MadLionn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Help Breaking Approach Anxiety		MadLionn	/r/askTRP	22/10/16 05:04 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Help with image being ruined after breakup. Hahaha I fucking hate social media for reasons like this, and I try to unplug my life as much as possible. If I was you, I would play it like this if you truly just want to move on: Take the issue offline. Post something short. Say something like "[Girl's Name] and I are no longer seeing each other. If you wish to discuss it, I'd be happy to meet and talk about it". Don't talk about how crazy she is. Don't even reference why. Don't be petty and stoop to her bullshit. Just say loud and clear, "I'…	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 07:03 AM
2	Any success with Bitmoji texting? No. Use texting only for logistics. Adding different texting isn't gonna do anything.	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 06:18 AM
–	TRP and analysis paralysis. You got it. Being analytical BEFORE the interaction just hinders the interaction. Be analytical AFTER the interaction to see where you did well and to see where you can improve.	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 05:59 AM
–	How do you cut effectively? I may get some shit for this, but if you are over say 12-14% body fat, cutting is just simply dieting. Don't get me wrong - diet and raise your SMV. However, a true cut is lowering you caloric intake so your body goes into starvation mode and then you bulk again and use those calories to gain lean muscle instead of fat. I say just diet normally and results will come. As foods go, try protein-enriched pastas. You get your protein needs met while feeling full from the sheer volume of the food. Tru…	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 05:57 AM
–	TRP and analysis paralysis. Bro. I was you in high school, and to some extent, still am you. What makes you better is practice. You analyze because you don't know how a situation plays out. You take in all the variables and try to make the best decision. Being anxious comes along for the ride as well. You aren't sure on how a situation will end, you are afraid that you didn't take the right variables into account, and you're going to mess up. This is what I think when people say "You get inside your own head to much." Hone…	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 05:39 AM
3	A question about love, life and the matrix. Here's three things I've found in my own personal experience. 1: You have to love yourself as much as you love the other person. You need to know who you are, what you need, and how you find happiness because how the hell is your LTR going to know if you don't. 2: "Love" , however you define it, is an eventuality. It comes in degrees. Love, regardless of what they say in the movies, is built. You continually add to it. Sexual urges and a genuine interest in a person is how every relationship sta…	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 01:37 AM
1	Do I need to give up guitar as a hobby to focus on other activities to better myself? I've been playing guitar for 12 years now and I'm a full-time Grad student. My "work" days are routinely around 12 hours long. 8am to 8pm give or take. I also try and lift 3 to 4 times a week (which is easier said than done), so essentially I study, eat when I can, and lift during most week days. But I'll be damned if I give up that tiny sliver of time before I go to bed where I just crank the shit out of Panama by Van Halen on my Ibanez to de-stress and just rock the fuck out, even if it's only…	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 06:31 AM
1	I want to create a community and lead. Am I being stupid or is this a good idea? I don't really have much of an answer for you other than a few comments. It sounds like you want a structured friend group, like a club. It might be advantageous to find something you want to do and see if you can't find a club nearby. It's a great way to make friends by doing something together. Or... You create say like an "Adventure Club" where the point is you continuously try new things every week or 2 weeks. A huge part of making friends is being involved. Getting involved in something is …	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 08:55 AM
1	Already accused of being a tryhard in one social group because of my improvement, should I just withdraw from all groups for a while in order to not suffer the label of "tryhard"? Then they ain't your friends. If your friends don't want you to improve yourself, then why are they your friends? I get the whole "I don't wanna lose my friend" angle, but honestly, be around people who want the best for you. Nothing good comes from having toxic friends.	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 08:18 AM
2	Keeping Self-Esteem in check? This reminds me of something my dad always tells me. "Do what you love even if you're terrible at it". This didn't make much sense to me as a kid, but as an adult, I can see the merit in it. If you love what you do, you will out work everyone around you because it won't be work for you. In my life, the only truly fulfilling things I've done is something I'm passionate about, something I love. For me, I'm a math guy. I'll teach myself a new algorithm or whatever and think, "Fuck me. That's awesom…	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 07:52 AM
2	Can you truly become alpha if you weren't born alpha? Alpha is more of "perceived social status and worth" than say genetics or past history. TRP is seeing the way the world works for how it actually works, not how we've been told it works. Learn to swallow the red pill, increase your sexual marketplace value, and invest in yourself and you'll realize that being Alpha is a by-product, not necessarily the goal.	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 07:07 AM