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| 2 | What the Hell is Wrong With Me?This. A hundred times this. Women crying are the most manipulative creatures at their most manipulative and duplicitous. Let the two guys have her six ways to Sunday and then drop her. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 11:01 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend was raped, what do I do?Even if you eventually have to leave her, it won't be your fault or hers. If you got raped by a man in prison, would she still look at you the same? If you got beaten up in front of her, would she still look at you the same? Go with your feelings - if you really think she would be with you and support you instead of feeling disgust, then she's a keeper. Also, keep an eye out for erratic behavior. There was a thread on /r/relationships a couple of months ago where a girl was raped and then the co… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Have a very good LTR with lots of green flags but found out she lied about n-countTrust, but verify. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong to believe sex belongs within LTRs?Casual sex these days is like fluoride in the water. Whether you like it or not, unless you only get your water from a trusted source, it's gonna have fluoride in it, just like if you date a "normal" girl who has been to college, lives with roommates etc, it's almost a guarantee that she's had casual sex. Look at this for example: https://archive.is/202l8 Girl goes to college, loses her virginity and immediately falls into casual sex arrangement. To avoid this, you're gonna have to thoroughly ve… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl I was seeing started withholding sex big time so I decided to pull the plug. I'm just here for reassurance that I made the right move.A threesome is just that much wilder than a series of (opposite sex) partners. It means that she craves attention during sex and one guy may not be enough. Plus, the high water mark has been raised on her sexual experiences. Can you satisfy her craving to be fondled by four hands simultaneously, to be penetrated by two penises? There's a good reason for the innate revulsion you feel. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 10:42 AM |
| 5 | Is wearing boots that make you taller cheating/lying?If you've brought her home then she's also likely taken off her heels. Really though, if you're worried about her looking at you "in disgust" you're not in the right frame of mind. Work on that. You should never think that a girl will look at you in disgust for anything, maybe short of kissing her mother in front of her. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 01:48 PM |
| 1 | how to act / feel about meeting people my girl has hooked up withIf you're asking this question and you're on this subreddit, I thick you need to game more women... real talk, you don't have abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 05:21 PM |
| 2 | I believe a woman is attempting to make me jealous by going on a date with her Ex.Touch her, try to kiss her. Go with the DiCarlo escalation ladder. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 03:02 PM |
| 2 | How/when to break up with solid 2 year ltr who has done nothing wrong?The longer you wait, the more painful it is. Unless you're looking to swing a branch. Do you see yourself as a branch-swinger? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 11:41 AM |
| 2 | I believe a woman is attempting to make me jealous by going on a date with her Ex.Escalate sooner rather than later. If she goes "whoa, whoa whoa" then you know she just wanted her validation fix. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 11:19 AM |
| -1 | "But you have a girlfriend..."Stop, freeze out, then "it's complicated..." Careful now, don't get sucked into a bullshit hour-long logical conversation after that, which is an instant pussy drier. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/13 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Wife snitched on me... to my motherThe withdrawal is supposed to make her come back to him, at which time he can lay down the law. Bullshit "let's talk about our feelings" is how he probably got in this mess in the first place. She needs to know he is mad and talking it out ≠ steaming mad. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/13 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Wife snitched on me... to my motherThere are so many red flags with this situation, I don't even know where to begin. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/13 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Wife snitched on me... to my motherWithdraw from her for the next few days. Women hate that. Don't talk to her anymore about it, but just withdraw. I see soooo many red flags here. :( | /r/askTRP | 25/12/13 11:04 AM |
| 8 | My Abridged Kissing GuideNina Hartley has a good one I hear. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 08:22 PM |
| 0 | How do a deal with an alpha boyfriend showing beta behavior?Hmm, I'd say that it's good that you're coming here for advice on what to do. It's one thing that you can look at your reactions and understand where they're coming from. Understand that most people get into relationships with people that have value similar to their own, and he's not a beta bitchboy just because he shows you feelings, which at this time are insecure since he has a lot to worry about. Support him through this time of need and trust that once he's through this difficult time he'll… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/13 02:21 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Should have done more, drunk roommate got in the way, still mild successI see a bunch of opportunities to ask for her number, don't worry about how it looks or how the mood may be and all the other million variables man, you just have to go for it. At the end of the night is just as good a time as any, your friend can hang off your shoulder for the 1-2 minutes it takes for you to hand her your phone and call herself. Also, you "seriously want to date" a woman covered in tattoos that you met at a bar? lol keepin' it real I see. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 01:59 PM |
