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kalolilo/r/seduction14/12/16 11:09 PM
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kalolilo/r/seduction08/06/17 12:53 PM
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kalolilo/r/seduction12/12/16 06:51 PM
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If braces make you stop your pickup journey, you haven't learned much. Doing pickup with braces is the chance for you to develop an aura that attracts women despire your looks not being perfect. This way, you will actually be able to focus not on your looks, but on your game.
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:45 PM
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Can I ask why you're together with him? He sounds passionless and rather boring. Is it maybe a case of having anyone to be with is better than being single?
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:42 PM
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You don't actually need to be that different. But you need to walk up to her and be able to hold a conversation and spike her emotions. And you need to escalate swiftly. This sets you apart from the other guys who are too timid to get a rejection. She might test you hard and you need to pass the tests.
/r/seduction11/07/17 07:46 PM
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Pretty easy Sit next to her Touch her from the beginning Build rapport Make her laugh Tease her a bit At some point say "Haha you're cute" Hug her Touch her more Tell her "I like you " and pull away again Kiss her
/r/seduction11/07/17 07:44 PM
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This is correct.
/r/seduction10/07/17 11:26 AM
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I promise you, if you go day gaming 1h a day, you will get lays within 7 days. But you need to do it.
/r/seduction10/07/17 11:25 AM
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Simply meet her, but with the mindset "what's intersting about her, why should I soend my valuable time with her. I'm hope she can make me laugh, she has an intersting hobby and some ambition. " Let her impress you, don't try to impress her. But be funny, have fun at the date, be nice. :)
/r/seduction08/07/17 09:51 PM
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Bullshit. She might have been awkward, because she's awkward, or because her mom was with her, or because she just broke up with a guy, or because the last guy who approached her was an actual weirdo. Go for, that's an opportunity to learn. Always take the opportunity.
/r/seduction08/07/17 09:48 PM
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Looks like a combination of her being really shy and you not being upbeat, alpha enough for her to lose her shyness.
/r/seduction08/07/17 07:30 AM
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Your girlfriend didn't dump you becauae you cared for her. She dumped you because you became needy and stopped being manly. So, care for the woman a lot, but also be very manly, don't stop teasing her sometimes, fuck her like you don't care for her, but sctually care for her. This is the mixture that they crave.
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:26 AM
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It doesn't matter which location, any will work.
/r/seduction07/07/17 04:41 PM
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Yes like that, but don't ask her what she's doing with her life or why you should be interested in her. This is the mindset. Ask her So what's your deal, you're a student? Aha, so you look kind of a like a law student So do you only study or do you also do things for fun ;) Oh rock climbing that's cool, howd you get into that. I also climb every now and then. So are you saying you're better than me . So, as you can see you're qualifying her, if she's interesting and you make it fun, make it a ga…
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:49 PM
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For each situation, ask yourself "would this be needy" and if so, not doing it. However, value offering persistence is not needy. Have abundance, so that you don't even have time to be needy
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:02 PM
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The first two are the mindset.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:18 AM
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They are correct, but vague. Practically you need to use qualification. what is she doing with her life why would you be interested in her what makes her interesting does she study why not is she a good student does she have cool hobbies After that you need to Kino her if you can, push and pull and tease, then you can get her number.
/r/seduction07/07/17 10:12 AM
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North Korean?
/r/seduction07/07/17 10:07 AM
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Text her: Alright Brazilian 😏 If she says she cant on Sunday, set up another meet, but be more alpha about it.
/r/seduction07/07/17 09:42 AM
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You think way too much about it. Just set up the meet and done.
/r/seduction07/07/17 08:17 AM
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You're talking from scarcity mindset. Someone who has women interested in them would never fly to fucking dubai just to meet 1 girl, that doesn't even want meet him face to face, wtf. Tell her that you'll cut contact because it doesn't lead anywhere. Then she might fly to your country. That's the maximum effort you should do. Apart from that, go out and approach, meet women that live 5 minutes away from you i stead of from fucking Dubai.
/r/seduction07/07/17 08:15 AM
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Swipe through 1000 women on Tinder to get 50 matches, approach 100 women in day game to get 10 numbers. Now you have 10 women texting you and wanting to meet up.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:54 AM
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This is side bar material, outstanding content. Can we add this.
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:36 AM
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Op sure knows about that. If your game is really good, reasons are more Logistics Slight miscalibration - A bit too cocky, when you're supposed to build comfort or just a tad bit too little savage, when you're supposed to make the move
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:36 AM
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Dont straight up ask for her number. Let her work for it a bit. Show her that you can actually hold a conversation, make her laugh and then suggest to hang out some time.
/r/seduction06/07/17 06:04 PM
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Your version is way too cocky and try hard. It might be appropriate in club game and when she hasn't shown interest yet. However, this is not in a club, the girl has shown interest. The more she has shown interest, the more you should dial down the alphaness. The less she shows interest, the more you can dial up the alphaness.
/r/seduction06/07/17 06:02 PM
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What kind of author? 😁
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:57 PM
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It takes a lot longer to put theory to practice than 1 month. Once you're in 2-3 years, you're pretty good, but before that it's quite a mess often. :)
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:11 PM
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Content: Ok Writing style: Wtf
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:13 PM
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Keep escalating at work "under the hood". She already likes you a lot, now just amp up the touching while people are around but so that no one can see it. That's almost the most arousing thing for a woman. Hold hands again, grab her hips gently when no one is watching. If she likes that, feel the curvature of her butt and let go again, give her a little kiss on the hand, then on the cheek, then grab her legs gently, then more roughly. Then grab her ass hard and let go again, then grab her tits, …
/r/seduction05/07/17 07:41 AM
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If you approach 30 girls in a year, not 30 girls in a day.
/r/seduction05/07/17 07:36 AM
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What needs to be said, a woman just wanting to get fucked is the case for maybe 5-10% of women, and that is because they just got out of a relationship or had negativity happen to them. Women are not usually like that. They also want feelings.
/r/seduction04/07/17 03:05 PM
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Absolutely not. I've become interested in girls after knowing them for a few weeks, where I wasn't particularly attracted in the beginning.
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:59 PM
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You don't, you just escalate.
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:57 PM
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You can leave her around twice and get back to her again. Staying with her the whole time is definitely not good. Leaving her 5 times neither.
/r/seduction04/07/17 02:56 PM
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You did everything really well, so just go with the flow, BUT Be sure to kino escalate on the date, di carlo escalation ladder Show some interest in her, tell her she is cute Tease her a bit You want her to be into you after 30 mins-1h into the date. She might reject your advances at first, but women appreciate a man escalating a lot, so don't be ashamed of it and trya again a bit later. 👍🏻
/r/seduction04/07/17 10:23 AM
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Your edit is correct. The answer to your question is basically Push and Pull. Show some interest, withdraw interest. Be the guy that wants her a bit in the one moment and the guy that is a challenge in the next.
/r/seduction04/07/17 07:24 AM
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If the girl isn't that attracted to you, you can not flirt with her at all and be really normal to her, while still teasing her. This sometimes builds a lot of attraction for the girl because you're the only one not hitting on her. However, this technique requires wuite some practice, otherwise she will see through it quickly.
/r/seduction03/07/17 06:43 AM
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You can chuckle a little. Be amused about it.
/r/seduction02/07/17 02:05 PM
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It can happen and it correlates strongly with how good you are at sex. The better you are the less likely they lose interest. Usually, if you treat them well, they stay with you also if it's only for sex.
/r/seduction02/07/17 01:59 PM
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Normal opener Build some rapport Maybe we should hang out sometime Yes --> Get number, No --> Don't get number
/r/seduction02/07/17 10:17 AM
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You're really putting in the work. Good! Try to be a bit more funny, upbeat, cocky, but be a bit careful with the cocky. :p It is normal that you get very harsh rejection, be proud when you get one. It means younput in the work!
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:58 AM
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You really need to increase your funnel. You need to talk to a lot, and I mean a lot of girls. Before I got together with my girlfriend I approached around 200 girls through day game, went through 150 matches and 10 dates on Tinder and 20 more through social circle and going out. It took this long before I was satisfied with her education, values, atrractiveness, personality, interests. If you're below those number, you really need to up the numbers by a lot. You're not allowed to complain if yo…
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:54 AM
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It's pretty simple in seddit. AAA- Always assume attraction and always escalating is the mantra. If she gives you IOIs, you escalate. If she doesn't give you IOIs, but also no IODs, you escalate. You only wait with escalation if she gives you IODs, backpeddle a little and try again a few minutes later. You stop when she tells you to fuck off or sternly tells you to leave her alone.
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:34 AM
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Calling this the worst example, is a bit hyperbole. He was direct and honest with her, told her what he wanted. Furthermore, it is normal that girls want to speak to the guy on the phone before they meet up for "only sex." The emotional breakdown and neediness afterwards also happens often with girls this young. OP was probably wrong in the hair yank, even though she said she is into BDSM. How are you supposed to know? All in all, the girl loved it, her neediness afterwards wasn't OPs fault. He …
/r/seduction02/07/17 07:30 AM
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I don't think people NEED theory to fuck girls This statement is so short sighted. The purpose of theory is so that you don't have to spend years to find out all by yourself, whereas most giys nevee figure out what they're soing weong by themselves. That doesn't exclude taking action...
/r/seduction01/07/17 06:49 PM
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Where is that rejection. You were with several people. She is not oigated to babysit you for the whole evening, you can also be by yourself for half an hour lol?
/r/seduction01/07/17 06:45 PM
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Tell her she has a boyfriend that she won't see again, so it's not a boyfriend and you'll help her. Then push for the meet.
/r/seduction01/07/17 02:21 PM
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Do both, none will be good without the other.
/r/seduction01/07/17 02:19 PM
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Just talk to her like a normal person. Say, she looks great in those yoga pants. She will know whats up, and this is not disrespectful at all.
/r/seduction01/07/17 05:29 AM
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Just talk to her with innuendo, without mentioning sex, but being flirty. You only have to give her opportunity to escalate on you and she will take it, if she is already so much into you. You: Hello there Her: Hello You: How are you (smirk) Her: I'm good how are you (smile) You: Good now that I see you Her: Hahah you cutey You: Ah stop it, but you're cute too Her: Hmm thank you You: So, what do you like most about me today Her: (Eyes wide) I like that you talk to me like that You: I can also wh…
/r/seduction01/07/17 05:27 AM
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Keep it short Keep it upbeat Reply more than 5 minutes after getting the text 50% of the time, 25% 1 min, 10% 15 mins, 5% > 3 hours. For Tinder, you can multiply the times by 2. Push for the meet once buying temperature is high for a new acquaintance. Should not be longer than 20 messages. Those 4 will get you far already
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:44 PM
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Sorry no sex I'm on my period would work in a more high energy environment, but not on a chill 1-1 date so much. I would rather suggest things like Hmm, this is all going a bit fast Oh oh, let's take it a bit slow maybe Hey, can we maybe only cuddle tonight (with a smirk)
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:32 PM
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I wrote this in another thread, about these 5 things that many guys are missing Push & Pull Qualification Kino Seducing a woman with eye contact, smirks kisses on the forehead Occasional non-serious cockiness, be cocky once in a while fgs, you're a man :) You need to be really good at those 5 things to build attraction.
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:41 PM
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Word!
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:31 PM
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Well this statement of his doesn't make any sense. Here some things that create attraction out of nothing when she has never seen you before Being good looking Strong eye contact Status Once you have some attraction going, you can use Kino Qualification To build, create, spark whatever you may call it, more attraction. Be careful with what woujo says, he has verrry strong opinions, but still gets a lot of things wrong.
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:51 AM
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In general it seems that Seddit thinks: It's all about inner game Nothing you say matters You can't 'create' attraction It's about having an exciting life (good well paid job etc) and the girls will come That's not really the case, the opinion is that Inner game is very important but not everything It does matter what you say, but delivery matters more Never heard this here that you can't create attraction. That doesn't make sense even. Having an exciting life is the biggest driver for happiness…
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:22 AM
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What about those 5 things Push & Pull Qualification Kino Seducing a woman with eye contact, smirks kisses on the forehead Occasional non-serious cockiness, be cocky once in a while fgs, you're a man :) You need to be really good at those 5 things to build attraction.
/r/seduction29/06/17 06:53 PM
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Nerdy in a sexy way usually means geeky. It can also mean thay you're not a player, which is good.
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:38 PM
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Meet with her but tell her you think you changed your mind. You can still fuck.
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:25 PM
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Hm, I usually stick to the formula. Are there any good questions for fewer messages?
/r/seduction29/06/17 01:49 PM
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Not bad, they might often want some more rapport and find out about you though, no? Any other questions you found useful?
/r/seduction29/06/17 01:38 PM
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Here an example (1) Fun, personal opener You: Mary mary, you have the cutest cheeks on tinder! Her: Haha thank you! (2, 4) Rapport with some tease You: So I see you're a world class dancer, how did you get into that Her: Well I've started really young and it just went from there You: Nice, I also used to dance in high school, they called me the wild torero Her: Haha, well that is interesting You: Well, might need to do a little dancing challenge to see who's better Her: Haha, be careful what you…
/r/seduction29/06/17 01:00 PM
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Be sure to follow this protocol Fun, personal opener Building rapport Qualification Tease Number close This will increase you results significantly and try to keep the number of messages sent below 20 for this.
/r/seduction29/06/17 10:18 AM
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Looking at the "not speaking to girls who are with a guy", crom my experience 60% of the time the guys is not her boyfriend, but her brother, cousin, beta colleague, so 60% of the time there is no reason to not approach. After saying hey, how are you I directly say "oh is he your bf?" and "eject" directly, whereas 60% of the time they will laugh and say haha no or something. That's ok no?
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:00 AM
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Your mistakes Being affected by her shit test Stopping to escalate after she told you you were touchy feely. This was a test to see if your ashamed of your sexuality or if you stand by it Expecting her to escalate. Women don't so that. It's your job as the man to make a move and to possibly be rejected Asking her to cuddle is not making a move. You don't ask, you just do and if she rejects you then fine, but you don't ask. She was definitely interested, since she asked you to hang out again, she…
/r/seduction28/06/17 12:50 PM
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Women love it if the man makes a move and puts himself out for rejection. Very manly. So just keep escalation slowly with her and see where it goes.
/r/seduction28/06/17 08:06 AM
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It's all about the delivery. Use statements instead of question. Say, so you look like a lawyer, so you have siblings etc. and then talk about each point for a few mins. It's only interview mode if you ask a new question every 30 seconds.
/r/seduction28/06/17 08:05 AM
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Yes youre overthinking this. Just say ok no problem and tell her a new date. It's not being needy, it's your job as a man to set up the date, just don't be too persistent. You can also be more assertive, just not too assertive. :)
/r/seduction27/06/17 09:48 PM
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It's just about optimization. If you have cool outdoor pics, maybe 65% of girls that you swiped right, will swipe you right. (That's 60 girls in your example) If you have very professional pics and really good ones, maybe 85% of girls that you swiped right, will swipe you right. (That would be 78 girls, of which 28 are very high quality) So, with cool pics you get quite some matches, with outstanding pics, you get lots of matches and the ones that you get additionally are of high quality.
/r/seduction27/06/17 06:48 PM
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When she comes back and gives you the tone say "Fight for me" in a playful way. Don't give into her frame of you fucking up, she went away, so she has to work to get back your attention.
/r/seduction27/06/17 06:42 PM
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I get what youre saying. I think it would help that you put yourself in "pua-mode" for some weeks, so that you approach anything that you find interesting and for some weeks, you can only approach if you get valid iois
/r/seduction27/06/17 11:17 AM
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If you look at it that way, number closes on hard approaches will give you a higher return, because you will have a higher dopamine hit. Of course, approaches with initial iois are easier, but the easy paths are only paved in the beginning. :) In your case they were all easier approaches because the girls gave you iois.
/r/seduction27/06/17 11:05 AM
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You need to realize that ROI doesn't matter. No one is counting the ratio between approaches and number close. Go for the not-so-certain approaches because those will improve your game. Doing easy approaches over and over again keep you in the comfort zone, but they don't improve you own self.
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:51 AM
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Yes and everyone else here, who is somewhat advanced.
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:48 AM
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She noticed that you were into her and quickly cut contact before you could go any further. You were also probably quite needy and not upbeat and playful about it.
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:34 AM
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Read this sub for 2 years, approach 200 women. This will improve your game by A LOT.
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:31 AM
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The most important concept for you is AAA, Always Assume Attraction. It doesn't matter if a girl gives you IOIs or not, you simple start a conversation if YOU find the girl attractive as a man, because you want to get to know her. She can still reject you if she isn't into it, but it's your job as a man to find out. This gives you 3 scenarios. She was giving you IOIs and wants you to talk to her She wasn't giving you IOIs, but still wants you to talk to her She wasn't giving you IOIs, and wasn't…
/r/seduction27/06/17 10:11 AM
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Lol, would read again.
/r/seduction26/06/17 02:51 PM
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If you tell her you're not looking for something serious, you're very high in value to her. However, it might also be emotionally to difficult for her. So, just be very honest with her, that you like her, but you're not in a place where you want to be in a relationship right now.
/r/seduction26/06/17 08:38 AM
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Don't break up with HB6, as you were never together with her for starters. Just meet up with the Hb9 and see where it goes.
/r/seduction26/06/17 08:01 AM
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Yes there is an effect there. However, if you're fat you might have a better shot with not so hot girls, but the very hot girls you will have no chance with. Your choice.
/r/seduction26/06/17 07:10 AM
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Push and Pull, Di carlo escalation ladder is what you're looking for. Furthermore, Sex God method for some intense sex knowledge.
/r/seduction25/06/17 07:04 PM
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Because they are polar opposites. In night game, cockiness and loudness are your friend, whereas in day game they can kill attraction instantly. In day game, smoothness and comfort are your friend, whereas in night game they are not heard among all the other guys, but they come in after you have the girl interested.
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:23 PM
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Oh, i'm just a piece of meat for you stahp it, we're going way too fast! :) You really like me huh, it's ok I like you too So whay goals do you have (qualification)
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:30 PM
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That's pretty much the only way guys younger than 25 to have status, through social circle & social proof, since wealth or career is not an option yet. Except the 0.1% that are a legit celebrity.
/r/seduction25/06/17 11:57 AM
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Abundance. Talk to 30 girls at once and you won't even have the focus to fantasize about one girl. You need to abundance to build abundance mentality. So, just tinder like crazy, get 50 numbers through day game, setting up dates from your social circle you're good to go. :)
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:59 PM
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PUAs are what you have to at clubs at first. After the first few minutes, you should reveal your authentic self gradually.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:57 PM
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Top Quality Post as usual. 👌🏻
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:56 PM
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If you only want girls for sex, yoi have to show her that you're really really good at sex, since all of your other things don't matter. It will even make her sad if you have money and stability but don't want to share it with her. So, you need to be able to arouse her really well and make her chase you, so that SHE really wants to fuck you. Then she doesn't care about your other things, she just wants your dick.
/r/seduction24/06/17 08:25 PM
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Ok cool :)
/r/seduction24/06/17 07:34 PM
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If you've already slept with her and if she likes you more than you her, then it's fine to do it occasionally. If you've slept with her but you like her more than she you, then you can maybe do it once but not more. If you havent slept with her yet, it could come across as needy.
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:21 PM
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Just act somewhat seductively, teasing sometimes and youre good. Leave the guy wondering what youre up to.
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:19 PM
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Psychology or any STEM degree will teach you lots of concepts that seduction also teaches. The former teaches you a lot about how people think, the latter teaches you a lot about structured thinking, which enables you to break down and analyze interactions with women very well. Both degrees will make you very desired for jobs that pay very well and are a lot of fun. Having a great career is a very strong cornerstone of game, so you will have that down. 👍🏻
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:10 PM
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Just like the first date, but more relaxed and a bit more sexual.
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:06 PM
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Some things I really would change in the guide. Don't swipe all girls right. It decreases your attractiveness score in the tinder algorithm and you will not be shown the hottest girls anymore. There's quite some information about this available. You can superlike a hot girl, but you need to follow up with pretty good qualification "Oh Sarah, you really have a super cute smile. What are you doing with your life, did you study?"
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:04 PM
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Then youre not horny enough
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:54 PM
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Convert your sexual energy into approaching girls left and right. That's literally what it's made for, to unload your energy into a woman, embrace it.
/r/seduction23/06/17 03:51 PM
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Lol 1 minute for a kiss. You need to chat with her first a bit, kino, do some push and pull. Sometimes you might be able to get a kiss after 1 minute, but that's very rare.
/r/seduction23/06/17 02:54 PM
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With some girls it can go really fast if the chemistry is right, within 10-20 minutes. With some it's hours.
/r/seduction23/06/17 06:30 AM
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Just like every other girl, juwt that you are way less sexual than with usual girls in the beginning. Just be really friendly and sweet and make her like you, but you need some hard qualification, what her plans are, what she is doing with her life, education etc. Then a little kino and a hug and have her chase you.
/r/seduction23/06/17 05:39 AM
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You don't have to "sleep around". But you can definitely make your sexual experiences. This can also involve a couple of months of sleeping around. You're a free man now. ;)
/r/seduction22/06/17 01:35 PM
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Simply escalate when you hang out. Snuggle with her like "brothers and sisters" do it. She will notice quickly that you're not her brother anymore.
/r/seduction22/06/17 01:33 PM
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Say "yes I'm very sweet and give her a kiss on the cheek." When girls test you, they give you permission to escalate.
/r/seduction22/06/17 08:30 AM
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Maybe every 5th, 3 will be neutral and 1 will be crept out/negative.
/r/seduction19/06/17 02:50 PM
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Sounds good :) Even see how far you can go with her by being persistent, for the reference experience. ;) Some girls are really hard to get and make it artificially hard. Normally, it's not worth going through all the effort, since there are other girls, but definitely worth doing it for fun and for learning how to deal with this behaviour.
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:02 PM
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Nah, touching is one of the most important parts of the game, you can pull a girl almost based solely on touching. If the girl isn't interested, it isn't because of touching, but because of not building a real connection with her, being to cocky, not being authentic, forgetting to also let her invest, and not doing push and pull. You're right in that you shouldn't constantly suck her face, but also pull baxk to make her want it more.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:59 AM
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Really have to disagree with that. You should see if sex is possible on the first date. If you can really arouse her without her feeling like you just want to fuck her, you have won. Keep in mind that if girls don't feel "it" on the first dste, it's really hard to get them on a second date. Building comfort is important, but building attraction is equally important.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:25 AM
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Savage for a 17y old. :) Message the girl and tell her to do something in the city together. She seems a bit bitchy/playing hard to get (like most girls in high school), which is part of her insecurity about dating. So, you need to be a bit persistent to make it happen. She will throw obstacles in your way why you shouldn't meet yadda yadda to see if you're serious. It's your job as a man to push all obstacles out of the way and make it happen. Note this is not needy, this is a man stating his i…
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:14 AM
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You have all the inner game things that are important, not the outer game things though, which are the other half you need. So learn about push and pull, qualification, escalation, kino, eye contact.
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:34 PM
5

You're not escalating.
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:54 AM
2

