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| 3 | How do some of you always know what to say?I recommend charisma on command on YouTube for easy tips to getting better and reading How to Win Friends and Influence People to get a basis but these things won’t just be remembered after learning them. It takes practice to actually put these tips together to feel confident in conversation. Reading is also good for your ability to articulate yourself so try reading a book. My personal advice to try to get better with banter but always be interested and engaged. It’s really fun when you can bre… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your lifeYou’re not taking advantage of your height then. You literally made a post less than 24 hrs ago stating you’re boring and have nothing to talk about with women. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Knees touching when sitting side by sideLmao yeah your nerves got the best of you. If she agrees to a second date, pull her close and kiss her. Like in this instance you could’ve placed your hand on her outer thigh near her knee and give her a comfortable tension with some slow rubs. Be discreet though, PDA can be a turn off to some people. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | For gods sake get off redditThank you, logging off | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Tips for getting out of your head during cold approachingJust do it. But some good tips for being in the moment are splash some freezing cold water on your face before you leave the house, don’t look at your phone and don’t hesitate. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?Hmm I wouldn’t say so. When in doubt, slow it down. I guess it’s easier for me tho cause I’m a guy so I can kinda command the situation. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 7 | How do I close the date with the kiss?Yeah, agreed, don’t wait until the end. Also, part of it is just accepting it’s going to feel unnatural at first but once you’re kissing everything up until then is smoothed out (as long as you’re not a bad kisser) Good luck OP | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 5 | I used to have guy friends who always disturbed girls that were with me. One day I made the hard decision to get rid of them, and put in the time to make new guy friends who didn't disturb girls. My results then went up. Changing friends is hard, but important to become good at this.So they were trying to steal ur girls Hahahah sound like terrible friends | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 2 | This sub has a lot of women that just want to cause chaosThank you | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | This is one of the things that worries me the most.Yeah this is what we finna NOT do | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Need some adviceYeah just stop OP | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 5 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.Nice, condescending and not a fan of games. You sound like a GREAT time. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 5 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.The cube is truly interesting and revealing about a person personality. It’s just a fun game to play | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:34 PM |
| 32 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.Basic overview - https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/quick-personality-test Neil Strauss demonstrating it with his own twist - https://youtu.be/quZzZykpOPA | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:30 PM |
| 6 | Never asking a girl to do anything ever again.It happens, you’re probably putting too much pressure on the girl subconsciously. Instead of phrasing it like a date just make it an adventure. Younger girls these days aren’t too into traditional dates as it feels like a lot of pressure and expectations. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 06:27 AM |
| 4 | Never asking a girl to do anything ever again.You’re letting your ego take control. You need to acknowledge that you might’ve not handled it perfectly and could’ve built more attraction, learn from those mistakes and apply the lessons going forward. You got to the point of texting her and agreeing to meet up. Obviously you got some stuff going for you. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 05:44 AM |
| 6 | Never asking a girl to do anything ever again.You think everyone here is out to “con” you? Wtf are we getting from helping you get women. Getting rejected isn’t getting “beat into the ground” at worst it’s a waste of time that you move on from and onto the next person. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get more from a girlOnce you start she should help you | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach at gym?No it’s still nonsense | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How to get more from a girlSaying you want to fuck her when you’re already hooking up isn’t extreme. This is your issue I imagine, you’re not being direct enough. I mean you’ve already fingered her man. But if you can bring yourself to say that then every so often when your kissing, pull back and just compliment her then. I like dragging the bottom lip down with my thumb as I say something like “I love the way you kiss me” or “You taste so good” if you’re feeling bold, which you should be, tell her you wanna taste between… | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 06:43 AM |
