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| 1 | LTR and Ex situation | MagnumHippo | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 08:47 PM |
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| 1 | How to be DominantI noticed you mentioned changing “Alpha Male” into “High value man”. A number of others have begun changing this around. What seems to be the reasoning behind this when it comes to manosphere content? More main stream appeal? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever get better?This is a common trap people get caught up in. Don’t make self improvement 100% of your focus, by all means grind and succeed but the whole point of that is you focus on everything all the time, even in small doses. Rollo says this a lot when he references other commentators saying chase excellence. He states that its great you’re improving but don’t neglect other aspects of your life to focus solely on one. It really boils down to time management, if you take on too much you’ll have no time. Ma… | /r/newTRP | 16/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 8 | You want red pill in a pharmaceutical drug? It is called MemantineStop trying to prescribe some form of copium. This is moronic. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/22 06:05 PM |
| 16 | If The Sex Is Bad, And You're In The Room, It's Your FaultYou missed the point completely. Leading is part of Frame. You control the Frame as a leader, your instructions are followed. If your woman is resistant to change up the sex you need to lead more effectively. OP stressed calibration. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/22 02:49 PM |
| 101 | If The Sex Is Bad, And You're In The Room, It's Your FaultSolid post. Your point about leading sex ties into everything else. If you can effectively lead a woman she’ll remain in her feminine state and be more than happy to follow along. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 24 | Side effect of the red pill?AMS said it best. Learn to be comfortable alone. Embrace it. Humans are social creatures but having goals and drive can support you in those moments of loneliness. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual Desire in LTRsI think AMS said it the best. Even in a relationship you need to “date” your LTR. That means keeping her roller coaster going, not stagnating. You don’t set demands but you keep her attracted to you by gaming her even from the comfort of commitment/LTR | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Should I cut off my close (simp) friendSet some standards, if friends can’t meet them find new friends. Its not your job to babysit adults. Be reasonable but stand firm. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 11 | How can I fix becoming emotionally weaker since lockdown?Meditation is no joke. It doesn’t have to be some big spiritual thing, you can simply set aside a specific time in your day to focus your thoughts and “clean” your headspace. I can’t stress this enough but a LONG walk or hike does wonders for your mind. Your focus is navigating your terrain and being in the present moment. You end up with less headspace for nonsense. Also, read the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 27 | Are these IOI's?Start talking to her and ask for her number? Worst thing that happens is she says no. You could walk away with a burrito and a new plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | What are your favorite books related to self improvement?I cannot emphasize these enough. Learn from the past, plan for the future but LIVE in the now. It keeps you so grounded and focused. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | If a woman hits you?Honestly, just laugh. Then next the bitch. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 09:23 PM |
| -1 | Should I get a therapistIts never a bad idea to have someone you can get stuff off your chest to. Especially in this day and age with a microscope now on mental health its a good idea to keep you balanced if you need it. I goofed, forgot never! | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 9 | I got banned from relationship advice just because I used the term "Alpha/Beta"Something something Fight Club rules? Come on man... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 10 | Why exactly do so many women refuse to take accountability?An emotional being’s reality and accountability is based on how they feel. 🤷♂️ | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 22 | How to stop feeling bitter about a wasted youth?By getting to work now. Its NEVER too late to improve. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 21 | How to stop being disappointed in myself for not doing things right younger?You stop being disappointed by taking action NOW. Its never too late to improve. Look at your past as a learning experience, you had to fail first to succeed. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do I get no attention from girls.Do you do anything to make yourself stick out? “Pretty boys” are a dime a dozen. Looks only get your foot in the door. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 16 | How many times do y’all jerk off in a day?Don’t jerk off, thats what REAL women are for. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to someone who brags about getting women - and backs it up?Comparing yourself to others is on the path to anxiety that you don’t need in your life. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 0 | are wigs beta?Depends on the glasses. If you get some really hipster homo looking glasses then yea that needs to change. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 19 | are wigs beta?Mega gay. Get your head shaved/facial hair done correctly by a baber and own it. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Book reccomendations?Atomic Habits by James Clear | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Plateless doing lockdown.Focus on yourself for awhile. Everyone is dealing with some sort of covid related inconvenience. Take a step back from women and assess your situation for when the vaccines (may) sort things out. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with someone from this subreddit who spams every post I make here that I have severe mental health issues and fucks up the vibe for me and fucks up the vibe in the comments section?Yes, you are mentally ill. Get that checked out, champ. You’re welcome 👋 | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 09:54 AM |
