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MajorLeagueMagick/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:22 PM
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I'm skeptical of the idea in this article that things could ever get to a point where the majority of women would hit on men. I just don't think they have it in them, especially when it comes to most men who aren't famous, rich, or give off "approach me" vibes. If that was to happen, you would first have to see an absolutely massive outcry from women in culture and the media with sadness and shaming towards men for not hitting on them-- this has begun and articles exist, but its far from massive…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 03:48 PM
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Here's the website for the five love languages: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ A love language is a way someone expresses the most possible love, and is also the type of expression that makes them feel the most loved. My theory is that the platonic/romantic relationships that emotionally affect us the most, form our love language or languages. For example, my love language is physical touch, and I think my parents might have taken parenting advice to leave me alone at a young age while sleeping,…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 02:34 PM
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But my goal is not to change the world, that is far too much of a burden, and likely impossible in my lifetime given the current state. At least give it a 1% chance. =P
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:19 PM
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By being playful about you can diffuse the argument too. But if a guy likes the girl, even if he's intellectual, the more attached he is to her the harder it could possibly be for him to differentiate between him being attacked and an argument being attacked; unless there's somehow been enough successful communication to help make that visible.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 01:59 PM
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Personally, I don't care about the mgtow subreddit at all and don't even bother to read it, but it seems to have caused a lot of conflict with posters on this subreddit. I can understand being annoyed by MGTOW who say you can't be MGTOW and have sex or relationships. But I can't understand being annoyed by MGTOW simply because they are virgins, and there's a reason I use the word virgin instead of incel: I'm skeptical of the idea of incel or involuntary celibate being a large group, because I th…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:45 PM
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Yes, but a single man is weaker than an army, and every army has a name. MGTOW is a sort of cultural army in the sense that there is a pattern in its individuals in fighting legal battles against gynocentricism through withdrawal and subversion, and communication between them about this. I honestly believe that men without any sense of group belonging, regardless of whatever greek classification you want to put them in (I don't care for any of them), will always feel more lonely.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:40 PM
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My view of men spending a large amount of time criticizing women is that at least someone is doing it, and that women deserve to be criticized as much as men. But also, that these men should be aware of their physical and mental health, because inevitably, being too emotionally wrapped up in criticizing others is going to damage your ability to work towards happiness or be happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:18 PM
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There is even infighting between non-PUA MGTOW, and I think it can be lessened but possibly never stop entirely. Anti-feminism and anti-gynocentricism will still always unite MGTOW/PUA/MRA/Red Pill'ers.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:13 PM
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I think as long as the person is happy and they aren't hurting anyone else (not inclusive of arguing), avoid women, chase women, it doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:10 PM
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If you're not improving, you're not growing and if you're not growing, you're losing. For me personally I would rephrase this, "If you're not improving, you're not growing and if you're not growing, you're slowly moving towards suicide."
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:19 PM
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You forgot to put this in bold. Fixed that for you. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 01:10 PM
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I am interested in the humanities, history, social theories, evolution, science, and philosophy. There's nothing wrong with these topics, but in some places they might only apply to a niche of men (alongside women), maybe most places. Not that people in general wouldn't be interested in them if they presented in the right way. I think that the probability is that quiet, introverted guys are also going to mostly be the ones gravitate to these topics. There are some guys who are somewhat sapiosexu…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 03:29 PM
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Try getting him to take Vitamin D3 in 1,000 IU capsules which will raise testosterone, up to 3,000 IU's shouldn't be a big deal, but you can do up to 10,000 and it will be safe as long as you aren't doing it everyday. It seems like it would be better to find an everyday amount if you are taking it for the express purpose to have a higher sex drive. I'm not a doctor but I've went about a week straight taking 6,000 IU's. Once in awhile now I'll just pop between 8,000 IU's and 10,000 IU's with no b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 02:35 PM
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He is an introvert so he likes alone time and I know I need to understand that is why he doesn't want to hang out sometimes too. Imagine an alien who is more interested in objects than people, and if this alien spends too much time around people they begin to feel sick. This is an introverted male. Sometimes, they also practice the arcane arts, but never while chewing bubble gum.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 12:43 PM
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don't go jumping in bed with the first Chad, Brad, or Thad Vlad is also not monogamous and on top of that he has a drinking problem.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 12:33 PM