| 2 | How to get more from a girlYou haven’t just tried taking her pants off? Or if you have some strength and she’s not too big pick her up and let her legs wrap around you and grind on her. Her feeling you through the pants and feeling small but in control should be enough of a tease that she’ll want you inside her. Also, dirty talk more as you’re hooking up. Tell her how much you want to fuck her, look at her lips, smile and say “I’m gonna make a mess of your cute little mouth” (points if u get the reference) or just command… | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Cold approach at gym?What are you talking about. Where is the correlation between the two? | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Best way to keep up with pop culture when you only have niche interests?Yeah who the hell cares about those things. Just be passionate about what you actually like and take interest when others tell you what they’re into and you’re good. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 03:46 AM |
| 5 | ''Is your hot friend single?''Yeah she may have been subtlety intentionally hinting she wasn’t interest | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Any suggestions on asking someone on a date out over social media? I know it's a bad idea, but hear me outJust go for it man, it happens all the time. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Was she hitting on me?Are you serious.... someone SAID she said that she likes you man. Go back, seems like you would get along great. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 05:30 AM |
| 4 | How to get your conversation more flirty/sexual to be able to make a move?Just assume she wants to kiss you if you want to kiss her. As long as you’re not completely socially inept, you’ll usually be right. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 12:02 AM |
| 6 | (F)luffy 💕Be gone Snapchat thot | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 06:22 AM |
| 4 | Is there a way to get women without using kino? How?Work on that first, you’re trying to grope women who aren’t interested, horrible idea | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Is there a way to get women without using kino? How?I’m gonna go against what others are saying and agree, maybe you should stop if you’re making girls feel uncomfortable. Are you having good interactions otherwise? Good energy, laughing, flirty signals? | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is really busy for the next few days when you ask her out and she doesn't offer anything beyond since it maybe too far from now, how do you respond? Do you ask her out again?The fact she’s giving you reasons why she’s busy is a good sign imo if she wasn’t interested she wouldn’t bother typically. Hard to say exactly, I’d see how her Sunday looks on Friday or Saturday. And to be tastefully persistent imo is to keep trying to make time without constantly hassling her or giving a negative reaction when she can’t see you. Make her feel desired without feeling pressured. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is really busy for the next few days when you ask her out and she doesn't offer anything beyond since it maybe too far from now, how do you respond? Do you ask her out again?Got nothing to lose man, fuck it. Girls like tasteful persistence anyways, just don’t get hung up and needy. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is really busy for the next few days when you ask her out and she doesn't offer anything beyond since it maybe too far from now, how do you respond? Do you ask her out again?Idk man, if you’re willing to put your pride away, I’ve had success from being persistent but by success I just mean sex, I would move on if you’re looking for love. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Where is the illusive line between being persistent with a girl and showing you care vs being needy/thirsty and need to step backHmmm I would say that being needy isn’t just showing too much interest and pursuing but has more to do with how you react when you can’t see them. Are you feeling frustrated if you can’t find a time to see them? Even if you don’t think you’re showing this frustration, you may be. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Where do I startMaybe just clarify you want something casual then just leave it alone if she continues to dodge the point. To clarify, only say that if it’s true. If you want a relationship or you get attached easy. Move on bro | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Looking "young"?Yeah I’m gonna say it has more to do with how you present yourself than how you look | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | I never feel sexy over textHmm that’s a tough one. Maybe “feeling sexy” over text comes AFTER you get good at sexting. Like feeling inadequate with your words and struggling to know what to say doesn’t allow you to feel sexy. Just start by using your senses to paint a picture of what you love about sex w him. Like if he says he can’t wait to put his tongue on your pussy, say “I love your soft tongue and light breath between my legs” it’ll feel unnatural at first but you’ll get better and it’ll come more natural, allowing … | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 03:42 AM |
| 2 | What was your aha moment?3s and 7s routine? Edit: found it https://www.pualingo.com/esp-routine-mystery/ | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | how to seduce a guy?Yeah like someone else said, if you’re hanging out alone in your dorm and flowing he should get the hint. This isn’t easy but RIGHT after you’re laughing or a conversation has ended grab his hand and pull it towards you while smiling and looking at his lips, taking initiative like that is sexy and allows him to initiate the actual kiss so if you’re a submissive person it keeps him in the dominate position. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Eureka moment regarding pursuing interestNarrowing them and having a slight smile, like I said looking at her lips. Checking her out when she turns, girls have good peripheral so they notice stuff like that. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Eureka moment regarding pursuing interestYeah I’m interested in hearing what books you like best | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:30 AM |
