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| 1 | As a woman, am I doing this right?Number one. You basically suggesting to have sex. Which is fine. It’s a third date after all. Number two. Yes. That’s called an invitation to instant date. You do this after couple of minutes of conversation, ideally after hook point. Hook point is the point where he shows interest to you, like asking questions about you. If there are no hook point asking for instant date is pointless you will get rejected. Number three. Is not the best. It’s not clear what you want? Do you want him to get close… | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?You can always order non alcoholic drink in any place nowadays. And they know it. So if she says like that, most likely she is not into you. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?Absolutely. She wants to get laid, you want to get laid. So obviously, drinks is way better than asking for coffee. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?Top comment is stupid. Women want to get laid and not to go for coffee. I had women make fun of me when I used to ask them for coffee when I knew no better. “are you five or something? Let’s go grab a drink” Or disappointment, “Just a coffee?” Etc. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?Lol. Women online just want to get laid. Going backpacking or other stupid activity is just too much effort. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?Dinner, cocktail bar dates. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:43 PM |
| -3 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?Depends. But in general I would say coffee dates are for teenagers. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Need adviceI see. Usually these techniques which people use: Teasing her. Push pull. Making assumptions. Making observations. Cold reading. Kino/escalation. Body mirroring. Being ambiguous about your interest. Disqualification. Qualification. And so on. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Need adviceDude I am trying to help you. Internal game what matters the most. And what gets you the best results. And at the moment your game is fucked. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Need adviceOmg. This mindset of “I need to win her” “She has something I need”, “Get them horny” etc is toxic and is shit. Just, enjoy your time with her. Be playful cause it is fun, and she will come to you. And if it is not, then is fine as well. It meant that she was not into you. That’s a good thing. She just saved you lots of time. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 07:43 PM |
| 7 | How do I make a Friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with one of my friend?Well you can always tease her without initiating anything sexual. For example, “Man this is so hot, and take off your shirts” or pretend that you saw something on her face and just move your face to her very closely like you would kiss her and say “don’t worry, it’s nothing” You get the point. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Need AdviceIt is a very rare case that in relationship two people have the same amount of investment. One always have more than other. You can try to switch the dynamics but then you will be risking that it will end. But if you don’t then you will always be the one putting the effort. So you have to answer the question “Is it worth it?” If yes, then keep doing what you are doing if no, then take a risk and see what will happen when you don’t text anymore. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Distancing myself whenever getting close to having a relationship.You are afraid of. Rejection, commitment, kiss, sex, her opinion about you, looking like a creep and on and on. Don’t let your fears control your life. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle this?“Legitimate reasons” if I could get a penny each time I hear this. Move on dude, she is not into you. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 03:32 PM |
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