Maaaarv Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	[Question] Texting or calling a girl to set up a date.		Maaaarv	/r/seduction	13/11/17 09:15 AM

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–	Watching RSD makes me depressed Always keep in mind that RSD are selling a product, so they have to look like they are insanely successful when approaching. They probably spend a huge amount of time with approaching and you never know how many rejections they got while making a video. Most people will look like pick-up gods when they film dozens of approaches and only pick the 3 to 5 best ones. I believe that the RSD-coaches are good, but probably not as good as their videos makes it look like. Besides, I think a study showed …	/r/seduction	16/08/18 11:08 AM
1	Why clubs and bars are a bad place to meet women! (Hint: Your failure is part of the business model!) This is absurd. Clubs make money with you buying drinks and coming back after having a good time. Getting you laid would probably be the best way to make sure that you'll revisit the same club and spend even more money on drinks.	/r/seduction	07/06/18 05:41 PM
2	Non Neediness -- Literally the Simplest Thing Ever -- Examples Included for You :-) It has been a while that I read models, but I don't think that what you're talking about is neediness. Non-neediness means to be honest and vulnerable and not saying something just because you try to impress the girl. Teasing a girl is an easy way to get a reaction out of her and can be fun, but doing it instead of showing your true character and intentions sounds really needy to me. Complimenting or teasing just because you think it increases your chances of getting laid = neediness Compliments…	/r/seduction	11/05/18 10:35 AM
1	Guys... my girlfriend just found my copy of The Art of Seduction and she took it from me. How fucked am I? I think she'll only dislike that you own such a book, when you show that you don't want her to read it. Just take it easy and laugh it off. When she confronts you with it and hates what's written in it, you can still jokingly argue that it was good enough to pick her up. :)	/r/seduction	23/09/17 09:38 AM
–	Can't get girls at university parties As others said, don't start to hit on girls directly. Especially if they don't know you and when it seems like you know nobody it'll be a little creepy. Try to show that you're a fun and interesting person. You could try to start a drinking game or some other fun game. There will always be people who are in for a round of beer pong or flip cup. It helps you to get to know some of the people and gives the girl a kind of "social proof" that you are not just a creep who's only there to hit on them.	/r/seduction	23/09/17 09:31 AM
–	Approaching strangers - SEX drive is destroying my life Yeah just go for it! After all you can still decide to not go for it after getting her number. A lot of times you'll get a basic idea what she's looking for through chatting or after the first date. Some girls are looking for something long-term and some aren't. Just because you approached her doesn't mean you have to turn it into something serious.	/r/seduction	23/06/17 08:17 PM
–	Approaching strangers - SEX drive is destroying my life I wouldn't see your high sex drive as something negative and using your tight shedule as an excuse to not go for it won't make things better. If you see a good looking girl, approach her. It's true that a lot if girls in your age are looking for a relationship - at least that's what they tell everybody, but if you're charming enough you can still turn it into something short-term/casual hookup. The best part of approaching girls is though that it makes you more confident. If you can successfully…	/r/seduction	23/06/17 06:13 PM
–	Using the word "date" when asking a girl out Hmm... I only met up alone with male friends when I haven't seen them in a while. Can be a person thing though. :)	/r/seduction	12/06/17 03:07 PM
–	Using the word "date" when asking a girl out You meet alone with your female friends for dinner or drinks without it being a date?	/r/seduction	11/06/17 06:43 AM
–	Using the word "date" when asking a girl out I have never used the word "date" when asking out a girl and instead directly said what I had in mind (e.g. visiting a restaurant, a cocktail bar etc.). Girls aren't stupid and will know that it's a date. If you meet up with her alone and end up in the friendzone, it's either your own fault and you didn't used your chance or she was never attracted to you in the first place. Besides their is no decent translation for 'a date' in my native language and it sounds quite cheesy imo. <sup>.</sup>^	/r/seduction	10/06/17 03:59 PM