I want to share my story to give an example of the standard variation of the attention-whore that is dangerous and not easy to spot.

She is an 18 year-old 10 who started working at my place 9 month ago (I´m 34). I´m not her supervisor but she has to do what I tell her. She is very friendly and kind to everyone and after about one month she started to give me occasional IOIs with "accidental" touching here and then. I noticed but did not care until we celebrated the birthday of the boss two weeks ago where we sit opposite to each other. I ignored her instinctively but she tried to get my attention all the time. So ten minutes before the end I decided not to be an asshole and bantered with her. She was very receptive, giggled and laughed. The next day her IOIs took a new level so I complimented her clothing what she took very well exposing her neck to me. I called the shot the next day. I told her that because I find her likeable we meet sunday 2pm to go for a coffee.

She said she does not know if she has time then. I said OK we fix the date and if she has to cancel it no problem. She agreed. After the lunch break she stormed into my room with a sad face telling me she had called her boyfriend and he told her she cant go out she has to spend the whole weekend with him. I said OK.

I decided to next her and went into the weekend. But Í was hooked because of my invest so sunday evening I decided to approach again because I thought her boyfriend was to blame. On monday I told her that it cant be that we cant meet because she did not have time sunday 2 pm so we find a date where we both have time. She said that her boyfriend told her it is not good that she meets other men, this has been a problem in the past. I asked if it was a problem because he knew or because it happened. She thought for a second and said because it happened. I said OK and told her that we have no problem because of that because I dont know if her actions last week were real or if she was just teasing me. I told her that if she was just teasing me she is dumb, I dont want give any advice but if she did that because of that she is dumb because we have to work together.

The next days she was restrained so that our work relationship normalised and I liked that. But on thursday (three days later) out of the blue she launched a massive IOI attack on me so that I had to take another shot. I did a little physical escalation game with her (hand comparison) what she took very well. After that she said goodbye to me with a very sexual submissive voice. So I had a hard decision to make for which I took three days because you cant be too cautious at work.

I called her out monday morning telling her that we have to get out of work so that after work we drive to the cliffs I know a good spot there. She said she does not have time today she has sports. I asked if she has time tomorrow. She said no she is very happy with her boyfriend and does not want to meet other men right now. I grumbled and left. Now she showed clearly her cock-teasing nature and that saved me from the emotional quicksand I found myself in the days before. I´m very happy I called her down not breaking my frame.

Breaking the frame is the endgoal of the cock-tease leaving the man crippled. This moment gets her high like a crackshot. You see here, she wanted to stop the IOI´s because she knew it is dangerous to tease me because of work. But like most addicts she cant stop it, after a few days too many cravings, I`m a rich target because of strong frame, she wants to hear it crackle like a crackrock.

I know she has many young chodes in their twenties that are trapped emotionally with her and cant find out because they dont have the experience I have. Many victims she has that broke their frame for her.

So my advice to you is you have to call these bitches down quickly and decisive no matter what otherwise you cant get out of the emotional quicksand because these pro IOIs are smashing your hindbrain hard until you reveal the cock-tease.