| 4 | How do I deal with someone from this subreddit who spams every post I make here that I have severe mental health issues and fucks up the vibe for me and fucks up the vibe in the comments section?Looks like you’re the one being trolled. If you’re so intelligent shouldn’t you realize that?🤔 | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 09:15 AM |
| 8 | What is your opinion on Youtube red pill coaches?Alpha Male Strategies is the one I trust. Keeps it simple, blunt and honest. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is soft nexting psychological/emotional abuse?I don’t believe so. Setting boundaries and enforcing them is reasonable behaviour. Do you want to be around someone potentially stressing you out mentally? I sure don’t so I remove myself from them. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 48 | Best way to maximize SMV at 5'6All about frame and will power. Plenty of powerful men have been short. Own it. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Couples therapy. Yay or nay?Might wanna try Married Red Pill | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 7 | Average-sized dicks & PornWorry about the things you can control. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | 17 year old male, overweight have mental health problems and I’m going to therapy soonJumping on your comment, Keto combined with fasting will net you amazing results. Talk to your therapist/doctor about it. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 12 | Do you guys kiss plates goodbye?Do what you want. If you want to kiss her goodbye you can do so without it being a relationship thing. You’re the leader, you set the rules. Either she follows or you find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle being the potential father of a kid with a mother who recently gotten in contact with you?Its a sad reality for men and their sons. Absolutely if a child is yours take responsibility but the mental trauma of a roller coaster dealing with a broken woman while trying to instil good values in your child is hell. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Staying frugal and how it impacts my perceived SMVInvesting in yourself is making purchases that genuinely enhance your life. Nice clothing or something useful are always safe bets. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Stuck in a rut in life because of gynecomastia. Advice plzFirst of all, talk to a doctor. Don’t come to reddit seeking medical advice, if you believe you have a legit condition talk to your doctor. Second, what is your diet like? You can’t spot reduce body fat but with proper diet and the correct exercise you can put muscle on in areas you want to improve. Bench Press, Chest Flys, Pushups etc. Work on your chest and clean your diet up and you’ll see results. Third, check your attitude. You have your whole life ahead of you and you’ve experienced basica… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 9 | Why isn't the Female Dating Strategy sub Reddit quarantined?Looks like you’re still in the anger phase. Read through the sidebar slowly and you’ll understand why your post is unnecessary. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 12:35 PM |
| 8 | I’m 5’6”. Can I be an Alpha/Chad?Why would your height matter? All about frame. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Burping Infront of me? (Hear me out)Mods please 😩 | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys agree with my logic here?I don’t see how you thought logically to make this retarded post. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What is TRP view on NoFap? Considering dropping out of 500 days streak.Don’t do it. All the positive changes you’ve made aren’t worth nutting once. The momentum you’ve made will make it easier for yourself when you choose to interact with women. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Should you pay for dinner on a first date?What has she done to earn a dinner date from you? FD’s should be short and informal, but engaging to see what you have. Get coffee, take her for a walk. She how she reacts to you physically being next to her rather than across a table. You can apply kino and gauge her interest from there. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Is being angry equal looking weak and loosing frame?Enforce your boundaries, but control your anger. Freaking out on people is a sign of weak mental frame. We’re blessed with logic and reason, use them. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:40 PM |
| 8 | When an older stranger gives you unsolicited advice, what is the most secure way of responding?Smile, be polite. Then do what YOU were going to do anyway. Its up to you to judge everyones so called advice, if its helpful use it. If not, ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 11:24 PM |
| 6 | “I don’t give out my number right away”Thats a hard next. Don’t waste your time on women who play games. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Does It count?Of course it counts. Stay positive mentally. If you’e going to see her again don’t bring anything up from last time. Just stay sober and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Is a penis' angle and its size related?If you’re as redpill as you claim you would know nothing related to penis size matters. Control what you can control and accept the things you can’t change. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 25 | Is it okay to slap my girl?Hitting a woman is like hitting a child. Weak and pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who used to have low self-esteem (or are working on it), how did you deal with the physiological effects of it?Absolutely fucking gold response. Are you a therapist in disguise? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 10:45 PM |