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You're not going to become enlightened. I've probably been in hundreds of samadhis. I honestly think I could, but having someone hold a loaded gun in my face would scare me less than risking another kundalini awakening experience, at least at present. =P
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 12:25 PM
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You had a really great relationship and were living the dream of a lot of guys. I think that the memories and "imprint" of that relationship on you will be make you a stronger, more loving, and more positive person.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 05:38 AM
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Peanut butter, black beans, and dolphin semen everyday. PBDS bro. The best way to get jacked is with the holy nectar of our dolphin overlords. On a serious note I would think you'd need high fat on top of high protein for you brain to run at its best, like from peanut butter, coconut oil, eggs, advocados, and extra virgin olive oil, or butter or bacon once in awhile. I'm okay with my bodyfat, I have faint abs, and I put down a fair amount of butter on a regular basis.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 05:29 AM
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Having put a little bit of muscle back on and being born a ectomorph or skinny guy, its always bothered me how men respect me more and more women are attracted to me, just because of having a little extra muscle. But I also try to be aware of this attitude manifesting in myself with skinny or obese people and not be overly judgmental. With that said, I will never date a fat chick or a skeleton with tits.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 05:24 AM
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Yep.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 05:10 AM
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I never clicked with the captain/first mate thing, but if you drop that idea, there's still a very real aspect to a relationship where if a woman is nagging, shaming, and controlling with a guy who is emotionally connected to her, its going to emasculate him, damage his ambition, and make him desire the woman less. For men who feel like they have to hold frame, doing that can feel absolutely horrible, it doesn't make negative feelings completely go away, its just a technique to hide or bury the …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:56 PM
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You want a serious relationship. The first guy gave you the vibe that he was serious and you hit it off and talked a lot. But you were open to going beyond kissing with the second guy, even though he gave you the vibe that he only wanted sex and you couldn't find anything to talk about. The first guy might not be right for you. But if you keep going on dates with the second and the conversation stays the same, do you really want to potentially spend the rest of your life with someone who could p…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:42 PM
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If you think of it from the attachment theory angle, looking for an LTR that lasts is looking for deep emotional bond, and you are threatening the bond from the beginning by dating multiple people. But I can also understand abundance mentality for some people when it comes to confidence building or if they don't want an LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:10 PM
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This is why MGTOW is not a possible choice. If you willingly stay away from women and thus keep your sexual options nill, your brain will keep working hard at maintaining you in a beta psychology. I disagree. My opinion is that as long as you are open to being involved with women sexually, whether through hooking up or relationships, if they meet your standards, you won't be in a fight with your mind. But this may not apply to old men, or not as much, it might depend on the person. How much you …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:44 PM
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In my opinion, most of the guys who shame others on here do it for the wrong reasons, but they are free to do what they want. If I'm going to insult another guy its probably not going to be because he's showing too much emotion, not acting macho enough, or can't get sex-- though I may say nothing to him if I don't have anything to say. I'll insult someone because they've condoned or done something seriously immoral, and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:35 PM
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Thanks. Its sort of a contemporary Alice in Wonderland. I don't want to blatantly advertise here so I messaged links.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 02:17 PM
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Put yourself out there, because they're not going to knock on your door. After reading that, a scenario popped up in my head of a single woman dating a pizza delivery guy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:07 PM
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What is your sociological evidence that the majority of them are divorced?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 03:14 PM
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I could have used fancy terms like "Mindfulness" and been a pompous ass about being part of some great and respected religious tradition where I'm clearly "virtue signalling" as better. And while most would be turned off by that others would adopt the pompous mindset and start behaving the same way and quote fancy terms. Overall I like this post. But there's nothing really pompous about mindfulness because words are separate from it, its wordless awareness. That's it. Mindfulness is a gap in tho…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 02:55 PM
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The Real refers to that which is authentic, the unchangeable truth in reference both to being/the Self and the external dimension of experience, also referred to as the infinite and absolute—as opposed to a reality based on sense perception and the material order. For me personally, this definition is beyond masculinity because its about consciousness before identity, this guy's philosophy in the sentence is a minimized version of Hindu non-dual gitas which contain a lot more ideas. The word "be…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 02:00 PM