This is not a trauma. It is an experience that every guy has when they're young, but it shouldn't impact your life this much. Rejection is part of dating, even the best "puas" get rejected, get screamed at that they're creeps for talking to a woman on the street by every 3rd or 4th girl. But this isn't your fault as ling as you weren't harassing them or were being really weird. It is their insecurity or their fear that made them react this way. It's not you, it's them. So keep flirting with girl…
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:31 AM
2

Go for blowjob in the park or maybe sex once she felt comfortable after the blowjob.
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:25 AM
1

Too long, too literal, leave her wondering about you.
/r/seduction17/06/17 10:09 AM
2

Hey hey hey, your friend was just starting to flirt with me! reel her back in So much pussy advice here, just don't give into other people's frame and state your intent.
/r/seduction17/06/17 06:55 AM
1

This way, you only meet very confident girls who dont need much comfort, which rules out 90% of all beautiful girls, because most are not very confident. You can do that, you need to be aware that you will not meet the quieter girls, who can be really wonderful.
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:50 PM
1

In that moment she was probably impressed. However, women change their mood and opinion all the time and if you haven't build enough rapport she is more likely to swing towards "I don't feel good about it". Furthermore, she thought probably maybe he is also nice despite his forward approach and though she could give you a chance. Your text being forward again made that second chance go away. What you can do now is something like this "Hey sorry, I guess I was a bit nervous too, I don't usually a…
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:48 PM
3

Your approach was rather cocky, plus you didn't build any rapport during the approach, nor through text. That's why she didn't feel any connection with you at all.
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:29 PM
1

Any given person, male or female (and whatever else is in between), is a person who has their own thoughts, feelings, etc. Every person makes their own decisions. So you assumed me saying "making her chase you" means doing things such that she has absolutely no choice than to chase you, that she has no free will? That's obvisouly not what I meant. Making her chase you is difficult, takes several hours often and frequently also doesn't work.
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:15 PM
0

Be the one to push back on sex. Say ah it's too early, but we can make out. Let her push for sex, make her work for it.
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:10 PM
1

From the first second on, brush her elbow then keep escalating throughout the evening (di carlo escalation ladder)
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:06 PM
4

No.
/r/seduction16/06/17 04:05 PM
2

Ah I wouldn't say most people, but people who are insecure or assholes themselves. If they want you to get into their negative frame and you don't give into their frame, they will say you're an asshole sometimes. That's not easy when the person matters to you or is your boss, so need to be able to handle that well.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:58 PM
2

Yaddi yadda, so why are you taking a hiatus for 2 years, because you're getting braces?
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:39 PM
1

Yes thats how it works, but sounds like the same thing to me or such a little difference that it's not worth debating.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:36 PM
1

Whats the difference in this case
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:57 AM
9

She didn't like you for being an asshole, she liked you for not being a push over and being confident. Big difference.
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:56 AM
1

Agree on the concept, but disagree on "seduction doesn't make anyone do something." There is a whole array of things in seduction that make people do things Qualifying, teasing, being friendly, kino, eye contact makes her find you more attractive very often Not responding to a message every now and then makes her message you very often Giving her space to invest, makes her invest in you very often Most techniques in seduction or most human behaviours are influencing people, or manipulative if yo…
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:26 AM
1

Not sure what you mean, but making her chasing you is the opposite of the bull rushing forward. It's inception - showing some interest, doing some kino, teaching her something, saying that you gotta go and giving her a kiss on the forehead, it's very subtle. You have to get her imagination going, there is nothing more powerful than if the girl really really wants you. Does that make more sense?
/r/seduction16/06/17 08:28 AM
1

I don't see the context between your two statements It's not really about "making" her chase you. Most guys simply push too hard, too fast, while escalating Can you explain what you mean by "it's not really about making her chase you". So you should not let her chase you? It's one lf the most poweful things in game if the girl is chasing you instead of you her.
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:12 AM
2

Yes, it's one of the most difficult things in game, but also one of the most powerful things.
/r/seduction15/06/17 08:51 PM
1

Push and pull, being valuable, kino, Teases
/r/seduction15/06/17 07:51 PM
2

Qualify her, kino and then make her chase you. That's what you need to do.
/r/seduction15/06/17 04:28 PM
2

Can you share your script? Cold approach is the most difficult discipline in pickup, tinder is much less scary. There are still a lot of valuable lessons in cold approach, so worth learning it, but if Tinder works for you, go for it.
/r/seduction15/06/17 04:26 PM
5

I'm really glad how the advice in this thread is really on the same page, looks like it's coming together and we're getting a really good picture of what game is. Not saying, that opposing ideas aren't welcome, but after a while, it just becomes clear what works and what doesn't.
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:06 PM
3

These are the thoughts floating in my head that stop me from approaching. In your experience tell me how true or Must have a very fit body - this is probably the biggest one. I'm about average weight, exercise occasionally but do have a bit of love handles. I feel women only want the ripped or buff guy. As long as you're not fat, women don't care as long as you are confident. Must have very high status - have a huge group of friends (which I dont have) and always be the life of the party. Also m…
/r/seduction15/06/17 12:03 PM
0

This is because your game is not good enough yet to get the 9s and 10s. In order to get there you need to become a lot better at Building a real connection with the girl Making her chase you instead of you chasing her Kinoing very well
/r/seduction15/06/17 07:55 AM
14

There is always the 30%-40% who react really awkward when they are being approached. This is because they are insecure, or caught off guard.You can't change that. But you can make your approach more natural, which helps with that. Keep in mind that being approached by a stranger can be a very overwhelming experience.
/r/seduction15/06/17 07:52 AM
1

It seems like you still don't Have the buyer's mindset instead of sellers mindset (I wonder what she's like, is she crazy, does she have cool hobbies, I hope she is educated instead of I have to impress her, I have to chase her, I have to show her that I'm smart, have money am cool) Push & Pull lightly Make her chase you These 3 things are the most important components in cold approach.
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:32 PM
2

Ok thanks for the input, so it's a made up theory it seems...
/r/seduction14/06/17 03:20 AM
1

Movies is the worst date you can do, you can't talk! Take her for a walk in the city instead and KINO!
/r/seduction13/06/17 07:31 PM
5

One of the most powerful mindsets for approaching that I would add: Ok, this girl looks hot. I wonder what she's like. Does she have an education, is she crazy, what hobbies does she have, is she fun to be around, does she know about science, doe she know about confirmation, can she code, what is something that impresses me about her, what are her values, can I imagine to be with her? This is basically a mix of a few of your mindsets and the Mark Manson mindset and is for me practically the main…
/r/seduction13/06/17 11:17 AM
2

Very interesting evolutionary theory, it does sound plausible. Is there any research about this?
/r/seduction13/06/17 11:13 AM
1

What's the difference between a strong frame and strong confidence in this respect?
/r/seduction13/06/17 08:28 AM
1

Just be really nice to them, and see them again. There are so many ways to structure this, fbw, open relationship etc.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:10 PM
2

Not true, read up on asymptonatic viral shedding.
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:15 AM
2

Hey sure thing. Advice like this should come with a preface of a few paragraphs for calibration. Otherwise, keep the good stuff coming. 👍🏻 But post it again in a couple of days with clear pre-conditions that have to be met, I'm confident it will be successful.
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:35 PM
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Excellent. Next step get her number, set up the date. Then escalate on the date, touch her, make her laugh, then kiss her. Then hang out again, touch her kiss her, sex her.
/r/seduction11/06/17 12:19 PM
2

Your article does have a spot in pickup, however, it's one of the understood pieces of advice, you need to calibrate it extremely well. You need to add the following points at the beginning of your article that you can only be a douche to girls when they are either extremely hot or very confident AND You know her well already and she is givig you a lot of shit and insulting for fun as well So, as soon as you hit those 3 comditions you can be like that. Otherwise, you will kill any attraction and…
/r/seduction11/06/17 11:25 AM
1

Your "all men are creeps" article had exactly the same flaws as his article. You complained about people taking your words literally and now you're attacking him for the same thing. Remember?
/r/seduction11/06/17 11:20 AM
2

You can also ask servers out that only show some interest, she can simply not act on it, not a big deal. We're all grown ups geez.
/r/seduction11/06/17 11:09 AM
1

You can say "Well, I don't like it when people don't know really what they want, so yes."
/r/seduction10/06/17 07:01 PM
3

You need to show them that they are less dominant than you. Don't make this try-hard though. Make this haplen through wittyness, self-deprecation and cocky-funniness. This takes years of practice though. The other way is to make her chase you, which is basically what game is.
/r/seduction10/06/17 06:59 PM
2

How to be more alpha Don't be a push over Don't be a product of other's opinions, have your own opinions based on science and objectivity, not based on what most people say Have value to offer to people See yourself as high value Go for rejection, Embrace rejection, see it as a challenge Do not ever be jealous or needy Have manly posture and body language Doing all this without being douchey, an asshole, arrogant and while still be very friendly and forthcoming will make you the most alpha.
/r/seduction10/06/17 06:45 PM
1

Yeah, that's how you get flakes.
/r/seduction10/06/17 07:01 AM
14

You can only say date when she is already super into you. In all other cases hang out is better. You need to escalate on the hang out directly though, so that she knows it's on.
/r/seduction10/06/17 06:02 AM
1

When you're looking really good, the girl can perceive you as a player really quick. If you're looking normal, you can be much more coky and confident without looking like a player. So, when you're really good looking, you need to tone down the cockiness and let your looks basically do the work, focus on kino and eye contact.
/r/seduction08/06/17 06:51 PM
1

Try to make him your friend. This might sound hard, but if you just ignore his aggression and spin it into something positive such as Him: "Dude, stop harassing girls here or I'll fuck you up" You: "Heyyy, whats up, yeah i know I feel like today the music is really shitty, but do you know if there's a place with some good vibe tonight. Are you from here? Do you know any good places( qualification). Ah you're cool, what do you do ah you study? Ah business, so are you planning start a company late…
/r/seduction08/06/17 06:49 PM
2

A great benefit would be to set the bar for quality in this sub, so that other contributors can see what quality of advice they should lean towards.
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:09 PM
1

Maybe better to say that I can count the people that are genuinely good on one hand, maybe that gives a better picture.
/r/seduction08/06/17 12:35 PM
1

Just my personal experience. Adding to that, I would only give the advice "be yourself" or "be unapologetic about what you do" to only 1% or 2% of all the people that I have met, since this advice only applies if that person is already very mature and has abundance. This advice is only applicable to people who are already quite good at the game and have studies it for years, which is only a few percent max. If you give this advice to anyone else, they will be straight up creeps or simply asshole…
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:31 AM
2

She is disappointed that you didn't make a move as in telling her to hang in person. Do it.
/r/seduction08/06/17 05:51 AM
1

Yeah, most people (60%+) are not good people, but dysfunctional with lots of problems, racist etc. You should add to your statement, if you're accomplished and a value giver, you should be unapologetic, but not if you're a weirdo that is still plagued by neediness, bitterness and more like most people. It's the same as the advice just be yourself. No, don't be yourself if you're needy and weird, but if you are already quite far in the game without the negstive stuff, then be yourself otherwise b…
/r/seduction08/06/17 05:48 AM
1

Your baldness isn't the problem. Your defeated look on your face is. If you walk up to women with that look, they get scared. You need to walk up to them like a boss and smile and have a buyer's mindset(you approach them, but they have to impress you, why should you date them). You also have to kearn how to be a bit cocky, kino, eye contact etc. GO approach more. With 8 years of study, you should have cold approached at least 500 good looking women. Yes, your dating pool is limited if you're a b…
/r/seduction07/06/17 12:31 PM
3

That's not really aggressive. 😄 Just go with the flow.
/r/seduction07/06/17 09:45 AM
1

You are already doing really well. Just take care of yourself and when you feel better, back into the game. We all have our hurdles to overcome and go through really shit times sometimes, it's life. :)
/r/seduction06/06/17 08:47 PM
1

You're alrqdy doing really well. You're Approaching girls Not too afraid of rejection Know how to create a spark The progress you have made is normal for being in the game for two years. Now, you need to spend another two years to become really good at becoming more playful and alpha at the same time making her chase you (so so important) Sexualizing well Using qualification a lot Using kino escalation a lot being in the buyers mindet at all times instead of sellers mindset (don't try to impress…
/r/seduction06/06/17 08:26 PM
1

You can do what uoaoua said, or you can say :"Hey , I do lke you but I've realized that I'm not looking for a relationship right now. We can still see each other, but just casually. I'm not looking for something more right now.
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:44 AM
2

There are two options You will not let her go out with her friends, because she is too hot and guys will hit on her. This is almost the worst thing you can do to a girl and she will definitely beeak up with you because of that if you keep doing that. Imagine what would be if the reverse situation were the case? Just because you're too insecure, that you're not good enough you want to control her, bad. You let her do everything she wants. You let her hang out with guys asking her id the guy was n…
/r/seduction05/06/17 09:40 PM
2

This is gold.
/r/seduction05/06/17 09:31 PM
17

Because you're too confident or cocky and you chase them too much. Tone it down and let them chase you.
/r/seduction05/06/17 07:06 AM
0

Just go on the "date", but arouse her well and escalate well and she will forget about wanting to be friends. :) It's a risk to screw up things at work, so your benefit needs to be a lot higher than the risk, for her to go for it.
/r/seduction05/06/17 07:05 AM
0

There is no difference Ah ah, you can't say that there is absolutely no difference. There is a significant difference. Hot looking guys can be too cocky quickly and should focus on not using too much game Not so good lucking guys need to be more cocky funny, assertive than the hot guy Kalolilo, clearing up false dichotomies since 2010 ;)
/r/seduction03/06/17 08:27 PM
1

The only thing you need to do is to escalate relentlessly while being playful.
/r/seduction02/06/17 05:08 PM
1

So far you havent done anything wrong. Go focus on other girls and sent her another text in a week or so with a funny tease.
/r/seduction02/06/17 05:07 PM
1

A woman gives signs to men like this all the time. The one who is man enough to act on it will get her.
/r/seduction02/06/17 04:31 PM
3

Not true. It's called push and pull. Compliment her, then tease her. Kino her, then pull away. Compliment again, say she's almost as cute as you etc.
/r/seduction02/06/17 07:34 AM
7

You did super well. You escalated aggressively, but not too aggressive and allowed her to invest. Just keep going like that, initiate with value gicing text and fun and she will want it. Don't be afraid of being needy, persistence is not needy as long as she likes you and she has giving you several iois and you're not texting her low value texts. It's your job as the man to make it happen and to move all obstacles out of the way.
/r/seduction02/06/17 04:50 AM
6

Complete lack of Teasing Man-to-woman Jokes Qualification so far.
/r/seduction01/06/17 09:31 PM
1

No, persistence and stating intent is manly and attractive as long as your remain playful and assertive about it. If she asks you why you want her number, tell her because she sometimes looks hot as fuck.
/r/seduction01/06/17 04:20 PM
1

tell her: Of course, but you do to real men like me 😁 Don't give up if she doesn't give you her number straight away. 70% of girls dont give it the first time you ask, they want you to fight for it.
/r/seduction01/06/17 02:25 PM
2

Just say: Let's maybe hang out next week. Unlikely she will say no. Then tell her "cool whats your number"
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:53 AM
1

Learn how to make a concersation interesting. This takes years to learn. But you need to start and go through the pain. Or you dont and stay right where you are.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:16 AM
1

Dont think, just escalate. Kino escalate on her slowly but strongly and see if she likes it. If she doesnt, move on. to the next. Convert your lust into action .
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:51 AM
1

Some women become disappointed in your if you don't seduce her to sex. Some women have that strange assumption that they have to delay sex for the guy to like her more. Definitely go for sex, she'll show you what she wants.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:47 AM
1

fuck it, just do it and dont be a pussy. we're all gonna be dead in 100 years anyway.
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:42 PM
1

It's your job as a man to approach the woman. A woman won't approach a man. Once you have approached her, you have to make her chase you. This is what they call the game. :)
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:05 PM
2

RsdMax, Gambler, Mystery, Liam McRae and James Marshal imo. They are the ones who are actually calibrated and not creepy puas. I wouldn't even call them puas, because their focus is a lot on self improvement and not so much on picking up chicks.
/r/seduction31/05/17 04:27 PM
1

If you dont have time for 3 and especially for, you won't get sex except in rare cases. 4 is almost the most important one in the game, so you should definitely try to make her chase you. If she can think of nothing else than gettinf your dick, you get that. Part of 4 is also making her invest in you.
/r/seduction31/05/17 09:52 AM
3

Just escalate very smoothly, be like a best girlfriend with her, touchy, positive and she will like that warmth and hold her, kiss her on the cheek. Otherwise, you can contact her again, invite to something fun to hang out. all in all, you need to arouse her on the hang out, that will do it.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:24 AM
1

Do you Escalate strongly Qualify well Push and pull Make her chase you Those are the 3 things that most guys forget.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:07 AM
1

I was like you. You're trying to hard to impress people with weird and edgy jokes. Instead, let them impress you and focus on jokes that are not so try hard.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:02 AM
5

Two mistakes: Your texts were too long. You should have only said. Hey, sure no problem, take your time. ;) You need to be the emotional rock for her,make her work for you to show more emotion. She only said to only be friends, because she was afraid of you expecting stuff from her soon. She still wante to hang and have sex. Just hang out with her again, do some sweet kino and she will want you again. She is just not sure, because of her anziety, but sex is a great help with thay and she will fe…
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:00 AM
1

10s if you get your confidence in check, 6s-7s if you dont.
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:06 PM
1

Yadi yada, you need to go out and do it. Do. Do. Do.
/r/seduction30/05/17 07:31 PM
1

Lots of theory, lots of practice.
/r/seduction30/05/17 06:59 PM
1

Can be anything from 6 months to 5 years depending on how much effort you put into it.
/r/seduction30/05/17 05:28 PM
1

👍🏻💪🏻
/r/seduction30/05/17 07:26 AM
2

No because she made you do it. But if you see her again remain positive and friendly, not insecure. Dont let her pull you into a negative frame again. It was not your fault, but her insecurity.
/r/seduction30/05/17 06:25 AM
2

The payoff is not the sexual encounters, it is the skill to walk up to anybody. You worry way to much about everything, there is no reputation loss. Women see you as high value if you approach them even if they dont give you her number and if you love in larger city you never see them again.
/r/seduction30/05/17 06:23 AM
2

You were not a creep. You made the mistake lf not having her invest enough. This doesn't make you a creep, it's just one piece that you didn't know was missing.
/r/seduction29/05/17 09:27 PM
1

You did really well confident-wise and comfort-wise, but as far as I can see you completely lacked push & pull, her investing, her chasing you, you arousing her, kino escalation, sexual tension. Your kino escalation was very fast, from hand holding to kissing, you missed like 3 steps in between. I like to touch her boobs before kissing even to keep sexual tension high.
/r/seduction29/05/17 07:43 PM
1

She might not have been in agreeance with her sexuality yet or maybe she has had a bad experience before. You werent wrong for choking her a bit, but you made a mistake by letting her set the frame of it being disgusting. You should have reframed it to "well, you made me really get into it" with a smirk and then ignore her trying to reframe it negatively.
/r/seduction29/05/17 10:29 AM
1

Time for a change. Women don't care that much about looks anyways, they care much more about confidence.
/r/seduction29/05/17 06:04 AM
1

Of course, nothing or rejection or awkwardness came out of most of it, but instant even had a few instant make outs and several lays.
/r/seduction29/05/17 06:04 AM
1

Yes you're definitely a 7. You look like Edward Snowden a bit and he's good looking. :) With being asked for advice I mean that once you have reached a certain level of education and proficiency in your job, you will have valuable advice to give, which people will want to hear and which will make you valuable. Getting bigger will definitely increase your atrractiveness level. Build makes up around 30% of your overall looks and looks make up 30% of your total attriveness. The rest is overall game…
/r/seduction28/05/17 09:58 PM
2

Dont call her if she hasnt replied to your text geez. Really creepy. You can do that id the vibe is good, but not in his situation.
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:55 PM
5

It means that you potentially have 10 girls to choose from, since they all want you. The consequence of that is that you Dont get too invested in 1 girl Never become needy Have the girl make you impress instead of you impressing her Have the girl work for it Give of an aloof, chill vibe Are not afraid to lose her Are not trying to impress her If you pair those attributes with good outer game, it's really powerful. Of course, in the beginning you sont have 10 girls that want you, but your mentali…
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:54 PM
1

Now what if people were texting you who don't really provide value to you, instead they are constantly drawing value from you. Would you text them back everytime or rather try to phase them out.
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:40 PM
1

So you think youre less than a 7 or more? Improve style, wear a suit, look sharp, better inner game, getting an education and a career will work wonders. You can be someone who many people enjoy spending time with and is asked for advice. Need to put in years of work for that though.
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:36 PM
4

Hmm compliments with push and pull aren't comfort. Comfort is not coming on too strong, pushing back on sex when necessary, giving her a way out, making her feel valuable. Comfort is at least half of the game, it's even more important than attraction, because without comfort you wont be able to do any of the points above except in a club maybe. Vulnerability is also important, because otherwise you will fail the authenticity shit test. If you're only alpha and funny, girls will label you as fake…
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:31 PM
4

This is maybe 10% of the game. Unfortunately, lack of comfort building, vulnerability, calibration, inner game in these fundamentals.
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:41 PM
1

Yes, do yoi disagree with that?
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:35 PM
1

Yes thats a disadvantage with some girls, but all of us have disadvantages, too short, too young, too old, not smart enough, not educated enough, bad teeth, bad style, mental illnesses. Dont make them stop you. :)
/r/seduction28/05/17 10:20 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:01 AM
1

You look like a 7/10, with a suit and some sharper styling and some confidence you can look like 9/10 easily.
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:33 AM
1

Yes of course. Several hundred approaches.
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:29 AM
1

Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:29 AM
1

Yes, but she also needs to feel a significant spark after the second date, otherwise she is just not feeling it. You get that spark by escalating.
/r/seduction27/05/17 08:03 PM
2

It's already a big step if a girls tells you youre cute as long as you escalate upon it. They tell you youre cute, because they now also want to see if you can act upon it and "be a man"
/r/seduction27/05/17 07:13 PM
3

Definitely yes if you can spike her emotions and make her chase you. You can try for the "reference experience", it will definitely improve your game, but I wouldn't put too much emotional investment into, since she doesn't seem like relationship material to a high value man.
/r/seduction27/05/17 03:50 PM
1

