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I see it this way, judgement value on this girl creates negative emotional value any way you spin it. Stay zen.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 09:11 AM
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Agreed but I would caveat on this, you're not looking to hurt this girl. Just like ThreeRyanGrey mentioned. You shouldn't be even that much invested in her until she shows you she's even worthy of such attention. Even though it might not be true you should always keep in mind that you DO have other options, other plates to spin. Other hobbies to keep you occupied. So your mind set should be like this particular flavor of ice cream is unavailable, you don't get pissed at the ice cream man 'cause …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 08:25 AM
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From the comment section, as a 34 year old virgin this restores my faith in humanity after reading and feeling gut punched by the article. Got 738 upvotes on their comment section. When you tell somebody you won't sleep with them because of how you think they might end up feeling, you're taking away their agency and thinking for them and not letting them make decisions on their own. I have no way of knowing how a person will respond or react no matter how many partners they've had or not had, an…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 01:13 AM
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Not as bad as "You're sweet" but not the frame you're pulling for. Best guess in the dark here, you have a baby face.
/r/askTRP30/08/13 02:50 PM
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No worries. First thing that should pop into your head. My two cents.
/r/askTRP19/08/13 03:34 AM
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One of the things that a friend told me when I was starting to learn game and while I do not hold it to be true more truish is that Mystery before hammering out his method went out more then 100 times just to observe and absorb before his method. I had a different impetus. I once read in a book called 100 things to be a better gentleman (was in french so title might not be exact), become a regular at a bar. That's my advice. Find a bar that you like and become a regular. Get used to going out ev…
/r/askTRP11/08/13 06:44 PM
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I agree on principle you should wait on replying in order to set the pace that you aren't at her beck and call, occasionally reversing that on it's head once you have that established isn't a bad thing. Creates the illusion next time she texts that you might text back immediately. He did mention also that he decided on a whim to try something different with this girl. Waiting on the perfect moment to do something is so very blue so he gets my upvote.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 12:55 PM
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I actually saw the same and was wondering... WTF people who bought this book also bought a 'sexy' police costume?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 07:36 PM
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Saw this on instapundit, read the two first chapters might grab the book but thought I'd pass it along in case someone else wanted to read something different. It dosen't seem to be mainstream alpha theory but the second chapter is called 'Feminist Lies' so there's definetly a chord or two that seems to resonate. From the first chapter : This book is designed to give shy men and other men who don't like being stuck in the sexually agressive role a voice. We are tired of feminisits saying that al…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 07:34 PM
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Whatever you do redpillers do not go see the discussion of this AMA in the blue's have no clue pill subreddit using this handy link. http://np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1izc03/i_am_helen_smith_forensic_psychologist_and_author/
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 12:02 AM
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Most people think that love is some elemental force, like gravity, the speed of light or Salma Hayek's tits. It's not, it's a construct unique to every individual. Just like your own personality changes practically everyday so does your definition. I like to think of it as a lie that people make true. Game never pretends to supersede someone's choice so you're right if she's leaving, she's leaving. No one pretends that game trumps free will. Game teaches you though that if you're leading your li…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 12:12 PM
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A lot of replies here are concentrating on what you did wrong. That's fine you need to understand what happened and sometimes the beta inside of us needs to be put down with a sledge hammer more often then not because it strangles the alpha side. Let me help you with what you should do next and I'm almost surprised no one has mentioned it if you still want a decent chance with this girl and I'm still a novice: Spin Plates . In front of her. Easier said then done I know but it will get into her h…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 12:26 PM
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I was on the subway one day, just inside my head. If I remember correctly it was just a few days after reading 'A dead bat in Paraguay'. Going home after a long day, I'm barely aware of my surroundings just waiting for the right audio cue to tell me when I have to get off. The stations go by one by one, it was a relatively long ride. I'm just standing there looking through the window and as car pulls in to the before last station to my stop, it shudders to a stop and there I am looking exactly i…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 12:26 AM
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Love is a construct. To put it kindly, love is a lie that people make true. It is one of the most successful social technologies that we have made. What you call love is something you built in your own mind based on your parents, books, movies, radio, advertising and your own experiences. Although your idea probably shares a lot of similarity with the next guy and girl (because they've been exposed to a lot of similar social messages as you have) it still is something wholly unique to yourself a…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 01:44 PM
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If you've started reading TRP material it might help you to read how some PUA's got into this. Although it won't help you with your technique Roosh's Deadbat in Paraguay is a good read that's accessible to anyone and I can personally recommend it. His second book in the same vein: 'Why can't I use a smiley face' is how you'll probably feel after a few years or so of swallowing the pill and making it work.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 05:18 PM
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I tip my hat to you sir and also slap you if you marginalize yourself if you wake up next to something like this most mornings. http://i.minus.com/iby0bnqgK3AA1q.gif I could stare at the gif all day long.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 08:02 AM
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He's been with her for a year, considering being in a LTR is a ship that has sailed. He's in a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 07:42 AM
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Yeah from what you've written you defintly have a confidence issue and or you're putting your girlfriend on somewhat of a pedestal. If I put your girl who you say is a 8.5 - 9 next to Kate Upton, suddenly she probably becomes a six. In the same vein from what you wrote when we put you beside a body builder you seem to compress your value to a 6 - 7. Maybe you should start hanging out at dive bars where you'll suddenly jump to a 9 simply because you have your shit together compared to the dudes w…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 07:37 AM
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To be fair, to womyn we're all rapists unless you get written and notarized consent at each step of escalation. If Hoinsky really believed in his work, he should be giving the finger to everyone who says to change one word. However props to him for writing it under his real name. Most would have just used a nom de plume to prevent this kind of shit from sticking to their name. I pity the dude a little for the next few years or so when someone googles his name it's gonna show up as 'the guy who w…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 06:48 AM
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I love how the author just blindly writes an article thinking to replace a game book but blindly rushes right past the part where the PUA put in a whole shitload of time (probably above 100 hours), energy and work to produce something and thinks her article is necessarily better. Although how effective Holinsky's book can be questioned, it is essentially a memoir, a distillation of experience. How the author thinks she knows something from just having double XX chromosones and being on the recei…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 03:06 AM
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If you want a good example of what would happen or the potential of it, Madeleine Ashby wrote a good book called vN. Basically a church believing the end of the world would come soon created companions for those left behind as an act of mercy. Von Neumman's (vN). Basically Nano replicating humans with the beta built in. Good sci-fi novel.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 11:56 PM
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Point taken sir but I have more experience being in his shoes then you will or most here will. That's something to consider as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 06:21 AM
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Haven't had a chance to use it yet, I'm not getting enough response yet but I'm working towards it. I think as a line it could work just not right off the bat, late game. I think it's more useful as a goal to attain for the moment. Like any redblooded male I want to get off but because I'm a virgin, I'm keenly aware I'm going to get hooked on the girl even if for her it'll likely not to mean as much to her but maybe in streching the one night stand to a week, that will make as much as an impress…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 06:19 AM
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33 year old virgin, recovering beta in relatively the same place as you are my friend. A lot of people over the years have told me to get over with it. One way or the other. The reasons are obvious and you've done a good job of putting them up. At the workload that you're trying to handle with school even if you're relatively used to the itch you can't scratch, it's taking away your mental focus and energy away from what you need to do to succeed. Here's the thing that I think most can't or won'…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 02:15 AM
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