| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | game in social an non social situations (theory for intermediates and advanced) | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 11:20 PM | |
| 1 | Daygame sarge report: girls flying to me because of semen retention (new conversion record) | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 07:23 PM | |
| 1 | why betas have higher notchcount than alphas and the fake alphaness of the pickup industry. | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 11:09 PM | |
| 0 | oneitis with a cock-tease (the modern witch) | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 08:28 AM | |
| 0 | So many gamma wankers on this sub downvoting quality (hopefully not you). | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:03 PM | |
| 0 | Whats App Status update trap (shit-test) | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 08:58 PM | |
| 0 | 13 secs of street compatible preapproach pimp swagger walk | Makakka2002 | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 10:50 AM |
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| -1 | How do you avoid time wasters?It depends. Usually my abundance after a failed early kc meaning not being able to give a lesser fuck increase attraction so I look for those attraction signals that most of the time come bc my predate filter is valid. If a windowshopper/timewaster cuts through the run ends there bc fortunately a woman cant fake these signals at least not to me with 5k+ set xp… | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Do girls care if you have tons of followers?Are you crazy?!? Me also only WhatsApp but wings teared their heart out to create a solid ig to (easier) close girls… | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Help: Trying to start cold appoach for the first time, but feeling insecure and scared afYou will get butal reject but thats normal bc your new You have have a ton of work to do it will take years to transform yourself into a savage machine years of dedication and brutal Self reflection. Not your age race or age will get you brutal rejection (if your target selection is realistic means stay in your race age and height for the first 100 sets at least) it’s your fucked up weak traumatised inner self a p reppeland from a mile. Nonetheless I feel you can make it… | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 07:46 AM |
| 1 | AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier?[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 06:46 AM |
| 0 | What are your best daygame openers? Flood me.Don’t bang Denmark | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How often do women approach you?Try do look not better than mediocer. ?! Only valid reason I see is building a skillset that (also) works when your looks deteriorate (with age). Else why waste life | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 06:20 AM |
| 1 | I feel invisible to womenYou have loser vibe. Solve with Tons of game action. Will take years don’t expect an easy fix tomorrow all good | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 08:01 AM |
| 7 | Is approaching hard or easy outside the USA?Wrong. In US you have to play more status game at least on the coasts you don’t need to be deep. Western Europe other way round your clout is worth nothing here… | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 07:58 AM |
| 9 | Is approaching hard or easy outside the USA?Germany is mid tier in difficulty. German girls treat you well and are least bitchy when not interested when you approach solid. I’m very happy about that it preserves my state and vibe. That said you have it harder than average tu build trust bc social bonding is strong here. When in comparison I think of New York or Miami girls their coldness and inhumane treatment of guys their not interested in is unmatched imo so no thx… | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Stats for Top GuysTop guys not always have high lay outputs only those who pump and dump. Me for example im plating like many others meaning we reject tons of girls that could be laid bc I don’t like meaningless sex without a deep genuine connection (anymore) | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 02:05 AM |
| -1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI maxxed so hard to be upper chadlite/lowchad. Now I get tons of hot iois today did 3 iois in 10 minutes while even skipping some. Thing is all autorejection bc I’m too hot its self protection. Better really is not that hot but there is no way back for me. Btw it’s not my game im advanced with about 7k sets but had more success when I ways uglier so be careful with that chad myth Edit: It seems being that superhot with ultrasavage imperator game just is too much for girls. I really should worse … | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 01:22 PM |
| 12 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyYES. THIS. I only went into self diagnostics and therapy after about 2000 sets (road to intermediate). Took 2 years of therapy to clear childhood trauma) now im free and raid the city to my liking :) | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Moving Beyond RedPillWell Bro im alpha in spirit and kept my love for women and humanity. That’s enough | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/26 10:19 AM |
| -2 | Abysmal results in NYC street / day game, 37yoNYC is one of the hardest of not the hardest ground in western world. You need to get more volume in to get better attuned with the nuances. For example here i always never walk with the girl in the beginning there i maybe would bc of fast pace. 120 approaches is not enough to get the transition in. Also you are very results orientated you need to humble yourself for the challenge. Focus on (tiny) improvements of own game like better calibration vibe etc. and results will come as a byproduct | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt and close the date to ask them to come homebChange mindset to take risks also tons of practise I burned countless girls to find my sweetspots… | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Help. Girls become upset and feel betrayed when they don't become my girlfriend.I never get that bc I game player. You get it bc you game bf you can’t help it you ooze these vibes | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do It„Mistake“ clearly shows youre not an advanced guy. Direct depends on your vibe and delivery yes your example is simpy and doesnt work but when you deliver from a position of power and dominamce it works but that’s an advanced comcept you never heard of… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 08:49 PM |
| 2 | The ultimate list of unattractive traits that turn off women even if they were initially interested in you.Great stuff being an aspergerish hyperlogical emotionless fucktard (me in my teens 20s and a bit 30s) is missing basically a picture of me is missing :) | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:10 AM |
| 1 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTSome here said it game does not get tougher but the responsibility bar rises. Solution for me framing myself more and more player with better and better delevoped alpha traits, personality and game. Also looksmaxxed oc age 43y Key then wasspecialising in mid to end 20 single mothers. They are hot but don’t have their biological clock ticking and bc of that heavy red framing i can f them with 0 responsibility while bluepill cucks and soys pay, take care and work…life has never been better | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Confidence comes from within? It make you more attractive? You actually believe this?In theory you can fake it but in practice women are very good sniffing out inconguent microsig youre Not aware of | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t approach because they are more sensitive to rejectionFemale privilege…accept life. Besides only when I approach its guaranteed its MY frame my world we playing that’s healthy polarised sexuality (for me). I don’t want to be a wimp waiting to be approached… | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Girls giving me dirty looks at parties, is it my fault?This rule is nonexistent is about vibe I often take girls hands and they love it bc of vibe intent and I don’t shake it like in a business meeting. That’s no rule either just everyone has own game he should continue shaking girls hands until he figures out how it turns them on… | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong in finding a partner?„You cannot get girls if you are not prepared to offend people“ GOLD | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I think we’re trying way too hard with dating.Curse and blessing… | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itStatus matters more than looks | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itNice love that proof if looks doesnt matter no pictures needed…I wonder though a picture of a hyper luxury car only with proof is yours should attract some gold diggers that would fuck you even if you look like Jabba the Hut | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI EXPECT iois during the convo indont wanna date autistic fuck so eject | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 12:15 AM |
