 1. Economical independence (Before they had to marry to ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 11:38 AM
2	The majority of men act in ways that encourage women's entitlement and narcissism. Yeah I agree but not completely. Paying for the date does increases your chances. Complementing a woman constantly depends on that specific woman expectations. There are however other things men do that are making women more entitled like: - Number of guys asking women out. (This one is also difficult to avoid because it increases also your chances) - Sending her constantly messages and liking her posts, even when you know she has not expressed interest, i.e., giving her constant attention - Bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 09:38 AM
1	The real reason dating is broken It is not that simple. Women are not dating men as much as before. Why? We don't really know. The video analyses possible causes. Among them imo: Instant communication, technology, social media, women new focus on their career, old expectations in women of a man that earns more and expectation of a man that fulfils their requirements list that is really just 1% or less of the population etc. So they just prefer to stay at home or chat online during months than go out on dates. Consequences: low …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 07:01 PM
7	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. This does not make any sense in my opinion. If a man or women pays for the date it does not mean that the other is entitled to anything. Have you signed a contract that says otherwise? Paying for the date is a treat from one person to another. You should be thankful that the other person is inviting you and maybe have it in consideration when deciding if you want to continue with that person. Men that think that women should have sex because they are inviting are being irrational. And women that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:26 PM
1	The real reason dating is broken How are they going to know I am asking out that many girls? Its just statistics. If you ask more girls out you have more chance of success, especially in today's environment where for some reason women don't want to go out on dates anymore. That is the point of the post. I would like to know why this is happening. Besides, I am not trying to meet any quota. I would very much like to be in a healthy relationship and I am more than willing to contribute at home even if I earn more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 11:04 AM
1	The real reason dating is broken I don't believe restoring the old social contract is an intelligent solution although it would solve the problem because we would go back to when it did not exist. I believe though that women need to start going on dates with men and vice versa. Even if the man earns less than the women. In the post I mention that from personal experience most women don't want to go out on dates and me and my friend are always willing to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 11:28 PM
2	The real reason dating is broken I agree with you. The video tries to blame in part men saying we want traditional woman. But what I try to say is that women want a traditional man even when they earn sometimes more than men and that is very rare right now and that may be why women don't want to date anymore. I also mention most women don't really want to date when most men do. At least in my personal experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 11:24 PM
1	The real reason dating is broken The video mentions exactly "that women's employment rate is overtaking men's". Minute 9:30. From an article of the Financial Times. I also found these articles: 1. The Gen Z gender pay gap has reversed with young women earning more than young men 2. Gender pay gap in U.S. has narrowed slightly over 2 decades You are right though. My affirmation that women are earning more than men was not correct. When I say in my experience I mean that I try to date (ask out) around 100 girls per year. Most gir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 11:22 PM
0	The real reason dating is broken The video argues that men still want to be the provider and maintain traditional values and that is a possible reason for why women are not dating men as much as before. The reality is that women are actually earning more than men on average so the old roles expectations don’t correspond to reality. I believe that many women may want to focus on their career and still want a man earns more than them something that does not happen anymore. But i dont think it explains completely why are we dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 06:11 PM
0	The real reason dating is broken The video talks about a study in which men that earned less than women still contributed less to household chores or childcare. In my case it is the same as you but there is biologically evidence that we like our partners at least in part because of the exchange of resources or trade in the relationship. We are still animals after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 06:02 PM
10	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. I partly agree with your answer or maybe I am not understanding correctly what you mean. It is important to be clear with your partner. If you are doing something that your partner explicitly has said does not want then you are trespassing that consent. However how are men going to know what a woman wants or doesn't want without talking beforehand. There is this culture of "you should understand" and many cases of "I said yes but then I thought about it again and actually it was no". How are we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 12:47 PM