| 0 | "I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that"There is no way of knowing who knows what they are talking about, and who is a 13 year old troll in the dungeon. So true. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 11:16 AM |
| -4 | "I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that"There's a time for genuine interactions, but as a recovering beta just listen to what the more experienced people say. How far did trusting your own instincts get you? | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 07:05 PM |
| -10 | "I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that"Ugh, that doesn't sound good. Avoid anything that can be taken as internet humor. Trannies are definitely out, until you become super comfortable joking with her and she knows your sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 07:03 PM |
| 9 | I need helpThis guy literally wants us to spoon feed him game. I'm not down for that. If he said, I've read the Mystery Method (or Bang or Models or whatever) and I have some questions, I'd happily answer. He's just saying, 'give me confidence I haven't any.' | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Disqualification vs Frame ControlYou are ultimately hitting on her, if you aren't then it's a short trip to the friend zone. Now, if you go with the first example, you'll need a strong frame and balls of steel to deflect all the inevitable shit tests. However, if she keeps talking to you, and that's a pretty big if, you're more likely to get in her pants. Ignore that for now. You'll know when the time to bring that out is right. For now, don't actively qualify or disqualify her, just talk to her and tease her, and flirt with he… | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:58 PM |
| 2 | "I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that"Don't ever give a straight answer. This is a common shit test, google some responses and use them next time. Honesty will get you nowhere, there's nothing more of a turnoff to a girl than an earnest beta eager to offer up honest answers about whatever the girl asks. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:54 PM |
| 0 | How to change your mindset from receiving to giving?"Giving a girl a good time" sounds like beta nonsense. You are talking to her to amuse yourself and if she is along for the ride and enjoying herself, so much the better. You do talk to women out of neediness, and you won't fix that in one evening with one epiphany. Just keep talking to them and the neediness will melt away in due time like the winter snow in Spring. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:53 PM |
| 4 | I need helpdo some research then come back | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl on a instant date in under a minute?Something tells me you don't know what you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 04:36 PM |
| 0 | How to get a girl on a instant date in under a minute?Don't make it more awkward than it has to be. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 01:01 PM |
| 0 | How to get a girl on a instant date in under a minute?What about getting a connection? What about getting to know her? You're jumping the gun by asking her to come with you or for her number too soon. Even in a club, you must get past Attraction and into Qualification before you can bounce her to another location, and that's in an environment where she's going to another area of the same venue. Unless you can back this up with FR's, I'd suggest building a little more attraction and getting to know her (and getting some interest from her) before you… | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 12:55 PM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up "flashing" you...Oh great, stupid internet humor everywhere. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 11:22 AM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up "flashing" you...If you're asking about it on seddit... | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 11:21 AM |
| 0 | How important is a kiss on the first date?No, it's not. He's basically saying that every woman is different, and that there's no point to sharing strategies in a place like this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How important is a kiss on the first date?Yes, you should go for it, at the right time sure but if the right time doesn't present itself, get the attempt out of the way in any case. I say this because girls are very, very quick to reject guys or friendzone them if they aren't sufficiently sexually aggressive/assertive so you HAVE to escalate all the way until she stops you. Two things can happen when you go for a kiss where you're not sure of it: She can accept it. Nothing more needs to be said here. She can reject it with a head turn o… | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 01:09 PM |
| -1 | When a girl brings up "flashing" you...You handled it right. Partly. I would have said something like, "Nah, I actually do. I know you are trying to tempt me to a life of sin, but I've dedicated my life to the monkhood and you will not get anywhere with that!" You keep it unpredictable, sexy and flirty. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 12:32 PM |
| 5 | When a girl brings up "flashing" you...You guys don't know what's up. This is clear beta bait. If you fall all over it like a slobbering dog, you're going to get booted right over into her orbit. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 12:31 PM |
| 2 | How do I convince myself to go after FWB instead of seeking relationships?Your mind is still in the needy mindset, it still thinks that if you don't have a girl on lockdown, you're going to face a long sex drought. It's just like a fat person who's lost weight. They know logically that they don't need to eat, they're not hungry, and the food will be available later, but they want to eat it all up anyway. Nothing but time and long-term abundance will change your thinking. | /r/seduction | 05/12/13 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Moving too fast? But a girl doesn't mind the advances?Ignore her babbling about moving too fast and keep escalating when you meet her. If she doesn't respond when you're in front of her, touching her, then she's not into you. Needless to say, if she doesn't want to meet you, she's not into you. | /r/seduction | 05/12/13 05:48 PM |