| 120 | Eureka moment regarding pursuing interestPretty basic stuff man. No matter how woke and equal our society becomes, woman will always typically expect the man to make the first move, pursue and show sexual interest. Eye contact is one of the easiest way to convey sexual interest, not just friendly attentive eye contact but lustful, fuck me eyes are pretty powerful. A sly smile and occasional glances at her lips with flirty banter send a pretty clear signal that allows her to either send IOIs back or back off so you can get the hint. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them outDid you not attempt to kiss her? You never know until you try, I’ve had experiences where I didn’t even know if we were clicking that well but took the chance. Usually works out if you have their attention. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 06:32 AM |
| 57 | Went out with women, learnt she has a boyfriend, did I mess up here?Or just take the L and move on idk fuck a cheater 🤷🏽♂️ different story if it’s open though | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 06:18 AM |
| 107 | I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no.There’s nothing wrong with having friends. In fact, I’ve fucked a bunch of my friends by being genuine and giving them fun experiences. If you read my comment, you’ll see I told OP to move on because it’s not worth creating bad chemistry on his sports team yet if he continues to be a naturally fun and attractive person then sometime down the line he might have a chance. Your comment is kinda cringy tbh | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | texting questionShe’s just not that into you | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:39 AM |
| 283 | I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no.No. Stay friends, genuinely friends, maybe one day you’ll find yourselves together late and the moment will call for a move but don’t count on it, move on. Outcome independence. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How do you have hope for humanity as a red-pilled man?Hahaha wtf have a discussion | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/09/19 04:18 AM |
| 93 | Free piece of advice. Do with it what you will.Yeah I’d say the biggest limiting factors for people is WAITING TOO LONG and fear of rejection. The time you have to make a move is limited, very very limited if you haven’t known them long. You have to ride the emotions and not let them fizzle out due to fear/hesitation that you justify with excuses. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Approached todayIn the words of TV Girl “birds don’t sing, they just fall from the sky. Girls don’t call and they never tell you why, that’s just how they say goodbye” On the the next. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Approached todayNot at all, it was a success for sure. Sometimes you do everything you can and still fall short. This is progress and that’s all you can ask for. Keep going OP. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:28 AM |
| 4 | How do i make an emotional connection with someone?VULNERABILITY! What creates true emotional connection is the ability to be vulnerable around each other. Share something about yourself not many people know and allow them to do the same without judgement. Breńe brown got really popular after giving a TED talk on the subject if you want to learn more. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Turning things sexualLiterally next time you’re alone and you have made her laugh a few times just grab her waist with one hand, her chin with the other and kiss her. It’s that simple, she wants you and you’re fumbling this by overthinking. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 10:32 PM |
| 6 | 5 Life Changing Books That Made Me A Much Better ManNo sir, this post is a promotion of his YouTube video promoting his own book | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Models by Mark Manson (Animated Video)This is really good advice and is honestly good post material. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 08:26 AM |
| 9 | Never Going Back (30 Days of Approaches)Good stuff man, look forward to your approaches tomorrow, good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | This Book Can Clear All Your Blocks To Get Anything You Want!Fuck off | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys actually enjoying making out with a girl at a club and then never seeing her again?And? If you're making out already then all you gotta do is ask | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Psychologist Steven Pinker talks about innuendos and veiled language. A video not specifically about game but helped me understand game on a deeper level.Woah, that was very eye opening. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 04:45 AM |
| 4 | I cold approached a girl on campus and now feel stupid...I don't see why seeing her later on campus would affect her opinion of you, especially if she couldn't see you clearly. I think you're fine, its only weird if you make it weird. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 03:31 AM |