| 0 | I am so desperateYou seem to be below average on the attraction scale. As a man you are lucky to being able to compensate that with inner/behaviour traits. Meaning your inner game has to be significantly better than the average man to compensate you basically need pimp vibe/virtual preselection. From where you are this needs YEARS of therapy and self improvement bc your inner game is worse than the average man… Tl/dnr: Bad game isnt allowed bc you too ugly but (good) game can save you | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why approachingI don’t (cold) approach for contacts that’s a only a bonus often I don’t even go for contacts. I do it to get pimp vibe from these hot girls energies and abundance from their attraction signals that make girls bend over in „rl“ is like going to the gym to improve looks for dating it’s Not really about the girls in the gym but outside… | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Your Volume SucksGame is too complex and nuanced for these commandments…everyone needs to find his own game | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Matched with a woman I’ve seen at my gym for monthsThat’s a logical explanation fine might work…might. Interesting case will never happen to me. All I know is you get a ton of bonus attraction points by approaching rl so you missed out of that. Attraction still seems high enough. all I said i wouldnt risk that by deliberately bring this paradoxon up. You can compare it (negatively) with school you fancy a girl in your class but besides eyecontact do nothing. Then You Tell a friend to tell her shes hot after school bc you want to focus on school … | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Matched with a woman I’ve seen at my gym for monthsThe elephant in the room is you didn’t approach in rl countless times but found her hot enough in 2d to match and act. If you bring it up expect nuclear tests for congruency viciously disguised in laughter and haha curveball from the finest. So instinctively you played smart she just wont give you a free pass on that indeed keep the mystery for now. | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Controversial: It’s fine to text back immediatelyBro that’s not the best mindset even if it’s reality. I try everything to avoid that by not being like the other guys by doing ballsy qualitative approaches then you are „allowed“ to do less over text to be the king ruling above all other peasants in the oozing that vibe over text and these rules are not for you… | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | a question to guys who have reached the player stageGot pickier see more turnoff red flags lack motivation to even text after nc the interest in women just decreased that made it easier to get leads (hot girls are most attracted when you give everything in the interaction with the slight vibe you don’t really want them) but harder to follow through rather than attracting the next bird…im happy about the neverending of the cycle though bc don’t feel I miss sonething… | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 05:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I NOT come of as desperate?More girls more Action Divide female value into several girls like roman emperor so that each girl is worth less problem solved. Might take years to become that man that picks from the top. Bc you have severe inner issues and fuckups you prob need therapy… | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Social media is the present and the future.Black history | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Ratio of successful cold approaches7/10 bc game good. Game is good. Your metrics are spot on wherever you are you have a great future stay focused and keep going | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Stop Following Outdated Dating Advice!Just bought the book thx for your dominance seeking bad advice i happily submitted myself to. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 03:20 AM |
| 0 | Trying To Be Alpha - The Most Idiotic Way To ExistBow down peasant | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 02:52 AM |
| -1 | Trying To Be Alpha - The Most Idiotic Way To ExistUseless theory.Yours is the most idiotic way. Learning alpha game wtf. Often circumstances make you (more) alpha. Never wanted to lead. Now I’m ceo so I just have to. Over that my personality just changed to I want to call the shots I want be upfront im willing to take the risks bc over the years learnt to control and mitigate these risks so for others big for me small risks. Empathy 10/10 highly self critical and reflective no ego (narcisstistic tendencies are fine and help thought but that’s s… | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How you manage to learn seduction?Fuck theory approach approach approach then a few youtube vids Action with women gives Great vibe and finesse with them fuck theory | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If getting numbers is hard for you to do, your judgment doesn't mean anythingGreat post why why this effort almost noone understands have to be deep deep into game…I do instacoffee meaning I only take nr if I have a Seat and a drink in front of me then regularly SOLID | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Do girls appreciate "non gym but sporty" physiques at all?Lean is law im at 13.5% body fat atm lots of cardio and not more than defined muscle and get the top girls quite easily bc lean is everything muscle just a bonus. Depends a bit of Bodytyp I have a slim tall frame this hunter/elvish look is perfect a broader frame is warrior type would be better suited bulking on muscle there leanness not that important 15-20% optimal. Slim hunter frame going for big muscle is tryhard and a turnoff for many women | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | All i think about is dating and it's sucks ,1.Don’t talk game with friends 2.you are outcome dependant that hurts your game = needy for ltr I done several k sets went into yearlong therapy to clear childhood trauma I’m a made man atm in train infield. I get high on my own game when I hit the count when I did stellar Performance that’s all I need to be happy yes if I have a dryspell it sucks but that’s easily solved by lowering threshold down 1 point and bitches come until I got enough Validation to step 1 Point up again (for example atm a… | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Thinking of taking a breakShe is a so called „hired gun“ if you like the bar don’t if you don’t do | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How is game in the UK?Daygame is not for small towns/suburbs so these are not in the pool daygame in 600 village are you mental hahhaHHhA bending backwards to critisise my point enjoy :) | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 02:12 PM |
| 26 | How is game in the UK?London besides New York is the toughest ground in the Western World of you make it there you make it anywhere. Brexit made it worse zillions less esp eastern europe. The biggest problem is the fast pace of the Main Roads not to speak of the antisocial arrogant english mentality that inflates girls ego and perceived value no thx I’m happy im living in continental Europe golden time. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 12:44 AM |
| -1 | How I closed 3 girls in 4 days at their places„Direct openers“ you natcissistic fuck what You described isnt „direct opener“ else fair game though I don’t know the looks gap ne what youre shooting for is it really the best you can fuck… | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 04:53 AM |
| 6 | Being a 22m virgin is making me suicidalHad a similar problem early 20s. Got laid with my looks and membership in the cool gang alone with top girls but that then faded. It was what I call „good looking guy syndrome“ my game and personality didn’t catch up with your looks. That’s why I saw I appeared way more retarded than „normal“ looking men bc women expect a certain vibe of slight cockiness and abundance from them else they assume you are mentally ill…so simplified as a good looking man you need to appear a bit playerish just to ap… | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone become good at the game?It starts with no „the“. Else no hell no. Most can improve but hypercritical self reflection (what most MOST don’t have) is key to technical personality imrovement/Transformation also for inner game work/therapy. That’s when you want to f the hot bi**** it takes years for 6s some RSD clips here and there with random approach should do it else humanity would be extinct | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 04:59 AM |