Both kind of. This is a very important question, but also one that requires very differentiated analysis. You're not bringing her down, instead you're raising yourself up through teases and/or cocky funniness. In case she is very confident or very hot or she is giving you lots of shit (for fun) you can give her negs. Once you have done that and established youself as not low value, you can give her compliments and she won't see it as creepy, but actually love it, because you have established you…
/r/seduction27/05/17 12:33 PM
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This is good for mindset, but it only aims for guys to escalate. If you just escalate, you don't need all this mindset stuff, but many guys can't escalate without reading material like this. This material is quite pua-y, but it's the only pua-y material that I have reqd recently that I deem valuable. It is also quite calibrated, so keep that stuff coming. :)
/r/seduction27/05/17 09:22 AM
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She doesn't care about your self confidence, she just wants you to kiss her and out your penis in her. No joke. :)
/r/seduction27/05/17 07:10 AM
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👍🏻
/r/seduction27/05/17 07:09 AM
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The advantage is, no one has social proof in day game. Cold approach is also the most difficult discipline, however, it also gives you access to a lot of women. Hobbies are great, volunteering also.
/r/seduction27/05/17 07:09 AM
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Really good opener. Just text her now, tell her the time and place tonight, go with her tomorrow, kino, vibe with her, go for the kiss after an hour or so. All good :)
/r/seduction26/05/17 10:17 PM
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Escalate this. Start small with ambiguity and misinterpretation and escalate step for step.
/r/seduction26/05/17 06:53 PM
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I admire this girls persistence. She gave you the sign to escalate 8 times over the span of a whole year and every time she was so disappointed by you not taking the lead. It is your job as a man to lead, to aim for rejection, go for the kiss. Girls also reject sometimes, but most of the time it's not a no, it's a not yet.
/r/seduction26/05/17 05:50 PM
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A real man doesn't feel insecure about a girl dominating him, he lets her dominate him to see if she is doing it well.
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:54 PM
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Then you are already doing the advanced version of teasing like you described being alpha. Add some qualification in the mix and your results will increase even more. :)
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:27 PM
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If your game is already good, then you can leave out some points of course. If she likes you already(msgs you first), even more. Those 6 points are the baseline, if you're average (like 90% of guys here) or below average. If you're above average you can play around with those rules of course, but if you're not, they are excellent pointers to getting a number. Keep in mind, that most guys have really bad text game, have a really hard time getting a number, are too cocky, too beta, write too long.…
/r/seduction26/05/17 02:08 PM
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So the only thing you do is an opener and then ask for the number, as in you only send two messages total?
/r/seduction26/05/17 01:54 PM
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I also believe you tease them as prt od being playful, and qualify them as part of building rapport. :)
/r/seduction26/05/17 01:45 PM
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So you're never being playful, you never ask her what she does, never tease her kightly, never give her a compliment? Sorry, didnt mean to say you're not good looking,
/r/seduction26/05/17 01:20 PM
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Only if the girl is not much better looking than you and only some of those will ask you on a date. The other points are to also get the really hot ones that are being messages by 10 guys at the same time.
/r/seduction26/05/17 01:09 PM
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Social circle is really the best way. Apart from that, it's hobbies, tinder, day game, club game. That's pretty much it.
/r/seduction26/05/17 10:37 AM
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Text game not being game because you don't have body language, tone etc. is a false dichotomy. It is a subset of game, just like day game, club game, inner game. Text game has playfulness, rapport building, emojis, teases, making her laugh. Just because it doesn't have some elements that in-person interaction has, doesn't make it not game. Use this formula to get consistent success on Tinder. Build some rapport through a playful, personal opener 1-3 msgs Playfulness, see above 1-2 msgs Qualifica…
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:31 AM
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Yes, women never make the first move even if she's very interested in you. It happens once in every blue moon, but that's it. Girls are paralyzingly afraid of rejection. It is your job as a man to do that.
/r/seduction26/05/17 09:25 AM
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In chronological order from most important Build rapport Talk about D.A.R.E., Don't talk about R.A.P.E. Kino Eye contact Qualification Push and pull
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:51 PM
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FFS let the girl flirt a little, shes 18.
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:48 PM
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Give her more attention for a few days and less for a few days and adjust based on her reaction. :)
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:45 PM
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Your openers were ok, but the delivery was probably bad. Try to be upbeat, even hilarious with a huge smile and put yourself in the buyers mindset (this is also called qualification) instead of the sellers mindset. *You'll say something hilarious and see if the girls has a funny reply instead of you saying something hilarious and hope the girl laughs. * You say something to the girl and see if shes cool and funny and if she has stuff going for her(job, hobby etc.) instead of you proving yourself…
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:44 PM
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Before the 30s, status or dominance is only accomplished through your social circle, except you're a celebrity. Dont try to be dominant in your daily interaction, that rather makes you seem try hard. Instead, be the one that everyone knows and thus respects and that is really positive rather underselling himself/somewhat mysterious.
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:40 PM
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Escalate verbally. I'll grab you and throw you around :) You naught naughty girl, what do you want me to do to you. Ok ok, I think you need a real good spanking Then, after a few of those tell her to hang, she will like to. :)
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:52 AM
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That's ok, accept your disorder and be open about it. Tell the girls: "Hey sorry if I'm not super suave all the time, I have some form of autism that makes it difficult for me sometimes" 50% of the girls will not like it, 50% will not care or find it interesting/attractive that you are upfront about it. Focus on the latter 50% percent.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:47 AM
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👍🏻😊
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:47 PM
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Yeah https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=qualification
/r/seduction24/05/17 06:25 PM
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Yes thats how it works. Not much mystery to it! If she's a lawyer/doctor ask her if she's a good lawyer/doctor etc. You can make that really playful Ask her if she can do this and that if the topic comes up
/r/seduction24/05/17 06:22 PM
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Not in that way. It's not a competition. Even if she is a multimillionaire celebrity and better in every way, you do qualification and let her chase you. It's like magic. :)
/r/seduction24/05/17 04:00 PM
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Great, then try that. Your whole game, all your assets should aim to make her chase you. This needs to be done subtly of course, so she doesn't notice. So, in the future, have the buyers mindset, not the sellers. Why should you hang out with her, ok she's cute and funny, but is she also cool, what about her education. Don't try to sell yourself to her, have her make herself to you. Make this a little game, in a playful way. Most girls love playing it as long as you keep it lighhearted.
/r/seduction24/05/17 01:52 PM
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Only pre-selection is stronger. :) However, be careful to not overdo it. It's better to be done subtly.
/r/seduction24/05/17 01:49 PM
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Escalate. Hug her, touch her and keep moving forward. She might pull away sometimes, but take it as a challenge (not in a rapey way, in a fun way). If she allows, touch her more (Di Carlo escalation ladder). If she tells you to stop in a serious way, stop it and and say nice meeting you.
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:54 AM
3

Have tou tried qualification and making her chase you, instead of you having to be the one who does everything right?
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:51 AM
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Kino and eye contact. Make her horny through those two things and chat with her a bit and see if you can kiss her after work or tell her to hang. And make her chase you. :)
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:47 AM
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Dont formally ask him out. Instead talk with him, build rapport with him and make him interested in you. Then, you can suggest to hang and it will feel natural.
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:46 AM
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This is a false dichotomy. You still get good women without a perfect life, just the quality rises with the quality of your life. That's why the advice here is to focus on building your life, NOT ONLY your game. It's never said that you should build ONLY your life and NOT AT ALL your game. Also, the goal here is not to sleep with a lot of women of all kinds of quality, but to build a good life AND to have sex with high quality women. Quality over quantity is the motto, not the other way round. D…
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:09 AM
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Ok. Like I wrote in my other comment, numbers game is your friend. No matter how horrible your game is, if you try with 500 girls, some will like you. Some will also have autism (10), some will have ADD (50) some will also have some form of disability (100+) and will be somewhat awkward themselves and understand where you're coming from.
/r/seduction24/05/17 07:59 AM
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Which is your hobby? Apart from that, if you dont "have" anything to back it up, so what all guys do when they have some trouble converting. Play the numbers game. Talk to 500 hot girls, tell them they're cute, get their number and set up a date. A guy with good game will sleep with 100 of then. Since you have some trouble with game due to the cards you've been dealt, you might end up sleeping with 10-20 "only". At all times, be upfront about your autism. Tell her that you apologize in advance i…
/r/seduction24/05/17 07:56 AM
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Either social circle or status (money, job/celebrity) Guys in their 20s will have any of the latter very rarely , so social circle is the way to get status in the 20s.
/r/seduction24/05/17 06:26 AM
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I was thinking, if you're fit, have a good face, and have good style, could you be considered on an even playing field with men who are average on all fronts? Yes thats a good approximation. If you have really good game a woman couldnt care less about height. They will care about it if they dont feel enough attraction.
/r/seduction23/05/17 10:22 PM
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She seems to be socially awkward, like most people, so no big mystery here.
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:44 PM
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False. Do not next her. Escalate and see if she rejects you. 50/50 most of the time. That's very high!
/r/seduction23/05/17 08:09 AM
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Ok, then it sounds like you need to focus on small goals. What about meeting other girls who are autistic, are you going to support groups. They understand that you cant be perfectly suave. Also, why is autism preventing you from getting a degree, is it not actually an advantage since you can focus on something very closely? Sorry if I'm wrong, I don't know that much about autism. Also, your writing is quite good, you can make points come across well, not everyone can do that. And how old are yo…
/r/seduction23/05/17 07:07 AM
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I wrote that status accounts for 30% and game for 30%. Social status/pre-selection is a mixture of both, thus it is the most powerful attraction builder. It is not everything though. However, very few of us on this sub have social status. 90% of guys don't have high status in their 20s. They build it through a social circle instead, this is the way to go in your 20s.
/r/seduction22/05/17 07:22 AM
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Yes, then your chances with 9s and 10s are not that high, but you have good chances with 7s. Your questions was, what is game. Being confident, playful no matter what your looks are or your social status. Women love it when a man has nothing, but is still confident and playful. This is the highest form of confidence. It's easy to be confident when you're rich, and it's cool but not so impressive. It is impressive if you're confident even though you have nothing. High confidence in a poor guy mak…
/r/seduction22/05/17 07:16 AM
1

I mean you have to set up a date and not fuck around! :)
/r/seduction21/05/17 08:29 PM
1

she snaps me twice Dowsnt matter if text or snap, just tell her to go somewhere via text or snap.
/r/seduction21/05/17 07:29 PM
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So you stopped texting her because she doesn't reply to all of your snaps? Wtf. Your job is to lead. If she doesn't reply tell her to meet or do something. If she says no, move on. Lastly, you can be cute all the way, as long as you lead and escalate. Being cute and leading don't have to do anything with each other. It's even better if you're a bit cute instead of being alpha all the time, because that becomes annoying as fuck quickly.
/r/seduction21/05/17 05:25 PM
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Probably better to post this in /r/sex.
/r/seduction21/05/17 05:22 PM
1

Smile, light kino and playfulness while maintaining some superioirity are your friends.
/r/seduction21/05/17 10:29 AM
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YOU CANNOT BUILD RAPPORT OVER TEXT. Repeat after me: YOU CANNOT BUILD RAPPORT OVER TEXT. Simply false. How do you think how guys get a number from Tinder and then after exchanging about 50 messages, she feels comfortable enough to meet with him in person. This happens thousands of times EVERY SINGLE DAY. So something must be wrong about your advice. There are guys that have practiced text game for year through failur, rejection and have improved. I feel like you haven't really put in the work to…
/r/seduction21/05/17 08:10 AM
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Women are not into awkward guys, because they are awkward themselves and they want to improve.
/r/seduction21/05/17 08:08 AM
1

Woujou likes to exaggerate and spill out false dichotomies to get guys like you, who are gullible/desperate for help to believe every word he says. That's very manipulative, but that's how you get people to listen to you. It's the technique thay cult leaders use. That being said, women only wanting guys who hve an awesome life is a wondeful false dichotomy. It is correct in that women are really intrigued by status, but status is not everything. It only gives you around 30% of what women ar look…
/r/seduction21/05/17 08:06 AM
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The list is lacking some fundamental rules. Without these 4 rules, you will wonder why you still dont get results despite being your best self. Social Proof/Pre-Selection: There is nothing more what attracts a woman than status or other perople/girls talking how cool you are and wanting to hang out with you. Social proof is not everything, but there is nothing by itself that helps you more than social proof. KINO: It's one of the most important things to connect with a human being. Touch her fro…
/r/seduction21/05/17 07:53 AM
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You're really overthinking what this girl does and how she is and who she rejects blabla. Just escalate relentlessly, confident girls like that.
/r/seduction18/05/17 05:37 PM
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There is no alternative. Game/seduction or social intelligence is like everything else, a set of rules that need to be applied at the right time. Many rules override other rules, and there are exceptions to all rules. There is no guideline of that, because it is very detailed. So learn the 1000 rules that there are, their exceptions and their hierarchy through experience. You need to put in the work.This will take around 5 years.
/r/seduction18/05/17 03:33 PM
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You dont need to necessarily be the guy that talks the most to be the "alpha". Try to be the guy who offers the most value, highest social intelligence, most chill, friendly and alpha at the same time.
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:47 PM
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You have to become the guy who CAN socialize in groups. It's something you can learn like everything else, but most guys don't want tonput in the work.
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:38 PM
1

It's not really douchey, but it's sub-par game. Yes, you can tell women that you only want to fuck them, but it won't leas to a better you and you will develop very negative mindsets because of it. (women are all sluts, they are bad people etc., they will jump om any dudes dick) If you really only want to fuck them, you can tell them you only want to fuck them, that's actually honest. However, when a girl comes along that is really high quality and gets told by dozens of guys a week that they wa…
/r/seduction16/05/17 08:55 PM
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It's not really douchey, but it's sub-par game. Yes, you can tell women that you only want to fuck them, but it won't leas to a better you and you will develop very negative mindsets because of it. (women are all sluts, they are bad people etc., they will jump om any dudes dick) If you really only want to fuck them, you can tell them you only want to fuck them, that's actually honest. However, when a girl comes along that is really high quality and gets told by dozens of guys a week that they wa…
/r/seduction16/05/17 08:55 PM
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I think this is your best post. However, I would except slightly reframe the mindset with trying to fuck her to thinking about fucking her, making her horny and see where it goes. You do this here already During this time you must show that you are interested and may want to fuck her, while simultaneously being careful to not jump the gun and freak her out and here You must make clear from the beginning of the interaction you are “possibly” interested in fucking her. If you make clear that you w…
/r/seduction16/05/17 04:29 PM
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In that case, it would be better to say. Hey, lets get a drink this week. because asking her if she is free is too not assertive enough and rather boring. That girl is looking for leadership and more alphaness. OP was too reserved, thats why she lost interest.
/r/seduction15/05/17 10:08 PM
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Was pretty good what you did, but you need to manage to be a lot more physical. Di Carlo escalation ladder. Secondly, you need to learn how to use some decent push and pull, slightly appreciate and then disqualify the girl again.
/r/seduction15/05/17 10:05 PM
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Dont say this, instead suggest. Hey lets get a drink on Friday. :) Gives her the option to either reject you or not. Easy.
/r/seduction15/05/17 10:01 PM
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Yes, but this way of being is not that attractive to women, just as being really bossy or being a one-upper. Some women will be attracted to this no matter what, because they have low standards, but this doesn't mean that this is a very successful way of being with women. There are ways of being that are way more attractive, such as being upbeat, physical and teasing. Breaking rapport works with girls that already like you a lot, that are weak minded, in L.A. club game, just as the 2005 pickup t…
/r/seduction14/05/17 07:29 PM
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5 years at least.
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:23 PM
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In your case it worked, because didn't give you a no, she gave you a not yet. In that case, escalation is correct. In OPs case, she gave him a definite no, because he didnt have enough value to her. In that case, you need to make her chase you, showing interest when he is lower value than her, backfires. It works if you have more value than her, which was the case in your situation.
/r/seduction14/05/17 09:52 AM
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Just be unaffected and make her your wing girl.
/r/seduction14/05/17 09:44 AM
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Probably the worst thread on here this week. Breaking rapport is a technique that you should only use when the girl already likes you a lot and she knows you are joking. If you don't do this, all the good girls (the ones that are not crazy) will turn around and leave and the crazy bitches with daddy issues will love it and look forward to make your life very stressful for a couple of weeks.
/r/seduction14/05/17 07:20 AM
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You confessed feeling to a girl with little interest. That's why it backfired. What you can do is tease her and be quite a bit alpha with her next time, but still a bit friendly and cute. Make her chase you. :)
/r/seduction14/05/17 07:14 AM
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Sounds very redpill uncalibrated alpha. The thing is, he already chased her and she didnt like it. Chasing her more will her make him like even less. What he has to do is have her chase him through teasing mostly, but not through pursuing her more.
/r/seduction14/05/17 07:12 AM
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A couple assumptions here that I disagree with. I never assumed any of the 3 points you mentioned. They can still happen, but they will happen much more rarely as if the buying temperature is normal, which is the case if she hasn't seen you for several days. All in all, if you don't have good text game, you will only be able to meet girls that are already into you. If you have good text game, you will be able to also meet the girls that were neutral or not so much into you, because you can build…
/r/seduction13/05/17 02:48 PM
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You can do, it, but it prevents you from building a social circle and will make you feel bad about yourself in the long term, decepting people and yourself.
/r/seduction11/05/17 01:52 PM
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So while it's "possible," it's not very practical to bother with much texting besides setting up the in-person meetings that one can more easily have influence over. If you have good in-person game already, it is VERY practical to bother with learning texting, because the buying temperature is very high then when meeting her in person, so it's pretty hard to screw it up. If your in person game is bad, then there is no harm learning text game and in person game at the same time, since both have a…
/r/seduction11/05/17 01:24 PM
1

You're not considering the scenarios where the girl doesn't really find you that interesting yet you only likes you somewhat. In that case, it makes a big difference if you say "do you want" or "hmm should i invite to x" with a grin. "Do you want" is needy and comes from the sellers mindset, so you should not use that.
/r/seduction11/05/17 01:19 PM
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Q1 answer: You just need to do the Di Carlo escalation ladder, touch her arm, then elbow, shoulder, back etc. one after another. You can do that in the first few seconds brushing her arm, touching her elbow in the next minute, hugging her briefly after a few min banter etc. Q2: This doesn't make sense. Physical and verbal game is always intertwined, just go with the flow
/r/seduction11/05/17 01:12 PM
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So you were assuming that I thought you can escalate physically via text? I don't think I have to explain to you that there is verbal escalation and physical escalation. u/Woujo was saying that you just cannot. escalate. online. This statement is simply false. You can escalate via text very well, making her wet and her not stopping to think about you, all via text only. Hence, the statement that you cannot escalate online is just false and very misleading. It gives guys the impression that it is…
/r/seduction10/05/17 10:56 AM
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It makes up about 1/4 of your looks and looks make up 1/3 of your entire appeareance, so 1/12 is a good approximation.
/r/seduction09/05/17 10:04 PM
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This is just false. There are so many examples of guys escalating online and it's not even that hard. This guy for instance has numerous examples where he even escalates all the way, from Tinder match to sex, all online. https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-message-on-tinder-part-2/ So how can you say that you cannot escalate online? So untrue.
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:26 PM
1

Vulnerability is one of 10 things that are really important for a girl to see in the guy, but it's just 1 thing. There are many other things you need to get right too, so vulnerability is important but it is not that important. On the other hand, you do need vulnerability. If you want to attact a girl without being able to be vulnerable, it will be very hard.
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:17 PM
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Telling her she is cute is not bad though and perfect when her style is not particularly special. It's a compliment, but also a tease, since telling her she is cute puts her a bit in an inferior position. It means she is good looking, but also has a tad of a "you look pretty, but also young/immature/you habe lots to learn/i can teach you" vibe to it. :)
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:38 PM
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Girls are sexual beings just like men, maybe even more sexual. However, they can't show it because guys like you will tell them they're slutty. To rephrase your assumption, girls are not easy in general. They are "easy" when the guys has really good game, i.e. can make her comfortable and attracted at the same time, and is completely non-judgemental. You can even sleep with girls within 10 minutes if you're good and the situation is right. Stop judging girls for that. They are only human beings …
/r/seduction08/05/17 10:50 AM
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Hm, I used to do it like this, only saying hi and talk about logistics. However, this was a real turn off for the girl, no matter how good the interaction with her was, and my flake rates were really high. Then, I switched to exchanging a few punchy fun texts with her, you don't even need to say much, just a little banter and my flake rates improved a lot. Maybe from 70% flake to 20% flake only.
/r/seduction04/05/17 09:04 PM
1

These are the most common reasons for a girl to stop showing interest from my experiences There are many guys texting her, the one who excites her most will win She thinks you're not interested, because you're not showing enough interest, so she stops showing interest She wants to see if you are serious with her or if you give up if she doesn't do all the work She likes you, but does not feel attraction enough, so she sees what you do when she stops showing interest, will you be able to excite h…
/r/seduction04/05/17 06:27 PM
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I feel like this is true. He is really good looking. I think he's trying to see how little comfort or conversation girls need to have sex, in order to break down the basics of seduction. However. this only works for good looks, so the results are limited. Still interesting to see what components are crucial.
/r/seduction04/05/17 11:59 AM
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These are the most common reasons for a girl to stop showing interest from my experiences There are many guys texting her, the one who excites her most will win She thinks you're not interested, because you're not showing enough interest, so she stops showing interest She wants to see if you are serious with her or if you give up if she doesn't do all the work She likes you, but does not feel attraction enough, so she sees what you do when she stops showing interest, will you be able to excite h…
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:55 PM
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Don't use lines from /r/tinder, they are jokes. Instead tease her a little bit and make the opener personal. Secondly, for your pics, make sure that they are masculine. Often Indian guys, look like tiny little boys, that's really unattractive. Make sure you look like a man with style(without seeming to try to hard)
/r/seduction03/05/17 08:56 AM
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You must dismiss a negative shit test as if you didn’t hear it or as if it was a joke. You can “agree and amplify,” so if she says “you are cheap” you can respond “that’s because I only make 36 cents a year” or if she says “are you a player” you say “yes, you’re the 26th girl I’ve had sex with today.” Many men fail shit tests because they take her statement as one of genuine concern. Whether or not she is actually concerned is not important, it’s how you react to the anxiety she emits. If she ha…
/r/seduction02/05/17 08:00 PM
3

Kino escalation my friend.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:09 AM
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It sounds like she is just a bad person. Just next her, plenty of other girls, and behave as if nothing ever happened. Don't let her behaviour affect you. :)
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:09 AM
2

Possible, but harder than with a business degree. Any of the above mentioned degrees are fine to start a business as well, but might need some extra start up time. Starting a business without any degree will take longer start up time and probably 2 years of failure first. But still not impossible. :) Having a degree gives you structured work frameworks and enables you to see whats relevant.
/r/seduction30/04/17 11:46 PM
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Don't try to get rich quick, that ends up with you being in debt and/or scammed pretty quick and you losing all your money. Instead, if you want to get rich, get a STEM, Business, law, psychology or medical degree so that you earn $200,000-$500,000/year. These degrees also give you tools to start a business on the side if you want to get really rich.
/r/seduction30/04/17 01:54 PM
1

Cold approaching is pretty much the hardest discipline in seduction, especially at your age it's hard. But now imagine how your cold approaches will be in 2 years, 5 years, 10 years. Steady practice . :)
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:10 PM
1

Write more assertive/alpha and stop using question marks, they make you sound very inquisitive/beta.
/r/seduction28/04/17 09:09 PM
2

Very good. Next time, more kino escalation.
/r/seduction27/04/17 06:58 PM
1

Selection Bias. The difference between guy A and guy B is not that A is friendly and B is aloof. It's that B makes her chase him and uses push and pull. The scenario would work out the same if guy B made her chase him and used push and pull, but was super friendly, playful and nice.
/r/seduction27/04/17 09:58 AM
1