| 8 | How to you find out wtf is wrong with you?Get professional help, rather than asking reddit. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 54 | Finally did it - shaved my headPeople can easily mistake you for a shaved Kristofer Hivju. You got nothing to worry about man, keep the beard and stay in shape. Perfect look for you. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | What was the moment when you realize that you made it?I realized you can’t ever “make it”. Never settle unless you must, always keep improving where you can. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR's family member died, do I go blue pill for a while?Pretty much act as usual. As I stated be ready to provide comfort but do not go overboard and attempt to do more than usual. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 22 | LTR's family member died, do I go blue pill for a while?You can still have compassion without being beta. Your goal is to be her rock, always unfazed. Provide comfort when she needs it but don’t shower her and be obnoxious. Women will always judge your alpha behaviour even in their low points, so you need to stay on your toes. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I want to take a break from the redpill where I stop learning theory and simply start practicing it. To others who have done this, did you come back?Absolutely. Inaction was something I struggled with early on when becoming redpill aware. You can read as much as you want but its wasted if you do nothing with it. Take a break from the theory and apply the knowledge. Make small short term goals on a particular skill you want to improve on and go and do it. If you aren’t seeing results then come back and refresh your mind on theory. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Finding about my approach chances?You’re overthinking. Get out of that habit. Always assume attraction, always be confident. You don’t have to jump through hoops for someone else in a conversation. Your goal is to make your interaction short, sweet and memorable. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Absolutely embarrassed myselfDon’t drink. Poison for the body and a waste of money. Be the guy that does not need alcohol to be social and fun. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 04:08 PM |
| 4 | How to stay stable when everyone around you is depressed?Honestly, focus on yourself. Its not selfish to put your own happiness first. If others around you want to be negative by their own design or by circumstances its still not your responsibility. Your are responsible for your own well being as are those around you for themselves. Of course be compassionate if its someone close to you but don’t let their issues become your own. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are some men who are exposed to the red pill ignore it and continue the blue pill fantasy? Or outright reject the red pill at all?Because actually changing yourself is hard and most people lack the willpower to do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she doesn't want sex, because she doesn't want to be known as 'that girl'.Read the sidebar, you’ll get quick answers. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 3 | About places options in datesMini golf is my go to for second or third dates. Tell her that her swing is terrible, get behind her and hold her hands on the club and do some practice swings. Absolutely gold for kino if you pull it off. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Redpill is betaYou didn’t read the sidebar lmao. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I am constantly disrespected. How do I fix this.The general thought is that any interaction with people on the job is simply because they’re working and you’re a customer. Try talking to people in lineups if you want to work on being social. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Coworker adviceDo not shit where you eat. Period. Your career/job is more important than some random bitch at work. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:21 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone in a similar situation want to be accountability partners?Idea sounds great in theory but to truly better yourself you should be accountable to no one but you. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 08:58 PM |
| 3 | RP'er who were depressed how did you overcome that ?Set small realistic goals. They can be anything you want as long as they push you forward towards something. I was miserable for awhile after I broke up with my ltr and found myself doing nothing for several weeks. Small easy goals set me back on the path to progression. Write them down or track them in some way and hold yourself accountable. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you let women know that you will be dressing nicely on your date? especially if you are transitioning to nicer clothes? and other clothes related questions.Are you just going for the movie? or will you be out and about afterwards? Just movie, casual. Movie and anywhere else, classy. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Do you let women know that you will be dressing nicely on your date? especially if you are transitioning to nicer clothes? and other clothes related questions.You should always dress nice, a balanced wardrobe is key. Depending on what kind of outing it is you should have a nice outfit for each type. Going rock climbing? Dress casual. Walking around the mall then going for dinner? Dress classy. If your just out with friends dress how you want, they know your habits. If you’re out looking for numbers always dress up. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Being a Normie is worse than being incelWhat is with this 4chan cringe shit here? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:37 PM |
| 19 | Weird question about porn.Stop fucking watching porn. Idiotic statements and thoughts like this will not help you improve. Do not look at it at all, cut it from your life. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Fuck it how do you be average?Bullshit. You claim to have lifted for a year and you’re actually looking around and giving a shit about what other people are doing? Get the fuck outta here with this sob shit, you’re just trolling. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Fuck it how do you be average?If you’re complaining on asktrp about working hard you have not fucking worked hard at all. Get the fuck out of here and do something about it. Clean your room. Go to the gym. DO something, complain less. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Is It Okay for a Man to Vent?Its not a falsity, of course we have emotions and feelings we just don’t function on them like women do. Our feelings are not our reality, they are for women. Its perfectly normal to feel things its letting those feelings control you when you know you have logic and reason on your side. I have a friend who is a veteran who has dealt with PTSD. He has stated to me many times that keeping a journal and writing frequently has become such a powerful tool and outlet for his feelings in dealing with w… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 09:49 PM |