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There is only one thing to do this weekend. You will hold in all of my bodily fluids, and climb and sit at the top of Mt. Everest, surviving the extreme cold and thinning air using Wim Hoff's meditation and a dwindling, rusted oxygen tank. You will listen to this song on repeat, while you await Peter Dinklage, who dressed in chainmail armor and using nanotechnology to raise and command an army of the dead skilled in Muay Thai, who have come to take a thumb drive from you with the only schematics…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 03:21 PM
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I ended up writing a book with a female protagonist who was a bookish bespectacled teenage, but it had to do with friendship and not romance, and in the book she is mentally ill. So I escaped the trope.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 02:45 PM
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Sorry I was sleep deprived in that post with the word "biased" and I couldn't remember how the word was used. =P
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 03:04 PM
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Well I've been involved in the men's movement since 2013, early on the MRM, and moreso with the biggest MGTOW community which is on youtube, I witnessed it get big. A big MGTOW youtuber people love or hate is Sandman, I knew about him when his channel was very new, and he is still subscribed to me after 2 years which is pretty cool. So my view comes out of the MRM and MGTOW, and I think that the whole mental health industry leans towards women, inclusive of couple's therapy-- not to mention soci…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 02:38 PM
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Its a good short book.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 01:29 PM
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No problem. I'm glad its given you were able to gain a different perspective from it. Without being able to look at his motivation its hard to make a judgment call. My best guess, if its not coming from a place of selfishness, is that he's trying to decide where you go because he's trying to do it for you, for some reason, like trying to surprise you or he wants to go to a particular place because it would be easier for him to bond with you there. To paraphrase Laura Doyle, a woman's happiness i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 02:40 PM
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You have took a lot of initiative for keeping fights for getting worse in your relationship, and that's a good skill to have. I don't know the full situation so these are just ideas for what they're worth. Another thought is that anger in men is also a way to cover up sadness or depression. It can be really hard to see sadness, for both men and women, when they see an angry guy. But if you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint, a man is stronger by hiding his emotions, and hides them to a g…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:43 PM
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It should not be only a list of your issues with him, but also ask him to contribute to see if there's anything that you need to work on. This is a partnership and it takes two to fight. If neither one is willing to point out each other's faults, then you cannot improve and better the relationship. But do so in a constructive way, without damaging each other's egos. Just list objective facts instead of pointing fingers. It goes down much easier. This sounds like good advice for people if they ar…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 12:59 PM
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Thanks. I think the book was intended for two people to read. It seems weird for a couple's counselor to individually counsel, but I don't think most couple's therapists are trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy, which is Sue Johnson's. I would wager most of them are probably biased towards the man and bad at their job, but that's my bias. =P There's a lot of talk about different couples she has counselled in the book, so if you want, you can skim through that and look for core information. I p…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 11:33 AM
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I personally think that woman is a genius. To me, the core information in that book makes it most powerful book for improving relationships, but it also requires the participation of both people.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 04:16 AM
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If a woman isn't overweight or a single mother they are the equivalent of a Victoria's secret model on a dating website because how most men are, so if you throw in femininity and more basic intelligence than the average profile with that, it would make that woman stand out ridiculously.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 11:16 AM
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"The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman "Hold Me Tight" by Sue Johnson
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 10:12 AM
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I realize this is satire, but there is not a person on this earth who doesn't have weaknesses, and the stereotypical Chad is full of them due to his strict, non-scientific view of masculinity and lack of introspection. While Chad is busy learning how to manipulate women, smarter men are inevitably learning how to manipulate him. He can be the better man in his own Party World where civilization always existed, but not among the wiser men who run or work to better civilization, and whose knowledg…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 05:34 PM
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For instance, I dont want to talk about my feelings to her, but every long distance thing I've ever had has always been "I miss you so much" "cant wait to see you" etc etc. How do I keep this going without acting beta? Your only chance of eventually turning a long distance relationship into long term relationship where you both live together, is usually with a women has significantly less sexual market value than you. Its not even worth it. Its just my opinion, but you can have female friends on…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 06:23 AM
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I have noticed this in music in general and I hate it. Most of the male singers and their bands are female worshiping and blue pill, they can't even write compelling lyrics. But some of them can break out of that with some of their songs, and produce raw, real, modern Punk gems. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioMuDdNPIxQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zD65NnF1KEU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AwAdhvvGFlo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JHRbDCY_0U
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 05:51 AM