Thr natural lifestyles and love systems also.
/r/seduction26/04/17 11:11 AM
1

Instead, try to make 10 girls really aroused and your problem will be solved. :)
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:27 AM
1

She might cheat, she might also tell you that she really likes you and break up with her boyfriend beforehand, because she wasn't happy anyway.
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:23 AM
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Dont care, keep escalating. If she has a boyfriend, she might not be super happy and might think about breaking up. Your job is to simply escalate and not worry about thousands of possibilities. If she rejects you, fine, next. :)
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:38 AM
1

You can reinitiatr contact with her again that you want to see her and ask her how she is going, then talk about if she only wants to see you if you're in a relationship with her, and only then. Maybe she is open to it again, maybe not at all. You can also tell her that you really like her but that also she is too young for you to be in a relationship with and if she understands that. If she does not want, leave her be, she is also quite young so she might not be interested in that.
/r/seduction24/04/17 08:25 AM
2

Word! 👍🏻😉
/r/seduction23/04/17 02:32 PM
15

Just tell her if she wants to get to know you better, she can do that in person and dont respond until she agrees.
/r/seduction23/04/17 02:30 PM
2

Not ask her, talk to her and her friends. You need to be able to hold a conversation, build rapport and build attraction, make her want you before asking someone out. Take your time, it doesn't have to happen all in the same day.
/r/seduction23/04/17 09:34 AM
5

Before you ask her, strike up a casual conversation with her, so that she knows who you are before you ask her out for a coffee. You need to build a bit of rapport and attraction before asking her out, otherwise it will seem quite awkward for the girl.
/r/seduction23/04/17 07:43 AM
2

Instead of being really funny around 60% of the time, be really funny 15% of the time, normal 40% of the time, 10% mysterious, 5% cocky funny, nonverbal the rest. That should solve your problem. If you are funny 4 times less than you are now and your jokes are good now, you will only use the best jokes in the future, which means you will be a lot more funny. Make it a rarer event that you are funny, that automatically makes it more valuable. Make the girl work for you to be funny.
/r/seduction22/04/17 10:55 PM
0

Stop any contact if you realize you are frienzoned Better: Know that you have to turn up "alphaness" and tease her more. Most guys don't know that you shouldn't tease a girl that likes you more than you her much and that you need to tease a girl that likes you less than you her a lot more and be more alpha. Even more so, I'm often quite playful and cute, just for her to give me some rejection and then switch to alpha and cocky/funny. Really strong to build attraction and daves a lot of time. 👍🏻
/r/seduction22/04/17 10:49 PM
3

Not by being threatening. Just build rapport. escalate and lead and you're good to go.
/r/seduction22/04/17 02:24 PM
2

Being calm/laid back isn't the best way to attract women in general. It's ok, but you can improve results by being a bit more playful. :)
/r/seduction22/04/17 07:45 AM
1

She isn't against casual datingr in general, she is against casual dsting with you. Bad text game was your mistake. If you'd write her texts that make her crack up and tease her well and she has to laugh all the time, she would love to see you for anything. Text her the next day Hey whats up is the worst opener. It's hard to reply and not fun at all. You need to write texts that force a text reaction and make her laugh. Best is to write something short with callback humour. "Hey little lion, hop…
/r/seduction21/04/17 07:32 AM
2

Agree with every single point. 👍🏻
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:29 PM
1

You can also build a bit of rapport with saying hi hi, giving a hug, kino, qualification. Then quickly get the number. I wasn't DJing though. :)
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:58 AM
3

Very good on the techniques, but bad at staying real. Banging a married woman is going to fuck up her whole life, just for getting your dick wet. Yes, you aroused her, but that doesn't mean she isn't happy in her marriage or that she doesn't love her husband. Those things are not mutually exclusive at all. Many guys that get into pua lose touch of reality, because all their life they have been losers and have only gotten rejection by women, now finally have some power over them and justify it th…
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:43 AM
1

Yes, just go to the beah with the car and listen to the radio and chat. Definitely escalate verbally and physically, be flirt, be cute. :) Work on arousing her slowly, touch her. See if you can kiss her somewhere within the first 60 minutes somewhere (cheek, forehead etc.). This prepares for the real kiss later. When you try to kiss her later, she might not want it yet. Try again later, women appreciate forwardness when they already like someone. 👍🏻😊
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:35 AM
2

Yes, you shouldn't be the one confessing your feelings first. Often, girls can't handle that. Next time after sex, say again that you like spending time with her. Let her say it too. Then say, maybe you should be together with a smile, as if you're making an assertion. Be fine with it, when she says she isn't sure and don't expect her to say yes immediately. If she doesn't say yes, don't let it affect you and just keep being your positive self and tease her a bit and be lovey dovey with her. :) …
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:31 AM
1

Money adds to status. Status can be The most popular guy at high school The party organizer Ceo of a large company Senior position within the company Celebrity, also minor celebrity (actor, star, singer, artist) College degree also always adds some status Driving an expensive car Having an iPhone also is a bit of status and there are lots of small and bigger things that add to status.
/r/seduction18/04/17 08:30 AM
3

Maybe maybe, gather the data! :)
/r/seduction17/04/17 06:31 PM
1

Wrong. If you have average looks and outstanding game you can get a very hot gf. If you have average looks, average game, but high status, you can get a very hot gf.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:25 PM
2

You became needy. She still likes you though. Escalate again and sleep with her. Don't be needy again. Be less invested than her, bust just slightly less. Learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:24 PM
1

It's a good method, maybe it will give you 40% response rate. In day game, maybe you get a 60% response rate over all approaches. Test it out. :)
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:21 PM
1

You don't need to worry much about building attraction or value so much. because you already habe a lot of social proof as DJ. You need to worry about comfort. So, when a girl comes up, focus on building rapport, qualification, getting to know her a bit, teasing her, kino. Since you're at work, make sure you get her number and meet another day. 👍🏻
/r/seduction17/04/17 10:14 AM
3

If she likes him, it's romantic. If she doesn't like him, it's stalky. If she is neutral, it's a bit stalky but also romantic. :)
/r/seduction17/04/17 09:40 AM
3

Very good, now just don't be too needy! Keep playing the she's too young card, now in a playful way of course. Young girls have the fantasy of banging an older dude and it makes them really horny. But at first, don't be too playful in the beginning. Just be rather calm and friendly now, and let her invest a bit more in you. Don't become to lovey dovey too quickly, otherwise her fantasy will collapse. Have her have the fantasy and live it out a bit. :)
/r/seduction17/04/17 09:38 AM
1

Did you grab her tits and between her legs? She was definitely aroused a bit, but probably not enough. She was probably lacking some superiority/manliness/alphaness from you. You probably should have also teased her more. It should have happened that she wanted to sleep with you and you were so good that she asked you for your number instead of you for hers. :)
/r/seduction16/04/17 11:02 AM
2

Certain mistakes. You should have Let her chase you more. When she made out with you, you should have escalated and then say, oh we have to stop now. This is going a bit fast. Then escalate again. Escalated more. She was definitely attracted to you but did not end up getting aroused by, because you did not grab her ass, her tits, have her feel your cock. Her mindset going in this was to have a good time, but when she didn't end up getting aroused 15 mins in, she just left it at making out. This …
/r/seduction16/04/17 10:59 AM
1

Kino, compliment, teasing, eye contact. You can do all of those things in an alpha way and in a cute way. :) For shy girls keep the ratio 10%/90%, for very hot girls 25%/75%.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:12 PM
1

She is attracted to you, however, she is missing the manliness part still. It's not that hard though, just be a bit rough and loud. :)
/r/seduction15/04/17 09:00 PM
1

No, not universally. If the girl is shy or she likes you more than you like her, be less alpha. If the girl is very hot and isn't impressed by you that much, you need to step up the alpha. :)
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:59 PM
2

In short, Build rapport Tease her Make her chase you Tell her that he's thinking if she should take her number with a smirk while being really friendly. :)
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:34 PM
1

Because you failed the "rejection shit-test". If you had taken the "rejection" with amusement and became even more manly, grabbing her, telling her that she is being so cheeky today, throwing her around (not too much of course). But no harm no foul, you can up the alpha now and just keep going. She is looking for some manliness now from you, not just the friendly nice cuddle guy.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:30 PM
1

Which is also approaching. Approaching isn't only cold approaching.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:27 AM
5

Your game seems quite crude still. But this is normal for only 1 year in game. Keep reading good material, keep allroaching, analyze your mistakes and really work on calibration.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:09 AM
2

He's tried 3 times and was rejected. That is not trying. He has to try 100 times. This is the only thing he has to do. All of us had to go through the same valley of rejection, that's what I'm telling him.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:07 AM
5

Blablabla. This is what you're doing wrong My two years in college, no girl has ever made the first move with me, no girl initiated, no girl complimented on my looks, and no girl ever showed interest in me A woman never initiates, it is very rare. It's your job as a man. You said you have read this sub for 4 years, but you seem to not do what every guy here says. Approach, approach approach. Once you have approached 300 girls, gone on 60 dates, made out with 20, and slept with a few, but still h…
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:10 PM
2

The only text to set up dates rule is really outdated. Don't overtext and have her text more than you, but do text. Of course, aim to meet her in person, but nothing wrong about texting frequently.
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:22 PM
2

Yes, because much of what puas or coaches say is simply false or only applies in very specific situations. They often use controversial theories to get more attention/clicks/sales, even though the theories themselves are bs.
/r/seduction13/04/17 05:23 PM
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Well, this is a not a value shit test or something, but a comfort shit test. If you react negatively to it, she knows that you "only want to fuck her", which is fucking annoying to women. It also shows that you are rather desperate for sex and haven't had sex in a longer time. If you don't react negatively to it, she knows that you don't "only want to fuck her" and that you might be interested in more than just fucking and that you are not desperate for sex, since you probably have sex frequentl…
/r/seduction13/04/17 04:17 PM
1

There was a very similar thread a few days ago here. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/63kio1/what_makes_a_girl_think_i_want_to_fuck_this_guy/
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:24 AM
3

Write notes and check the theories with real life. If you have experiences to back up the theories or to refute them, then they are written in your memory.
/r/seduction13/04/17 07:42 AM
1

You are right in everything you write. You shouldn't escalate more when you cannot see her, because then attraction will decline and your words will lose excitement. You NEED to see her! If you cannot see her, drop the communication to a minimum and let her want to see you. If she doesn't want to see you, go see other people, otherwise you're wasting you energy.
/r/seduction13/04/17 07:39 AM
1

Hey thanks for taking your time to respond, I just saw it now. Could you give your point of view on the other points I gave him feedback on? They are pretty fundamental to my game, so if they are really wrong, it's important for me to know.
/r/seduction13/04/17 07:29 AM
2

Just tell her she is cute next time you're sitting with her and be touchy playful from the beginning. Everything will be natural then. :)
/r/seduction12/04/17 09:22 PM
1

Yes. If your colleagues see it too often they might tell your boss if they're asshole, so you might lose your job if the boss is also dumb. But you can always get another job at the next subway, just don't tell them that you worked there before and got fired . ;)
/r/seduction11/04/17 09:53 PM
1

/u/recyclablebanthas is my advice really so bad that I am a troll? I'm always trying to give thoughtful and calibrated advice. Not sure what to so anymore
/r/seduction09/04/17 12:50 PM
1

The bar for getting the number is not that high. She needs to finds you somewhat attractive and you need to be confident when talking to her, that's all you need. If she doesn't find you attractive, she won't. If she does, she will.
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:48 PM
1

Some truths in here, but many without enough calibration. First, don't harass women when they are at work. You are not harassing a girl at work by asking her out. I have asked out girls at work multiple times. Sometimes they were so happy that I did, sometimes they were not interested. No one cares. If you don't have a prior history with her, it's very rude to just walk up to her and try to get her number. It's not rude. He also has prior history with her. It wouldn't be rude without history. Yo…
/r/seduction08/04/17 11:33 AM
2

It could be because you are more emotionally invested than the girl. Next time, let her subtly understand that you aren't looking for much more than sex and just hanging out right now, but still be super sweet to her and cuddle a lot. Let her be the one to ask you to be in a relationship. :)
/r/seduction08/04/17 09:13 AM
1

Because you asked her on a date. She said maybe. Then you asked if she is up or not and she did not reply. Then you're sending a second text as a last text that is a bit more entertaining, that gives her something to chase. (the one i gave you)
/r/seduction06/04/17 11:08 PM
1

Yes. So, is today the day you'll finally see me again. 😁
/r/seduction06/04/17 11:03 PM
2

If she shows disinterest, BACK OFF AND BREAK RAPPORT INSTANTLY! BE GROUNDED AND UNREACTIVE! I know my worth. I am more handsome and in a better shape than any of them. I speak multiple languages. I practice Martial Arts. She doesn't like me? She doesn't like my looks and what I have to offer? IT'S ALL GOOD. IT'S HER PROBLEM. THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHERS WHO DO. I will laugh at her choosing that worthless guy to copulate with over me.* You need to get rid of all the negativity you still carry in al…
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:48 PM
1

You weren't creating enough attraction after your make out through text. Write her: "So, is today the day you'll finally see me again." 😏 She kind of rejected you, so you can be a bit cocky. Whatever she replies to the text, from now on you can tease her that she wants to see you again and how you can make it happen. ;)
/r/seduction06/04/17 07:51 PM
1

Just ask her: "Why do you think that" with a smile and watch her justify herself. She probably didn't mean it and just teased you. But you were intimidated and this failed the test. But who cares, just tease her back next time ;)
/r/seduction06/04/17 01:54 PM
2

Every second comment you write is about how you don't get the girl because other guys look better. It's one of the most fundamental concepts of pickup, that you cannot give looks the excuse. Yes, looks do matter, but only that much. Many good looking guys don't get girls because they have no game. Many not good looking guys get many girls because they have good game.
/r/seduction06/04/17 09:20 AM
4

Friend of mine met her boyfriend there. He contacted her.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:48 AM
2

As long as you still have a huge heart, you are completely fine. Few men know how to appeal to a woman's sexual instincts, and you are giving them the time of your lifes. As I said, as long as you care about the woman, and you don't become an asshole or douchebag to her, even inprove your sexual techniques, women will love it.
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:08 PM
32

You need to learn how to hold eye contact and be comfortable in the tension, very essential
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:04 PM
0

Only guys with bad text game in here. Just write a small comment on her snap like. "Haha nice, do you this often? :P" or "Haha, where did you learn that, are you an athlete/gymnast etc" Something that forces a gut reaction. Your goal is only to get one text back. Once you do, qualify her a bit, make her laugh and finally tell her to go meet to do something, best if it's related to what she likes doing." That's your formula for this. :)
/r/seduction04/04/17 10:46 AM
2

Let's go on a proper date today :)
/r/seduction04/04/17 10:42 AM
1

No problem at all with an open relationship. Just see her as a person in your life who you are close with. You are close with maybe 10 people at all times. Thats something beautiful .
/r/seduction03/04/17 08:15 PM
1

This is way too much black and white thinking. If a girl breaks up with you, you will not think about if you've done anything wrong? Like Being too cocky Teasing her too often Being too negative with her Not cheering her up when she feels down, since she should figure her shit by herself Saying too many negative things about her friends, what they are saying wrong Always thinking that you are always right even though you evidently were wrong more often than not Not giving her the feeling that yo…
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:02 PM
3

Instantly. This os the agreed rule in seduction. Instantly write a text, It was nice meeting you today. :) The longer you wait, the leess she feels comfortable.
/r/seduction03/04/17 03:28 AM
3

The answer is, only if she is already very into you. If she isn't, it will put too much pressure on her and she will flake.
/r/seduction02/04/17 10:57 PM
1

Pretty much. Normally, a woman gets most attraction by knowing you for longer and the attraction for you growing slowly. However, this requires really good game, which is why most guys land in the friend zone with the slow approach and the fast approch yields better results. Furthermore, an abprut switch from friend to lover backfires often, because there is no attraction for the girl. That's different to a woman you just met who is often attracted initially because of the mystery. You don't hav…
/r/seduction02/04/17 09:24 PM
1

You're making the transition here from friend to lover. The difference to a friend is that you will tease her and escalate. Even if she rejects it at first or feels surprised, keep escalating positively. :)
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:28 PM
1

Yes be unrealistic, but also be realistic. This is quite a bit too much black and white thinking. Don't think you can get that girls number, just by asking her without building some comfort. Be realistic. Don't think you can make a million dollars by next year. Be realistic, get a degree first, fail once or twice and then maybe you have that million dollars. Be realistic.
/r/seduction02/04/17 02:37 PM
1

which manual
/r/seduction02/04/17 12:16 PM
1

Just invite both. Later on you can invite her alone, she wont think of anything sinxe she has gotten lunch with you before. You can escalate there or you can escalate on a social event that is later in the evening. Among college students it's common to go to parties or social happening together.
/r/seduction02/04/17 08:59 AM
1

Just tell her lets go to lunch. Nothing special about that. Just say it as if it's natural. Classmates go to lunch together all the time. Also, you can take a few other people with you, just keep it casual and keep escalating. :)
/r/seduction01/04/17 11:07 PM
1

It takes some time to build attraction over text. It can already be after 10 messages or after 200, it really depends. But in general, you should find out about her, qualify her a bit, tease her a bit.
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:49 PM
1

Do you not study together for exams or go for lunch or go to parties together?
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:37 PM
3

Bad texting destroys attraction. I have gotten girls so horny over texts, they couldn't wait to see me. It takes some time to learn.
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:48 PM
1

Next time you see her, treat it as if nothing happened. Furthermore, add some alphaness and teases. Your value is now slightly lower because she cancelled on you and you asked her out, so you are now allowed to be a bit more alpha without it being weird. Then after a week or two, you can drop something like, well if you want to ask me out again, you'll now really have to put in the effort. ;) Flip the script, as if she is pursuing you. She is interested, but not so much, so you asking her out ga…
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:42 PM
1

Don't ask her out out of the blue, otherwise the likelihood for rejection is high. Build attraction first for a week or two. How? Kino! Touch her arm, hug her when you can. Talk about deeper topics. Tease her See if she flirts with you. Start slowly After you've done those things, don't ask her out officially. Just tell her to hang somewhere and everything should be natural. At some point, pull the trigger and kiss her. Don't wait too long for the kiss. If she rejects it, don't be affected, keep…
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:37 PM
2

Your texts are not bad, but they would only work if there is a lot of attraction already. For that reason, if there is not so much attraction yet, learn to build attraction first through texts, through really innocent teases and playfulness. Do not try to be alpha or boss before you have attraction and once you have attraction, start slowly with it. All in all, it sounds like you are starting to get a feeling for what works, but some things are not yet calibrated. Work on calibration and I belie…
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:29 PM
2

Yes, this creates a lot of comfort. However, there is one thing you did wrong. When you say it's too soon, take a quick break, cuddle with her, but let her convince you to have sex. Hard orgasms guaranteed. :)
/r/seduction01/04/17 03:37 PM
1

It's neither, it is creepy.
/r/seduction01/04/17 03:34 PM
3

Why the snark? Are you not here trying to learn and broaden your horizon? Those were not paid actresses, but a guy who knew how rapid escalation works and a girl who was in the mood for it.
/r/seduction01/04/17 02:39 PM
1

No, never heard of rapid escalation? 10%-20% of the girls love it. :) Also, Mystery said you need to spend 7 hours with a girl and then you can sleep with her, so that's still same day. It's also possible within 5 minutes. Seen lots of field reports where guys pulled it off and had 20 min lays myself.
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:08 AM
1

Next time, maybe you should escalate within a day, a week is quite too long!
/r/seduction01/04/17 08:32 AM
1

Direct game works very rarely. That's why qualification is much better . :)
/r/seduction31/03/17 10:45 PM
1

Lots of false advice here, especially the "Agree and amplify". This not a value shit test, but a comfort shit test. Just tell her "Well I have a lot of female friends (real social proof here here), but for being more than just friends, there are several things that a girl really needs. I'm quite picky when it comes to that. Then she will ask what those things are and you can say intelligence, spontenaeity, a special connection and then you can have her qualify to all of those things. That's how …
/r/seduction31/03/17 09:41 PM
1

Flip it. Tell her that she is your best friend also now and hug her often, write with her since you are best friends, touch her often. The add sometimes that you like her and that you can cuddle but only as friends, tease her a bit with that. Be really touchy, but in a light way. After a week or two of that she will become quite attached. Be alpha at the same time (without being an asshole or douche bag, just a bit loud, fun, leading, assertive) That will do it. ;)
/r/seduction29/03/17 10:26 PM
1

I agree!
/r/seduction28/03/17 11:04 AM
5

Do not talk about R.A.P.E., talk about F.O.R.D.
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:06 PM
1

why the sarcasm all the time.
/r/seduction27/03/17 08:19 PM
1

And personal connection, right?
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:23 PM
1

I meant if you're going to mention statistics, hyperlink to the source of those statistics. ;) Describing them is just hearsay. It is the elections themselves! :D But they didn't. I just told you. Most of the people who went to the thread, were with you and the other dissenting opinions against the post! How were the top three or so upvoted comments dissenting opinions against the post, if people were adopting its ideas? Answer: they weren't adopting those ideas blindly. Or your comments would h…
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:44 AM
2

Ask for the number after the first high point after 2 minutes of talking with her. That's not too soon.
/r/seduction27/03/17 09:58 AM
4

Reasons for her not wanting to talk. She really is busy She has sex with another guy and feels bad about talming to other guys She's on her period Her cat died Her uncle died She just is in a depressed mood She doesn't know how to pay rent this month She just got rejected from a job she really wanted Her girlfriend cancelled on her Her girlfriend betrayed her As you can see there are millions of reasosn why a girl suddenly is weird. Women become very emotional sometimes. It's almost never your f…
/r/seduction26/03/17 04:56 PM
1

There is nothing more that women hate than to find out that you are a player. It destroys all comfort. This also goes into pre-selection. As soon as you flaunt it, you will lose the woman. However, if you play it down that other women want you, women will become incredibly interested in you.
/r/seduction26/03/17 11:27 AM
1

Tell her, hey I'm sorry if I was mean to you. I thought about it and I've somehow realized that I really care for you. Then tell her to come meet to talk it out and then be really friendly to her and escalate to sex.
/r/seduction26/03/17 11:25 AM
1

Have you tried to also let go of everything for a while. It's a good way to come out of plateau. So, for half a year, just let go of all the seduction, self-improvement and just do what you like, chill, don't force anything. You can still try some game on girl, but just do it for fun. Don't have a goal in mind, just enjoy the process.
/r/seduction26/03/17 11:23 AM
1

Yes you have to have a conversation. Asking her out out of the blue will give you the lowest success rate.
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:31 AM
1

Kino my friend
/r/seduction25/03/17 10:34 PM
1

Try it out. If you can really be the alpha and arouse while being a really good person, they cannot contain themselves You can even flaunt being such a good guy. ;)
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:47 PM
1

Not being an asshole and abundance mentality, not giving a fuck are not mutually exclusive. It's easier to do them while being an asshole, however, not being an asshole and still doing those things is the real art and it gets you more girls.
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:54 PM
1

