Does it ever get better?

Hey, sorry if this looks like a vent, but I really need to get it off my chest.

I'm 21yo, 100% dedicated towards self-improvement (studying & finishing my degree, working SEO with 3-4 clients online, working out), and I find the time to go out 2-3 times a week. But FUCK, I feel like I'm missing out.

People have been saying that you need to get on your self-improvement journey to start attracting chicks, and I honestly don't get it how do you guys find the time to meet chicks with all the shit we're doing. Even when I do go out, it's with a friend group, so yeah I do occasionally meet new potential chicks & start seeing them, but it's been fucking hard and I feel like letting it all go.

Does it ever get better? How do you guys manage to have the time?