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This is great man!
/r/askMRP16/08/18 02:11 AM
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Also... I am boring and I know it... Thus why I'm here. It doesn't come innately for me.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:54 AM
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Good insight. I guess I'm not emitting leadership properties then... Any other deep extrapolations that might help?
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:51 AM
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Gold mine. To be more specific I'm having issues moreso coming up with these ideas. Especially finding shit to do that the kids will enjoy.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:48 AM
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Yeah, most of the time (didn't used too, red pill has helped thus far). Unfortunately, her self esteem and issues gave her way more overweight than I'd like. This my questioning.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:37 AM
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Great suggestion! I'll put it right next to my emotional support calendar.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:34 AM
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Now you're just insulting, and non helpful. It's something to call me a faggot and help out, it's another to just straight up insult me.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 12:11 AM
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You're right, I should have probably framed my question more along the lines of " has anyone had any success attempting to track the cycle of their target whom is on long term BC for hormonal triggers?"
/r/askMRP11/04/18 06:22 PM
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I ended up going with a steamer, far more effective in my opinion.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 06:19 PM
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why are you (1) solely getting (the kids) ready in the AM The wife is to work at 7am I am to work at 8am, they get to daycare around 7:30am. Kids this age need a fuck ton of sleep. I'm not going to wake them much earlier than that. Why are you doing all the dishes? Because they need to get done, and I can't rely on her to get them done every night, so I do them unless she beats me to it. The i don't dare portion was meant to explain that I'm repeatedly denied, she gets angry as hell if I try and…
/r/askMRP19/03/18 03:49 PM
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My city is 1200 people lol I'll check it out though.
/r/askMRP19/03/18 01:56 PM
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I have a couple options, I'm curious though to how that will help. Are you implying taking ym wife out?
/r/askMRP19/03/18 01:55 PM
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Good fucking point
/r/askMRP19/03/18 01:08 PM
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There is never enough context to be given. My kids are young - by too much time I mean, i, solely get them ready in the am fed them. In the evening, I cook 85% of the time and incorporate my daughter into it amap. After dinner my wife and I bathe the kids together, then we get them ready for bed together, then we get them sleeping together. By then it's 8-8:30pm. At this time she showers, while I'm getting dishes done from the dinner we had and she'll then get the coffee ready (like that compare…
/r/askMRP19/03/18 01:05 PM
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No, I'm not fat. I'm actually a good looking guy genetically but need to put on muscle. If anything, is say I'm skinny-fat. She was pretty when we met in college, but has gone the way of the walrus.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 02:20 AM
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No. I've done the covert contract shit before... Over it. I don't really know where to begin to lead other than taking things over, which I have in some areas, finances being the most prevailing.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:46 AM
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Lmao no.
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:03 AM
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Yeah?
/r/askMRP17/03/18 12:02 AM
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Any specific re-reading?