If you want to quote statistics like percentages, I'd suggest you find a citation for it, otherwise it's not real. Doing your own research is good because learning is good. In any case, you're ignoring the success of the thread. Most people were on your side. And yet you still think the outcome was bad? The statistic is basically a very large study, namely that 50% voted for trump, 49% voted for the right wing populistic candidate in Austria, 60%+ of Turks approve of Erdogan. That means that 50%…
/r/seduction25/03/17 11:00 AM
1

Thanks for your response. However, there is real harm from bad ideas. Censoring ideas prevents people from recognizing bad advice because they never encounter a conversation that reveals how bad a piece of advice is. If you hear too often that other races are inferior, vaccines cause autism, gay people are bad etc. a significant portion will believe it especially if they're young. A significant portion of people, at least 30%, maybe even 50% cannot discern facts well and believe emotional or pop…
/r/seduction24/03/17 10:10 PM
1

With great power comes great responsibility. :)
/r/seduction24/03/17 09:53 PM
5

That's like the main thing of the game. The solution is to be a really good person who gives the women the bad boy, but just for fun, because he knows ok women like bad boy, like "I can give you the bad boy, it's silly, but I know it really arouses you, so i'm giving you the bad boy, but I'm a good person. I can be lovely and cute, but I will also give you the bad boy if you need him. :)" Be a good person, but one that knows how to escalate relentlessly if needed and one who gives women that pri…
/r/seduction24/03/17 11:25 AM
1

Yes. :)
/r/seduction23/03/17 10:49 PM
1

Hey, still waiting for your response!
/r/seduction23/03/17 02:22 PM
2

No. 😄
/r/seduction22/03/17 11:26 AM
1

The Ultimate Guide to text and phone game is the best resource out there pretty much.
/r/seduction22/03/17 10:26 AM
2

Ambiguity, Misinterpretation, pauses and teasing are 4 main techniques that you can look up. 👍🏻
/r/seduction22/03/17 10:14 AM
3

Um no, you can build strong attraction through texting. You should text girls, if not the guy who has good text game will get the girl and you won't.
/r/seduction22/03/17 10:10 AM
1

Yes, you're right. I'll try to lay out my points more structured. However, my post was not that aggressive as you pointed it out to be. I did not attack OP personally, I pointed out the flaws of his content, however, not himself. The last line about why he might have views like this was personal, however, there were no 9 personal attacks, those points were about what he wrote, not about his person.
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:55 AM
2

Can we not do something about this. Woujo is handing out incredibly bad advice and is telling seddit subscribers that they are fucking creeps for pursuing women. Do you really want this type of content in seddit? The thing is, it is getting upvoted, because it has the whole "fucking shit, just be an alpha" vibe to it, which resonates strongly with insecure guys who makeup a big part of this subreddit. However, do you really want to teach this to the guys. Or do you want to teach that you can be …
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:16 PM
3

Fractionation...just say push and pull, no need to introduce new terminology for something that is already described. All in all, push and pull is just saying something slightly positive and slightly negative in the same sentence. The emphasis is on slightly, if your negative element is only a bit too strong, the whole thing fails. The second way is to make her a compliment, but not give her the full compliment or to take the compliment away again a bit. Examples are Ah, you're a bit cute Haha I…
/r/seduction21/03/17 10:22 AM
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Ah it's Woujo at it again with outdated game concepts, lots of black and white thinking and uncalibrated advice. Somehow you're still stuck in old school game from 2010 or you still read redpill which leads to uncalibrated advice. I'll try to lay it out what points are correct and which are false. Hope you get value out of it. 2 points are true. Women are much less scared if you have other options Stating your intent is appreciated by women. Do not be ashamed of showing interest. However, don't …
/r/seduction19/03/17 02:39 PM
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Those are th easiest. Just be a complete alpha for fun, tease her, push and pull, and you can also do hard qualification, which normal girls would instantly get scared by. Basically, you can, you must be like the PUAs taught everyone, because their game is tailored to girls exactly like this, L.A. cheerleader. ;)
/r/seduction18/03/17 01:42 PM
1

This is true! :)
/r/seduction16/03/17 03:56 PM
1

Girls will often reject a kiss even if they want it to see your reaction or because they need to feel more comfortable. They really appreciate the gesture though, it earns their respect and all that matters is your reaction. Your reaction should be unaffected, it did nkt change your state in any way, you stay fun lighthearted, unaffected and you understand that she needs more comfort. You see it as a little challenge. :)
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:40 PM
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Go to club, be a complete alpha, talk with all the girls in the club, be fun, lead, be assertive. 1 or 2 nights out and you will get laid (toilet room laid).
/r/seduction14/03/17 04:37 PM
1

Instead, have the mindset to build really strong attraction. Everything else will follow. ;)
/r/seduction13/03/17 09:47 AM
1

Teasing her, teaching her something or making her laugh, are pretty much all of value text that there are. :) One more is sexualizing successfully but those are a bit more difficult, basically you start off with misinterpretation and ambiguity and escalate slowly. :)
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:57 AM
3

You need to escalate physically and verbally from the first minute on, step by step, that's all. :)
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:56 PM
2

You can actually not be too nice as long as you're stating your intent and escalate. If you're being alpha by escalating and embracing rejection while still being nice, women are very impressed by that.
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:55 PM
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A lot of women never initiate, it's the man's job. Do initiate with value offering texts, by teasing her, explaining something or making her laugh. Do not initiate with value-drawing texts, such as "How are you", " How was your day". They are hard to respond to and force the other person to think about something funny/interesting.
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:52 PM
1

I was talking about emotional decision making, not the rejection. Of course, if a girl is annoyed by you and tells you to get f*ed, you should not pursue her, however, most rejections are really small and a lot of guys give up when the girl gives them just a small rejection.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:59 PM
1

It's one of the basic fundamentals of this subreddit, nothing sexist about it. Stop labelling everything as sexist when women are men are not 100% the same.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:31 PM
1

Girls know what they want. You really don't know what you're talking about. If you had more experience you would know that girls decide in the moment and decide with emotion and not with logic. They decide for one thing and tomorrow for the opposite depending om how they feel. Get out and get experience before you spread more of wrong advice.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:01 PM
1

Woujo, I appreciate your feedback, however, with this mindset your results are very low. Any woman will reject you multiple times before sleeping with you, if you just give up the first time, you will only get the easy girls with low standards and low value, however, not the hottie who all guys want to get with and who rejects all guys by default. Your advice is limited to girls that have rejected you several times, then it is time to move on. However, I have been rejected/rebuffed 10 times by a…
/r/seduction11/03/17 04:42 PM
1

Go get her! 😉
/r/seduction11/03/17 12:34 PM
2

Not at all. If she is not into you she will laugh and maybe deny it. You can just keep teasing her in a not serious way that she is into you. That's how flirty banter works. A woman always rejects a guy to see if he is confident and high value enough to still think that he is really attractive. She will reward the man that is willing to plow through rejection and to not lose frame. Either way, it can only get better than what the situation is right now. :)
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:51 AM
0

text her: "No, as potential lovers. I know you're into me a bit 😁" Either she realizes that she is a bit or she laughs and you need to be a bit more persistent. Nothing to lose. :) If she asks why you think she is into you, you can just say ahh, the way you look at me always, tells me 😉 You need to keep the frame of her being into you, also if she doesn't accept it yet. Keep it fun and playful. :)
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:38 AM
1

It sounds like you only grab her by the waist without playing around before, making her laugh, flirting, telling her that she likes you, that you like her. telling her that she should stop flirting with you, could that be?
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:38 PM
1

Oh really good! Then you have to overcome the "shy/awkward" Asian dude prejudice that some girls have. Best to accomplish this, is to be playful, comfortable and not afraid to touch girls (di carlo escalation ladder-wise), and not having any expectations at all, not being needy at all, and being a bit oblivious when the girl becomes a bit enamoured by your behaviour as in "oh, I didn't know you were thinking of me like that, I was just playing around". If girls see that other girls are so comfor…
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:15 PM
1

If you're a short Asian, you need to be real boss, fun, touchy, cheeky and playful. Ohh stop it! hugging her for 2 secs Haha you really like me. 😄 But i like you too a bit. But you still like me more. 😉 You can say that on almost every occasion when you are bantering with a girl. Always pretend as if she's chasing you for fun, keep it light and fun. Once one girl is a bit hooked, then start becoming more real, do some fine qualification, do kino, hug her more often, kiss her on the cheek, become…
/r/seduction10/03/17 10:25 AM
2

Wouno is a virgin still, so he has a bit of a biased view of sexualization. Innuendos are not that tricky and do not require a lot of emotional intelligence. You just need to make a subtle comment that says that she is the aggressor. That's all. :)
/r/seduction10/03/17 09:14 AM
1

It's never good to tell the woman that she is beautiful, because after that there is nothing to chase for her anymore. Also, it makes her uncomfortable often. ecause she knows that she is not that beautiful without her makeup or that she thinks that the dents in her legs are not beautiful. Furthermore, it sets expectations very high, which makes her uncomfortable. Cute does not set any expectations and it still flattering, while it is also a bit of a tease sometimes when the woman is very hot an…
/r/seduction09/03/17 11:16 PM
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All of them are bad to say to a hot girl, because she hears it everyday and gets creeped out by it, except adorable and cute. Stunning, only works for a girl who is rather cute but with awesome style. Gorgeous, for a girl who looks a bit down Beautiful, too much for all girl Pretty, too boring Adorable, good for most gurls except the ones that are actually adorable Cute, the best. Works for cute girls and really hot girls as a slight neg
/r/seduction09/03/17 04:00 PM
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She was, since she was already making out with him. The only thing that turned her off was the needy text game. Flip that to fun and awesome text game and she is heads over heels again.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:16 AM
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Fuck this mindset. You just need good text game. I turned around the dynamics for lots of beta guys before. 😄 Write her: Hey, how was your week. Did you miss me?😁😁 You just need to write her entertaining, value offering messages with some slight teases, not the bullshit." Hey, whats up?" It doesn't go more boring...
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:40 PM
1

way too literal. this can be your mindset, but you need to convey it much more natural. Oh so what do you do in life now. So...are you like most young girls?
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:10 PM
1

You can start a little in the theater, maybe she already cant hold it together anymore and is groping you in the theater already. Otherwise, do it afterwards. Btw, it should be like this with all girls, that she is chasing you. With this one, it's just much easier. ;)
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:28 AM
2

Put your hand on her leg and then pull it away 2 secs later with a huge grin. Have her escalate on you, you can flip the roles since she is much older. Make fun with her that she is teaching you and you can learn so much from her. This will make her incredibly horny, it's a strong fantasy. Then just go to the movies. :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 07:29 AM
1

👍🏻👍🏻, what are your favourites
/r/seduction07/03/17 07:26 AM
1

Keep it rather resevered in the beginning, since she has class with you. It's not a girl you met in a club and who doesn't know anyone who knows you. So, on the date, qualify her, make her chase you and escalate physically a little. If she likes it escalate further. :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:37 AM
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You: Thanks, sooo was that a compliment? :) Her: Haha yes I guess so You: Hmm, so my dreads are the only thing you like about me? :)) Her: Hahah blush, haha no you are also cute You: Haha, thanks ...but whyyy am I cute though! Her:blush blush oh I dont know I cant say. You: Haha ok, I think i like you know. 😁😁 Her: blush blush
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:35 AM
1

Qualification is what you're looking for.
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:32 AM
3

She is definitely attracted to you. Instead of movies (sucks for a date), suggest something else, more fun like checking out something in the city. However, don't try to be alpha with her. You are already higher value than her, because you're so young and she is already older. She likes to have you for her "oh-he-is-so-young-and-cute-i-deserve-an-adventure"-fantasy. Just lead a few times and that's enough, but let her chase you! :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:31 AM
1

This is ok, but very uncalibrated. That's why you don't have to start with a perverted comment. Instead, you start of non sexual, add ambiguity and then misinterpretation and there you go. You start small and keep escalating, this is nothing new.
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:28 AM
3

Um no. You don't have to be edgy to get a girl. You just have to be not boring and escalate, no need for edginess, just build a bit rapport and escalate like a man. :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:26 AM
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Whats the big deal, just escalate hard, give her a taste of your kino, grab her. She'll either get horny or has to tell you to stop, with the consequence that she knows that she wont get attention from you anymore.
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:37 AM
2

I don't know, but now I feel tempted to check it out online since this college student mentioned it. Especially now that he's written something about Instagram, which is a new cool app, it sounds like that I need to know about it!
/r/seduction04/03/17 05:25 PM
1

Sure, what I mean is that guys without game get a girlfriend through social circle and that girl is slightly less good looking than them. But that's how guys without game get a girl. If you want a girl that is really hot if you're only average, you need good game or high status. Makes sense? :)
/r/seduction04/03/17 09:24 AM
2

Once you learn that a woman will reject you 5 times before she will sleep with you, you understand that rejection is a vital part of the game and women only want to sleep with the guy who can wade through the rejection and still make it happen. 90% of rejection is "it's too early, I do not feel attracted enough or comfortable enough yet". Only a small percentage is "Gah just leave me alone, you're not my type at all or you don't have enough status, I would never date you"
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:22 PM
1

Ambiguity and misintepretation. :)
/r/seduction03/03/17 03:24 PM
5

Hey, I structured your questions with answers from 5+ years of xp. Hope it helps. :) 0-7s girls are often sexually frustrated, 7-10s girls that are not shallow are sometimes sexually frustrated. 7-10 girls that are rather shallow are rarely sexually frustrated, they just get a jock who is a bit of an asshole and there you go Women talk about sex all the time, they just can't let men know about it, so that they don't look like a slut Some people like a lot of sex, some people don't like a lot of …
/r/seduction03/03/17 03:21 PM
1

Whatever, semantics.
/r/seduction03/03/17 09:40 AM
1

Yes and above average. Your text game needs to be better the less good your looks are. So if you only have average looks, you need above average text game, but you don't need outstanding text game, just above average. :)
/r/seduction02/03/17 09:30 AM
1

Anything, it doesn't matter what topic, but it has to be good text game.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:34 PM
1

You need to escalate the sexual comments. That means, you need to start really small and shy and say things such that she is the one chasing you. "You only say that because you want to seduce me. But not with me! 😉" The things that you said come much much later, when you are already groping each kther. Furthermore, these comments were kind of weird, you can do that much better. "You kind of making me hard, let's go slower" Everytime you say a sexual comment, you need to soften it, by saying that…
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:36 AM
3

Your neg could have been much more charming and entertaining. Somehow I feel that you're a bit nerdy sometimes when you look like that haha(add a picture) Just write her in a few days again and ignore what you said.
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:07 AM
0

You need to get her number after 2-3 messages and you need to have a sweet emotional spike in those 3-4 messages. Start out with a compliment but then add that she looks bossy, a bit intimidating or something so that youre a bit scared. Or you can say that if she did this and that, the dress would look perfect. Or that she almost caught your eye. So, all in all you're giving her a compliment, but you dont give her the full compliment. Then suggest to go see something in the city and then say wha…
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:04 AM
2

Just don't take it sooo serious, be a bit playful instead. That resolves all tensions and is the best way to make the girls feel confidence. Say "Hmm hmm, and now you want to be part of my exciting life huh 😉"
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:00 PM
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Well the point of seduction is to create gonewildstories.
/r/seduction28/02/17 04:30 PM
2

Don't listen the guy above. You can not reply around twice or three times in a week and it does increase attraction, but it can backfire quickly, so don't overdo it.
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:27 AM
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Really good, I was hoping you tried a bit more strong Kino with one girl, like kissing her, telling oh you and grabbing her ass hard or grabbing her tits and have her moan and then say, oh we should not go that fast and then go back at it again and maybe finger her. Care to give it a go next time? :)
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:24 AM
1

Don't invite her to coffee. Find something cool, like check out some interesting place in the city and go there. You should start this convo after 2-4 texts. I added a very light banter to it and how it could play out. :) Hey Amanda, let's check out the city tomorrow. 😁 Her: Haha, what should we do there. You: Let's go to xxx, I heard it's interesting! Her: Haha ok why not You: Ok, let's go 3pm tomo, works for you? Her: Ah, I'm at uni at 3 still You: Ah when you finished Her: At 5! You: Ok, so y…
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:50 PM
0

Then just touch her breasts, kiss her on the forehead, slap her ass, grope her ass, pretend that you would kiss her, but then don't. Tease her. :) Pretty sure after a bit of that, she cant hold it together anymore. Then she will beg her to kiss you, but don't give it to her. Instead, keep escalating put her hand on your cock. Let her want your cock, slap her ass again, kiss her on the forehead, tell her to kneel down let her suck your cock, ejaculate into her mouth. Tell her she did well. Give h…
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:20 PM
1

It's too strong. Instead say, I thought tou were kind of beautiful. Always add a slight tease in a compliment.
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:38 AM
0

She was waiting for you to escalate. It's your job to cut through her bullshit with escalation. It's her job to tell you to stop. If she doesn't stop you, you keep going. Easy as that. :)
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:37 AM
1

Day game day game day game :)
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:34 AM
1

You can only get the stds that you cannot cure if you have open wounds in your mouth, except Herpes and the risk for that is very low. All other stds that are orally transmissible(for which transmission rates are also really low), you can cure easily.
/r/seduction26/02/17 02:41 PM
1

Not crazy, just proven technique that works. :)
/r/seduction26/02/17 12:51 PM
1

Look at my third to last comment, do that. :)
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:35 PM
1

Only if she is chasing you hard and you did not show her that much attention. But you should not try to make it look that way now if it's not natural.
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:34 PM
3

Low investment texts are important for the first text. You can increase your chances with callback humour and a very small tease, such as Hey it's the hot guy who liked your red dress somewhat 😉 (if you were already flirting wjth her and she had fun and you commented that her red dress is interesting) Hey shopping maniac, did you find your perfect shoes eventually? 😉😉 (if she said she is lookingn for shoes) Hey polar bear, it's Mike 😁 (when she said she loves skiing and goes all the time and whe…
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:41 AM
2

Sometimes girls just like a guy, it happens more often than not. Dont worry about DLW DHV bullshit, you're overanalyzing. Just go with the flow and let the girls energy work with you.
/r/seduction25/02/17 12:47 AM
1

Yeah, but you could have pulled easily that night, now you have a bit more attraction but no pull. You are already way past building attraction, you need to make a move next time. ;)
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:52 PM
2

Find something cool to do around uni or on the campus like checking out a building, park and then escalate slowly and get touchy and find a bush together where you teo can hide and make out and stuff. Make it like an adventure. :)
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:49 PM
1

If a girl likes you, you dont need any social proof, she already likes you. Social proof is only there for a girl to like you. 😄
/r/seduction24/02/17 06:42 PM
1

Yep and dating as in going on dates, texting to set up dates with other people, maybe kissing other people, not even necessarily sexual relationships.
/r/seduction23/02/17 11:13 PM
3

Six main things. Guys without game would never escalate kill attraction with high investment texts try to be cocky, bold, manly without calibration and fun and come across as creepy and weird become highly invested once a girl shows interest, because they think they are a bad person dating several girls at once only get girls, when the girl escalates, which is very rare Stop everything once the girl rejects them and don't know that girls reject a guy several times to see if the guy is serious.
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:25 PM
3

You way overthought this. You should have just gone directly to her, hey there you are again. :P and danced with her. Her friends shittestes you, to see if you are intimated by them pulling her away.
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:43 PM
1

Good points already mentioned here. Another one is European girls are abroad in america. An American girl will behave differently in Europe as well and date much broader. If girls are abroad they become much more open to experiment. At home, they dont, they have to worry about everyone who judges them.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:59 PM
1

You can definitely date extremely hot women as a short guy. However, your game, confidence level needs to be really good and your life too. As a tall guy, you only need average game and confidence level and you get hot women too.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:56 PM
1

Lift weights and this will change a lot. And you have time to do that 4h of workout during the 168h of the week, you got your priorities wrong.
/r/seduction21/02/17 07:48 AM
1

Yes it's better than Hi, and better than nothing. but that's not much and will not get the girl to respond except she likes you already. So, not good seddit advice. Yes the opener is not really the first thing you say. Especially, in the club, the "opener" itself should be rather less than more, to give some mystery. However, the follow up needs to be outstanding. And even if she doesn't respond, don't get yourself distracted by that, spin the story unaffected by her non response. If you're good…
/r/seduction20/02/17 11:50 PM
1

It looks like you are not providing value, also your openers are not so interesting. Try those instead You: So your coat... Her: ?? You: It does make you look like a spy, you know that. Her: What? Why? You: Well you're probably a Russian spy, from what I can tell. You probably seduce guys just for your pleasure and then never call them again, ahh STOP IT!! You're totally like that haha! Her: Noo haha you're so mean, I'm a nice person! You: Haha, sure sure, but I kinda like you though somehow. He…
/r/seduction20/02/17 11:00 PM
1

Wrong. If she has not completely fallen for the guy in the interaction before, directly asking for a hang out, is very needy. If she has completely fallen for the guy, she will respond enthusiastically. If not, she will be uncomfortable.
/r/seduction19/02/17 09:50 PM
2

You're doing it completely wrong. You don't build rapport for 3 dates and then confess your love. Gosh. You build rapport for 20 mins on the first date, then start physically escalating, so that after 1-2h, you can kiss her. Maybe she doesn't want to on the first date, then on the second. That's how it's done.
/r/seduction19/02/17 03:39 PM
4

Escalation. If you establish rapport and escalate, you will either get her or not. If you don't escalate rather swiftly, you don't get the girl.
/r/seduction19/02/17 03:36 PM
1

This is a strong cognitive bias that all humans have. The same goes for girls. Once they feel a guy is interested in them, they start to lose all interest. However, this is more frequent for very emotional people who don't understand their emotions. You will lose out on a lot of great human beings if you let your attraction be guided by this cognitive bias. This bias has helped us evaluate the value of a person, because if someone is interested in someone else, often they are more low value than…
/r/seduction19/02/17 03:34 PM
5

Every girl is looking for a guy who is superior to her, who she can lean onto, some more some less. This is why girls get into a relationship, so that someone can take care of her. Also, very strong, independent girls look for a man who can give her the feeling of safety, calm, security.
/r/seduction18/02/17 11:22 PM
1

Being physically and mentally healthy by itself creates little attraction. 6 ft height creates a lot of attraction by itself, so you're mistaken.
/r/seduction16/02/17 09:01 PM
1

Don't. Do everything but kissing until she cant contain herself anymore and then take her home.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:54 PM
1

You don't sound like you did much right. Did you State your intent Make her crack up without even trying Make her feel horny through ambiguity and misinterpretation and sexualization Be cocky, yet charming Run amazing kino on her Teach her something Build a strong personal connection ?
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:52 PM
3

Too harsh, but some truths in there.
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:31 PM
5

Astronautical Engineers are rocket scientists. If you end up actually building the rocket parts or overseeing the engineers that build rocket parts still leaves you a rocket scientists or a rocket scientist that heads a team of rocket scientists, which is arguably even more complex.
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:04 PM
5

Say "So do you have something planned today already." If she says no, say "What, ah well I can't allow that haha,lets do something later, see if we get along ;)" If she rejects you, just say ah no worries haha, and keep talking and teasing like nothibg happened. She'll maybe tell you that she regretted not going out with you that day. EDIT: Dont delete your posts, other seddit users also want to see your posts!
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:57 PM
0

