| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Own Your Shit Megathread225 bench 1 rm Squat 280 3 reps Pulls ups 12 reps 161 lbs 5’10 22% bf Currently reading no more Mr nice guy | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Own Your Shit MegathreadStarting from square 1 Moved to a new city at 28 years old No friends. No women. No experience with women/sex Started working out and doing BJJ Lot of insecurities i keep putting on myself. Financially stable for now. Own marketing service. Working as a server part time as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/26 10:28 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP MegathreadWell that’s what I meant, just for research. I’ve been practicing and implementing and I’ve gotten better. Hence why I’m looking for more things to improve on | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/26 07:07 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadWhat are some other good subreddits to browse? In terms of improving as a man. Social skills I like, tryna find some more that have content like that | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/26 05:43 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadGoing on a date for the first time. Any advice? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | First time going out aloneI felt super stiff and didn’t have fun dancing in the moment I was glad I approached though on my first night. Maybe some more reps In situations like that will make me better | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 02:12 PM |
| 7 | AskTRP Megathread1piece of advice for someone starting off fresh in a new area? No friends, women, etc.. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/26 02:44 AM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadHow did you get confidence in sex? Being a good lay can’t counter a lot of negatives as long as their nothing crazy But being a bad lay can also counter a lot of positives I haven’t had sex in 5 years because of premature ejaculation. Just absolute horrible confidence. I won’t even escalate because if it leads to the bedroom then I’ll just end up feeling embarrassed. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP Megathread27 years old 5’10 170ish lbs I’m not a bad looking person, decent at least. The problem is my confidence and drive. I work out the best that I can to fill up my frame (small bones (wrists and ankles) even smaller then some women) and socialize with as many people as I can. I make a decent amount of money passively that I built through the COVID years, enough for me too get by and then some. I also took a job as a waiter at a restaurant for another source of income and to practice social skills. … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/26 03:53 PM |
| – | AskTRP MegathreadNew to RP journey. How do I deal with confrontations? Had a strange situation yesterday, where I was sitting in a restaurant listening to an NBA game. Big dude sits close to me and gets annoyed saying my phone is too loud after about 10 minutes. Most of the restaurant was empty, but had people talking here and there, and loud music playing on the restaurant speake. I coulda told him to scoot over or find another seat as there were a lot of empty seats and I sat down first, but my first reaction … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadHow do I get out of my mentals and go back out there. I’ve had premature ejaculation for a while that’s ruined me in wanting to pursue women/dates. I don’t see the point when the deed is happening and I feel worse/embarrassed because of a 5 second pump | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/26 02:26 PM |
| 4 | AskTRP MegathreadTips for moving to a new city? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/26 06:41 AM |
| 1 | The blood work guide?The idea was to find noteworthy tests that particulate to men. For example testosterone or vitamin D. There are many others of course, but I’m not too sure of em. Then to have discussions about those results, why it should get tested, ideal levels dependent on age, etc.. lots of things can be attributed to a deficiency in a particular vitamin and I didn’t find a guide in the search bar so was throwing this out there for future ideas. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/26 08:14 PM |
| 3 | 2026 is 2 months away. How do you upgrade yourself as a man?Thanks. Was looking into meditation actually so I’ll have that checked Doing good on the gym Doing good with my money Been a hard time meeting woman | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/25 02:42 PM |
| 3 | 2026 is 2 months away. How do you upgrade yourself as a man?Mexico is my background but I was born in America | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/25 09:03 PM |
| 7 | 2026 is 2 months away. How do you upgrade yourself as a man?Agree 100%. That’s my biggest issue. Mental issues dragging my mindset down | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Learning seduction improved overall quality of life.What do you know now? 🫡 | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Disengaged/ low energy helpSleep habits are good I get my 8 hours Was exercising regularly but got hurt recently so I’ve been off for about a month. Relationship with parents is iffy, they got their problems with each other which is annoying to deal with Sugar is maybe a little bit over and under daily I don’t really drink caffeine except maybe a soda couple of times a month | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Self doubt with womenOne of the issues with my confidence circles back to women, if I could spin plates like the opportunity I have, my confidence would skyrocket but I keep shooting myself down | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 12 | Bad at sex holding me backYeah I gotta get over the hump, sucks that they’ll be attracted to you then after sex they see you as a beta | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Bad at sex holding me backYeah I would get more confidence if I could get em to orgasms at least, I don’t know how to eat pussy when it’s show time. I’ve seen videos on how to do it tho, need more experience with it | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Bad at sex holding me backI wanna do it though without having help of pills or numbing agents. I don’t wanna constantly take pills when I have sex. I’m only 20 yrs old | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Bad at sex holding me backYeah this is what tends to happen, constant “aw shit here we go again.” “Won’t make her cum”, “small dick”, “chump sex” | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Bad at sex holding me backI’ve gone over it but I can’t effectively become a sex god with such low experience. Will read again tho thanks | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 06:19 PM |
| 22 | Bad at sex holding me backNervousness, sometimes my knees shake like a blender. Been on nofap for 2 weeks now | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | for those who have; how did you go from Beta to AlphaWhat makes you charismatic? I was also in your situation, without the wealth and arrogance. The biggest thing for me was to focus on myself and my goals (lifting, boxing, school, work, etc..) I get respect now because I respect myself and others notice how I value my time. Also don’t be a dick, people will see your “alpha” status but they don’t have to respect it. Bragging will make them think you view yourself as superior and what’s to respect about that. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How to be charismaticMy issues are with social skills, I can’t conversate and make connections. That’s the biggest thing with friends, thier friends, family. This is because I grew up shy meeting people/family, and didn’t have much friends in school. I feel awkward, bored, and out of place most of the time and NEED to change this. For example I went to a party with my cousin and it was all his friends and other bunch of people that knew each other. What could I have done to be a sociable/warm person in that situatio… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Low social proof leading to low smvYeah that’s what I stuggle with the most, with friends tho it’s smooth as butter for me | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Low social proof leading to low smvThat’s true haha. How can I start if a group is in a circle talking then a lone random person shows up. At the nightclub for instance? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Low social proof leading to low smvI plan on it next semester | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Low social proof leading to low smvYeah, a lot of people see it untill I ruin it myself knowing I’m alone then it’s a downhill slope | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Low social proof leading to low smvI’m gonna be a junior next year. I’ve talked to some people in a frat that I’m aiming to join so we’ll see how it goes | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Low social proof leading to low smvYup haha | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Low social proof leading to low smvGood point | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Low social proof leading to low smvGood point, though it’s kinda hard sometimes when people are with their cliques | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Low social proof leading to low smvI got the first step down of talking to people not the second part tho | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Low social proof leading to low smvYup, most of em are just acquaintances. The thing is most are already in a friend group how do I just butt in and join. I have a few friends but they’re not the social type and are “beta” as this sub would describe | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 06:38 PM |
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