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This has been a recent major insight for me. Humans think in terms of narratives, but in reality it's all fiction. When you hold tightly to your "personal story" you are essentially holding to a personal fiction, which is quite burdensome when you see it for what it is. It is a fiction in the sense that its part of a greater whole of life, or can include lies, from my viewpoint. But the feeling aspect of the personal narrative is fiction in the sense that its feeling one small aspect of life, an…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 04:51 AM
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That's one way to put it, what's in place of that lack of ego is seeing or sensing life as its happening. Someone could read "lack of ego", and turn the ego into an enemy, which will make them miserable, because life supports having an ego and thinking, it just doesn't have to be all the time. So moments of lack of ego come out of ego's fulfillment, from the belief that it can be fulfilled by being temporarily quiet and aware, and not that its made itself an enemy. You can have obstacles that ar…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 04:19 AM
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I've known my ("ex") boyfriend for over 10 years we started dating 8 months ago I've never felt the level of comfort and care and butterflies as I do with him; our hearts instantly latched on to each other's and it's really easy to see my future with him-our visions align. I have been in an abusive relationship before and I am scared with a change of dynamics (the fact that I am now the "reacher" begging for his forgiveness) I am scared it can turn into abusive territory if I'm not careful--can …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 03:13 PM
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Get to a normal weight through exercise and better eating, and act extremely feminine to break anyone's perception that you're a common undateable tattooed woman, since that perception gets sustained by lack of feminine body language, speech, and action with a lot of those women. Don't get any more tattoos, but since they are important to you, save up money for them in case you get into an LTR with someone who won't mind. If you have a tendency to get in abusive relationships, with whoever you d…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 02:27 PM
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If you want to stay mentally healthy, stay open to dating, just keep your standards high. If you shut the door completely you'll be fighting forever with your mind.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:05 PM
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I love The Ribhu Gita which suggests that you are all bliss, all peace, and all love, and all consciousness. If someone was all of these things, then they would be overwhelmed with happiness and kind to everyone around them as a result. So lately I'm trying to be nicer and more giving, and I've found that I'm having more success with samadhi again; when it comes to samadhi or meditative consciousness, I think that karma objectively exists.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:53 PM
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I think women can use sex as a bargaining chip, and are more adept at it than men. The primary reasons women divorce have more to do with emotional disconnection than money problems, and unlike men, women are more bothered on average by emotional infidelity than sexual infidelity. The primary emotion behind female hypergamy seems like its anxiety, that would explain why so many women are flaky or ghost men as a way of rejecting, rather than doing it with words like men might use more. When you a…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 02:33 PM
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I don't really care about being an alpha male. I just like looking for interesting thoughts and events. Sexual market value comes from sex drives. I'm more interested in survival market value, which comes from the primary drive of human beings, survival. A focus on long term survival tends to cause the most intelligence, but not a focus on sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 12:07 PM
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I'd add: brag about the stuff you've cooked without knocking anyone else's cooking ability. For example: "The nachos I made tonight were possibly better than anything I've had at any restaurant.. the flavor was HUGE! And I'm going to make Mexico pay for it!"
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 11:52 AM
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Presence.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:59 AM
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I'm glad there's at least one person who seems as advanced as me on TRP. =)
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:58 AM
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Thank you. I try to write every day.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:41 AM
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I don't want kids but would rather be in an LTR and its still bad. Dating websites are mostly single moms with princess complexes, who think a relationship works by obsessing over their children and treating their SO as secondary-- as if that sets a good example for the children or helped them keep their last relationship from falling apart. All while most of these women are holding out for handsome rich guys while they do little to improve themselves, and often after spending years sleeping aro…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:25 PM
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If you want to have the chance of living.. with the girl of your dreams.. then you need to step up and take the chances. Life's gonna end soon so stop thinking about other people and start focusing on yourself. I feel like you are sending mixed messages to us on whether we should masturbate or not.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:18 PM
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I've met intellectual women and had temporary friendships with them. There's the dream of having a relationship with lots of sex and intellectual conversation, but it seems like more of a dream than anything. No matter how intelligent a woman becomes, hypergamy still leads and is empowered by their intelligence, there's still a bunch of pointless hoops to jump through.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 05:49 AM
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Well the MGTOW subreddit is a joke to me. Most of the big youtube MGTOW channels don't use it, and moderators there are idiots, which is partially why. The youtube MGTOW community is the primary community to me. It makes sense that TRP in general would have a distorted view of MGTOW as only being monks, based on that subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:54 AM