| 0 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenGreat stuff | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop hyper-fixating on female approval?For me approval is the main drive im addicted to clean attraction triggers too but on abstract my man in abstract meaning I don’t need it from specific women that’s your problem you fixate neediness pussy repellent | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejections recently from cold approachesYour game hasnt catched up with your age do more volume | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Too many men approaching women?No | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it?It’s his aa brother | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?You stack topics and let her answer. If it’s a few times only yes/no you say you can ask me now a question | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?Yes but not early if you are congruent you get these tests mid interaction | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?Act congruent and ballsy and they wont test I don’t get these fucking tests bc of fear (=attraction) | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?In you bc you act incongruent not on me bc they afraid of big baller | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?Weight and blessing for me much more blessing bc I (can) dictate convo and frame | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?You lost value by „waiting“ plus noone is inclined to be serious with you after some light flirtation only the general odds are increased | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | So if you want to get dates then you have to not be interested or looking for dates/ already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, but if you aren't interested or looking for dates/ are already satisfied with/focused purely on living your own life, then how would you get dates?Be assertive but outcome Independent. Simple but a fine line took me 7 years to balance it out with therapy and inner work but finally made it | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | how to approach women without having anxietyGreat useless effort there is no general solution the mystery 3-second rule your state is outtadet and only a must on ioi. Stalked girls for minutes through the mall (extreme cases) and some great sets came out. „Talking to more than 1 girl“ you aint setting a limit you seem oblivious to venue burn. Your post helps noone noone. If you want to help go infield with someone and try to push him into set. Btw same for drills. The opposite of good results is good intentions and I’m Not even sure you h… | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Pre qualification before shooting shot?What a fuck opener. JMULV is no daygamer. Still it doesnt matter much if you feel good about it | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How to start with a girlWait til you see her else you come over as an incongruent weak ass | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 06:55 AM |
| -1 | How has The Game by niel straus, changed over the times leading to todayBack then Game were lines today game is vibe | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Why is ghosting bad?Agreed both is very negative ghosting is leaving someone in the desert rejecting is a shot in the heart I don’t like that | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Maybe you aim to high ie value gap | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | 29M Boston Field ReportGreat report man you payed deuce in the trenches. If its all about getting better game ok but there might be an inner game problem why invest so much exclusive dancefloortime when you don’t want to fuck her anyway mhhhh… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Think During Successful Cold Approach?„Fuck it I just simply do it now“ and now go and keep playing with your lego | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Need help with texting gameOnline so cringe for both sides…last time i od was 2015 never looked back get treated so much better when approaching for real… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 01:50 AM |
| 0 | What are you struggling with the most ?All kinds of issues all kinds still fucking these bitches | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Emotional attachmentSniff Coke | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How to understand women's attraction?If warrior type build muscle if Hunter type get fucking lean. Me Hunter @13% bf These 13% are like b tits for women | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet many women to cold approach?Mall bookshop drugstore i do 90% of approaches there 5% fashion shops 3% skreets and 2% other | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:23 AM |
| 0 | People who are really good at first dates, what advice do you have?Do more dates | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | women keeps taking advantage of meTherapy professional. Enough war money or broke ass loser that will decide your fate and place in the world. All the best | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Women who flirt Non verbally but refuses to meet one on one, and neither want anything from you.Thats human nature bimbo not everyone can be a player | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Women who flirt Non verbally but refuses to meet one on one, and neither want anything from you.As a highly attracrive man unfortunately I do the same it’s light validation without getting serious your advances are serious man these girls dont want that go elsewhere | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Which option should I chose to get maximum results with girls1 | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually liked to be approached?Depends on the situation plus the attraction gap can’t be too wide else is considered an insult (he thinks hes in my league) or if other way round you have a hard time giving enough security to avoid self defence mechanism. It’s a long road for you buddy you have tons of aa and this post helps noone but me flexxing a bit thx for the forum and all the best | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How to call out girls that are being cold for no reason?Best is to just leave but it depends on your mindset. Experiment what feels best for you do what makes you happy an example would be „you prob are on your period“ | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face?It’s not about her (anymore) bc it’s done. Do what feels best for you if it’s writing/explaining/ordering whatever do it | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 06:47 AM |
| 2 | What’s the Point of Success If You’re Afraid of Women?A bit disapointed thought this is about binding issues im struggling for years (curse of success) but no is a low level beginner aa topic…well written though about the ego crushing girl mirror… | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Successful womanizer for years, now in healthy relationshipCoolidge… | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of the Alpha MaleWhat alpha is to men is total different ballgame than to women at least in attraction game on young women loudest most energetic man wins, quiet man comes 2nd… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop focusing on "my type" and just date other women who are attractive but I'm not super enthusiastic about?If you want more out of life you need to work for it decide for yourself if its worth the hustle if You dont know how should I | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Have You Had a Great Coach or Bootcamp Experience?Someone you can mirror yourself in bc as beginner you first need to copy then from there develop own way it’s about that | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Have You Had a Great Coach or Bootcamp Experience?Yes I had several over the years accelerated the progress but it’s worth nothing telling you as you need to find a coach that suits you | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | I don't fear rejection at all, I fear scaring womenGet more savage man learned to agressively penetrate girls life with ruthless intrusion it makes them wet and me happy but you need the right mindset for that or you will be labled as harrasing creep is a way only kings can walk took me years with tons of approaches to rewire and alter my brain back to stoneage | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe?Don’t do it bc it’s your regular Café go into others to see if hot barrista there where you believe showing interest tons more comfortable | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Sex energy is earned through confrontation with chaos. You cannot fake itInteresting angle. Lots of invest for a bit of chaos though (mma) maybe same effect to take a 2day tate camp to get knocked out by an mma fighter in a ring without helmet then you can chill with chaos bonus. Basically is a circumvention for cold approach if you do that you need none you differentiate yourself from the bums and showclerks though the bum has chaos fueled by his fucked up antisocial life and mental twists. A friend of mine stopped cold approach bc he got shot down by girl who knock… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Why does the chick keep staring after rejection?Interesting read idgaf why girl does only what i want and go with my guts mostly. She probably didnt know either why so how should you. annoying bitch | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouGoing for/forcing iois doesnt work well the quality ones happen when youre not aware/dont care | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching male as a 28f?If the „right guy“ is chad in demand odds are not very high | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What is your game centered on?Getting better in game is my only fuel women are a (pleasent) byproduct | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?What a sociopathic mess | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Letting regret guide my approachesInner game problem a weird hack just don’t give a fuck | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 0 | 4 Reasons Approaching Women In Real Life is 10x Better Than Dating AppsThat and tons more | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 12:41 AM |
