~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | A person's race has little to do with a person's ability to be in a healthy and monogamous relationship, it has everything to do with their upbringing and self-esteem.Lol, traditional means monogamous. The fault is thinking that looking for a woman in a country not seeped by the west will not be without fault, lots of people outside the west commit adultery, what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBrother, Southeast-Asia is the land of WMAF relationships. You either die a hero of WMAF, or live long enough to see an AMWF legend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | What did your crush do that completely ruined your infatuation for them? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe came from a broken home and dysfunctional family, noped the fuck outta there real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 05:22 AM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, they do. Leave people from healthy families and happy upbringings alone! Those rats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 05:19 AM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople from broken homes and dysfunctional families should stop hurting other people, they should just hurt each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenNo, mate. You just have to avoid trashy women to get to good women, broken homes or dysfunctional families are the best indicator for that. Don't lower your standards for a chick with none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:28 AM |
| 6 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Someone that understands boundaries and respecting them, most women or even men never learned how to set and enforce healthy boundaries with people. Sadly, it is stemmed from a shitty upbringing and bad parents, the ones who never got enough pats as a kid or attention tend to be the most flirtatious and is more likely to cheat. That is why I am more likely to consider them red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Coming from a broken home or a dysfunctional family is a red flag.Because it is. There is enough reason to suggest that people from shitty homes carry their past experiences in their current relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Body count and the odds of infidelity. (based on peer-reviewed journals and established reports)90 percent of the men's population is Captain Save A Hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Body count and the odds of infidelity. (based on peer-reviewed journals and established reports)Well, we can't argue with facts. We'd rather resort to logical fallacies and humor to display our contempt towards reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:22 AM |
| 9 | Does female loyalty exist anymore?Sad but true, most of these types of people come from broken or dysfunctional homes. I wouldn't date these girls to avoid drama like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Hook-up culture is pretty disgusting and deplorable.Possible. But the truth is, I just love women too much. So many amazing women in the world, why be content with one? It gets boring after a while. True, but sex is just an after thought, I like to get lost in a beautiful girl's pretty eyes mid-conversation during a date somewhere in Europe. Beats sex by a 100 miles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Hook-up culture is pretty disgusting and deplorable.I am pretty sure guys won't throw themselves at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Women can get away with infidelity and abuse more easily than men.You don't even know what a high-quality girl is. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:06 AM |
| -1 | Women can get away with infidelity and abuse more easily than men.You're operating on a scarcity mindset, there are plenty of high quality women out there. Look at their relationship with her parents, especially her father, see if their parents' marriage is spotless, and look at her childhood and traumatic experiences. These are telltale signs of green flags and red flags, happy hunting chump! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families?You should see how it affects women, absolutely vile and evil in so many ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | A real short analyst of the leading characters in 500 days of Summer (2009).That is just trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.I'd rather look for those people from perfectly healthy families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 04:06 AM |
| -1 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.It is not about what social hierarchy you are part-of, you have to flesh out a person's life in and out before you marry them. You don't know how careful you need to be in order not to end-up with the wrong person, I strictly adhere to a set of rules when it comes to dating. I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:48 AM |
| 0 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.No that is not the proper solution. The only solution is to give proper guidance on getting married, I am going to teach my future kids to avoid dating people from dysfunctional and separate homes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.Both boys and girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | No, most people who grew up in dysfunctional or divorced homes are not more resilient, more mature, or emotionally stronger than people from proper and healthy homes.I'll post this again later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:09 AM |
| 5 | A real short analyst of the leading characters in 500 days of Summer (2009).Tom is an idiot, like many idiots in the male population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:08 AM |
| -1 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.No, trauma becomes a part of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.I am just watching for idiots, who'd fall prey against narcs like you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:51 PM |
| -2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Lol, never my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.This is the funny thing about the savior complex, people with it, have no idea of having it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.I don't want a girl that went through abuse and trauma, while projecting this unresolved trauma upon me. Deep-down, there is a psychological trauma that requires more than just therapy to resolve, it will come out in the most senile and blindsiding ways you can ever imagine, from craving affection from someone else other than your partner or straight-up infidelity. These people are only fit for casual hook-ups or open relationships, that is the reality that most people can't accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Someone with a muddy past who has broken through it to be an incredible person is more reliable imo. I like proven strength and courage. Savior complex right here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.It's not about being kind, it's about balancing kindness and respect. If you teach your kids how to respect people, be an excellent example to them, and teach them right from wrong without abusing them. You'll end up with great kids, these kids that were raised from very kind homes were probably raised by wimpy parents that bent over backward to please their kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Do enlighten us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:17 AM |
| -2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.A little flutter doesn't hurt anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.What is your supposed replacement for the family structure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.I can tell you that both spectrums have good families and bad families, many deadbeat fathers are black, white, latino, and asian. Honestly, I am not anyone else's savior, I can't save someone from their divorced household or teach them how to act like healthy human beings, and I never fall in love with potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.And the thing is, she's not a unicorn in the dating market. I've run into countless women who are nothing like their toxic upbringing and strive not to be like the people who raised them. Funny cause my run-ins are quite the opposite, there are enough evidence to suggest that there is a correlation. Coupled with personal experiences, I'd rather play it safe than sorry, I treat dating like a hobby, I keep it light and fun, I only get attached with people from happy homes and solid parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:04 AM |