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There are plenty of "monk" fakers calling themselves MGTOW who are actually "losers" who can't get laid and can't stand to even hear about other MGTOW getting laid. Without naming a lot of names you are just making a generalization. I don't think there are many men like this at all. I was around youtube when it was just Stardusk and Barbarosssa and this "no true scotsman" stuff in MGTOW is as tiring as the infighting.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 03:47 PM
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Do not hesitate. Forgive your failures immediately. Permanently. Profoundly. When you begin challenging yourself to fail… THAT is when you’ve already won. Some very powerful quotes here. I WILL REMEMBER THESE WHEN I RUN NAKED IN FRONT OF THE POLICE STATION! Just kidding, good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 02:48 PM
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A lot of men in long term relationships end up giving up a lot to maintain those relationships. They give up certain dreams they had, often financially costly ones, they can give up hobbies, they can give up friends, their home is mostly where the woman expresses herself as far as how it looks and what's there, and they often get relegated to one space where they can express themselves. Some of these men can be afraid of the woman withholding sex, or leaving them, or ruthlessly divorcing them; a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 02:13 PM
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It was a comedic compliment, I was making fun of your post sounding drunk, but I think the general gist of your message was correct. I call it "gender holism". Genders have different general brain structures and can compliment each other when there isn't culture like feminism and hook-up culture messing with that to the degree that it is now. I'm also not a traditionalist, and think I there's obviously variance to how that complimenting can work between different people.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 01:06 PM
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I feel like you wrote this drunk. But I imagine a drunk Billy Bob Thornton in a baseball captain uniform clapping his hands with chew in his mouth and saying, "A+ for effort."
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:12 PM
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He might not like being touched in public, or be more nervous in public. I would wager you might be more nervous in public if you have anxiety with affection. If you are comfortable with it you should just stick with dates that are simple and at each other's houses.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:00 PM
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I'm not enlightened but I have been in and identified as incredibly deep samadhis. So this is my opinion: Your personality has to be destroyed to reach enlightenment. It will come back because it can't actually be destroyed, but it has to be completely seen as an illusion first by spontaneous witnessing love, and there's no cheating. One of Ramana Maharshi's enlightened students said this, "The mind must die in the heart." So this is sort of a battle between linguistic thought and love in consci…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 02:23 PM
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U need upbeat 80's revival music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDXDJYk_UmY
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:31 PM
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There was a time when not a single video in the whole youtube goth community even had like 1,000 views. Now some people are raking in money.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:22 PM
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I've never settled when I had the handful of chances to. I suppose I'm mostly glad about it, if the relationship didn't work out and more attraction wasn't built, I would've been messing with someone else's emotions for my own gain. Just wasn't appealing to me personally. I honestly think in your case, from everything you've written, there's no settling going on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:02 PM
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There are no soul-mates but I think there are variances of compatibility. Compatibility is a multi-faceted topic. You have shared values and shared interests, but then there's female hypergamy and its male equivalent which often times appear to be in serious conflict with those from what I've seen. I don't have all the answers, I just would rather keep looking for all of them than be cynical, because that kind of absolute cynicism about the future is the worst place you can put yourself in.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:33 PM
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The struggle is real, I sometimes have random strangers apologize to me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 01:13 PM
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Smiling, even slight smiling, will make more strangers talk to you, whether you are a man or a woman. Everyone is less nervous starting a conversation with someone who is smiling, except maybe people with social anxiety. To quote Laura Doyle, "Smiling is an invitation." It makes you vulnerable. But its probably more important than makeup, hair, and clothing.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 02:23 PM
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Men are disposable, but this is partially cultural, and if a serious MRA got "fuck you money", something would happen to make men less disposable. The MRM has gained popularity, albeit at an incredibly slow pace, but anti-feminism has gotten much more popular, and will eventually serve as entry point into the Men's Rights Movement through "generation gaps" or generational change. Women are hypergamous and appear to fall out of love more easily than men, but many men have happy relationships with…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:03 PM
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If you are talking about average drinking parties, they might give you a dating pool, but they generally don't increase your SMV, because its mostly a place for hook-up culture and perpetuating confusion and misery. A lot of people have casual sex with little emotional connection, feel miserable, and repeat the cycle, but they want to fit in, so they refuse to see it as a cycle. Its sad to watch. He gave you sex, he never gave you any emotional security, which is what LTRs are primarily about. S…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 05:58 AM