| 0 | From getting good at game to “settling down”Game 4 year ltr game riding the wave | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 05:38 AM |
| 1 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseThats no example of doing everything right | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/24 02:27 AM |
| 0 | I think I'm going too farThere is no morale in dating | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 12:22 AM |
| -1 | Approaching for 3 sets of 30You don’t go direct in a bar buddy | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Give me your bestWhy not ask women how to flirt as women? Give me your best answer! | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm needy because I only got one success from cold approachWas in the same position just keep grinding and improve your neediness will not show every time just do enough action to get over the line abundance man is so worth to stay in the trenches | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I still approach when I'm not in a physically ideal state?Approach other girls first to get positive feedback before burning that special girl | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you demonstrate value?Getting lean | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Im not charismatic at allHad gf from Siberia for 4 years so all I can say is russian women are different…they expect man a bit brutish and raw like typical Russian man is that’s what they are attracted to in general. You seem to be too nice for that so change place or game | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 04:42 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the way I’m dealing with my fear of approaching?Depends how developed your self reflection is ie spotting mistakes combined with the will to do better. Too many unfortunately don’t have that they eventually give up bc approaching alone isn’t the solution | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Getting Coaching90% is action at the beginning to identifying and weeding out your inner soft issues. If your goal is to find ltr just turn stones you’ll get there. If you want to sort it out fully to get command over your dating life this process takes years with eventual help from a therapist to clear childhood trauma | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Display Interest or Not I’m So ConfusedChinese don’t kiss early it’s a different culture inform yourself | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How can I break my fear of cold approach?Nah your fear is not talking to much but girls could crush your self image that your are towns hottest guy. Bc of that image your subconscious transform this fear into something that won’t crush that image…see what you wanna do every man wants and if all it wouldn’t be special. It’s just extremely hard to desensitize by overriding that fear. Drills do you nothing as a beginner their good when you’re more advanced to get into flow what you need is to just throw yourself before hot women and tell … | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Handling The Psychology of RejectionDon’t care what she does only what you do ie are you happy with timing balls and delivery don’t let you put down by are bitch if you made mistake analyse suffer and try to make better next time | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | When to make that first move during a hookup?Now first make her comfortable then dgaf | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?I don’t fucking care and do what’s most comfortable for me = gym malls and shops where I’m king | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking ContradictionKeep going baller | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for direct approach?Words or buzz j zu m in her es you Vibe tonality appearance is sexual and 90% of success words are congruent to your style and personality and bang…if you feel comfortable with direct verbals do it else not me not so start more indirect | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Which do ya’ll prefer, cold approach or social circle?Both. I have 1 romantic circle lead running for state boost and do cold for quick hookups for sexual vibe so nice synergy. It makes it easier to escalate fast cold and to play the long game on circle bc circle is like corresponding chess sloooowwww | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?Not just to get nrs. but to get better game that’s why if you have sufficient self reflection (what most don’t have unfortunately) sarging is valid bc you better your game…no spam approach | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Yes bc you can’t show balls online but on approach you are don cojone | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?This million dollar question is long answered: It depends on your style of game. You only say what’s best for your game so insert „men“ with „I“ in your text for better readability. It’s basically a well written game journal not more. Just for my credential I haven’t approached hundreds of women. I’m not only haven’t approached several women but thousands of them thousands. So the answer is what is your best way to convey intent early on. For a beginner it’s direct bc he can’t convey intent nonv… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to female attention.Something’s not right here either troll or sick narcissistic fuck…me blessed with top shelf looks I’m slightly annoyed going out with these tons of iois. Yes here and there vn from top women but most are from -3 -4 i call it the trail…DONT LOOK AT ME is what I’m thinking it feels like a slight insult who do you think you are! That’s how women think you baffoon. Another tip. It sounds manic so crash imminent | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Suggest me ways to get back into game since 1.5years ,I left it.You said you have time all day so he’s correct | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Suggest me ways to get back into game since 1.5years ,I left it.Don’t know india only how to rizz girls in the west | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:53 PM |
| -1 | How do I approach and start a conversation with this woman I see in everytime in officeYou don’t approach and speak bc you have no game and rizz concentrate on your work When you have eye contact again smile you paychopath if she smiles back nod and go in else none of your fucking business | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:41 PM |
| 0 | How do I approach and start a conversation with this woman I see in everytime in officeAlso head is in danger can be tough getting closure when you see her every day what a sad desperate prospect… | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Why do i pull only fat girls?„Most men find most women attractive“ fucking hell where am I living. Sad is it might be true | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:21 PM |
| -3 | I like this girl on Instagramquick story. Met dat girl in the club vibed well flirt touch just had work next day so took nr. telephone nr. my man. Spare texting she very on. Saw her insta tons of followers I beat them all why bc I approached in 3d | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned?Can you explore why why 30+ are the good women who don’t friendzone. My xp is quite the opposite bc they tend to have more troubles in their life compared to a 20 year old that can’t even see straight so please enlighten me brother | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned?You can’t have it all accept. If you want friend go safe route if you want to explore romantic go for it and dgaf if girl is burnt | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Follow up on undelivered message?wdyc broke nigga if ping good else dgaf | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Able to get attention but problem with showing sufficient interestOh man again others trying to bruteforce their game on you it will never stop…stay on your lane lazy ass else the solution is simple..invest more to fuck better and more frequently I try to improve my game all the time all the fucking time and also work fulltime. That means less dates man just less dates I reject 2/3 of ongirls to find enough room to improve my game. Doing day/nightgame only though were you can (pre)screen girls tons better so that may not be a viable option for you…if so accept… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Using alcohol to start cold approachingYou have a great trait: ego 0 that’s very attractive to women | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:11 AM |
| -1 | Using alcohol to start cold approachingYou arrogant fuck typical jew | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himIm 9 and Asperger that’s why here. Mostly initial attraction poof like balloon bc of incongruency of looks and persona. Learned game so women stick now but that led to next problem. Want to be alone to have full control sometimes mate can come but afraid to fall in love with woman bc i might lose defense to keep her out so I reject most women bc it can get serious. That’s why still here even with stellar game i don’t get laid more than the average dude. Still happy what god gave me average looki… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 03:42 AM |