| 0 | [Online Game]Girls go radio silent when I ask for number or suggest a meetupYour transition is very abrupt. | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Asking for an opinion on two girls...and what this means.No, it's preselection. | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Don't let your interest get noticed Vs. Stating your intentions from the beginning.Maybe you aren't doing "manly" right. | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 10:06 AM |
| 3 | I'm asking a girl out for the first time in my life tomorrow.You're not chasing after her so she'll usually re-initiate after that, and you can set up another date later. It goes back to not being too available. Just today, I was about to make a date with a girl and when I said let's meet at 8pm, she said she couldn't make it because she had class. I left it at that, knowing that she'll reach out to me to reschedule and that gives me the better position next time. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] (micro): nice handling of "you are too late, I am dating somebody else"... and then? | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:36 PM |
| 2 | She wants to know if my friends will be thereUgh so supplicating. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 07:26 PM |
| 2 | She agreed to lunch but my "intentions should only be friendly..she has been burned before"Am I the only one who wouldn't go on a date with a girl that said something like this? She's already framed the date as friendly so you going on it would be falling into her frame. Tell her you only want to take her out with the most impurest of intentions. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 05:50 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate when on a date?No, just a guy who likes to get laid. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate when on a date?This is false, in fact a deep intellectual connection is more likely to hurt you in your pursuit of the poon. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 05:16 PM |
| 18 | I'm asking a girl out for the first time in my life tomorrow.If she tries to reschedule, tell her you don't have that date free but will let her know what works later on. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Girls in your social circleFlirt with every girl all the time, but maintain plausible deniability. The girls who like you back will flirt with you, and then you can turn that relationship around later on. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 03:54 PM |
| 1 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneI have no idea what happened here. Who did you end up with? If it was with the shy girl who was affected by your piece, what about the fact that she had someone she was interested in? | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 03:52 PM |
| 1 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?I bet dolts with 90 IQ get laid more than I do. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 03:12 AM |
| 0 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?Wow, a new way to never get laid. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 03:00 AM |
| 31 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?Snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. I've done that on more than one occasion. Makes me sad when I realize the mistakes I made. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Tips for Dating an Attention WhoreNo. But if you get to a point where she says "what are we?" then that's your chance. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips for Dating an Attention WhoreEvery guy wants the girl to date them instead of you, but she's dating you, boss, like it or not. Do you not want her to have guy friends? I don't agree with this. I think a girl should cut way down on her male friends when she wants to have a relationship. This is just my personal guideline, and I have high standards for a relationship. If she is still seeing guys one-on-one and these aren't like childhood friends, trust me she's keeping them as orbiters. And do you really want a girl who likes… | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How to join a conversation without being "that guy"?1 tidbit: Always come in with a little higher energy than the group, then as they accept you, tone it down. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Notes from Mark Manson's talk in PortugalHow many students has this Mark Manson guy taught successfully? | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Notes from Mark Manson's talk in PortugalI wasn't sure to upvote you or not because I had no idea whether you were actually supporting Manson's ideas or not. Turns out you weren't, so I upvoted you. I think it's the way you used the quotes. Anyway, I don't agree with Manson's stuff. Too much "just be yourself" | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Hey, tell me some stories about how you've successfully developed a friend with benefits, and perhaps relate it to my contextI wonder what girls would regret more... a guy just up and leaving them because he kept silent about her weight gain until he couldn't take any more, or him telling her to work out with him and eat healthy so she could lose the weight that bothered him. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:23 PM |
| 6 | [FR] 20 Questions, K-closeTell her you're rooting for potatoes. It's an Irish tradition. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:21 PM |
| -1 | Dating multiple womenI am currently dating two women (one for about two and a half months, and one for about four weeks, she's my favorite) and may be going on a date with another tomorrow, she may or may not be added to the rotation. I'm forensic with my cleanup and even then sometimes I miss shit. Clean up your bed, different hair etc is a pain. Even the smell can be your downfall. You can't be lazy at all, just yesterday I pushed one of my girls out the door and went to the gym, and at the gym, I texted the other… | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 06:21 PM |