It would have been better to write something like these. They are also quite cocky, but less vulgar and all of them spark curiosity and mystery, will get her fantasy going, are not uncalibrated and will get you a text back. Amanda, Amanda I think you like me too much for a friend already 😁 Hmmm, Amanda have you ever thought of me grabbing you hard and showing you how it's done 😉 Amanda, Amanda so you're saying you'll never want me to shove my thick long cock in your mouth just like that?
/r/seduction14/02/17 12:13 PM
3

Making sexual tension get high is better than releasing it through kissing. You can kiss briefly for a few secs, but only to tease her, to keep her wanting more. You can also be all over her, touch her ass and breasts, be very close to her lips with yours, but never kiss her. This will make her want tomgo home with you really bad.
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:53 AM
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There 2 ways I can tell you that you can to go about this. The reserved way to build a bit of mystery. Say "umm... astronautical engineer?"a bit shy and not trying to brag and a bit as if you were trying to joke. This will be very mysterious and she will either ask no what do you do for real, where you can say no I'm serious, astronautical engineer. This will give her big eyes already. The a bit cocky/playful way if the girl is really confident or hot: Hm, I build rockets basically. If it comes …
/r/seduction14/02/17 11:49 AM
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Have you excited the girl enough to tell you more than lol? Have you aroused her, is she thinking of taking your cock in your mouth more often than not? If not, then you have not aroused her well enough with youe texts. Then you are just one of many many guys who she is texting with as friends, but not man-to-woman. That doesn't mean that you should tell her that she should take your cock in her mouth, it's a lot more subtle, but implant the idea in her mind of inappropriate thoughts with you th…
/r/seduction10/02/17 12:11 PM
4

She is super shy and wants you to take the lead.
/r/seduction10/02/17 10:40 AM
1

She just told you if you'd ask her out again she would say yes. So wtf, ask her out, she literally told you that. On the date, be somewhat doninant fun and not shy and insecure and it's a done deal. ;)
/r/seduction10/02/17 10:38 AM
2

Dont ask her if she's happily married. It has to come from her if she wants to end her marriage. Instead, friend her and let her introduce you to her latinf milf friends.
/r/seduction09/02/17 11:38 PM
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If he does this without creating any attraction she will flat out say no. Girls dont want to spend time with a guy who has never showed even a little playfulness, fun or masculinity or aroused her in some way, but instead comes across as a bit insecure and he's not even on her radar. Instead, banter with her a little bit, find out a bit about her, qualify her lightly, why not have her chase you a bit. This will increase your chances of her spending time with you massively.
/r/seduction09/02/17 11:36 PM
12

If you're saying it does not matter, that means its impact is 0%. Then you can't say it is a huge advantage. Your statement is simply false, confusing and doesn't make sense. Either say, looks do matter, but they are not everything or say nothing.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:02 PM
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Good summary, but I hate when people say looks dont matter, especially if they say, of course it's a massive advantage in the next sentence...
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:53 PM
0

Have to disagree, game is so broad that just learning from one mentor makes you decent in a specific setting, but really weird in everything else. E.g. all RSD guys except Max make you good in L.A. club game, but kind of a psychopath in the entire rest of your life. For that reason, to learn faster, pick 10% from each instructor that you find best, but do not stick to one instructor, and give yourself time. It takes 5y+ st least until your game is well rounded.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:25 AM
1

ok :)
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:43 PM
2

Don't even say having another adventure tonight. You can be more vague and just say hanging out and not be so literal. Then she'll wonder "oh what does he mean, will we have sex again, so exciting!" ;) Girls love that.
/r/seduction03/02/17 02:41 PM
1

It's saying it playfully, so she knows he is joking. ;)
/r/seduction03/02/17 02:40 PM
1

Ok. Then the resting bitch face is your main issue, because no matter how "good" your game is, if you always have a strange face expression, it comes across as really creepy and incongruent. From what younhave said, Inwould say that you make that face because you're not confident that you can actually bring the girl value. But you can. You don't have to be the best lover to bring a girl value, but if you have some good sex skills that no other guys have, then you really are valuable. Read the se…
/r/seduction02/02/17 06:28 PM
1

Ok what about your education, current job, career perspective, looks. Where are you at there at the moment. Also how old are you. Furthermore, a possibility could be that when yoj are talking to them you kind of have a scared or weird look on your face as if you think you are a creeper for talking to them on the street instead of friendly, playful confident. Many guys have this problem.
/r/seduction02/02/17 05:51 PM
1

Because she is already thinking of wildly making out with you, taking your cock in her mouth, without you even having kissed her. Unbearable tension. :)
/r/seduction02/02/17 05:00 PM
1

It seems like you have internalized all the older PUA aspects of game, but not the more recent ones such as natural game, getting her to invest in you, making her chase you, qualification. The best game is if she does all the work. Of course, in reality you need to help her to do that, so you also need to "game" her a little bit so that she can invest in you, chase you etc. This works through light qualification, gentle push and pull, and you having the frame "you seem nice, but why should i tak…
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:59 PM
2

Obviously, this comes after touching her all over and not out of the blue...
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:26 PM
3

If you are working with her you have it so easy. Just do some light kino and some banter. She will become more forward through this as well. Then at some point you say confidently and a bit playfully: "Ok we have to stop now, otherwise we'll directly make out in this corner." Boom, this will leave her salivating all night at home over you. Women fantasize like crazy. Then just keep it going like before and a few days later just push her in the corner and grab her and make out with her. This is e…
/r/seduction02/02/17 11:48 AM
2

Have you done some sweet sex talk? Do you like it when I touch you like that? You really like that hm. :) Important to build arousal. Also, I'd ask her if something is up, because you feel like she doesn't want it. Puts her on the spot to spill the beans and say whats up if something is up. Good to get worries out of the way.
/r/seduction02/02/17 10:41 AM
2

She wants you to escalate physically while her still saying no. This makes a woman real horny and is kind of a fantasy. So, just run your hands over her, her stomach, gently brush her boobs, touch them, feel her ass, go around her crotch, go in her underpants, tease her make her horny, massage her vagina. She will possibly put your hand away, but that's part of the fantasy and her not wanting to be a slut. She wants you to take responsibility to habe sex again.
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:07 PM
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As everything in game, there is no black and white. Here is an outline Don't try to kiss her just for the sake of kissing However, if she is trying to kiss you all the time, don't do it for 3-4 times, but then let her kiss you, but only very briefly If you have touched her all over, and kissed her cheek once or twice, but not kissed her on her mouth, sexual tension is a lot higher than if you had kissed her on her mouth
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:59 AM
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End the convo there. It's good to have her something to chase every now and then. :)
/r/seduction01/02/17 10:54 AM
2

Read this subreddit and give yourself 5y time. :)
/r/seduction31/01/17 09:26 PM
3

Dinner is not that good, too formal. If your game is good then just go to her with the gym date. On the gym date, then treat it as a normal date. Talk with her, tease her a bit, and kino her. Maybe even sexualize with ambiguity on the date. Your goal is to make her horny on the date, so that at the end she wants to kiss her. You can use sentences like Oh I think we have to stop flirting now, otherwise we'll directly make out in the corner there/not that we do inappropriate things right here in t…
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:51 AM
1

Get her to ask you for a relationship. Just beat around the bush and get small commitments from her. Then you can also ask:" So hmm...should we be together. :)" This doesn't actually tell her your feelings, but you're putting it out there, so there's not much risk for you, neither for her. Then, she'll either tell you yes or that she isn't sure yet. This can take a couple of weeks ir months easy.
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:14 PM
2

Money is important, but they will choose a guy who can make them cum hard all the time with average income over a guy who is a bit weird, but with lots of money. 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction30/01/17 12:58 PM
2

Never be the first to tell your feelings. She might enjoy you for sex, but as soon as she notices that you have a lot of expectations all of a sudden, she will dump you instantly. What you need to do is to always seduce her really well and make her really horny through long foreplay and teasing. She should then ask you if you want to be together. If this is a bit difficult for you, then at some point you should start mentioning relationships, but hinting very subtly that you like her but not sur…
/r/seduction30/01/17 12:55 PM
2

She owes you nothing. You don't know how many fuckboys, weirdos, douchebags hit on her, called her names today, so she has every right to shoot you down. If she rejects you, Mr. Perfect would persist by giving value, taking pressure out of the situation by saying something really witty, fun personal, a bit cocky but just a bit, such as: Oh, I thought I'd tell you what you really need. :), while still staying classy, positive, outcome independent.
/r/seduction29/01/17 08:44 PM
1

Either just get a blowie or just keep tindering with your dick pick and wait for a hotter girl ans post us with the results. 😄
/r/seduction27/01/17 09:38 AM
1

It sounds like you didn't create a real connection with her, become very personal with her, tell her some things about herself that no one has told her before, tell her the outstanding things about her and the not so outstanding things, teach her things.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:50 AM
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Tell her all the small things that you love about her, the smaller the better. I like it a lot when you smile and you get little wrinkles on your nose I love how you walk it looks like you're a little bouncing ball I love when you spin around when you want to say something you are passionate about I love the way you look when you are angry at me, because I can see that you still love me :)
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:49 PM
1

Then we are back at good looks and her being already attracted to you.
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:05 PM
1

You know what I mean. ;)
/r/seduction23/01/17 08:04 PM
2

You are talking about "game" as if it's the game that was popular 12y ago. Game has changed a lot, without scripts, without tricks. Being sincere and having fun will get you girls that are already attracted to you, but it will not build attraction just by itself. Sometimes, it will still work, but most of the time you will become a friend to the girl, where she doesn't want to sacrifice your friendship for a relationship.
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:32 PM
1

Good game is not playing games. It's being able to build attraction without being gamey.
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:12 PM
2

What the heck are you talking about, it sounds like you don't have much experience with women. So you never build attraction?
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:11 PM
1

This is very basic day game, fundamentals of this subreddit. Looks do help, but good game matters a lot more. ;)
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:02 PM
18

Why does this post get so many upvotes when the top 3 comments are explaining why this is Bs? This is like the white knight nice guy dream that you don't have to do anythingn and women will flock onto you. This could not be more false.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:08 PM
1

Um often? You have to chat her up, make her attracted to you and then get her number. That's the whole point of cold approach.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:05 PM
1

It appeals to a different bracket, but a rather small one right? So, I haven't met a girl that likes to be dominant in bed, except maybe once in a blue moon. Does that mean he won't be compatibale with 90+% of all girls?
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:51 PM
1

Man she had a headache, accept that and don't let your insecurities tell you that she flaked on you. Not everything is a flake, at least you didn't send a bitter text. Chill out, she likes you, just send her a text again in a few days.
/r/seduction23/01/17 09:10 AM
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Hm this post it difficult. Here is why I think it is wrong: . The main message is be yourself, be attractive and women will approach you. This analogy fails on so many levels for What about that stunning girl walking down the street, you need to approach her Your analogy works if your looks are really above average. If your looks are only average or below, maybe once a year an attractive woman will aproach you like that. Women do not initiate, it is very rare that's just how it is. They only app…
/r/seduction23/01/17 09:06 AM
1

80% of the girls that did not seem they want to be approached and were quite cold in the beginning, told me afterwards that they weree really happy that I talked to them.
/r/seduction21/01/17 09:19 AM
1

Tell her what you told us that you, show her this post without the 3 points at the bottom. Maybe post it in AskMen though. ;) Then your goal is open relationship. Tell her you love her, but you don't feel like settling down. Maybe she will ok with it, maybe not and she will want to end the relationship. You need to be fine with her leaving you possibly. If you don't want to show her the post, tell her that you love her but you don't feel like settlig down. Ease into it though. :)
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:53 PM
6

Dont ask her out, tell her your feelings or whatever. Just escalate physically, make her horny, flirt, and she will forget about friendzone. Chat her up again, meet and simply escalate. She will be a bit startled at first, give you the i love you as a friend etc. but you tell her, ahh I dont think so with a smirk, and seduce her her.
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:44 PM
2

If you're nit holding hands, you're missing out on powerful kino and comfort building, so do hold hands if you can. :)
/r/seduction16/01/17 06:36 PM
1

Make yourself be the one who says to take it slow playfully. Make her chase you. ;)
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:21 PM
1

Inner game is having a good life going getting a college degree building a good carreer going to the gym regularly having interesting hobbies being a good person being able to give value to people having a good social circle, having good friends not being angry, pissed off having abundance and abundance mentality being able to be alpha and friendly at the same time not needing a woman to be happy, not the women being the source of your happiness. She can add to your happiness but shouldn't be th…
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:49 PM
2

Because you became too "feely" to fast and you probably didn't fuck her well enough. Did you make her real horny and shoved your cock in her mouth or did you just cuddle and then have sex? Try to lean more towards the former than the latter. Read the sex god method if you don't want that to happen to you in the future.
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:35 PM
1

But I want you all for myself tonight Clarissa ;) That shows your intent and makes her a bit horny.
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:31 PM
12

20 mins. :) I met a girl in an escalator in a hostel. I said, so who are you. She said, who are you with a smile. Then, I asked her where she's going, she said she has to grab some things from downstairs. I said, I'll help her. So I went with her and then we went to her room to put her things. Then, we chatted a little and I did some light kino. Then I said she's a bit tense and gave her a bit of a massage and asked if it felt good. It did. :) Then, I stood in front of her and she was already gi…
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:27 PM
1

It could be because you're insecure or awkward often and are not able to have lighthearted talks. It sounds like an inner game problem to me, I would work on that!
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:17 PM
4

You can easily teat for hsv2, it's a blood test.
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:21 PM
8

Haha that sounds like from a Bollywood movie with corny lines. The game was also quite gamey, corny, and you didn't take the lead and you didn't have a closing mentality. Maybe because you didn't want to fuck her, but instead rather practice game with her? At least you had a real conversation with her. I guess you got the make out, because she was not such high value.
/r/seduction11/01/17 11:55 AM
2

Plus Push pull Sexualization Kino escalation Telling her she's cute after teasing her a bit
/r/seduction08/01/17 11:57 AM
2

4 tips for the FR Huge opprtunity when she is covering the bill. You could have played off that for the whole night like telling her: Such a generous girl tonight, I really have to put in the effort for her." Then ask her how she is feeling if you can do anything good for her, that you will really take care of her tonight. Really sexual and not too much, because she has done a huge favour. Then also possibility to push and pull by saying: "Hey, but you didn't do this on purpose, I'm not like.. b…
/r/seduction07/01/17 08:38 PM
1

No don't tell them. Telling them would be a bit douchey: "hey btw, I got a girlfriend now. Not telling them is a bit douchey, bust just the right amount, which the woman want and it will make you more interesting to them.
/r/seduction07/01/17 03:18 PM
2

Two mistakes I see: You didn't let her chase you, you only did not chase her. Difference. :) You could have helped your friend and still close her by saying that she shouldn't be jealous so gast and you'll still take her of her. Instead you were too outcome independent in fact.
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:10 PM
2

The best preparation is to have abundance and not having to keep oneself busy so that one becomes too needy. ;)
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:03 PM
1

This is how you have to do it! :)
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:02 PM
3

All wrong pretty much. Women often become insecure about what they want and test to see if you become fazed through their changed mood. If you don't become insecure, arouse her again and make her feel comfortable, this is what she wants. So, accept that Jill will still do all of those things, but she will do them because she is a bit insecure and doesn't always know what she wants.
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:07 AM
1

A guy can still get laid without all of those things, his game needs to be a lot better than if he had those things. Looks account for 40%, your game 30% and your status also 30%. The more you have of those, the easier it is to get laid, the less, the harder. So if you have good looks, but you're really insecure, you will get laid occasionally, but not so often. If you have none of these, it's quite hard to attract women.
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:50 AM
1

The same goes in other areas. If you don't give a fuck around your friends and family, acquaintances, your job, you're losing them in an instant.
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:44 AM
4

Ok you talked to 1 girl, not a good sample size. Saying the opener doesn't matter is a false dichotomy, Maybe the opener is 50% and the other 50% is profile, so you can say the opener isn't the most important thing, really have a good profile. That sounds a bit more differentiated. 😉
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:36 AM
1

This sounds boss and all, but won't get you anywhere with women. Game is all about subtetly and making it exciting for her to chase you. Directly telling her what you want is literally the worst thing you can do. Give her some mystery, some fantasizing about you, positivity, plaufylness, have her laugh, those is very powerful.
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:23 AM
3

Most points are good, but some are really bad. Opener doesn't matter. It does. If you meet, it will be very awkward. Um no? The first one two hours will be boring. Not at all! Some guys pull a girl within 5 minutes. 😉
/r/seduction03/01/17 11:41 PM
2

Man, I think this is the 5th post this week on seddit, where a girl isn't super chasing the guy and then the guy sends her a text so are we done now? i try to keep momentum why are you not texting back? So bad! You just need to tease her, flirt with her, push and pull and be super playful. Some generic examples: Hey my honey bunny, how are you hope yoi didnt miss me too much! 😜 We should see each other this week, I wanna grab you and maybe smack your butt. (you should have sexualizes so far that…
/r/seduction03/01/17 11:20 PM
14

NGAF is overrated. It will not make girls magically flock onto you. In fact, most guys trying it, get it really wrong and lose the girl in one instant. It is important to your game, but being playful, being able to sexualize, qualifying is 10 times more powerful.
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:39 PM
1

Women always say no. :) That's why you need to look at her actions and not her words. If she says no and she is all over you, she wants you to take action and take responsibility. Move your fingers to her vagina, she will say no, then just wait 2 minutes and go again and put your finger in. She'll probably not say no anymore. It is rape, when she tells you firmly no and stops interacting with you and you keep going and force her. If she says softly no, but is all up in your arms and moaning, it'…
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:49 PM
3

Haha very well done. Bow, just don't be needy or show all your feelings. Instead keep up the fun through text. Lots if times, guys have sex with a girl, then they send some super vanilla texts and the girl loses interest. Send her fun text, sexualize it, tell her how hot she is probably today and that you would spank her ass if she were here for being so cute.
/r/seduction02/01/17 04:07 PM
1

Long term game my friend, long term game! Maybe she will move to your city in a couple of years, or you to hers or you will casually see her or she has a girlfriend that is in your city and she introduces you. All those opportunities and you shut down the possibility to all of them. 😉
/r/seduction02/01/17 11:21 AM
5

Why the hell did you not get her number, to keep the "magical moment"??
/r/seduction01/01/17 11:18 PM
-3

Yes, point out that something on her is interesting,: I swiped right for the interesting eye brows! 😉 Then she will ask why and you can describe that her eye brows look a bit strict, but also interesting. Then tell her you find her cute and that she give you her number.
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:58 PM
2

Really, really good. That's how game should be, give her some attention, but not too much and make her work for it and reward her. :)
/r/seduction01/01/17 04:07 PM
1

Don't put it all out there. Make her chase you a but and close. 😉
/r/seduction01/01/17 12:01 AM
2

Try finding out why you're being an asshole, if it was a certain event in your past or something in your childhood (asshole parents for example). Then, try deal with it and find peace with it. Finally! Try being a really good, kind caring person for some time (without being a people pleaser and without stopping to run game), just for experimentation. If your values are to always be kind and friendly, being an asshole is hard.
/r/seduction31/12/16 11:46 PM
1

Such bullshit what this guy is telling you. This is very normal social circle lay. Just do something with her again, isolate (at your or her place), touch her, tell her she looks very hot tonight and then she might give you the look and then kiss her. She really likes you, it's blatantly obvious.
/r/seduction31/12/16 09:47 PM
0

Man, she gives you the most obvious sign that you grab her and fuck her hard. I'm not joking. If she had done yoga poses in front of me like this I would have given it to her.
/r/seduction30/12/16 10:22 PM
1

Yes. Women are very often weird, awkward, embarassed, are not sure at all what they want, are super awkward if they like a guy. I stop as soon as I get a no or a rejection and try again later, however, just passiveness means escalation. 😉 Even if she's awkward, I normally manage to take her out of her awkwardness through being playful funny, etc.
/r/seduction30/12/16 05:22 PM
1

Sounds like she wanted to make you compliments that she found you cute?
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:18 PM
2

Qualifying her is the first thing to happen, without any IOIs, this is what leads to IOIs. You can also start kino before any IOIs, and slowly escalate without any IOIs. I've had girls not give me any IOIs, but I escalated well to heavy make outs. :D
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:17 PM
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It seems like this was her "game", but she was really uncalibrated. Just keep escalating again and when she does it again say, huh, why do you do that, do you not like me. Say it amused and cute and not needy.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:56 PM
1

She was asking for you to be her FWB, but didn't want to seem like a slut and have you say it!! So be a man and talk to her again, hang out, accidentally start kissing and have sex again and tell her that hey you don't need a relationship, but you can just hang out and make her feel good. Also stop that Redpill bullshit. That's why you became all insecure and negative.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:54 PM
4

Look do matter. They are not everything but they are significant. I think you went from a 6, who is cute but also a bit funny to a strong 9 or even 10, where the girls think omg wow. He looks like a model from a perfume ad, I want to experience what he is like!
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:51 PM
2

That as soon as you know your way around game and have gained quite some experienced, you can be really friendly and nice and attract women and almost do no game, because you know what really creates attraction and what doesn't. Really liberating :D Doesn't mean that you shouldn't be nice to women, just that being nice by itself isn't enough if you don't have much experience.
/r/seduction29/12/16 01:55 PM
4

You screwed up by asking her to be honest, just because she hasnt replied to one of your text messages. See the mistake here? 😄
/r/seduction28/12/16 12:04 PM
2

After bantering innocently with a girl for a bit, this line worked really well: "Soo, do you have someone to kiss for NYE already." with good eye contact. It worked, just kissed her and she liked it haha.
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:41 AM
1

The way you asked her must have been needy, not playful for her not to reply. If she's cracking up on a txt you send, she'll surely reply.
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:53 PM
1

Neediness isn't the problem, not having created arousal and not having escalated on the first date is the problem. Now, you need to tease her, arouse her through text before she'll want to see you again probably.
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:50 PM
1

This happens hundreds of times with girls. They are like confused squirrels and forget everything. The man who is persistent and stays funny, alpha, playful, wins. In your case, good follow up texts are So Clarissa, when are you gonna buy me a drink. :D. (She asks why). "Ah you wanted to hang out with me sooo much, but are not man enough to make it happen😜😜" So, now you're putting in so much work to finally see me and than you get cold feet? 😁 I know that you really want to see me, but then you …
/r/seduction27/12/16 03:38 PM
2

It sounds like you need to change your social circle somewhat. Why not try somewhat famous artists, actresses, entrepreneurs, who have fought their whole life to become successful and who would never have to work again, because they earn really well. Those are sure af very interesting! It helps if you are also successful to meet those kind of women. A challenge! 😄
/r/seduction26/12/16 01:02 PM
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Make it a bit more playful: Merry Christmas you little Anna Anna! 🙈
/r/seduction25/12/16 10:34 AM
0

Yes, girls become intimidates fast. That's why you need calibration. Have your confidence level just a little higher than hers, not lower, not too high, just a little higher. Same goes for your energy level, banter level, cockiness level. That's called calibration. ;)
/r/seduction24/12/16 10:31 AM
1