| 8 | Literal me walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards meDo less coke | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | THIS GIRLThe background intel saved you don’t approach her and move on. Explanation: you don’t want ltr she does | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you really enjoy flirting or am I the only one who doesn't?Where corny pua. Not herr | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I think this boy is cute but I have no experience whatsoever with boys help how do I approach himAlmost no woman can pull that off if not drunk or extremely extroverted | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 09:31 AM |
| 2 | I think this boy is cute but I have no experience whatsoever with boys help how do I approach himAs a man i would just approach to stop the mindfuck but the other way round…you need at least some springboard. For example last week a girl I had brief to no contact with approached me and asked why I gave her a bad look didn’t have her on my radar at all. We got talking and it got a bit romantic. So open him with something situational like this might work indirect with a slight indicator of personal interest | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 03:21 AM |
| 3 | How to get really good with women?Mordern game is 95% practice 5% theory. So go out there bud | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching ever out of bounds?That’s some weird stuff wtf man bf and customer approaches „good opportunities“ how about hitting on colleagues you work with on a daily basis if there’s some hot one in there or hit on your friends gf when he’s not there if she’s hot ain’t that also a good opportunity in your context… | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Has finding approachable sets become the hardest part of night game?Good venue(s) is key indeed your report sounds like a lack of location scouting that you proceed. Random. Can you explain more of the nightgame situation in NYC I’m in Central Europe and the problem your telling doesn’t exist here but oc I pick my spots carefully and not the expensive max 20 for entry. The gender ratio is almost never in your favor but that doesn’t matter much as you always need to try to be ahead of the competition | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 03:04 AM |
| 11 | Where should you not approach girls?how to not get laid | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 10:52 PM |
| 0 | 20M, have everything to get laid but am scaredGetting laid once/ have casual sex is the easiest part esp your age for this the comments here are sufficient. But if you want a quality ltr with a quality girl emphasis on quality ltr meaning you are getting more value out of than to put into you have a ton of work to do that will take years bc your inner game is fucked up. You don’t need to rush it bc you need to fully reflect yourself and develop the right solutions. What you can do approach a ton of girls and I mean literally a ton and go fr… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 04:39 AM |
| -2 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.You have rope to spare? | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.The antiflirt. The world doesn’t run on your terms | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do.Indeed main that’s what makes a man to figure out the magic all for himself against all obstacles the soy army and feminazis throw at him | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Direct approach: “can I sit down here?”First talk for a minute standing that increases the odds massively | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Keep trying when the girl is playing hard to getL rizz next time more action in club less insta | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it alright if I just approach this girl I know and confess honestly?You need to burn girls to get better start with her you learn by taking action and find your way there is no general right or wrong just lack of xp | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:29 AM |
| 0 | RSD outdated nowadays?Not if you want to learn spam approach and creep out girl it’s the gold standart for that | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you usually do when she stops textingTexting is lose lose in person is win win | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:44 PM |
| -5 | Why women are obsessed with powerYou don’t need to understand women it’s more than enough knowing the probabilities how she will react that’s enough game. I don’t care much what’s in that bitch mind all I want to see is good response and compliance to the baller. With good looksmaxx healthy testo a bit of primal behaviour and vibing is all good no need to overcomplicate things you concentrate on yourself how you operate in this gynocentric world of soy and cuck | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 01:37 AM |
| 8 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.Well yesterday I had 2 american women in the train behind me chatting I’m located in central europe. That bratty entitled nasal sound both giving was stunning that is a kind of sound i never heard of non-anglospherian women. Now I understand redpill and mgtow were created in the US. Could be that they are from one of the coasts and in Texas for example it’s different but boy that was a shocker and I am very happy not having to deal with these women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 06:19 AM |
| 11 | How it feels to not get married and live a single life?Im past 30 and having the time of my life being the most attractive I’ve ever been. Did take self development for a few years but also that journey was fun. Single by the way and very happy about my freedom | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsExactly German girls don’t do that never happened to me. Not angels though rejections can likely be very rude and insulting. | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:27 AM |
| -9 | Grocery store pickup attemptDon’t rely on gimmicks and gadgets spot smthg on the girl to comment on. Your opener comes accross as too tryhard as if yourself are not enough that’s prob why you immediately got shot down. Normally if you open and continue strong girls comply to a convo bc they find you socially interesting and only on the close when you press them confess bf | /r/seduction | 27/06/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR 3] First time cold approaching at a downtown college town while running night game. Things almost got violent. Analysis at the endHb 6.5 wtf haven’t heard that for years. Seems like you mixing daygame metrics in. I only do daygame but when sometimes I do nightgame I ball totally differently. I open girls until I get a clear ioi. Then I stick with her all night only her at first with her friends often the target then iods me in front of her friends but but I left my ego at the wardrobe so I just keep plowing eventually that leads to isolation here and there and that got me results | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/23 08:20 AM |
| 3 | How To Be A Good Clown (Roosh repost)„Talk to women you flirt with like any other dude“ that’s basic advice for being authentic. I never talk to girls I flirt with like with a dude bc I don’t tease and challenge a man bc I’m not a weird sociopath | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”That nails it best weak/unattractive men are the creeps bc this label is a shaming tool to prevent them from approaching bc their genes are not wanted in life | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Bc in rl you approach pretty girls not that internet garbage. It’s nothing hooking up with -2 - 3 internet girls. That’s why I don’t do online bc rl the quality is much better. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Uncertainty + Fear Of Rejection + Neediness = Creepy To WomenThe „show results“ argument isn’t valid until it comes to practical advise. His content was mostly inner game and is right. It doesn’t matter if infield he struggles with an inner game problem he gives solution here bc on his sofa he knows all the answers and can give solid advice regardless if infield in front of girls he can’t break ingrained patterns trauma or whatever. The only practical advise he gave here is start direct and it’s the correct tip for beginners to start getting their d out. … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Cold aproacing, lack of confidence. Beta vent postThought rp were looks don’t matter…good comment. What I realised after a few k sets key to (my) success are determination to fuck that girl and good positive state. Any else is the decision of the girl if I’m her type physically (looksmaxx helps a lot) and match her personality you can’t influence that. Yes with spot on game you might lay a maybe here and there but imo it’s not worth the hustle. If you maximise your approach by being in congruent king state all the time ie being the opposite of … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?It’s mostly a sign of insecurity she wants to show (male) protection against the pool of male hyenas. Plus she wants to signal she’s not „really“ in need of a man bc she is a neurotic bitch | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?And don’t do online | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?Lashing out on dudes who did nothing to you…if you are really in the game you get so much sh*t from woman that you don’t spit down on men else you are a sick neurotic fuck | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Tom Torero Deleted YouTube & WebsiteKrauser quit game (as well)... | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | 13 secs of street compatible preapproach pimp swagger walkscare yes but not off fear = attraction | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | 13 secs of street compatible preapproach pimp swagger walksee my success on that video | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 08:12 AM |