| 1 | "Remind me please on Monday" - would you?I'm the one on the right, if that helps. This is Whatsapp - if it had contact images next to each message I'd color them pink and blue or something haha. I'm telling her that I can't do Monday, but Tuesday or Sunday would work. Also, her English is terrible, which is reflected in some of her strange replies. I asked her earlier "Do you work everyday?" and she replied "Sure!!!!!"... like wtf? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/13 09:59 AM |
| 1 | "Remind me please on Monday" - would you?One thing I'm a bit concerned about is that I'd have texted her anyway because I like to confirm plans in advance on the day of. However, with her telling me to do it, it seems like I'd be falling into her frame and doing what she told me. Maybe I should text her on Tue itself? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 05:34 PM |
| 3 | "Remind me please on Monday" - would you?Yeah if it's a pity date then I really don't want to go through with it. I have far better uses of my time, and that's the kind of frame I want to put across. I think I won't remind her and wait for her to re-initiate. I'll also make other plans in case she flakes. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 02:48 PM |
| 1 | "Remind me please on Monday" - would you?I pushed back a bit with "Hehe are you that forgetful?" but I probably could have done more at that time. Tips? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Got a date or something tmrw night, no idea wtf I'm doing.Why did you pick a bar so far away? Get one that's walking distance from your house so you can go out for a walk and end up at your place. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Making a girl mineShe's super sarcastic, and cynical. Sounds like a real catch. Does she shave the side of her head, too? Also, I came in here expecting to find a man wanting advice on making a girl dependent on him psychologically. You can't make a girl yours if she doesn't even know you have a penis. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Married with Mistresses: Am I doing this right?In today's world, divorcing for no reason will be the same as divorcing for adultery so your punishment would be the same either way. I'd say wait and see. Why fuck with a good situation? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/13 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Most trp marriage advice looks at loss of wealth as a major reason against. What if the prospective wife is much much more wealthy than you? How does that factor in to trp?Wealth shouldn't factor into it, because its a rare case where she'll be comfortable sharing it with you. In most cases, she'll be either resentful of you for using her as a free ride or have an iron-fist grip on her money anyway. "My money is my money, your money is the family's!" | /r/askTRP | 09/11/13 05:22 PM |
| 15 | Fuck buddy fucked another guyHave some self-respect man. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/13 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How would you continue this conversation?I do want to re-open her, but I don't know when or what to re-open with. My online game sucks. I'm thinking "k so there goes my plan of getting rich by selling cheap drinks to hipsters"... but I don't know how to segue from that. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/13 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How would you continue this conversation?Thanks. I'm going to let this one sit a bit. Not counting on her to re-initiate, but I will in a few days i guess. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/13 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How would you continue this conversation?I got it from trp. How do you open girls on Tinder? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/13 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?Its like those pole dancing classes. Ostensibly for "fitness," but we all know they are really about sexuality. At least they're not rubbing up on men the whole evening. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/13 10:11 AM |
| 3 | On paying for dates...Most cases that devolves to.. "OK, so where do you want to take us?" "Umm, I dunno, where do you wanna go?" | /r/askTRP | 21/10/13 11:37 AM |
| 3 | A girl you're interested in asks, "do you have a girlfriend?" You don't. How do you respond indicating that you're available without looking beta?You've slept with every guy that ever hit on you? Anyway, drop the accusatory tone. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/13 11:23 AM |
| 3 | A girl you're interested in asks, "do you have a girlfriend?" You don't. How do you respond indicating that you're available without looking beta?You could be turned off, but you might also be intrigued because research shows that the things we say we hate, we actually love. And if you had internally friend-zoned the guy, you might re-think your decision based on this new information. And that's what game is all about. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?Thank you for this. I wasn't familiar with the concept but it makes perfect sense. I'm a high value man, and I'm not going to stick around when a girl is throwing signs of wantonness left and right. I've nexted her. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?I am fine with salsa dancing, but for her to treat it as her own thing and not invite me when I've expressed an interest in hanging out with her for the night is not really something I look for in a quality girl. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl going dancing by herself, friend sees her and tells me. How would you take it?Some bitches just like to dance, and some bitches are just hoes. Which one is she? I think she just likes to dance. However, as RPreboot put it, what's telling is that she didn't invite me. Why did you promote her beyond this status to begin with? I think I ignored a few red flags or thought that she was just saying stuff that she thought I'd like. For example, I asked her where she saw herself in 5 years and she said she would be single and having fun. She also hates marriage and kids. Honestly… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/13 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys still get crushes?Looks like most of the reason you like her is because (you think) she likes you. Is that right? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/13 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing says she is going to "punish" me for forgetting our date tonight. How to respond?No reply, but if you must, "little spoon doesn't make the rules." | /r/askTRP | 23/09/13 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Have you guys ever met, or had a relationship with someone who really didn't fit the picture that TRP paints of most women? Or someone who you felt NAWALT applied to? If so, how long did it last? How was/is the relationship?All I saw is... Why do you say this? NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT NAWALT | /r/askTRP | 12/09/13 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?I agree that I need an attitude shift. In fact, I even know in which phase I need it - when we are alone together and on a date, and afterwards. Its hard for me to get to an alpha place because once I get on a date I start fantasizing about making her my girlfriend and then come across as needy. I either start thinking of her as my girlfriend or I don't want to see her again. No in-between. Like I went out with this other girl after the date with the one in this thread and we kissed and she's sl… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I told off a colleague at work, how should I have handled it?You could have stopped what you were doing and turned to face her. "WHAT. GO ON. " | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?In retrospect, she liked the humor and the teasing and I'm gonna keep going with it in the beginning, but I'm also going to tone it down on the date because when it was just us two it felt a little dancing monkey-ish. I care too much, true. This always happens with girls who show interest in me before I show interest in them. I think I'm too needy whereas they were attracted to my dgaf personality earlier. How do I stop being needy with any one particular girl especially one-on-one after we star… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?I've accomplished a lot and I'm comfortable with where I am life-wise, the issue is that my self-confidence is still low. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?Yeah, that's what I was thinking. What would you have texted after the first call went to dead air? (Assuming you didn't know the whole story then, aka she could have just forgotten her phone at home, been busy etc) I'm not going to contact her anymore because I do believe that women who want a man make it easy for the man, aka she would pick up the phone herself if she wanted to meet me, especially after the couple of texts she sent. I guess its a sort of moot point because if we had clicked be… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?I don't want to be spoonfed, but I do want to learn. Also, working out the problems here gives me a chance to reflect and get others' input. You never know who else may be in a similar quandary. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Met girl, got to 3rd base, she went on vacation, and now its all weird. How would you proceed?I'm not in high school. Maybe its the terminology I used, but I'm definitely out of high school. For the sake of completeness, I'm 31 and the girl is 26. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/13 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Is the point of TRP to become an alpha and make a woman a beta?To build on this, a man can make women orbit him by showing signs of commitment. But not just any women. They have to have slept with him first. The whole alpha beta omega sigma thing is really only applicable to men. Don't try to extend it by applying it to women. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/13 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Love, can it happen?Fake it until you make it. Pretty soon or after some time you just stop being this needy guy who needs to text back immediately and freaks out if she doesn't text you back right away. In effect, you stop sabotaging yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/13 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Sorry but what is Hamstering?Search for "rationalization hamster" and some of chateau heartiste (roissy's) earlier writings. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/13 11:37 AM |
| 2 | ReverseDon't assume that what she tells you, she actually believes. Or that she'll follow through on it. She's eager to get on that Miley Cyrus lifestyle and when she's blown through the divorce money, get another beta to wife her up, or she may not be thinking that far ahead. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/13 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I stay away from indications of affection?If you're going to approach them, yes. Otherwise don't acknowledge their presence or look at them exactly the same as you'd look at an old lady or man. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/13 06:54 AM |
| 1 | When her orbiters are physically intimidatingSome George Costanza game. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 02:21 PM |