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Well to some degree when we fall in love, it raises our attraction to the other person beyond what how attractive they would be as strangers. I wish there was more science on it so I could know how much people could get away with settling without the relationship being doomed; but obviously fitness and self-improvement for men and women is still good regardless of that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 05:31 AM
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In a playful way, try talking with him about what you want different aspects of your future together to look like, and do this a lot. If he brings up his ex, smile and tell him he had to meet his ex first so he could meet you. When he brings up his ex he might be subconsciously asking you to touch him in a platonic, comforting way. Basically because he's been hurt he is vetting your ability to be emotionally responsive, to decide whether or not he should change the story about himself in his hea…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 05:05 AM
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TL;DR: My partner is significantly out of my league on the SMV rating scale. Why would a man want to stay with a woman with a very low HB and SMV rating? Youthfulness is connected to beauty and you are 10 years younger than him, you don't withhold sex, and you have a lot of feminine traits. A man like myself who likes free time, with a GED, no college, and an entry-level job has a smaller dating pool, these things mean nothing for a woman, because men attracted to intelligence don't care as deep…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 12:08 PM
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Hitchens was good at polemics but he was out of shape, smoked and drank like crazy, and supported the war in Iraq while claiming to be a humanist; though I have tremendous respect and admiration for him. Milo is good at polemics but he is also more contrarian than moral, for instance with disregarding circumcision as a human rights abuse, or holding up the alt right as fully or mostly rational, and worth being embraced by college students. But Milo and Hitchens are both mostly moral to me. One p…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 11:09 AM
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Touch is a more basic language than sound. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_grooming
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 10:34 AM
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I remember hearing that when we moved from hunter-gatherer societies to farming societies, the majority of women were having sex and relationships with the guys who were farming. Life was harsh and there was no birth control. From a male view, that's still dark to think about, because it would seem like a lot of men basically went without relationships with women throughout their entire lives, which would probably mess them up in the head. Maybe the harshness of staying alive another day was a b…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 10:16 AM
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I'd say publicly known self-sufficiency, including being sufficient through social skills and networking. Or essentially, wealth and status. And probably confidence and ambition, which aren't always synonymous with wealth and status. While being pleasant and empathetic seem like traits both genders find attractive. So wealth, status, confidence, ambition, being pleasant to be around (which can be subjective depending on the woman), and empathy. But I also think men and women are somewhat natural…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 10:11 AM
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Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 08:51 AM
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If the girl really is your best friend, talk to her about it first before you damage the friendship. Unless you are okay with potentially damaging the friendship, which would make me think that she isn't as close a friend as what you claim. If your friend is okay with you asking him out and you are too nervous to do it person, ask him out through text, and tell him you were always secretly interested in him but you have been afraid to say anything because you were nervous.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 02:35 PM
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Its important to hang around an online community, whether its TRP, bodybuilding.com, or somewhere else, where other men are concerned with exercise and looking aesthetic. The best I ever looked I was lurking around the bodybuilding.com forums on a daily basis and was doing 6 day double splits, but at the time I was unemployed so it was also easier to train that hard. Without a "tribe" where physical excellence is a goal, men tend to physically let themselves go.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:09 PM
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Fair point. Others have already given good advice. But so my post doesn't feel without substance, I will add, I don't have a bland personality at all when someone gets to know me, but I can be emotional or neurotic sometimes as a result, so there are always pros and cons to everything. =P
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 01:51 PM
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I wrote a thread on meditation but it got downvoted and disappeared quickly, I am guessing because nobody who read it understood it. If I could put random people in the samadhi I was in tonight, some of them would be on the floor.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:24 PM
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Also remember that looks and feminine traits largely beats out intelligence for men. I am partly sapiosexual, or partly attracted to intelligence more than a normal guy, and I still would rather date a less intelligent and more feminine woman that's open to learning and listening, as opposed to a highly intelligent woman that will take the extremely masculine route if an argument happens and go on a verbal warpath; which I think almost all men would agree with. If you get in fights with a guy an…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 02:58 PM
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Some people here already gave really good advice, so I'll just add an example of someone you don't want to date twice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfR1TwosYQg
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 02:50 PM
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"Lift" should be replaced with "exercise".