| 6 | "Tinder Experiments II: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder — a quantitative socio-economic study"Me not because never used tinder. Only daygame (10 sets today) so good to see there is reason I (above average but clearly not top looking) do that instead of swiping right while having a shit. Btw the qulaity of these 1/115 tinder girls probably is min -2 points your value. on daygame you can aim sucessfully for girls +2 your calue with tight game (which I dont have yet but I´ll get there). | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Feels like a shit test that I get constantly. What am I supposed to say to this?Ok you make it hard for me but here is analysis: 12 though illegal age is a sexual age. So she knows you have sexual intent which is good you not the nice chump. Furthermore you built some attraction becasue otherwise she would talk that way. So first conclusion is this is a shit test. Now to qualify that shit test. You got this test because you showed incongruency talking innocent childish stuff. So it is a player shit test to test your manhood. She instead could say "Grow up!" So the best answ… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Feels like a shit test that I get constantly. What am I supposed to say to this?This i very intersting never heard that before. Why are they saying this to you you believe? | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | where's all the suave pua's go??Maybe even worse. With that much content out there you can read all day forgetting to sarge. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:11 PM |
| 4 | where's all the suave pua's go??No. Just the hype is over. My first attempt to game was 2010 when the scene was very small and pickup advise not very developed. Unfortunately just after a few daygame sets I fell into a ltr with one of them stopping game completely. But over the years (in that ltr) I wondered so many dudes went crazy with game also because my gf was telling me getting approached several times a month in street (with horrible game). My 2nd and actual attempt to (day)game started tis March. I enjoy how the game e… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What are some past beliefs that changed after you gained experience with women? What are some new views you learned?The worst that can happen is you not approaching girl you find attractive. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Feels like a shit test that I get constantly. What am I supposed to say to this?Need more info to help. At what stage of interaction you get that statement? | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 04:32 PM |
| 4 | nightgames, direct, indirect and how to start conversation?Direct in nightgame is too strong open indirect with fast escalation. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Reading rejectionCongrats that you know where you are now so you can concentrate on other girls. It is no "good" rejection when she says no because on and off, not solid LTR but on and off. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on giving a girl your number vs. asking for her number?Upvoted but call? Call?? Where you living? She at best, at best (!) will text. PUA Brandon Smith only gives number. He says no investment in flake leads, those who contact (on average 2/100 he says) he has easy lay and is boss. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:26 AM |
| 1 | My journey to becoming a man ho (sort of).Nah he believes he is a manwhore because that girl said that. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:20 AM |
| -1 | My journey to becoming a man ho (sort of).Downvoted because you are not a manwhore because a woman (!) said that to you. A manwhore in game is someone who sleeps also with women he does not find (much) attractive. I dont read that in your post just showing of your harem. Get lost. Justin Wayne : "I still dont mind being a dirty manwhore". He a player you "just" have women. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls that have boyfriends but show IOIs and let you physically escalate on them.lol | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out once you already have feelingsI know that it is horrible with too much emtions to proceed until close. Solution: Abundance. Open more girls more gire girls. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why NOT escalating means taking the risk!Thx Geronimo. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How were your first approaches?2010 got my 4 year LTR from indirect sitational opener at the train station so nothing wrong with that. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How were your first approaches?The apocalypse opener is interesting. Have not tried. You are right I and almost anyone continues indirect. Badboy the godfather of direct game though detests that he keeps hitting until the close. Look up daygame sets from him on YouTube they are radically direct very impressive and good blueprints. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How were your first approaches?Well you decide for you. For sure is the majority of sets worldwide is opened not direct. I love direct either you get blown out very quickly or girl acts most feminine as she can immediatley. But I must admit what I love even more is when I had to open indirect then after few minutes conversation escalation bomb explodes out of the blue turning set sexual and surreal. Still 95% of sets I open direct. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why NOT escalating means taking the risk!nah worse than that the gay friend laughs with girl more and talks more girls topics. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How were your first approaches?No one can seriously say what is better in general. Justin Wayne (king of daygame) opens with feeler to decide if to continue direct or indirect. That is elite game. I almost always open direct, indirect only when there is too much social pressure. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How were your first approaches?First ones were horrible AA with hours of weaseling but when finally approaching (direct) confident but mostly with brain freeze after opener. After 20 sets things started to flow. Go direct to train the hard opening (Roosh says opening direct is socially the hardest thing a man can do). But WTF you were cute? That is incongruent and beta almost creepy (hate that word but it fits here). She is cute thats why you talking. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Why NOT escalating means taking the risk!My model: 1st venue bright, sit opposite build comfort. Then after 20 minutes (one drink) venue change dark with couches (cocktail bar). Escalate verbally and check for rings and necklaces with touching then touch occasionaly then go for kiss close at leat two times and if they fail be nonractive keep touching and kiss close at the end. Then follow-up date few days later to get laid. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 2 | She called back,what next?Stop this oneitis nothing new happened since last post only one day more nothing happend you got various tips there imply them or get lost. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 06:11 AM |