| 1 | When her orbiters are physically intimidatingWhy, are you homophobic? You must have gaydar. Thanks, but I'm only interested in the lady. Yes, I'm gay. Now let me and the lady talk about our favorite nailpolish. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Unable to maintain frame?Your frame is all wrong for a salesman interaction. The frame should be "tell me why I should spend my money here" | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you know a girl is worth marrying?Read the "8 signs she's a keeper" article on rok and some other similar articles. Two reasons you may not want to marry her right now: You think she's not the hottest you could get. You think she's too slutty or likely to cheat. (distant 3rd) you don't like her genes, aka #1 in a different way. Like you want tall white sons and she's a short Latina, that kind of thing. From what it sounds like, she's a good candidate. Remember, the good ones get snapped up early, like right around her age. Eithe… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you cat-call women?It can work. You have to catcall and be willing to back it up if you want it to work. Think of some "ethnic youth" on the street yelling "hey mama yo ass so fine" at some girl walking by. Not do it from the car and accelerate away like a scared puppy if she turns around. Its an indicator that you dgaf and that you're not afraid of her or society's repercussions. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Birthday gifts for GFIf you made that, give it to her. She's going to think its thoughtful and sweet. Then when you're heading out at night, tell her nonchalantly to wear the new dress you just got her. And nothing else. There you go, LTR mix of alpha and beta. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 09:38 AM |
| 1 | what is my next move?Which country, by the way? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 09:34 AM |
| 1 | what is my next move?You messed up pretty bad, buddy. Here's the frame: she already gave you her most valuable asset when she slept with you. You de-sexualized the date by pedestalizing her and buying her dinner and drinks. You "tested" when you should have "assumed the sale" and architected the date to come to a natural conclusion at your couch or at least in your neighborhood. Remember, she's already slept with you. You asked her to "let you know" if she's be interested in another date. Tingle-killer. Again, be co… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:47 AM |
| -2 | In your experience if a girl is really good in bed is she more likely to have a slutty past?Most bluepill comment ever in this context. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Hit in the face by entitled princess - How to react?Hindsight is 20/20, but self-defense is only ok when it is sudden and unexpected. Next time, hit back and claim it was instinctive. For good measure, throw the drink first. The more in-control you appear the harder you will be punished. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Do you consider men that give free emotional support to female friends weak, regardless of how long they have been friends.I think you should focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Love, can it happen?Love can happen. It can happen with your first lay or with your 50th. I'd say its a lot more likely to happen closer to your first than your 50th, but that's just me. Anyway, I'm a bit confused by your writing. So you like her and you've been together for 4 months and she doesn't want a relationship, plus you haven't made her cum? I think the writing is on the wall. I made my virgin gf come the very first time we had sex so its not inexperience, its emotional readiness that lets her come. Talkin… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Working On Changing My Life, But according to Roosh V I'm not a real man.You missed Fix a flat. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Working On Changing My Life, But according to Roosh V I'm not a real man.You're in askTRP. Do you have an actual question? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/13 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Stealing the girl from a betaHow would you react to this: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/08/02/amog-tit-grab/ ? I'd say this is similar to what happened here. The girl wasn't innocent. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/13 08:32 PM |
| 13 | Stealing the girl from a betaYou didn't do any wrong, but I would have kissed her in private. Kissing a guy she just met at a party where she came with another guy and she knows people is bound to trigger ASD even in cock-hardened sluts. Next time, isolate her. But yeah you have balls and she probably liked that. Oh, and for your question, there's a bro-code but this guy wasn't your bro. Not every dude out there is your bro, in fact most are competition. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | "I can't make it at 8pm tonight..." and other wannabe flakes. How do you handle them? (full text inside)Yeah, I agree. Not letting it bother me would be the best option, but appearing like it didn't bother me was the next best. I felt that she really had a high interest level so i texted her a simple "The FBI has consulted with Obama and we are ok with rescheduling!" and let it be. I saw her on Saturday, gamed her a little and then I was traveling, she was too and then I called her a few times to which she called me back y'day and we made plans to hang the same night, because she was leaving today… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/13 08:07 AM |
| 2 | So much white knighting, its like a lemming rush of Don QuixoteExactly. I'm kinda jealous of him, considering that I'm only 32 and I have a hard time dating 23 year olds and younger. Maybe I'm not looking hard enough and in the right places. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My ChildrenI'm holding off on providing her my approval though, just because society in general can't get there fast enough to provide all the approval a woman needs to rationalize any of her choices. Meanwhile a man is seen as a cad no matter what. I'm sure the same commenters who are praising her would castigate the man if he found out and left her and found a way to keep the kids (aka withholding child support to blue pillers). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 11:15 AM |
| 0 | Low T redux - Went to Urologist for 2nd opinion. Have several T replacement/stimualtion options. Opinions?I actually agree with almost all you said, however these mail-order fly by night clinics in Florida are not the way to get it done. Agreed. If the medical community (society in general) wasn't so against TRT it wouldn't be an issue. Exogenous testosterone is not some magic happy juice that will fix all your problems. Nobody is claiming that it can. It can cause an array of health issues which need to be closely monitored by a competent endocrinologist, not some quack with a PO box on the other s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Low T redux - Went to Urologist for 2nd opinion. Have several T replacement/stimualtion options. Opinions?Be careful with letro. I had access to it and took it, at tiny doses (fun breaking up an already tiny pill into a dose where just licking the powder off your finger is your daily dose) and it just made me feel like shit. Only use it with exogenous testosterone supplementation because it does no good without. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/13 08:52 AM |