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:07 PM
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I don't believe in the whole alpha/beta thing apart from the "alpha male" being who the majority of women are willing to sleep with right off the bat or with the least amount of time; though no emotionally-dampened orgasm will compare to the depths of meditation based on Advaita Vedanta, or the emotional reward of being a successful pioneer. Nikola Tesla suffered for not having women in his life and that put a hole in his life, but a man who only has women and hedonism in his life has an entirel…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:02 PM
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There are probably words that are more or less attractive to women, but masculinity is pretty broad apart from general sexual differences. And a word or phrase that's "unmanly" to someone (biggie meanies) can be used in a humorous context, which humor is generally attractive to women for those snickerdoodles who are so concerned with it. But if you define what language you are allowed to use purely by what is generally attractive to women, that limits your power with language. Don't be a big doo…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 10:55 AM
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Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 04:46 AM
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"They are conditioned to think they will never hit the wall.." When I think about this, part of me shuts down entirely to ever want a relationship, but then I wonder if I was in some freakish condition with a low population of males, where my hindbrain was conditioned from adolescence to get a lot of sex from attractive women regularly and easy, would I, or any other male, with the pull of sexual selection on human behavior, be able to fight that off with culture and wisdom? It seems unlikely, o…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:16 PM
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Most Westernized women seem to lack feminine traits and aren't worth being in a long term relationship with. Bad location and higher standards makes the prospects worse. All these horror stories I've seen and read of women cheating in LTRs, and the fact that women have less testosterone, thus can be less honest, and are better at getting away with cheating scares me; and if a woman cheated on me I'd break up with her in an instant, regardless of how much pain it would cause me. On top of that, I…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 09:16 AM
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I prefer the MGTOW term, "female ejection switch". Kind of like you are riding in a plane with a woman and then suddenly your seat has dropped out of the bottom of it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 07:16 AM
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Yeah I think you should try getting bolder, because your idea of bold might not be the same as a man's, since a lot of men are bad at picking up on women's signs, so its not totally getting through to him. From what you have written it sounds like you are dating a more nervous version of me, so I actually just had another idea. Some men are dominant or confident because they've been burned by being vulnerable with people and learned to hate it, and they often perceive vulnerability as a threat t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 04:15 AM
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Cohabiting couples are happier than wedded ones: http://www.news.cornell.edu/stories/2012/01/cohabiting-couples-are-happier-wedded-ones
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:12 AM
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You have to be flirty and touch him like crazy. Just make it playful and inviting, and stop touching him in any way that seems to annoy him, no tickling or poking because that would probably annoy most men. Most touch probably won't annoy him though. You can even "accidentally" brush up against him repeatedly. If you are nervous, all the touch can be "accidental". Overload his brain with your touch until he has no choice but to be used to it, and the dominance he has in all other areas of his li…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 04:37 PM
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Well since some men posted here I'll post, since it might be relevant to some people. I have debated with myself over years between whether the red pill is more real, or the purple pill is more real. I have my own version of what the purple pill means, which I think is the most legitimate version, dealing with Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy, that claims a 70% success rate and is based on attachment theory, and could even challenge the entire idea of dread game as having to do with the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 03:58 PM
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The logic in this thread: "Guys buying sex technology have totally given up on self-improvement." "MGTOW has nothing to do with self-improvement because I define it as men who only abstain from relationships, and men who abstain from relationships are incapable of self-improvement." Dear red pill logic train, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVy7YeeqGZQ
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:08 PM
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The way I like to put it is that a lot of men are missing adventure in their lives because civilization has become so advanced; but they might still remember adventure from adolescence. Our species has been around for a much longer time than civilization. It seems like lot of men are overworked, and/or isolated, and really crave some kind of adventure they would've gotten regularly before civilization existed or became as advanced as it is now. Boys get to have adventures to a greater degree. I …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 01:56 PM
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Psst, I know who you are.. Hail Sithis.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 03:12 PM
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I'm a 28 year old virgin, hence the nickname. When I was 18 I fell in love with a girl who friendzoned me and then had sex with a bunch of different guys and used me as an emotional tampon after each break up. Years later she would end up a single mom and try to flirt with me and add me on facebook, I could've easily gotten sex from her, but my attraction to her was completely gone, and I happily ignored her. I'll let you take whatever you want from the story. =P ~ MGTOW & Dolphins <3
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 02:58 PM