| 10 | Girls that have boyfriends but show IOIs and let you physically escalate on them.You can very well flirt with girls at work if you know the rules. One rule is: She has to be single. But I agree there is a risk flirting at work | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I get game to talk to women ?study 20 % practise 80 % | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsNo. She gave line by saying talk again. Just dont overinvest by calling next time. Send text next week "lets meet...pm at...:)" | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Advice on scoring a 2nd dateDo first and 2nd date together ie venue change then kiss close. Then meet 2nd time for third date for the lay. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!open close. Btw most guys doing day approaches doing it because learning game is hard and honestly you also seem not to live up to the challenge. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety, a weird situation.If you want to game dont do it high. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?Well first of all good looking guys are 9´s and 10´s, I am above average looking though on the higher end. Secondly I think I am an 8 not only because of genetics but also because I stopped drinking alcohol 6 years ago, dont take drugs, see that I get good sleep everyday, eat quite healthy, hit gym regulary and spend over 150 bucks per month for grooming and styling. Because of that I pimped my looks 1 point up. Everyone can do that it just takes effort. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?That may be I dont know. I am not a good looking guy (consider myself an 8 6´1). I occasionally get IOI´s, sometimes girls say hello or hi to me on the street but I rarely care because they mostly are subpar on what I approach cold. I´m full into daygame man churning about 10 sets a week cold and I love it. See it that way. Having the motivation to learn game and do it is priceless because you will benefit for the rest of your life while looks can fade though mens slower than womens. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!Dont do that it is called spam approaching and it will kill your vibe and game. Just do the drill. When you desensitized go full set. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is easy letting a girl know i am interested and flirting is hardWhatever get in contact with many girls and you occasionaly you get laid without game. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?I talked about approaching cold. Of course it is easier to get laid after IOI but that is for everybody not only good looking guys and not only good looking guys get IOIs. Only valid point you made is that good looking guys get more IOIs. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is easy letting a girl know i am interested and flirting is hardLike I said man you cant. If you did not game before dont start with text is just bad. Game on date then. Ask to go for a walk and then game on. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Am I just stupid and naive here? Tinder match is a cam girl. Wants to cam before we hookup.Try out and see what happens for 2 bucks. 96 % chance is a scam. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:47 PM |
| 4 | How much do looks matter?Your game needs to be calibrated with your looks. A good looking guy needs to game differently (not less!) than an average looking guy. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How much do looks matter?go to gym stop drinking and drugs have good sleep go to hairstylist once a week | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!You are on the right path. You need a drill to learn to show balls. You will aprroach random girls on the street and say : "I find you very attractive!" then eject. That will help. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?It depends, it just depends. For initial IOI look, clothing and vibe is everything if you are alone on street. The more face time you have with girl the less important look gets. Do everything possible to improve your looks it betters your vibe. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Approaching is easy letting a girl know i am interested and flirting is hardIt is bad to escalate first on text you often get bad reactions that are not good for your game. So escalate on date or before. If you want to play the long k game you dont need to escalate before as long you are not friendzoning. If it is too hard to start indirect and then state intent do direct approach. it is easier because you clearly set man to woman interaction in the beginning. That is how I started and still open most sets. However now I´m also be able to go indirect if required and the… | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, but girls get all weird and awkward when I try to talk to them?Damn wtf. It is a very odd thing in the UK ot get approached in a nightclub?!?! Wtf? I do only daygame in Germany almost noone does (about 20% of men approach at night) and I have weirded out reactions about 10%. Must be hell in the UK, now I understand why most PUA´s do Eurojaunts (only) like Krauser and Torero. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Whats a good preselection dhv story/routine?smth you experienced, written down and tuned up a bit. Dont ever take someone elses Story/routine it makes your frame incongruent. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 09:41 PM |
| -11 | What It's Like To Attend A 'Pick Up Artist' Class Run By A Woman95 % in this sub are social fucktards. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What It's Like To Attend A 'Pick Up Artist' Class Run By A Womanthx! | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 09:19 PM |
| -8 | Whats your best texting hail mary?Double texting would be asking again if she has time or reminder. That not you are right. But pinging after a while saves a good percentage of leads, no need to blow them. Moving on to other girls is solid advice. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 08:57 PM |
| -7 | Whats your best texting hail mary?you advising blowing a lead...where is your ping advice? Salute to the wankers upvoting you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 08:30 PM |
| -7 | Whats your best texting hail mary?HAhahaHHAAA you can wait til you die. Salute to the wankers upvoting you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The best response to "I thought you were gay?"Good one. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Three quick questions1) Headphones mean nothing. Instadated a girl with headphones on last weekend. You just talk to her. When she takes the headphones off asking "What?" you repeat. 2) The café game is expert game I dont touch. I do street, supermarket and shop game but café game is too hard for me. One factor indeed is you never know if she waits for or is with someone in the café. 3) You dont need to do café game if it is too hard for you. You need to do more sets more sets more sets. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it a common shit test for girls to say your anxious during an approach?Is it a common shit test for girls to say your anxious during an approach? No, no woman you hit on will say that to you if she is attracted to you, with no woman I mean sane woman. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it a common shit test for girls to say your anxious during an approach?Nobody cares what your friend is saying that is not game! That is why most of the comments misunderstood your post. Talk it out with your friend if you have problem with that oh my god friends are there to talk things out. It is hilarious to discuss that here. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain interest over long distance?Good advice with the pinging. But I have to edit you can not only not build comfort via text you cant build nothing via text, the only purpose of text is to not lose attraction and that is hard enough. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do we really want the game?Nah alphas hang around with guys alot. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 08:54 PM |
| -5 | My guy friend told me that the girls in our friend circle say I am too touchy and creeping them out. Help?!Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 08:11 PM |
| 5 | How to notice if someone is hitting on you?Oh no the IOI question...If you are attractive as you say (looks are 15 % of that) you pick and dont wait for IOI´s. I was like you in my teens gotten layed multiple times with high quality girls with no game but when I look back now I see I could have fucked many girls more with game (no regret). Ok I tell you the IOI´s I watch for. Girl not standing up and leave when I escalate hard. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain interest over long distance?Well...the long game. This is pro-level. It is hard even after you layed them and you did not do that. Remember you lose a lot of value if you travel to them and meeting has to be the goal unless you want to stay text buddy. Best way is to have a purpose to stay in a city in her state and let her come. Take the numbers to train text game (the long game!) and dont expect too much. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Yes field test that opinion-opener. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Nice!!!! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Thx bro. Cant tell I have reputation to lose. Try what suits you best, direct, indirect or opinion opener though opinion opener is not modern game. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Player-haters downvoting quality. 2PAC rapped a lot about them. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Alert!!!! GAMMAS HERE! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?No...the key is to be non-reactive. Just walk off. That is true game. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:35 PM |