| 7 | Is It Okay for a Man to Vent?This is the best response. Wasting time going on rants or even venting solves nothing. Its simply verbal masturbation, sure its making you feel better but it’s accomplishing nothing. We don’t run on feeling, we run on logic and actions. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 18 | Pulled a girl, had mediocre sex cause I was super drunk, how can I communicate that I usually can perform better?Your best bet here is to act like nothing happened. You both know you were drinking/drunk and that will affect performance. Get her over to your place and escalate again and show her what you can do. You got this. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 12:59 AM |
| 20 | Girl on Tinder wrote "What's the magic word?"Its bye. Its Tinder but holy shit, she wants games thats a hard pass. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Is there a difference (from the red pill perspective) between porn, and artistic renditions of porn like erotica/hentai? & others.You sound autistic as fuck. Porn is bad, period. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Ltr denied sexI see your point, op needs to elaborate perhaps a little more for context. Personally a refusal for sex would result in a soft next. Its up to you to maintain a rock solid frame so when you do next as a punishment its feared by your woman and respected and not taken as being mad. We set the terms of the relationship as the leader. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 11:34 PM |
| 3 | So how long did it take you guys to get out of monk mode ?Monk Mode is about setting goals for your own personal development in a set amount of time. Only you have the answers, take the time you’ve invested and apply it to actions to determine where you are. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to not make girls cum when you first have sex with them? I stopped after I finishedTotally depends on what they are to you. FWB? You get your needs first. Plate? Depends on how you value your time/company with her. LTR? Sex God method always | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Getting out of my headYou answered your own question, you literally have to just say fuck it and do it. The cliche thing to say is the first step is always the hardest and it is for a lot of people. Just do it, it will always be worse in your mind than anything that actually happens. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Haven't gone through the 'angry stage'?Want a quick fix to help with your anger? Get your ass in the gym and let your anger out in a smart way rather than dwelling on it. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Ltr denied sexYou both have a point but soft nexting is the correct way to go here. Op stated his girl refused sex 2 times in 10 days, healthy sex life is at bare minimum once a week. I get in a LTR you have to calibrate a bit more than with a plate but thats quite a short time of space to be refusing sex. If op correctly withdraws attention she will pick up on it and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:02 PM |
| 34 | Is it okay to be shy?Never. Being confident and assertive are two required masculine traits. Confidence is attractive to women and being assertive will help you get what you want in life. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | LTR and Ex situationIm not trying to make it an issue, simply a situation Ive never encountered before. I don’t bear the guy any ill will, he had his turn now its mine. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR and Ex situationThats a great analogy. Ill use the interaction as a sharpening of my frame. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | LTR and Ex situationFair point, how would you deal with someone else in the family introducing us on the off chance? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | LTR and Ex situationYes I do, Im on very good terms with the rest of my girls family. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | I mostly have DGAF towards anything but profit, however I can't stop reminding myself situations when someone was rude to me even if it was years ago regardless who the person was. How to do help myself?To me your situation sounds unhealthy. You’re getting hung up on past interactions. Ask yourself “Are these things happening right now?” Its a good way to reset your focus and stay in the present. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I decide if I should cut or bulk?Talk to your doctor and get a solid reading on your BMI. Over 20% and you should cut, under you determine what your goals are and set up a clean diet. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Gym helpCheck out Alan Thrall, Mark Rippitoe and Athlean X on youtube for the best instructional videos. Buy the Starting Strength book and diligently read it. You’ll gain knowledge on anatomy and the science behind why we do compound lifting. I was in the same boat as you a few months ago and once you get momentum on lifting and eating right you will become addicted to that success. Keep it up and develop that discipline. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Girl at work - addicted to her for no reasonYou don’t see the problem of when your turn ends and she starts talking about how “abusive” you were? At work? You have some sidebar reading to do. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How to test for attraction?Laying down the law! Well said. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men identifying as feminists?Who cares? Less competition right? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How to wake up earlierHow does the melatonin work for you? Ive been thinking about trying it for ages but I kinda against supplements for something like sleep, don’t wanna become dependent on it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I am too skinny and want to gain weight asap.Fair point. Makes you wonder what grains they’re feeding chickens as well. Could be straight up ground soy. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | I am too skinny and want to gain weight asap.Is there conclusive evidence to support that? Does the type of milk make a difference or is it straight up damaging to your hormones? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 08:22 PM |
| 9 | A single action is worth years of theorizingDamn, this speaks to me and my unhealthy obsession with planning. Thanks for that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 08:29 PM |
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