| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Tripp Advice vs. AMS: Creating attraction on first dates | Outer Game | MadKornFlakes | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How to stop self-manipulating while on a date | Escalation & Calibration | MadKornFlakes | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 06:21 AM |
| 0 | How to eliminate "safe guard" when escalating | Inner Game | MadKornFlakes | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 04:02 AM |
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| 3 | Tips for getting touchy on a dateOpen it up with a hug, then do the light touching like everyone in this thread has said. But make sure you set the mood with a hug to open up, and if she rejects it (I can promise you she won't but in the 1/100000 case she does), just go for a handshake but turn her hand the same way you would if you were to kiss it (don't do that simp shit though just hold it for slightly longer than a normal handshake). Good luck fam | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Jobs/Activities you can do to make yourself more social? Lacking social skills due to sitting infront of the Computer all day, even my ability to talk has deteriorated.I work as a stocker at Walmart, pretty easy to build social momentum when part of your job is to talk to people, plus the boss sees it as caring for the customer | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Would it be okay to stop trying until i work on myself first ?I think you should reset your priorities in life. What's your purpose? What are you dedicating your craft to? Why do you get up? I get you though. I used to be needy and cringe as hell not even 2 years ago, I definitely had an incel mindset. What's worked for me is knowing I won't fix things overnight. Have a plan and get a little better everytime. Everytime I meet a girl now, I genuinely get to know them but I also try implementing things I need to work on. (I actually just tried something new … | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 6 | What to do if in a date?Sounds like you need to work on yourself before you can get involved in the life of someone else. Getting a job would be the best place to start because 1) you get a steady income and 2) you can socialize with people. Once you make a few friends there, it gets the wheels rolling in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she likes me, but isn’t as attracted as she’d like to be?Precisely. And I was the dumbass who waited 6 months before. She loves the attention so much she acts like she's attracted to you so you can show affection back harder. In my case, I was convinced she was obsessed with me, this girl was a physical 10 but 0 in everything else, so I ignored the red flags. Don't be me. It's been 3 months, there's no more feelings to develop, this is how she feels about you. Actions speak louder then words, and I know you're thinking the same thing deep down. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions on sliding into the DMsYeah do that. Is there any way at all to see him in person? If there's no way, then I would wait until things are relatively normal again. It's a bad time for romance right now. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Suggestions on sliding into the DMsHow long until the class ends? Have you taken the Finals yet? You can ask him if he wants to go study at a coffee place (depending on state restrictions). | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Hey, Dating and Relationship coach here and happy to help you guys out right nowThat makes a lot of sense. Now that I think about it, that's a fairly weak area of my game too (I try not to validate too much, made that mistake before). Once I set up the mood, how can I go about making physical contact? Will it come naturally with the mood? It's just hard to envision myself laughing and touching the shoulder, or grabbing her hand randomly without there being that awkward uncomfortableness. I've had girls tell me it felt forced when I made contact with them. I'm thinking my fe… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Hey, Dating and Relationship coach here and happy to help you guys out right nowLittle bit of everything. I really just started dating last year at 20, but before that I had really low self-esteem. I think my lack of experience, how I don't want to seem creepy, and the fact that I just don't know what to do absolutely murders my game. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Requesting messaging helpIt sounds like her interest is not that high if she's just responding to questions and not conversing back. If she goes to your same school, I'd wait until at least a few weeks before the semester starts. Don't be her free source of validation for the summer. You should just be trying to get to know her first before shooting a direct shot. You risk having awkward interactions if you pursue and miss, which is why some people are against workplace dating. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Hey, Dating and Relationship coach here and happy to help you guys out right nowI'm having a lot of trouble escalating physically on a first date. Ive self improved a lot on the outside but my inner game still lacks immensely and I have no clue what to do or how to fix it. People think I get a lot of girls because I'm always going out on dates but I basically friendzone myself everytime. Last week really hit me because I took out a girl with really high interest, and didn't do anything with them. It's not frustrating to fail, it's frustrating to fail for the same reason eve… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on going 'meta' whilst escalating with a girl?I'm glad you shared this, that one your friend used would be smooth. It really depends on who you are, I wouldn't be able to pull off what you did, but I'm sure others can. As long as you're confident in your delivery, I don't think there's a wrong way to do it. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Replying to girls' instagram storiesI typically stay away from replying to their stories because I know I'm not the only guy replying, then you clump yourself with them. But if that's your style, you can use the eye rolling emoji, then hit her with a tease or something witty after she replies. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 04:43 AM |
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