| -6 | Question about "hen pecking"Then vote him up for his good advice to stop being a beta or even worse gamma chump!!! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?YOU REPORT HERE OF TOMORROWS SARGE!!!! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Most Girls bro, most of them. Yesterday in Hamburg I opened "You look very nice!" That horrible cunt answerd "You not!" Rare exception but these bitches are in the mix. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?DEEZ FUCKING GAMMA WANKERS HERE I HATE THEM (not you)!!! Ich approach german girls in Germany almost every day and direct (in German). Today for example I opened "You look very nice so I have to talk to you. With your red hair you look like a parrot" She answered "Thank You! Thank You!" You see? No peeper spray in the eyes. 90 % delivery 10 % words. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | This sub Reddit had changed my mentality a lotI hate this sub more and more. So many gamma wankers downvoting quality (hopefully not you). | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...fuck that yeah hit on girls on street you can text afterwards. Only advantage of tinder is you can hit on them on the toilet. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...hhahha the abstinence approach. fuck tinder | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...Nah he realised is hard test from her so smart he asked for advice. No need to waste leads. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...not short enough that bitch texted shorter so wrong. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...Is a shit test i.e you built some attraction congrats but dont fuck up now is stronger lead or lead flushed down the toilet. Pass the test by answering “No you’re not.” That pure gold from me cant believe Im giving this freely but I see my young dumb self in you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...you wanker | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Words vs handshake vs hugExactly! handshake is 1 %, hug is 3 % of the physical escalation | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:10 PM |
| -1 | Whats App Status update trap (shit-test)and btw thats not not what your lousy 7´s do thats what hot chicks do | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 09:53 PM |
| -1 | Whats App Status update trap (shit-test)Keep downvoting this gold wankers | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I just want to say thank you to all of you. I made it."100 Approaches should get you laid once" Nah the 1st hundred it depends what quality you open. If nothing above 7 I agree you should get laid. But I only go for hotter tighter younger ie 8´s above every set and my results on first 100 were a few leads and two dates without lay and I was happy because I made many mistakes and learned a lot. Btw congrats bro for stepping through beginners hell. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Where to go after first hangout?Oh boy the "creep" word. "Creep" is something bitches invented so you sound like a bitch. You are "creep" if you hide your intentions and are not straight forward. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone try the method in Day Bang by Roosh? Is it good?Mhh...thx for interesting quote. I think there is nothing wrong with a genuine smile and it was never a problem for me. I think Roosh meant don´t fake a smile. If you dont feel to smile dont do it. Maybe also has to do with the indirect Approach Roosh recommends. I open almost always direct so after opening I say something kind of funny like: "Hi, you look very nice. With your long necks you look like a flamingo." So bro. If you believe in the no smile go field test it and report here. | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Full live, unedited, uncut infield audio of my night out last night [timestamps in comments]thx I only do daygame so good insight | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone try the method in Day Bang by Roosh? Is it good?I respect Roosh but havent read day bang. I believe you got the point with the smile wrong. From my infield experience you can get away with the no smile on the opener with dominant frame because you appear more dominant when you do not smile. But after the opener you fucking have to smile/smirk otherwise you scare the girl away. Remeber girl needs to check three boxes in the beginning: No creep, no pervert, no criminal. For that you need the smile. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How to unleash the "bad boy" and find your true self?get abundance | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | She got your textWell I upvoted because of your good intent to save karma. But wtf are you talking about? The feeler text after number close? The ping text after the feeler? The 2nd ping? A text after she texted back to a previous text? Your post is not deep enough because there are different solutions for each variant. Textgame is a science. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The three fatigues that are ruining your gameWtf fatigue? It is called AA. Calling it fatigue is fatigue. I respect Tyler but if he really is calling it fatigue I tend more to Krauser who stated that Tyler is too freaked out to pull abobe HB8. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:56 PM |
| 2 | I honestly feel like I don't need this sub anymore. I think meditationCongrats for making out without game. Btw if you could only get layed with game we would not exist. I love game. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Sexually frustratedhttps://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ a world for you to explore | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Need advice: failed number close, but she's still interestedOh man it hurts. First you completely missed "What are you doing tonight?" Second ask for date first before you ask for number. So feel lucky you fucked up the number close with your chodish indirect ask. But you are not not a (complete) chode because you accomplished the hookpoint. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you consider picking up women your hobby?It is not only my hobby I would love to do it fulltime but I can not give up my job. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | My first number attemptAt least she told you her name see that as success. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Sexually frustratedyou seem to fap regularly (on porn). Stop it and you will have it easier with girls. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why I don't ask for phone numbers from a woman?YOU MADE THAT UP IN YOUR MIND!!!! YOU ARE MINDWANKING KID!!! I´m a daygamer so I witnessed when you say something like "I would love to explore you in every possible way, you and me should see each other again" 95 % of the time she will respond "OK give me your number" if you built some attraction. Because I´m not reading that in your post it is not legit. | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | oneitis with a cock-tease (the modern witch)Thx for your comments. | /r/seduction | 26/05/17 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I need help (boys & girls help me£you dont "need" to talk to her the next opportunity because there will be lots more. So talk to other girls first to learn and improve your odds from 95 % fucking it up downwards. You dont need game at 16 but a bit of confidence to not fuck it up. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I cant push myself to overcome fear i need lots of helpHAHA it´s magic | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What's the single best piece of advice someone gave you to improve your game?you nothing I man | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Is it really worth it?if you want sex from nightgame you have to go SDL (same day lay) everytime because you almost always get flake numbers ie no number, because nightclub and bar is a fantasy world that is gone the next day. If you want to get solid numbers do daygame or ecosystem game. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Game works, regardless of age, anywhereno game does not work anywhere. Yesterday at the traffic lights I opened a daygame set with an 8 from Copenhagen/Denmark. It was the most horrible cunt I ever done game with, I was shocked and not used to how frustrating the set was. Only afterwards I read "Don´t bang Denmark" from Roosh V and understood, thx Roosh. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 11:57 AM |
| 10 | Why is it that only beautiful women know how to flirt? I never approach anything less than a 9 because I get more cold shoulders from anything below that.because 7s and 8s get way more hit on than 9´s and 10´s, they have much more level of choice so they have to reject more often and (too) early, that´s why they naturally develop that coldness in rejection. That does not mean it is easier to get laid with a 9 or 10 but you get rejected warmer. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 11:44 AM |
| 4 | When girls ignore their crush, what are some signs that you can look for that generally tell she is attracted to you?Yes, to state your intent it has to be enough that she does not go away or is easily distracted when you talk to her. This mindset prevents unhealthy mindfuck. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Why Not Having Sexual Energy is Devastating To Attracting GirlsNo PMO helps so much with generating that sexual spark in your eyes women can leech from. I see this guy isn´t even near a 9-0 run like I am right now (longest run since I was 12 years old it`s painful) because after day 5 good vibe and no PMO is a deadly combo you dont even need to smile just walk and look at them and some smile some say hello (first) and some look at you for half a second then back to their phone and subconsciously drift into you (they want smell) so you need to make way not t… | /r/seduction | 06/05/17 10:30 AM |
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