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:18 PM
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I'm upset I guess that she won't join me in setting goals and improving herself. I feel that she'd feel better and look better and actually be someone I was attracted to.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:17 PM
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She makes 15k less than me and I make ~70k a year.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:15 PM
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I take some time in my basement gym each night but that isn't inspiring any dread. I'm not sure what if do by myself., I know that sounds lame, but it's true. I don't drink so bars aren't really my forte.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:15 PM
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She's not a SAHM, she works a 9hr day as well, same hours except I go in an hour later, so I get the kids ready.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:13 PM
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No need to come at you just some further details I assume you're looking for. I read the Kindle to my daughter while she falls asleep right now I'm reading Pandemic, she's 2.5 so I don't think she'll get the references to Ebola. I don't believe I am a couch potato, your assumption that I'm sitting there for 2hrs is based on your past experience with guys on this sub, and rightly so. The TV is off aside from my wife watching it. I really don't get into it all that much, not into sports - I used t…
/r/askMRP16/03/18 11:12 PM
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Thanks man. I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 12:47 PM
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Just worried I'll hurt myself really. I have a friend that messed his up really bad during bench. I also have a very wide based rogue flat bench with the Thompson Fat Pad, another invest wiseley to keep from getting hurt. I honestly feel more like I'll hurt myself doing bent over barbell rows than I will vench, that's just one ackward movement.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:29 AM
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I have a Rogue Monster Lite (RML-3) in my basement, a long with a rogue bar. I've lifted before at a gym, but unfortunately the town I now lift in has no gym - so I go by myself in my basement :-). Looking into some safeteys for when the lifting gets heavy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:09 AM
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Thanks for the reinforcement.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 02:10 AM
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So I need to touch her to touch her and if sex happens it happens, Andi don't care if it does or doesn't. Doesn't a kiss on the neck immediately show a seeking for desire?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 11:58 PM
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Once you said that "nothing is happening tonight, and I don't care" did you still game/kino/initiate?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 11:57 PM
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Absolutely, and not get pulled back in by the AFC masses.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 10:26 PM
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That's why I'm here :-) I hope to be a case study for others as this keeps working for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 10:03 PM
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I touch her all the time, and I always want sex heh(ATM). I'll slap her ass, embrace her from behind (rub my bulge on her ass a little). Regardless if the kids are around. I touch her leg in the car. I hold her hand in public. I'll bury my face and kiss up her neck, and she'll just continue what ever she's doing, if I try and turn her around and get to business, she looks at me like, "uh, no. What are you doing?". She knows damn well what I'm doing. In the evening if she asks what I want to do, …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 09:53 PM
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Honestly, I think your last question was on the money. No I don't think so. I can talk to her about anything I want, and she replys with the personality of a house fly. I try to talk with her and lightly have my hand on her thigh and talk with her, no bueno. It's like anything I do regarding her she attributes to sex. I could even be doing it without trying to immediately get in her pants, or with people around and she kinda gets irritated. Any pointers to some good info to read up on this? I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 08:49 PM
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I'm smart, sure, imagination could use some work. Great idea though! I meant cold as in 34-35°F though. Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 08:31 PM
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This is true, I've too many times initiated, she denies, I try again, she denies even harder, then the third time she snaps on me - which pisses me the fuck off. People mention to game all day. We don't see each other until 5pm or the occasional lunch outing from work, and the weekend. People say not to use the phone for game, only logistics. So that gives me what 4-5hs 2-3 of those the kids are awake (I do subtle game) but in the last hr she makes up bullshit excuses of the children being all o…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 08:22 PM
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I could, I plan to enjoy this with my children as they get older as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 08:12 PM
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Never, it's cold and wet here in the Midwest lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 08:11 PM
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I wanted to, but my reading here taught me to bite my tongue
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 07:27 PM
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That's why I'm here. 3 months is too long, but I'm putting in the work to fix that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 07:22 PM
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Thanks man, maybe I'll save gaming for when she's not sround, or others won't see me doing it. At that same time - I don't want to hide it either.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 06:48 PM
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Can you elaborate on how I could have went in for the kill? I've been doing 5x5 for 3 weeks now. I do my set, and rest for the 1.5mins it recommends and 3mins if the set was tough(I rest for last 2 sets on bench so I don't kill my shoulder I have a very weak bench 165) - any input is helpful I'm using the Stronglifts 5x5 app on Android. I'm probably doing something wrong. True, but he can't walk and I don't want him rolling around on a cold cement floor. 2.agreed. my daughter had already shit he…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 06:46 PM
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Right, it's not like I went to hang out with another girl. I'm of the mindset that even a little beta is too much beta. And I didn't realize CT and ST can come right after each other.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 06:06 PM
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Yes, yes it does. Not sure what kind of stuff I could get my 2yr old into that I'd enjoy as well. Right now she wants nothing more than to hang out with me and my wife. I live in very small town so I'm not sure where to go from here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 06:02 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate you coming and helping us newbies out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 06:00 PM
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Dick Wet -> either my game sucks, I'm to fresh I'm to fresh I to this, I approached before doing this to a hard no. Lift More--> I had already been in the basement doing my 5x5 program (1.15hrs or so). I need to get some dumbells but need the $$ working on it. I use the video games subconsciously as a reward/punishment. I don't play if I skip lifting I play to reward myself. Workout and her bothering me--> she was holding my 1yr old, and my 2yr old was there. She wasn't about to spot my squat lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 05:52 PM
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They are indeed. However, marketing and demographics state that lower middle aged men consume more video games than any other group of individuals. While children like them, men often use them as an escape in challenge to actually doing the thing they are enjoying in the video games. The right thing to do is analyze what I gain from the games (adventure, adrenaline,etc.) And replecate it as a real life hobby.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 05:11 PM
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Thanks for the defense. I elaborated more. But I'll let you know as well. I was a WoW addict in college, and then I met my wife and my gaming declined dramatically. I only hit where I'm at now (an all-time low for me) because I'm working out. The time I'm spending in the evening is way less than I played even 2 months ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 05:01 PM
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True, and I'm not trying to justify my inaccuracies. Maybe subconscious ly I'm using it as a reward for myself working out. Yes I have a shit load to do still, I probably could have lubed the hinges on the cabinet doors that are squeaking. Thanks for the feedback. I honestly can say I don't have Facebook on my phone, I do have an account that I like pictures on from my laptop sometimes, maybe I could use this to game the wife some...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 04:59 PM
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Are women seriously that fluctuating in the covert emotion? She seemed more angry that I left? Please help me on this CT I missed.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 04:56 PM
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Sorry Rian, I've realized I showed my Takeaways not necessarily what I've learned (implied it in the post title). I've learned, with proof (finally) that the hampster is indeed still alive, and I can make it use it's wheel. In addition I've learned that it only matters what the hampster causes my wife to do, not what comes out of her mouth. I finally have proof - call it reinforcement to myself that this stuff works and I'm going to be all right.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 04:54 PM
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I don't play video games like you are implying. 20-30 minutes a few nights a week. I used to play a WHOLE lot more.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 03:53 PM
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I rather enjoyed the guy on the FID
/r/askMRP17/11/17 02:49 PM
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I turned up the speed to like 1.25/1.30x and it sounds like a human being.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 03:06 AM
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Any suggestions?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 10:33 PM
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I have a little handheld one that does alright. But doesn't do pants really well.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 03:27 PM
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They say 100% cotton. Someone once said they are same as Lands End. Idk though.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/17 09:06 PM
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New to OYS, this is my first week. My weaknesses stem from a lot of areas as detailed in my introduction post, and comment replys. However for this OYS, I'd like to talk about general getting shit done, I'm a filthy, disgusting excuse for a clean person. Take off my jeans, they stay there until I feel like picking them up later. I've been known to open a package and leave the trash on the counter until trash day. It's disgusting, and it needs to stop. The fix starts by creating healthy habits an…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/17 06:36 PM
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I had my T tested before going to a Dr. Def not low T. I do plan on taking a test booster soon as well to see if I'm "Low" for me
/r/askMRP11/11/17 08:28 PM
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I do save ~20% 10% goes into my 401k 5% into a Roth IRA and another 5% goes into other high risk investments. Among other things I dabble in cryptocurrency. I was outwardly making that statement as in I don't budget because everything that is left over is auto withdrawal for the bills and groceries. I need to budget more is what I have left.
/r/askMRP11/11/17 07:39 PM
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Agreed. And I'm not trying to use it as an excuse. As you seem to know your stuff about the disorder you also know that meds don't fix it, they help tremendously. Anyway, you are right - my wife has mothered me through it, and since I've been medicated things have changed - it's been hard but I'm slowly getting her away from some of the habits she has in asking me multiple times if I've forgotten anything etc.