She's looking for a guy who finally escalates and redeems her from her mindgames.
/r/seduction24/12/16 10:28 AM
1

Interesting perspective. Tell her exactly that, she might really appreciate it and be finally relieved that someone wasn't afraid to point it out to her.
/r/seduction24/12/16 10:25 AM
1

👍🏻😉
/r/seduction24/12/16 09:34 AM
1

Great, happy I could help. It's not easy to calibrate being really sexual while not being a player. Be more forward and cute and less cocky with the sex talk. Telling them you're not looking for a relationship will actually make you more interesting to them as long as you're being friendly and not cocky, alpha about it.
/r/seduction23/12/16 11:02 PM
1

She just told you that she will date the guy who is man enough to cut through all her bullshit and takes what he wants. :)
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:49 PM
3

"Ah you want those genes, hah" with a smirk. You can then pretend that she just wants your youth and milk you, 😄.
/r/seduction23/12/16 05:20 PM
1

It's a big factor. Imagine, the more you have to invest to sleep with a girl, the less likely you will drop her because of the above 3 reasons. Sunk cost fallacy. :)
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:06 PM
1

I was in the same place when I began, because my game was bad. When it became better after a few years, day game went from "now, I will probably make this girl uncomfortable and feel guilty afterwards" to "ok, this girl will have the best experience of her month right now, because my body language, humour, calibration is excellent" In the beginning, you will feel guilty about it, breaking the rules, feeling like a creep. But that's the required difficult phase that you need to get better. The mo…
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:50 PM
2

It could be the text game after the hook up and that she doesn't feel anything special. If you can't get her excited over text and make her laugh, she will feel afterwards like: "Ok, I hooked up with this guy, and we did everything. But now, I don't really have that steong emotions about him, so I don't really think it's meant to be, he doesn't feel special, I don't feel a special connection with him." Girls are quite superstitious about dating and if they don't feel something special, they lose…
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:41 PM
1

Don't use it agai st her, you need to lose the you vs. her mentality, and get the us mentality. Do it together, you give something valuable to her (your affection).
/r/seduction22/12/16 09:46 AM
2

Agree with all except sister. Do some "no-game". She is already very attracted to you. Give her some space game-wise, resort to eye contact, kino and non verbal game, let her chase you, let her come to you. Don't talk much, let her do the talking, just hold her, hum if you agree, make cuddly sounds. :) Still, talk, but reduce it by around 70%. Then when you're making out, tell her that you should maybe take it slow, give her a little freeze out escalation-wise, then reescalate shortly after with…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:24 PM
3

This is too gamey and too old, Mystery, club game PUA style, which is just not effective, except in messy loud club game maybe. Also, she will see through it quickly. However, she gave you a really good hint, that you would just go out and find other girls. Try bringing up this topic again organically and then say, hmm why should I date you then, I mean what makes you different (in a friendly manner). This way, she will qualify and you can talk about why she is good enough for you for several ho…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:05 PM
2

A bit bad, but not so bad. Now, she wants more. Make it worth her while. :)
/r/seduction20/12/16 09:15 PM
6

Yes game them, but don't make it blatantly obvious. Make them chase you. Quite easy to do if you see them frequently. That also removes the risk of them viewing you as a player.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:03 PM
2

Yes but if you make it too easy, he'll just fuck you and leaves you there and won't see you again and you really like him etc.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:01 PM
1

You should've called her ysterday. :) I get what you mean with neediness vs. persistence. Needy actions (following up, being interested, asking if she's coming to the date) are never needy if they are done with purpose, fun, teasing, in a not needy way. If you tell her "I like you" with a smirk and a bit of a rought touch ok her shoulder, she will love it. If you tell her "I like you" stuttering and not being able to hold eye contact, it's very needy. It's all about delivery. :)
/r/seduction19/12/16 10:12 PM
4

You didn't do kino, when you did the teasing.
/r/seduction19/12/16 08:08 PM
1

Excellent!
/r/seduction19/12/16 11:20 AM
1

You're way overthinking it. Just call her on Monday and set up a time again. If she flakes, set up another time. There is no neediness here, just a man who knows what he wants. 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction19/12/16 09:47 AM
1

If you have good game and are playful, you can do it, but just casually saying it. If you're awkward, it willl make her feel weird even if she's interested
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:48 PM
1

Putting your foot down without acknowledging your drawbacks is being butthurt or caving in. Sorry for being harsh, but you're not putting your foot down, you somehow are not seeing where your game was lacking.
/r/seduction17/12/16 08:35 PM
1

What you need to learn is that women are very passive and most of the time not show any IOIs. Your job as a man is to keep escalating until she rejects you, then you try again later. This will easily happen 5+ times with one girl. You obviously made the mistake of not escalating, just because she didn't give you IOIs. Beginner mistake.
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:36 PM
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The problem is not her having little interest, it's you not talking to her man to woman, not being able to arouse her, not fucking her hard enough. This is the cause of her little interest. Now, you can "move on" and stay a pussy or you can change your behaviour and learn this. You need to grow up and be alpha, learn to arouse her through texts and not be a whiny puppy. If you're thinking about dropping her altogether, you can also be alpha and show her some manliness. Don't exaggerate it though…
/r/seduction17/12/16 06:11 PM
1

Yes, playful assertiveness, as in, pretending to be so assertive, but her knowing you're just doing it for fun, such as: "Clarissa! how are you doing today :)" "No no no, we're not doing that. Just joking, I'll do it. ;)" But before you do that, have some small talk before that (at least 5 mins total) so that she knows that you're not a weirdo.
/r/seduction17/12/16 04:36 PM
1

Get off your high horse and be a man who knows how to pursue a high value woman. You're intimdated by her and resort to rationalizing it that you're sooo high value and your time is soo much more valuable than hers. There is some truth to this concept, but you're taking to too serious, sonthat it impairs your game. You need to take this much more lighthearted. High value women never make it easy for you. I've had it sonmany times that I had to set up a date more than 5 times, but in the end it w…
/r/seduction17/12/16 12:17 PM
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Haha, yeah spin her in the kitchen. ;) Jokes aside, in normal situations, your maximum game is to have a good conversation good qualification some assertiveness for fun playfulness Those 4, are your solid foundation for this. As you can see, there is no flirting at all her, no man to woman, as it would make it weird. Your goal here is to qualify her smoothly, see if she is interesting to you, not the other way around. Buyers vs. sellers mentality. As soon, as you get some IOIs, then you can star…
/r/seduction17/12/16 12:09 PM
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Ultimate guide to texting is a good start from love systems. But do like i did with the two examples. Be flirty, fun, man to woman. She has to get some feeling of excitement through your texts, otherwise it will be a chore for her to see you. Also, I can imagine that the sex was good, but not that good. The Sex God Method is really good for that.
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:42 PM
1

Yes, but it would only increase your closing rate by around 20%. Solid inner game and ohter game is equally important.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:21 PM
2

Scarcity mentality paralyzes you. Also,you need to be a lot more alpha towards her. If she says, she's been all over the place, tell her, you'll make her feel in the right plaxe definitely. Next time she says maybe, say:" No maybe, your ass has been communicating with me telling me that it desperately needs a good spanking. Learn how to arouse her through text, otherwise she won't be bothered to see you.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:19 PM
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Dude, you missed an opportunity. Women put obstacles in your way to see if you are man enough to overcome them. Asking for her number might have turned out 60% in a rejection or flake, but 40% in her connecting with you. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take my man.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:13 PM
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Good :)
/r/seduction14/12/16 11:22 PM
1

Too formal, setting too hight expectations. Just ask her out without mentioning it, just tell her to hang out and be more alpha now. Women are allergic to men who make things confusing, so keep at it but remain playful, and alpha!
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:20 PM
1

Just tell her that you really like her, but you're not looking for a relationship right now. Girls are normally disappointed for a few says, but then arrange themselves and are fine with it.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:24 PM
1

Are you really doing strong escalation excellent sexualizing well calibrated push and pull excellent qualification Without any of those 4, it gets really hard to seduce a girl.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:20 PM
1

I've recently been touching her on the knee or leg intentionally. Like, there's a little pause in the conversation and I move my hand to her leg and touch it and look her in the eye with a small smirk. Really alpha and puts you on the spot for rejection. Women love that. They also might reject you softly but are already enarmoured with your manliness.😄
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:14 PM
1

Happiness or satisfaction in life isn't something that comes from extrinsic factors. Happiness can only come from within, irrespective of how bad your environment is, how little you have, how mean everyone is to you. Try meditation and cut out all the unnecessary things out of your life, become your own version of a wise monk.
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:28 PM
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Killed it would have been to grab her on the hips during the date, look her deep in the eyes, then pulling away to talk about something else, then grabbing her again, looking her deep in the eyes and kissing her and her saying she she is really aroused. If you're just talking with her, she'll see you as a friend. So next time, do some actual escalation, kino and kiss her.
/r/seduction14/12/16 10:13 AM
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That women reject you 5 times before they feel comfortable sleeping with you women will never ever initiate, try to escalate (maybe once in a blue moon)
/r/seduction14/12/16 09:38 AM
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You're welcome. And keep it playful, fun, lighthearted.15y olds can be really awkward, so if you can manage for her to not feel awkward, if you're not setting any expectations, just enjoying the moment and are able to make her feel comfortable she will really like that. All in all, make an effort to not ever get pissed or awkward, but stay relaxed, have no expectation, just enjoy the experience. :)
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:56 PM
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Of course she likes you. :) Now, just tell her to do something together after school. Get an ice cream, visit the flea markets, drive with the underground somewhere and just hang out. When you're alone with her hug her, hold her hand maybe, touch her arm, kiss her on the cheek and at some point kiss her on the mouth. Maybe she will get awkward about it, women are really shy sometimes, so don't let it bother you, she needs to be more comfortable, so you can try again later. 👍🏻😊
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:07 PM
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Just let her talk it out, if she asks you what you think about it, say "hey, whatever you think is best". However, it could also be that she wants you to clarify your relationship status. So, you can say that you really like her, and you really like hanging out with her, but you're not looking for an relationship right now.
/r/seduction13/12/16 12:39 PM
1

Just keep escalating with her for fun and see if she really doesn't want to date right now, when your escalation is good. Keep teasing her and sexualize.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:26 AM
1

Just tell her to come see you and because you find her a bit hot and that you should hang out, and don't care too much, but be persistent.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:24 AM
1

Don't talk about the 3 girls bullshit. Just say:" Ah ok" with a bit of a caring look and leav it at that.
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:22 AM
1

No, just learning how women think and getting to know more people through them. It sounds like you know all the techniques, but you don't have the intuition to connect them.
/r/seduction12/12/16 07:10 PM
1

I can suggest you to put the cold approach thing on hold for a while and focus on building your social circle first and practice how women think there. Do this through hobbies, going where beautiful women are, such as college and most of all models. Get into the model scene somehow, maybe as a student jobber, through friends and you'll be surrounded by stunning women. Befriend them and learn how they tick and practice a little game on them. Not too much, just testing the waters.
/r/seduction12/12/16 06:31 PM
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Just be low key and a bit sexualizing come over tonight little tiger if you keep talking like that, I'll spank your booty tonight you want to get taken care of tonight huh
/r/seduction12/12/16 05:43 PM
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That was a super needy text. Next time say, ok sounds good. ;) Just because you've had sex with her, doesn't mean you don't need to be playful, fun, alpha anymore through text.
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:59 PM
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Most men, or sedditors think Not giving a fuck and not caring applies to everything. However, the rule is actually only Not caring about negativity. Examples are Doing ballet as a man and not caring if others think you're nit masculine Not caring if a woman stands you up, because it doesn't affect you Not caring if someone insults you, even though you are right Wrong examples of not caring, when you actually did something wrong Not caring if a woman calls you out for being an asshole, because yo…
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:20 PM
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Because otherwise you will become needy, clingy, overinvested. It sounds like you don't have enough success in your professional, social private life yet to not become clingy, could that be?
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:51 PM
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Date 3 9s, problem solved. Seriously, you need more girls.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:22 PM
1

She wants you to arouse her, so she doesn't want you as a friend anymore. So, keep flirting, teasinng, telling her she's cute when she says something funny, be a bit alpha. "I wanna see you tomorrow. ;)" Doing what? "Inappropriate things maybe haha. :D" She'll probably give you the friend frame again, but just show her that you can show her other things. ;)
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:22 PM
1

If you wanna get with her now, there is a high failure rate, so safer to wait until she studies again and then do the I wanna get to know you better. My 2 cents.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:19 PM
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That second one's good, would add a ;) smiley though, otherwise it's a bit too serious.
/r/seduction12/12/16 01:18 PM
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Fly to her city, say hey I'm in your city, let's hang out. Then have a cool time with her, tell her she is cute and do some good kino with push and pull.
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:10 AM
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hey thanks :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:42 PM
2

Oneitis, time heals it. You can accelerate by meeting another "gorgeoooous" woman. Seriously, do some day game, get some numbers and you'll forget about all the romantic thoughts quickly . 😉
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:15 PM
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It sounds like she is a bit in her adventerous phase and wanted you to sleep with her. She gave you huge signs with holding hands. However, you weren't man enough to make the move, this really offends women. They will feel uncomfortable about their sexuality around you.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:52 PM
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This is what a woman will do, when they hve too much control in their relationship, to see if the man stands up for himself. If he doesn't, she will break up or cheat at one point. If you give people the opportunity to take power, many will do it, some will become abusive. At one point, they will then realize that this isn't the person they want to be and that the lack of masculinity made the girl this way.
/r/seduction11/12/16 08:49 PM
1

You don't have zero chance, at least 5% always, that's the base line and maybe even 30%. :) It's not about the opener, it's about the delivery. You can just say hi or, hey you, hello there, but when it's with good eye contact, comfortable body language, it can be very powerful. 80% is body language, 20% is what you say. So, you could have just said hi, how are you. It's about what you say afterwards and how you say it. :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:03 PM
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Girls say this, when you make a move (ask her out, fet her number), when there is no or little attraction. Girls don't say this, when she's more attracted to you than to her boyfriend. Most girl are "happy" in their relationship, read it's going ok and as long as there is nothing better, they stay in a relationship. The minority is in a relationship, where they are madly in love and have mind blowing sex.
/r/seduction11/12/16 05:51 PM
2

Sounds you can allroach, maintain convo. but have trouble escalating, making the move, pulling the trigger, could that be?
/r/seduction11/12/16 04:05 PM
0

Girls flake so often. Had a girl flake 12 times on me until we met up and banged. 😄
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:23 PM
1

Especially when she's super beautiful, you need to approach her. You can get the best practice from the hotties!
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:22 PM
1

Maybe there's one aspect of markov chains that is novel or maybe you can show her how markov chains apply to a situation in deciding what client to pick in her job?
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:03 PM
1

Blabla, you're just a cool tinder match like she has dozens. Set up a date again, and again. :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 03:01 PM
2

Oh I was really hoping you would hit on the Mila Kunis girl at the end of the story! :/
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:04 PM
1

Yadiyadiyada, once you grab the girls arm and are alpha, she'll forget everything that happened before, like a gold fish. 😉
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:13 AM
0

You didn't fuck her well enough. How to change that. Next time you see her, tease her, touch her and be quite alpha, so that she has an outlook what happens next time you fuck her. But don't be too alpha, make it fun. Also, read the Sex God Method to fuck her better.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:17 AM
1

Your move was perfect, you should always do it like that. Women might reject you at first, but they will be very wowed by your ballsiness while still being respectful.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:14 AM
2

Plus, let her bring it up if you guys are together now, not you. You just keep cruising and enjoying life. :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:12 AM
2

i she's a mathematician, why not 😄😄
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:02 AM
1

Google it!
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:01 AM
1

Not sure I understand what you mean?
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:01 AM
1

MM, Ultimate guide to texting by love systems, Seddit, lotsa experience.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:00 AM
1

No one cares, no one is watching you 24/7, don't overanalyze everything, just do! :)
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:59 AM
1

It would be nice if that were true, but unfortunately it isn't. It is a fundamental core of your inner game, however, it won't lead to much arousal. You need to really focus on arousal to achieve it.
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:11 PM
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Misinterpretation, Ambiguity, e.g Her: Noo, I don't want to do anything tonight. You: Whaat, you would do anything tonight, with me? 😁 Her: Yeah this is really hard. You: Yeah I know, but hard isn't always a bad thing. (lifting one eye brow) As you can see, you can misinterpret anything, and you don't need any IOIs for that and it's quite innocent and fun. ;)
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:52 PM
1

You need to lose your fear of showing interest. Run after her, ask her what she thinks she's doing in a fun way. Pretty alpha ;) Secondly, no matter if she meant it or not, you cannot lose by accusing her of touching you. Another interaction to get with a girl.
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:47 PM
1

This is ok, but will make her see you as a comfident friend, no arousal here, seduction.
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:45 PM
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Just thinking about it. Thanks! :D
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:41 PM
1

However, aloof, fun, flirty doesn't get you anywhere, especially if you don't qualify kino, lead, and aren't vulnerable! 😉
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:00 PM
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😄 It could actually work if she's giving you a lot of shit and is loving it.
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:48 PM
2

Geez, seddit full of white knights today..
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:34 PM
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Hmm, lil babies can also suck ur tiddies really well. Jk😄😄
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:24 PM
2

You need to be careful. Sexualizing directly without her earning it, can quickly make you come across as a player, douchebag that only wants to fuck her.
/r/seduction10/12/16 06:13 PM
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Do talk about FORD be quite playful and a bit serious (once) come across as authentic( probably most important) have her to convince you instead of you convincing her change venues at least twice if you can. Gives her the feeling of knowing you more. kino qualify her kiss her on the date tease her have good eye contact teach her 2 things remain playful, cheeky when she rejects you and try again later. Women will often reject you 5 times before seeing you as a man. be careful with negs, ngaf, coc…
/r/seduction10/12/16 05:54 PM
2

Grab her arm and say one of those, with a smirk grab her arm so what was that supposed to be so you think you can brush my arm and then just walk away huh so you're saying you like me huh hey hey, ok tell me your name haha, you savage you, tell me something interesting about you
/r/seduction10/12/16 03:46 PM
1

It's the girl way to tell you she's interested.
/r/seduction10/12/16 03:25 PM
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Not sure why his is downvoted. This is how you have to do it. This is not with some strangers he walks up to on the streets. This is after hundreds of texts, days of making her comfortable, teasing, joking, giving value, giving compliments. Sometimes, you can also do that 10 minutes into meeting a girl when you are straight up with you intentions and tell her how you feel that she is so hot right now. If she reciprocates, get down to business. If not, it's a sign that you can't get aggressive ye…
/r/seduction10/12/16 01:28 PM
1

ok all of those work when she is already bantering with you, not before ah you're cute stop looking at me like this (when she looks at you with big eyes again) if you keep staring at me like this, I have to kiss you(when she's staring at you) you're so naughty, such a naughty gurlll( when she says something edgy, but fun) misinterpretation (her: no, I can't come, you: oh, so you've never come..in your whole life??) (her: ah I'm sure I can have fun with you...ah I mean not like that....or actuall…
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:05 PM
1

When someone gives yoj a compliment say: "Oh thank you haha, how do you mean?" As in, thank them for the compliment first, then ask what they made them give the compliment. Then you can actually have a really nice conversation. With girls, you can get them to tell why they are into you. That's a huge thing for girls, so they might become a bit embarassed. For that reason, be really nice about it, but also a bit persistent. When they tell you, give them a small compliment back. Then get their num…
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:05 PM
2

Ah I think I know what the problem us. Since you are hosting her, it's easy for her think of the creep scenario, where you abuse the situation, her dependency on you. For that reason, you need to make her chase you. Instead of her having to think about if you will take advantage of her, make her think about the forbidden fantasy of sleeping with her host. So instead of you being the aggressor, she needs to be the aggressor, she needs to want you, she needs to feel aroused, while you're just bant…
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:43 PM
2

How are you doing with sexualization (ambiguity, misinterpretation, sexual hoops)?
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:35 PM
2

Yeah he probably does more than he says. Also, qualification doesn't need any interest. Just start small, so what do you do. Ah, biology, what makes you interested in it? Are you a good student ;) Do you do sports, why etc.
/r/seduction09/12/16 04:40 PM
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Maybe he'a very good looking, but ask him how he does and that you want to know how it's done. Apart from that, try to work on creating sexual tension, teasing her, some decent push and pull and qualification. Are you doing all of those?
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:57 PM
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It seems like you start kino, sexualization, but you stop very early, such as touching her arm. Keep escalating step by step to shoulder, hands, neck, lower back legs and keep it fun. Then see if she stops you or not. If she does, try make her feel more comfortable and try again later. If she doesn't just keep going. Also, eye contact! 😉
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:41 PM
1

Doesnt matter, you made the first step to defeat AA! :D
/r/seduction09/12/16 10:51 AM
1

No, don't do that to a girl, it would make her feel exposed. Just run normal, decen game on her. You don't even need that much, because she already likes you. Just tell her to do something together. Then tell he she's cute at one point, kino her. Then leave the venue, and kiss. :)
/r/seduction09/12/16 10:49 AM
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Problems: no kino she doesn't know anything about you, nor was she able to become attracted to you no real qualification The problem was the shortness of the interaction, next time when she's speeding say something like, wait, I think I wanna ge to know you. :)
/r/seduction09/12/16 10:46 AM
1

Great, what was the overall result of it, dis she get what you meant?
/r/seduction09/12/16 10:28 AM
1

Text her in a few days again, but just her name, like: Clarissaaaaa! Also, when you see her in class, be really upbeat and fun, as if nothing happened. Finally, get 10 more numbers so you dont have to think about one dumb girl not texting back. ;)
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:28 AM
1

You should have pulled the trigger. It's a huge fantasy for girls, getting boned by the "plumber". She probably thought it, too. Maybe that's what she was actually hoping for. Don't just kiss her though. Smile at her and pull her on her hip to you. Firm but gentle still. If she pulls away, just say haha sorry, I got into the monent. If she doesn't pull away and lowers her eye lids a bit, look her in the eye and kiss her. Even if she pulls away, she will get real horny afterwards, by thinking of …
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:26 AM
1

This goes away, once you know how to game girls and once you know thag you can really give a woman an awesome time. However, how to get there, if you can't even talk to them? Brutal, brutal appraoches and rejections and you will get better each time. You need to get throught this initial stage.
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:21 AM
1

Chat her up, to see how it's going. Then say that you tested her today and apprently she has real high standards. When she asks you why, say "I pretended to be a creeper that wanted you number and you were not so enthusiastic haha 😄😄" Then, she might say oh it was you lol. Then you can say:"Haha, I thought you'd recognize me but you didn't, I laughed so hard afterwards. But sorry for being a creep haha" - It was fun though 😁 Probably the only way, to turn this situation. 😄 Afterwards keep it sup…
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:18 AM
2

It's not the power of ngaf or outcome independence, it's the fear of rejection when escalating further/making a move, pulling the trigger, not being able to bear sexual tension. Those are all thing that a real man should be able to do without any negative feeling or guilt about it. Some how you have trouble with those, that's why you look like you're zoning out, because you don't know what's appropriate at that point. At that point, it's appropriate to brush her breast, give her a kiss on the fo…
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:09 AM
1