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Can also confirm, I'm quiet, and don't make a lot of money because I prefer the free time and refuse to go into debt for college, but I feel like I have slowly been building wisdom around love and happiness that very few other people have. Sanity and intelligence will lead you to money, but lack of sanity and intelligence will lead you to what matters most, hmm. Green and short, I am.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:45 PM
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I would call that a MGTOW ghost. "Ghost" in MGTOW lingo can mean going off the grid to varying extents, or it can just be synonymous to being a "monk" and not pursuing sex.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 02:13 PM
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Thank you. I got the side by side thing from the illustrious bald-headed therapist Tom Golden in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7yaH-DVbYQ I'd say whether you are male or female, having some kind of touch while talking about something important can establish more emotional security, so touch can help as well in that regard.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 01:54 PM
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The biggest idea for me in describing the mental differences between the sexes, is that men have object and concept leaning brains, and women have people and emotion leaning brains. I'm not sure how true the concept/emotion idea is, but the object/people one I'm absolutely positive about. As Tom Golden has said, men also tend to cope more through action and inaction rather than talking about their feelings and relationship building. If relationships happen with men, it is a byproduct of the acti…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 02:30 PM
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Good luck. Like I said it seems more than likely that he's not checking out.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 01:18 PM
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I think its because these men made the tone platonic rather than sexual because they were afraid to commit to a sexual relationship for some reason, so female attraction with enough SMV behind it is just wired to shut off if men aren't serious enough, to protect against men who might not be attracted enough to the woman they are talking to, which threatens that woman's survival in the sense that she lacks sexual and romantic leverage. But lower SMV women can possibly tolerate more initial platon…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 01:10 PM
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If you get married, some guy who is better than you will eventually steal your wife, he will eat your dog, he will fuck your goldfish, he will get you fired from your job, and he will poop in your car. Then, after you have been totally defeated, he will disguise himself and try to party with you.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EPL_4HyCFQ Honestly though I will never sign a marriage contract.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 12:11 PM
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I haven't had a nightmare in months, maybe years. I think I would probably only have really good dreams because of meditation, but I still have problems in my life that probably manifests in my dreams and stops this from happening. I would say see you should see your dreams as part of your consciousness, as connected to your everyday consciousness. If you can realize that you are attacking yourself in your dreams, it might help you stop having nightmares. I don't believe in spirits or anything s…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:57 AM
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Some people can get bliss from Vipassana, but I think they don't get as much of it or understand it as deeply from that technique based on the language I've heard coming from Buddhist practitioners, and its the words or phrases that they don't say. As hippy or woo as it might sound, bliss can feel like the whole nervous system is being possessed by love. Indifferent witnessing is connected to feeling and bliss, but it seems to me like there is a different perspective to get the most out of feeli…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:17 AM
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If you don't think it would annoy him, I'd recommend finding out what each others love language or languages are, and showing affection in those languages: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Your different communication styles can have something to do with different love languages, so knowing these languages could make you both feel more secure about the relationship. It would be good to spend more time improving yourself, and less time trying to improve him or make him act in the way you want. He s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 03:38 PM
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To clarify, I don't believe in magic or anything supernatural, the nickname is just comedy.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:17 PM
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If you don't think it will annoy him, ask him about what his love language is: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Tell each other what your love languages are, if you can. You can potentially have more than one main love love language. If you find out his love language and show him affection in that way, if that's his real love language, he should be more likely to commit. Though it could also take time for him more time to decide if he got out of a relationship and is coming to terms with the loss …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 02:40 PM
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When you are talking about meditation you are likely talking about mindfulness, as that seems to be what most people are aiming for and what is popular, which goes along with modern Buddhism. But there's more in meditation than just mindfulness, there's also bliss or "ananda". The majority of people have never experienced it, so they do not believe in it. It seems tied to spontaneous inner color, spontaneous inner light, and spontaneous daydreams, but it can also be tied to a wordless identifica…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:46 PM
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Okay, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 11:47 AM
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I spent like a half an hour writing a reply to this and the bot deleted it. Which was depressing. But I will summarize what I remember from the post. I think hookup culture has made women more jaded and defensive towards men who are more open about their emotions and romantic. It seems like women are generally more likely to think the average male who is being emotional or a pushover in some instance will always be that way, where they can sometimes blow things out of proportion because they are…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 03:36 AM
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