/r/askMRP11/11/17 07:35 PM
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Back to the meat of it, do you have any specific diet recommendations or simply follow macros. In the same post, you mention KISS(I tend to research and overrthink most things), and I've had trouble in this dept. In the past. How do you KISS diet?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 10:50 PM
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Thanks for looking out. I'll do some more research on this. I can see how you'd tie owning my shit to my deficiencies as they are very similar.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 09:17 PM
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Well said and opened my eyes. She can't keep my kids from me which is ultimately my worry. And money is just money, I can find a way to make more of it. Im bitter to the fact that divorce rape is still allowed...
/r/askMRP10/11/17 09:12 PM
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I have never had a problem staying awake or getting through the day. I have had problems focusing my entire life but my mom is batshit crazy and wouldn't put me on meds like she should have so I found methods to cope with the issues I had. I have constantly needed 5 reminders for every appointment, left several tasks unfinished (or unstarted), and more. Since being diagnosed I've been able to finally focus enough to finish my degree, move back to my home state, get that better job RP keeps talki…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:58 PM
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I actually have lost 45lbs since last december (mostly in 3 months). I'm 190 and 5'11" and still have more to lose (thanks to being diagnosed with ADHD, and stopping drinking).
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:44 PM
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Thanks. I'll start into the OYS at once.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:27 PM
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Absolutely, I plan on actually hitting the gym even harder than I do now. Anythink else I should add to this checklist?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the idea - I'll check out that website. I yearn for sex in general it's been a good 3 months now.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:25 PM
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Thanks Rian, I'll have to check that out maybe find some good recipes on the web. Hope it tastes good lol. I've got an open mind.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:20 PM
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Thanks for the input. I'm not muscular yet only been lifting 2months now. Built a gym in my basement. Kids aren't Dave and Buster's age yet. 1 and 2 year old so babysitter is a must.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:13 PM
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I had a professor do this at one time, he put checks in to see if you were reading the directions and said to sit quietly until someone turned in the test, then to turn mine in & I'd get 100%. Fail to do this and you'd be graded normally.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:09 PM
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Wife's dead, I'd go game some ladies. But I know what you're getting at. I really don't know, the only hobby I had growing up was video gaming and paintball. Paintball isn't big where I'm at now so I ditched it. I go shoot guns every once in a while, but I'm not big into hunting. I would probably work out more than I already do...been really loving that part of this transition. I have ADHD so not much keeps my attention... Sadly.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:05 PM
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So basically take the meat and food processor it. And spread it on bread? Then add more meat eggs etc?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:00 PM
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Sure I have reasons I dislike her. She's fat, won't take responsibility for her own diet and let's the kids eat all the shit they want. She won't grow up and motivate herself toward her goals. Honestly I don't want to sleep with her right now(don't confuse that with the fact that I do try to because I'm sick of masturbation), but I also don't want to cheat... So I fuck my hand and I'm sick of that... It's rarely as warm or as wet as I'd like it to be. Date night in this context is a scheduled ti…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:55 PM
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How'd you get into the woodworking/metallurgy without the expensive start-up costs?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:50 PM
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Lol, maybe it's a kink. Also, this guy has some money if he's collecting supercars. Might have Jay Leno on TRP.
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:49 PM
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Awesome, glad to get some validation. I've never really been a hobbiest - but I've also seemingly never been a man. I don't know where to begin - any pointers?
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:30 PM
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I just recently was able to determine frame. The common trope is to not talk about fight club therefore the matrix reference you quoted. I don't care if she finds out - but I'm sure as hell not waving The Rational Male in her face. My MAP probably needs redone since enlightenment has occurred. Sure I have a bunch of little to-dos for me and all of it she may or may not benefit from. As far as long term visionary stuff - I'm working in that (thus the joining Jujitsu potentially). I need to find m…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 07:29 PM
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