You don't need to be uber confident, you just need to be relaxed with yourself and be able to do some qualification paired with sweet push and pull with a girl. :)
/r/seduction08/12/16 10:53 AM
3

Be feminine! I'm often very cute and I giggle, then the next moment I grab the girl and tell her I Like her. It's a verh powerful thing, being able to mix some feminine with alpha behaviours. Makes the girl drop their defenses and open up to you really fast.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:40 AM
3

As always, show her this post/say exactly what you wrote here. :)
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:42 AM
1

You don't always have to desperately hold frame. Give her the frame and see what she does. Play all beta and tease her she's your domina and you will do anything for her that she commands. Keep it extremely playful and when she commands you to do something, ask her why and what you will get in return. Call her master etc. While being her sub, bust her balls by still leading, and escalating. This girl tests you if you are really confident within yourself and if you know how to play with her or if…
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:23 PM
1

She wants you to take the lead. Say, haha you don't have to be, I'll teach you some confidence tricks 😉
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:19 PM
7

Get a blowjob first and then bang her for round 2.
/r/seduction07/12/16 10:58 AM
1

She is somewhat interested, but not super interested, nor aroused. That's why she didn't give you her number. You would have needed some good and fun push and pull for her to do that, such as: "haha, you only walked up to me because you tought I was so handsome, admit it! 😜
/r/seduction06/12/16 09:56 PM
0

Yes, women want a man who keeps them safe, takes away her fear of the world, not add fears. Women are quite scared creates already, don't make them be more scared. ;)
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:56 PM
1

At 18, it's hard to really understand what a woman wants sexually, but keep hanging out with her, maybe be a cuddle buddy. Tell her to take it slow, and leave it at kissing for nowX that will make her want you and there will be sex again, when she's staying over. Maybe just make out the first time, then handjob, then blowjob, then make out, then sex. Take it easy, you guys are 18, explore how women are aroused (they become aroused when you say to take it slow and also push back occasionally) enj…
/r/seduction06/12/16 06:10 PM
3

Dude, you're really good looking. You have a kind of a rockabilly, artsy, but also a bit dark, mysterious vibe. When girls see you the first time, they will be very intrigued at first, because you have quite a mysterious, artsy look to you, like a magician haha. So, you don't need to work on mysteriousness anymore, because it would scare girls off more. What you need to work on is positivity, cuteness, upbeatness. Girls see you at first and they will already be intrigued, however, they might be …
/r/seduction06/12/16 04:46 PM
1

Nowhere does it say, he has to be sleazy about it. Don't get too hung up on big bad "pua". Just because there are some sleazebags, doesn't mean that you cannot sexualize without being a creep. There is nothing sleazy about saying that she is a naughty girl after you're touching each other everywhere, you've slapped her multiple times and she has slapped you multiple times. I've said it to numerous girls in a fun way with some nice push and pull and they loved it. As long as you keep it fun, ligh…
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:42 PM
1

No, no no! 😄 That's the opinion that many guys have. Just don't sexualize, don't kino and just don't make a move, it makes you a creep. The reality is that not doing those things, but trying to talk to her without taking action, makes you the creep.
/r/seduction04/12/16 02:50 PM
0

Next time, laugh and tell her she is cute when she says something funny. A bit in a belittling way, but only a tiny bit. She will probably ask you what you mean and you can say, haha sometimea you're just cute. Then at the next party, actively speak to her, crack her up, make friends with the older guys. Then, atart kinoing her really hard and tease her. Mind, while they are a bit boring pretty model guys, you're the funniest guy around, so you can also be the most confident. No one understands …
/r/seduction04/12/16 01:21 PM
2

Why not :)
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:54 AM
1

She wants you to steal her from her bfriend, because well, with him it's kind of ok, but she knows she can do better. However, she can't just break up with him, so she needs a real man who makes the decision for her.
/r/seduction03/12/16 11:04 PM
1

I think the main thing what you're looking for right now is qualification. It's the starting point and main base of any interaction with a girl.
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:13 AM
1

Yes, open neutral/friendly/cute/fun, that also gives you the benefit of not hitting on her, so she doesn't put up defenses, plus if she has interest, you can just let her chase you and she doesn't know if you even wanna bang her. 😄 These are really cocky and douchey, for if she's super cocky as well. So I'm pretty hot huh What the fuck. Why should I even take you out Cocky with charm for confident girls or when you just got rejected So, I'm thinking right now if I should take your number (or not…
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:05 AM
3

Calibration. Be cocky with hot girls, not cocky at all with shy girls Only make mad jokes when she already likes you Be more cocky, when she just rejected you. *Don't be too cocky if she hasn't rejected you yet. Be nice in the beginning, but not too much and not so much later Show interest not too early, and only after you have been a bit cocky already and she sees you as superior Took me years until I noticed when I can be cocky and when it completely fucks up everything.
/r/seduction02/12/16 11:41 PM
2

Are you Swedish instead of you look swedish. Works much better. ;)
/r/seduction02/12/16 04:17 PM
1

Be reserved with breaking rapports, punishment etc. While they are useful in few instances when the girl already likes you, they are very easy to get wrong and the girl completely blocking you off.
/r/seduction02/12/16 03:08 PM
2

No, just keep requesting it for fun. She got insecure and is putting some obstacles in your way to see if you are serious and if you don't get insecure from rejection.
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:59 AM
2

Seems like you have decent game, but not good enough to compensate for your average/somewhat not arousing looks. Hit the gym, dress more manly, work on your voice( deeper, more pauses) Just a guess from what I can tell from your post. As for your game, I think you are good in the fun and playfulness department, however, make much more use of qualification, more use of good push and pull and a bit more of alpha boss. 😉
/r/seduction30/11/16 11:27 PM
2

Better push and pull. No we shouldn't do this, i could fuck you real hard, but I don't think it's a good idea. 😉
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:10 PM
-2

Lol no, just stop chatting with her and if she chats with you, give her answers that make it hard for her to make conversation. ;)
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:17 PM
1

Showing interest and try to "make it happen" aka pursuing a girl is alpha, if it's not done needy, but instead fun and manly. :)
/r/seduction30/11/16 04:45 PM
2

Nope, there is no HPV test for men.
/r/seduction30/11/16 04:37 PM
1

You are talking about HSV-1, which is oral herpes. That's something completely different to HPV.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:46 PM
2

45% of women in the age between 20-24 have HPV, which makes women have cervical cancer. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus_infection#Epidemiology So, you definitely already have HPV and are spreading it to all the girls you are sleeping with, without you having symptoms, since men don't develop symptoms. Some will develop cervical cancer because of you. Wear a condom.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:31 PM
4

Yes, but you also haven't applied one of the most basic fundamentals, Abundance mentality. If you were texting with more girls, you wouldn't even have noticed that she stopped talking to you and she would have probably wondered why that is.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:19 PM
2

Sounds like you follow redpill a lot. It looks like you seduced a really immature girl who would have done anything you told her. What I mean with that is that I'm not sure you should draw too many conclusions from this lay, as yeah, she really insecure and immature. Not trying to hate, just a different perspective.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:14 PM
2

5y xp. 😄😄 Be playful, fun, alpha :)
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:03 PM
19

You need to escalate physically from the first second on. Hug her, touch her elbow, shoulder, arm, back, lower back, stomach, boobs, vagina, asshole. Di Carlo escalation ladder. Also, I can imagine you're qualifying a lot to the girl. However, she has to qualify to you. You are the prize, why should you spend more time with her. (Do that in a subtle, fun way, not too cocky)
/r/seduction28/11/16 07:08 PM
1

I'm impressed Sarah, such a good girl you are! how was you night yesterday 😉 Then when she replies, have a brief conversation and then ask her: "Haha. Let's go [insert fun date idea], I wanna learn more how you became such a good girl. ☺️😉😉 You can play around the good girl topic more, and sexualize later on if good girls want a real man or if they like the really innocent guys. As soon as she talks about bad girl stuff, you can say oh there is more to you than I first saw apparently and then ta…
/r/seduction28/11/16 04:40 PM
0

You can either ask or you can escalate sexually slowly, or both! :D But she's probably not interested, because she wasn't aroused by you a little bit. If a woman isnt aroused by you even a bit, she wont go iut with you.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:28 PM
1

If you're trying to show someone who already likes you a lot, almost nothing you do will decrease attraction except you being really mean to her. So if you're trying to be cool she'll interpret it as flirting. If you do that with a girl that isn't decided about you yet, it will rather be a turn off.
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:57 PM
0

Whatever happens, misinterpretation and AAA is key. When she says aww, say: awww you really like me hmm 😉 Puts her a bit on the spot. If she says yes, then keep escalating, if no you can either say haha I know that you like me or really, so you dont like me at all? 😊🙊🙊
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:55 PM
2

teach her something making a move to "make it happen" is great offer of value give her a tip about something invite her to a cool event make an introduction to guy/girl who could help her with job, project, sports make her laugh have her get to know you, because you are valuable help her with someone that she isn't so good at. Don't do something too big, or it will come off as a bit needy.
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:51 PM
6

You're still asking in 3. ;) Say lllet's go to that bar i wanna go! 😁🙈🙈
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:49 PM
-1

Tell him what you just told us. Maybe even show him this post and see what he says. He can say he doesn't love you but he likes you and he can't give you more or he also loves you and maybe you'll have a polyamory thing going. So, either way, you know where you'll stand and what you can expect. :)
/r/seduction25/11/16 09:46 PM
1

Make her chase you jnstead of you chasing her, brother.
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:53 PM
2

Because your first text was too strong she gave you a fake number, because the interaction wasnt good enough she changed her mind, like she does 5 times a day anyway she has a boyfriend and just wanted to see how far she wants to take it her cat just died she's scared because she doesnt even know you she had her period she's scared because she normally doesn't give out her number like that her aunt just died she was feeling down she was sick her gf broke up with her bf she had an important exam …
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:49 PM
1

When a woman gives you lots of iois, she is expecting you to take the lead, be fun, alpha, take her on a date, make her feel comfortable and fuck her brains out. You didn't do this, so in her head she thinks: "Well I did all the work a woman has to do and showed him that I'm clearly into him, but he's not even man enough to take action. "
/r/seduction25/11/16 11:44 AM
1

I also smiled wrong for the first two years, a but too cocky and too intimidating, a bit like a confident serial killer. 😄 So, it could be that some things take longer than with others, but then there are also other things that are easier for you. As always, capitalize on your strenghts and work on your weaknesses as far as so that they get to an acceptable level.
/r/seduction24/11/16 10:32 PM
1

Way to aggressive advice here. She is interested in you and is upset, because you're hard to talk to. So either meet up with her quickly or txt with her if your text game is good.
/r/seduction23/11/16 11:21 PM
1

Interesting point. However, I do agreee with many points that she makes. The pua community is still riddled with bad, woman hating, try hard alpha bs advice, which is simply not good game, which suffer strongly from confirmation bias. There needs to be someone who cleans up those misconceptions, which impair the game especially of beginner significantly. I also don't see her scolding puas in general, but the puas that still think that woman hate leads to accomplishment. So, I don't see anyone do…
/r/seduction23/11/16 11:28 AM
1

Ask her, but not in a needy way, rather in a fun, curious way, maybe she's up for 3 some?
/r/seduction23/11/16 10:04 AM
2

Haha savage. It seems like the RSD guys, don't really know how to really provide fun and value and rather resort to mysteriousness and passive aggressiveness?
/r/seduction23/11/16 10:02 AM
2

You can basically sleep with woman B, that will make woman A want you the most. However, the MOST important thing is that you don't flaunt it and it must look like woman B seduced, so it was her, not you. :) This makes you pre-selected and thus very desirable.
/r/seduction23/11/16 09:57 AM
1

I don't know any autistic guys, so I don't have much experience with that. However, I have a technical background so my approach to game was also quite technical. Furthermore, you could say that I was also quite anti-social most of the time in my beginnings (too cocky, too direct) and it took me a while to learn what I was doing wrong. To me, I don't really feel like game is something abstract, it's more like knowing 1,000 techniques and mixing them all together to create one thing. I think it c…
/r/seduction23/11/16 09:45 AM
1

Women LOVE older guys. They are super proud saying they dated a 30y old guy to their girlfriends as a 20y old
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:19 PM
1

When a girl walks up to you, it's a huge thing for them. She didn't know what to say to your "alpha" response and became embarassedz You should have been like: "So you think I'm young huh, you're into young guys I knew it! 😜"
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:15 PM
2

Yes, but an alpha can also be loud. If you do it for fun and you provide value. ;)
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:08 PM
2

False. Looks matter 30%, status 30% and your game 40%. If you're an ugly fuck, millionaire and shit game handsome guy, broke and shit game ugly fuck, broke and good game you won't get many but some girls. If you're an ugly fuck, millionaire and good game handsome guy, broke and good game handsome guy, millionaire and shit game you will get many hot girls. If you have all 3, you will have more and more high quality women than all the guys above.
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:17 PM
2

And if you're not rich.
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:08 PM
2

This post is for guys who are not autistic then. No need to hate. Just because snapchat doesn't work for you, doesn't mean you shouldn't post the information on seddit, because it works for most guys.
/r/seduction22/11/16 12:05 PM
1

Not really, work on being really witty funny, cute. ! :)
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:33 PM
2

Read this sub and work on yourself for years. ;)
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:31 PM
1

It does matter. If you have a quite small penis, you have to really put in the effort in bed to satisfy her. If you have a large penis, not as much.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:14 PM
1

Yes, you are right.You can not give her a way out, which is bad. You can give her a way out like "you don't have to" or you can make it playful, fun and actually interesting. Say," hmm I'm wondering if I should get to know you" with a smirk. This puts her in the qualifying position and makes her need to work for it a bit, while it's still playful. ;)
/r/seduction21/11/16 02:02 PM
1

Say ah, sure and then escalate and seduce her well on the "date" and see if she changes her mind. ;) Women change their mind 5 times a day.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:38 AM
12

Good, just let her come instead of you overdoing it. ;)
/r/seduction20/11/16 10:31 PM
5

Just text what feels natural is the same same as saying, just say what feels natura. You could say that to everything, just say, text do what's natural. Then, there is no point in the existence of this sub. This is really bad advice to a beginner, they don't even know what natural is, that's why this sub is for. How to be natural while still being seductive, alpha, fun, not a douche.
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:06 PM
2

Yes, 80% of cold approach is body language. It matters much less what you say. If your bidy language is really alpha, but also fun and relaxed without trying to hard, you can say the most generic thing like hi or whoo are you and she will feel immediate attraction already.
/r/seduction19/11/16 10:26 PM
1

Um what do you mean, I always get enthusiastic responses with my texts. 👍🏻😄
/r/seduction19/11/16 10:00 PM
9

When you get more experience(5+ years and 20+ lays), you notice looking back that in every lay, the girl has rejected you multiple times. That means that every girl will always reject you and that multiple times. So, rejection is extremely normal. What matters is that you take rejection as a normal part of the game and not get insecure or pissed about it. A woman rejects you, because she wants to see how you react. If you get pissed or if you have enough confidence and also abundance and experie…
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:16 PM
1

Just show up and be really upbeat. She will also be really hyped if she sees you, no? It's also very exciting to her. Stay cute and fun and escalate. Would that be possible you think?
/r/seduction19/11/16 04:30 PM
2

Keep escalating and see if she wants to dump her bf anyways. :)
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:54 AM
2

Just write her again in 2 days. Hello helooooo, is clarissa still alive! 😜
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:52 AM
1

Show up again with some asian food, get inside and eat with her. Quite alpha just showing up haha. Then escalate on her boldly. She already likes you, but you have already put quite some effort into it. For that reason, you need to be alpha now and make a move to not lose her respect. Dont be the guy that does a lot for her and then expects her to make a move, this is what women hate. Make an effort but take it in your hands as the man.
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:51 AM
1

Very good. Keep texting her, have a really good conversation and DONT be afraid of looking needy. You are giving her value by talking to her! :) Then after around 30 msgs, tell her haha, you're cute. :) when she says something funny and then tell her lets go a drink this week. Done.
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:48 AM
-1

A girl who has ghosted you is the best you can have. Now you have someone to prwctice cockiness, alphaness with, where you can send super funny and a bit risky texts. How cool is that. :) Send her some animal names: "Whoppa choppa let's get an ice dream next week! 🙈" Funny bunny, we should go out and have some fun this week.!! 😁 Hey ho hello, I had to think of you today hihi, let's go do something this week! 😁
/r/seduction19/11/16 11:42 AM
1

NY is one of the very few cities, where there are a lot more females than males. What does this mean for you? Just get to know a lot of women, without any ulterior motives, get their Facebook, just be a bit flirty, build your social circle and things will happen by itself.
/r/seduction18/11/16 01:27 PM
1

This whole concept is exactly what escalation is. Get small yeses in the beginning, and gradually escalate. :)
/r/seduction18/11/16 11:46 AM
1

It's not that lot of folks think the opposite, but what women think logically and what actually creates strong attraction are most of the time opposites. 😄 However, in order to maintain a fwb relationship, you need to treat the girl really well of course.
/r/seduction18/11/16 11:41 AM
2

The assumption for #1 is false. Telling a woman that you are not looking for a relationship creates rather more attraction than telling her that you are looking for one. Only if she asks though. Dont tell those things if she doesnt ask.
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:24 PM
1

Thinking about this, I really don't get negative rejections anymoreX rather rejections like "oh no, you're really interesting, but i have a boyfriend". I'm really cute, fun, witty and alpha in my interactions, so I don't really need negativity to put a girl down, because I'm so exciting already. Maybe that helps you. :)
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:11 PM
2

You sound quite douchey to be honest. No girls wants to be the girl you find to hook up with to lose your virginity. You have to entirely change your mindset. There are two types of guys. The ones that are too beta and shy and the ones that are too douchey and dont give a fuck too much. It sounds like you're the latter. I don't think you have to work on becoming more badass, I think you are good at that. What you have to do, is to become more charming, interesting, caring and sweet. Pair this wi…
/r/seduction17/11/16 08:55 PM
2

It's easy. Tinder is very much based on looks, also for men, which is not as much the case in real life. If she feels you are hotter than her, she will swoon over your superlike and fantasize about you taking her hard. Then you need little game, not try too hard. If she feels, she is slightly hotter than you, then she might feel neutral about the superlike or rather reserved and you need excellent game and slightly cocky. If she feels, she is clearly hotter than you, she will immediately unmatch…
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:31 PM
1

If you want to be very laid back, you also need to be very alpha, tease her and be exciting and she has to like you significantly more than you like her. If you are laid back, but also a bit boring or neutral, there is no strong incentive for her to keep meeting with you. Women want excitement.
/r/seduction17/11/16 02:31 PM
1

I get what you mean, but that's just wishful thinking. You can inspire someone and tell him he just has to behave as if he's interesting, but he will just come across as weird. Not saying, that you can't be intereting without having a super intersting life. But if your life is boring, you can inspire a guy all the way you want, he will not be seen as intersting. You need something going for you, dont need a super intersting life, but something. If you tell a guy, who does not have an interesting…
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:53 PM
16

Really have to disagree. The whole point of being interesting is to actually have something to back it up. If you dont have a somewhat interesting life, girls will see through you really quick. You dont have to have the most interesting life, but saying you dont need an interesting life, is false.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:42 PM
1

Excellent, small text as the first text do work. 😉 let us know how it went! :)
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:08 PM
1

This is litterally the worst way to make a move. Just tell her to hang out ffs and dont hide behind a phone. Maybe it works out, but then you were lucky. 😄
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:06 PM
2

Simply escalate, step by step and let her do the work if you can. :)
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:46 PM
1

What did you say?
/r/seduction15/11/16 04:28 PM
1

Give it a few days and start a conversation how she is going and ask her out again. keep asking her out if you dont have any better options right now. Make it fun though.
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:50 PM
1

Great approach. It can only be needy if your tone is needy. If your tone is fun, alpha, she will eat it up.
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:48 PM
2

Both! There needs to be a good balance. But don't show your feelings towards the girl. Say you like her, but not more! Sometimes throw in some busy guy, but in moderation. ;) Keep it 15/75/10 hot/normal/cold, interest/neutral/aloofeness.
/r/seduction15/11/16 03:48 PM
4

Since you've told him about it multiple times already and he just doesn't want to listen, tell him this:" Look, if you want her, take action and ask her on a date now. Otherwise, I will do it." 3 scenarios. He asks and gets rejected, you got her. He doesn't ask and you ask her, you got her. He asks, she says yes and he got her. That's fair game.
/r/seduction15/11/16 11:32 AM
1

Have more girls you are dating and having sex with. Once she notices that, she will ask you for a relationship. If you are the one asking, she will say she's not currently looking for a relationship. Women are strange. 😄
/r/seduction15/11/16 11:27 AM
1

Yes, if you have never talked to her. However, as you as you have gotten several iois, a woman will lose attraction if you don't use the moment, women love it when a guy "makes it happen". It's so manly when you just grab her. Don't donit in a creepy way, but with a smile and an assertive look in your eyes. :)
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:50 AM
1

You should text something very small directly after getting her number. Hey, nice meeting you Clarissa. 😜 Do it tonight and take it from there. :)
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:12 AM
3

I've seen you give several comments now that are really bad game. Your game is like from 10 years ago or are you a beginner?
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:01 AM
2

Haha, sometimes you can run the best game and get nothing and worst game and you get the best reaction. Just text her tonight and set up a meet. 😄
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:04 PM
1

Tell her that you want to see her alone, but not in a bitter way, in a fun way. "Noo, I want you all for myself. Your friend can get to know me sometime else. ;P"
/r/seduction14/11/16 10:45 PM
1

Just keep seeing her again and next time grab her and kiss her. She will probably reject it, as most girls do, but she will appreciate your forwardness. Do it a couple more times, but don't do it just like that, do it a bit smooth, but still assertive. The more times you'll do it, the more she will get attracted to you even if she rejects it. Then she will also start fantasizing about you when you are being so dominant/caveman style. I've had girls have sex dreams about me, because I was so asse…
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:10 PM
1

Yes this, but keep it upbeat, lighthearted.
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:00 PM
2

It sounds like you are a but too outcome independent and too calm haha. The girls are intimidated by your masculinity and become scared to do something wrong. An important part of the game is playfulness, because girls are often sociall inept, especially if they like a guy. Next time go over really upbeat, fun, hey ho hello, what mischief are you two doing over there! This will make them loosen up and become chatty. You can be also girly, really cute, especially if you are older than them. 👍🏻
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:14 AM
1

The problem that limits your game is that you're trying to come across as edgy in your opener. This gives the women the impression that you're compensating your insecurity with trying to be edgy, it's a bit over the top. An extremely confident guy will just walk up to a girl, hook her quickly with a small, specific, cute compliment and have her do most of the work. (through light qualification) :)
/r/seduction13/11/16 07:52 PM
0

She is definitely somewhat interested. However, she is also scared of rejection, being outed, being seen as a slut. That's why your job as a man is to get to have a normal conversation with her, and enable her to become more interested in you and escalate with you in isolation, where she can't be judged.
/r/seduction13/11/16 12:12 PM
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