| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Advice needed for a FTM (Emotional connection rant / advice needed) | ADVICE | Majestic_Scarcity540 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/25 05:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | Feminism and Independence but only if you are smart and able bodiedFacts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/26 03:21 AM |
| 5 | The guy (M32) I (F25) have been seeing has started wanting to see me at night only and keeping things surface level. I’m thinking of calling it off. Am I overreacting?This. If he runs a company (or works higher up in one), chances are hes probably exhausted from talking to people all day and solving a million different problems that weren't even his fault to begin with. The LAST thing anyone wants is to be double downed on about boundaries and expectations after already having a negative conversation and a long day. I don't run my own company, but I help run one, and by 5PM Im so mentally exhausted I just want to curl up in a ball and watch TV and doom scroll… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/26 08:25 PM |
| 3 | AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all.NTA. If he wants to sign away parental rights, so be it. If he wants to be a part of the child's life, that's up to you. If you have the means to take care of a child financially, mental, and physically, you should have nothing to worry about! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/26 08:22 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if something is traditional or mysoginistic toxic?It was definitely a bullet dodged for sure 🤣 But it did teach me what is real traditional versus Toxic guys who claim to be it. Point I guess I was trying to make is that being traditional doesn't mean you get to be an ass. It means you lead by example. And the example your person is setting sounds honestly toxic IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 12:34 AM |
| 8 | How do you know if something is traditional or mysoginistic toxic?I've had both experiences. The one example I have of "oh lord this is TOXIC" was a date I went on with a gentleman who claimed he was traditional. He picked me up, and when we got to the restaurant I went to exit the passenger side. He locked the door and told me "Youre not allowed to leave unless I let you." He then opened the car door for me. I chalked that up to "oh he just explained it bad." Then the date got... worse? I wanted to order a salad and when the server asked me what I wanted, guy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/26 11:53 PM |
| 17 | My husband's flexible job are making me lose attraction and making my life harder, what do you suggest?I'm confused by this post. Your husband sounds like he's found a job and career that allows him to not just be flexible for himself, but also for your family. IMO that should be a blessing, as most men do not get a lot of time with their children at all due to working full time. You've said a few times in the comments that you're not jealous, but everything you've wrote sounds exactly like jealousy. I'm in no way trying to be rude or anything like that, it's just hard to read one thing but notic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/26 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Should guys pay first date or should the bill be split?I always have gone on a first date expecting to pay my half, and make it known, unless they specify theyd like to pay. But I also used to prefer "cheaper" first date places (coffee, a movie, etc.) Compared to a nicer dinner. Not because its even "cheaper" than a $150 dinner, but because I find comfort in those things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/26 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Boyfriend says he’s RP but I’m worried it’s actually toxic behaviorSolid point! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/26 06:30 PM |
| 34 | Boyfriend says he’s RP but I’m worried it’s actually toxic behaviorHow do I put this nicely... He does not seem like the one for you, based off what you have written. He seems idealistic (saying he wants to be "The man of the house" so to speak), but still lives at home, doesnt think long term about the goals you both seem to want (not recognizing bills will go up with 2 people in the home), and then essentially gaslights you when you bring these points up (toxic behavior where he spins it back onto you). My advice is that SAYING and DOING are two different act… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What did your partner get you for Christmas?Funnily enough, a welding kit. 🤣 Ive been needing a new hobby for a while, and while he was on a hunting trip a few weeks ago I really wanted to get into welding art, mainly horse shoes. He got me a top of the line kit! I already made a pumpkin and a photo holder. Going to make a wine bottle holder when I get home today! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/25 08:36 PM |
| 7 | I’ve been dating two men for a month but I’m starting to realize that none of them might be a good choice. Am I being unreasonablly picky?It's good to have standards! Id rather be single than end up with someone who speed runs dates to get to the makeout sesh, and rather be single than be with someone who doesn't seem fully committed to me. What you're asking for isn't "too picky". Youre asking for genuine connection across a lot of important fronts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Getting my man to use sex toys on me when it went horrible the first and last time.? What | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/25 03:08 PM |
| – | Has studying/learning about men actually made you a better partner or dater?I didnt study per se, but I did observe! Here is an example. My husband is VERY forgetful at times. He forgets where his shoes are at. Where his wallet is at. Where he parked the car. When his nieces birthdays are. When our child's appointments are. What I told him 20 minutes ago lol. I love him with all my heart, but forgetting things is just a part of who he is. I reminded him about everything constantly, but this was incredibly frustrating on my part, since I cant seem to forget anything and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Any success stories where your partner left you for another woman and came back?So reading your post history, a few thoughts. I will try not to be harsh, but I am going to be blunt: You deserve better than what you have been given. If he has had issues on dating apps, he is not the one for you. He already knows you are not the one for him, otherwise he wouldn't be searching elsewhere. This is not your fault. He is not loyal. Thats a him problem. As a mom myself, I understand not wanting to be a single mother. But sometimes, its better to be raising a child singularly than r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Any success stories where your partner left you for another woman and came back?Reverse. I left my husband (when we were only dating), 2 years later came back. We've been together for 7+ years now and married for almost 2. We also have a daughter together, shes 4 months old. I left him because my mom died, and in my grief I developed very toxic abandonment issues. Convinced myself he was going to leave me anyways, so I might as well leave him now to avoid heartache later. I didnt handle my mom dying good at all, and looking back I wish I handled myself better. How we got ba… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Making friends with a previous enemy- am I making a mistake by reaching out?I would just leave it. It sounds like you were the student And she was the teacher. If my teacher got jealous or started making comments about me in any negative fashion that wasnt genuinely constructive criticism, at that point I would leave. I assume you pay money for these classes. Why pay for the possibility of being ignored, or comments to be made again? It doesnt sound worth it to me. Im sure there are other classes and teachers out there who would be thrilled to have you, and with a lot l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I really think I’ll never find love unless I alter my nose and face via surgeryYou can find love without changing your appearance! I have a crooked nose with a bump in it. Had this nose my whole life, and I used to be VERY self conscious about it because everyone else had curved noses that looked "better" to me, and I was constantly getting bullied for looking like a "witch". I had planned at 18 to get plastic surgery to change it because it was such a bother to me, but my husband changed my mind. My husband loves my nose. I didnt understand why, since everyone else seems … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/25 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Can you come off as innocent/feminine even if you have a more “manly” corporate role?I work in a male dominated career, in a management role with men who work under me in my crew. At work I am an absolute savage because I have to be in order to get the job done and keep my crew in line. I used to come home and complain to my husband constantly about X Y and Z from my work day. One day I realized that my husband never did the same thing to me, and he works an incrediblely harder and more dangerous job than I do. I realized one day coming home that it must be really off putting to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/25 08:50 AM |
| 7 | A skeptical autistic woman whose trying to open my mind.Well said! Im very new to this group, but just by scrolling through some posts, everyone here seems very realistic in their expectations for relationships. No one expects to find their, for lack of a better description, Nigerian prince who has 5 million in the bank overseas to buy them a solid gold house with 20 maids on standby. People here just want something real and meaningful. Its a breath of fresh air compared to other subs on reddit honestly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/25 08:32 AM |
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