| 2 | "I can't make it at 8pm tonight..." and other wannabe flakes. How do you handle them? (full text inside)She's social circle, not cold approach. Dunno if that changes things. We'll probably see each other at a group brunch I'm organizing on Sat anyway. What if I just tell her we can reschedule but not give her a date, basically appear non-needy? If I don't reply to her text at all I'm afraid it'll send the wrong message and she might avoid me. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/13 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What kind of car do you drive?I take public transport. So much freedom. Europe. I recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/13 08:55 AM |
| 6 | Why did she ask whether I needed her?She was showing you her soft underbelly of neediness. The older you get and the more women you bang, the less you'll see it in the beginning. Enjoy it, savor it. And you should have looked in her eyes, smiled, and said, "I need a kiss from you, right this minute." and gone for a makeout. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/13 08:51 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?When the girl keeps coming back to it...? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 06:03 PM |
| 0 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?From what I see, the asktrp sub is more geared towards total newbs and maybe middle schoolers, but the question did get a couple of good responses (likely by people who are on here as well) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 01:45 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?Lying? As in you mean that you say that you are not a player? I've tried that, but it didn't work. May have come across as incongruent or approval-seeking. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 01:43 PM |
| -1 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?Thank you, this is great. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 01:42 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?I think #1 is my problem. I may be running too hard a game. I'll look up these videos. If you can link a few that talk about this, I'd appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 01:41 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?I pretty much have the worst luck with this. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 12:36 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?Wouldn't this activate her ASD and make her prove to you that she isn't? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How to reply with smart answers?This is pretty wimpy advice tbh. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 11:58 AM |
| 3 | How to reply with smart answers?Here's what helps: experience. When you find yourself in these situations and you hear your friends riffing on each other, observe and learn. How do they reply back? Are they smiling or frowning or showing anger? How does the other party respond to their emotions? Then pay attention to the words. If you hear a particularly good response, commit it to memory. Write it down later. Does someone jab at you with a particularly pointy joke and you come up with something 10 minutes later? A day later? … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/13 11:57 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not that kind of girl" or "I'm looking for something serious and you're a player" shit test... how do you handle it?ok, done. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 11:53 AM |
| 1 | India: the Story You Never Wanted to HearUm, no. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 11:49 AM |
| 2 | "You're just bitter" - Anyone else sick of this shaming tactic?I thought you were saying that the Dad shouldn't fight over an extra 3-4k a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 01:06 PM |
| 1 | "You're just bitter" - Anyone else sick of this shaming tactic?No person is innocent when a marriage breaks down. Inevitably, both people are at fault. Also, stop using "bro" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 11:04 AM |
| 1 | "You're just bitter" - Anyone else sick of this shaming tactic?Because this kind of thinking has worked so well for the last 40 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 11:02 AM |
| 2 | This is fucking brutal to read. A MGHOW screwing up every which way.If you leave on a high note you can go back for more, plus its just human nature to want to end the interaction on your own terms. Ending the interaction on high note would have meant kicking her out of bed or at least not trying for a second round, and then not contacting her again until much later. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?In Bang, he talks about how he started going to the gym and got a nice haircut and nice clothes and still didn't get laid until he started learning game. He had an image of a bearded traveler and you can't do the whole angsty backpacker thing with muscles. It just doesn't fit in that culture unless its skinny muscles with good definition. Plus he was younger then. It was easier for him to get younger trim because its easier in Western culture for young guys to hook up with young girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Can The Red Pill Subreddit Survive?REAL REAL RED PILL: NAWALT | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 09:42 AM |
| 1 | RedpilldatingNo dates. Only post dinner drinks. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/13 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Vs Getting FitIt seems to me you have an image of lifters in your head which may or may not match up with how most educated lifters (the kind you'd find on reddit) actually are. That's mostly what rubbed me the wrong way about this post. Fair enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/13 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Lifting Vs Getting FitFit for what? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Lifting Vs Getting FitUsain Bolt is a sprinter, and I (as well as any fitness advice worth its salt) recommend/s sprinting. Marathon runners look more like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 03:06 PM |