| 11 | I cold approached a girl on campus and now feel stupid...You're overthinking it. Just text her. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Girl tried flirting...I blew it intentionallyI feel like you're thinking too long term. You gotta focus on the moment, don't restrict yourself from having fun and making new relationships because you "need to sort yourself out first." Just focus on having a fun conversation. See where it goes and take it a step at a time. Possibly she'll just be a friend and maybe that's what you need. | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Heading out to a party soon - how do I actually approach girls at a party?Asking how people know each other tends to work really well. Start a conversation, exchange pleasantries, a (genuine) compliment, and ask who they know at the party, tell them to introduce you. Be friendly and smile, I typically ask the initial person what the other persons best quality is. It creates a better atmosphere and give you something to remember the persons name with. Also, girls tend to compliment each other's butts when you ask that so it's a good segue into more playful sexual talk. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a giant femaleYeah as a very dominant personality, I like my girls small. Taller girls are hard to toss around and dominate when it gets physical. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Techniques I've picked up for using Kino and Body Language to build intimacyWow, actually insightful new posts on this subreddit, thank you. I feel like I actually learned something haha I'll try these out next week. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 05:48 AM |
| 16 | How To Start A Conversation With A Stranger When You Don't Know What To Say (And Why You SHOULD Talk To Strangers) [x-post from /r/socialskills]Meeting people isn't an achievement, it's an experiences and yes, they're both cool and interesting experiences | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 09:04 AM |
| 2 | [Need Advice] I speak too fast and my tone sucks! How do I improve this?And speak more from your stomach instead of your throat. Idk the exact process but you can research how to speak with deeper tone if you just google it | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 09:14 PM |
| 2 | [Need Advice] I speak too fast and my tone sucks! How do I improve this?Practice? Just talk slow in front of the mirror, picture the situation, watch your mannerisms and slow down. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Told a girl "I wanna kiss you right now", backfired but can potentially open doors.How old are you? My exact thoughts, you sound really young and like you have a lot to learn, man. You've gotta learn timing and how to read if she's interested or not | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 09:02 AM |
| 2 | What does everyone look like?ugly ugly ugly | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Hey seddit, what are the 2 most fundamental books for pick up / self improvement?The Game is just a book about one PUA's experience, not a guide. Also, don't spend too much time reading books, go out and practice as much as you can. But if I had to id recommend Models | /r/seduction | 25/10/14 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Getting head and new girlsDo you only want head? I usually just let me hand wander until I start rubbing her pussy then get her on top and unbutton your pants. She'll get the idea most likely. | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 03:49 PM |
| 1 | MFW maintaining eye contactMaybe create a separate sub for these type of posts? | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.Honestly, I'm gonna assume that OP is a younger teen and if so, this is pretty bad advice, she'll just become disinterested and move on most likely. | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What is her nameAsk her how she spells her name or what her friends call her | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Making out escalation in the cinema. How to escalate and boob fondling tips.Save the boob fondling for when you get her bra off. Keep your hands on her neck and in her hair or tightly on her hips. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact - An Underrated & Underused Weapon of Mass DestructionYou can try tanning tbh if you're insecure. It helped a girl I know. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I just really prefer being alone - and it's an issueMaybe go for different women? Women who also enjoy their own company. You won't did them at the clubs. Strengthen your day game, approach girls at the supermarket or library. | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 11:51 AM |
| 5 | WTF, how does this guy not get slapped?Yeah but who cares? It doesn't really matter how often you get shut down, what matters is your successes | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 07:10 AM |
| 0 | I'm an expert on seduction. Now where do I start?Haha, start wherever you want. If you're over 21, clubs might be the most comfortable place to start but if you're feeling adventurous try the mall or library. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 03:59 AM |
| 0 | Today I want to talk about: Pauses as you talkIn a way, this is a "be confident" post, just more specific. Talking fast is a sign of low confidence because the person is afraid they'll lose the girls interest. Quality post nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 02:49 AM |
| 7 | [Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend?Working out, dressing well and good hygiene will fix that completely. Look at most famous PUA, they're not exactly incredibly attractive but they're usually well groomed and dress well. Your confidence and personality are what make you attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 08:45 PM |
| 2 | texting 101 dating and how to text at different stages.Any tips you can give us? | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 02:38 AM |
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