| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 99 | "You guys underestimate yourselves" | Inner Game | M728 | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 46 | Just do it guys, it is not that hard | M728 | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 10:50 PM | |
| 4 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated. | M728 | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:08 PM | |
| 3 | Going to try this stuff | M728 | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 06:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | “Just As Famous As A Beautiful Woman”He emphasized the NEVER go on a date part if he didn't initiate. Maybe it is because I am younger and/or in college and taking some classes where the majority are woman, but I have been asked out several times recently. For instance, last summer at Barnes and Noble a woman started a conversation with me and I was asked her if I wanted to have coffee. She was a bit older like maybe 30 and I was in a hurry so I politely declined. My current girlfriend asked me out I met her in a class we are b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | “Just As Famous As A Beautiful Woman”She sure isn't going to approach me because the large majority of women will never approach a man. You think women never approach men? Sometimes they do though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | “Just As Famous As A Beautiful Woman”I am a guy but was an exceptionally cute kid. I remember as a little kid(3-5 years old probably) getting constant attention from adults and other adults telling my parents how cute I was. I remember on flights the cockpit crew would always invite me up to the front and give me a pair of wings, and I noticed they didn't do this for every kid. I would be given the special treatment pretty much everywhere we went, at least that is what I remember. I liked the attention but I think my parents actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | "You guys underestimate yourselves"Well, that one fizzled out pretty quickly. It did get physical but no LTR. She just wasn't my type, I mean personality wise I don't think we were compatible. She is now dating a guy on our dorm wing he is a football player and actually a really cool guy. I think they are better for each other TBH and I am happy for them. For me, the next week after my last post this girl in a class I was taking asked me out and we have been dating since and are now exclusive. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of cold approaches actually lead to a dating/LTR?Not all but I think a lot of women don't like compliments from strange men that revolve around our looks ie eyes, smile, hair or body. But are sometimes more interested if a guy comments on things like style, clear hobby/ interest, or something neutral. That seems to be a difference between men and women then. When a girl compliments me on my appearance, like my eyes for instance. Although I think women are more likely to compliment me on some item of clothing I am wearing for whatever reason th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Isn't there a significant chunk of dudes whose only barrier to sex and dating is their own apathy?She is 18, and the ones I know about-4, 2 actual former boyfriends and two she dated for a month or two I think. Those are the ones she has told me about. I don't know if I should call her a girlfriend or someone I am dating, though we are exclusive, I serial date I don't spin plates. I haven't been with her very long, she asked me out in a class we are taking together. We are also recently both out of an LTR. I have had a couple ONS myself since I broke up with my ex and before I met her. One w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Isn't there a significant chunk of dudes whose only barrier to sex and dating is their own apathy?I was talking with this about my girlfriend the other day, saying I don't like ONS because sex makes me catch feelings for the girl I am with. She actually kinda disagreed with that and thought sex is just sex and you can do it without developing feelings for the person you are doing it with. Kinda surprised me actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | "You guys underestimate yourselves"Thanks, I am sorta half joking. If I hadn't taken the initiative and asked this girl out right away she most likely would have ended up being my oneitis lol. She is IMHO easily in the top 1% in terms of looks even without makeup. Of course I may be biased because I have a crush on her and am sleeping with her now. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | "You guys underestimate yourselves"I have an update, last night went VERY well. I think I am in love now. | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 04:10 PM |
| 9 | "You guys underestimate yourselves"Thanks bro, will let you know how it goes | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads?Uh..Ted Bundy..cough cough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | My first time gaming/ tips for fellow beginnersGood Job! I did what you did last week with similar good results. I think learning about game also helps build your confidence that other people have done this and you can too. Then it becomes easier to just go up and talk to them. I think with enough practice game will become internalized to the point you don't have to consciously think about it anymore. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.Thanks bro for the advice. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.You were correct about there being lots of beautiful women. I am more interested in getting girl 1. I may be a hopeless romantic but ideally I would like to have one good woman worth marrying and eventually having a family with than a bunch of women on the side whom I have little emotional connection to. Not that it wouldn't be fun to have a harem in the meantime hehe. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.Well I appreciate the time you took for the detailed response here. I have been taking the last couple days for family and me time. If we want so psychoanalyze and self reflect I think part of me did what I did in part to get back at my ex for what she did. She slept with another guy, so I was going to sleep with another woman. I know that isn't a great reason but that is what I did. I think I also wanted to prove to myself that I could attract other women besides her, which I did. "I think forg… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.Girl 1-4?, girl 5?, 5-6 girls would be a handful I would think haha. I wish. I am trying not to get oneitis but tbh I don't know if I will ever meet a girl again as beautiful as the one I met at Whole Foods. Hopefully at college there will be a few around I can meet though. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.thanks for replying, here is a cut and paste from another post reply I wrote more about what happened - With stripper girl, when the whole foods girl couldn't make it I called stripper girl to see if she wanted to come over and bang(not the words I used though hehe). She said she couldn't make it last night but she wanted to meet again another night this week. Of course I am leaving so the next chance I will have to bang her will be whenever I come back for vacation or a long weekend. Weird thin… | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.thanks, I'll take that as a compliment, good luck with your move. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.Thanks, yeah I tend to think things out and extrapolate future conclusions long before I should, if that makes any sense. When one applies this kind of thinking to women, some people would call it oneitis and fantasize about a future perfect relationship with a woman they barely know. Which is what I find myself doing now. With the Whole Foods girl, we didn't actually meet up last night. Apparently her mother had to go to the ER and she was really worried. When I talked to her again later it tur… | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.I am honestly not sure at this point. A bunch of people asked me that in my last post and I tried to explain to them what I did. They thought what I did was nothing special and almost seemed to get a little upset. One guy found a picture of me and suggested that the only reason I have been so successful is because of my looks(and my race apparently). I don't know at this point but I have seen objectively ugly guys with beautiful girlfriends and even knew a few in high school. They were great g… | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Closed the deal , now don't know what to do it is complicated.Thanks. Actually I don't really want to become a player, for me this pua and seduction stuff is a means to an end. I want to find a great woman to eventually marry, settle down with and way in the future have a family with. I know it may sound a bit idealistic this day and age but I am really looking for love and not just sex. But as you said there are plenty of girls and the best way to find "the one" is to date many different ones. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | I’m an anxious mess and I fucking did it... and I feel pretty good.Congrats! You got up the courage to approach her. That's at least half the battle, just approaching. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | You are better looking than you thinkHow true, I think sometimes others see it where you miss it also. My weakness I think is reading IOI's from women, I am pretty clueless about that actually. The other day I went to a coffee shop with my cousin to talk and help me get over my ex girlfriend. There were a group of young women at another table. After we left he was telling me" dude, did you see all those women? they were totally checking you out!" and I was like "no". Maybe I was still to upset about what my girlfriend did to notice… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI am just telling you what worked for me. People are asking, I am telling them what I did okay? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardJust ask them a question about themselves, like do you come here often? Do you live around here? And then let them do the talking and take it from there. Usually they will ask you back. Just back and forth from there, hone in on talking about what interests them most or if you have mutual interests(hobbies, some show or movie you liked, trip you went on, art exhibit you want to see or saw, stuff like that). If they say I like to do such and such, or enjoyed whatever, you would say "yeah me too I… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI guess your perspective somewhat depends on personal experience and how much you think looks vs personality play a part. There was this guy at my high school he was literally a midget, and he had a beautiful tall girlfriend. He was also very outgoing and probably had great game too. Everyone liked him. Another guy at my high school was a scrawny looking dude with glasses but very smart, goal driven, and must have had something going for him because in spite of the way he looked he had a 7/10 gi… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardSo you are saying that social skills, knowing how to talk to women, being brave enough to go up and talk to the women in the first place, knowing what to say to them, that is all invalidated because of my looks? I think if I acted like a total retard when I went up to them, or didn't go up to them at all, I would still have 0 success no matter how good looking I am. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Going to try this stuffUpdate- got a date with the stripper, gonna see her tonight:-) hopefully after this my ex-gf will not be the only one of us getting sex. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI was thinking about some of the replies to my post and I have a theory, actually a hypothesis about what I may have done right. I have had a girlfriend, the same one for most of my high school years. I I think through my past experiences I have gained an understanding of how women think and what buttons to push. It all comes down to basic social skills guys. If you can show that you have the ability to open a conversation naturally, keep it going, and not creep them out, that is a big step ri… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hard"For the rest of us it's more likely to go something like this." Okay I watched the first 12 minutes of this and I think I get the idea. He has this guy literally jumping in front of women on a crowded city street and telling them they look nice and then just walking away. Most of the women still seemed flattered but of course he is not going to close doing that! You have to have an opportunity to approach them naturally. At least like on a not so crowded sidewalk and you are already naturally w… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI don't consider myself an expert, I have just done one set of approaches one day and I think part of it is that I just got really lucky. If I were to give any advice, I would say don't just say a generic "hi" (even though I actually did this with the 10/10 cause I totally lost my cool with her). Say something contextual to the situation. One of the girls at Whole Foods I approached I was looking for a supplement and was in that section of the store. She was doing the same thing. Even though I k… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardI sorta agree I think maybe I just got really lucky, I got a winning streak haha. But if you don't approach you have zero chance at all, so why not try? Unlike gambling you will not go broke by approaching. I will read your link as soon as I answer everyone else here. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardThere are still quite a few of them here in California. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardOh believe me I will. Problem is I am starting college next week I hope I have enough time. I honestly wasn't expecting the results I got, but every time I was successful made me more confident. Then after the 10/10 I figured I cannot beat that and to quit while I am ahead haha. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Just do it guys, it is not that hardYeah I am half Norwegian ancestry and I visited some extended family in Norway last year, and yes I agree there are some pretty hot ones! | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Going to try this stuffThanks, I was thinking about a couple girls I could try to get their #'s and wonder if they are interested in me. One of them works at Barnes and Noble(big bookstore chain in the U.S.) I have seen her there a few times and she always smiles at me and says "hi" and sometimes flips her hair. Is that a strong IOI? She is very cute, probably like a 7/10 but a bit on the tall side, like 5'10" or 5'11" and at 6'1" I would only be a couple inches taller than her, don't know how much that matters but sh… | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 10:19 PM |
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