| -4 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.It's all about the delivery, honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.This isn't a political problem, it is a family problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.This is a blue pill thing to say lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was a false-positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTheir past isn't important, it is necessary. The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. If they say who they are, believe them. Don't believe, you'd be different cause you are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is a skill man, instead of gaining their approval, they're the ones seeking my approval by showing they're worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's amazing how a lot of people talk their way out of you liking them, especially women, dumping all your problems and red flags on a first date, helps me to make sure to stay away from you. So, please tell me upfront about you being the black sheep of the family, your daddy issues, and your toxic past relationships. So, I can jump ship to the next great girl that'll go my way LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople who say that their ex was toxic, I wouldn't believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThrough understanding, mutual respect, and compassion. Let's say a child dropped your phone destroying it, instead of shouting and spanking him. You sit him down, talk to him, tell him that you are not angry but you understand that it was an accident, and I'll kindly tell them the real life implications of breaking someone's property even if it was an accident (In a calm and stoic manner). If you treat your child like a human being with dignity and respect, they will admire you for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wouldn't worry about that at all, see it's easy to keep a person in love. I have had my fair share of marriage proposals and women that are really afraid of losing me. But you know this prejudice that I have is from intuition and experience, perhaps you are still young and immature to understand that, it is fine but once you marry the wrong person and reflect on their upbringing. You'll see what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem isn't about being able to date someone, the problem is looking for someone that is worth dating. I have always had heard this shitty story about their crappy ex, but most of the time it turns out, they are the ones toxic themselves. Once, you actually date enough people, you'll realize most of us are the same. That is why it is so crucial to read between the lines, I like girls from happy loving homes with parents that respect, admire, and love each other. Parents that know how to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread[Serious] What is a great way to find a healthy person from a good home and happy family with parents that are still happily together? Now, I am not talking about a person that grew-up with strict parents but understanding ones, I'm referring to people or women to be more direct that have loving parents that prefer to use love and affection as a form of discipline instead of beating them or verbally abusing them. My ideal girl with healthy self-esteem has always been the one that had a fantast… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow high are your standards? I'll start first, I don't go for people shitty backgrounds and bad pasts: bad family upbringings, dysfunctional childhoods, and bad relationship histories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGained some traction, there are truths to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly, I always run into these types of people on the dating scene. They all have different faces, but their stories are all similar, they would always say shit like their ex is toxic but it turns out they are the ones as well. Which is why I learned from it, if a girl tells me that they're from that type of family, I just hit the line "Sorry, I don't think we are compatible." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMan, people from broken homes and divorced families are the worst. All around toxic to be with, I can't help but feel bad for their future spouses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families?Good for you buddy, but like what I said as a guy that had his many run-ins with people from broken families. I would never date a person from a bad family even if my life depended on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families? People who grew up in "stable" homes are generally boring asf and have no resilience or character. Generally, an excuse of people who grew-up from broken homes. You must feel so high and mighty for that? The reality is you probably crave drama in your life that you can't seem to grow-out of. Paired with your childish antics and how you deal with your problems, I am guessing you are an easy person to distinguish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceThe reality is that having high standards really help, I avoid dating people from shitty backgrounds and bad chilhoods. All the best girls that I have dated have one thing in common, they all come from great families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | People from broken homes and dysfunctional families rarely make good partners.Username checks out, go ahead date them. It is your life, I can't persuade you otherwise, but you can't make good wine out of bad grapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Lol, but you are the one that said lame ass woman lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 11:24 AM |
| 3 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.How many girls have you asked out in your life? What are the initiatives that you are taking to attract these women? What do you do to talk to women, do you have good social skills and are you good at bantering with women? When was the last time you went out on a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 10:50 AM |
| -3 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Sure, is my mansplaining ticking you off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Sure, why not. But like what I said, I am happy with who I am, I don't feel like I need to be anyone else but myself. Life becomes easy when you accept who you are, you don't have to change for anyone but yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Honestly, if you have seen what I've seen, the people I've talked to and charmed, you'll realize how easily life is as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:16 AM |
| -1 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Hell no, man the patriarchy is stronger than ever lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:15 AM |
| 6 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Man, this is just self-pity. You have to be less cynical when it comes to life, get a therapist and read about positivity, blaming everything because of your gender is the wrong way to go, so many men are happy to born as men, some of them are gay and some of them straight, it doesn't matter man. You have to live life according to your ideals, your sister is a spoiled brat but why compare yourself to her? You can go out there date whoever you want, build your confidence, and work on yourself. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:14 AM |
| -1 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Why are you tripping on what makes me happy in life? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:09 AM |
| 4 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Masculinity and positivity are vital components that keep a man happy and free! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Trust me, life is definitely better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 08:23 AM |
| -9 | I love being a man and I would not want to be born any other way.Well, I only know how to show a girl a good time. How about I give you a first-hand experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 08:11 AM |
| 5 | People from broken homes and dysfunctional families rarely make good partners.You date enough people, you start to realize that most people are the same. They just have a different face but each and everyone one of us has a similar component that makes a personality more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | People from broken homes and dysfunctional families rarely make good partners.The abused become the abusive, it is a vicious cycle but a real one at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:11 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter