Can't put my knowledge into practice

Fangore · 2017-07-06T14:21:21+00:00

It doesn't sound like you like yourself very much. Do you? You won't really get anywhere if you don't love your life.

Do you do much? Do you have any hobbies? Do you have many opinions? Are there any specific things that you're really good at? Need a bit more context!

marthdotsk · 2017-07-06T15:38:20+00:00

Could it be because you're more focused on "playing" the confident guy rather than taking care of the confidence issue altogether?

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-07-06T15:59:51+00:00

I recommend that you focus on opening consistently. There's nothing wrong with being friendly in set, you just need to make sure you're attracting her early on with strong behavior. As you talk with her and build more rapport you can begin to tease here and there. The key is to keep opening

kalolilo · 2017-07-06T17:11:00+00:00

It takes a lot longer to put theory to practice than 1 month.

Once you're in 2-3 years, you're pretty good, but before that it's quite a mess often. :)

moontripper1246 · 2017-07-06T17:20:16+00:00

It's not really about what you say it's about how you say it. This leads into ideas and practices regarding sub communications. Don't think that you're boring, you can %5000 make magic and dodgeball cool to chicks, without a doubt in my mind. How has NO ONE told YOU about Mystery? Of all people who need to know about this guy and learn from him, you're like #1. Seriously guys.....dropping the ball on all the original tech. Mystery was a famous PUA who laid all the barebones 'rules' for game that still hold up to this day. He was a fucking magician. He would go out and seduce girls with magic tricks, your going to love this guy. Hell, he has routines that USE magic.

.....my point is, your interesting enough, you don't need to find some extreme sport hobby if that's not part of your personality (or who you WANT to become, don't let me stop you from doing things you want to deep down). That's why Game is so great, you se it to express how awesome you already are, yo don't need to change who you are at the core of your being to date women who genuinely love you (whatever that really means).

So to recap, 1) it's not what your saying (a bit) it's how your saying it. What's your body language like, your eye contact, your tone of voice, do you have a lot of pauses etc...

2) I doubt you have much of a gamelan in regards of what to ACTUALLY SAY if your forgetting the "basic ways of building attraction". So Imma ask you this: what are the basic ways of building attraction?

When you answer we'll work out what you can legitimately say to women when you go out.

(Props on going out)

DaygameCoach · 2017-07-06T18:59:09+00:00

This is approach anxiety -- your mind finding excuses not to open or do things that push your limits. Read the sidebar help on approach anxiety ... and the rest too. Open 10 women a day, 4-5 days a week for 6 months and let us know how it goes. a month isn't enough.

You can take improv classes. And, you can talk about common topics like food, travel, popular (with women) movies and TV, the arts, hiking (and other adventure sports), fashion, etc.

Kill the self limiting beliefs. If you think you are boring or can't do something, it is true for you.

Cuisine, daygamer.net

mewinstead · 2017-07-07T00:02:20+00:00

I know canned materials are cheesy corny n stuff, but memorize some, to a point where you can deliver it on autopilot. Once you do that you have the brain capacity to pay attention to your posture, delivery, body language, what to say next, all while delivering the material. Do that till all those become subconscious and autopilot. THATS when you swap out the canned material.
A lot of people knows all the theories but fail to put in the practice, don't be that person

Title	Can't put my knowledge into practice
Author	Fangore
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	July 6, 2017 2:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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