I'm 29, I've been seeing this 20 year old girl for awhile. She lives about an hour away. She texted me the other day and asked what we are, if we are ever going to be more than just sex. That it has been close to a year.

This isn't the first time she has pushed for more.

I thought about things for a bit. And honestly I don't see myself ever marrying this girl. I don't even know if I want a relationship with her.

I tried to let her down easy. I told her I care about her and have a lot of fun with her, but I want to be honest with her. I had gotten out of a very long relationship before we met and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship. And I don't know when I will be.

She has ghosted me since. My Buddy who lives in the same town saw her and joked with her, why'd I come see her the other day and not him? She got all mad and said well it isn't going to happen again....she's obviously all mad about it all