| -6 | Lifting Vs Getting FitI'm just trying to work through what possessed you to make such an insipid post. There are literally thousands, nay millions of runners out there, why are you preaching something that is so blue pill and feminine that most men will automatically do it anyway? Here goes... Running makes women sexy, lifting makes men sexy. Men's bodies were built for strenuous bursts of work, and that's what makes our testosterone flow and our joints stronger. Running a lot decreases T and lifting increases it, er… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Lifting Vs Getting FitThis post smacks of immaturity. Nobody says that one should ONLY lift. Even if you only lifted, you'd be more fit than someone who only ran. Lifting is a codeword for getting fit. Would you like someone to copy-paste the entire Starting Strength and Couch to 5k to someone in lieu of saying "go lift a weight"? Lastly, lifting alone is unlikely to get you anywhere without the attendant diet and yes, cardio - both steady state and high intensity. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 02:19 PM |
| -4 | Lifting Vs Getting FitNobody lifts alone, when people go to the gym they usually also run. Also are you 12? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Lifting Vs Getting FitWhat do pro fighters look like? Closer to Usain Bolt or more muscular like a drumroll... weightlifter? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality are mostly inherited. She (or He) isn't going to change for you. Don't bother trying to change anyone. When it doesn't work out, you next. That's it.Those genes were there... waiting... watching. There just was too much exercise and too little diet for them to work their magic. But they bade their time, and now we have fucking fatasses everyfuckingwhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence and personality are mostly inherited. She (or He) isn't going to change for you. Don't bother trying to change anyone. When it doesn't work out, you next. That's it.I didn't quite get your point... are you saying that the propensity to get fat isn't actually encoded in our genes and is actually a byproduct of willpower, which according to you is encoded in our genes? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/13 09:19 AM |
| 5 | Intelligence and personality are mostly inherited. She (or He) isn't going to change for you. Don't bother trying to change anyone. When it doesn't work out, you next. That's it.I'd like to take this one further and say that even body type is mostly inherited. You can't always tell which thin adolescent is going to become fat adult later on, but its a lot more likely that the fat kid becomes a fat adolescent becomes a fat adult and stays that way until something kicks their ass or they die. I used to think I could influence my girlfriend into losing weight and then I realized it was a fool's game and you'll end up with someone who: a) Resents you for making her change. … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/13 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How easy is it to get laid?Dude, I hate to break it to you, but they can smell desperation and other unattractive things. It comes across in your body language and your mannerisms. It doesn't really matter whether you hate them or not, just that you're confident about who you are and comfortable with it. Tucker Max gets laid. Like gangbusters. That should tell you everything you need to know. You don't hide shit from girls, they will sense it. You wear it on your sleeve. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How easy is it to get laid?You "act" like a nice guy and are full of venom inside and you wonder why you don't get laid | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 12:03 PM |
| 2 | A warning to everyone. (The result of not being honest).If he didn't want to post details he shouldn't have posted anything in the first place. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 11:36 AM |
| 1 | "Gamestop will always hire a woman over a male. Even if the male has a huge amount of experience, knowledge of video games, and isn't a social retard. It's just how corporate works."All I can see is one "young lady" with a Gamestop title on her resume, maybe worked up to Asst Manager, who is ready for a cushy HR job after graduation, and one kid who had to slog it out as a grocery store bagger/cart collector who doesn't catch any breaks after graduation either. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 07:24 AM |
| 0 | "Gamestop will always hire a woman over a male. Even if the male has a huge amount of experience, knowledge of video games, and isn't a social retard. It's just how corporate works."Fuck that shit. I bet you have no proof that sales go up or down based on male vs female managers. And good luck hiring only male employees even if your studies show that male employees lead to more sales. The fact is that misandry is acceptable whereas equality (of opportunity) is not. This is why men are losing. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 06:41 AM |
| 1 | yet another comic that portrays the husband as helplessly incompetent at home but useful as a breadwinnerI think you kinda missed the point here. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 06:34 AM |
| 1 | yet another comic that portrays the husband as helplessly incompetent at home but useful as a breadwinnerI'd like to see a similar comic with women in the panels. Let's see how far that "lighten up" goes when its someone else frothing at the mouth. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 06:33 AM |
| -4 | I love how the whiny feminist morality brigade upvotes a user named "ICumWhenIKillMen."I read this as "everything is the fault of men." | /r/MensRights | 08/02/12 09:06 PM |
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